How to seduce anyone according to psychology

[@kennethlopez6334]

I work in sales and this is true as well. People run away from desperation. As soon as you sound like a pushy salesman, you lose the sale

[@gianna3582]

Literally 100 true.

[@tcrijwanachoudhury]

True, gotta make it sound like they're the ones in control

[@porte-majestuoso]

Agree as a cuatomer

[@elijahmeza2479]

Work and sales and no cap here

[@laverdadbuscador]

if I get pushed too much (and it doesn't take alot to send me running) I will intentionally buy the competitors product out of spite. Commercials are a prime example of this. If I really want something I will go looking for it myself through days or weeks of research,...i don't need a guy thinking he can convince me to buy his product.

[@מיכלמיארה-ש9ע]

Basically, you are the most attractive when you are yourself. Definitely worked for me when I tried it :)

[@proximityclockworkx1572]

Only works when "being yourself" is the best version of yourself.

[@markbennett5812]

Doesn’t for me since I end up not talking to anyone or want to talk to people or see reason too talk or approach it’s like I don’t care I don’t need you and I don’t like that about my self

[@amandalidey329]

Yes & I believe that's what she means on speaking on "seduction." Definitely be yourself as well, which is attractive. Or u can have both traits that just come naturally. 🖤🤍

[@didoprince2391]

רוצה לשתף על החוויה שלך?

[@DianaRamirez-sm5nx]

Same

[@MavalocKing5050]

In a nutshell: don't try, just be natural, go with the flow. And I can confirm, this is true. Nothing good ever comes from desperation.

[@WoodyJ98]

Also- be attractive and not neurodivergent

[@kebman]

This is both true and untrue at the same time. If you have no water, how can you quench your thirst?

[@jsg_6758]

Everything works when... 1. Be Gorgeous 2. Have Great Communications Skills!!

[@Stealth991]

Step 1: be attractive

[@Cam-jx4drgh]

Step 2: Repeat step 1 until desired outcome is achieved.

[@Swwatter]

​@@Cam-jx4drgh no, it's Step 2: Don't be unattractive 😂

[@Chocolate-vr9cm]

Yes looks always trump everything. Very depressing.

[@davidmacamay7099]

Ngl these comments becoming cringe

[@Chocolate-vr9cm]

@@davidmacamay7099 Not cringe. Facts.

[@proximityclockworkx1572]

I'm so ahead of this "I don't care about the outcome of the situation" thing, that I don't even care to approach them xd

[@DiogoChris]

50 galaxies ahead of the game, I see Respect! 😌😂

[@extraterrestrialhorse9722]

Now you seduced me. Damn it. Intercontinental rizz.

[@ferndeluna7012]

Do you not approach them because you’re tied to the outcome aka rejection or acceptance?

[@proximityclockworkx1572]

@@ferndeluna7012 No, I don't approach them because it's a waste of time. They can't provide what I need and most likely vice versa.

[@zeppkfw]

Same they really just approach me but I'm just befriend everyone else except them 😂

[@stephenhughes5156]

So basically manipulate people without them knowing you are manipulating. Got it 😂

[@tomjones5338]

That's what women do all the time

[@rfichokeofdestiny]

There’s an old saying among actors and salesmen: the secret to success is sincerity; once you learn to fake that, you’ve got it made. Given how many people have said it, there must be some truth to it.

[@brandic89]

​@@rfichokeofdestiny But it's nearly impossible to fake sincerity.

[@rfichokeofdestiny]

@@brandic89 That’s why becoming a great actor is so hard.

[@brandic89]

@Jason Clouse Yes. But then, actors have a script and can immerse themselves in the truth of the story. They're locked into the character they're portraying for the moment, so for them, the story is their truth until they're done telling it, and after that, they may or may not be sincere individuals.

[@spookylittlebat5208]

Ah. So, this is how I keep accidentally seducing people… I treat every interaction as a potentially interesting conversation and every person as a potential new friend… things just develop organically if they’re going to, but there’s no wrong answer as to outcome 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@fotballidolfacts]

No. Most guys are shy and have no girls. Once a girl talk to them they fall in love immediately

[@spookylittlebat5208]

@@fotballidolfacts That might be true in some cases, more so with younger guys. But, I’m also talking about middle-aged guys and guys who already have partners.

[@stephenhughes5156]

I'm assuming youre a female. Yeh its not the same lol.

