FORGIVENESS explained by Hans Wilhelm

[@Rinkiarimo]

You just made me unintentionally forgive every single person that has wronged me. And I'm a person that even prides himself that holds grudges. I always thought that people who have wronged me would owe me in the next life, that's part of the reason I haven't forgiven anyone. But I never once thought that they were friends that were trying to help me... all those years wasted on grudges... I need to take a walk now. Thank you.

[@joshuajones3472]

You are not a person

[@Rinkiarimo]

@@joshuajones3472 Oh?

[@joshuajones3472]

@@Rinkiarimo well if u decide u want to operate from the ego then that's your choice.

[@joshuajones3472]

Your actually no one nothing personal about life mate

[@Rinkiarimo]

​@@joshuajones3472 How can we be no one when we have free will? If we're no one then we'll not be here fixing stuff from the past.

[@aprilshowers1554]

My wish is to see this kind intelligent man at a workshop or class. The odds are slim I live In Sacramento, California❤️but man does he bring peace and calm to my life when I choose to listen to him when I’m struggling

[@DM-wv6to]

This is one of the most difficult concepts for reasons others have outlined. However, it does resonate on a deep level.

[@BaoDangJourney]

*Iwanna ask, if I hurted someone, was am i a helper? Why a helper need to ask for a forgiveness? I did them a favor. Maybe I had to live a very hard life just to make them realize that they had a problem inside*

[@DM-wv6to]

@@BaoDangJourney I believe these are soul contracts meant to assist in mutual growth, however oftentimes only one person is prepared to do the personal work.

[@Datavinc]

@@BaoDangJourney to break the chain, if you dont ask for forgiveness and repent, maybe later, someone will hurt the same way you hurt other.

[@Msimportant1111]

Forgive self first than others. Once you realize how events play out for your own good and development. You will learn to let go. Accept what is happening

[@arthymoorthy8685]

Hans your videos are really life awakening. I have watched 75% of your videos and this has changed my life. I am so grateful for your videos. You are a great teacher for life. The way I think about life is now gradually changing thanks to you. Thanks again, Hans!

[@jasonblack6142]

Love you keep them brain waves down in the morning s

[@SanghamitraKolla]

Forgiveness releases and gives freedom to our spirit 🙏

[@wendykgosi149]

Finally! someone who explains things clearly! thank you sir. I am learning lots from you indeed.

[@BaoDangJourney]

*Iwanna ask, if I hurted someone, was am i a helper? Why a helper need to ask for a forgiveness? I did them a favor. Maybe I had to live a very hard life just to make them realize that they had a problem inside*

[@CaribbeanQueen72xx]

Wowww your videos actually make me cry I would say happy tears ., my soul has been Staving for 46 years you’ve change my life .becuase I’ve been searching my inner self, spiritual guidance for a long time thank you is an understatement . Words can’t express how grateful I am I found you here . I look forward fo every other videos .🙏🏾

[@Simon0]

Since Hans videos I fear death less. I'm even kind of looking forward to it! Going back to spirit form

[@tashadotson912]

Same here. Isn't it such a beautiful thing? 💛

[@CaribbeanQueen72xx]

Simon0 yes indeed

[@CaribbeanQueen72xx]

Latasha Dotson yes indeed

[@lemonpeices]

This video came to me right at the moment of heartbreak and anger, it helps me with clearer mind and learn to free myself and to love. Thank you!

[@EkrimaAljaali]

" Not wanting to forgive is like taking poison and hoping someone else is going to die" 9:37 OMG

[@A...LA...LA...A]

Forgiveness for me is not condemning someone, it's disappearing, reflecting, and forgetting them totally.

