LisaRaye Addresses The Birthday Surprise | Cocktails with Queens

LisaRaye addresses her Da Brat Birthday surprise from last week on Cocktails with Queens...
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[@greenbyrdd8308]

She had time to think and reflect on the situation, and she apologized, while still standing in her truth. That's what a grown woman does. Respect to LisaRaye.

[@3BuckHead]

Aging beautifully.

[@wm8673]

THANK YOOOOUUU!!

[@georgiasweetpotato7170]

#GreenByrdd "....think and reflect.....and read them comments 🤣 the internet is BRUTAL 😂 I'll be cussing mofos out all day if this was my job 😅 but Lisa Raye handled that very diplomatically, if I do say so myself 🤗✌

[@greenbyrdd8308]

@@georgiasweetpotato7170 Yes, she did!😁

[@wm8673]

@@georgiasweetpotato7170 Right

[@DynamicallyDC]

Claudia said no more surprising LisaRaye, I don't want to get cussed out again. 🤣🤣 Love to see these Queens in true support of one another.

[@markiscouch6729]

Agree

[@angelaanderson7011]

🤣🤣🤣

[@ericabelcher8760]

Lmao 😂

[@kimjordan8151]

😂 😂 😂

[@manola22]

Amen

[@bwall4747]

This was funny af......this is how real friends hang out and talk about situations and all you ladies look beautiful

[@stylecollective-qt9um]

They show up gorgeous every week. I love it. It reminds me of all our Old School black stars from the 1950s-1980s when ladies were ALWAYS FLAWLESS.

[@mariastewart8810]

LOL! I know right!! :-0

[@natnat8254]

Right 100%

[@sparr5132]

This show really shows how we "black" folks interact, we have a moment, apologize and then find humor. This is the realist show and these women bring it every episode!!

[@sparr5132]

@Candace candace Never used the word "all".

[@sparr5132]

@@Multifacted_Brotha exactly, I was relating it to black folks. In conversation when speaking of a group, it should be understood that "all" doesn't apply.

[@courtr1588]

@@sparr5132 Let 'em know!

[@876me7]

Why are you applying this to “black people”? This is how these four ladies talk. It has nothing to do with black ppl as a collective smh.

[@veronicajohnson9344]

Black folks especially black woman, especially southern black women...find it very difficult to apologize.

[@havenhart4712]

I wish Syleena would stop hurting us with these looks. Goodness she is gorgeous and she has inspired me to get off the quarantine couch and workout.

[@kimbaker4169]

I’m in awe of that queen!! STUNNING !!

[@darinj2033]

She is Freaking Gorgeous!! ❤

[@havenhart4712]

@All cap I think it's moreso that the shade of foundation doesn't completely match. It's so difficult to get the right shading. I have to mix two different foundations to match my shade perfectly. And these high definition cameras make it worse lol.

[@get2danews925]

syleena looks beautiful with make up n without make up she just has that natural beauty

[@deemaverick987]

Good for you. I envy.

[@pookie7469]

Syleena is such a beautiful woman so pretty

[@pookie7469]

HOSTILE MGTOW well that is your opinion and I have mine is a pretty woman to me

[@pookie7469]

HOSTILE MGTOW look what I’m not gone do is go back and forth with you all black woman are beautiful in there own with or without makeup just like any other race and I can compliment any one I want to with or without makeup if you didn’t like the comment just keep on moving

[@pookie7469]

What are you what do you look like your sad and pathetic to be honest all woman are beautiful and I said what I said she look pretty too me

[@jutuanford6666]

HOSTILE MGTOW she has on a wig 🤷🏽‍♀️ so what! Ever one of them have weave in not just her. Give credit when credit is due a of these women are beautiful

[@pookie7469]

Jutuan Ford girl I don’t have it in me to go back and forth with that person don’t can’t even show there real face as a profile people gone always judge us no matter what we do

[@sarahwatson6285]

Lisaraye kept it real she showed no fakeness on how she felt real woman

[@denise6774]

I'm glad she apologized. It's a difference between being real and being rude and disrespectful . It's a time and place for everything that conversation could have been handled better than that.

[@DunDone_IT5252]

@@denise6774 when you real you acting in the moment no time for rational thinking with raw emotions over the people you love...big difference she loves her sister...Syleena explained it perfectly!

[@chantellea9938]

@@DunDone_IT5252 "when you're real you're acting the moment no time for rational thinking". Do you have any idea how stupid, immature and possibly how dangerous that mentality is?

[@ThisIsMeVernD]

@@chantellea9938 Exactly. When being real goes wrong. Her own sister (who was clearly gay) didnt want to talk to her about that or a relationship she happy in finally. LisaRaye clearly was wrong and the other women think so too. People need to soften up and learn to keep they "realness" in the time and place pocket.

