Five Ways To Identify Someone Is Jealous Of You | Apj Abdul Kalam Motivational | Follow Your Heart

[@kelleywarriors7091]

I’ve dealt with extreme jealousy for close to forty years, from family and pretend friends. I’ve learned that they have many underlying issues and a lot of the outward jealousy had nothing to do with me. But with their own insecurities, low self esteem, and some just wanting to be agents of chaos. Sometime you need to distance yourself from the negativity. And hope one day they will realize how much wasted energy and time they wasted. Embrace positive emotions and discord the negativity. Live is too short.

[@melissakee6821]

Please be safe around jealous people 😇I unfortunately experienced all of these things initiating my gang stocking/name slander/phone tapped/mocked/copied/POISONED/drugged….etc..,ONLY BY THE GRACE OF GOD IM HERE!!!I USED TO COUNT MY DAYS AS A BLESSING BUT NOW I COUNT MINUTES GOD IS REAL PLEASE BELIEVE!!!🥰😇BLESSINGS!!!

[@BubbubTopps]

It takes decades sometimes to understand why people are jealous of another person. Usually it's because one individual possesses something (whether it's real or imagined) that another individual lacks in his or her mind. This is especially true in families and some friendships. Jealousy is a hidden cruelty. There is a life saying; "Don't let your eyes cause your Soul to become dark"!

[@bluebonbon22]

Live your own life, people will be haters and haters have to hate. I've experienced that from other people too many times to count, now that I am old(75) most of the serious haters from years past are dead. I'm still here....

[@shireenramnarain4005]

i had alot of haters n most r dead But i dont want to be here while some still r haters I rather be gone coz the stress is getting worse as im getting older.... Im too kind to think about what bad will happen to them😮

[@nenedeugosanec6721]

Connie DOLATRE

[@mohamedmire7660]

You Are Right...thanks.

[@angelabender8132]

Never suffered from jealousy nor envy I was born lucky to content myself with being the person I was. Obviously I admired on others qualities or gifts they had but having been poor made me humble besides I cherished friendship and in order to keep friends for life you must be generous and want their happiness People are born one way or another and often we forget that some of us who didn’t have much were fortunate in not desiring a lot

[@claudettegreen3452]

When I feel someone is jealous of me , honestly i feel good because I know I’m doing something great in life . I know I’m fulfilling my dreams and I really don’t care if they are jealous.

[@kennethgmurphy2923]

As I look back I can see multiple friends being jealous of me excelling in life. They were quiet. They didn’t do no harm. It’s human nature. But others talked behind my back. That’s what you call “small minds”, Nothing else to talk about. I feel sorry for them.

[@jaimecervantes3896]

I brag about my self all the time I feel good about what l done with my life and l love haters!!

[@ginacampbell8766]

That's why my circle of friends are small. You really wanna know who's jealous? Post something great on social media and the ones who read it but don't respond.....

[@nhym0022]

In my opinion, I think the reason why people are jealous is because they have nothing going on in their own lives to appreciate and be thankful for. So they envy those who have achieved and are thankful for their blessings in life. Those are the low vibe, low energy, and negative people you need to stay away from. They will only bring you down.

[@shilpasuraj7144]

That's probably 👍

[@maggieyork424]

Yes, they wish they were "YOU" for sure!🤗

[@Cindy54504]

My supposed friend actually came out and told me she was jealous of me. It was really weird going forward. Our relationship didn’t last much longer, She actually told me that she had a friend who ring was larger than my engagement/wedding ring. The really weird and odd thing was she didn’t have a ring herself. She never gave compliments, I always encouraged and complimented her. It became too exhausting I couldn’t make up for her insecurities.