[@namename7847]

Dear Hans, this explanation is beautiful and spot on. I discovered this truth when I kept finding that people I deeply cared for would repeatedly shut me out and after feeling upset, confused, frustrated and angry, I asked why??? And the internal answer I received was exactly what you stated in this video. The answer was that each one, in their own way encouraged me, however forcefully to love myself and stop seeking it outside and each refused to love me in order that I should find that I am the love I was seeing through them. When I found this to be true, I no longer needed it from them. Then the pushing, shutting me out and other ‘perceived’ hurtful behaviors simply vanished in one way or another. They served so well that I learned to love myself by their refusing to fill the void that could only be filled by me. This is a profound teaching on the depths that love will go to teach us of our own true nature. Thank you my friend. Anna - 💖🌟💖🕊🙏🏼✨💐🤗

[@dianeshirley2692]

A wonderful teacher on so many subjects, 🙏 Hans 🕊

[@smuthcreemnl]

Ego = bad, Humility = good. Forgive me for I have sinned against you and not diverted from my Mother Father God's glory. This approach helps me a lot. Mr. Wilhelm, keep up the good work, you are saving lives.... 🙏🙏🙏

[@tmc1373]

This lesson on forgiveness is absolutely profound. You are an excellent teacher and I am very grateful to have stumbled across your channel. Your videos and the way you explain things so clearly is phenomenal. God bless you!

[@MsWynterMiller617]

Thank you for this video! I have been reminded that I need to treat myself better. I have seen how my thoughts are affecting my reality.

[@luisterrust]

Yes take control of your self talk and become constructive instead of destructive 💪🏼❤️

[@angelcare5969]

I see from the comments that lots of people didn't understand/wasn't clear with the explanation or didn't resonate with the video. I suggest you research and learn more about it. It's too long to explain it here. There is much more to this than what it is in this video. Forgiveness also is a process, a journey. It does not happen quick. I started mine about 2 years ago. A spiritual teacher explained it to me. I understood it with my conscious mind, but it was still hard to do on a soul level. In my case I needed to forgive my parents and my culture. I cleared lots of things out with the help of a healer (you can't really do this alone) and I still felt there was a bit of a left over. Once, I cleared everything out (hurt, pain, anger, resentment etc.) I was free. I finished about three month ago and my life has completely changed., because not being able to forgive holds you back, makes you sick etc. When they say forgiveness is for the forgiver, this is what it means.

[@totadol]

I wish there were multiple like buttons to express how much i love this channel and how much I've learned from it. Thank you very much

[@BaoDangJourney]

*Iwanna ask, if I hurted someone, was am i a helper? Why a helper need to ask for a forgiveness? I did them a favor*

[@renegade-master29]

Forgiving is for the weak moving on is for the strong

[@davidhello4777]

Gabriele Publishing House has so many books covering the topic of forgiveness. They are all worth reading, but my favorite is: "Liobani - I advise, do you accept?" The more I read of this book, the more it just simply made sense and filled in missing pieces of lifesaving knowledge for me.

[@danihan14]

Although Hans hits the point, we need to do the internal work and then everything will be clear. Understanding intellectually and truly understanding with your whole heart is completely different. If you just try to understand theoretically, it’ll just make you more confused and trying to convince others is just an endless mind game. True understanding comes from your heart and once that’s accomplished, you can forgive anyone. Best of luck to everyone

[@manurana7929]

Wonderful! Your teachings are life transforming. Thankyou thankyou thankyou. 💙💛💜💞💖❤👌💝💗

[@Natalia-hf3et]

I LOVE your content, and the way that you explain things with the visuals makes everything much more clear. I am NOT complaining about your videos, I would just like them to be longer, much longer, because I enjoy them immensely. Is there any way for you to make them a little longer for those of us that cannot get enough of them. 💛💛💛 Sincerely, A huge fan.

[@beastman1083]

This lecture of Forgiveness is very enlightening, I didn't quite realize that I held a residue of resentment concerning the past. Possibly applying these concepts would aid in ridding past negativity of toward others hence aiding in growth in every life parts. The illustrations are fantastic and concise along with the explanation. And your speaking and voice is also awesome every word is understandable. You have a nice spirit. How about a video to explain what is Faith? It's a hard concept.

[@shubha2308]

This is phenomenal! Thank you so much, Hans!

[@MisSkeeto]

Oh how much the truth hurts! Ouch! Thank you for the enlightening, though. Thank you for being so gentle and kind in your approach. Especially since this particular video is so difficult to absorb.

