Heart Attacks in Women: Common Warning Signs That Are Often Dismissed

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

🎥We have a second interview just posted with Carolyn with more updates on women’s heart health and lesser known risk factors for heart disease: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oom1aIh_jdVgaJI

[@VerdureVision]

Women should never have to feel embarrassed for “taking up space” in an ER, nor for insisting on proper medical care. The first doctor who treated Carolyn was arrogant and ultimately negligent. No one knows your body better than YOU. Doctors (esp. male doctors!) need to listen to female patients when those patients know something is not right and are saying so. This story is infuriating, but knowledge is power. Advocate for yourselves, ladies. Never be intimidated by a white coat. They are doctors, not gods. This video is a valuable cautionary tale.

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Agree. Thank you for the comment!

[@kashumbushabruce1829]

Thanx my girl friend has a chest pain problem, she is still young

[@ccrum1127]

I changed doctors chose a female int med…I had a heart attack in 2008 at 51yo…

[@LiseWrigley]

Female doctors can be guilty of the same arrogance. It isn't gender specific.

[@paulao7022]

That Dr. Should resign and go work at a non medical profession.

[@Kinypshun]

I was dismissed by my PCP while actively having a heart attack. Sweating, severe arm pain and severe acid reflux. My husband saved my life by forcing me to go to ER.

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Thank you so much for the comment. I also highly recommend this interview we did with research scientist Dr. Glen Pyle: How Menopause Affects Your Heart w/Dr. Glen Pyle kzbin.info/www/bejne/i5yXaJiHrL6LpNU

[@donnamorgan2522]

Family save us-I was sweating,on the floor struggling for air & my son got the Ambulance. NO pain whatsoever so blood results were a rude shock.

[@lindajones4849]

Thank God for your husband having the good sense to override your ( hopefully former) PCP.

[@kathy3448]

The clinic dr I went to told me get your eyes checked and I’m not giving you pain medication if that why you here. Later my. Son saw me and my pain took me to er and I was having a heart attack and had to have quadruple bypass. Now I have a doctor that cares which are rare now. I’m also tired of nurses that diagnosis ailments

[@donnamorgan2522]

@@kathy3448 Heart attack symptoms are different for us all-I couldn’t breathe,my neighbour couldn’t walk. Im grateful my Ambulance crew knew what they were seeing on the monitor. I had my Aorta replaced 5 yrs before. Profuse sweating seems to be the common factor tho. I had a great GP who diagnosed my heart condition but he went on holiday-never came back. I have changed GP since the heart attack & although Im on a truckload of daily meds,I feel great & happy with my care.

[@deborahcesar8567]

I did not have any chest pain. I thought that I had the flu. I got diarrhea and threw up for a week. I started to feel better but soon after (a couple of days) i began to feel lousy and had trouble going upstairs and had to sleep sitting upright. 2 days later I came downstairs and told my husband (a retired physician) that something was very wrong. he put on a pulse ox and my oxygen level was very low. He listened to my lungs and thought I had pneumonia. When I couldn't catch my breath, he called 911. They hooked me up and found that I was having a heart attack. They took me to the hospital that was best at dealing with that. When I got there they immediately took me into the procedure room. They tried to stent me for quite some time, but were unable to as my heart was too damaged. It turns out that I'd been having heart attacks for over a week. Mind you, I had no chest pain! This happened a year and a half ago. I am now 72 and have a very damaged heart with an ejection fraction of 20. A normal person my age has an e.f. about 60. The day they brought me in the ambulance to the hospital, they didn't expect me to make it through the night. But I had many people praying for me. ( My husband is a pastor.) And the Lord had another plan. I am doing pretty well considering. But I wanted to let women know that we don't always have normal heart symptoms, even for woman.

[@ellatoler9706]

I didn't have any chest pain either.

[@SS-rl9bg]

Thank you. I'm glad that your husband wore multiple hats! Prayer is powerful

[@oliveoyl1802]

I once told a doctor who was dismissing my complaints that he may know medicine but I know my body. It at least worked in getting him to take my issues more seriously. You go, ladies ❤

[@bernicebraaten5199]

Great video. Just had a heart attack at 75. The only symptom that I was aware of was pain in both arms. Pain disappeared from the right arm but the left arm got worse and went to the back of the neck. Took my BP which was very high went to ER immediately. 4 days later had a quadruple bypass. No family history, no previous high BP, no chest pain. I was eating all the recommended healthy foods. I was the family “health nut”. I hope no one feels embarrassed to go to er. My care has been outstanding. Thank you for your video

[@anitastanley8986]

Mine was under left armpit then down left arm. Pain in back. Healthy, non smoker , drinker.. it’s so sudden, I could not believe I was having one.

[@bernicebraaten5199]

@@anitastanley8986 I hope you have recovered and are doing well💕

[@anitastanley8986]

@@bernicebraaten5199 thank you. Taking pills which have side effects, now I feel old at 82! Never thought it would happen to be. Best wishes to everyone.

[@raymondmaheux3996]

I am surprise for a woman working in an hospital that you don’t know more

[@katmarj2937]

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[@ceoa]

As a healthcare worker i learned quickly that there are doctors that are not as knowledgeable as they should be. A lot of times the nurses are more aware of their patients condition than they are. 🧑‍⚕️

[@amypetra5021]

And because of their pride, and often smugness, they won’t listen to the nurse. As if the nurses are stupid! Thank you for the kind job you do 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️❤️

[@smilinglynn9584]

My mom, at 128 pounds and age 58, died of a massive heart attack. Her symptoms were sweating profusely, feeling faint, vomiting, back pain between her shoulder blades, and falling unconscious. She was gone. She wouldn't go to a doctor.... Please take care of yourself!

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

My condolences. This is so tragic.

[@rhibb3416]

So sorry for your loss ❤

[@NanaMarie99]

😊

[@redisetgo.]

I'm so sorry for your loss. That's far too young.

[@YM-zz5qq]

My sister had the same symptoms you described your mother as having, with her first heart attack. We lost her 2 years after her heart transplant. She was also only 58 when she passed, and she also had a normal BMI. I feel your pain, and am very sorry for your loss as well. ❤

[@christineblackmore9977]

As a Registered Nurse, I'm sad about the response from that nurse. I'm guilty about not wanting to cause any concern for myself, but will work on catching myself when I do so. I constantly remind my community about advocacy in the Healthcare system. This was a great reminder.

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Thank you for watching! I also highly recommend this interview I did with Dr. Glen Pyle on how Estrogen affects cardiovascular health: kzbin.info/www/bejne/i5yXaJiHrL6LpNU❤️‍🩹

[@marianbrown2234]

Play beatles twist and shout

[@johnnyebelindabewley4536]

i as a nurse as well will tell the women if they are feeling any discomfort any where to let me know and when they do immediately get vital signs and check blood glucose and notify md of these changes immediately dont hesitate this is your license as well as the dr's please listen to your patients more thank you

[@marywinslow5808]

Family history is high for mine . Women in 50 , men 63 death from heart attacks .. my little sister died at 55 from 4 attacks but heart failure one year. 💔

[@rochellemcdonald9646]

Three things that get you seen quickly: Unconscious, profuse bleeding, and difficulty breathing. I drove myself to the ER, the night after I had gone to an urgent care for what I thought might have been pneumonia. I was having a runny nose, coughing, and difficulty breathing. Urgent care said I had pulled a back muscle coughing. RX: Motrin and a heating pad. 12 hours later, I couldn't get into a comfortable position, to sleep, so I headed to the hospital. Told them I was having difficulty breathing. They kept trying to get me to lay down, but it was uncomfortable. I had a Pulmonary Embolism. Thank God I wasn't able to get to sleep.

[@maryannbrown5762]

OMG. So glad you are here to tell your story!! Surviving a pulmonary embolism is extremely rare. Where in your body did the blood clot originate?

[@rochellemcdonald9646]

@@maryannbrown5762 I think it happened from a car accident. My seat belt bruised my collar bone.

[@777Pattie]

​@@rochellemcdonald9646 I didn't know a blood clot from an injury could travel to our lung area, omg. So glad you survived this to tell others what happened. God bless 💕

[@hanagloriaedelblum5693]

A friend had a heart attack at age 60 or so. She was given a stent and refused all follow up medications, much to the anger of the cardiologist surgeon. She focused on diet and stress and is doing fine, 7 years later.

