Found out that my girlfriend of 8 years was cheating during her hiking trips, this is what i did...

[@chadisnotachad]

"she lied, was at a house I didn't recognize, AND left from that house I didn't recognize. I didn't think she was cheating though.'

[@Luke_existent]

For real, i would've drove down there myself if i had been in that situation

[@dexdarapper4207]

@@Luke_existent I would have driven down there and watched who walked her to the door 😂 I won’t be the fool

[@OPtimusPrimeXFUTBOL]

Fr I would've asked the uber driver as well and also called the couple as well

[@User-ic1rz]

@@OPtimusPrimeXFUTBOLinteresting pfp

[@OPtimusPrimeXFUTBOL]

@@User-ic1rz yours too

[@takidsage1515]

The question I keep asking myself is how tf can you just sit there a blatantly lie in your partners face when you know full well the truth? How can sit there and gaslight someone you claimed to care about? In all of these stories I hear about cheating, the ability to callously lie, gaslight, and manipulate, and the lack of remorse over what they are doing is the part that makes cheating unforgivable to me. It’s deliberate and calculated. It’s sick and shows no empathy for their partner. To me, if you are capable of that, then no, there’s nothing left.

[@kilamkam]

Women do this sh*t the worst.. Ive heard so many stories like this where the wife does sh*t like taking off her wedding ring whenever with AP because he asked.. One chick actually lost the ring at the hotel because of this.. Or stories where they stop sexing their husband because to them its like they're cheating on their AP.. Meanwhile the AP goes home to enjoy his wife after finishing with the cheating woman.. The women start moving different at home with their partner, but the men just enjoy both women....

[@NickolasRussomanno]

it’s not that they don’t care abt their partner, they just care abt themselves more and it’s disgusting

[@lifeisamess8100]

Just Women being Women 🙂💔

[@lifeisamess8100]

Also, Ewwwwwww Trust?

[@NeilTruick]

I was laid off for nine months. My wife still worked, but she refused to contribute anything more toward the household bills than she did when I was working, even though I made more than double what she made. I had to cash in stock options and my 401K (this was 20+ years ago). I finally got a part-time job with one of my old companies (I was and still am in tech). It was a 45-minute commute (one way), but I didn't have cell service for the last 20 minutes. Monday of my second week, I call her when I get in range to let her know I'm on my way home--25 minutes out. She says all right. Understand, I _talked_ to her. No answering machine, no text...I spoke to her. I walk in my front door, and she's there with a coworker of hers naked on my living room floor. She turns to me and says, "You're home early." As I said, I'm in tech and I know my wife, so I diagnosed the situation and immediately realized this was a setup. What she was looking for was a reaction with a witness. I said, "I guess I am." I locked my door, walked past them to the hallway, went into the master bedroom and turned on SportsCenter. It wasn't that I wasn't angry; I was furious. What I was _not_ going to do under any circumstances was give her any ammunition she could use against me in the divorce, which I eventually filed for. The only question I ever asked her about that situation was "Why?" If she wasn't happy, she could have said so. If she wanted to end the marriage, she could have said that, too. I wasn't completely happy, either, but I was committed to her. I never had a problem with her wanting to leave; it was the WAY she left I had a problem with. We were together for 10 years, but I'd known her for 23. Never underestimate a woman's ability to go scorched-earth to avoid being accountable for her actions. Fellas, no matter how much you love your woman or how much you think your woman loves you, _always_ pack a firesuit. 20+ years later, I'm still in the house, I'm still in tech, and there is peace in my valley...

[@stopcensoringmen5044]

I am once again asking for infidelity to be grounds for a "you get nothing from me" divorce.

[@matthewbarabas3052]

also, i would demand everything from the cheating partner as damages.

[@M1ch43l33]

Pretty sure you cant get a prenup with a cheating clause

[@kylealexander7024]

Kinda depends what state ur in and the specific circumstances. If u cheat and ur partner has proof its different

[@dezmodium]

Prenuptial agreement.

[@theretrodragonyope]

I heard that at-fault states have such rules.

[@Vikashar]

Spoiler: What he did was fart in her hiking pack so her and AP would have a nice surprise on their next date

[@flamey69]

???!?!!?!?

[@Mitchell2311]

Huh

[@flamespear9936]

what the actual fuck

[@Vikashar]

​@@flamespear9936That was my reaction too

[@EasyBreezyYT]

It’s sad to see someone go through such a rough time, especially during what was supposed to be a celebratory birthday weekend. OP’s decision to handle things calmly by going home alone, despite their anger, shows a lot of restraint.