[@RobinGlasco]

I asked for a dream once about the main purpose I was here on earth. I was shown in a dream that night. I was in a beautiful place and walking past many people who I felt I knew. Some were people I'd known who had died. I walked for a long way across a meadow and finally came to a street sign. I looked up and was at the intersection of 7th and 70th streets. How many times should we forgive? 70 times 7. I enjoy your insights very much. Thanks for posting them.

[@az5655]

🙏❤ appeared on my recommendation list at the right time. Thankyou. Stay free🦋

[@veroperez8391]

Thank you for this video. I feel a weight lifted off me. 💜 May we all find peace.

[@siddarth6363]

Gruss Gott, thanks for this video. I ended up reading the book Radical Forgiveness after watching this video and it's been life changing! Danke Hans

[@therubylululibrary8564]

Thank you for sharing precious wisdom🌸🍀🌷🥇🌈

[@BaoDangJourney]

*Iwanna ask, if I hurted someone, was am i a helper? Why a helper need to ask for a forgiveness? I did them a favor. Maybe I had to live a very hard life just to make them realize that they had a problem inside*

[@badguybeats]

I did very bad karmas, no peoples dont even think, I wish to change myself😭I wish to be compassionate and help others

[@ania-sk9lz]

Forgiveness is not a easy thing ....its takes many many hears to heal and recover and 2 forgive.

[@russconti7523]

Thank you Hans. I've struggled with this. Wings, Freedom as the shift occurs. Blessings to you.

[@MissPresley69]

BEST EXPLAINED VIDEOS, THANK YOU! AND I CAN ACTUALLY VERIFY THEM ALL TO BE TRUE! I MET MY TWIN FLAME 5 YEARS AGO, AND HAD A SPONTANEOUS KUNDALINI AND EVER SINCE THEN MY LIFE CHANGED FOR THE BETTER, BECAUSE I DID. I FOUND OUT, THAT EVERYTHING IN MY LIFE, WAS A REFLECTION OF A TRAUMA I HAD, WHEN I WAS 4 YEARS OLD ❤️

[@DNDZOLLER]

What’s odd is that my higher self knows this truth but my earthly self forgets and it’s my higher self or spiritual self has to remind my earthly self of this knowledge 🤔 If that makes sense.

[@milecurcic4475]

David Zoller yes almost every hour, every minute need to remind ourselves Love and peace to you

[@charlesbrisco9986]

Same Issue.... I'm definitely learning tho!!😏

[@Simon0]

My higher self needs to remind my earthly self that I actually chose these difficult situations I'm going through right now. Sometimes I wonder if my higher self is so wise after all!

[@daumantsbrunins]

You must forget in ofder to remember. That's the only way to enlightenment by Matias de Stefano

[@funnature8679]

@@daumantsbrunins I was watching IDW Sonic part 34 and perfect energetic timing. Hehe. the learning never stops.

[@trinijoyl1720]

I just saw yr lessoms for the first time. Amazing! Than u! I hv learn so many lessons in life fr bad experiences. I had to forgive. To let go. I wud argue the point over and over. The other person does not see it. Bucs i realize i was looking for justification fr others. I hv practiced Verbal Fast! Which help me to release it. Thank u again. Peace!

[@loulouli9981]

"The weak can never forgive, forgiveness is through attributes of the strong" - M Gandhi Thank you!

[@dianaahuche880]

Yep

[@BaoDangJourney]

*Iwanna ask, if I hurted someone, was am i a helper? Why a helper need to ask for a forgiveness? I did them a favor. Maybe I had to live a very hard life just to make them realize that they had a problem inside*

[@heatherstroud6847]

Thank you so much your information resonates with me soul. I know it to be truth. Especially the one about organized religion pulling us further away from God,Love and Freedom.

[@meyou2696]

Thank you Hans!

[@flolagi727]

Yes, it does make sense, thanks.

[@carolinatibetan557]

Dolores Cannon explained in her videos how we can forgive without the forgiveness of others by tearing the contracts apart. Great video

[@blackattackcat]

I love Delores Cannon. Are you familiar with Alba Weinman??

[@carolinatibetan557]

Yes I am familiar with Alba Weinman but it is very difficult for me to schedule an appointment and to meet her in person, but I really will love to meet her. I watched her videos but it doesn’t have the same information and knowledge that Dolores Cannon dedicated in her lifetime.

