For those who are scared of getting older 🥲

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@kakajuro 8 ай бұрын

I’m a 17 year old guy (18 in a month) and feeling a lot of these emotions. Predominantly stressing about whether I’m ready to be an “adult” yet and what it even means to be one. I really appreciate your authenticity, this video definitely made me feel better

@AthenaMoree 7 ай бұрын

I’m 16 and I’m alr struggling 😐

@kiiir4_ 7 ай бұрын

@@AthenaMoree im turning 18 in june TT

@duanadeem6506 7 ай бұрын

Honestly there is no such thing as waking up 18 and suddenly being mature and grown up. You learn as you grow. Trust me its not as life changing as you might think. Be excited and just keep growing steadily

@meikoluvv 5 ай бұрын

@@kiiir4_same!!!

@Vagdinox Ай бұрын

I am 13 and I am stressing out like I am not kid anymore I am in my way to 18 and don't know what to do with my life it's like is alraedy too late but I will keep trying

@juliacastle2224 7 ай бұрын

Gentle reminder, that you don't have to know where you want to go to keep moving

@darthsvadar990 8 ай бұрын

As someone whose 22 i feel like our society will never improve but we as individuals can improve

@fearthefro5045 8 ай бұрын

Bro society has improved… depending on where you live in the world and it’ll continue to improve hopefully. It’s just a gradual process unfortunately.

@vblake530530 8 ай бұрын

66 year old here. You are Cracking me The Fk Up, young Miss😂 You won’t understand this now but forty years from now you are going to be SO glad you’re 59 turning 60. It doesn’t REALLY get good till after 50 or 55. Good Luck.

@impatient. 4 күн бұрын

😂❤

@finestgrowth 7 ай бұрын

I'm in my twenties, and I've been feeling this way since I was 14.

@braidcg 6 ай бұрын

im gonna turn 14 this october and im scared af i dont wanna grow up like wtf

@finestgrowth 6 ай бұрын

@braidcg It's definitely tough becoming an adult due to bills & more responsibilities. The good thing is if you have fun and create great memories by traveling, meeting new people, have hobbies you enjoy, being an adult will be more enjoyable.

@linda9418. 5 ай бұрын

@@braidcgYour so young !!!!! Enjoy your 14 🤍🤍

@danki-duck 8 ай бұрын

One good thing about getting older is that you are getting further time away from previous traumas if you have any

@brittanyisabelle2095 8 ай бұрын

Great point

@elisabeth68967 8 ай бұрын

im 16 and severely depressed so this really helped me and now i have some kind of hope that maybe life can get better hahaha

@meiqiii 8 ай бұрын

I'm so glad this helped you💜I used to believe that things wouldn't get better, but they really do💜💜

@domocoyo 8 ай бұрын

i am a 15 year old dude, i'm most likely not the demographic for this video lol,, however i worry often about all the responsibilities of getting older. this video was very nice & comforting to watch! it felt like talking to a cool older cousin, and i felt like it came at a good time. this video really helped me see a different perspective of getting older! your perspective on life is very assuring to me and others, and i realized that getting older isn't that bad!! thank you for making this vid,, new subscriber here!!! :>>>

@CozyBunni 7 ай бұрын

im 15 and also have these thoughts.

@AbbysalWarrior72756 7 ай бұрын

Same i just don’t wanna waste my life away and be miserable

@theprehistoricpoet 4 ай бұрын

I have recently turned 72 years of age! Our clocks and calendar only move in one direction! Sadly, in my case they have moved faster than i wanted😭 Treasure each & every moment! Don't worry or be frightened of tomorrow, you will cope. Learn from yesterday's mistakes, they will help smooth out the pathway that lays ahead of you. Regards David 🦖

@afrofaeries 7 ай бұрын

I wanna be those wise 60 year old grandmas that lives in a small cottage with a big vegetable garden and lots of dogs and cats!