[@spookylittlebat5208]

@@stephenhughes5156 Well, the guys I’ve reciprocated feelings for also seem to have taken this approach. Just a couple of people enjoying each other’s conversation and company without expectation and whoopsy, now we’re an item. A guy only wanting one thing from me is just unappealing. Being pushy is unappealing. All or nothing is unappealing. Ulterior motives are unappealing.

[@motivatinglila]

this used to happen to me all the time at work, at school, neighbors 😅 when I was younger I would be so chill and then they would try to ask me out after hanging out in groups or just working on projects and it always caught me off guard 😅 but yeah I wonder if I actually try now if I still got it 😂

[@m4cemelodic]

im watching these and realizing i might be a terrible person lol

[@LONNESYRUPBITCH]

Likewise

[@rasheemthebestfirstone3274]

How

[@georgedanielsbiz]

Why ?

[@zeppkfw]

You just have high social intelligence.

[@MrFrankie4700]

Nah you just like talking to everyone and anyone

[@ProsperousBhavna]

The fact that i could not conclude anything out of this

[@jk12324]

She means don't try so hard. Just have fun and people will be drawn to that

[@thesilentmonk2815]

The fact you need brains to conclude anything out of this 😂😂😂

[@ProsperousBhavna]

@@jk12324 thanks . Much appreciated

[@ProsperousBhavna]

@@thesilentmonk2815 the fact that you don't have bairn cells either to understand humour

[@thesilentmonk2815]

@@ProsperousBhavna the fact you don't know how to spell brains show your brains 🤣🤣

[@-Leonelli-]

Yep, it's official, I'm dying alone

[@LittleMissHoop]

Awwww lol

[@superedits8668]

Basically, stop seeking validation and be the person you wanted to be when you were young.

[@JustChill-zd4ib]

No please don't be same as your young self it was very cringe.

[@Kate.Sangalang]

Yes this is true. You can instinctively feel when someone has an agenda.

[@brandic89]

Yes.

[@adaw332]

My boyfriend and I both had an agenda and noone cared... people who watch this kind of stuff are just insecure idiots. There's nothing better than showing it when you like each other. 'Play it cool' with the mentally strong and healthy and you'll end up with other manipulators just like you. Fullstop.

[@JustChill-zd4ib]

Some agendas are better than others. Also better to have some agenda than none at all.

[@Ialreadyhaveaname2]

@@JustChill-zd4ib Mmmmm....I think the Jews from the holocaust would disagree with that statement.

[@zicorojer2474]

This is bs… Someone either likes you or they don’t. There is NOTHING you can say or do if someone genuinely isn’t attracted to you to make them want you. That’s why you have to focus on yourself to become the best version of yourself. - dress well - take care of yourself - go to the gym - work hard Stop seducing people, instead ATTRACT.

[@tomcolton5662]

She literally just said that

[@jjhh320]

​@@tomcolton5662 yeah fr 😂

[@lpi3]

​@@tomcolton5662no, she said this verbally

[@SilverGreenEyes18]

Plenty of people do not even know what they want until someone convinces them.

[@skyerwalkhan]

thats not true

[@ImLost25]

“How to seduce anyone…” -proceeds to tell us not to seduce them

[@apxsports5904]

I think this video can be summed up in one word; genuinity beats acting. Furthermore, seduction and attraction are two different words which share some commonalities but are still distinct. Seduction by definition is an INTENTIONAL act; an ACTIVE/intentional form of persuasion to CAUSE attraction upon another individual or individuals. Attraction is a neutral word, in that it can have both the active and/or passive cause and EFFECT. When someone is being genuine, individuals who are drawn by the EFFECT of PASSIVE attraction.

[@pritamsamanta2698]

Bhagavad Gita Shloka : Karmanye vadhikaraste Ma Phaleshu Kadachana, Ma Karmaphalaheturbhurma Te Sangostvakarmani Meaning of the Shloka : Keep doing your work but avoid expectations of getting fruits in return. The fruits should not be the motive to act but neither should the detachment lead to inaction.

[@btf1287]

being outcome independent yields the best results in dating, business or job interview. it is a super power

[@JustChill-zd4ib]

Outcome is motivation people who say they are outcome independent are juts hiding from fear of not getting what they want. If you can take rejection, you don't need to be outcome independent just dust yourself off and to the next one. It still hurts tho every time.