[@veronicajohnson9344]

@@denise6774 ..it is called self discipline.

[@mzd296]

I need a friend like Lisa Raye because she's Real! She's not even fake for the camera- I love it! You don't find too many people like this these days!!!💖💞💞🤷🏾

[@TJWC]

She's real bitter.

[@thegraynay]

Family can hurt you deeper than anyone... that's not bitter, that's pain.

[@demesmith8741]

Yeah, when u find a tru friend th@'s real @ all times u Hold on 2 them.💗

[@DunDone_IT5252]

Indeed love her💖💖💖💖💯💯💯

[@sonyab2u974]

@@thegraynay Facts!

[@denicejohnson9800]

This is an excellent example of the relationship between black Queens. I love the way that everyone is able to be themselves without being judged by one another.

[@arielelisa9012]

Denice Johnson amen

[@pamelaowens3826]

Datprt

[@AlppleJuice]

So well said Syleena! Black women deserve the space to express their emotions fully.

[@Yvonnexoxo]

Society doesn't want to "see" a woman, especially a black woman feel. It's a sad truth for many.😥

[@serenity2655]

And to apologize and be forgiven. Space to create something else/new.

[@idivorcedit]

This was not the space to air her grievances.

[@carilyncathey7829]

Syleena's hair and makeup is EVERYTHING!

[@ereese6479]

Syleena sitting there looking like a queen 👑.

[@HeBSingN]

E Reese the regality of it all 😭

[@lifeisthedash]

always classy...not ashy

[@ariahlea]

💕🥰

[@markiscouch6729]

Yes

[@BecomingVirtuous]

Just gorgeous

[@ghenyajordan5205]

At the end of the day. Like Lisa Raye said..the Bratt ain't goin no where..She said they sisters forever.. family.. nothing will ever change that Love they have for one another ❗

[@teejaip]

I had a similar situation in my family but unfortunately the death of one of the people changed everything. No one has forever. Tomorrow isn't promised. I wish them well and hope they make amends.

[@Cornbreadfed82]

Period.

[@carameltee]

That’s true. But Lisa Raye shouldn’t wait for Brat to call her, she could pick up the phone and call her too. To me it sounds like she was waiting on her to call. She kept saying she was waiting for her call. Also why was the Brat so afraid to talk to her? Well I hope they work things out. They are sister’s and love each other I can tell.

[@trishad1016]

I like the fact that Lisa Raye apologized. She is on her grown woman sh**. Considering she owned what she said.

[@1handsmoke565]

Yes ma’am. I would have done the same because the surprise caught her off guard after not communicating in months. Bratt used the other women as mediators between them two. The REAL McCoy was there. No fake ness that’s for sure.

[@lamarfinesse8753]

Dang Saleena STAY looking good and healthy!

[@chersono5506]

Syleena baby you're pretty af😭😭

[@mikicromartie950]

That part 😍😍

[@denitapcaldwell]

Lisa Raye went straight Chicago, "Candy Man" Style on last Sunday's show!!! She had errrrrbody sitting in the corner in timeout, scared to talk, blink, ask to go to the bathroom, ask for a drink of water etc....but we understand "emotions make you cry/cuss sometimes" remix!!!! I can't remember who sung that song!!! Peace and blessings!!!

[@nichellecrisp3889]

H-town song 🎵 it

[@nichellecrisp3889]

H-town 🎵 song it

[@TajBeautyTv]

Not CandyMan style 😭😭

[@mrshappilymarried1]

Candyman!!! Lmao!!!😂🤣😅😆🤣😂🤣😅😆

[@rosehiggins6510]

Taj Beauty Tv 😂😂

[@pookie7469]

Honestly I just respect the realness because families go through things it may have not been the best platform for it to happen but families fall out things happen Lisa was hurt and Brat knows her sister so why would you even go on the show knowing y’all haven’t talked... but they are family and no one should come between that... I hope the best for both of them 💞

[@preciouswilliams22]

THAT PART👏👏👏👏👏

[@Renee_nf094e]

Your comment reflects every word of what I said. 💯🙌🏾

[@DunDone_IT5252]

Well said!!!

[@niecy5425]

Exactly💯

[@Klisa888]

Syleena is looking amazing with that hair and eyebrows girl I'm here for it I want that look lol

[@diamondis4ever]

A woman apologizes and move on and with real friends y'all can laugh about the shit. This was cool.