@AEGIS-RED-MEGA-VIEWS 7 ай бұрын

u mean u want to build walls around urself and limit urself what u can do? "because im old, there is nothing i can do, i must behave like my age". we naturally stop living life after 30-40-50.., we just live it based on old experience, we dont try to build brand new

@Fer-yc3wb 5 ай бұрын

@@AEGIS-RED-MEGA-VIEWS no... she means that she wants to be cottagecore granny

@kitaxo 6 ай бұрын

You are very introspective at this age. Imagine what wisdom you'd be enlightening as a grandma.

@mkhn4018 7 ай бұрын

I relate to this video so much, like i literally cried the day i turned 20 for most of the reasons you said, i also love the positive things you said cause it reminded me of so many things that i should care more about

@ModusVivendiMedia 8 ай бұрын

It's always so sad to me when someone so beautiful and smart and cool and awesome and interesting is in an internal mental space where they're in such pain that they're thinking of not continuing. I'm glad you're growing into a better space now, and I hope you continue to improve your life and happiness. Also, I have a feeling you're still going to be an incredibly beautiful woman and person in a few decades. Your self-conversations are pretty interesting, and incredibly healthy.

@BestViewsOfSwizerland 7 ай бұрын

bru I'm feeling old, and I'm still 17 until June. Once you realize that in the real world, having fun is just another waste of time, for example, games and social media, I've realized I can't stop wasting time like this and that soon I'll be paying my own bills and living on my own. I told myself that I'm already an adult, even though I'm 17; people say you don't have to worry until you are 18, but I'm already stressed out in life. I know a lot of people feel how I feel; getting old is no joke.

@enajem 7 ай бұрын

I feel that--especially about having fun being a "waste of time" and considering yourself an "adult" at 17 like what is our idea of having fun anyway? retreating to online spaces and consuming media? it's a bit depressing, but both real and online life begin to seem performative and dull over time which makes "wasting time" seem inevitable no matter what you do

@calebogedz 8 ай бұрын

😂 you're so relatable. When I was about turning 20 last September, it felt like this big thing, and I started to feel old and behind and would I wish I could go back in time, bla bla bla, but when the day actually came, I felt pretty much the same. I didn't "feel" like a 20yrs old, I felt exactly the same way, just that now I have to identify as 20. The anxiety and all you feel now, you probably won't feel it as much on that day, trust me, but yeah those few months leading up to your 20th birthday, you'll be thinking about alot of stuff

@supercloakedjr1674 8 ай бұрын

to me thats the worst part about getting older. i dont feel any different bruh i feel like im not ready or i shouldnt be what i am

@calebogedz 8 ай бұрын

@@supercloakedjr1674Very true. Sometimes I feel like a 16yr old in a 20yr old body

@Someone_01s 6 ай бұрын

Im also turning 20 this year (in two months) its a little scary but at the same time im so grateful.(i had social phobia and was depressed most of my teenage years). Now im in college and trying to spend more time with friends and my hobbies. I relate so much to most of your videos! Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

@amy-gb7ci 8 ай бұрын

you're soo pretty gurl

@aishiixo 7 ай бұрын

I'm 16, turning 17 in a few months. I'm in the UK and when you're 16, you're basically treated like an adult in the legal world and have to make choices so early. I'm a literal teenager and there's so many options ffs 😭❤

@elsethemusician7062 7 ай бұрын

I just turned 20, and I felt everything your feeling and I still do. I honestly feel no different from being a teenager? its like I've never known anything different, and then I have to ask myself. will I ever grow out of this? have I already grown a lot and I just don't realize it? I don't think people give themselves enough time in their mind to think and be close with thoughts and comfortable with sharing them! I feel like you and I are a lot alike in that way, and seeing this really made me feel better. to know that there are more people in the situation and its not just me. thank you for taking the time to pull out your almost dead camera and make this, I needed this and I wish I could return the favor and kindness of clarity, I hope you have a wonderful day :>

@impatient. 4 күн бұрын

Thanks i feel less like way less anxious about getting older. I will have a great adventure and i will love it❤

@tumarmaa2984 4 ай бұрын

....you are exactly like me. I had depression for most of my teens as well. It finally faded away by 20, but holy fudge.

