Forgiveness and Healing, Inside and Out (with Dr. Bob Schuchts)

[@MargaretUIUC]

I want to listen to this again with pen in hand.

[@1Hope4All]

4:09 When someone wrongs me, I forgive and move on, even with that person. However, I do not offer it to them unless they ask. The forgiveness is already there from my heart. So when they do finally ask (I know it can be hard to ask for forgiveness), I then tell them, yes, I already forgave you. I do believe that if a person wants forgiveness, they need to ask for it. That doesn't mean they wouldn't be forgiven by the other person already. It's not known if that person even wants forgiveness because they might think there's nothing for which to forgive. They might think they did nothing wrong. But on my side, I have already forgiven in my heart. I think that's different from what you mentioned. It's like the Sacrament of Reconciliation. We actually have to go to Confession and ask for forgiveness in order to hear the words of absolution and receive that forgiveness.

[@virginiapukas5760]

Love this podcast. Dr Tom, your voice volume is much higher than the others. Can the volumes be balanced so your voice doesn't come out as a shout? Thankyou.

[@1Hope4All]

This is only the second video that I've watched and I noticed the same thing in the first video. It was getting so annoying. I had to keep turning the volume down and then back up. They need to get together before they start recording so that both their volumes are equal. And it also doesn't help that Dr. Tom actually yells instead of speaks. 😜

[@1Hope4All]

And it comes out as a shout because that's what he's doing. I don't think he realizes his own yells and shouts. 😆