[@tnr8888]

this is accurate indeed i know a few women who do all those things but no matter how hard they try to copy me they fall harder for trying to be me

[@yvonelewis2473]

My experience are that jealous people s, always talk about that others are jealous on them That irritated me the most

[@anajones4496]

Thank you Dr .Kalam for an inspiring Quotes.Yes were surrounded that kind of people but ignore them it's a wasted time focused on their own behaviour .....Always do good even people are against or gossiping your back .thats them anyway ..Godbless you always

[@rudeawakening3833]

Well said Thanks 🙏

[@joyace9674]

I say eat your heart out 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I have no friends but I have God by side that’s my true friend and father he always there when things don’t go right when I pray 🙏 that’s all I need 😁🙏🕯️ I have everything I need he never lets me down 😊🕯️🙏 and that’s why people get jealous because I’m very happy I don’t need no one else 🙏😊🕯️and I also say thank you God my father for everything you do and what you continuing to do 🙏❤️❤️❤️Amen 🙏😊

[@Sandyo-wy7nk]

Also notice the mean looks they throw your way, when they think you aren’t looking their way. I have been talking to someone else and when I look over at this person, the look on her face is anger and her eyes have grown dark . That’s resentment and jealousy.

[@rudeawakening3833]

Yes ! Trying to listen to EVERY single word , to try to use against you as you leave the room …

[@Sandyo-wy7nk]

@@rudeawakening3833 very true. It’s hard to trust people like this. Listen to the gut instincts and watch for the red flags. It’s a warning from God.

[@rudeawakening3833]

@@Sandyo-wy7nk Divine intervention . Amen 🙏 Thank you .

[@cynthialopez4485]

Stay away from that one. She is not your friend. She is you enemy.

[@Sandyo-wy7nk]

@@cynthialopez4485 I know. The gut instincts tell me the same thing. The problem is she is part of the family of in laws and it’s almost impossible to not have contact, otherwise she WOULD never be a part of my life or be my friend.

[@mariecar4781]

For me I pretend that I'm suffering in life but the true is I'm not I'm pretending also not to make them jealous and I am focusing on my self what I want to do but I don't want someone to get jealous of me because I don't want them to stop me.. If they are pretending to me I will pretend to them too but I'm real to the person to the person who is real to me

[@rudeawakening3833]

I like that

[@juliebryant3968]

And how would they stop you

[@reallonghaultrucker9348]

@@juliebryant3968 setting you up believe that

[@juliebryant3968]

@@reallonghaultrucker9348 yes you have a good point...I'm too trusting but not anymore.

[@serenarossi8480]

😅lol nice idea !

[@rasmitarudhi142]

Yes absolutely correct 👍👍.If a person is doing something good then maybe that's why someone is jealous of him.But no matter how much someone is jealous of your good work, ignore their jealousy and move ahead....

[@cosmlayla]

I generally don’t like to hear someone brag about themselves all the time. But that doesn’t make me jealous. It makes them narcissists.

[@ANDROLOMA]

Fear of being considered inferior causes people to mention accomplishments some interpret as braggadocio.

[@anonymousf454]

Exactly, i have no problem celebrating an accomplished or good news with a person, but you can absolutely tell the difference between overjoyed with happiness or pride about something, verses trying to overcompensate for an insecurity or just trying to elevate their status above someone else's...generally yours...lol But on the other hand, I freakin hate two faced people who are jealous of any good news I have. I have been around people who were both not only jealous of my lot in life, (which in all honesty was not all that great, but must have been seen by them as something to envy), and they were also bragidocios douchbags. I figured this out pretty early, and instinctively knew to keep my guard up. In all honestly I should have been less accommodating and less of a tolerant person, and cut them out of my life sooner. I probably didn't do this, because I was really close with the husband initially, (which his wife could not stand, but two faced cowards won't tell you this) and I generally give people the benefit of the doubt. Eventually I realized they were both two sides of the same coin. I got my own potshots in there though along the way, but looking back, I should have just stopped trying. Life is short, don't waste your time or energy on toxic relationships if you don't have to.

[@renegade-master29]

Nobody does

[@ANDROLOMA]

I wouldn't be so narcissistic if I wasn't so damned attractive. 😉

[@kaybey642]

Especially bragging on shit that they know your totally against

[@curtisuwuigbe6343]

The main thing is to remain focused on your goals and go for them. And do not expose your plans since the results will speak about them. Give thanks to Almighty God always; pray always too.

[@charitymaina4900]

Good information.for a very long time,I had been warned against a woman I was calling a friend.of her level of jealousy.that she feins happiness and support for friends achievements until recently.she discounted any achievements I had made recently, literally watering them down coz they were big ones.making comparisons with her other friends ahievements.she must have pretended for long until she couldn't.