[@blackattackcat]

@@carolinatibetan557 True it is very difficult to schedule with Alba. I saw Alba in Dec of 2017. Unfortunately, my Higher Self would not allow the hypnosis.

[@MegaSahinn]

Carolina Tibetan what is the name of the video?

[@luisterrust]

Forgiveness and especially Radical Forgiveness is SO SO powerful! I highly recommend the book from Colin Tipping.! ❤️🤩🙏🏼

[@arwingmaster3640]

This was definitely a great thing to hear. Hans is the best!👍🏻

[@BaoDangJourney]

*Iwanna ask, if I hurted someone, was am i a helper? Why a helper need to ask for a forgiveness? I did them a favor. Maybe I had to live a very hard life just to make them realize that they had a problem inside*

[@simhachal5558]

Just marvellous eye opening videos.. we r really blessed to receive such messages. Thank you Very much 🙏

[@ALSomthin]

Yes it most certainly is a huge topic and it is the only real thing we can do in this life that means anything. Every negative situation we encounter with another individual is an opportunity. Giving and reciving are actually the same thing but the world tells us this isnt true.

[@ChavisHappenings]

Thank you! You are a great soul

[@brianhyde5900]

Forgiveness shows you have been set free from treating yourself, or the other, conditionally, no matter how often you are reminded of what you or the other, did to you. There are no exceptions when it comes to true Love.

[@nctunes]

When harm is done one can forgive all one wants but when a situation arises that is similar to the one that caused harm, one remembers. One can't forget. It will never be the same again after the harm. One will learn to stay away from those that harm and there for no forgiving. Forgive one self for being in a terrible situation and learn not to be there again. Now if the harming persons says they are sorry for causing harm then one has something to work with and amends may be possible.

[@codylowry4660]

Makes perfect sense, thank you.

[@anonymousguitarist9096]

Thank u hans.. you have awaken many souls.. and this is not a coincidence 😊😊😊

[@CaribbeanQueen72xx]

anonymous guitarist he literally change my life , I even feel lighter happier it’s just amazing .

[@anonymousguitarist9096]

@@CaribbeanQueen72xx good for you but it is long journey.. this is only the beginning... many obstacles we need to overcome.. good luck

[@anonymousguitarist9096]

@@CaribbeanQueen72xx good for you but it is long journey.. this is only the beginning... many obstacles we need to overcome.. good luck

[@user-vi1fb6sv6x]

A big thank you to the abusive narcissist that I suddenly understood is married with a kid and now I am in clinical depression Thank you amazing guy

[@peacewalker7675]

Thanks Hans.. This resonates deeply x

[@michelelawrence7588]

In ways I see what you mean Hans,I chose a very difficult path 🤔it has made me stronger in alot of situations one of which was losing my dad when I was a small child .. as i got older and wiser I contacted my great uncle telling him I forgive you but will never forget ...my dad was stabbed .he was very chocked ...years later around 2 years ago I found my cousins and I then set us all free they suffered too ! My mum and brother does not know anything about it I must point out it's the best thing I have ever did ...a other issue is I was in a marriage having 4 kids my 2 eldest have special needs it was never a happy marriage my ex dried to kill me in front of my kids ...I spent 6 years fighting in the courts as he wanted direct access to the younger kids ... the man is so nasty as a result and in court for the final court hearing ... we spoke afterwards and called a truce ..so much as happened for example knowing I was in theater having a operation him and my eldest daughter trying their hardness to remove my youngest of my friend (he didnt get no where)just 2 weeks prior my daughter then 11 years old broke her arm in his care as he was paralytic drunk!! ...my health over the years has suffered so much...I realise that I have had to have a very difficult life to help me with my soul growth but also to help others with my experiences of life ( it be interesting in what anyone can add or advise many thanks for reading

[@kirankurwade]

Enlightening !

[@KDreamer1111]

What a great explanation, I guess this really explains the concept behind practices such as Ho'oponopono and the power of surrender.

[@maheshshirodkar6055]

Very very different kind of approach but very very real. Thank you so much. You helped me to forgive people.

