FRENCH WOMEN NEVER HAVE BAD HAIR DAYS I Here's Why

[@ms.frederique]

My lovelies, I hope you will love this fun video and have a good laugh 😂 big kisses 😘

[@MsBaby1959]

Frédérique Bros I really enjoyed it, your videos are all fun, big kiss Frédérique, so happy for you, you have reached over 70,000 subscribers :)))👍🏻😍🍀🥂

[@christinemartin741]

Les cheveux courts de vont très bien 😉

[@claudiahaagen7783]

Hi, I really liked the Video a lot. Yes, I have cried several times 🤣

[@nanelizabethjorgensen7971]

Frederique! Your hair really does look fantastic! So much _joie de vivre_ , too! You said to tell about a time you went to a hairdresser and cried. Once when I was going to University for the first time, my aunt who lived in San Francisco, across from my place in Berkeley, decided to give me a present of going to a nice salon in her neighborhood that she loved. So I went there and I really did tell the nice lady what I liked. Well, it turned out that she totally got it wrong and thought I looked like Cher so she gave me a classic Cher haircut. I was mortified. For one thing I was a kind of shy and unassuming type and if anything I tend towards the natural . This was _ultra unnatural!!_ Also I had to go back to her house and face my aunt while pretending to like it ( tears over.) I have to say, some of my very best experiences with hair, did happen in France. In Paris, Nice, Hyères and a little transplanted guy who moved from Malibu to my neighborhood near in le Gard. He's a great combo -- a Hollywood /French hairdresser! ~~ ❤️ bisous!

[@camerachica73]

I'm British and I went to a french hairdresser in the south of France as a one off, but the cut and colour were so amazing that I now fly back there once or twice a year! My budget isn't the type of budget that allows for international travel just for a haircut, but it's so worth it!

[@raptimitra2672]

That is serious investment for hair! Once I moved out of my home town for nearly two years and I didn't cut my hair for two years! I came back and went to same parlor and the same person to cut my hair!

[@Beckiner67]

Wonderful!

[@ms.frederique]

Wow that’s commitment good for you x

[@camerachica73]

@@ms.frederique It's not too bad if you can work out the flights - they can be around £70 for a day return trip London to Nice, so it's enough to spend a few hours in the hair salon, have a nice lunch, look around shops, quick walk on the sea front and then back to the airport. When I get back I feel like I've had a mini-break! It is a bit extravagant but it's worth it for how good I feel compared to depressed and crying when I've been lumbered with a terrible haircut!

[@MsBaby1959]

camerachica73 Sounds heavenly 😍👍🏻

[@Houseofpurebeauty]

I am a hairstylist in the USA. We are taught British haircuts in school and in all the classes/workshops we attend. I have been trained in French hair cutting through Candy Shaw Academy in Georgia. It’s very easy for the guest to style. The whole concept is about softness and cutting in angles that lay beautifully. I love it!

[@ms.frederique]

Fabulous thank you for sharing x

[@rachelplank21]

Thank you for telling everyone to SAY SOMETHING if they don't like their hair! We can't do anything about if if we don't know. ♥️

[@theresaskrzynski9916]

Couldn't put back the 9" of hair l did NOT want cut off!!!

[@iahorvath]

Oh, I cried many times...I went through about 20 hairdressers before I found one that I have been faithful to for the past 10 years. I was very honest with this last hairdresser because I was tired of jumping from one hairdresser to another. He really appreciated my honesty and I have gone back twice to have him adjust my hair after a cut - he also never charged me. He insists that I come back if I'm not happy...and I never looked back! I am very happy with him. They want to keep a client so it's important to be honest. Love you Frédérique!

[@ms.frederique]

Love you too and I’m glad you found the right hairdresser that’s gold xxx

[@rubydoo3307]

I was getting sick of these 'French' videos. But a fellow Aussie suggested your channel, and honestly you helped me so much, the simple, European look is my favourite, and you helped me understand how to speak to my hair dresser, how to understand my hair. This is what I want when I search for French sensibilities.

[@TheQNSzzz]

I cut my own hair - it is a little shorter than yours and I started to tuck my hair behind my ear like you. Such a small adjustment makes me look more chic. Fab tips, thank you lovely lady xx

[@ms.frederique]

Always xx

[@vkngwmn6636]

I learned to trim my own hair but pay a lot for great color and highlites

[@LadyLuxco]

You are like my fabulous auntie! So needed you in my life 💋

[@ms.frederique]

Anytime sweetie 😍

[@Nadiaweisz]

Yes.. I’ve cried so much after salon trying to find a stylist that does how I ask!