[@IamNefatari]

That shit was funny AF. Vivica was like all righty then let me shut up. Selina was like what the hell just happened and poor Claudia she damn near turned into an alcoholic. I laughed my ass off. I'm an only child but I saw the sister love. It's just that the Brat was so embarrassed and that hurt me. I love you both.. 😘😘😘

[@lifeisthedash]

Look when your gay and find the love of your life your keepin them. Your siblings..we grew up together and we had our time and have our memories. Brat needs a love life and a companion. Lisa had hers and we didnt see brat involved

[@JacqlynCharles]

You funny AF

[@707tich]

Nepheteri Johnson the last part of your statement that’s what I’m sad about

[@MoDavI-sl7iy]

😀😂😆

[@TheAlkebulanTrust]

At the end of day it's family first and Lisa and DaBrat will be able to sort out what ever problems they are facing.

[@ronij7212]

Even if its family, doesn't give her the right to be disrespectful. I have to say I am team Brat on this situation. Ill be back on Linares side next Monday. Lol

[@DunDone_IT5252]

@@ronij7212 nah Brat knew they hadn't spoke and she knows how she is she should have not came on the show as someone stated earlier! She knows her sister better than we will ever know her and at the end of the day they will always be Family!

[@Gonk]

@@DunDone_IT5252 Yeah, tho I did kinda wish DaBrat would have opened up and talked back at her sister and just squash it there and then cuz that's what LisaRay really wanted. Instead, DaBrat just went into silent scared little sister mode and made LisaRaye look crazy asf lol.

[@queenyolo9418]

Right. They Just Need To Settle It Off Camera 🤗 In Due Time🙏🏻

[@sugababy559]

@@Gonk the reason y is cause they are not kin AT ALL!! They are ex lovers and Lisaraye mad cause da brat found a new true love. If u don’t believe me go to google n c if u c any childhood pics of them together. Anything?? Nope only grown pics. Good look at the episode again. Lisa said “y’all don’t know 💩, she know (meaning da brat knew”. That’s y Lisa was so mad. Cause Lisa lonely n da brat found love

[@kwallace3821]

This panel is so good

[@larkt6693]

Okay Janet SNL throb

[@kwallace3821]

@@larkt6693 say less, Damita jo

[@DelGloTa]

NOW THIS....You get my respect on this Lisa Raye!

[@theteespotofficial]

All of you ladies are beautiful but Syleena is drop dead gorgeous 😍

[@marsswep2794]

Isn't she? I thought the same thing as well

[@jaysmith886]

Yes

[@cats1921]

I agree!!

[@diva1675]

Did she lose weight too?

[@Linda-dr4wq]

I like Lisa Raye realness. She seems like the person who if she has something to say to you she will say it and not behind your back.

[@mekaluvzpj]

There's a difference between realness and Plano being mean because you're miserable

[@idivorcedit]

@@mekaluvzpj exactly! And she was mean. It’s obvious that she is unhappy with her life. Money cannot make you happy.

[@Rhythm973]

I could tell by her lighting that day, she just was not in the mood.

[@woke1497]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 her lightning was off

[@princesspoetess775]

NOT THE LIGHTING 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@veeceey1073]

Lmaoooooo the room was dark as hell😂

[@TerryOnDemand]

It was definitely the lighting and the wig for me! We still "Luh her" though! lol

[@newnew4142]

It was dark in there

[@JOVIJOLEE]

"At all..." on a t-shirt plz lol!! I love the energy!!

[@cordbarnes]

Syleena’s “WELL...” is everybody in 2020🤣

[@jlizwashington]

Yes!!!!!

[@2KGrind09]

Da Brat should have said "I don't know ya'll I haven't talked to her she might not recieve that too well" that's how you handle things like a grown up, don't show up & hope they don't go off & shake your head when they do.

[@lillovespurple]

@Melissa Diamond LMAO!

[@Tee-kc3pn]

@Melissa Diamond Da brat knew better... that's her sister

[@mariedesignz1659]

She could have said that but then not knowing was probably like, nah it will be fine... Brat knows Lisa and wishing her a happy Birthday she knew what could happen just decided it was worth it

[@honeywest39j95]

Cells HD lol...tell em!!!😂😅🤣

[@marianoxx2884]

I think she didn't wanna them to know about them having issues. That's a form of respect to family business, because also rejecting the idea of friends would raise eyebrows. So I respect her for that she was an adult enough

[@stylecollective-qt9um]

Y'all know we getting up in age when we can't see without our glasses, because when Claudia just said without her glasses all the ladies look blurry I felt that in my SOUL. I had the same reaction not being able to see if Lisa Raye was happy or p.o'd at her baby sister showing up 😂

[@trulyunbroken7548]

Yes huney, I thought I was the only one. I wonder why Claudia didnt have em on, tryna be too cute? Lol Girl better put them thangz on. 🤓

[@iblaqgold]

😂😂😂😂😂 the fact that this was addressed tho in the comments tho!!! 😂😂😂😂 and the fact that I’m in my 30s and can relate too. AND THAT THIS WAS THE ONE COMMENT THAT TRULY RESONATED 😂😂😂😂 def getting up there in age girl.

