When an Extrovert "Adopts" an Introvert

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Frank James

Frank James

Күн бұрын

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@FrankJames
@FrankJames 2 жыл бұрын
Watch "If an Introvert Was on a True Crime Documentary" next! 👉 kzbin.info/www/bejne/npimfpx9gZuqh8U
@shahadalnidawi5678
@shahadalnidawi5678 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@nimeryaspawnbrd1049
@nimeryaspawnbrd1049 2 жыл бұрын
that was brilliant "stop looking for him" 😂👍
@Sumjae
@Sumjae 2 жыл бұрын
Handing an introvert a ringing phone is like handing them a live grenade. (That’s why she called it a “live phone.” All introverts know this.)
@presion5628
@presion5628 2 жыл бұрын
How can I turn it into a weapon like I would with a granade
@daniellevalencia4625
@daniellevalencia4625 2 жыл бұрын
Throw it and run
@Sumjae
@Sumjae 2 жыл бұрын
@@presion5628 You got me. 😂 Ringing phones are even worse than grenades-less useful. Though I do think the “throw it and run” idea would prove effective in its own way.
@1Skorpia
@1Skorpia 2 жыл бұрын
@@presion5628 hang up "by accident" ur welcome
@Sumjae
@Sumjae 2 жыл бұрын
@@1Skorpia Thus it becomes a psychological weapon. 😂 Well played.
@Carol_65
@Carol_65 2 жыл бұрын
The look of pride at 1:03 😁 "Look at my little introvert talking on the phone!🥰😃❤" 😂😂
@emperorlelouch5696
@emperorlelouch5696 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣. Such a happy face.
@josefkafka5970
@josefkafka5970 2 жыл бұрын
Why does it look like trollface to me?
@naomigwolfe8112
@naomigwolfe8112 2 жыл бұрын
I see "you gonna do this or else" passively lol idk edit: 1:08 look like that and "and also...?" to me XD
@ryuzakihideki6851
@ryuzakihideki6851 2 жыл бұрын
@@josefkafka5970 the face that launched a thousand ships. Huhu
@ArtistIntuiting
@ArtistIntuiting 2 жыл бұрын
I noticed the look of pride too 😄 quite sweet really lol
@WhisperAudiosASMR
@WhisperAudiosASMR 2 жыл бұрын
“Don’t you have an app we can use?” Story of my life 🤣
@1Skorpia
@1Skorpia 2 жыл бұрын
Under covers.
@meatkirbo
@meatkirbo 2 жыл бұрын
I literally went to grab a computer when I last ordered pizza just to avoid a call.
@alibeth25
@alibeth25 2 жыл бұрын
One time when I ordered pizza online the delivery guy couldn't find my house and called me. Instead of answering or calling him back I just went outside and stood in my front yard until he drove by. He was just down the street so it only took a minute for him to see me.
@金金-y8b
@金金-y8b 2 жыл бұрын
I feel that 😆
@msmariapaula23
@msmariapaula23 2 жыл бұрын
Same! No-contact deliveries only 🥺
@Sumjae
@Sumjae 2 жыл бұрын
Introverts: would prefer to brave potential criminals at a shady motel than an enthusiastic extrovert who wants to “get them out of their shell.” Yup, sounds about right. 😂
@jenniferhanses4205
@jenniferhanses4205 2 жыл бұрын
You know what happens to creatures when you remove them from their shell? They get devoured.
@Sumjae
@Sumjae 2 жыл бұрын
@@jenniferhanses4205 Or they die immediately because their shell was a crucial part of their exoskeleton. (This got dark fast…) 🤔
@dharmadharma3960
@dharmadharma3960 2 жыл бұрын
@@Sumjae 🤣💯
@jenniferhanses4205
@jenniferhanses4205 2 жыл бұрын
@@Sumjae :) It did start off with a character wanting to get a room in the middle of a murder investigation (or at least that's my interpretation) rather than be in the room with another person who wanted to change them. Media likes to focus on "getting people out of their shell" like it's a good thing. Like it's doing a favor to forcibly make you be someone else, because if you have a "shell" then the person you are isn't good enough.
@studiooftheoldwind137
@studiooftheoldwind137 2 жыл бұрын
@@Sumjae sounds about right lol
@catgpm6964
@catgpm6964 2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate how Frank actually has multiple different wigs to play women. It really adds to the story. Unlike a lot of KZbinrs who will just put a towel on their head or something random like that to play a woman 😅
@catlover109
@catlover109 2 жыл бұрын
Ikr??
@YourFriendlyShapeShifterFriend
@YourFriendlyShapeShifterFriend 2 жыл бұрын
And clothing
@ciccylondon7826
@ciccylondon7826 2 жыл бұрын
I wonder what's like whike he's buying it
@rural.life_30
@rural.life_30 2 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@rural.life_30
@rural.life_30 2 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@ashleysipes6923
@ashleysipes6923 2 жыл бұрын
"Why did you hand me a live phone?!" That made my heart sink lol. I hate when people do that to me!
@banderivets_z_podilya
@banderivets_z_podilya 2 жыл бұрын
What's so scary about it?
@mariposa9506
@mariposa9506 2 жыл бұрын
@@banderivets_z_podilya Do you realize the mental preparation introverts go through for a phone call?