[@srivallik266]

I'm so shocked by the new thought - saying I forgive you has v r superior & others r inferior. This is the real thought which shows the insight abt ourselves

[@ludwigrayray2103]

Being a victim of something is a fact not to live by but to recognize. you have many experts nowadays talking about the effects of PTSD on the brain, the behaviors and the future of people that stay in patterns that they are unconscious about. Not only the ego is hurt but the soul also. It suffers tremendously (if you are really connected to it you would know) there are facts of the souls and there are facts of the body that soul lives in. I personally believe that you are kind of setting aside the second one, specially that we do not live in a much spiritual world. Forgiveness comes after having expressed the anger (by talk, expressive therapy, a physical activity...) and all what another person has inflicted on us and we kept inside, be conscious and aware of what happened, otherwise we might be victims again and again. And this is not related to karma...this is related to abuse and patterns.

[@blackattackcat]

Not forgiving the abuser or the thief or the drunk ties us to that negative energy. Letting go of it, frees us. Break the chains and forgive. Forgiveness is a gift to ourselves, not the abuser. Once you have forgiven, remember the abuser or the perpetrator of whatever was probably acting in concert with the way they were treated, you have broken those ties of like attraction. Free yourself. Peace my friend.

[@AllBeingsAreLoveAmen]

2:48 no, everything's free and everyone's kind and generous amen

[@olegamburg9741]

Your an amazing teacher really grateful to see your videos :) thank you for your light work

[@BaoDangJourney]

*Iwanna ask, if I hurted someone, was am i a helper? Why a helper need to ask for a forgiveness? I did them a favor. Maybe I had to live a very hard life just to make them realize that they had a problem inside*

[@olegamburg9741]

@@BaoDangJourney people see differently than you do, for you it maybe help, but for them it maybe will be just distraction, or annoyance. People should learn their lesson without you sacrefising your life for them, love yourself, love others

[@BaoDangJourney]

@@olegamburg9741 Hans just said in this video, "the helper had to live a hard time just to teach you". Watch this again.

[@lorthelight]

I believe we are all capable of giving love 😍. And recovering from past lives that we once thought were impossible to make peace with...Only through love that. Is God .... Makes that possible.

[@robinlynn6940]

Beautiful!

[@anneabbott1868]

Hans i love your videos! Some of the understandings of spirituality feel a little antiquated as we are finally understanding the deliberate and maleveolent corrupt power structure that has has systematically trapped our consciousness. We are not the top of the food chain!

[@era2376]

Sehr schön erklärt, danke👍😊❤️

[@timallsopp9622]

Power, powerful, powerful, but not easy. It is Love and freedom! To forgive IS to be forgiven. That prison is locked on the inside, willingness is the key.

[@rins2793]

Thank you so much... But i also thick that if there's no way u can ask sm else to forgive you . For whatever reasons...it's ok to apologize to their soul and send love and respect their way...

[@simhachal5558]

TQ so much for your wonderful piece of information. I only hope that I find a good Guru to help me walk in this path 🙏🙏🙏

[@Revolt4newlife]

Thanks. I always tried to thank my narc ex. Sadly she was murdered recently by her bf. Many lessons from this soul.

[@colleene4568]

That escalated quickly!!

[@jilljurcago2237]

This is completely in line with a A Course in Miracles. Are you familiar with this text? What a beautiful teaching. Thank you.💕💕💕✨😊

[@jyothinarayana1]

Wow. Excellent. Love you for this.

[@BaoDangJourney]

*Iwanna ask, if I hurted someone, was am i a helper? Why a helper need to ask for a forgiveness? I did them a favor. Maybe I had to live a very hard life just to make them realize that they had a problem inside*

[@sanashah1178]

I love all your videos you are great 👍🏻 thanks 🙏🏼 ❤️🙏🏼🦋💙🦋🕊💫🕊

[@papasangles]

Thank you so much for sharing this wisdom..it really helped me lots ..lots of love and light to you

[@stevenmcshane5807]

You are a good man Hans 😀

[@faniyiolusola7151]

What a teaching!

[@atomicdiamondx]

Many people are distracted by the physical-world ABUSE, but remember that this is actually about learning FORGIVENESS, which is a divine quality associated with LOVE.