[@btf1287]

@@JustChill-zd4ib very good point but there is a difference between truly being outcome independent and detached from ego and faking it out of fear. Its the same with people saying they are very upfront and sincere when in reality you are just rude and have poor self control. What i mean is that its rare to truly be most people just mask it knowingly or otherwiise

[@xXJM01Xx]

Lol this is something I found out much later in life than i would have liked but is 100% true. If you are really nonchalant with your interactions with people you will definitely come off as more attractive.

[@CorinthianIvory]

An air on nonchalance and detachment can back fire if it's not also supplemented with plenty of clear signs of interest

[@tyrox3274]

Exactly

[@Woo_Woo_Woman]

She's not saying that. She's saying not to be desperate.

[@adaw332]

@@Woo_Woo_Woman I was 'desperate' with my boyfriend. The difference is we both were. When will you understand there is NOTHING you can do to make someone love you? If you are naturally kind, it will show later on, anyway. What will you do, put a facade all the time? Smart way to live...

[@Woo_Woo_Woman]

@@adaw332 Of course you can't make someone love you. Love is generated naturally. All the best to you.

[@JustChill-zd4ib]

@@Woo_Woo_Woman I can totally make someone love me by loving them first and showing it lol. You can in fact generate emotions and feelings in people by projecting them yourself onto them. They will reflect same back to you. Saying "you can't do anything" is losers move who perceives themselves as incapable.

[@1737-m4e]

Hey I have been going through your shorts still “ing” because there are so many , but you actually made me interested in human psychology . I never knew I would be interested

[@calluminkster6892]

"Feel yourself", got it.

[@reinamachado9200]

Thanks for your advices, blessings

[@bhumi1451]

Your top colour and eye colour both matches perfectly 🔥

[@assassingenius7023]

Wow, green suits you!

[@silverkitty2503]

the most powerful way is when they want to be seduced by you ....and you want to be seduced by them

[@michaelz6555]

I’ve always said that seduction is the art of how I persuade a woman to seduce me.

[@meddem1925]

If they know they were manipulated then they weren't actually manipulated. And also, basically, be yourself and whoever likes who you will like you? In other words, there is nothing you can do.

[@romelcasillas2286]

That whole not like being tricked and manipulated is very true. Thanks for the advice. I need to learn to not get all googly eyed when I meet a woman I find attractive.

[@kebman]

Manipulation works. If you manage to manipulate yourself. ;)

[@chasingmypinnacle]

Women love being quietly manipulated, and not obviously manipulated.

[@JustChill-zd4ib]

yes exactly

[@kevinpatel6602]

This is " the most powerful" lines i got to hear from years about attraction

[@idkhowiendeduphere]

idk maybe I'm unconsciously seducing some people, I like to wear cute things and act cute just because I like it, but then some of my classmates say that I'm cute and they try to flirt me, and I still act innocent and I tried to have fun by matching their jokes especially the boys jokes, because I learned their jokes from my online friends and that works, the boys get comfortable to chat with me but they want to protect me in real life because I'm like a innocent pure girl lol. sometimes I feel guilty because it's like I'm lying about myself but I like it being cute outside

[@proximityclockworkx1572]

Try not to rely on your cuteness too much, because it doesn't last forever. Develop yourself as a person who also happens to be cute.

[@idkhowiendeduphere]

@@proximityclockworkx1572 yes of course, I'm trying to

[@tcrijwanachoudhury]

Same, its like you dont know if people actually like you for who you are. They like your mask.

[@chseylver4180]

@@tcrijwanachoudhury exactly, it's like people like yes people because they're always available but they don't respect you. Set healthy boundaries so the people who really are for you will find you and so you won't waste time caring for the the wrong people (users.)

[@dasskodly]

wtf i just read

[@sherlockholmes9066]

Not true for me. If I like you, I like you, and love seeing you pursuing me. It makes me feel good. End of story.

[@-SimonRiley]

You just like the attention and validation they give you, not them. If you really like that person you wouldn't give them a hard time and actually make effort yourself instead of pushing them even more to do everything themselves

[@Cam-jx4drgh]

​@@-SimonRiley have you met a woman before? That sounds like a pipe dream.

[@baki577]

Just tell me you're a shallow person

[@robertcuenca743]

And that's what a real woman says and feels❣️😎 Take heed fellas: if u truly like her, she will love the passion u put into, pursuing her.