[@marymorningstar6832]

It can be done

[@kkdoc7864]

I am an ER Dr who has long been aware of the unusual symptoms that are experienced by woman, but this one had CLASSIC symptoms. Troponin levels are not elevated without heart damage. Her initial symptoms were classic for stable angina. I would NEVER have discharged her!

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Thank you for the comment. We have a second interview just posted with Carolyn in case you are interested: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oom1aIh_jdVgaJI

[@aw7133]

I had indigestion pain in the chest and upper back area together with left arm, shoulder and tooth pain for several months before my 'episode' one Sunday afternoon 18 months ago. I'd been to the Dr a week before as I couldn't climb more than the second stairstep without sharp chest pain together with palpations and even when the ECG showed an abnormal reading I was told to wait for a Cardiologist appointment and given the nitro spray to use. When I ended up calling an ambulance and going to hospital my blood pressure was 216/160 with an elevated troponin level. I had to stop work and even now I have not completely recovered as I'm still experiencing angina turns even with medication.

[@GrammaJo360]

My friend took her mother to the ER for those same symptoms. They laughed it off and sent her home with an antacid. She died within minutes of getting home. They could probably have saved her life if they had not been so arrogant and dismissive.

[@6821hominy]

What a devastating loss - so shocking. I’m sure the family is was in shock. Very sorry.,

[@wendykelcey1246]

A doctor is a doctor, but unfortunately he may still be the arrogant know-it-all that they were when they were younger. So yes, we need to stand up for ourselves.

[@wendykelcey1246]

Fortunately, there are many WONDERFUL doctors who really listen.

[@tinamills4779]

​@@wendykelcey1246there are, but sadly this type of event in women's healthcare is very common - especially with heart disease.

[@wendykelcey1246]

@@tinamills4779 that’s tragic.

[@LiseWrigley]

My ex husband's girlfriend had a similar experience at the SAME HOSPITAL. She too had a heart attack with similar symptoms. They told her she just had the flu. There isn't much good I can say about my ex who certainly causes a lot of heart damage on his own, but he does have perseverance and he knew something was wrong. He kept taking her back to the Jubilee and several more times they rejected her over a week long period. Maybe more. They finally took interest and realized something was wrong. She had had a massive heart attack. After surgery they told her she had the largest hole in her heart they had ever seen in a living patient. She had a genetic condition of narrow valves. Her mom had died of the same thing at a young age. But the hospital had not listened to that. This vibrant 40 year old suddenly had the heart of an 85 yr old. Wisdom came to her a bit late but she too dumped my ex. Heart health is so important. Jubilee needs to listen to its female patients. And women need to listen to their gut. Red flags mean something.

[@joycenelson9057]

I saw 4 Cardioligist and finally the 4th listened to me, 95% blockage!!!

[@colleensmith3374]

So unreal

[@belindaschmidt9964]

Whats sad about that is that a cardiologist is a heart specialist!!! Unbelievable!!!

[@sedoniadragotta8323]

Hope ur feeling better now

[@maemae1752]

What were your symptoms?

[@lauraferguson6312]

I had my heart attack at 52. At no time have I ever been told that the pre-eclampsia I had for both my pregnancies could lead to a heart attack. I also work in Health care and was so lucky I was at work at Victoria General when it happened. I was rushed from VGH to the Royal Jubilee and straight into surgery. I was also diagnosed with acid reflux before my heart attack. My symptoms were different though. I started yawning and could not stop. Before one yawn ended another was starting. Then the nausea hit and I vomited. I had been at my GP’s office two days previously and nothing was detected. Recently I have been diagnosed at 59 with a AAA(abdominal Aortic Aneurysm). Which was only detected because I had an MRI for a back injury that was not getting better. I have also been diagnosed with Sleep Apnea. No woman in my family have had heart disease nor my father or brother. Woman are being ignored and misdiagnosed and dying because of it.

[@brandistokes3213]

I’ve never heard this about pre-eclampsia! This is very scary because I had three pregnancies with pre eclampsia. My first one the dr said I had an enlarged heart but they did and echocardiogram and it was fine so it was not mentioned during other two pregnancies. I will definitely be looking into this tho!

[@marywilliams9858]

After complaining to the Head of the Emerg at the General here in Ottawa, I am treated like gold. Put it in WRITING!

[@leannabedore]

I am so sorry for everything you have gone through, I can very much relate. My gma was just diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer and only found out due to her accident, an apple size tumor that the XRay didnt catch 2 months ago.😢 she was seeing a pulmonary dr the last 6 months with all sorts of symptoms that make sense now that we know. I know you mentioned you would not have know about your AA but have you had any symptoms? I feel like I may have one because I get a tight pain and tightness then it lessons and all this blood rushes and my stomach feels better. Something with my stomach and circulation. Cardio did a few routine checks and said everything is good, we know our bodies better than anyone and can be so frustrating.

[@vickiehardina8824]

Scary so many doctors don't really don't know what they are doing!

[@logicrealitytruth]

Our for profit, pharmacy and insurance-controlled medical system is very broken!😱 I stress out before every medical appointment now. 🥺 I have so much damage from misdiagnosis, botched surgeries, and toxic FDA-approved medications. 😢 The EPIC medical records are so inaccurate and stress provoking too! 😱

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Thank you for watching! I also highly recommend this interview I did with Dr. Glen Pyle on how Estrogen affects cardiovascular health: kzbin.info/www/bejne/i5yXaJiHrL6LpNU❤️‍🩹

[@jmahoney9561]

Not only that, but so arrogant that they put themselves on high pedestals and don’t know a damn thing about women hearth symptoms and don’t want to listen to you either! Too busy working for Big Pharma and NOT what’s best for their Patients! 😢sad, very sad. 😞

[@sarahachord9295]

That’s why it’s called practicing medicine. Everyone is human and make mistakes but doctors should be the most empathetic imo. I’ve had several doctors not enjoy my questioning especially pediatricians for my children. I’ve had much more sympathy from nurses.

[@sedoniadragotta8323]

Well they don't care about you they just care about pushing their drugs cos they legal drug dealers what drug dealer cares if they injure or kills someone.

[@briannaromero2691]

I would drive to another hospital before I felt embarrassed. I don’t trust medical professionals. They’re all just regular people, no one can be perfect and no one can know everything and I m aware of that. Second opinions are everything

[@annblachly8068]

Even men aren't always taken seriously. One of our sons had his girlfriend take him to the ER and they sent him away with pain meds. She didn't leave it at that, but said, nope, we are going to another hospital 40 miles away. They recognized he had a clot in his kidney artery. I had to return to ER the next day when they sent me home with pain meds after I'd already delayed seeking help for 2 weeks and 20 pounds weight loss with gut pain and non-stop D. Next day I said, I cannot pee now. They placed stents in both ureters due to the inflammation. Antibiotics and morphine and intravenous hydration. A week in that hospital, still no better. To a hospital 100 miles away. A week no better. They decided exploratory surgery and automatic full hysterectomy. Fine. Kicked me out next day. I had to stay overnight with a nephew and his wife and infant until my husband came for me the next day. I will definitely advocate better for myself all-round if there is a next time I am hospitalized. After another gut illness where family was concerned I should seek medical help, I managed to recover without doctor or hospital (still during the height of the latest nonsense). I am taking even better care of myself food-wise. Although, I think that illness was possibly poisoning from treated grain and dust from mouse infested vehicle I cleaned the same day. Maybe even shedding from a nephew I hugged and kissed on the neck who'd had the jab.

[@MarJo333]

You might not have the time to do that. YOU DONT LEAVE THAT HOSPITAL !!

[@beverlybartlett2756]

You can say that until you’re told you are not having a heart attack. A female doctor sent me to have a catheter which found a blockage they showed me. I had a stent put in and felt something was missing because I no longer had chest pain. Just went back for my annual checkup and a new male doctor told me again I really didn’t have a heart attack. I just told him I didn’t agree with him. But that makes me feel even more like never going back for future heart pains.

[@DelusionDispeller]

Bingo! Always get a second opinion!!!. My children and I are still alive after undiagnosed and misdiagnosed illnesses by medical ppl, due to my always seeking second opinions. Most recently my former nurse practitioner refused to call me in some symbicort. A friend of mine happened to have it and sent me some. Saved my LIFE! I was literally drowning in my own mucus!