[@anonymousf454]

It's always fun to recap your achievements with those kind of people. Make sure that when they try to downplay your accomplishment you just blow it off and go right back to celebrating...lol It will drive them nuts, and they may even label you a braggard, but it's really really fun to watch them lose there shit all because you are happy. Be as absolutely happy as you can around these miserable people. May they never change🥂

[@mr.anderson7631]

I swear I want everyone to be happy and successful, even if I'm not.....yet

[@itsmemarie]

Jealous people won’t go anywhere period

[@Enagicreviews]

It's in human nature to be jealous... In fact jealousy makes you excel in life if you work harder but just don't become a hater of good things..

[@anonymousf454]

I've always felt like if I needed to one up someone else I was not being true to myself and what I really wanted.

[@anonymousf454]

I mean I really look at it as like an emotion a person should have a grip on by the time of adulthood, and it's more of an insecurity thing than anything else. I have seen people make horribly wrong life choices because of competition and jealousy. And yes I would call going to a job you hate everyday for 20 something years just so you can afford to keep up with or out do someone else an absolute waste of a person's life...no matter how much that job pays. What we do not realize when we are young is that life is short, and your prime years are really short. At the end of it all nobody really gives a shit how you've spent your life, but you can absolutely regret not living it to its fullest, and that dam sure ain't working your time away for things that wind up owning you.

[@rudeawakening3833]

Wow … THAT was profound ! I learned something . Even though I don’t agree with the original statement about “ it’s human nature to be jealous “ . Thanks for what you wrote - for what it’s worth . I’m in a bad place , in my 60’s , live alone , and have had like 5 surgeries in the last year . Peace ☮️

[@ppmppm7010]

That's not jealousy. Jealousy begrudge what others have

[@anandmallikarjunan7775]

Jealousy gives a person unhappiness. Every human being has got right to grow. If you want, you also grow. Do not envy. If you envy you are lazy and useless or perhaps you may be lacking in something. Try to grow where you are lacking. Then you can overcome it.

[@carolbuckley7900]

OMG I kinda new but didn’t want to face it. Now I know it’s TRUE I needed to hear this TODAY! Blessings! 😇♥️

[@jiggle9216]

Its true i ve been encounterd this kind of people,

[@natashathai6141]

Jealous people ,,,they can use everything like putting you down 👇 & they never say you good person 👍 I've was pass by 15 years with a lots lessons from they are 💪😁 now I just like alone ,,, no friends no problems 👍😇👍 thanks master's 💕🙏💕was hoping people👌 can understand of jealous people ,,and leave them alone 👍😇

[@shireenramnarain4005]

Alone? No friends n family? Just like me...😮

[@quintusfernando7396]

Our places of work are*** Full of such people *** They tell the boss that we are bad*** To get marks for themselves ****

[@queenbee1588]

I have a friend at work who will always try to be nice to any workmate who l have an altercation with. She is always on her phone any time I'm telling her how great my boyfriend is

[@Sandyo-wy7nk]

I had that happen at all jobs I worked at. There was always ONE or TWO people trying to stir up trouble. They were always the people who had some kind of power or authority over others.

[@beverlyjordan3791]

Pray for those people

[@ANDROLOMA]

"For thou shalt worship no other god: for the Lord, whose name is Jealous, is a jealous God." (Exodus 34:14)

[@Oghene_Million]

There's a difference between jealous of you(envy) and jealously guiding you.. God isn't envious of no one.. His deep love for you makes him guide you jealously.. God bless you 🙏❤️

[@ANDROLOMA]

@@Oghene_Million Jealousy is a vice, no matter how much you may try to explain how much you know the minds of gods. I call such weak attempts massive fraud, and pure lies.

[@cynthialopez4485]

Not the same thing. What are you trying to prove?

[@ANDROLOMA]

@@cynthialopez4485 The words speak for themselves. Don't like the words? Don't believe the words.

[@cynthialopez4485]

@@ANDROLOMA Minds of gods? What gods? There's only only One God. The God of the Bible....the Creator of all things. Did you mean to say what you said?

[@najma.najma.7794]

Good 👍👍 Excellent reference about human nature.👌.