[@robertcuenca743]

​@@-SimonRileysound like a woman hater

[@ek3241]

Thank you for everything Francesca, keep it up girl, I love you and your content

[@balasaravanan500]

Thank you very much 🙏. I needed this the most now

[@ryan_raus]

And this is why you never like the ones that like you, but the ones you like never like you back Edit: jk y’all it’s possible

[@michaelhussey440]

So true. If you are a bit indifferent you become more alluring. If you are very keen you diminish your value. Its a bummer isnt it ?!

[@Kalindi1975]

Your eyes are sooo magical😮😮

[@superedits8668]

I thought i was the only one who saw that😊

[@Kalindi1975]

@@superedits8668 nope

[@hufficag]

A girl at work was really into me, mutual understanding, going out, kissing me. I started sharing stuff, buy two cups of coffee instead of one, stuff like that. Buy a couple flowers when she's back from a trip. Just sharing the good life. She thought flowers means I'm chasing her, blocked me. But flowers are just sharing the good life, enjoying life together. I thought I already had her, she was into me. It's like anything you do at all can be construed as chasing a woman. Just don't talk to them, enjoy life by yourself. There's these restaurants and jazz clubs I want to take her to, but I can't, she's not talking to me anymore, she blocked me, even though we sit next to each other in the office.

[@ishhyishhy475]

sorry bro, just keep being yourself, don't take it personal. maybe she's going thru something and can't communicate it.

[@hufficag]

@@ishhyishhy475 thanks man

[@MedusssssaChristo]

She Is a coward & I am sorry she can’t be mature enough to communicate with you. Do you really want that?

[@szdrums1732]

Altul pe fyp meu. Bravo francesca! -Andrei de la the beat

[@konsyansnou8623]

Be yourself and go with the flow ... whole the one who wants your attention will make things happen and you'll think it's a natural and genuine connection

[@-Foxy-Fox-]

Just had to come to the comment section to say that shirt is an amazing color on you, it makes your eyes pop!

[@alexitopizarro2003]

If she like you, she likes you. Increase your income, get in shape, go out more, that's all you can do. No matter how much we try to change our personalities it's almost impossible. Just get out there and whatever happens happens. Use whatever technique you want, it won't change much.

[@unknown-sb6bt]

I love your lip colors❤

[@tomjones5338]

Here's advice be yourself stop chasing women

[@McComb_T]

God bless you for saying the truth bro.

[@francinestephens2426]

This is absolutely true...always works!!!

[@lorenzrosenthal119]

most elaborated "Just be yourself!" on the internets

[@soulfularchit.4564]

Very apt to the point perfect like the colour of ur t-shirt n matching with those eye balls

[@jorgerodriguez7990]

Indeed, she has a point! So accurate what she tells here!

[@kmladwig2666]

My boyfriend and I started out as friends ... We've been together for 3 years now. I hadn't even been looking for anything other than a good time at the gamers club as it was my first time there.

[@amaanullah13]

I don't remember asking 🤔

[@Daveeff]

​@@amaanullah13 i dont remember asking u to reply either

[@septuna]

Damn right girl. I ve tried this not tried but just come naturally and it is like this

[@lianna3367]

R u wearing lenses?? Cuz . Your eyes are so Beautiful.. specially that color😍

[@ErnestoSolarte-q8j]

Name of the song in the back? I've searched it for a lifetime. PD. Awesome analysis

[@Josecito777]

Beautiful explained in such few words... Awesome

[@mehdymousavi]

You deserve a like ❤

[@Stevedrills]

Thank you sister

[@TheCrutchbrigade]

Thank you. Love the accent.

[@woodshed_moments]

Psychology didn’t create seduction, psychology can’t define seduction, because the resident iniquities that are present to seduce are already resident, all you need is desire and savvy… Don’t overplay psychology, like democracy… most people have been told what it means, but actually have no clue what it actually is - it’s not your friend.

[@nuclearlefthook5008]

Sounds like you don't know what psychology or seduction is.

[@infinity1726]

Oh i can confuse the shit out of people. By being casual & light, self assured, confident & powerful, but also goofy and funny & sexy and friendly & cute but also restricted & mysterious & intelligent. I can be all that. People, including me are needy for attention and validation & love. Sometimes sticking to flirtation alone fulfils that for a short period. Going further is not needed with everyone.