[@violet9853]

They are not perfect. The problem is when they think they are... but they think you don't know anything about yourself, so they don't need to listen to you.

[@cookingwithvicki9292]

excellent podcast. i can relate to everything she spoke about. i actually had a heart attack while i was in hospital on the cardiac unit after having a complication being stunted. i had terrible chest pain that wouldn’t go away. i was hooked up to cardiac monitor and was told i was fine. the pain was so bad and i was so scarred that i went into the hall to be close to the nurses station in case something happened . the nurse saw me crying in the hallway and asked me what was wrong. i explained my symptoms and the nurse reassured me that i was probably having heart burn. i found it odd as i’ve never had heartburn in my life. i was embarrassed that i was crying and getting so upset so i went back into my room. i was discharged 2 days later and it was a couple of weeks later when i was having a phone call with my cardiologist and i was explaining how i was feeling when i found out i actually had a heart attack during my hospital stay. i was in utter shock . i could relate to the speakers story on so many levels. thank you for all the information.

[@elenalatici9568]

Inexcusable to the point of criminal. What a horrible thing to go through. What was your reaction when you learned 2 weeks later(!!!!) that you were actually having a heart attack while in the cardiology department? I have never sued anyone in my life and I am 77, but if I'd had your experience, I definitely would have sued. What happened to you is so frightening and so common. Thank you for posting your story.

[@kellymckay5874]

I could relate..I was treated badly I was on the floor crying in pain.. they just gave me antacid..sent me home. A week later did a jogging stress test. That same day had 4 stents put in..I had apparently had a heart attack..

[@SonetLandman]

​@@elenalatici9568I also crashed while I was in the CCU. It was over Easter Weekend.

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Thank you so much for the comment. I also highly recommend this interview we did with research scientist Dr. Glen Pyle: How Menopause Affects Your Heart w/Dr. Glen Pyle kzbin.info/www/bejne/i5yXaJiHrL6LpNU

[@maryannerazzano7692]

Cardiac RN here , you were in the hospital and had a Stent placed in your heart ? And they ignored chest pain ? I am so sorry , we never would have done that

[@elizabethdumas4147]

People entering the ER via ambulance get taken more seriously than those walking in. Always err on the side of caution and call 911 if you suspect you are having a heart attack. The paramedics in the ambulance knew i was having a heart attack because of the ECG and began 1st line treatment immediately. Never be intimidated by doufas Doctors or nurses. Women have strong intuition and we must trust our instincts. It is better to be wrong and alive than to end up dying because of embarrassment.

[@ABC-gh2sv]

I’m 28 and started searching for signs because I’ve been having awful off and on pain in the center of my chest and have a family history of women having heart attacks fairly young. Grandmother passed at 47 from one and mom also had one at 47. I’ve also had my smart watch pick up a fib alerts. Everything Carolyn is sharing is just so spot on to issues I’ve had with medical “professionals” in the passed for other issues that keep me from bringing this up. The way they dismiss you and the embarrassment. I had a doctor put “depression” on my papers when I went in for gastric pain(that ended up being stomach ulcers). I left so embarrassed and defeated. Now having had gastric issues for many many years now, I feel like they’re going to tell me the same thing. It’s my GERD or acid reflux. But this is a very different pain. I wish doctors would listen more when someone is telling them that something is really wrong. It’s our bodies and we know! My mother also drove herself to the hospital from work while having a heart attack as she didn’t realize it was that serious. My grandmother only managed to make into the check in before she passed.

[@janejohnson1750]

So sorry to learn of all your health problems. The response 'you're too young' is due to.the fixed idea that it usually happens t older people. - that is 'usual' - bu t unusually, anyone can have heart issues! I had arrhythmia at 17! I just wanted to remind you that your experience, even against medical 'advice', takes precedence. You really must see another professional if this happens again, and cite your history and test results. You are not less important than someone whose opinion is dictated by book.learning, and who doesnt have your experience! Wishing you good health, and do check what lifestyle changes you need to.make to support a heart disease diagnosis!

[@LiseWrigley]

Be persistent. A very dear young friend of our family just died from a massive heart attack at 28. She had no history of heart troubles and seemed to be mostly in good health. Just under a lot of stress. We are all still in shock.

[@Blackfox_Kitsune]

can you tell us what smart watch you are using please? i have one that tells me a desk or a sofa has a heart beat :/ it would be nice to know what watch is trustworthy.

[@elenalatici9568]

​@@Blackfox_Kitsune The desk or the sofa has a heartbeat.😅😅😅 I had a Fitbit for several years but one day it fell of my wrist without my being aware of it. I haven't replaced it because it's an expensive item, but I would look into that one..The newer models are made to detect problems before you do.

[@karenspindor2484]

❤😢❤

[@sueparks7694]

My heart attack was not diagnosed until 6 weeks after. When the cath was done the LAD was totally blocked. I was in hospital and rehab for a month. My ejection fraction was 30. Thsnk GOD I live in Dallas where I received total info verbally and printed at Baylor Hospital. It took a LONG time to get better. She is spot on about the FEAR you have post HA. My heart was permanently damaged but now I am well and strong 6 years later. I work hard at it every day. I am 77 now.

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Thank you for the comment. Carolyn actually speaks about this type of "silent heart attack" in this second interview just posted with Carolyn in case you are interested: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oom1aIh_jdVgaJI

[@kathleenthomson6672]

I saw a specialist gynaecologist once at a hospital when I was having labour pains that I’d been noting since the night before and the contractions were at the stage were they were frequent, long and closer together - she said I wasn’t in labour and told me to go home and rest. I was back in the hospital via ambulance within the next hour. I feel some professionals are so annoying and one dentist I went to deliberately harmed me but it’s so hard to prove.

[@ruthkendall5486]

This lady is awesome. I’m an 81 year old and have been through my share of medical problems and I completely agree with everything she is sharing with us. I get in trouble with my doctors because I have learned to do my own investigating about various problems. I have become very angry because this is unnecessary. It’s called educating your patients! I’m so thankful for her calling. I’ve already sent this video to 3 women friends. THANK YOU FOR WHAT YOU DO!

[@elizabethsmith3416]

Omg she couldn't have said this any better. So true. Women need to be their own health advocates & don't take no for an answer persist to get the answers you need. After my 3rd cardiac event this makes so much sense. Thank you for sharing ❤

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Thank you so much for the comment. I also highly recommend this interview we did with research scientist Dr. Glen Pyle: How Menopause Affects Your Heart w/Dr. Glen Pyle kzbin.info/www/bejne/i5yXaJiHrL6LpNU

[@specialstone9153]

Female Doctors have been known to be disrespectful as well, not wanting to honor patients nor take em seriously.

[@karenhenley2195]

My Cardiologist at Bon Secours in Richmond, VA never has taken my symptoms seriously. When I told him I had passed out in the shower after he knew I had level three high blood pressure for 16 years, he laughed and said the water was too hot. Later at another visit for my high blood pressure, my PA Mark immediately sent me to the ER as my heart rate was almost 500 beats a minute. He did not tell the Doctor he was sending me. The PA saved me from having a major stroke or dying. Six doctors, nurses, and other staff were in the ER with me. Also family. When I saw the Cardiologist the following week he still thought it was funny. I almost died.

[@janetritchie7499]

Get rid of that so-called cardiologist immediately. That doc is not only incompetent, he is dangerous. I am a nurse...and that doctor's behavior is malpractice.

[@carolecupp9548]

I fired my first cardiologist when I had SVT's and he waited 5 days to cardio vert me. Released after a week, and at my follow up 2 days later, he kept me waiting in the waiting room for 2 hours. No surprise his bed side manner was atrocious. Narcissist.

[@carolecupp9548]

Report him to the hospital, and the medical board.

[@KYhomes4u]

Please find a new cardiologist.

[@nataliegist2014]

When our talking about the VA there is little to no recourse.

[@marym9585]

I am an RN and that nurse failed you. She did not advocate for you! Also many doctors are narcissistic idiots which makes it difficult for conscientious nurses. I had alot of problems as a patient advocate dealing with big ego MDs but i learned to stand up to them and go up the chain of command a few times. Student nurses need instruction in dealing with MD ego's

[@janetritchie7499]

I agree! I am a retired nurse. The amount of arrogance in doctors is often off the charts. Often the most arrogant ones are the worst at patient diagnosis and patient care. All nurses who've worked long term at a facility like a hospital know who the good doctors are.