[@ycamara9034]

Thank you true bless

[@carmimoultrie1448]

I think that what is perceived as jealousy maybe that the person being accused of it is just tired of always crossing oceans for unappreciative people when that person doesn't try to cross a puddle for them. 🤔

[@jtheilluminated1of1]

Gods discernment will help spot this type of person

[@omaryland5039]

Now I see why my neighbor will buy exact cloth I have, she will wear it and make sure she say hi to me to see her!!! Thank you..

[@anonymousf454]

Say hi back and go on about your life. If you don't give the reaction they want, you win not them.

[@omaryland5039]

@@anonymousf454 ABSOLUTELY.

[@anonymousf454]

Plus remember that saying....imitation is the highest form of flattery. She might be thinking " Look at OMaryland over there, she always dresses so nice" and she would like to look as nice as you, but doesn't know how to really put outfits together...Lol you never know

[@omaryland5039]

@@anonymousf454 Yep

[@heloisez5235]

Lol! Her life is that bored😂

[@tazmiakissonduth4440]

😢 sometimes we are blind to these things in life thank you for opening my eyes

[@rooparamanujam5018]

Jealousy is the part of human character, it unknowingly in side , but not everyone, we must carefully idetify, and keep distant s from them,

[@khalidaftab226]

I agree, but sadly, not always easy to identify/spot... :(

[@starlouise397]

Yes everyone but that's in them 💓✨

[@susanellis8067]

Nothing anyone would not know instinctively I think

[@andreareid8484]

Spot on very accurate thankfully I don't have a jealous bone in my body I walk with positive energy normally these who act like that are linked to toxic cult of individuals who have nothing better to do with thier time I prefer to admire people whither that be the close they where or something they do I couldn't waste my energy in such bonesence

[@harithawaidyaratne172]

Great as the man was.

[@jovinamathias5499]

I too have faced this when I was working, with a fellow colleagues,I taught her the work guided her in the work and she was always speaking lies about me and spreading false rumours about me,I tried my best to ignore her for most of it, 😅😅😅as my boss also was encouraging her and was making false statements about me to her.

[@Officialkingz1]

Yeah that 1st #1 could go either way. Nobody likes to hear somebody constantly talking about their achievements and gassing themselves up all the time. No wonder the person listening changes the subject because its "annoying" NOT "Jealousy"

[@farhiafarah6954]

Younger women Respects love it and sooo missed.

[@ELIJAH-sg8GB]

I agree everything 😁👍

[@salinachhetri]

Thanku...

[@judeskylabardooo8286]

No 3 spot on

[@ellabaltazar1783]

yes thank you to all of us please

[@robertweinblatt2018]

You wrote this about someone I unfortunately know and they fit every aspect to a T😢

[@tinamorgante6882]

Its all so so true .

[@HelloKitty-wd6gj]

So true

[@vectorymercy7581]

Only God of chosen can save the world,

[@akinsaekanayake5918]

Exactly relatable

[@virginiaharvey]

Pretending to care,patronising,dominating you,love to see you fall

[@SanJoseCA-ot3qy]

Failure people are always jealous of success people and they gossip.

[@amandaa3713]

The correct word would be ENVY.

[@maingakanyimo1411]

Exactly what is happening in my life thank u nw l know.

[@BhawaniPandit-kt9zv]

Stay with hundred and thousands, we will appreciate you more. Love one at a time if can't possible, leave. Don't hurt by false thoughts. Hope better understand.

[@abdulshohid162]

Every human has it in them!!!!!

[@EveryThing4U_OK]

Thanks for your sharing.

[@RobertRotich-ms3gx]

God bless you

[@divineaffinities991]

Its the hypnotist!