[@karencarr7760]

You have great hair Frederique! I’ve had a French hair dresser for about 10 years now and I LOVE him. Never disappoints. Great hair tips. Thank you, 😘

[@ms.frederique]

Lucky you and thank you for the compliment 😜

[@dixiehurley3599]

I just had a new haircut a few weeks ago a shag , but I use no heat to dry it I let it dry naturally and immediately noticed it was getting wavy as it dried , so I started scrunching it with my hands and it got quite wavy after it dried totally ! I was so surprised in a pleasant way ! I had naturally curly wavy hair as a child , an have not seen a wave at all in my hair since I was about eighteen years of age . I guess that no one I ever got a haircut from knew how to cut it properly for me . But this young woman who just cut my hair a few weeks ago did a wonderful thing for me , An now at age sixty five I suddenly have my waves an curls all back ! I cried in a good An happy way . I’m just so happy because I think it’s the prettiest my hair has ever looked since childhood .

[@ms.frederique]

Thank you for sharing and liking xx

[@sharoncathcart]

I have definitely cried. I went in with a photograph and gave clear instructions about the length; the hairdresser cut it significantly shorter than the photo and my instructions, and when I asked "Why did you do something totally different from what I wanted," she said "I thought it would look better this way." I left in tears; I had a business meeting to attend that evening, and went in feeling very low indeed. I received many compliments on the hairdo, but I did not like it ... and so they did not matter. The one saving grace is that hair grows ... and I never went back to that salon. I now have a hairdresser I've been with for nearly 20 years. As you say, it takes time to build that relationship.

[@karylmorgan7320]

I moved from Virginia to Utah, from humidity to dry. Finding a good hairdresser in a new town with new climate conditions is hard. I can style my fine hair much better thsn any hairdresser but I need color and cut.

[@MaryFparker95]

I started cutting my own hair to save money an so far I haven't made myself cry (yet!) I did cut it weird once but fortunately my hair is curly so you couldn't really tell once I styled it.

[@ms.frederique]

Thank you for sharing x

[@helanalurie9962]

Lol, enjoying your humorous remarks! 😁. Never cried after a a visit to the hairdresser,, but did once go back to a hair dresser and asked her politely to correct her mistakes. She was a bit sarcastic and after I left the salon I moved on to an amazing hairdresser. She is absolutely amazing!

[@ms.frederique]

Yes some can be horrible

[@Chahlie]

I've had to cut my own hair since I was about 16. Every so often I try going to a hairdresser but they just can't seem to deal with my naturally wavy thick 'Viking' hair. I come out looking scalped, and one gave me a 'Karen' cut with a ton of product. I don't know why it's so hard. When I was a landscape gardener I never left anyone's hedge looking like that.

[@betsyhazel]

Me too...learned to cut my own thick wavy hair in long layers coz hairdressers have no idea how to handle wavy/curly hair that they either want to cut it way too short or straighten it to death😩

[@tallisinwonderland4724]

Can I ask where your are from? I’m starting to think I may have Viking hair from your comment 🤣

[@ms.frederique]

Hahahah Viking hair?

[@Chahlie]

@@ms.frederique Yes.... back in the late 70's this strawberry blonde had an 'afro', no chemicals or anything. I was the first in my school to have a hair pick :) How I longed for straight fine hair....

[@edennis3202]

I've cut my own hair for 40 years because every time I got a professional haircut, the hairdresser would grimace and say, "Ew, who cut your hair last time?" So I decided that if nobody could do a decent job, I could just as well do a bad job myself for free.

[@suzanstorm2982]

I think we have all cried! Cuts, perms, you name it. I too have had every color and style of hair - but I love the change. Mychair is also naturally white/ silver. People think i have it colored this way. That is my biggest money saver.

[@welcomwelcom9882]

Neva cried but everytime I looked in the mirror felt sick from a bad haircut! For me hair is the bane of my life and my crowning glory. I was born with thick curly hair but always wanted it sleek and straight. To this day am envious of naturally straight haired ladies. About 8 yrs ago started doing organic hair straighteners every 4 months. I have a shiny sleek sexy bob but it costs me a fortune. Would rather go without food lol than have my hair not looking fabulous. If your hair looks great everything looks great. Just my opinion but I think everyone looks better with straight hair. Thank u Frederique for the fabulous video and congrats on reaching over 70000 subscribers. U're a real star and have a special channel!