@your_favoritegirl 8 ай бұрын

I really needed to hear this thank u 🤍

@vanillapinkfluff3477 7 ай бұрын

Everyone can feel these emotions about their life eventually. People always romanticize the past. But people of all ages have to live in the real world with other people. Back in the day life was not easy either. My best friend says reality is awful to deal with but you either deal with it or it’s going to eat you alive.

@dariofkxv6829 3 ай бұрын

a realisation that helped me a lot with this is that you dont just get older every year, you get older every day

@c.sar6242 8 ай бұрын

im turning 20 aswell, and it was so good to hear this. I will defo be taking some of these perspectives on board , because there is actually things to look forward for!

@vaultvon2126 7 ай бұрын

Nothing's constant that includes joy and sadness. All of those things will happen and will pass.

@RogueChibi 6 ай бұрын

When you based your happiness outside yourself you will never be happy. Change is the only thing that is constant. It's important to sit with yourself and introspect and ask the hard questions because you will find an answer or understanding

@mawonnic 6 ай бұрын

I think this is literally fate that brought me to this video and this channel, i am 19 and i feel like i found my half self which is stronger and more mentally strong thank you sm for shar💌

@Muhizzy 7 ай бұрын

Yo this so reaalll bruuu. Growing older is a blessing not a curse, not errbody get that opportunity fr. But still I wanna be 16 forever bruh 😭, 18 is just around the corner and I AINT ready for when that time come. Responsibility? Budgeting? Working? Bills? Saving? Bills? Did I mention BILLS?! If anybody know where the fountain of youth is, @ me

@AbbysalWarrior72756 7 ай бұрын

That soufflé scary because everyone kept making a big deal about it and i understand because this modern world revolves around money and work

@mattlollol 7 ай бұрын

i’m currently 16 turning 17 in august this year and everyday im just thinking like “why tf is time moving so fast?” i never felt this way till this age and i would feel like shit next to people even a year younger than me. its so fucking hard everyday i just wished i had someone to talk to me about this shi but it feels like no one’s got time for my bs. im so lost

@audreyokorafor 2 ай бұрын

Hi, I just recently found your channel but I’m genuinely so grateful for it because you just some how verbalize things that I’ve internalized and it’s really helping me grow as a person because you say really wise things that I want to stick with me and even tho I’m literally newly 16 I’ve feared growing up for a long time but thanks to this video I’ve realized that it really is a blessing to age and just live in general, so thank you!

@katja3749 7 ай бұрын

i just watched two of your videos and i think you're my favorite youtuber 😅 i love your perspective on things

@Iksvomid 5 ай бұрын

You're so wise and mature for your age.

@boyun4055 Ай бұрын

I’m a 26 years old man but the pressure for women about age is unbalanced. I don’t have this type of conversation with my friends, so we don’t care to getting older.

@AEGIS-RED-MEGA-VIEWS 7 ай бұрын

i little bit wish i was 16 again. and isn't depressing how things evolve? when your milk teeth gets replaced, u could call it depression and pain, isnt it? then a caterpillar becomes butterfly, wont u call it depression? if u watch a video, u see how much it strugles. if someone doesnt feel pain and depression, means he or she doesnt drastically grow. depression also comes when u are stuck somewhere and u dont move in life. you develop this state of mind, to help u move ur way

@onikabuto5064 7 ай бұрын

i turned 16 like 5 months ago and shit hit the fan bro. like everyything thtat was okay isnt okay anymore and on top of that i feel like old asf. And what pisses me off is that everyone else my age is dating and living thier life and shit while im here stressed out about missing out on my childhood. And ik that when im like 21 imma think about this and be like "i was litro so dramatic"

@azmif29 7 ай бұрын

A bit late, but I just drop this... Billy Joel has a song that says, "Cause the good ole days weren't always good and tomorrow ain't as bad as it seems". I had that dark moments, everyone has it. I'm about to turn 30 this year, but I feel like I'm way more motivated than what I am in my 17 or 25 below.