[@vexnorah1284]

Man, I'm starting to lose empathy for these guys. Trust is great, too much trust is slavery. You're sitting there at home, thinking she's loyal, while she's out cheating. Kinda crazy imo how people don't at least check shit occasionally to make sure their partner isn't cheating. I'd rather be viewed as "controlling" than become a father to five kids that aren't my own and die living a lie.

[@GalexyStories]

Love is blinding, some people tend to look at the best in people.

[@BigCroca]

i hate the stupid "you're controlling" shit because you know literally no normal person says that unless they're INCREDIBLY innocent and are just a bit annoyed by being asked and don't realize the connotations to that whole "stop being insecure and controlling" idea. any normal not cheating person would never be upset by being asked where they are or anything like that, if they sit you down to talk about your asking and it isn't "i will never cheat you shouldn't worry" in the tone of love and understanding, then it's fucked. if they're mad about it you know you shouldn't be with them or anyone like them.

[@richardthompson3296]

I've listened to a few of these stories and ya I don't fell sorry for them. If my wife wanted to go on a hiking trip for a week I would have to go no exceptions. I would never dream of taking a trip without her it would fell wrong from the get go

[@lesnoyelf228]

Yeah, she might as well just have intercourses right in front of him, and still easily convince/gaslight him into believing it's HIM tripping lol

[@migo70]

This was such an unfulfilling end to the story.

[@kinosaga21]

real life sucks, great graphics but the story sucks.

[@nancestpasmoi1834]

the story 2 is hard to watch, a cuck to end...

[@notting2640]

I mean… it’s Reddit. If it was 4chan the aftermath would probably be on National news 😂

[@Beowulf4]

Yea sad to see

[@gravity00x]

@@notting2640 4chan has no chill

[@iakkubczechino2825]

@@notting2640 Local man brutally murdered his wife and her affair partner. Faces up to 25 years in prison. Family shocked.

[@exemplary12]

Dang 8 years wasted? Idk i didnt watch it fully yet

[@crowfather0249]

Haven't watched yet, but I almost guarantee you that OP saw multiple red flags over that decade and went out of his way to ignore them given how most of these stories go.

[@SuperbFairy]

that is indeed how it went, but this one is some spectacular self wool pulling@@crowfather0249

[@fancyclown6863]

All he had to do was facetime her right away. If she was at family friends and still talking to them at 2am, she would have no problem facetiming so he could say hi to them

[@theboss7930]

2nd storty's OP is a doormat🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

[@C.G.Gaster]

Very much so, it was frustrating. I got so annoyed I couldn't keep up with the story

[@lesnoyelf228]

Yeah, some of this guy's videos, I can't even watch them till the end, and drop them mid-way like 20 minutes out of 30, because OP begins to act as a weakling with no sense of pride, even slightest, and forgive unthinkable things their beloved ones have done, only for them to continue to do it right after they are assured they are forgiven lol

[@deathrager2404]

ahahha this dude lost half his shit because he let her live with him. also he put her name on the title. this is something you guys should never do. not even when you're married.

[@C.G.Gaster]

Always have a prenuptial. Make sure a lawyer rights it. Preferably female, so a sexist judge isn't as likely to say crap.

[@J.P_INC.]

This dude is weak. Never take back a cheater. Let them go and move on. Love yourself and leave the hate behind you

[@kinosaga21]

everyone starts there, some of use see it coming and some have to experience it; being naive doesnt make you weak; what makes you weak is not learning from that.

[@J.P_INC.]

@@kinosaga21 I'm speaking on him knowing she cheated and have proof but keep putting her above himself. Nothing wrong with being naive because it comes from lack of knowledge not experience. If he didn't know then that's another case but to put yourself lower than your unfaithful spouse seeing them as being better especially taking blame is weak. One thing my mother told me is that a weak man allows people to disrespect them and do nothing. If he would've said to hell with it and left without trying to question her would be a lot better. I've been cheated on and tool flight. I didn't blame myself and I famn sure didn't let it continue while I was in th picture. It takes strength to let go and move on

[@steven1671]

@@J.P_INC. She was probably really beautiful, and he was probably really into her. Even if the relationship was objectively bad, he really wanted things to work. He was probably thinking that he wouldn't be able to find someone that he's really into, like that, again. This is why he tried to take her back. It's really really hard to leave behind someone you're obsessed with. And being mistreated by the one person you are absolutely infatuated and obsessed with (think limerence) is probably the strongest emotional agony a human being can experience. My God, this guy even stopped eating and sleeping for days after the divorce.

[@jerfle7787]

Why do people hang on to a dead relationship?

[@SneakNationCEO]

Love is a very powerful drug.

