friends to enemies in 10 seconds or less - REACTION

[@YochevedDesigns]

When my daughter started getting to the "sneaky" age (4 to 6yo) I told her "If you do something bad and you tell me about it, I might be a little bit mad. If I find out later from someone else that you've been lying, I'm going to be BIG mad." She saw that when she told the truth we would talk it out, find out why she felt the need to do what she did, and discuss what she thinks should happen next. To this day we have a great relationship. She's and adult and doesn't overshare her life, but if she has beef with me about anything, she doesn't hold back! Honesty is the foundation of parenting.

[@wiggilytaco7570]

Bro hearing my god son tell his mom “I need a time out because you are yelling” had me rolling. Wanting a child who communicates effectively bites back so hard 😂😂😂😂

[@Julia-uh4li]

You sound like a fantastic parent, and I would have loved to have had a parent such as yourself. What you said really warmed my heart. All I really care to say about my upbringing is that, because it was mostly quite negative and very much non nurturing, is that my mother was the polar opposite of you, from the sounds of it. Your child or children are lucky to have you & you've passed on valuable lessons that they will surely use themselves when they too become a parent. 💛

[@janicegallegos1990]

The Christmas party situation makes me so thankful that my man is NOT too friendly. He shuts anything down that comes at him, and if you continue after he dismisses you nicely, he is not afraid to hurt your feelings. 😂♥️

[@Wideawakeandangry]

I did the exact same thing with my kids. It helped create an honest relationship between us. Before my son was married he was dating a girl that was just, air. They would be somewhere talking and he would come in the room to me and say, mom, would you talk to her please? Why me? He’s like me though and gets exhausted by people that just don’t get it when it’s so easy! When he was in college he called all the time about girls. Funny he married someone so liberal. Ugh!

[@tanikesmith]

My mom told me the same thing when I was growing up.

[@TheMrsSaito]

In HS, I dated a guy, turned out to be a psycho pathological liar. We broke up, he went after my bestie (who KNEW about all the issues). I warned her, she shunned me and dated him anyway. He did the same thing to her. She apologized but we were never, ever close again. Boys AINT WORTH IT!!

[@ItsNaeBihhh.Daaah6]

Good for you , for standing up for yourself ! A girl that can do that to you , there’s no telling what else she can do

[@Mikaro_Mochi]

A friend in our friend group did the same, except we shunned her after the guy revealed he only dated her to make the friend jealous (didn't work btw) and dumped her.

[@jasoncarter4343]

Oh, they’re so worth it.

[@TheMrsSaito]

@@jasoncarter4343 Nah, I’m too jaded to believe that. I was just disrespected all around, I know better than to believe in pretty lies these days!

[@ShreyaDash-er3dg]

What in the Maddie and Cassie shit-

[@SpacecatMoonbeam]

That girl wasn’t sitting inside waiting for the other one. She was late and tried to gaslight it out.

[@bookloverfantasy7913]

Exactly. I searched the comments here looking for someone to bring this up. The story doesn't hold up. You don't go to a place and wait for an hr without checking your phone. That just doesn't happen. The girl was gaslighting her "friend" hard. She was late and turned it around. The late friend is not a friend if she can gaslight and lie. I bet there are many other red flags to her too.

[@yelenavlasyuk2256]

I came to the comments to say the same thing. You can’t wait for an hour without checking your phone

[@elisaseverns2543]

Exactly. The friend should have been wondering where this girl was and letting her know she was waiting. She was definitely not waiting inside for an hour.

[@indycolt2017]

Agree. Because if she was there and she thought her friend didn't show up, why didn't she try to reach out?

[@brendadickson9583]

True

[@skatergirl8019]

My husband and I have an agreement that if someone hits on us, is flirty, or behaves in a way that makes us feel uncomfortable or questions their motives, we tell the other person. We believe clear communication and transparency is so important.

[@LadyMekito]

My husband also tells me. Because it amuses him when I get fiesty 😂

[@kaylalaster1038]

I remember in college I had a friend who’s bf was planning a surprise for her and was texting with me bc he was so excited about it and wanted my input. It was completely innocent and we were both transparent with her about us talking bc she also had a friendship with his bestfriend. She told me and him she wasnt comfortable and we immediately stopped. There was no push back, no defensiveness, nothing. We both wanted her to feel comfortable, valued our perspective relationships with her and honored her boundaries. It’s literally that simple when you dont have anything to hide and arent being inappropriate.

[@shaniavanzyl1348]

Everything you said here is 100% what people should do when a friend tells you they are uncomfortable with something. However I find it weird that she thinks it's okay to have a relationship with his best friend but he's not allowed to talk about being excited doing something for her (his girlfriend) with her friend I don't know - I personally think that's a bit strange.. seems like a double standard to me

[@katie6731]

​@@shaniavanzyl1348 Eh. It's one thing to be happily platonic friends with a significant other's best friend. It's quite another to be constantly texting a best friend's boyfriend back and forth, likely getting giggly with anticipation over the happy surprise. Kayla did absolutely nothing wrong. However, from the friend's point of view, there was a sudden increase in communication that excluded her. She didn't have the necessary context of the planned surprise, and neither the boyfriend nor Kayla could immediately explain it to her. She might have felt left out, rather than worried about anything nefarious going on. There's nothing wrong with having various, interconnected relationships, as long as everyone remains honest, cares about each other, and respects the bounds of the different relationships.