@Astrid0075
@Astrid0075 2 жыл бұрын
@@mariposa9506 I've legit spent 30 minutes of mental preparation just to have a 2 minute phone call 😭
@helenetrstrup4817
@helenetrstrup4817 2 жыл бұрын
The worst situation my dad put me in was that he ordered me to call 911 and I'm like... Would you please tell me why? How am I going to be able to tell them anything aside from my brother being dead drunk on the floor?? So I called 911 and gave my dad the phone, what else was I supposed to do? He told me to call them, not talk to them and me panicking because there's a living breathing person on the other end of the line would be entirely unhelpful. 😐
@mariposa9506
@mariposa9506 2 жыл бұрын
@RinBynneBunni awkward sucks, but its good to keep practicing. It never stops being difficult but at least regular practice helps avoid paralyzation.
@arleebean
@arleebean 2 жыл бұрын
The LIVE PHONE xD That's a new level.
@the42oflife
@the42oflife 2 жыл бұрын
I'm surprised she didn't throw it and take cover. That's what I would have felt like doing
@sarasachar5710
@sarasachar5710 2 жыл бұрын
it's actually very accurate
@skyleranimates1251
@skyleranimates1251 2 жыл бұрын
ikr lol
@Graenolf
@Graenolf 2 жыл бұрын
I hate that I’ve learned how to *look* like I’m having fun while dancing, rather than learn to have fun dancing. Lol. Fml.
@Nickilob2006
@Nickilob2006 2 жыл бұрын
What is the trick?
@jadev8679
@jadev8679 2 жыл бұрын
Please teach us!
@ghihbgyu
@ghihbgyu 2 жыл бұрын
Story of my high school years :P I love to be so old at this point that I have the license to be boring.
@destroyer860
@destroyer860 2 жыл бұрын
Is it possible to learn this power?
@amybethloescher9315
@amybethloescher9315 2 жыл бұрын
What's fml, and 👍
@indigo_rozes3196
@indigo_rozes3196 2 жыл бұрын
Watching Frank act half like a girl and half like himself is so much comic relief
@chinalyib.3637
@chinalyib.3637 2 жыл бұрын
I know a girl who is exactly like this extrovert at every one of her parties. It scares me so much, that I try to avoid her social gatherings…and I’m an ENFJ.
@josiahtaylor7967
@josiahtaylor7967 2 жыл бұрын
Lol, the extrovert in this video gives me ESFP vibes
@naomigwolfe8112
@naomigwolfe8112 2 жыл бұрын
I'm really new to this typing personalities? How do you guys memorize who is who? I can barely remember what my type is without checking back every now and then?
@drawn57
@drawn57 2 жыл бұрын
@@naomigwolfe8112 if you do it often enough you get used to it but you could also familiarize or memorize ig whichever works for you
@mbtinerd8531
@mbtinerd8531 2 жыл бұрын
@@naomigwolfe8112 If you learn about cognitive functions, they will be easier to remember. That's what I think at least, but check it out anyway :)) It's really helpful
@coralsylph
@coralsylph 2 жыл бұрын
@@naomigwolfe8112 yeah me too,,, I am an INFJ though 😅 what about you?
@krachr1
@krachr1 2 жыл бұрын
as uncomfortable as that made me feel just watching that, i miss extrovers in my life. Im happy this was the first thing i watched today. I woke to a friend txt wanting to go see lights and do "Christmassy" stuff tonight and my first thought was "oh dread" but i am so sick of my own company sense the pandemic i happily accepted and am looking forward to our excursion. Extraverts drive!! I love that. Not that i fear driving but i never see all the stuff when i do. Im busy looking at introvert stuff. Im starting to realize how blessed i am to have any extroverted friends and it has been difficult but i really want to be included in life, not to mention the need to strengthen my social muscles.
@A____B
@A____B 2 жыл бұрын
I also have an extroverted classmate who wants to make me and my crush closer just as a joke but this is a great way to not interacting directly with my crush but with this extrovert's help. He is giving me that impulse to be more outgoing at my crush without being awkward (obviously after he's mentioning me, that's when it's not awkward for me, but for him). Unfortunately I'm an INTP so I can't play with anybody so I'm always blatantly sincere as when I play with someone through words I'm horrible understood or not with a gain consequence for me.
@Sumjae
@Sumjae 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, I owe a lot to my extroverted friends, too. :) They can be really good for us introverts … and sometimes terrifying, but in a good way. (edit: fixed spelling lol)
@beckyjfox
@beckyjfox 2 жыл бұрын
What a mood! I too realized how much I miss the more extroverted folk in my life 😭 As an INFJ, I loooove people! I recently pushed myself to go back to college so I can hopefully meet new people. Please adopt me, you beautiful extroverts out there 🥺 lol
@vee258
@vee258 2 жыл бұрын
@@beckyjfox Helloooo, how are you? What are your favorite books and series? Do you like Fenneks? :D
@Snarl_Marx
@Snarl_Marx 2 жыл бұрын
Nice to see a little extrovert appreciation and understanding in the comment sections!💟
@coxless_persian4115
@coxless_persian4115 2 жыл бұрын
As a introvert myself, I can tell it's probably the best feeling when get adopted by extrovert who's actually a good friend One of the best feeling every introvert can ever have
@jamesmcgrath23
@jamesmcgrath23 2 жыл бұрын
Not the INFPs. We see it as a hostile invasion
@helgaioannidis9365
@helgaioannidis9365 2 жыл бұрын
I thought that in the beginning, but I realized I get exhausted and feel really bad. INFP here.