[@marshabass7792]

This happens alot from Dr.'s,and Nurses.Women just have anxiety.🙄I have intense pain in left ankle xray showed nothing broken given anti inflamitory didn't help went back somehow was anxiety.Still hurts.Whats the point of going back to be dismissed? Unreal! I know what I'm feeling! Some days can't hardly walk on it.

[@belindaschmidt9964]

⁠@@janetritchie7499. Retired RN night charge here. The one hospitalist we had was a real narcissist! All the nurses were afraid of him. I told him a couple times to ZIP it ( his constant questioning and attempts to intimidate). He acted like he didn’t want to be bothered and here he was getting paid big money!

[@belindaschmidt9964]

@@marshabass7792. Sometimes fractures are so slight they only get picked up on MRI. You’d do well to get an MRI of your ankle. Go in and demand it.

[@dianaroach3093]

​@belindaschmidt9964 I don't trust doctors anymore. Nurses deal with patients the most. They are overworked, tired, and some of the sweetest people.

[@deborahsevigny4763]

I just got rid of a dr. who, on my first appointment talked over me and wasn't interested in a little background on my health issues and interrupted me. I raised my voice and told him to quit talking over me. He said we're just having a conversation 🤔 I told him it was rude to do that. So he responded, after an uncomfortable pause, may i speak now🥴

[@janparkin9688]

Thanx so much for the info. Two years ago I experienced SVT (heart racing). When I got to the hospital my heart rate was 197. It was very scary. I had an amazing doctor who was kind, knew what to do but was very firm that my levels of troponin were too high for me to go home to make diner (which was what I was doing when it all started). Two years and many tests later I am good, 90 lbs. smaller and no longer need a cardiologist. You can't look after anyone else until you look after yourself. Videos like this help us to improve our self-care. Keep em comin. 👍

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Wonderful story, appreciate the feedback, it’s true, we need to know how to advocate for ourselves. Thank you for the encouragement!

[@maureenmooney532]

Thank you for Shareing this Video it is very Educational ❤😮❤

[@barbaraann8648]

I did not have typical symptoms. On Feb 9, 2023, my brother and I were in Cheyenne and getting ready to exit onto I25 to head back to Colorado. Suddenly, I was having shortness of breath, the left lower portion of my jaw was icy cold, and I had slight ach in the lower right side of my back. My brother got me to the ER, I died, was revived and now have 30% damage to my heart and 2 stents. I was clueless that I was having a heart attack as we are taught something entirely different symptoms. God bless my brother. He was at ER from 8a to 2p waiting for me to get up to ICU. We need more information on what to be aware of!

[@arizonanative7409]

Amazing story. I think her first intuitive feeling was accurate. OMG. Glad she is still here to share this!

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Thank you for watching! I also highly recommend this interview I did with Dr. Glen Pyle on how Estrogen affects cardiovascular health: kzbin.info/www/bejne/i5yXaJiHrL6LpNU❤️‍🩹

[@pambp5978]

Two exceptional communicators! Thank you both!

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Appreciate the comment, thank you for the kind words Pam.😊

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

I also highly recommend this interview we did with research scientist Dr. Glen Pyle: How Menopause Affects Your Heart w/Dr. Glen Pyle kzbin.info/www/bejne/i5yXaJiHrL6LpNU

[@howardhdavidson]

I think it’s the doctors need behaviour therapy for diagnosis…

[@rolandemorgan5992]

I loved this story. I knew the symptoms on road and drove directly to ER had heart attack at 63. Chest pain. Arm pain. Back pain. I had a help in 90 minutes. Thank you🎉

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Thank you for watching! I also highly recommend this interview I did with Dr. Glen Pyle on how Estrogen affects cardiovascular health: kzbin.info/www/bejne/i5yXaJiHrL6LpNU❤️‍🩹

[@hhspore]

That emergency doctor essentially gaslighted you. I have had such experience too when I consulted 2 different surgeons for my shoulder injury. One was a public hospital doctor who showed very bad attitude like as if he is too tired and jaded to have more than 5 minutes of conversation with me. Subsequently I went to a private hospital (where I had to pay like 5 times more than a public /govt hospital). Unfortunately, the situation didnt improve much. I guess I was unlucky................This doctor is too smart for his own good and he doesnt quite appreciate that I am asking him a lot of questions. During my second pre surgery consultation, I asked even more questions after I watched many useful youtube videos posted by renowned shoulder surgeons. When I asked more indepth questions, his response was " you are better than some of my students". He was so sarcastic to say the least and I was so taken aback. I am from Asia and I thought that this happens more often in Asia than in Canada. But it seems like we do get doctors with bad attitudes everywhere around the world..............

[@jonnaborosky8836]

If you come into an emergency room with symptoms of a heart attack, doctors are supposed to know that serial troponin levels need to be checked over the next 24 hours or so, because the levels go up over time and then back down. If you check one and it's negative early on, that's NOT an indication you're not having a heart attack. You still could be. Normally, you'd be admitted for another troponin test in about 6 hours. If that level has gone up, you'll get another test in about another 6 hours, etc. That, with EKG findings, is how heart attacks are diagnosed. Some hospitals, banking on the odds it won't turn out to be a heart attack (so it seems), do one troponin check and if it's negative, make the determination it's not a heart attack. There could be lots of reasons for that, but none of them are good.

[@crazyirish8358]

My dad and I both had heart attacks that didn't show up on an EKG. Both were told we were fine but they kept drawing proposing levels every hour just to be sure. Yep. Both were having heart attacks. Doc said he'd never seen a proposing level as high as mine. This was after hours of them telling me it wasn't my heart, even though I had a classic Hollywood type heart attack. SOB, chest pain, arm pain, jaw pain. Kept getting told it wasn't "typical" heart attack symptoms!!!

[@oliveoyl1802]

Carolyn is such a chirpy and joyful person with such a disarming sense of humor while the interviewer is very sincere and genuine about actually understanding Carolyn's experience. It made for a very engaging session. Thank you ladies and I sincerely hope you are both doing well.

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Thank you for watching! I also highly recommend this interview I did with Dr. Glen Pyle on how Estrogen affects cardiovascular health: kzbin.info/www/bejne/i5yXaJiHrL6LpNU❤️‍🩹

[@oliveoyl1802]

@@FriendlyPharmacy5 Thanks for the heads up. Am sure it’s another good one 🙏🏼✌🏽

[@CarolynThomas-HeartSisters]

Thanks Oliveoyl for your kind words!

[@ithacacomments4811]

As I was preparing to leave work one day when I was 49? I felt a bit of chest pain. I have struggled with costochondritis pain around my sterum since birthing my children so my first thought was "how did I strain my ribs?" But, the pain felt a little different this time and I would be all alone once I drove home so... I stopped by Urgent Care to have a chat with the front desk nurse. As soon as the words..."I am having a little chest pain" came out of my mouth...all HELL broke loose! Practitioners of all types came at me from all directions and escorted me directly to a treatment room and started to do an assessment. After many tests, and 24 hours in Cardiac Intensive Care, I was released and told that the pain was most likely my costochondritis.

[@vickiehardina8824]

Wow amazing she took a possible disaster and possible death and turned it in to a positive. Thank you!!❤

[@paulao7022]

She is lucky, to have survived this ordeal.

[@jacquirimown3886]

32 years ago I was diagnosed with a migraine that was actually a stroke caused by a congenital aneurism. Last year I called my doctor about stomach pain, receptionist gave me a video call appointment for the following week. I told her I don’t think I can wait that long. My husband later called the same office as was given a visit for the next day for a rash he had. He was given a cortisone cream. I got the husband to drop me off at the hospital later that day. Turns out my appendix needed to be removed! Remember you are your own advocate. Listen to your body. Trust yourself first then trust the doctor.

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Thank you for the comment. We have a second interview just posted with Carolyn in case you are interested: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oom1aIh_jdVgaJI

[@jacquirimown3886]

@@FriendlyPharmacy5 I’ll look for it. Many thanks

[@barbarafrancis533]

This whole nurse and doctor episode infuriates me As a R.N., this was malpractice. You are blessed to be alive. Women ignores their symptoms. Thank you for sharing.

[@christinestanding]

I wondered if she ever got an apology?