[@Neojs565]

You are soo beautiful !!

[@jerrychen2302]

If I act like myself it doesn’t work, if I act differently it doesn’t work either lol

[@MB-wx2jp]

Same here lmao

[@amandalidey329]

She is definitely on point with seducing someone in those matters. I mean, if that is what u are into. I definitely agree with "happening naturally"

[@LizHKWealth]

Your eyes girl - amazing ❤

[@Ri-77]

Your eyes.. they're magical. I couldn't stop looking at them

[@sonnyh7606]

I wanna be more loving, so I'm sending you love Francesca, have a good one

[@brettmoyle1195]

Very good advice ..very good .

[@vaiibhavrana2125]

Will these principles work on this wonder lady?

[@xtdycxtfuv9353]

She’s mid

[@AyushRaj-z6r]

You're right !

[@Bunny13914]

As a naturally unattractive person, I see this as an absolute loss :)

[@amaanullah13]

Aww dont feel bad about it✨😅

[@richsamuel2922]

I call that the spy and most women like that. The soldier, on the other hand, is someone who's trying and makes it known they're trying. I've noticed that I may not necessarily like the girl who responds to someone who goes in "guns blazing."

[@shottskies]

this is actually sound advice.

[@wrldme]

Nah they'll just lose interest

[@r0oster]

I did what you said on the gym, I was invited to a barbecue lmao 😂

[@PsychologyHerWay]

💯 true be yourself ❤

[@joaom7444]

That actually gives me more despair, every time i was not clear about my intensions i get friendzoned.

[@filippersson5256]

That sounds gold! 😍

[@dannyrwagamba]

Good advice

[@ambidextrous_doctor]

Which book do you study??

[@user-fy2ox9ep9t]

Very true, people avoid manipulating when they sense it been manufactured artificiallly by someone. We tend to fall into the trap when everything is natural.

[@Al_in_Texas]

Exactly... just chill...

[@moss1transcendant]

What Language was this?

[@satyaprakash4101]

can u suggest some books to learn psychology ?

[@anastasiak8724]

What's the song playing in the background?

[@heartlotti8184]

This is why people be attracted to me and I never know why cause I’m literally just being myself everyday 😭 .

[@stevenkovler5133]

This is what my wife did to win me over . Then when the marriage went bad and I left , she did it again to draw me in. But once I was with her again , I saw the truth and now we are divorcing . I do still love her and I am addicted, but it is just not a good situation!

[@luckyloz8498]

Did anyone else see the moving lightbulb in the corner?……. Hmmm maybe it’s just me but lmk if you saw it ….

[@superedits8668]

Yeah i saw it too, but u showed me 😂😂

[@omkarlokhande3092]

Hmmmmmm is this woman trying to manipulate manipulators into actually being nice?

[@superedits8668]

Actually when you do something to make someone else like you, just know that you are not manipulating them but you are only manipulating yourself by doing what someone else likes and not what you like.

[@MindfulSparklers]

Great works

[@CreamingMoles-bc9nr]

I am self assured I would have no idea the value of our friendship until you told me my my unintentional reality I feel you sending universal hugs I try friends and your right women don't like playing unless you can pretend to be related and I get confused who's manipulating who

[@vdominati]

She is beautiful ❤️

[@digantsharma4472]

Works in every field and everything. The principle propounded by Lord Krishna in the holy Bhagvad Gita, "Do your honest efforts but don't expect the fruits from it". Hare Krishna 🙏

[@chiarawolff]

Doesn’t work on me. If someone seem unbothered and is doing as if I could be one of many, then I’m out, thanks but no thanks

[@matthewnaidu8742]

I love your hair😊

[@kebman]

I agree. Looks pretty hairy!

[@Purplelotus1998]

Can anybody tell what song is playing in the background? Driving me crazy 🤪

[@kamijo1412]

true, thats why i love japanese drama because they tell me how to be cool 😅

[@aklev5745]

Yes😊just being yourself

[@KalShaw]

This is what i naturally prefer and do. Its more comfortable to both of us.

[@khushisharma7698]

I watched it to be aware if someone tries anything like this in future on me. And I ended up knowing that I'm the culprit here

[@MohammadmoshinMohammad]

U r voice so sweet ❤

[@damarisfuenteslorenzo]

I like the music behind. Which song is?