[@itzskizzyk5472]

kids well for me anyway. known my ex for 13 years together for 7 and one day i woke up after all the bullshit "im done", had some clarity and took my love glasses off and now been single for 2 years almost :) pretty damn good minus working full time weird hours

[@crunchy7202]

Story1, I have been cheated on so many times that the slightest thing sets off my suspicion and yea, I know its not healthy but I feel like getting out at the slightest red flag is better. Even if it turn out the flag wasnt red. I get the first story about being so naive, my first serious relationship ended when I discovered my wife was cheating for five years with her highschool crush. So yeah I get it. The first time it happens you havent been trained to see the signs for what they are.

[@steven1671]

This story was really really sad :( I kinda know what it's like to really be into a woman who seems into you at first, but eventually loses respect for you and even leaves you for someone else. The lying, the impossible shit tests, the mind games. She goes from loving and appreciating you, thinking that you're perfect, to her constantly nitpicking your flaws and saying that she doesn't want to settle for you.

[@stardustdeath2497]

I personally been there, I’ll admit I played myself since I knew it was happening

[@notasaintjoseph7365]

Most of the guys there put themselves in that situation.

[@solistheghostkid7990]

please stop posting stories with no real conclusions :/

[@chessieray1465]

Welp, you live and you learn.

[@ninjastorm540]

It had to be wilful ignorance/denial that OP didnt find out she was cheating. All the signs were obvious but he just kept acting oblivious. I mean for her location to be at a house he doesnt reconize and she says the app is wrong and he believed that is crazy.

[@raversfantasy8873]

How many of these stories are real?

[@MinisterManDan]

Story 1 OP lets inertia run his life. It was clear long before he caught her cheating that this was a shitty relationship he should have ended. They met in college at a party, and from context it sounds like he was a former alcoholic or close to it. He cleans up his life, grows up, starts acting like an adult, and then just spends years investing all this time and effort into a shitty relationship with an overgrown child who wants to keep being 20 forever. A huge red flag in a relationship is when your partner prioritizes their job over you. That's already a bad sign this is a bad deal you're in. But the biggest red flag job wise is a partner who prioritizes their comfort level with a night shift job over your relationship when they have the option to go day shift. I don't say this lightly when I say "move your hours so you work the same time I do or we're done" should always be the ultimatum. Nobody would pick night shift over their partner unless they're cheating with a coworker or have decided time with you is such an insignificant thing to them that they don't give a shit.

[@ANIMEFAN-ym6tc]

Why TF not ask the family friends 8:00

[@almogxchq5282]

Cuz first, it was 2 am, and second, it's also a personal matter and if he immediately asks, it might lead to rumours and such. He seems to be a guy who cares about his and his SO's image in front of people so makes sense.

[@ANIMEFAN-ym6tc]

@@almogxchq5282 well not right time to ask but atleast ask in the morning to have someone backup ur claims

[@yunarukami6161]

Moral of the story. Never give wifes any chances at all. The moment she cares about "me this" and "me that" means she's seeing someone to fulfill her desires. You treat a cheating women just like how a cheating man. Destroy ever ounce of what they once had that made them feel empowered. Their control over you and gaslighting as if you're the problem. A women has no dignity at all if she never shown you any in the first place and the moment she is happy to leave what she once had she'll lose her dignity like the cheater she is. Idc how it will break her because it's how life is when one is busy on the streets.

[@_Dynamight_]

If this is your mentality towards your spouse, then you deserve whatever hell and divorce that are coming to you.

[@KilroyWasHere83]

Honestly becoming a hardened cynic is probably the best way to survive in 2023. Especially dealing with relationships. So many people, and especially women, are toxic, good for one night stands but never for committed relationships. The ones who are good for it are becoming increasingly rare. Society is permafucked.

[@M1ch43l33]

The type of guy to send money to a nigerian prince

[@lesnoyelf228]

I always wondered why "fake gurus" and ponzi schemers get so much money, who are the people who willingly give them their hard-earned money. Now I understand. World is full of naive and even straight stupid people like guys in this video. Makes me want to quit my welding job and apply for some kind of fake bank call center or those guys who "fix" laptops PC's washing machines etc for like $5000 per "driver" installed lol

[@Matty88301]

With regards to story 2....The dumbest person in this story is the AP of the wife. Guy gets cheated on by his wife and he's crushed....ends up trying to date a woman who is actively cheating on her husband for him. What an idiot. She'll get bored again after she gets her divorces with op and they start living that normal life with the excitement of the affair gone. If they'll cheat with you, they'll cheat on you.

[@trying.348]

Damn straight, the guy who was cheated was destroyed and ended up doing the exact same thing to another man making him feel the same way.