[@ms.frederique]

Thank you for sharing and kind comment x

[@jasmincordelia5477]

I did cry after stepping out of the hair salon more than once !🤭

[@alana6806]

A pain in the derrière. It’s exactly what we are at salons! J’adore !

[@deedeeblanscet4433]

I’ve cried many times. It was usually after a perm in the 80s.

[@ohgeezhannah]

Ohhhhh my goodness thank you for the spiel on hairdressers! I am one myself in the south in the USA (known for manners and politeness, haha!), and it blows my mind how people are afraid to ask for an adjustment if there’s something they don’t like, especially when it’s usually a simple tweak or fix if you’ve done a thorough consultation in the first place. Ladies, you hairdresser wants to please you, be honest with them! 😊

[@ms.frederique]

Thank you lovely ☺️

[@jasminflowerz1710]

In my experience, most get annoyed and snappy. It seems like the frustration of the job, dealing with the clients, weighs on them... so they lose patience. It's hard to find hair a hairdresser that's not like this. Also want good tips, regardless of mediocre service/ job.

[@hairdresser1300]

Picky clients are great because when a client knows what they want that's half the battle. I agree with Frederique's advice. BRING LOTS OF PHOTOS

[@ms.frederique]

Hahaha so true x

[@MassielMancebo]

Omg the pixie with the swept bang on you was just chefs kiss! Perfect!

[@ms.frederique]

thank you x

[@cubbyoharaclose4562]

I have long, blonde, wavey hair. I go to my hairdresser twice a year for highlights. I use good quality products. Nothing from the supermarket. I wash once or twice a week, depending on how much I perspire. I only use a curling creme. Dryer is only for special occasions. And I dry upside down 😂 My partner LOVES my hair. I'm pretty blessed even though it's thinned out heaps since menopause. Ladies. Make the most of what you have!❤️ Thankyou Frederique 💗 I have French blood, so I hear you! Loud and clear 😂💖

[@ms.frederique]

welcome and thanks for watching x

[@gingersnaps9674]

Thank you for all your videos! I love your sense of humor and tips! You have reignited my love for dressing up and caring for myself - I wish I had a friend like you nearby.

[@ms.frederique]

Sweet xx

[@marionandrews176]

I have cried. I now take multiple photos to the salon and explain exactly what I DO NOT want before I explain and show my stylist what I DO want. Then it all depends on the skill of the stylist. Cornstarch, especially organic, used sparingly, works better than dry shampoo to absorb oils.

[@utelaser2257]

Another straight forward video! Thank you for that. 😘 My crying experience after a haircut happend during the years I lived in India. My hair has natural curls and is thin in itself but otherwise has got lots of volume. At that time at the end of the 90ies, western haircuts where unknown in New Delhi and the hairdressers only knew how to cut straight, strong Indian hair (which I always admire). So here I came, asking to cut my shoulder length hair just a bit shorter but keep the steps. The hairdresser cut. And cut. And cut. At the end, I returned home with a 1 cm long men's haircut. The steps were great...... 🤣 My children first didn't recognize me, and, with a twinkle in his eyes, my husband recommended to let my hair just grow long Indian style.

[@susanschreyer7654]

Oh, yes! I can sympathize with crying after a haircut! It was part of my life as a curly-girl until I finally found the right person. She and I were a team for over 25 years until she moved to another part of the country. I miss her terribly, and haven't yet found the right person. However, I embrace my curly hair and have learned how to take care of it. No more crying!

[@tanyaeve9498]

Not all hairdressers can cut curly hair for sure!

[@ms.frederique]

No more crying go girl

[@SueRosalie]

I have a new hairdresser now - she is French from Paris and trained in Curly Girl Method - dry haircut then wash and diffuse dry and some further curl by curl final trim - takes 1.5 hours - my hair is fabulous and you only need to go back every 4-5 months

[@SueRosalie]

@@tanyaeve9498 it used to be standard part of training but isn't any more so you have to seek out people who are trained to cut curly hair dry and curl by curl - each curl clump is cut blunt on the ends, there is never any thinning or slicing or razoring which is damaging to curly hair

[@tanyaeve9498]

@@SueRosalie absolutely! I think the trend for straightening hair hasn't helped. Your hairdresser sounds fab.

[@sierrawave]

If you have medium brown hair and can’t find dry shampoo that isn’t light-colored, you can use cacao, which is unprocessed chocolate powder. Cocoa is processed and may have chemicals added. So use cacao, it soaks up oils and smells great! I just tap it on my roots with a cotton round and brush it in.