@elisa4620
@elisa4620 2 жыл бұрын
@@jamesmcgrath23 The key word in the OG comment was "a good friend" so someone who would respect you and your boundaries, contrary to the Extrovert in this video.
@jamesmcgrath23
@jamesmcgrath23 2 жыл бұрын
@@elisa4620 yeaaah well anyone who “adopts” me like I’m some lost puppy in need of a home and not their peer isn’t being a good friend. I don’t do pity
@dimwitteddingo
@dimwitteddingo 2 жыл бұрын
@@jamesmcgrath23 I can totally understand that view point, especially cause most people who do adopting just want to feel good about themselves and it ends up feeling like a really one sided self fulfilling relationship. However, the people who see something interesting about you, or need a friend themselves and "adopt you" tend to be the closet and most genuine friends out there. At least, thats the only way I've managed to make friends
@canadian_catalyst1476
@canadian_catalyst1476 2 жыл бұрын
"Deliver me from this nightmare"... Had me on the floor laughing. I can relate to this too well.
@qmartin1997
@qmartin1997 2 жыл бұрын
As someone who has a crush on very very introverted person, this was fun and excruciating to rewatch and can see myself as the extrovert. 😅
@ATHENA-ft6fv
@ATHENA-ft6fv 2 жыл бұрын
SAME 😂😭💔
@shinoame
@shinoame 2 жыл бұрын
Right!?? Omg
@Pandakittyperson
@Pandakittyperson 2 жыл бұрын
This comment was nice to read. As an introvert I always love seeing comments from ppl who relate to the extroverts.
@uri4263
@uri4263 2 жыл бұрын
Honestly as an INFJ the most stressful thing is when they ask you to order for them and you don't know them well enough and what they like... Them: "Whatever you order I'll like" Me: *static noise* To this day I still worry if those oatmeal cookies were the right choice... Well that and the loud music...
@southgoesnorthwest
@southgoesnorthwest 2 жыл бұрын
🤣 yeah... this.
@RestlessHarp
@RestlessHarp 2 жыл бұрын
Yes! I hate being forced to choose for other people what they're going to eat.
@olyaserikova4269
@olyaserikova4269 2 жыл бұрын
“Whatever you order I’ll like” is always a trap!
@AugustAdvice
@AugustAdvice 2 жыл бұрын
If anyone hands me a live phone to order pizza I will put pineapples on it...and I won't even be sorry.
@eunji837
@eunji837 2 жыл бұрын
Hahahahahaha omg 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 ah and this is why INFJ are so cute~ 🤣🤣 *I'm ENFP btw*
@PotatoChicken-gg1ju
@PotatoChicken-gg1ju 2 жыл бұрын
I actually had extroverts who adopted me in high school. They took very good care of me and let me quietly sit with them at lunch so I didn't look like I was alone 😊 take notes extroverts! Adopting an introvert does NOT mean turning them into an extrovert. My jiu jitsu family does this sometimes, unfortunately 😔
@Olicia88
@Olicia88 2 жыл бұрын
My best friend is an extrovert and our friendship can be summed up to "she's talking and I'm listening" and we both like it.
@someonecurious311
@someonecurious311 2 жыл бұрын
😆😆😆 me too! I love it when they listen✨
@TheHollyJollyLife
@TheHollyJollyLife 2 жыл бұрын
I can’t help but imagine Frank bringing some girl who doesn’t know who he is or what he does back to his house. “So, um, that’s a lot of women’s wigs you have there.”
@carissahill3414
@carissahill3414 2 жыл бұрын
Lol and he thought the dating world was tough before his YT channel! Hehehe Did you see the recent one where he addressed "an extravert" having a dress for his girlfriend to wear? LOL So funny!
@TheHollyJollyLife
@TheHollyJollyLife 2 жыл бұрын
@@carissahill3414 I haven’t seen it yet, I’ll have to check it out, sounds hilarious. The Seinfeld one was really funny too.
@carissahill3414
@carissahill3414 2 жыл бұрын
@@TheHollyJollyLife LOL yeah the Seinfield one was an unexpected joy. I did glance at the news but didn't think he would get that much confusion out of it!!! LOL Frank is beyond brilliant! His girlfriend has much more to worry about then his collection of wigs because she literally could die laughing.
@whatiftherewerejust100peop8
@whatiftherewerejust100peop8 2 жыл бұрын
As an INTJ 25 yo, being adopted is the only way to get relationship for me. Like any relationship. I'm like a frightened frightening cactus, nobody is getting close on my watch😄😄 I made peace with me dying alone when I was 22. So far so good🖤
@zk.13
@zk.13 2 жыл бұрын
Any type of the personalities doesn't mean to die alone I always have been an introvert, but just understood a bit about myself, but i want my husband and kids with me always (only them though)
@lunabeekhuizen8858
@lunabeekhuizen8858 2 жыл бұрын
*enter me adopting you because feel empathically lonely for you*
@Justwannaswim
@Justwannaswim 2 жыл бұрын
I am an INTJ, 20 and every so called "friends" either forgets about me and gets to hang out with people who are cliche, or gets hurt because they can't handle my perspective and thought process. Only friend I currently have is an INFP. Never had a relationship, never will unless someone really wants to even after knowing all about me (which is impossible).