[@Yespls888]

She has me laughing with that. She was like I thought she was happy, till I heard her cussin 😂

[@SoItzNewNew]

That episode was the epitome of expressing multiple emotions at the same time! LisaRaye felt loved & hurt at the same time and that's what makes us emotionally intelligent women so thank you for that Ms. LisaRaye.

[@JAVONEETHEMOMMY]

Claudia better wear her glasses or some contacts so she can read the room better 😂

[@jenniferlouden6859]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@tinawalls2088]

😂

[@zee_lolaj7382]

FACTS🤣

[@avansutton20]

Tessa's because she read it all wrong

[@kenyafreeman230]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@SoonSarah]

Syleena looks gorgeous 😍

[@2023NoThanks]

I love how real Lisa raye kept it in the other video. Sometimes you can control your emotions and don't really care for other's opinion when you're in the moment and it happens. Now that she's had time to deflect, she can see her fault in the issues and apologize to those that may have not deserve the way she spoke to them. I appreciate how they all handled it, like grown women and true friends. Like " yeah it was messed up, but we accept your apology and we can laugh about they situation together, cause girl you was give the business." I fight with my sisters, sometimes they can get really bad, but me and my sisters are close, and overtime we eventually make up and moving on. As I feel Lisa Raye and Brat will do.

[@bigsisjamarie96]

💘...True friends have real conversations sometimes emotions are high,tense, & w "Sisters" Loud...But when th calm comes we realize we have to apologize for our acts/words....Lisa Raye has always been th truth & a real "Grown a$#* "Woman" for her apology....Some of us could learn to be truthful w ourselves about how we feel...Lisa & Da Brat are goin to b fine 🙂....

[@UmohowetYelayu]

If that’s how Lisa Raye behaves, I can TOTALLY understand why Da Brat doesn’t want anything to do with her. Brat said that Lisa doesn’t know how to talk to people, and in just a few minutes, Lisa PROVED HER RIGHT. She began making passive-aggressive attacks against Brat and guilt-tripping, then CURSED OUT HER OWN COHOSTS & FRIENDS who were only trying to diffuse the situation. Notice how Brat started behaving like a scared little girl: that’s trauma there. Brat is ALWAYS confident, outspoken, and assertive, but here she is reduced to a state where she can’t even communicate. That’s deeper than just respect for her big sister: that’s fear and forced silence. Worse yet, like so many toxic family members, Lisa Raye just wants to assign blame. She doesn’t pause to ask herself WHY her little sister would disconnect from her for months and not send her a wedding invitation. Instead she creates a narrative where she has done nothing wrong, Brat is totally evil for excluding her and “abandoning” her. She has to be the victim. There’s pain on both sides, but Brat forgave her enough to want to make a public declaration of love, but she can’t forgive Brat enough to accept it and handle the rest in the proper space. And I hate when people defend their bad behavior with “‘I can’t be fake”, “that’s just how I am”, or “I’m keeping it real”. FORGIVENESS, hearing the other person’s view to gain a full understanding of how things went wrong, personal accountability, and appropriate communication, are NOT being “fake”; that’s being wise. Saying “we have some stuff we need to work on, but right now, I see you’re coming with love and I accept that and we’ll handle the rest at a later time” is not being fake; that’s being mature! If your version of “keeping it real” is violent, abrasive, non-forgiving, and petty, then you need to work on creating a more positive authentic self. And if that’s just how you are, then you need to change it. If I were Brat, I would continue to have nothing to do with her until she changed. You can’t keep making excuses for toxic & abusive family members or giving in to them or they will never change. Love to Brat.

[@bridgettesmith3379]

Thank you, right on point. Lisa Raye is mean as hell, and talking to people any kind of way ain’t cool, I don’t care about “that’s how she is”, she’s hurtful and doesn’t care about anybody’s feelings. Da Brat didn’t want her around with that kind of energy while she was happy enjoying her moment, and I don’t blame her.

[@JacksonStorms-mv7yb]

Whew, chile...THANK YOU. You said what I thought too. I thought Nene was the queen of ego...nah Lisa took the crown. Empress of Gas Lighting.

[@angelaalston971]

I understand how Lisa felt. My favorite uncle passed and I was the last to know. I was sooo hurt but ok...I have side eyed family members every since that...