[@hairdresser1300]

WoW! Can't wait to try this

[@michellejeffrey2890]

One hairdresser left my highlight treatment in my hair too long and completely wrecked my hair. Only that one bad experience thank goodness. Your hair always looks so healthy and fabulous! I am so tempted to get my long hair cut to a shoulder length bob after lockdown. I have to be brave and just go for it.

[@ms.frederique]

ahaha don't be scared xx

[@eliwilliamson7849]

Cried a.lot over my haircuts through the years especially the ones from my mother.

[@tamiewert808]

Me too!!!😂

[@Mamabella59]

Yes, Yes, Yes! I cried one big time as a teen when I asked my mother to take me to this new trending salon in midtown NYC. I had lovely long hair and just wanted an "angle cut" which was popular then where they just cut an angle in the front meeting the back but not cutting the hair short. The hair dresser said she new exactly what I wanted but no. I saw my mothers face through the mirror and then the hair dresser brought my hair to the front. She cut it across. No style. I cried my way home with mom and next day was Easter Sunday and I didn't know how to hide my shorter unstyled hair from my dad who loved my long hair. So yes, it was very disappointing to me and my family especially that I had to take my graduation pictures for high school with that hair. Well it grew back.

[@martinezdirce9225]

So similar to what happened to me; it may seem trivial to many but for a teenager who was already going through a rough path (in my case) was really traumatizing….

[@vessyioannou259]

Hi Frederique I am watching again this video. Now I am my own hairdresser with the hardware scissors ever since my last comment I didn't want to go to the hairdresser so I just chopped my hair in few seconds amazingly it turn out perfect with only few hanging hairs that I fixed later. Now I will be cutting my hair all by myself until all the grey grows. I must say I look 100 years old with the grey hair but it's a lot healthier.

[@ms.frederique]

Sounds great!

[@A78cts23]

From an American hairdresser who works for a French hair company these are great 👍

[@ms.frederique]

Yeah

[@pjk1714]

Stylist hard to find that understand my hair. When I do, they are great and last 10 to 14 years usually. I like you limit washing, use oils and leave in products, avoid heavy setting creams or spray. I've had a couple bad situation but each I stand up for myself or in one case told them to stop. It took two stylists to fix that one after. Remember what works and advise stylist to not do techniques that don't, like texturing or excessive heat. If I trim my own, like during lockdowns, I always tell stylist so they evaluate before cutting. Thank you for the tips.

[@sophiaparsons7774]

I have always had long hair, I had a terrible hairdresser some years ago who dyed my hair orange , I complained and they did it again, again orange! I came home cried, went out with a hat and bought a hair dye, did it myself and got it to a lovely blonde! I have dyed my own hair ever since but have a trim every 10 weeks, I love your videos, I always learn something new, thank you x

[@ms.frederique]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@daivabaniene3815]

Good evening Frederique! We can tell you feel very good today.😁 Me too! I always wanted thick and curly long hair. People who has that and are straightening them every day makes me crazy!😬 But as you say, people always want what they don't have and don't appreciate what they do have-it's just a human nature. I didn't experimented much with my hair to be honest, I regret a few permanents in my youth (because of strong chemicals they used back then), but I liked my short hair when I was a teenager. Very first time I colored my hair I was 33 and I colored in red...My hairdresser was shocked about my choice, but when I said I am going thru divorce, she didn't question my choice anymore. After that I stopped any coloring, I don't have any grey hair to cover and I have very healthy, shiny hair, so what is the point? I never left my hairdresser crying or unhappy, it's always opposite actually, I guess I am the best client-always happy and satisfied. 😌 My sister on another hand had much more problems with her hairdressers. Once I went with her to the hairdresser, my sister has a blond hair, but she wanted to have a highlights. The hairdresser put too much chemicals on her hair and it became very curly like a permanent (she has a very straight hair). I was shocked, never saw that before, then she was trying to fix it with a lot of balsams and oils, but it didn't really helped after a few days she started to lose a lot of hair. My daughter on another hand has a lot and thick hair very long one untill her waist and she is going to cut half and go platinum blond in a few days, will see about the results...🤔🙄

[@ms.frederique]

Thank you so much for sharing Daiva xx

[@candaces3959]

Hello Frederique! Love your videos and your sense of humor! Yes, I have cried once or twice. I had very dark brown hair when I was younger and my hairdresser was always trying to convince me to put a in a highlight or a streak. One day I was weak and consented. It took about 5 hours to bleach out my hair for the streak she wanted to put in. Afterwards I looked like a skunk. I cried then went back and made her fix it. And she did - no charge. By the way, I am American.