[@janetritchie7499]

@@christinestanding Unlikely. Doctors don't apologize to patients...ever, and I am a nurse. To do so would open them up to a malpractice lawsuit. They are taught not to ever apologize in medical school.

[@marywilliams9858]

Girls, I am praying fir you-all. I have Mongol blood so I have not lost a fight since I was 9 years old. Gid is good.

[@carolynthomas8756]

Thank you for posting this video interview, Lindsay! And especially for inviting me to chat with you in the first place. I think your channel is SO helpful for patients, and an excellent reminder about the important role that pharmacists can have as part of our healthcare team! Too bad about my wonky WiFi coverage that day (!!) but at least the sound was good! Thanks again for organizing this, and for your astute questions. . . ♥ ♥ ♥

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Thank you Carolyn, the pleasure was all mine!

[@robertclarke9140]

Hello Carolyn, how are you doing.

[@wendywilliams236]

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[@lisapatnaude3224]

Thank you for sharing your story! So glad you received the correct treatment

[@joyrhooms1378]

Thank you for that interview, because I have some of those symptoms, stinging pain under my right side of my breast and right arm.i took two asperin and drinks alot of water and take my pressure pills and relax...I have under my breasts like my bra is getting tighten.

[@allisong2159]

I had two pregnancies both with pre-eclampsia. On bed rest for 10 weeks with the first one. I have never heard of the increased risk for heart disease with having these pregnancy complications. Wow!

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Carolyn will be coming back on the channel. Please feel free to send me your questions.

[@dotjeff4543]

It took at least two weeks to be diagnosed after his heart attack. He went to the emergency room right after the attack, but they couldn’t find anything wrong. He had pain down the arm as well as angina. Our family doctor gave him antacids. Finally as he was about to have a stress test they did a blood test that confirmed that he had had a heart attack two weeks before.

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

A very similar story, I hope this person is ok now. Thank you for sharing - this can happen to anyone unfortunately.

[@robertclarke9140]

Hello, how are you doing.

[@zenaidabastatas9182]

Good day ma'am. I was diagnosed with arterial fibrillation. Does it need to undergo a heart operation?

[@doctork1708]

We’re talking about WOMEN. Please stop removing focus from WOMEN.

[@doctork1708]

A doctor that doesn’t like to be questioned is NOT a good doctor.

[@itsjustmet1743]

Also you can ask your hospital or insurance co to set you up with a transition of care nurse / case manager prior to discharge to aid you thru that scary period. Yikes as a nurse of 35 yrs, I am really sorry for yr experience! But thank you so much for educating everyone- emphasis on everyone, including the medical field!

[@DianeLee999]

Thank you beyond words for this lifesaving information. The belittling of women patients is rampant, but it is particularly disturbing when inflicted by a female doctor or nurse. We must advocate for ourselves as we would for anyone else! Thank you for the tip about not telling a “story,” but keeping it direct and certain in tone that this is UNUSUAL. God bless. 💜🇺🇸

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Thank you so much for the comment. I also highly recommend this interview we did with research scientist Dr. Glen Pyle: How Menopause Affects Your Heart w/Dr. Glen Pyle kzbin.info/www/bejne/i5yXaJiHrL6LpNU

[@GeorgeGlass298]

Her experience with the rude medical personnel has been basically every single experience I've had going to a doctor. I don't go in unless I'm practically dead now it's been so bad. Last time I went in because I couldn't breathe when I had COVID and the doctor told me it was heartburn and sent me home.

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Thank you for the comment. We have a second interview just posted with Carolyn in case you are interested: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oom1aIh_jdVgaJI

[@annblachly8068]

Thank you for sharing this. Some of the post symptoms after heart attack would be good for the wife to know when one's husband is back home after a heart attack with bypass surgery and nearly ten years later with another heart attack but only required stenting. Now that the face diapers are being talked about again, don't let anyone put one on your spouse or yourself if you present to the ER with heart attack symptoms. They tried that with my husband who walked in while I parked the vehicle and I blew a gasket. Then they argued that I would need to leave if I didn't self-suffocate. I got louder. Finally, the ER nurse came out and took us back. He was diagnosed and into stent surgery within 15 minutes.

[@janicehenning4505]

Well I live alone so I'll probably just die. Lol

[@charwest9449]

Another reason for DENIAL could be not so much "putting yourself last" but FEAR. And relief at thinking it's nothing, or being verified by a doctor that it's nothing. FOR INSTANCE it was very enlightening for me to learn from this chat that if they DO want to rule out heart attack the tests are simple and don't necessarily involve being admitted. This could make someone braver to call 911.

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Thank you so much for the comment. I also highly recommend this interview we did with research scientist Dr. Glen Pyle: How Menopause Affects Your Heart w/Dr. Glen Pyle kzbin.info/www/bejne/i5yXaJiHrL6LpNU

[@si_vis_amari_ama]

Its important to note that not all heart attack symptoms are typical, especially for women. Sometimes it can be as little as pain in the neck area or jaw, especially if feeling very tired, breathless, nauseated, sweaty/clammy. However, some or none of these symptoms may be present.

[@tngal121]

I appreciate this interview with such a great communicator. We found out my mom whose been taking good care of herself for over 10 years, has AFib and Congestive Heart Failure. Total shock to all of us. They didn't explain the medicines to her well either. Also, this has helped me personally because I just had a Colectomy with IRA, my 5th abdominal surgery. This was the most major surgery I have ever had. I am 8 weeks out and still not feeling myself. I'm 44. This information has really helped and encouraged me. Thank you both! ❤

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

I agree, Carol does an amazing job of sharing her story. Being equipped with education and knowing how to advocate for yourself is so important for everyone, women especially. I’m so glad you found the content helpful. I hope you continue on your recovery and get the follow-up that you need.

[@maryannbrown5762]

🙏🏼🩷💮

[@Sandisue]

Thank you so much for sharing this! I was recently referred to a cardiologist because my physicians assistant thought she heard a murmer. Even though several years ago, I was at the ER for what I thought was a heart attack, that was diagnosed as gerd, I never got any sort of referral to have things checked. My dad passed away at 50 from a heart attack, so I had a feeling! I am currently undergoing several cardio tests, and am wearing a heart monitor. I am praying for the best…which I don’t even know what that would be, but am so scared. You have enlightened me on so many things here, and I am so thankful I happened across this interview!

[@maribethspence9458]

My mom was 57 when she had a massive heart attack which took her life. She had went to the doctor earlier that day saying she was having bad pain in her shoulders and chest. They told her it was stress and sent her home telling her to take it easy. For my mom to go to the doctor ever to was a clear sign it wasn't just a whim on her part, cause she hated going to a doctor for anything. She used to have a saying that there was two kinds of people that she would trust any further then she could throw them, and they were doctors and lawyers. I have no idea why she felt that way, but she always said that. If I'd lived close to her then I hope I'd have insisted that she go to the er. She had the massive heart attack later that day.

[@phyllisandpaullenz4461]

I had tetanus several years ago and the physician said she had never seen a case of tetanus in her 14 years of practice and refused to have me tested at the local hospital. She had given me the standard booster shot. I have learned that most people who die of tetanus die from a heart attack because the muscles contract with tetanus and I wonder how many of these heart attacts are not diagnosed as such.

[@claudiabettina]

At 10:30 p.m., I bent down to tie my shoelaces to go for a walk and felt very unwell. I felt nausea, but a kind of nausea I had never felt before. I tried to lie down in bed and rest, but it wasn't helping. Something did not feel right. I had never felt "this way" before. I was 57 years old. It was time to go to Emerg. I was right. My blood work showed that I had had "an event". I stayed overnight in Acute Care, and the next morning I was taken from a rural town by ambulance to the Heart Centre in Calgary (which is an amazing place) where an angioplasty was performed. I did have 70% stenosis (blockage) in a small D1 side branch; too small for a stent, but at least it was confirmed. Diagnosis: Acute Coronary Syndrome. I was given a sheet with Post Angiogram/Angioplasty Discharge Instructions, an Angiographic Report, and Discharge Instructions for Patients and Families which stated when to have a follow-up, how to look after my puncture site, etc., all of which I still have on hand (now five years after the event) in a binder with all my medical notes and prescription information for the new medications. After one year, I came off all the medications except the Statin and Low Dose ASA. All is well. NEVER be embarrassed to go to Emerg if something is wrong. And stick to your guns. They kept asking me, what are your symptoms? I kept saying a feeling of nausea I had never felt before. This is different. Something is off. I said the same thing over and over to each person that asked. If you have a tendency to minimize your pain level, like 5 out of 10, add two points and make it 7 out of 10. Do not deny yourself the help you need. Since I am unmarried with no children, I am used to having no one to fend for me. I have learned to take care of myself and it is not selfish. It's common sense. Be good to yourself. Listen to your heart.