@joshuaoneill9061
@joshuaoneill9061 2 жыл бұрын
22? It took you that long?
@M_SC
@M_SC 2 жыл бұрын
I mean don’t brag that you make other people do all the emotional labour.
@BeckyPhelps
@BeckyPhelps 2 жыл бұрын
Most inspiring game of Charades I've ever seen 😁😂👏
@affinity266
@affinity266 2 жыл бұрын
Concise and expressive 😂
@Carol_65
@Carol_65 2 жыл бұрын
Is it just me or is our wholesome boy using his pointer finger?
@BeckyPhelps
@BeckyPhelps 2 жыл бұрын
@@Carol_65 I spy horns under that wig 😈😁
@BeckyPhelps
@BeckyPhelps 2 жыл бұрын
@@affinity266 Very direct 😂
@affinity266
@affinity266 2 жыл бұрын
@@Carol_65 it's possible, but I don't know?
@benevolentconcepts
@benevolentconcepts 2 жыл бұрын
Why do they always think we are sitting around waiting for them to get us ‘out of our shells’? I like my shell. I like my peace and quiet. I only want to emerge when the stars align and I feel the red carpet rolled out for me, and I just *know* it’s going to be one of those EPIC nights. Run of the mill night out? No thanks. I’ll stay in and wait for the next cosmic alignment 🙏✨
@banderivets_z_podilya
@banderivets_z_podilya 2 жыл бұрын
Dude in such case you will be waiting until you will get but 6 feet under.
@ti9erlilly
@ti9erlilly 2 жыл бұрын
The amount of anxiety I felt when she handed the introvert the ringing phone was physical. I never would have put my hand out. I would have automatically backed away with my hands up. Lol
@kaydee1721
@kaydee1721 2 жыл бұрын
Seeing Extroverted Lady Frank having a dance party made my day!
@sunnysal3889
@sunnysal3889 2 жыл бұрын
Introvert accidentally getting a positive response to their charade. Story of my life. 😩
@StephanieJeanne
@StephanieJeanne 2 жыл бұрын
I always prefer to stay at a hotel with tons of cops! 😂 That is one clueless extrovert!... L'il Neros 🙌🤣👍💜
@basmatalaat
@basmatalaat 2 жыл бұрын
wait I didnt get it
@polygonalduck
@polygonalduck 2 жыл бұрын
I have never seen a introvert using that much emojis
@StephanieJeanne
@StephanieJeanne 2 жыл бұрын
@@basmatalaat About the cops? Means there's shady goings-on at that place.😜😂✌️
@StephanieJeanne
@StephanieJeanne 2 жыл бұрын
@@polygonalduckReally? I know plenty right on this channel. It's a much easier way to express emotions without speaking in-person.😊
@talyahfeigenbaum9486
@talyahfeigenbaum9486 2 жыл бұрын
@@polygonalduck I'm an INTJ and I use emojis... Makes it easier to convey your thoughts and feelings in a text form...
@LoneFenrir
@LoneFenrir 2 жыл бұрын
As much as it will drain me I would not completely dislike being adopted by an extrovert lol its like a fight between the side of me that wants alone time and the side that wants someone to be the shining light in a dark room
@caswerion1939
@caswerion1939 2 жыл бұрын
just tell them you need some space lol, extroverts also need alone time like every other human being, i also get drained hanging out with my introverted friends sometimes
@shivangnisarin2702
@shivangnisarin2702 2 жыл бұрын
That Extrovert definitely had a ENFP/ENFJ vibe to them😂
@finnthekreatormusic5397
@finnthekreatormusic5397 2 жыл бұрын
Honestly I think more ENFJ because I felt that the extrovert wanted to help the dude out of FE As An INFP, I do find it Nice when extroverts try to Connect with me deeply, (especially more eccentric ones), I find it charming :)
@user-js4mt1nr2y
@user-js4mt1nr2y 2 жыл бұрын
@@finnthekreatormusic5397 There was zero Fe here 😂 The extravert just wanted the introvert to be like her because she wanted things go her way (hungry, party) even tho the introvert complained and wanted to go away. Fe would pick up on that and adjust more. Also I think there was a lot of sensing going on. I thought it was an example of ESFP.
@eunji837
@eunji837 2 жыл бұрын
I'm ENFP and i have a ENFJ friend so yeah kinda🤣🤣🤣
@SRose-vp6ew
@SRose-vp6ew 2 жыл бұрын
It was an exaggeration ENFJ who couldn't read the passive aggressive cues from the introvert due to assumed good intent by the ENFJ and the deep desire to help(but in this skit their was no context for the ENFJ to think they should help. That's what made this funny. In real life the introvert would have needed to use that energy that they had to be passive aggressive to set clear and honest boundaries- "Hey thanks for letting me stay over.... I actually need a moment to process the gas leak going on." And the ENFJ should have asked, "Wow, I am thankful you thought of staying with me, I remember you saying you have been working on trying to get out of your shell and I have wanted to get to know you, it's really amazing to SEE you coming out of your shell, hey if I pay for pizza, will you order the pizza? I would love to have "whatever" you like." And then give them time to think and order it in an app or however THEY want to do it. Yeah, no forcing others to dance with duress, or using a game to be passive aggressive, but the intentional assumed good intent and encouragement was ENFJ. An ENFJ would help the introvert meet the introverts' goals, but they do tend to push others to achieving their goal, even past the point of what others are ready for. ENFJ's are good to have in life if you want help in reaching goals. This skit had the two of them escalading and amplifying the worst of both of their personalities as they both refused to accpet the needs of the other. An ENFJ needs honesty and what you want help with, in this case that would have been help with making sure boundaries were followed so the introvert could have space.