[@ms.frederique]

Good for you x

[@sophiel9421]

What a great video (again) thank you Frederique 😘

[@ms.frederique]

Thanks again!

[@natalie73animals]

I agree that natural hair is the most beautiful, even a little messy.

[@susanjaneleitner7670]

Yes! Yes! Yes! I have cried and gone back to talk to the hairdresser. Once, the hairdresser could not care less so I did not go back! However, a good hairdresser wants to satisfy you and really appreciates your feedback. I have a new hairdresser because we are restricted and she lives in my building and is seeing private clients. I lucked out! She is a find! She cut my hair short and chic. I love it!! I love your tips. I have never used a hair mask! Not ever! I will now!! Thank you Fabulous Frederique! See you next time! ❤️ Suzy

[@ms.frederique]

see u next time suzy xx

[@KMMC7349]

I have very curly hair, most of my life its been to the middle of my back.... twice.... TWICE..... I've had hairdressers cut it to my shoulders when I went in for a trim! All because they don't know how to cut curls! I do it myself now.

[@SusanBame]

My first experience at a salon was in West Virginia, VERY rural West Virginia, in the 1970s when I was a teenager and the hippie movement was the in thing. I came out of the salon looking like a 70-year-old (from the 1970s in rural West Virginia). Think early Dolly Parton.

[@ms.frederique]

oh no but thank you Dolly for making me laugh :)

[@she_likes_her_style]

Oh my, I have cried MANY times after a hairdresser visit! the last time was Feb this year, went in for highlights and came out like MARILYN MONROE!! I swear! I was so shocked I nearly fell off the chair! how on earth could a few natural looking highlights turn into a bright white blond all over! I cried, then cried some more, rang a friend who persuaded me to ring the hairdresser back and tell her she needed to fix it...it got toned down but I basically had to live with THAT hair all through lock down and only got it sorted last week!! I can tell you this time I was painfully clear about what I wanted, had photos, styles, and IT TURNED OUT PERFECT! I gave that hairdresser a second chance where once I just wouldn't have went back ever again. (also back in the early 90s once asked for a concave bob only to have the back of my head shaved !!! ARGGGGH cue more tears - it took 6 MONTHS to grow out!!! and usually I come home from hairdresser and style it myself all over again because I do a better job..... Frederieque, look at what you started with this video! LOL ! but we have to laugh these things off right? :-)

[@ms.frederique]

Yes have a good laugh 😆

[@ccadvisor489]

I love Nuxe dry oil for hair and skin. I have done very short hair cuts and I have had very long hair styles. I have never cried at least, not so far.😊

[@ms.frederique]

They smell delicious but why test on animals 🧐

[@raptimitra2672]

Great video! You look very beautiful as always! If you haven't mentioned that you haven't washed your hair...no one could have even guessed! I go to this parlor since I hit puberty... Till this date I only go there! No where else... About why I go there? Well I did that mistake of cutting my hair from another parlor and I came back home and I cried! Lesson learned! Just day before yesterday I went there after the entire lockdown period and another month and every one was so happy and greeted me!

[@ms.frederique]

Thank you so much for sharing 🤪

[@katarzynajaszczak5529]

I cried few times after leaving hairdresser…now I have good one she knows what color I like… with haircut it’s ok … I still have not found someone who could cut my hair the way I like… Love your vlogs! Greetings from Detroit

[@ms.frederique]

Thank you for sharing and liking xx

[@philippapay4352]

Follow your hairdresser anywhere. Mine moved to Yorkshire, England, and now is headed to Alaska after being widowed. My hair care has not been the same since. Love your earrings. Are they turquoise? Oh, I would never let a hairdresser, especially one that thinks of himself as an artiste, to surprise me with my hair. I am quite specific and I do not expect to walk out looking like Angelina Jolie with hair, body, face and bank account matching hers. You are so right that we must revive the color. If not, we will tend to over-process our hair by coloring it more frequently. Once my hair was not done right and the establishment did correct it for me.

[@ms.frederique]

yes turquoise old earrings :) thanks for sharing xxx

[@marianunes8747]

Hello Frédérique! Just like you I love having a healthy hair. I use argan oil every day after wash my hair (I wash my hair everyday ... I Know!!!!) and use a daily mask! YES, I don't remember if I cried, but when I was around 19 or 20 I came back to my hairdresser, I ate so much, to went back and my hair, Jesus!!! Have a lovely sunny days!