@s-dlife77 4 ай бұрын

Girls we want your ✨ WORKOUT ROUTINE ✨💅💗

@RedDread_ 8 ай бұрын

Im 27 guys, its so over

@SoakedHoagie 7 ай бұрын

It’s over for me

@googoogaga_ 7 ай бұрын

youre younger than most people on earth its just opinions from kids are very prevalent online, im 19 and i felt ancient but then i interned at an actual work place and a woman laughed when i said i felt old like ur not even 30 yet

@RedDread_ 7 ай бұрын

@@googoogaga_ thanks wize 19yr old. I've got grey hairs now but at least I'm not going bald... Yet

@AEGIS-RED-MEGA-VIEWS 7 ай бұрын

whats is amazing about asian people is that they can be such Great actors on life. With all your training, you look into their eyes and you don't know if they are lying or speaking the truth. Im honestly bit jealous, lol. This is really amazing

@BvstJungkookist 7 ай бұрын

Omg I know this has nothing to do with the video but you are so prettyyyy 😭❤

@Trickyyeditss 7 ай бұрын

Real. I'm 14 now and going to be 15 and i know i shouldn't be thinking and worrying about getting old now but I've been worried about that since i was 10. I'm scared that once i get older my accomplishments won't be as impressive. I used to be/maybe still am an art prodigy and as every year goes i feel less and less accomplished. A 12 year old art prodigy used to sound so much better than a 14 year old normal artist. I'm scared as i get older and older I'll have 0 improvement and will turn into just an average person.

@RedFidgetSpinner07-r5b 3 ай бұрын

“As you grow your brain should become better. I mean, maybe it’ll become worse for some people” haha!😆

@alexaviafara.888 7 ай бұрын

i would like to have a friend like you. i am also turning twenty in September.

@BelieveVs 8 ай бұрын

Nice video life gets better with age in general im a 31 year old black guy and to me life has gotten better than my teenage years i also live in Brooklyn life is tuff

@24tommyst 7 ай бұрын

I agree. It somehow does get better because you just learn how to deal with all the BS haha.

@EricDraven-ci8wi 7 ай бұрын

What a beautiful, bright young girl 🌹

@айко-е5у 7 ай бұрын

the camera quality is so good what did you film this with¿

@linda9418. 5 ай бұрын

hey, i wanna talk about it because growing up is actually my biggest fear. Im 17 and in 2 weeks i will turn 18 and i am so scared and like you said this is more about my appearance. but your video really helps me to realize some things and thank you ! If someone can tell me some old women ytb channels please ? :)

@rylee8096 2 ай бұрын

im 15, my grades have dropped so much these past few months. i was an a student who has dropped to an f in a span of a few months. im trying to work myself forward but im scared, everything is going too fast

@mayzavan 8 ай бұрын

every time someone asks me "how old are you " i be like "fuck im already 23 wtf" i get u

@AEGIS-RED-MEGA-VIEWS 7 ай бұрын

in GENERAL age is just number

@unknownbug5486 6 ай бұрын

u always manage to post about the exact things i’m thinking about thank you queen 🙏😭🤍

@slimeslime9200 7 ай бұрын

This video fells so relatable

@Bigboss-y4v 7 ай бұрын

Girl keep making videos about being yourself you have our support and i hope you can get children one day it doesn't have to be with me but you should try and make sure it's with me okay baby cakes ❣️ kisses you❤😊

@krii998 4 ай бұрын

the human life is really short in the grand scheme of things.