@Jae_C_
@Jae_C_ 2 жыл бұрын
As a social introvert I don't mind socializing. But that extrovert is way outside even my comfort zone. Way too bubbly.
@fluffy698
@fluffy698 2 жыл бұрын
I'm also a social introvert, and it feels like the difference between a boxing match and an alley fight.
@Jae_C_
@Jae_C_ 2 жыл бұрын
@@fluffy698 Exactly!
@toothfairy10133
@toothfairy10133 2 жыл бұрын
im a social introvert who's been "adopted" by a few people but she definitely seems like the kinda extravert who i would be terrified of
@leliavoinea9402
@leliavoinea9402 2 жыл бұрын
My mother is a ISTJ and also a social introvert. 😄 I am a INFP and as a Enneagram type 4 w5 variant SP let's just say I am not the most sociable introvert.😀
@kimmy4994
@kimmy4994 2 жыл бұрын
I love how his definition of an extrovert is someone who absolutly do not understand how you can not have fun with parties and will just do things on the spot with no considerations for you... Which is the case, now that I remember one of my friend, because if it's nice to them, must be for you and if not, you'll just say it and propose something else with that much energy... And then they think you really don't know how to have fun because you don't like the same energy and want to make you "out of your shell" like we are a problem to fix. Does my rant make it clear enough I don't want that??
@kimmy4994
@kimmy4994 2 жыл бұрын
@Margrete Yes, of course, I must have badly express myself (Sorry, english is not my first language) but the stereotype Frank put is funny and make me think of one of my friend that had that pattern, I didn't want to talk about extrovert in general! Thanks for correcting me :)
@babblingbananas
@babblingbananas 2 жыл бұрын
The next best thing to Frank's acting skills is his increasingly impressive collection of wigs
@meatkirbo
@meatkirbo 2 жыл бұрын
The "I don't dance" part really hits me in the chest. People rarely see me dance because I don't like it, but when they do it's as if I'm suddenly willing to talk to them. Like "hey! You dance? Talk." Like no. I did because I was listening to music very loudly (with headphones), something I do specifically when I don't want to talk.
@JuliaPoprocks
@JuliaPoprocks 2 жыл бұрын
An extrovert thinking everything your doing is a purposeful joke while you're actually dying inside! I've been there. 😂
@nerd_1356
@nerd_1356 2 жыл бұрын
Extraverts can never take a hint can they? 🙄
@KatErina-ii6ru
@KatErina-ii6ru 2 жыл бұрын
They literally can’t!! 😆😆😆🤦‍♀️🙅‍♀️
@zemiyac.2949
@zemiyac.2949 2 жыл бұрын
Yes we can. .... but it's too late when we get it.
@eunji837
@eunji837 2 жыл бұрын
As an ENFP i can..but i ignore it 🤣🤣🤣
@leliavoinea9402
@leliavoinea9402 2 жыл бұрын
Thank God the only extrovert in my family (my ENFP father) knows how to tone down his energy with us the introverts in the family (my mother and I) at our work place. Sometimes there are benefits to work for the family business, not unwanted contact with unknown people from me and generally peace. The one that is in charge of selling is of course our extrovert (my father) that loves to talk for hours and doesen't mind at all the company of others. Plus he is quite popular with the clients.😃
@eunji837
@eunji837 2 жыл бұрын
@@leliavoinea9402 aww that's so cute!!🥺💕🥺✨💕🥺💕🥺 I'm so happy that your mom, father and you are like a team! 🤭💕✨ Btw what's your mom qnd your personality type~? I'm so curious~🤭🤭
@TotoDG
@TotoDG 2 жыл бұрын
Hopefully, this is what gets through to the extroverts that forcing us to be sociable and "get out of our shell" is actually toxic and not helpful.
@bluesteel8376
@bluesteel8376 2 жыл бұрын
As an introvert I disagee. Getting out of your shell is a good thing and something you should strive for. I use to have bad anxiety over phone calls, but I forced myself to get over it. I am fine now.
@caioramos8454
@caioramos8454 2 жыл бұрын
depends on how they do it, some friends did it to me and i had a great time
@piriyaj1347
@piriyaj1347 2 жыл бұрын
They just need to handle it quite delicately. Many of us introverts need the slow buildup. Like don’t suddenly call us to dance and sing in a loud party. That’s like rape. Take us out to dine in a garden first, good food with gentle music, nice smelling flowers under the starry sky, and we talk and laugh and relax. Get our senses pampered. And THEN we may be more inclined to drink or dance.
@Snarl_Marx
@Snarl_Marx 2 жыл бұрын
As yes, the old "extroverts are vapid and obtuse and actually bad for us super special and misunderstood introverts" trope.🙄
@BlancaEstella4837
@BlancaEstella4837 2 жыл бұрын
Toxic really ?
@SureshKumar11242
@SureshKumar11242 2 жыл бұрын
Geez, these extroverts can be a real pain the butt... Great video, FJ!