[@imike8252]

The worst way to find out family died is down at the bar having a drink casually scrolling through Facebook... 🤚🏽.... that was crazy... 🤦🏽‍♂️ there had to be a better way to notify family. That’s when you know where ur place is at frfr in the fam... don’t even get a personal call.

[@marsswep2794]

iMike 825 WOW

[@mscardioqueen]

Your family members are cold. They knew how much you loved him and intentionally kept that info from you because you Loved him so much. Jealously is a terrible emotion! People don't think rationally when they're jealous.

[@Teebee407]

I think we have to weigh options on why. I have a situation where I revealed information to my brother first but to my mom last. It's because history had shown that whenever I gave her information, I was guilted into shame. So my mechanism, was to tell my brother to have his support FIRST. I wonder if Brat has a history of where she's judged by Lisa.

[@talented1602]

Angela Alston, I've been in that situation AND YES YOU SIDE EYE FAMILY!!

[@mrshappilymarried1]

" I meant what I said.."😂🤣😅That's right LisaRaye!

[@ChiChiKeiannaJ]

I love the sisterhood here. 💕

[@tspcocktail]

A pre recorded message from da brat probably would've been more effective. Then Lisaraye could've dealt with her emotions later.

[@neodeisha83]

Gooood oneee yesss

[@taylordowning2533]

It should have been dealt with privately

[@imike8252]

That was hilarious... I still am going back to watch that clip in nervous laughter ...as an older sibling I get it though.

[@desmoneketron8184]

LISA IS THE TRUTH PERIOD A LIBRA IS NOT GON BE FAKE IF THEY FEEL SOME TYPE OF WAY YOU WILL KNOW

[@ericabutler5506]

Exactly

[@SDMA1989]

One of the realest moments I’ve ever seen and so glad it was captured. Love all of these women. ❤️

[@IamQuisey]

This is what Quality woman look like and speak like and represent themselves. ❤️❤️Love these Woman. Especially together.

[@priin.3985]

Yo! Syleena is out here lookin' like money. That is all. Carry on.

[@SLees-tv7gh]

If keeping it real was a person it would be Lisaraye...mad respect.

[@lyricw.9815]

I love her apology cause she started out with (I meant what I said!) 😂😂😂😂 she’s a trip but I know she loves her sister a lot...

[@sandyluis7547]

Lmaoooo....can't be no realer than thst one line opener. It determines how to proceed with the convo😂😂

[@scribe712]

No apology necessary. LisaRaye kept it real.

[@yvonnebishi5723]

Lisa Raye, Thanks for being a grown woman for apologizing to us your fans, and to the Queens. But at the end of the day we make mistakes but for you to think about it and come back and say the things you said have more respect for you. "HAPPY BIRTHDAY DAY" again to you! Love to all of you and THE DA BRAT.

[@jkeamoai]

Here after LR’s actual birthday surprise & this is thee most entertaining show I’ve watched this whole pandemic 😳😂

[@casarose36]

Syleena's hair is giving me Chapter 1: Love, pain and forgiveness album cover! Love it!!!

[@rjs1602]

So no one took heed that LisaRae's own daughter said she didn't think it was a good idea🤔 Someone (don't know who) knew this could possibly go left.

[@trulyunbroken7548]

Right! 💯

[@deonsellers9749]

What's even crazier is that it seems like Lisa's daughter told Brat it wasn't a good idea.All the ladies said "oh really didn't know that" when she said it but why would they try to act like they weren't told when it's clear Lisa already knows🤷🏿‍♀️

[@trulyunbroken7548]

@@deonsellers9749 I think the producers of the show was told and the ladies werent given a heads up, then after the fact Lisa's daughter probably told her that she told the show b4hand. That's what Im thinking... still that was not cool, if someone knew it might not be a good idea.

[@crystalw7750]

the producers was told that, not the ladies...

[@deonsellers9749]

Cool story bro@@trulyunbroken7548 👏🏿 Except that would mean Claudia knew beforehand 🤷🏿‍♀️🙋🏿‍♀️

[@WALLACE0000]

Lisa THEY PLAYING THAT PART ON TIKTOK🤣🤣🤣

[@kinamiller9613]

It's super popular on tik tok rn

[@pamelaowens3826]

I fell you LisaRaye! I understand,, you are so real. Thts what I love about you.

[@LeviStrauss777]

Maan I watched the ENTIRE clip about 15 times. I knew exactly where Lisa was coming from because appearantly we aren't who I thought we were.

[@benergy100k2]

Hey ladies, another day another piece of ideas from the sisters 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾

[@demim2185]

I LOVE this show! This is the “The Real” show to me! I love how everyone can laugh and discuss as to what transpired

[@marcellajackson17]

These queens 👑 are all gorgeous. They're not aging at all.