[@ms.frederique]

Argan and coconut oil really good

[@5DNRG]

Yes, I've cried after a hair appt...in fact, I bought a wig to cover the mess! Great advice! Merci beaucoup.

[@ms.frederique]

thank you lovely x

[@SandraVLewis1]

I agree with you 100% on everything you have said about hair. So many women when they get older have their hair cut so short and let their hair go grey ! Oh no no definitely not me , I go to an expensive hairdressers, have hair coloured blonde and since lockdown have let it grow but usually just resting on my shoulders. I spend lot of money on high quality products because I did use cheap products and it’s like throwing you money away, by the way I forgot to mention I am in my seventies. XXX

[@ms.frederique]

Thank you so much for watching xxx

[@debbieanderson6740]

My mom took me to her hair dresser when I was 12 years old for a perm and cut. I even had a picture. I was horrified! The hair ladies said that it was so adorable but I hated it. Trauma as a kid.

[@5DNRG]

I was traumatized too in 7th grade when Mom chopped off all my hair, horrifying to me. I now cant stand short hair on me, sadly.

[@vkngwmn6636]

perms are OUTDATED

[@annesikaddour7225]

Je suis morte de rire: moi j'ai des cheveux épais, noirs et bouclés...mais quand j'étais plus jeune j' aurais voulu avoir les cheveux raides et avec ton genre de coupe!! Like you I tried many cuts, lengths, styles and colors ( including prune/purple and orange). I have mostly been satisfied, often positively surprised, sometimes upset, but I have never cried 🙂. Being self confident is what matters: it's what's IN your head, not ON your head that ultimately shines through. Frédérique you're right: hair grows fast after all, keep your sense of humor and just don't overdo it!

[@ms.frederique]

Merci anne j'aurais adore avoir les cheveux epais et boucles! lol

[@lisarachwellness535]

I could listen to you all day!! You are hilarious and so down to earth, love your videos! 🥰

[@ms.frederique]

🤗

[@alana6806]

I’m in Canada, and yes was shocked after a hair blow dry at a local salon... Since I just do my hair myself

[@AngelaHansraj]

I’ve been surprise so many times too many tears😂 do you have good products for thin hair for volume can you please do a video❤️

[@ms.frederique]

I have terrible thin hair but I will do a video yes

[@EricaD61]

Lovely!! Thanks for the tips 😘

[@ms.frederique]

No problem 😊

[@vaL-kv6uy]

Yes, I have cried after hairdressers insistent did it her way. Never went back there. Since then, I've given specific Not to do's - some hairdressers criticize me for being picky but I don't care because they obviously don't care about making me happy with what they do to my hair. Unfortunately in USA, you still have to pay $ even though you hate what the hairdresser did.

[@danieladeutsch1708]

Oooh yes! I have cried so much! I was blonde (my original color is marrone) and I wanted to go back...and I have specifically said what I want and I chose the color. I have asked: "Will this color look on my hair this way?" - It did not! And she cut so much off! Dear Lord! (My hair goes under my derrière - that half was off!!!) I remember crying so hard as I was waiting for a taxi that I have got an angina next day! Uuuf, you have to look hard to find your hairdresser! (Yes, I prefer men too :) Love you, chérie! You look amazing! Every hair cut suits you, I bet! :)

[@katherineklepp9403]

Oh Yes! I have cry few times from a bad hair cut. For the past few years I found a hair dresser and he is also French. Every time I get a haircut with him I feel like a million dollar women. Thank you Frederique for your great videos😊❤️

[@ms.frederique]

My pleasure xxx

[@janinemartin722]

I love your hair this way Frederique, amazing videos, you have a beautiful personality and soul. I have very long hair, and have had many bad experiences at the hairdresser. Now I only go for a trim once a year, and my personal preferance, is a man.

[@tinamarieschaffer-sick4456]

Hello again. Yes, I totally agree with you about male stylists. Also, I had a terrible highlighting experience. I had already knew I did not like it but when I got home my husband greeted me at the door. I asked the loaded question... "how do you like it?" My husband responded very bluntly (he is German heritage), "I DON'T like it." I asked him again. He responded the same. I cried. Ran to the store to buy a box of color. I have not dyed my hair since this episode - that was 14+ years ago. I guess I have virgin hair now. lol.

[@TheFifileigh]

i usually take a picture from a fashion magazine with the same or similar haircut to give them an idea what I want.