[@earthpictures7761]

I love myself and haven't harmed any person my entire life,, and I have been hurt dozens of times!!

[@user-hm5hg9jy2t]

Maybe you are a spineless person who always considers the other's position while neglecting your own needs? In this case you are a very sadistic person towards yourself. Universe is a mirror and thus you attracted sadists from outside. Just a thought, I don't know you of course.

[@earthpictures7761]

@@user-hm5hg9jy2t I am not sadistic person towards myself. I am very mature person who believe in goodness in people. I love life but it keeps letting me down because I am very honest and sincere. My problem is that I trust others, and that's because I had a very tough childhood. I attract liars and manipulators easily, that's why I ended up being hurt in almost every aspect of relationships whether work, love, friendship etc..

[@christiannakern3131]

Fantastic, thank you!🙌

[@beautypablotamarini7315]

Thank you Hans

[@BaoDangJourney]

*Iwanna ask, if I hurted someone, was am i a helper? Why a helper need to ask for a forgiveness? I did them a favor*

[@joansnyder3186]

We'll said thankyou you are great teacher

[@ronilittle7028]

What if that person is hurting us on a larger scale, as a world leader, or a president of a country? Should we do our civic duties on this planet as a collective??? please do a video on this or please answer! Thank you❤😊

[@loveislifemotherofmen663]

Love your videos, don't know about this one. I agree that someone can mirror how you feel about yourself and can be doing to you what your doing to yourself on the inside. However this abuser I had must be a mirror to every women he's been with and I guess he made a few soul agreements because he abuses every women he's involved with. I was 18 when he abused me, so at 18 I can only think that I felt bad about myself internally because I had been molested at age 4 then again at age 8. I can say that after this experience I never allowed any man to put his hands on me. That was one and done. Anyway that's all. Love your videos either way.

[@s.p.5213]

Exactly! I just commented on how outrageous it is for him to NOT take the victim's perspective and experience into consideration. All these other ppl must be perpetrators and abusers whose conscience is starting to bother them. From the victim's perspective, this is a bunch of bunk... Extremely insensitive.

[@unconsciousimmortal]

When a person we’re to make a soul pact with you, they take on a “difficult life”; this difficult life is full of struggle and pain, because to cause another pain is to cause the self pain. You still have forgiveness to learn. The problems that the human sees as “tragic” or “inhumane” to the soul is actually the catalyst that pushes us forward as a spiritual being.

[@AZDC99]

5:20--Nice point you reach where you turn the two by four towards ourselves for needing to learn a lesson about how not to be a target for this sort of nonsense and what we need to do to become people with more self-respect

[@eydat]

Amazing explanation :) Thank you!

[@BaoDangJourney]

*Iwanna ask, if I hurted someone, was am i a helper? Why a helper need to ask for a forgiveness? I did them a favor. Maybe I had to live a very hard life just to make them realize that they had a problem inside*

[@shagwellington]

I don't believe abusers are the good guys. They are making very bad karma by abusing. This is a distorted view. The same for bullies.

[@goeblaubagan8407]

Hans and New Agers like him say the vicTim deserves it because they signed a spiritual karma contract and chose it before they were born.

[@ilovesesshomarusama716]

Goeblaubagan yeah I don’t know if I believe that I agreed to being abused

[@shanechandler1018]

Alcoholic parents create alcoholic children , abusive parents create abusive children . Not in every case but a lot of the time . You can only purify yourself .

[@jomontanee]

Me neither.

[@lexiemaep7930]

Watch the video the little soul and the sun. It will help you understand

[@juliettebarker9443]

Does this apply to little children who are beaten by a drunken father - is he really the hero

[@brendasullivan4442]

I was going to ask the same thing ☹

[@starg785]

juliette barker look at his video on karma...

[@caromia3398]

I think some of this is spiritual bypassing.

[@tinamarie3024]

I was abused as a child and I dont recall having a distorted view of myself or beating myself up. I was too young to feel anything other than how to survive.

[@walid334]

This is a toxic teaching, he is just an example of what should not be done, and it is the test of the child who is beaten, sometimes the children do something (because they do not understand how to act sometimes) which leads them to become victimized. There is a hidden lesson in every situation and it is our responsibility as a society to teach children how they can learn from life situations.