[@NerveWrecker06]

Love that Lisa Raye!

[@amo8728]

So glad to see Lisa turn that energy around. What I like about her "realness...100 or whatever you wanna call it" is that she's not to proud to apologize and she welcomes that same realness to be reciprocated. Kudos to you honey!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@lakeshiaball1609]

Love Lisa she’s a real one love ❤️ how she not only keeps it real but she apologized to the ladies and admitted she was wrong

[@nicolewilliams1636]

LisaRaye let it go!!! Many people have lost their sister and family members to COVID - you are blessed to to see her face and speak with her. LET IT GO!!! DEATH IS HURT AS WELL

[@Ss-mc6cy]

Syleena just looks so gorgeous every time I see her whatever she is doing with that workout and eating is on point.

[@vashandawingo3995]

Im glad she apologize on the show and yes real friends should be able to call you out when you are wrong. I love their bond and the show.

[@alvinesehenderson4127]

In my opinion, anytime a person feel like they have to distance themselves from close relatives or stop communicating when they enter into new relationships that's unbalanced .....I hope The Brat is truly happy and I pray for her and LisaRaye

[@eyt1985]

I have thought about that as well and can agree with you on it!! That’s always what I’ve seen!! Like they stay away from the one fam members that can tell if they truly happy and can some what see thru the BS

[@JSykes-dk5gp]

I said the same thing.

[@aliveprosperous3411]

Absolutely, something ain't right.

[@neodeisha83]

Faaacts

[@mekaluvzpj]

I see it a whole nother way. Because sometimes you could be very happy in a relationship and so in love and you may not share it with certain people in your family because they may be very negative people who bring nothing but negative energy and you don't need that disrupting your peace and your happiness.

[@471lynnette]

I was so impressed and moved by how you all handled the situation. So much love

[@GvannD]

Syleena looks gorgeous!

[@racyo8755]

I love LisaRaye and the rest of the Fellow Queens, I love the way that they held her down 🌹

[@numberonebb99]

That’s why as an older woman I try not to say things I have to go back and readdress or apologize for. You can’t un-say something once it’s said. We have to realize when we get emotional about something we have the power to make that emotion positive or negative. Keeping it real and hurting someone you love doesn’t have to be the same thing.

[@LaSheaT]

It's okay Lisa Raye. We still love you. I understand everyone handles matters differently and when you don't know why you aren't being communicated with on such big news it is hurtful. That was nice of you to apologize and I am praying for you and your sister's relationship to get better🙏❤

[@jsunshyne87]

My Mother and I just love LisaRaye. She is a fierce, honest woman. I love Vivica as well, I want that top!

[@mekakoop9777]

Some people in the comments seem to be confused. LisaRaye said she meant what she said. But she was apologizing to her co-hosts/friends for her behavior on the show. Much respect to LisaRaye. And I hope she and Da Brat can repair their relationship.

[@Yespls888]

Yeah people super miss details. It amazes me. But yes much love to both of them. Hope they're able to mend.

[@walterarchie5388]

That was big of her to come out and explained her actions and apologized

[@indigobeauty1]

This is what sisterhood looks like...discussing difficult moments, creating a safe space, goal should be to move forward and a pinch of sense of humor 🤍🙌🏽

[@kimberlymcneill7283]

Now THIS is the show that can literally be labeled as "The Real" 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾😍😍

[@NkrumahTure]

Those are 4 of the most beautiful and talented women in entertainment..,. Salute. ☕

[@curveofmyhips76]

I get it! I totally understand how she feels. I found out my sister had a whole ass wedding on FB! It is what it is...and you have to let that shit go. You'll hear from them eventually. Whatever the excuse may be.

[@KristieT203]

I truly the love the chemistry of you queens! 👸🏾 You are all authentic beings, true to yourselves! LisaRaye, much respect for always keeping it real! I pray you and Da Brat have a real convo soon and kill any negative energy. Y’all are all my friends in my head! 😂❤️

[@jilpope3659]

I miss this show! Salute to the Queens for 4 years of entertainment, friendship and Sisterhood. It helped me through the Pandemic.❤

[@sarcasm176]

The fact that da brat still hasnt called her sister post bday says enough. Theres more to the story. With time things may get better for the both of them

[@sinamen516]

Brat said it's not beef, seems more like ego or pride at this point. I'm sure they'll work it out in due time.

[@brittanymarshall5721]

Yeah, she’s probably just embarrassed and processing it. They’ll be fine though.

[@adrienneb9935]

I wouldn’t be calling her either, to be honest.