[@christineribone9351]

The same.crap happened to me going to na New PCP. "Nawwwww, there's nothing wrong with you" she glared. She scoffed at my cardiologist diagnosis and refused to look at my MRI. The central artery on my heart is 65% blocked. It's visually clear on the MRI. The arrogant PCP refused was arrogant, rude, and belittling. She said the same "it's heartburn" "I need my nitroglycerine" I pleaded. She laughed mockingly. When I take an antacid the pain doesn't stop. When I take nitoglycerine the chest pain stops. I'm a nurse, and i know the difference beyeeen heartburn and hesrt pain. Im now seeking a new PCP.

[@mrgarner4796]

This video is invaluable. I take no prescription drugs. Since Covid my osteoporosis injections have stopped, and I take only supplements to boost my immune system. April 2nd, while sitting in my recliner chair at 1:30 am, relaxed with a little bit of 'indigestion', I experienced a sudden visual disturbance, the room started to spin, I felt nausea, I was clammy, I was weak... and I could not move. I was terrified! I prayed 'Dear God, please not yet'. The first things I thought of... where is my phone, unlock my door, grab the bathroom waste basket and my BP monitor. After 15 to 20 minutes the room had stopped spinning, I was a little less nauseous and I felt I could get to my door to unlock it. As soon as I could manage all the other things I did and returned to my chair to try to relax to lessen the feelings I had. Should I call paramedics to be checked out? Should I even bother them? What harm is there to be checked out. I called 911, explained my terror but also said I was starting to feel better. The response was... since you are feeling better, it does not appear to be an emergency. We will dispatch paramedics and they will arrive in 2 to 3 hours. I thought if the symptoms return, at least, the paramedics will arrive. This is a longer story and I won't bore anyone with it. I did go to the ER, heart enzyme test was not an issue. At 10 AM ... I was discharged ... an old lady with a bad headache. The bottom line... the only thing I have discovered is I had a previous heart attack ... date unknown ... I believe it happened at a Yoga class in 2017. I have acid reflux and sleep apnea. The content of this video has enlightened me going forward. Women think they can conquer the world and save their family and friends... because we love them. Women need to love themselves... as we love others. Thank you.

[@lindawarenberg296]

I am so glad to hear you say that some women report discomfort feeling like their bra is too tight. That is exactly the way I felt in the the beginning. My other symptoms were atypical, too. Extreme fatigue...not just tired, but EXTREME tiredness. Also feeling like I couldn’t take a good deep breath. I wouldn’t say shortness of breath...well, maybe a little. I suspected cardiac problems only because I’d read that women experienced symptoms differently than men; and I used to work as an RN in a CCU approx 35 years before!

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Thank you for watching! I also highly recommend this interview I did with Dr. Glen Pyle on how Estrogen affects cardiovascular health: kzbin.info/www/bejne/i5yXaJiHrL6LpNU❤️‍🩹

[@ruthanneluvsvacuuming6653]

My aunt who lived in Newfoundland was diagnosed with acid reflux until her uterine cancer spread so much that she was in the final stages by the time they realized they misdiagnosed her and she died a few months later

[@logicrealitytruth]

I’m a 69 year old woman who has been abused by the medical system repeatedly, and I’ve had the same ER experience three times with heart attack symptoms. As a result, though I’ve since had severe chest and arm pain and other symptoms, I’ve avoided going to the ER for my periodic severe chest pain…Instead, I take an aspirin, unlock my front door, and call someone to phone me to see if I’m o.k. In the morning. 😱🥺

[@louisenurse1234]

Dying is the answer to not continuing to go till someone listens.

[@logicrealitytruth]

@@louisenurse1234 Yes, but either way (going to ER or not going) the result is the same. The only difference is that when I don’t go, I don’t have to go through 6 hours of hell with no help and getting all stressed out from doctors’ emotional abuse. They ignore the symptoms and refuse to listen to patients. Then they put ridiculous misinformation in those damaging EPIC medical records. I can’t take their abuse anymore. At least at home I can rest. They just send me home in worse shape than when I arrived. 😱

[@hanagloriaedelblum5693]

What a heartwarming daughter to take active care of you!

[@MrKerri888]

Who thought talking about a heart attack could be so interesting.. good educator. Thank you.

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Thank you for watching! I also highly recommend this interview I did with Dr. Glen Pyle on how Estrogen affects cardiovascular health: kzbin.info/www/bejne/i5yXaJiHrL6LpNU❤️‍🩹

[@MrKerri888]

It’s in my queue. TY 👍@@FriendlyPharmacy5

[@Overnighttattooist]

Thanks you so much for this i am 37 having the same issue middle chest pain and actually ear ache my ear was hearing loss in three days. I was told to have hearing test and that it was acid. I went private and had echocardiogram that showed I had many heart issues then went back to nhs doctor who told me it was not that and I’m too young. They are not educated always make you feel criminal. Still get middle chest pain and after I find I’m very docile days after . Women don’t have heart attack like men and we are compared. Only way to get help is never to give up.

[@Musicch-gi8ej]

What type of diet have you eaten?

[@Dep5723]

Drs need to go back to school and do a intensive training in heart health and heart attacks

[@MatidaJane]

I had Broken Heart Syndrome in 2016 with symptoms of pain in my left shoulder. I see my cardiologist once a year to keep tabs on my condition. Same feelings as a heart attack but no damage to the heart.

[@MatidaJane]

And the other thing he told me that if you are having a heart attack you cannot lie down on your back which was the reason I went to the doctor in the first place.

[@rosehenninger1594]

If the doctor doesn't like to be questioned, he is insecure. A confident doctor welcomes your questions.

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

We have a second interview just posted with Carolyn in case you are interested: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oom1aIh_jdVgaJI

[@ednabpurcell-diaz9124]

Thank you for sharing your experience. My mom had a HA while on her morning walk. Her symptoms were back pain and severe pain on her left wrist. So severe that it knocked her down on the sidewalk. A man driving by stopped to help her and drove her home. Continually before and after the incident, she complained of pain on her back and we massaged her back with all sorts of Ben-gay, etc. it turned out that she had five arteries blocked and underwent bypass surgery at age 69. Nine years later she had another open heart bypass surgery for collapsed bypasses. She had a hard time keeping a diet and exercise. She lived another 6-8 years to the age of 86. But it was roller coaster ride for all of us children as she was in and out of hospital for years.

[@CarolynThomas-HeartSisters]

That's a distressing medical situation not only for your poor mum, but for the entire family to witness.

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Thank you for the comment. We have a second interview just posted with Carolyn in case you are interested: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oom1aIh_jdVgaJI

[@BernadetteMoneley]

I identify with this lady so much I too was undiagnosed with heart disease her story is exactly my story I was in my 50s too and told me I was too young I now have 7 stents it can be very scary meds and sprays ❤

[@nancyvickers2814]

Yep I made the ER keep my mom for a second draw for troponin, which was elevated of course.

[@susanpage8105]

Thank you so much for this, good information, from a totally relatable person, thanks for sharing your story Carolyn.

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Thank you so much for the comment Susan! Carolyn’s message is so important and she is doing incredible work, thank you for watching - appreciate the feedback!