[@johnflandsiii5248]

I can almost always spot a hater a mile away because it's happened all my life but I don't care I am highly favored by Yeshuah my Lord so GOD bless all of you haters in the name of Jesus Christ Amen. 🙏📖❤️💧🔥💪👑💯 #HolySpiritFilled!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@nchumthungkikon2730]

Amen 🙏

[@christopherplasencia9779]

Great God in Heaven Mary Seat of Wisdom Pray for us protect us Jesus,Joseph St.Ann Grandma Amen💒🙏😻🕊

[@Joureyoffaith555]

Facts 💯

[@cookingandstuff2]

I know someone in my group of ( so called friends).who is Exactly like this. But, I 've always known, she thinks I don't. 😂

[@geraldine7101]

There might be envious people who wish for your looks,house,car,husband,basically your blessings but only evil people will try to ruin/sabotage you by false gossip,lies, etc etc...their jealousy is out of control and they seek someone to blame for their misery.

[@sairamissy]

True

[@ellabaltazar1783]

Yes love you to all people and the world please

[@eteforam7047]

Perhaps it could be an example and remind any somebody else

[@yardena1234]

Wow accurate💯🙏😇👀

[@BensonLeonard-fk8hg]

Hi

[@devramcgee9097]

I don't care if you are rich I just want to live you for who you are I just want to love you for who you are, he has someone but still tried to come back in my life I've have you now just stick by my side.

[@catinthehat906]

You are conflating Jealousy and Envy- they are different! Jealousy has a sexual component as part of a relationship, but Envy doesn't.

[@fabianschar1417]

You have a point

[@vectorymercy7581]

If your church can not change your life you better change your church,

[@Anonymous-gu8bz]

Did abdul kalam sir shared any about relationship tips in his life time... Then many people are making the video using his photos... He always worked for the nation's development.. not for the increasing of population...

[@sherritahale3882]

Yes

[@margaretvenson7595]

I can't stand people in generally who like to brag about themselves all the time thinking there better than the person.who try to copy you it' makes me laugh . For a start I'm not jealous person. I see in them narcissists traits.

[@HomeFrendsten]

There r many who create failures in our life ,they r peopl who r envios ,v should protct ourslf from such peopl, to do what v want and to b what v are

[@makangaphiona7185]

That's true

[@adaptreform692]

This is spot on

[@cynthiayork5908]

I have 🤔 This problem with family and Co-workers... Trust no one

[@alisonb5921]

I am a good person. I even gave a former male friend 3 chances. He let me down, 3 times. He told 4 people,(1 couple & 2 single people), he knows I hated, confidential things. When I found this out, I ended the friendship. The he backstabbed me. He's jealous of me. I'm working, he bludges ! He even talks to my scumbag, former male neighbour. Jealousy is a curse. I trust few people now ! The older I get, the less I want to be around people. But I have to work with people. I spend my time off, with my pets. I love their company.

[@RobertRotich-ms3gx]

Sure

[@nf5724]

Yes they r us but some parrots are more appreciated than we loose our place in our own lives depressed jealousy is the worst thing that happens only to realise at the end time v pay the price for someone else wrong doings

[@patriciafinger]

thx sir

[@rikivanderlinde3277]

Thank you Be blessed 👌😍🤗

[@sherritahale3882]

Yesyes

[@doodsarambulo211]

Agree.sadtruth 😢😮

[@georgiafrancis9059]

Oh God, this describes 2 women in my life. Help!

[@marjoriearies5262]

Thank u so much for this message it resonate with me and its happening to me right now...

[@shirin159]

I agree

[@farhiafarah6954]

Exusemeeeeeeee.

[@mathewjohn8126]

Precise facts 🙏

[@deleisavines3082]

I don't care I'm not jealous of nobody quit trying to put me in your little circles and stay out of my business I'm just trying to live I'm not jealous I don't have to pretend

[@mamaneto2959]

1.esmesh dayos kodeh martin bashe 2. Nim metr bashe 3.shekle bastane mobarake meymoon bashe. 4. Sabzi khoob Paak koneh. 5 .az ghanari behtar chah chah bezaneeeh .feeuh feeuh jjaah naaaah jaaah feeuh feeuh baleh 🙏

[@rikivanderlinde3277]

Oh my word... 😊😑

[@shardasewpal8016]

👌💯

[@sherritahale3882]

Ohyes

[@susanlauzon6252]

😂😂😂OMG! Always ❤ in YESHUA name! Amen.

[@guytruth5598]

No need five ways to identify, just first reaction and glance is enough.

[@Sharda-j9b]

🙏🏾

[@tonywright8302]

Would get points for stating the obvious