[@edennis3202]

I tried that. All I got was an argument that she couldn't get that look with my hair. Now I do it myself.

[@Shaara1]

@@edennis3202 Typical. If they can't do it they say it's because your hair can't be done like that.

[@Shaara1]

They can see completely different on the same picture.

[@SusanBame]

Your hair is gorgeous. Whatever youʻre doing, keep doing it -- and thanks for sharing your tips!

[@Rhoda678678]

bringing in photos is so important!!

[@ms.frederique]

Pinterest!

[@hairdresser1300]

@@ms.frederique also photos of your own hair that you may have loved in the past

[@jred1838]

I love your previous looks. They all look good on you (current as well!). I was a teen in the 80's when "natural" was not in. Thank God the movie Flashdance came out and ta da I could quit hot rollering my hair! I now have let my hair go silver. I love how it looks. My hairdresser says it looks good. My kids try to get me to color it all the time - it took too long to grow it out!

[@ms.frederique]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@hairdresser1300]

silver is beautiful when it isn't frizzy.

[@theschnauz2138]

I am a new subscriber and love your information and personality. ❤️. When I went through menopause my hair became very curly. I have a whole process to make the curls look defined but natural. It takes a long time to look natural and effortless. 🤣 I also don’t wash more than twice a week..and use hair masks and hair oils because my hair can become quite brittle. A simple ponytail is my go to as it always looks neat and sophisticated. I also add a small silk scarf to my ponytail so that it looks “finished”.

[@ms.frederique]

Thank you and welcome 🤗

[@LucyRobichaud]

Yes I’ve cried

[@joannlessner1551]

Cried more times than not. Never go anymore. Learned to cut my own hair, if I make a mistake at least I don't have to pay for it!

[@pamelaolson5614]

I have just been letting my hair grow only trimming every six weeks or so. I cut and color my own hair and don't use too much products.

[@elligilberg1564]

Yes, I cried once when the hair dresser decided that a short bob was what I needed. I asked for a long bob, well below my chin, but that’s not what I walked out with. It was such a shock because I had never had short hair before! (It did not suit my face). I will always remember that experience.

[@hairdresser1300]

I bet that person got lost in the cut

[@beautyintheeyeoflarissa5889]

I 💖 Leonor Greyl Masque Fleurs de Jasmin!

[@txspacemom765]

Love you with the short hair! WOOT WOOT! Sassy!

[@ms.frederique]

thank you!

[@helenjean4543]

I simply love your classy way. You make me feel good inside. Thank you. 🎄

[@ms.frederique]

wow that's a compliment - Thank you Helen xxxx

[@giselal2403]

Pixie cut looked great on you! Thanks for the fun video!

[@doxtraxstudios1408]

I have never cried from a job that a hairdresser has done but I sure did when I tried to do highlights myself using a home kit. Eeeks! My hairdresser fixed it for me the very next day and didn't even give me a bad time for trying it myself.

[@marionwinski1323]

Hi Federica, i like your narrative way to speak. I agree with you about your content. Keep going! Well done. Love Marion from Germany

[@ms.frederique]

will do thank you darling x

[@lorigiberson4799]

Great video and a really good hair day for you too! I love all the looks you've shared and I absolutely agree with the French "natural-beauty" philosophy.

[@ms.frederique]

Thank you so much!!

[@annettedeee6811]

I’m British too, I had a perm in the 90’s ! The curls where so tight, I had to wear my hair up for two years ! Joy ! 😭

[@littletez85]

Do french women go totally natural with their hair? Do they like graying? I've stopped coloring my hair a few years back bit people always ask me if I got highlights. I love my hair! I have a short pixie cut.

[@maryalexander1019]

Frederique, you truly are a gem❤️

[@ms.frederique]

Hahah thank you you too xx

[@simplifylife3304]

I’ve now started cutting my own hair. So I know how to cut it how I like. Keeping the length but trimming the ends 👍🏽 and also it saves me money on that twice yearly hair cut. Using more natural hair products helps.

[@ms.frederique]

Love that!

[@urScorpioLady]

Omg I cried this one time I will never forget Hahha 🙈🙈 I told her exactly what I wanted and she didn’t deliver

[@adriennekushner2492]

I am lucky that I have a wonderful hairdresser. She always asks, "what are we doing today?" I tell her to surprise me and I am never disappointed. I stopped coloring my hair about 15 years ago and get compliments about my natural white streak in the front.

[@ms.frederique]

Very good!