@MissJJoan
@MissJJoan 2 жыл бұрын
I'm right down the middle, sometimes I feel like going out, other times I want to avoid people and large gatherings, but these videos crack me up. Also, that extrovert is my mom. I wouldn't mind if she handed it to me to order pizza, but she usually hands it over to me for distant relatives and tells me to "wish them well" and will critique me on what I say as I'm saying it, so that "live phone" part I can really relate to lol.
@1tubax
@1tubax 2 жыл бұрын
Bro I'm ENTP and holy shit I'm nothing like that extrovert. Extroverts literally can't read the mood, introverts read the mood well but don't care cause of their Fi.
@banderivets_z_podilya
@banderivets_z_podilya 2 жыл бұрын
Bro, your mom is total ESFJ)
@Brxwn9
@Brxwn9 2 жыл бұрын
It’s ok. You’ll get used to it soon. Although slower than usual. Your mom is encouraging you, although not in a way that respects your boundaries as much. I’m an ESTP and although not VERY extroverted, I figured out it doesn’t matter since what I do is that I want to spend time around people, especially those who respect me. I still talk to multiple people a day. I like people ❤️ especially who are interested in me and me back, but I do need my alone time here and there.
@MissJJoan
@MissJJoan 2 жыл бұрын
@@banderivets_z_podilya looked it up, sounds about right.
@MissJJoan
@MissJJoan 2 жыл бұрын
@@1tubax Didn’t know that about extroverts, interesting.
@TheYogaPartyHouse
@TheYogaPartyHouse 2 жыл бұрын
😂 I’m really glad I saw this, I could see myself in this situation as an ENFP- . Now I know what not to do as an adult😂😂my poor introverted friends in middle school. ☠️☠️
@glueball214
@glueball214 2 жыл бұрын
He.is.the.KING.of introvert pain !!
@AbhishekChoudharyB
@AbhishekChoudharyB 2 жыл бұрын
Hiding dislike button is very unfair with this channel. Now we won't be able to see that amazing like/dislike ratio😶😶
@sheer9203
@sheer9203 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah
@JayTohab
@JayTohab 2 жыл бұрын
Eh. The views are what really matter in the KZbin economy.
@moongazer1545
@moongazer1545 2 жыл бұрын
Frank’s videos are so accurate - all of them are so enjoyable and the humor is really great too.
@goldenostrich7629
@goldenostrich7629 2 жыл бұрын
"Deliver me from this nightmare" ahaha yes an introvert mantra 🍕🍍
@Becsx
@Becsx Жыл бұрын
That's a true relatable relationship between two best friends, the one who just want to drag you to every single place they go, and part all night, and the one who just want to hop on bed all day and chill with their cats
@solviviflores2904
@solviviflores2904 2 жыл бұрын
1:54 Best phrase ever
@JLFamilySong
@JLFamilySong 2 жыл бұрын
Of course, I just took a drink of soda as The Guest said, "you got food there?" and blew that soda all over my computer! That was a good one, Frank!
@kirtika8842
@kirtika8842 2 жыл бұрын
1:49 I'm mentally tired through screens just by watching this much chaos😂
@e.h.buchmann23
@e.h.buchmann23 2 жыл бұрын
This extrovert has no idea how close she was to ending up on one of those Introvert True Crime Documentaries...
@cjradenbaugh
@cjradenbaugh 2 жыл бұрын
My mom is that type of extrovert. I’m an INTJ, and this seems really accurate. She’s going to love this video.
@Abyssal2808
@Abyssal2808 2 жыл бұрын
For my entire life I believed my mom was an extreme extrovert until she told me she forced herself just to go outside and talk to people. Every. Single. Day. R.I.P.
@faux_vampire
@faux_vampire 2 жыл бұрын
I just spent like 15 minutes trying to order from the app in a restaurant because there wasn’t a touch screen and I wanted to avoid human cashier. But the app wasn’t working so I was forced to order from the counter in person. But I had the courage to tell them to fix the app because I’m an adult and I can make that sort of investment.
@Insomnia324-r6m
@Insomnia324-r6m 2 жыл бұрын
I'm proud of you 👏
@diahfitriani3944
@diahfitriani3944 2 жыл бұрын
honestly this extrovert friend really nice though. I like her
@goldiiilocks5491
@goldiiilocks5491 2 жыл бұрын
Extrovert here…. It’s always a good time for an impromptu dance 💃🏾 🕺🏾 party… well played Frank, well played.
@Hyper_Fixation
@Hyper_Fixation 2 жыл бұрын
Being handed a "live" phone is legit one of my worst anxieties, I felt sick for a second watching it happen here :'D Too accurate!
@Moon_Moon91
@Moon_Moon91 2 жыл бұрын
So true, but there’s also the nice extrovert who will order food for you because they know how much you hate it
@rinlovesrice
@rinlovesrice 2 жыл бұрын
The live phone XD I felt the anxiety spike
@KatErina-ii6ru
@KatErina-ii6ru 2 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha I used to DESPISE ordering pizza but my mom who is ENFP would make me as a teenager. I still hated it in my 20s too. I’m INFP. I use the app now 😏
@madushaniprasangika1793
@madushaniprasangika1793 2 жыл бұрын
These actresses Frank hires are extremely talented 😂
@lynnelhampton-bott6917
@lynnelhampton-bott6917 2 жыл бұрын
Hilarious. However as an introvert, dance party are two of my favorite words. More dancing, less small talk!