[@soleinaarnold3282]

@MyMy Haley I think brat no punk and her girl seems so cool sometimes siblings have to fall back

[@thisblackgirlslife]

I’m from Chicago and I can tell u exactly what happened because this happened with my mother. Some people use others to gaslight u. Brat knew that she screwed up her relationship with LisaRaye and triangulated those women into getting close to Lisa. That’s what’s up. The point was to pop up, get LisaRaye in her feelings, falsely make people believe that Lisa was going in for no reason and now Brat is the victim. It’s gaslighting 101. Did u notice that Brat sat back and said nothing while everyone else took the punishment fir something she did? It’s called triangulation.. the proof is that brat has still not contacted LisaRaye. They never do. Don’t confuse what happened with normal family dynamics. What u saw is LusaRaye being hurt for the last time by someone who manipulates her.

[@mekaluvzpj]

@Robin Wize Feline OMG I am so happy to finally find somebody who is on the same page with me. Brat said they did not have bad blood, only distance due the pandemic. She also said she was afraid to tell Lisa about her publicly coming out about Jessica because she was afraid of what she would say. Lisa completely disrespected her sister. Brat was trying to mend that distance. Brat did not have to pick up the phone and call Lisa first to tell her who she was sleeping with and who she was loving on and in love with, that's her damn business. Vivica even said it! I feel like Lisa is miserable and misery loves company. Brat is so happy and so in love and she's embracing it and her sister completely embarrassed her and made her shut down on that live. Brat was fighting back tears and she didn't want to speak anymore, it was hard to watch and it was hurtful and it was wrong. Because of that treatment from Lisa their relationship is going to be different forever. Brat Will Never confide in Lisa about anything close and personal anymore mark my words! Lisa ruined there relationship and has now set the tone for it because of how she treated her on that live! It'll be a longer break this time between them talking. Lisa is going to have to pick up the phone and apologize to Brat and even then it still won't make it better!

[@honeywest39j95]

The Swirl Experience that’s possible. It does happen.🤷🏾‍♀️

[@curlybroh3836]

I love the friend dynamic that these 4 ladies demonstrate.

[@nacrn6826]

I love the love. I love the rawness. Yall aren't messy. You all are REAL divas nothing but respect

[@rjs1602]

Vivica always listens just enough to jump in to speak. This was LisaRae's time and she couldn't even give her the floor long enough to express her feelings in their entirety. Vivica is the epitome of EEEEEXTRA!!!

[@veronicadave1450]

Rjs .I agree . Vivca makes me cringe with her loudness and interruptions. I dont want the show to turn into a circus . Hopefully Claudia can manage the flow and keep the essence and integrity of the show intact.

[@trulyunbroken7548]

I thought that too, but had to give her a pass when I heard LR say what she did for her birthday. Aww... she be trying, guess that's jus Viv. Lol

[@rjs1602]

@@trulyunbroken7548 And I have no doubt that she's a good friend but reel it in a little and stop interrupting😐

[@trulyunbroken7548]

@@rjs1602 😅

[@yllwtrose4526]

That's straight up LisaRaye McCoy, unapologetically her Chi-Town self. Always love the real always will.

[@JustHeavenlyThings]

Yall funny as hell! Thank you for being real. LOL

[@melc6017]

That moment was real and I can actual appreciate the authenticity of the moment AND the acknowledgment as well as apology afterwards. Let’s keep implementing REALNESS on these platforms. 🙌🏾

[@gtzion6501]

Why is Lisa so bitter about Da Brat business,. when she didn't share her business with her And beside, did she ever try to reach out to Da Brat at any time? Always 2 sides to every story... I glad that Da Brat got quite & bow out. 🤗

[@sinamen516]

She said she's reached out multiple times and Brat hasn't responded. Brat in love and walking in her truth, seems like she hasnt learn to communicate that with her sister/family. Brat said there was no beef so they'll work it out eventually.

[@leggs4113]

Dang they still ain’t talked. I was hoping they would have made up by now.

[@katjones5187]

After that Cuss out, it's going to take, a little more time🤷

[@georgiasweetpotato7170]

@@katjones5187 yeah cause Brat seemed a bit hurt on the show po lil tink tink 😂 they gonna be alright tho 🤣

[@mekaluvzpj]

It's going to be an even longer break between them because of the way that Lisa talk to her. When you're in a relationship and you're in love you don't always tell your family and whoever it is who you're in a relationship with especially if it's the same sex relationship. Brat already said that she was afraid to tell Lisa and look at how she responds to her. I wouldn't talk to her either. Now she may not know it now but just because of the way that she treated her with that situation she has now set the tone for her and her sister's personal relationship she has changed everything. Bratt will probably never confide in her about things that are close and personal to her ever again!

