Gaydars, Drag, and Smut with Anania

[@anger101]

This crossover!!! Never seen someone so hilarious and quick witted as Anania on Gaydar. Loved getting to learn more about them, such a good conversation.

[@prettypoetess_]

I just want to say that I related so much to the part of not having ‘time’ to think about who you are when you live a difficult childhood. there is no space for developing your true self so it’s only once you move out in adulthood, or simply later in life, that you realize who you truly are. Now that you are finally safe you real feelings and characteristics are coming to the surface. And that can be all your repressed gender stuff now finally revealing itself to you, and you finally making the connection. Also I related so much to the part about only liking musical theatre songs from women as an amab person, and it’s only in the last week that it’s all clicked for me 😭

[@ambersjourneysinlife]

If anyone's wondering, FFS is Facial Feminization Surgery. These videos help me so much, I'm in Canada and I have been upset and worried about trans people in the US also, getting their rights taken away, without gender affirming care the rates of suicide, and depression are very high. I just want to do everything I can to help in this situation, love everyone out there who is scared about this situation!

[@vee3503]

i can't believe you started this podcast this year! what?? i feel like it's been in my life for longer~

[@MatthewArangatta]

Oh my gosh, yes. I do not understand other queer people being transphobic. I've been seeing it more recently and I just don't get it...

[@nuclearmudking7497]

ANANIA???? LETS GOOOO!!!🗣️🗣️🗣️

[@elizabeth9451]

You should just block elon like the rest of us 🤪

[@ellalucy8575]

Been loving the podcast since the first episode, can't believe this is where it's at now! Lesbian Jesus!!! 😍

[@chefalispetty]

7:29 I feel that, I deleted it 3 days ago and my mental health immediately got better 😂

[@mommyissuesmusic]

Right there with you on the autumn angst at the passage of time.

[@NE8675309]

I absolutely love Anania's TikTok. She is so personable & entertaining in a way that just feels effortless. Also, LOVE the fanfic/smut representation. As a fanfic reader & author, I totally agree with Anania, plot with some porn slaps! It's why I prefer reading smut to watching porn!

[@MatthewArangatta]

Mood, Anania. That American healthcare blocking access to therapy 😭

[@ROCKONplaceboforever]

Happy thanksgiving you will do great with becca family have fun another great episode ❤🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

[@thatgirlwhoslazy]

i love anania this was a great listen

[@debbiebeveridge1883]

Anania was so fun and nice. ❤

[@superduper5674]

Love podcast day another fun one

[@taylorvanhoose4900]

LOVING the new bed shan, but missing the green wall :(

[@lisacorr]

"that's what she said" 🤣🤣🤣

[@ClaireWedgeworth]

*Am I tripping or did Shannon repeat the same sponsor in the intro 😂💕*

[@avivakaplan8056]

love this ep

[@hmmcms1]

I think the ads are messed up in the beginning

[@Jowhaletail]

Homie the second ad in the beginning had the wrong graphics 😅

[@sueetchie3186]

Hey Shan.. Yes, please leave Twitter and crazy Elon, everyone seems to like bluesky. I never was on Twitter, X much to begin with

[@paolaisabelmedina6404]

I don't know if someone said this already but the sponsor part about Cuire is twice, like the time you talk about it and then again with the Osea logo, and you don't say anything about Osea 🙈

[@nath9773]

Yep yep..weird..she wasn'tveven born...😂

[@sestoeckl]

BlueSky!

[@madaleeX]

Why is there always 2 separate intros

[@nath9773]

God! Was difficult to follow you with this introduction...

[@nowthisisliving]

why??

[@nath9773]

@nowthisisliving sorry didn't want to be mean.. i appreciate you a lot.. just a feeling that you were jumping from "pillar to post"..😂 maybe Becca's impact !😂 really no offense!

[@azkakla321]

I❤U

[@chefalispetty]

54:40 CASTLEVANIA is one of the best shows I have ever watched 😮😮😮

[@gracebloome]

My pronouns are who/ever

[@ironicfeline4762]

pretty sure transmasc people in general can be lesbians, but trans men can NOT be lesbians. if they identify as a man, they can’t be a lesbian. HOWEVER, obviously gender can be layered and complex and complicated, especially in lesbian spaces, so i can see how it can be confusing. i do overall agree with your point that queer people shouldn’t be fighting each other though. love the content shan!

[@liasnclr]

How is it hurting anyone if a trans man wants to identify as a lesbian?

[@ArtichokeHunter]

if someone identifies as a man and a lesbian, who are we to tell them they can't? a lot of trans men might find it invalidating to their identity as men to also identify as lesbians, but not everyone. plus there are genderfluid and multi-gender people who identify as men and women. my ex identifies as a man and a lesbian because they also identify as a woman and an nb. their identity and their journey is their business (and in no way related to our breakup).

[@ironicfeline4762]

@@ArtichokeHunter well personally i think trans men identifying as lesbian is both lesbophobic and transphobic. lesbian is the only sexuality that doesn’t include men so if we were to include trans men in that, it would be invalidating that and also implying that trans men aren’t men (which obviously, they are). also, genderfluid and non-binary people can be included in lesbianism since they aren’t men. i know genderfluid people who don’t identify as men/don’t identify with manhood. so i guess it’s up to the details of their identity. i don’t know everything about multi-gender identity so i can’t really dive into that either. it can get complicated and it’s up to the person to figure that out for themselves. i’m not the gender police haha