[@ShoshiPlatypus]

This was absolutely fascinating. What a wonderful articulate lady - which in itself concerns me because very many women going through what she experienced may no be so articulate. This is why her work is so important and I salute her, and also this channel for bringing her story to a wider public. I had a coronary artery spasm 10 years ago when undergoing the most severe stress, having a very difficult and narcissistic elderly mother recently coming to live with us, and my dad in a home with dementia. The central chest pain began at about 1 a.m. (I am a very late bird, often up till 3 or 4 a.m.) and initially I put it down to indigestion, and decided to go to bed. The pain increased and went down my left arm, causing severe tenderness in my wrist. I felt nauseous and a little while later did actually vomit. I had that classic sense of impending doom. I did begin to think it was my heart, but (typical behaviour!) didn't want to make a fuss and didn't wake my hubby (it was now around 3.30 a.m.) because I thought he needed his sleep. I did not wake him till around 6.00 a.m. and he was VERY cross with me for not waking him!!! He immediately phoned 999 (we are in the UK) and the ambulance came and I went off to hospital. I had already been diagnosed with left bundle branch block a good number of years before, and this condition does tend to mask any other abnormal ECG traces, so they weren't able to discern much. I had a series of blood samples taken and they did find troponin, so I underwent an angiogram which showed that all the vessels were normal. It was then that they told me I had definitely had a cardiac event, and that it was a vasospasm. I believe this was brought on by stress. I was sent home with a nitroglycerine spray which I only used a couple of times over the next few years and I have been symptom free since. Several weeks after the event, I said to my hubby that I hadn't been feeling myself for a while but hadn't wanted to acknowledge it or make a fuss - I felt disconnected and not my usual optimistic self. It wasn't anything really concrete. He said, "Didn't you know that it is very common for people to be depressed after a heart attack?" I did not know this, and he googled it and came up with literally millions of results! Just having this knowledge made something click in my head, and that weird disconnected feeling left me and I was soon feeling myself again, knowing that this was nothing to worry about as it was very common and would right itself. It was nothing like as severe as what Carolyn experienced, and this is definitely something that should be taken seriously. I do think they could have told me about it at the hospital, however. Forewarned is forearmed. Blogs and forums are so helpful for anyone dealing with any kind of illness, whether acute or chronic. I don't think I would have coped either with my ME or my colon cancer resulting in an ileostomy, without this online help. It takes away the sting of the fear of the unknown and the awful sensing (definitely more common with women) that we are making a fuss about nothing, and fear of being told "it's all in your head." Been there, done that, and have been humiliated by the medical profession and it is NOT fun.

[@marilyngramms6761]

Wonderful interview. Thank you very much.

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Thank you Marilyn, I’m so glad you enjoyed it. Carolyn was an amazing guest!

[@robertclarke9140]

Hello Marilyn, how are you doing.

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Thank you so much for the comment. I also highly recommend this interview we did with research scientist Dr. Glen Pyle: How Menopause Affects Your Heart w/Dr. Glen Pyle kzbin.info/www/bejne/i5yXaJiHrL6LpNU

[@nancyvanderhart9018]

Amazingly informative interview, very relatable. Thank you both!

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Thank you Nancy, so glad you enjoyed it!

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

I also highly recommend this interview we did with research scientist Dr. Glen Pyle: How Menopause Affects Your Heart w/Dr. Glen Pyle kzbin.info/www/bejne/i5yXaJiHrL6LpNU

[@angelgirldebbiejo]

One time my nurse friend got some kind of scan and they told her she had signs of 2 former small heart attacks

[@eunicenield9631]

I had a cardiologist who told me there was nothing wrong with me when I went to him because I couldn’t breathe. A couple of days later I had a stroke.

[@dixiecroft6662]

I haven't had heart trouble (yet), but other serious, misdiagnosed maladies... I feel you and know those pitiless arrogant "diagnoses" all too well. Thank you for giving voice to women who have none. +

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Thank you for watching! I also highly recommend this interview I did with Dr. Glen Pyle on how Estrogen affects cardiovascular health: kzbin.info/www/bejne/i5yXaJiHrL6LpNU❤️‍🩹

[@michelejordan8290]

My neighbour just had a heart attack on Monday. She’s only 41 and was told that if I hadn’t got her to the hospital when I did she’d have died. Before I took her to the hospital my neighbour had rang for an ambulance twice to be told they were “too busy”. She was doubled in 2 with chest pain and pain under her shoulder blades. When we got there they done an ecg and told her she was fine yet within half an hour she got worse. They repeated her ecg and bloods and suddenly everything went crazy. She’d had a heart attack and needed a stent fitted within 2 hours to save her life. She was a healthy woman, healthy weight etc with no risk factors

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Thank you for watching! I also highly recommend this interview I did with Dr. Glen Pyle on how Estrogen affects cardiovascular health: kzbin.info/www/bejne/i5yXaJiHrL6LpNU❤️‍🩹

[@lightfaeries7]

Did she have the jab?

[@sunnersky5996]

Did she get the jab?

[@janicehenning4505]

I'm sorry , but most Americans are unhealthy because of the crap they eat. I don't care if you look skinny. It's more than just being normal weight. Most Americans eat a shit diet.

[@eternalfizzer]

Thank you for the great advice! That treatment delay behaviour doesn't just apply to heart attacks ... I waited 2 days to go get a blood clot looked at, even though I was in intense pain, until someone I was out for a walk with asked if that could be the problem. Even then, the doctor at the clinic I stopped at asked if I wanted him to call the ambulance and I insisted on just taking the bus to the hospital. Same thing when I had numbness in an arm one night when I was out with some younger classmates - I didn't want to worry them, so I waited til the next day to go see my g.p. 🙄 Lucky I haven't had heart symptoms (yet). You might have saved a(nother) life :-D

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Thank you so much for the comment. I also highly recommend this interview we did with research scientist Dr. Glen Pyle: How Menopause Affects Your Heart w/Dr. Glen Pyle kzbin.info/www/bejne/i5yXaJiHrL6LpNU

[@Rosenlnk1]

I’ve had similar symptoms and, like you, too embarrassed to go to ER with “whimpy symptoms” and I just waited it out….so far no other symptoms…..if it happens again, I’ll call my dr.

[@joyfisher8008]

Thank you both for this terrific video. To encourage & to train us how to communicate w/doctors is so important. That info about low levels of troponin was new to me. And I gasped when she mentioned the phrase "my bra felt too tight" because that is the only description I could give the ER doc when I went in! I was told no heart attack & was sent home (last summer). Although nothing major has been happening since I think I'll pursue this further just to be safe. Thank you!

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Thank you so much for the comment. I also highly recommend this interview we did with research scientist Dr. Glen Pyle: How Menopause Affects Your Heart w/Dr. Glen Pyle kzbin.info/www/bejne/i5yXaJiHrL6LpNU

[@noramartin96]

My darling mother was dismissed as having neuralgia and told to stop wasting their time and go to a dentist. She went on to have other heart attacks that eventually killed her. She suffered so much .

[@6821hominy]

I am so sorry for your loss. 💔

[@noramartin96]

Thank you .The ignorance of medics is astounding and daceds later nothing seems to have changed @@6821hominy

[@helenlauer9545]

Fantastic interview. Amazing to hear that the hospital hierarchy humiliating patients, as they do routinely in public hospitals in West and East Africa, behaves just as viciously with patients in affluent America. F--g hell.

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Thank you so much for the comment. I also highly recommend this interview we did with research scientist Dr. Glen Pyle: How Menopause Affects Your Heart w/Dr. Glen Pyle kzbin.info/www/bejne/i5yXaJiHrL6LpNU

[@luz3158]

Omw... the same thing happened to me, 3 months prior to my heart attack, I went to the ER many times with pressure on my chest and left arm, the Doctors said I had acid reflux and that the EKG was normal, until I came back to the ER with a heart attack I had a 100% blockage on the main artery, they said it was a miracle I made it.

[@marlineemmal6458]

This was such a worthwhile video! A lot of helpful advice. I remember reading about a multi-centre study conducted in the US using male and female actors who went to an ER complaining of the same symptoms of probable heart attack. In all medical centres, the women were seen by a doctor on average 18 to 22 minutes later than the men were. The study's authors suggested saying, "I'm experiencing chest pain." Self-education and advocating for oneself are critical. Thanks again!

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Carolyn’s story is one I wish every woman could watch. It is true, knowing how and when to advocate for ourselves is so important. Thank you for the comment, I’m so glad when even just 1 person watches this video, thank you for watching and for sharing this important insight as well.🙏

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Thank you so much for the comment. I also highly recommend this interview we did with research scientist Dr. Glen Pyle: How Menopause Affects Your Heart w/Dr. Glen Pyle kzbin.info/www/bejne/i5yXaJiHrL6LpNU

[@Frostflwr69]

We also have to look at the delay in treatment seeking being a result of women having been dismissed and belittled when we do seek treatment! Which Happens all the time even by other women in the medical field!

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

So true.

[@christinestanding]

It's called 'learned helplessness'.