[@leggs4113]

Timeka Brandon we all knew Brat was gay and people in her circle did too. she’s had relationships with a lot of other females. So there must be something about Jessica that Lisa doesn’t like for Brat to not feel comfortable telling her. Brat talked about another relationship with a female early on where she shut every one out. Hope she’s not doing that again.

[@mekaluvzpj]

Of course we all know that she was gay and if somebody say they didn't know it's because they didn't want to know. What Brat said was that she was afraid of how Lisa would respond to her coming out publicly about her relationship. It is what it. Lisa had no right to come at her sister like that about her personal relationship. Vivica even said when you're in love you don't always tell your family. And she's right. This was during the pandemic they were locked away loving each other. Like Brat said Lisa needs to understand that she's grown too. Brat didn't have to personally get on the phone and call Lisa and tell her nothing sister or not. I have six sisters and two damn Brothers. You tell who you want to tell your business to and that's exactly what Brat did. For whatever reason Lisa made her feel like she couldn't tell her. It's Petty as fuck! I'll be damned if somebody going to curse me out because I didn't tell them first who I was in love with are you kidding me kiss my ass better yet get a straw and drink from my ass with it!

[@niccijones2531]

I appreciate all your genuineness! My 1st watching was that last video lol. Sisters fight and disagree and I appreciate it all unfolding right in front of our 👀. Respect ladies ♥️

[@robertjwilliams9643]

I waited for this moment 😭😭😭 I knew they were going to laugh at this sounds like me and my friends 👑👑👑👑

[@pleasurepartytennine8677]

YOU LADIES ARE REAL....& I LOVE IT..... YOU ALL ARE MY FRIENDS IN MY HEAD.....HOWEVER INMUST ADMIT.... I STILL HOLD AN ISSUE WITH VIVCA A. FOX ... FROM YEARS AGO WHEN SHE FIRST STARTED OUT I WAS IN VEGAS ON A UNION TRIP AND MYSELF AND MY CO WORKER SAW HER ... I WAS SO EXCITED FOR HER ... WE WANTED A PICTURE AND SHE WAS NOT VERY NICE....... ITS 2020.... SO I HAVE TO LET THAT GO. THANK YOU LADIES FOR WHAT YOU DO IN THE CRAZY TIME.......LOVE & PEACE TO YOU ALL.....

[@sxm76]

Syleena is beautiful!

[@Faith4ever70]

I love these women’s authenticity 💕🥰

[@thatgirl4567]

😂😂😂 I was here for it! Keep it all the way real! My sis called me and told me abt the show. She went on to say that I was LisaRaye, and she was the Brat. So of course I had to watch the show. And yep, I would've reacted the same way😂😂😂❤❤❤. It's all love and good. It's family🤷🏿

[@pw6160]

The way lisaraye reacted towards da brat shows exactly why da brat felt as if she couldn't include her in the happiest day of her life. Lisa claiming she hurt but with her stank ass attitude she would've hurt brat at a moment when she's supposed to be her happiest! Obviously da brat knows her sister and there clearly was some past disrespect and disagreements for the brat to feel so strongly about leaving lisaraye out of it. All these comments are praising lisa, like "she's so real", please! She needs to humble herself and stop being so blatantly disrespectful, hurtful, and thinking her words, feelings and opinions are all that matters. She really has a God complex, believing that her advice, her words, her actions are always right and people need to obey and kiss her ass. She wasn't on her grown woman shit, da brat was when she decided to take a break from that negativity and toxicity and make decisions that bring her peace and joy.

[@queent6078]

Y’all really be reaching 😂

[@iceman4311]

As a little brother i understand the brat as you never want your older sibling to disapprove of you. Looking how lias raye acts it looked very strong that she could have gotten a disappointment from lisa and thats the biggest hurt in the world. Ypu can see the fear and sadness on Brats face. Thats little sibling fear. If you are never a little sibling you can never understand that. Even to this day as a 44 yr old man i look uup to my older brother and what he says means so much. Its almost like a idolization for little siblings

[@NatorrieLee]

Selena look way better with her hair like that and black is her color she need to stick with it

[@qianabrown3662]

She looks good however she decides to style her hair.

[@casarose36]

That's that 2001 Love, Pain and Forgiveness album cover hair! Love it!!

[@Fajri_Umar]

She can do whatever she want. Don’t do that

[@Fajri_Umar]

You need to stick with being yourself ❤️

[@nicolemitchell3156]

I love to watch you ladies! Thank you for always being real. You all are examples of real authentic queens expressing truth and raw emotion. 🖤🖤🖤🖤👸🏽👸🏽👸🏽👸🏽

[@adrianarnold1239]

I needed this comeback. I needed this. I needed to know what happened after the fact. So great job guys! Great job