[@sylvia_angel11]

Thank you. ♥️

[@thefloorislava3486]

wow. thank you. this is really difficult to hear but I know it is necessary. Bless You 🖤

[@marisemulkerrin5925]

Thanks so much.

[@PMT433]

Wow, very informative. Question. What if you’ve experienced some sort of neglect when you were very young like as a little baby. How is that considered “karma” when we likely can’t even process what’s going on?

[@dianaodeh5505]

You are amazing❤️ Thank you so much

[@AZDC99]

"You're wrong but I forgive you" is INDEED an "I'm so much better than you" thing like you say! One thing I wasn't taught by my NPD parents, but I was taught by a cool older friend of my 20s about other people, not myself he was saying this to, was that when you do an apology, "You make sure it's an UNFETTERED one!" THIS PERSON WAS A VERY LAID-BACK AN NOT UPTIGHT GUY, BY THE WAY! This taught me how to make real apologies and not be half-assed on occasion as I got older. But many people love to give FAUXpologies THINK they're clever for it. You don't have to be MIND-READER to notice the narcissistic DELIGHT they get from saying that comment, even though they're SOMETIMES ALL BUT IMPLYING in the voice as if they're the total poor wittle victim completely. (This is now known as "reactive abuse" on THEIR parts!) At 48 years old, I have NOW run out of patience for those who like to half-measures to ALLEGEDLY repair the damage they do. I don't have time for them anymore. Frankly becomes a form of WANNABE duper's delight to me! It's the beginning of the end or the end of the end for folks like me. (Like, go high five your friends at your favorite PhD In Narcissism COLLAGE or whatever.) PEOPLE LIKE ME ON KZbin ARE GETTING EDUCATED IN THIS TOPIC AND WALKING AWAY (OR BEING WALKED AWAY FROM FOR ASSERTING OURSELVES) EN MASS NOW!

[@dianemartinez3]

I like all your videos except for this one totally resonated with me I get the idea of forgiveness but my ex-husband beat the crap out of me and killed my children while they was still in my stomach he was an abusive horrible man I'd say the brother of the devil really horrible I didn't deserve that yeah maybe they were warnings and I shouldn't have met him and married him I left him immediately after a year but there is so many people that stay and continually get abused I am a counselor so kind of resonates but kind of doesn't so also children pedifilers they don't.. these people are mentally ill now you're going into a totally different area people that are sick or possessed by demons that he just inflict harm or they want to kill those souls are tormented they're not here to teach us any lesson okay have a nice day!

[@nadiyamustafa5764]

Wow ... Very beautiful and simply explanation ❤️.. thank you so much ❤️

[@kamalikadatta7232]

I want to forgive one and all after listening this video

[@angierox6964]

Thank you! This was very helpful, I’m going to check out Radical Forgiveness. My mother has narcissistic personality disorder and I am her target and I’m not sure what complete forgiveness feels like in a situation like this. What I need is guidance from somebody with a similar belief system to help me make sure i’m clearing out the bad karma and know that I am forgiving fully.

[@asknlpexpert]

An awesome video. Thank you.😀

[@notsomike8758]

Have mercy on their soul, they know nothing that they are doing. If forgiveness is what they beg for let them repay you for there faults. Have mercy on them

[@kingdomfreedom8323]

Actions, the physical results of thoughts and emotions combined, belonging in-being owned by us, as constructed realities, are resonating energy fields which 'echoe' back in boomer-rang effect, return either for positive or negative as forces propelled an imprint or impression made like 'stamping' a mark or symbol which triggers susceptibility greater or worser reactions or responses upon our selfs. Cycles-of or even patterns proportionate our soul either expanding or contracting depending entirely upon our own personal surges in what direction chosen. A retreat from the Light into approaching deeper the darkness or boldly pressing onwards the redeeming Light of God's Divine Love.

[@nilkamalperera8570]

Please if you could clarify- wouldn’t the soul / person hurting us to teach our lessons make more karma for that soul while doing so ..? How would that be explained please .. 🙏🏼 thank you