[@lisaduplessis6856]

i love your hair colour. would you share the shade with us? during lockdown you did it yourself...what product and shade did you use?

[@ms.frederique]

I changed all the time haha

[@Ellzy1]

When I was in France, I asked for recommendations on where to get my haircut and I was told many times, if I’m traveling, wait until I get to London. I didn’t and got it cut and coloured in Aubusson and I thought it looked very nice.

[@bokky24]

Hello Frederique, a few years ago a celebrity stylist recommended me the hair care range from Christophe Robin. It was so expensive I thought no way am i going to buy this...10 years later I just bought his masque ( prickly pear oil) because of my dry fizzy hair that no supermarket or pharmacy brand solved. O.M.G. I now own the whole range. Who needs to eat if you have great hair ;)

[@ms.frederique]

Hahahha very funny story thank you for sharing x

[@f.m.a.7383]

Thank you! An informative and enjoyable video : )

[@barbaradieckmann9020]

What about very short pixie cuts. I grew up with many French singers in Europe who had plenty pixie cuts and looked adorable. Now that I’m 78 I’m going back to that style because it’s easy and no fuss. I do Like a bit of French class on my hair. What to do???

[@jennytaylor3324]

I wish I had access to French salons. I'm 45 and have seldom found a hairdresser in the UK who can cut in classical way. 'Less is more' strikes me as the essence of French haircuts.

[@ms.frederique]

Hahahha

[@Daphnea65]

Merci Frédérique pour vos fantastiques vidéos. De judicieux conseils offerts avec humour! Je m'abonne!

[@ms.frederique]

trop gentil merci Daphne xxx

[@johnbrandon4732]

This video is so much fun!!! thank you

[@ms.frederique]

You are so welcome! ❤️

[@odalis6177]

Great video. Wash hair once a week. Get a good haircut. Low maintenance. And go with the natural color of your hair. ♥️

[@odalis6177]

Oh I forgot , my worst haircut the one my mom gave me when I was 10. 😂😂

[@ms.frederique]

Thank you 😊

[@janemackrell3733]

I cry many times after visits to the hairdresser!! It started when I was 8 years old and they ‘set’ my hair in rollers. My hair was naturally curly! At 10 my hair was cut short like Mia Farrow - except I didn’t look like Mia Farrow - I cried! I had a perm to straighten my hair - I cried. I had my hair layered - I cried. I like it at the moment. I only cried recently when my hairdresser went on maternity leave 😉😉

[@ritasagri9884]

Great advise love the video. Back in the 80's I had a haircut very short on one side the other side long came home thought I looked tops but dad send to me I think the hairdresser didnt finish the job he laught and send you looked better before and he was right because with in weeks went back and cut the longer side to match the shorter side. I can laugh now about that time but learnt after that to really explain and show pics of what I like and easy to maintain for my lifestyle. Come in from Beautiful Macedon Ranges Victoria Australia.🙌💖🦋

[@christinamarcille5280]

Because I have thick curly Greek hair I use a almond oil and Paul Mitchell skinny serum and aveda smoothing cream I let it dry naturally than I use a flat iron to smooth and curl it at the same time My hair is smooth and soft to the touch and not frizzy Hope this helps my fellow ethnic sisters!

[@rubyrubymaestas3254]

B

[@lyndathorpe280]

Currently growing out stripey hair from what should have been blended. Very Blonde on top with a cruella deville type streak at the front and dark blonde and leftover orange highlights from previous visit underneath!! Hairdresser claimed it would all blend together with purple shampoo. That didn’t happen. On the hunt for someone else now.

[@ms.frederique]

Cruella hahaha lol

[@jennybolter1102]

since lockdown I have cut my own hair, my hubby does the back, I only go for a dry cut when I do go to a hairdresser, in all my years I have never found one who could blow dry my hair without frying it, got to say my lovely be wary of dry shampoo it is known to cause hair fallout, xxx

[@ms.frederique]

good to know! thx

[@hannahmartinez4259]

The best hairdresser I've ever had was a man. He was from Cuba and very fabulous! It was a sad day when I learned he quit- still haven't found a replacement.

[@MsBaby1959]

Hi dear, my hair follows the seasons, Summer=Frizz, Fall=Smooth, Winter=Thick&wavy, Spring =curly waves 😂 Today was a good hair day for me :D. Btw I only go to the hair Salon 2 or 3 times a year, I enjoy styling my own hair and luckily I have few greys so I do touch ups. Hope you are well my friend 😘

[@ms.frederique]

Thanks for sharing!!