@machamacaroon9591
@machamacaroon9591 2 жыл бұрын
mentally exhausted by just watching this extrovert in this video :')
@Carcassbits11
@Carcassbits11 Жыл бұрын
She actually seems pretty nice lol
@susanlisson7066
@susanlisson7066 2 жыл бұрын
“Takeout or delivery?” … “Deliver me from this nightmare.” That got me LOLing big time. 😂 Stress level gone! Thanks Frank. 🙏🏽
@tinkershell1856
@tinkershell1856 2 жыл бұрын
Ugh! Exactly my life growing up with my sister. “Why did you hand me a live phone phone?!” 😂
@timothyoliver1599
@timothyoliver1599 2 жыл бұрын
The dancing was extremely accurate
@heyimean...
@heyimean... 2 жыл бұрын
Can we now take a moment to appreciate the acting of FJ once again?
@acrowdofpeople
@acrowdofpeople 2 жыл бұрын
"Plenty of time to get you out of your shell!" "When clams get out of their shells, they die."
@sorinofhousemarkov
@sorinofhousemarkov 2 жыл бұрын
If extroverts actually acted like this in real life we’d all be introverts😂😂
@betz5359
@betz5359 2 жыл бұрын
Your dance moves!! Amazing.
@geekygrl10
@geekygrl10 2 жыл бұрын
Sad thing is, this is actually accurate. You see, my mom is an extrovert...
@Anarinko
@Anarinko 2 жыл бұрын
"Let me see your moves, girl" sounded like a fitness tutorial. 🤣
@princessfriendly8910
@princessfriendly8910 2 жыл бұрын
Relatable. There's a lady at church who always trys to get me to "come out of my shell". 😦She keeps telling me to "speak louder" even though she can hear me and last week she did an impression of me being awkward and then literally lifted up my chin because she thought my head should be higher. I get that you're trying to help me 😓 but please don't, I'm quite satisfied in this shell and It's kind of people like this who make me shy in the first place 😣
@OG_Wonder_Woman
@OG_Wonder_Woman 2 жыл бұрын
That's not an extrovert, that's a bully. Pro life tip, kiddo: when an older woman starts bullying you like that, look around for a male associated with her, like her husband, boss, brother, crush or friend. Check if he is watching you a little too close. If so, get out. Pretend to be sick even but don't be around them. Often they act like that because a man they care about is taking an unhealthy interest in you and it makes them jealous. Sometimes it happens for another reason, like if the woman is jealous of your Mom so she picks on you. Honestly she put her hands on you, and that's reason enough to stay far away from her. Otherwise she will keep escalating.
@princessfriendly8910
@princessfriendly8910 2 жыл бұрын
@@OG_Wonder_Woman OK thank you, I'll stay away
@priscillaz6463
@priscillaz6463 2 жыл бұрын
The way the introvert asked to turn down the volume. And the panic when handed a ringing phone. That's some real struggle there.
@flowerx3238
@flowerx3238 2 жыл бұрын
It's so nice to just order a pizza online... until they call for confirmation :|
@ΝίκοςΒούλγαρης-τ9φ
@ΝίκοςΒούλγαρης-τ9φ 2 жыл бұрын
This is sooooo relatable 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm an ENTP and I have tried every single posible way to help my INFP friend get to FREAKING REALITY, stop being LAZY ASF, ghosting me 24/7 and maybeee improve his grades just a bit but he doesn't listen to me. He just keeps on isolating himself and making me worried if he still exists... Phew that was alot.
@ally5045
@ally5045 2 жыл бұрын
As an introvert yep this is so relatable 😂
@gongoozleriam9783
@gongoozleriam9783 2 жыл бұрын
Called it a “live phone” like referring to a live bomb haha
@somebody7843
@somebody7843 2 жыл бұрын
I usually find extroverts unconfortable especially those party lovers .
@arkofpolaris4646
@arkofpolaris4646 2 жыл бұрын
Handing an introvert a ringing phone is the last thing you should do.
@Trixie_Lavender
@Trixie_Lavender 2 жыл бұрын
That looks actual hell. I need an extrovert to adopt me 😭
@enzomthethwa5861
@enzomthethwa5861 2 жыл бұрын
I did not know you had this range of acting. Good job!
@angelicdream708
@angelicdream708 Жыл бұрын
Introverts : *i fear nothing but that thing...* Socialising *"It terrifys me.."*
@milagrosrivera5013
@milagrosrivera5013 2 жыл бұрын
Gosh, not only the acting but FJ's scripts are sooooo brilliant!
@suzanneamey
@suzanneamey 2 жыл бұрын
OMG being handed a ringing phone is a nightmare
@clubepengu6654
@clubepengu6654 2 жыл бұрын
as an extrovert this extrovert is WAY OUT of my comfort zone lol
@elly3rd939
@elly3rd939 2 жыл бұрын
Im not extroverted but i am an ambivert lol, but as someone who "adopted" both an extrovert and an introvert, i can confirm that this is how it looks like when they met😀😀😀
@KatErina-ii6ru
@KatErina-ii6ru 2 жыл бұрын
You’re definitely an extrovert.. look at those emojis 😏😂😂 introverts don’t use “😀” hahahaha!!