@chocolatemora 8 ай бұрын

i like being a kid

@AbbysalWarrior72756 7 ай бұрын

I miss being a kid i wish we had a time machine

@WotTheFluff 7 ай бұрын

ngl you look 13-14yrs old. also tbh i felt the freaking same when i was 19 too. i was freaking out when i was about to turn 20. but yes as a 29yrs old asian girl (i call myself a girl cause even tho i know i already am a woman but mentally i don’t feel very mature still..) i can be10000% sure you are gonna look back at my age and be like wtf i was just a little girl at 20. so pleasee😭im the one who is stressing to be 30this year but yall really gotta chill and enjoy being this young😭🩵🩵

@reyy568 7 ай бұрын

Lmao you are like a year older then me how times flies. On my hand i am a man so i have no choice but to grow up don’t feel like a little boy

@24tommyst 7 ай бұрын

Very interesting to hear your thoughts on getting older. Everybody is scared of it because we know that we're going to degrade. We're stuck in these hideous meat-bodies that can turn on us and make our experience a nightmare at any moment. As an old bastard, I will say that you do (unless you're a lazy dum dum, which you're not) gain many great mental tools as you age so that actually makes your suffering less as you age, somewhat paradoxically.

@flyte707 7 ай бұрын

Well you don't have to die to avoid growing there's always neverland. I was also depressed for a while I'm sorry to hear you weren't happy.

@AEGIS-RED-MEGA-VIEWS 7 ай бұрын

is life goal ALWAYS and ALWAYS be happy? then how would u understand those u aint, if u never been even once?

@Gohgo 8 ай бұрын

1:37 i honestly felt the same turning 20, cuz its like a different 1st digit, and i made a big deal out of it for some reason im turning 22 in less than a week now and honestly i got over turning 20 a few weeks after my birthday. i dont care much anymore, and every birthday i kinda think about "damn im going a bit older again..." but technically im getting older everyday so why am i worried about it only on my birthday? 8:23 i feel that too, but i have yet to find someone willing to discuss (or in other words, who cares about their own age, cuz most people in their teens dont even think about it). maybe i can do this mentor type wisdom thing in my late 20s to people my current age

@Jarvis_d.s 7 ай бұрын

We need each other 🍀🧧

@grace-day2117 5 ай бұрын

She look like a kid , not 20 years old girl ❤

@amethyste684 7 ай бұрын

i just turned 20 and super depressed about it

@joy_6.9 6 ай бұрын

We expect more videos like this

@Annie07-s3t 26 күн бұрын

I'm turning 20 in 3 months.. 🙂🖤🤍✨

@AminsDream 6 ай бұрын

Honesty the phone camera has an aesthetic to it. 10:32

@OsamaBknLaden 6 ай бұрын

cant really turn old when you're already old(rp as old guy)

@talia4205 7 ай бұрын

I‘m 22 and I feel old

@joy_6.9 6 ай бұрын

You're the fossil:v

@talia4205 6 ай бұрын

@@joy_6.9 why

@Jarvis_d.s 7 ай бұрын

Just asking . You have mum and dad right ? Just curious :)

@MarianaFerreira-l1f Ай бұрын

Im gonna turn 28 this year Im scared

@boyun4055 Ай бұрын

28 is YOUNG 30 is YOUNG 35 is YOUNG 40 is YOUNG Age is just a NUMBER, your age is not written on your head.

@thsu8 7 ай бұрын

hey i like ur videos. are u chinese? and are u an art major? hope u keep making videos

@robertlee3778 8 ай бұрын

Ok. I confess. I had to stop at 3:41 into this video. I hope you can take this advice from an old man. Focus on the moment that you are in, right now. Cherish it. Appreciate it. Relish it. Stay in the moment. Because in a second, it will vanish into the past. Don't worry about the future, because all you have to do is wait. Just wait for a second or two, and the future will arrive shortly. And do you know how to have happy memories? Be happy now. Oh trust me. I know where you are coming from. You worry. You worry about just about everything and anything. You need to stop it because all the worrying you do tonight will not stop the fact that the sun will rise tomorrow. Trust me, the sun will rise, and a new day will begin. In the end, we will be lucky if we can spin around the sun a hundred times. Dats all. And dats not a lot. A hundred orbits, if we are lucky. It is _your_ life. No one can live your life for you. Only you can live your life. Enjoy it.

@flyte707 7 ай бұрын

If 20s old to u i must be a fossil 😢