[@CarolynThomas-HeartSisters]

Very true, Chandra - I was so humiliated by that nurse's scolding - I couldn't get out of that ER fast enough. And I wanted to believe the Emerg doc's misdiagnosis (would much rather have indigestion than a heart attack!)

[@reneeubry9065]

No pain, perfect EKG, couldn’t go acid reflux or shortness of breath. I was having a heart attack in Dr office. Symptoms were burn on left side and a burn on the soft side of both arms from elbow to arm pit. Turn out LAD closed @90%. I get silent heart attacks but my service dog warns me if I am going to have an attack. Can’t use meds. Have been studying lots of medical lectures so I have learned a lot since Dec 2020. Inflammation has been the biggest problem and so I started hunting for all the things that were were causing the problem. Have been teaching my self

[@bb8098]

That's nice you have your furry friend to May I ask what breed is your service dog?.

[@777Pattie]

Oh my I'm very sorry. What research papers, books or websites have helped the most so far??? I'm 68 and have had intermittent heart problems since I was a teenager. I have lots of allergies to meds from my maternal family side. So instead of a Beta Blocker they have out me on a Calcium Blocker, probably die to my asthma. Anyway I've heard Internet talk about inflammation. Any help would be appreciated 💕.

[@pamelamolina5623]

I was discharged with a list of meds to take at certain times but NO-ONE called in any of the prescriptions! So I called the hospital pharmacist and told them what happened. They had to go back and forth between 2docs to get the orders called in

[@DixieJensenBrown]

Wow the mistreatment of women seeking heart testing, you describe is so right on... I was told I was wasting his time... I was refered to heart doctor as I had chemo therapy which put me at risk of heart disease (damage) so had to be checked for congestive heart failure... the doctor was angry as his time could be better spent on who was really sick so he indicated by what said to me. Go figure the attitude?

[@christinegibbs8796]

Thanks for spending the word on this. I have had 3 life threatening events in my life. I have experienced everything you mentioned plus doctors making dangerous incorrect diginiosis on each one plus all the other things you have mentioned.😢😢😢

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Thank you so much for the comment. I also highly recommend this interview we did with research scientist Dr. Glen Pyle: How Menopause Affects Your Heart w/Dr. Glen Pyle kzbin.info/www/bejne/i5yXaJiHrL6LpNU

[@mitch868]

Wow! My Congestive Heart Failure was first diagnosed as some liquid in my lungs, and prescribed an inhaler. This was in 2017. The wheezing and shortness of breath progressively got worse over the next 10 days. I was taken via ambulance to emergency one morning from work. I was told to "get your affairs in order" which we all know to mean "you are about to die", so I had a lawyer come to my bedside to prepare a Will. Why didn’t I already have a Will? Because I was 'only' 47 year old female. I was in Stage or Class 4 Idiopathic CHF, idiopathic because I had no family history of heart disease, I never smoked or taken illicit drugs. I was told it was Viral! Can you even imagine CHF virally??? I am now surviving on a whole host of heart medications and have regular echocardiograms. I am now in class 2 CHF. 🙏🌼

[@c.518]

Viral?

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Thank you for the comment. We have a second interview just posted with Carolyn in case you are interested: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oom1aIh_jdVgaJI

[@janicehenning4505]

Me personally, I would just rather go under the next consistence.

[@cherylross393]

Very helpful to women in the beginning to know what to expect ❤ No one wants to change their life but they have to.

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Thank you so much for the comment. I also highly recommend this interview we did with research scientist Dr. Glen Pyle: How Menopause Affects Your Heart w/Dr. Glen Pyle kzbin.info/www/bejne/i5yXaJiHrL6LpNU

[@oliveoyl1802]

In a reverse situation, I had 2 different lady colleagues who went to see their respective doctors for what they themselves felt were small issues and had ended up shocked when their doctors asked them if they even knew they had been running around with a heart attack for a while 😮

[@carolynwilliams7828]

I’ve had around 3 episodes over the years, been for tests,mom and dad both passed from heart attacks,very healthy living and they all say I’m fine. Thanks for telling me I need to call 911 immediately. I’ve waited and I guess that enzyme was gone by then … wow did not know that. Thank you so much Carolyn Lawson ( ps I live in ladysmith!)

[@carmenasanchezmerly4396]

Learned a lot today, especially I had no idea I could be at a higher risk not only because my father had a heart attack on the past and later passed from a stomach aneurism but also because of pregnancy issues. I had two pregnancies that both were full term but each baby newborn weighted only 4.11 pounds each. I do remember first delivery doctor said nothing about why my baby boy was so underweight, he actually was so surprised he was delivering such a small baby or under weight like it took him off guard, however on my second delivery of my baby girl, 5 years later, when my delivery doctor told me she was underweight 4.6 pounds only I immediately asked why this was continuing happening with each babies I was having and being full term of pregnancy and my doctor did a test of my placenta and later on learned that apparently my placenta was getting all the nutrients that were supposed to be for the babies to gain the weight needed but literally both babies grew but underweight. Thanks for the heads up.❤

[@FriendlyPharmacy5]

Thank you so much for the comment. I also highly recommend this interview we did with research scientist Dr. Glen Pyle: How Menopause Affects Your Heart w/Dr. Glen Pyle kzbin.info/www/bejne/i5yXaJiHrL6LpNU

[@rosemobley4978]

What a blessing she is.

[@EagleArrow]

Always get a second opinion. Glad it worked out and she is helping others by sharing her experience. My son is a clinical cardiology pharmacist in a hospital. He meets with each patient before they are discharged and discusses their medicine, future living and diet. At least, what he tells me. I figured it must be a unique situation with his hospital as usually this isn't the norm.

[@judisaunders2557]

There are other side effects when taking nitroglycerin. It could cause your BP to drop and/or your pulse to lower. It is a good idea to check BP and pulse beforehand, especially before you take a second dose. I'm a retired RN , so I felt that I must comment. This is an excellent video! Thank you Carolyn!

[@CarolynThomas-HeartSisters]

Excellent point, Judi!

[@Cinnamon_Shaw]

I feel like the first doctor gave her the attitude to not care about herself or seek help when she knew she had to 😢so sad the hospital made her this way

[@paulao7022]

One hospital told my brother to go home & gave him some salve...later that evening, he went to another hospital...the second hospital took one look at his cellulitis leg & put him in the hospital. He was bleeding badly.

[@Kimonwatersedge]

while out walking I had chest pain radiating down to my pelvis and in my back , i was breathless , i was already sweating with walking I made an audible Ugh sound but no pain in arm. I have also been taking Gaviscon for a while. I may go get a check up though as all the women in my family died before 70 and I’m 64. I was meant to see this today as the event was yesterday. God Bless You 🇬🇧🤓💐

[@vickieasberry9549]

I just had a heart attack 6/16/23. Started with dizziness when I first woke up. Sat for a few minutes and woke my husband in case I fainted on the way to my recliner. Within 15 minutes I had stabbing pain between my shoulders and then started with pain down my arm. My 11 year old grandson was staying and I had to have him wake up grandpa (who works at night). He told grandpa to get up to call 911 for grandma. Paramedics gave me nitro but didn't help. Ambulance took me to the hospital. I was admitted and after 2 days checking my levels in my blood, I went to the cath lab. They ended up transferring me to another hospital where I spent 3 more days and had 3 stents inserted. It is truly a life changing event. All my children were truly surprised that in fact did have a heart attack. My issue is I need a hip replacement and can't lose the weight I need to for that surgery. I barely can walk. I use a walker inside and now use a wheelchair when I have to go to the doctor. I only needed nitro once since coming home. I just can't exercise is my biggest problem. I thought I would have another when I saw my bill. $ 173,000. Thank you for making ladies aware. ❤

[@marshgirl]

Here in the UK I had a heart attack and sent home having been told it was a rare form of Chostochondritis called Tietze syndrome . 2 more hospital visits later was diagnosed with Coronary heart disease , this took nearly two years to diagnose !

[@CarolynThomas-HeartSisters]

Horrible experience for you - most people learn about costochondritis only when their cardiac symptoms are being misdiagnosed. Tietze’s syndrome is very painful, an inflammation of the costochondral cartilages of the upper front of the chest - but unlike costochondritis, it usually involves localized swelling around the joint, the ribs or cartilage near the breastbone. Pretty distinctive musculo-skeletal symptoms (e.g. pain when rolling over in bed) that are not typical of heart-related symptoms.