[@Just_144-w3e]

8 years old relationship still you people were girlfriend and boyfriend

[@shanebryant6478]

Bro she had hpv and was at random house why would you not immedialty go cheating

[@davidmccollum447]

That second ones how super villains are made bro loved her so much he vowed to never to speak again and still peayed for her happiness and health 😊

[@M1ch43l33]

How naive can one person be?

[@EkayLaive]

Damn this is sad. It’s so sad when it’s obvious one person loves the other too much😕

[@OPtimusPrimeXFUTBOL]

For both story 1 and 2 : Don't you dare make your love turn into sadness. Harness it to anger. Go to the gym and let all your anger out. Turn your sadness and love into hate and anger. Story 2: I think that you deserved half the pain you experienced. Why the f*ck would you give another chance to cheater? You'll never be able to trust and will experience the same pain over and over again. Good thing that you felt the pain and will be more careful from now on

[@Sashin-d8t]

Story 2 is a door mat

[@gamerkat1492]

story1 separate find a new place to live totally separate EVERYTHING

[@YamanekoshiroYoukai]

I have to admit that Google location can be funky & shown me in some random location I don't even know what it was, though I was in a very rural location. Cellphones hate having very few to no towers nearby. But the Uber receipt is undeniable for this particular story.

[@cienzen3077]

for story one, I kept saying “ah well lucky you didn’t get married yet, so the consequences aren’t to severe” but then I heard dogs and I’m like “take both dogs and run”

[@AdityaPrakash-ww6kr]

It's funny to think that the AP was also cheated on and still decided to give another man the same pain he had suffered........i guess people do anything for themselves to be happy

[@BigRed1595044]

I don’t feel bad for this guy. No one deserves to have to deal with infidelity but no one deserves to be in a relationship that’s mostly hard work consisting of getting through to an unenthusiastic spouse. Both suck.

[@samanthavang1564]

Complacency could be the death of marriage if it's not taken seriously. It's sad that most people will not see the problem in their marriage until someone says they'll leave.

[@kimberlynocelotl5601]

on 16:58 it's my b day lol

[@aesthetic_vibess69]

Im speechless rn

[@KotoneShiomi98]

Story 2 I'm wondering why yall even got married? It seems very toxic..

[@thousandyardgavri2785]

Marriage counselling after cheating is so CRINGE

[@docsalty9679]

So, idk if I missed something, but where the hell was there any hiking trips?

[@donaldkue2364]

Love does all kinds of things to a person's soul...... And senses, it seems!

[@lalvarez5151]

Story 2- YTA for putting her name on the house title *face palm*

[@thousandyardgavri2785]

A person pretending to love you? Man that's worse than an enemy

[@9351jb]

Just make up a fuckin name and stop saying family friends

[@TheMsmith77]

Single life ain't bad. No kids, abuse, lies, humiliation and disrespect. I'm good every time I hear or see things like this.

[@kai_theweeb]

Did they censor the word “marriage” 15:19

[@_Dynamight_]

I don't like the first guy. He seemed off.

[@legiontepes3474]

Title is misleading. Not cool dude.

[@LathropLdST]

Truncated stories? Nope.

[@niklasfisk2444]

I would love for you to upload to Spotify

[@brianarnold8666]

Never. Take. Back. A. Cheater.

[@niklasfisk2444]

1

[@nathanjennings1388]

For story 2 someone who's partner cheats and divorces them does not go and try to break up another marriage because they know that pain. I'm fairly certain that guy was just blowing smoke, or it was a story they together created to justify her infidelity.

[@darcash1738]

then ya gotta hike on her cheating trips and become a world class icon of your nation. thatll show her

[@bigpapazo]

minute and a half in ... not condoning what she did but I understand why

[@javionsweatt7311]

She just didn’t care

[@SadBoys.1996]

is this guy downs ?

[@anthonyschutz9623]

Dude is so spineless

[@jackmcfetridge]

Been doing good but no notification about 2+ stories at that start is always a downvote from me at this point, from anyone

[@clay5291]

For some reason I feel the dude in the first one is a control freak but is trying his best to make himself look better

[@juliearmfield2634]

Well people often feel the people that are lying to are being controlling when they call him out and questioned their lies

[@clay5291]

@@juliearmfield2634 not that but he was controlling before and his responses were very different than most of these stories

[@C.G.Gaster]

I highly disagree. He was told something, then she went against it. When he wanted to hold her to her words, she got upset. Controlling is him saying, "Be here or the relationship is over," with no discussion.

[@princessqueen6881]

I don't think so,he's very organized it seems. Doesn't mean he deserved to be cheated on.

[@juliearmfield2634]

@@clay5291 how was he controlling?