@geminievil
@geminievil 2 жыл бұрын
So what's your type?
@amandacoelho9524
@amandacoelho9524 2 жыл бұрын
@@KatErina-ii6ru or just some introvert with minimum social skills 🤔
@felixtownn
@felixtownn 2 жыл бұрын
@@KatErina-ii6ru ....I do? My quiet INFP friend did too? It's so bizarre to say "only extroverts use emojis"
@pinoytunes7707
@pinoytunes7707 Жыл бұрын
I can feel her pain every second
@thriveflourishmotivate
@thriveflourishmotivate 2 жыл бұрын
I’m an INFJ but honestly the extrovert seems fun to hang out with here.
@transbender5906
@transbender5906 Жыл бұрын
I definitely envy introverts. As an extrovert it's like nobody wants to hang out after school because school is too exhausting and nobody wants to hang out on the weekends because they're resting and recharging for the next week and I'm an only child so I have no energy ever 😩
@mgyulz1957
@mgyulz1957 2 жыл бұрын
Haha omg, I really love these sketches, I can relate a lot about being introvert
@zyxbody
@zyxbody 2 жыл бұрын
Extrovert Lady made my day, I hope there are extroverts like her
@queenofanon9972
@queenofanon9972 2 жыл бұрын
Can’t tell you how many people I’ve lived with that said “I’m gonna get you out of your shell”. That is one of my least favorite statements.
@emmaj5807
@emmaj5807 2 жыл бұрын
This extrovert is so sweet though I would love to be friends with someone like that!
@ayo6739
@ayo6739 2 жыл бұрын
To all extroverts who want to adopt an introvert : *please* dont force us out of our safe zone . We become very hateful gremlins.
@rionhoel8740
@rionhoel8740 2 жыл бұрын
“Will that be take out or delivery?” “Deliver me from this hell!” That is funny. Your content is amazing man!
@ArtistIntuiting
@ArtistIntuiting 2 жыл бұрын
Barely had a chance to put her bag down and is being handed a 'live' phone and having a disco 🙈😅 the extrovert obliviously following her out while ordering an Uber too 😂 bless her lol at least her feelings aren't hurt, she seems to mean well 😅
@Gumeluvr
@Gumeluvr 2 жыл бұрын
I felt this to my core. Run little lone reader! RUN!
@unmemorablehero
@unmemorablehero 2 жыл бұрын
Ew! That’s not how it’s done 😂😂😂 I’d never force an introvert to “break out of their shell.” To all the introverts that have experienced this, not all extroverts are like this.
@presion5628
@presion5628 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks I was starting to think so
@dianalindeman1644
@dianalindeman1644 2 жыл бұрын
Wish I knew someone that would understand.
@SRose-vp6ew
@SRose-vp6ew 2 жыл бұрын
Tip to the introverts who often feel like extroverts harass or worry about them- Let's say you're in collage and you can't get away from people in the common area. Make sure you walk into the room, walk over to the person you know will otherwise walk over to you and simply say, "Hi." Say it directly to them. Know they will ask you how you have been. Say "fine, I am looking forward to (reason your there) and you should get to that soon." You're letting the extroverts know that you're okay, THEN you can literally tell them you're going to (get something to drink, eat, or even read a book). You can literally end the conversation by saying you're looking forward to reading (hold up book AND TURN AWAY) and go off and sit with a book or whatever and no one feels like they have to "help" you or that it's even odd that you're relaxing for a bit and doing what you enjoy. If someone really needs/wants to talk to you they will still come over, but you won't have everyone coming over asking you if you're okay or trying to "pull you out of your shell." Extroverts truly do care about you, and if they see you happy reading a book, after you explain that this makes you happy, they will be happy for you. Just remember if an extrovert went to a party and pulled out a book it would mean they were depressed or needed to talk. That's the social clue you give out if you don't let them know you actually are "looking forward to reading _____." And if you do wish you could talk more, just ask more questions, "and how are you?" The extrovert will do the talking.
@QuotesArticles
@QuotesArticles 2 жыл бұрын
Ah you got to feel for the introvert! Especially giving any phone calls abruptly to us, makes us really nervous! And from another perspective, I get that the extrovert was just trying to make the introvert feel comfortable 🤷🏻‍♂️
@chocolatemousseslice_
@chocolatemousseslice_ 2 жыл бұрын
I love how the extrovert's hair is like🤩😁😜🤗 and the introvert's hair is like😐😔🙄😒.
@whatiftherewerejust100peop8
@whatiftherewerejust100peop8 2 жыл бұрын
Today I watched FJ video about getting over a crush. Very true and sober thoughts. I've got over every crush I ever had at this point. Sirius Black, Keanu Reeves, Henry Cavil and even Frank James. But still I think you are very cool person and I wish we had more people like that, who brings brightness and smiles when It's the lowest lows. Thank you for being my good mood over a Year now! It is really appreciated😄🤗
@iKeto_gal
@iKeto_gal 2 жыл бұрын
The pizza ordering thing, yes I can relate... my husband doesn't understand I cannot make calls to order food. ANXIETY!
@presion5628
@presion5628 2 жыл бұрын
Those screens at McDonald's are the best aren't they
@banderivets_z_podilya
@banderivets_z_podilya 2 жыл бұрын
Gosh, people, it's just a phone call. Why are you all so scared of those?
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