[@kurokagator4567]

For me, it's the opposite case. My ex and I are still best friends. We're like sisters. She is genuine family and we are protective of each other, but there is zero romantic feelings involved nowadays. She has a boyfriend now (yay bi queen) so obviously I had to check out the guy. He's a great dude, and I told her 'Yup he's a keeper, congrats on that catch'. Now I actively make sure that he knows and SEES that I am no threat to their relationship, and all three of us are so comfortable with each other to the point I overheard him say 'Yk OP is one of the people where I wouldn't mind her showing up at 3am in the morning for a place to stay' and that brought me to tears :) I just bought christmas presents for both of them, I'm excited to see their faces.

[@Teaspoonofsplenda]

I only ever had 'private' messages with friends' husbands if it was planning a surprise party or prepping them to be supportive (my friend hit a pole when parking and was really upset so I told her husband she'd had a really bad day and needed a hug and for someone else to make dinner). I showed those friends the messages afterwards, too. And any time I get hit on, I tell my own husband. The transparency is important whereas the defensive ones are throwing out all kinds of red flags.

[@jonathonmenth3901]

@@kurokagator4567 did he ever try to get a threesome between you two?

[@christybeanland9824]

Even if OP had gone into the store, it doesn’t mean she would’ve been able to find her “friend”. The friend didn’t check her phone because she wasn’t there. She was late, maybe on purpose, and came in another entrance.

[@rebny7801]

It could evrn be that the "friend" did that on intention to have an excuse to go low contact.

[@Kharizmah]

Hmm… I thought she said she was late because she’s used to her friend being late.

[@charmaineallen390]

My thinking exactly

[@holyfreakinBLEACH]

exactly. friend was totally late, saw her texts and chose not to respond until she got to the place an hour after their meeting time and THEN decided to answer a call and act like she'd been there the whole time. ffs

[@pindulina24]

Yes bc what are you doing for an hour waiting and not checking your phone was she just standing inside?

[@jomiah2326]

Who needs enemies when you have friends like these!!!!

[@farrinlandmesser]

Facts... lk that one who was waiting an hour 😂gurl i dont wait on hold soo...

[@39chickenhead]

The last story. 😮 that is totally ick so bad and a police call.. human waste is bio hazard waste. It’s assault..

[@helms5hieldmaiden]

Frenemies!🍿🍸🍿

[@nerdygeekgamer5528]

The one who ruined the potential bf for her bestie I would have gone up to her and told her Our friendship is over never ever contact me or do anything with me ever again and if you end up in a romantic relationship with him I HOPE AND PRAY TO THE HIGH HEAVENS THAT IT FAILS EPICALLY

[@nerdygeekgamer5528]

​@@39chickenheadI agree that's just gross there are so many more nicer ways to say hey can you pay attention to me also

[@prolifegenzgal]

My husband and I have two rules that keep this stuff from happening: 1. No secrets. Even about things we KNOW the other won't like. If its something that will be hard for them to hear, we warn them ahead of time and say the thing lovingly. 2. No lies. Ever. About anything. For any reason. No exceptions. That combo has kept us both from a LOT of pain.

[@tuttyfat]

My spouse and I have the same with one more: NEVER FUCKING EVER call our friends and family after an argument. Calm down and deal with it ourselves. Calling other people is never a good idea because even when you forgive your partner friends and family won't and will either not support your continuing relationship or actively try to break the relationship up or both. I had a relationship with an ex that called people every time we argued. It only amplified small problems. It felt like a betrayal and was because he was talking about me behind my back. "There's 3 sides to every story: his, hers and the TRUTH."

[@mystisage13]

"Dudes, they ain't worth it"....Charlotte That cracked me up with the pink sunset clouds...lol!

[@toneaboyd7689]

Last story would have had me go from freedom to prison in 28 seconds because there is NO WAY she could pull that ish and she live. NO WAY!

[@TheFilmbroad]

That was prelude to a fight.

[@misspersonality6637]

I miss my life before hearing that story!!!It's the most insane thing eveeerrrr!!!!!

[@ashyslashy10539]

I wouldn't even fight them at my age. I would file a police report. Assault with bodily fluid is a thing and I would want to get paid. 😂

[@itsnotmeitsyou2926]

That girl on the couch popped her head up like a prairie dog when she heard her friend call out the other friend 😂

[@ladygrndr9424]

I KNOW :D That was perfect

[@j0guerrero]

Love the impression, too. "This girl is all of us." 👀

[@PikaSticker]

She could smell the piping hot tea 😂😂😂

[@InfinityClimber4660]

The way I CACKLED at Charlotte's impression of her because it's SO true! Drama said what now?? 😂

[@kkinner2762]

My husband and I always tell each other when someone hits on us. It doesn't bother either of us at all. We usually laugh it off or we might be annoyed at the person hitting on our SO but not like freak out, just like "wow rude, we will stay away from that person"

[@mamadavis1456]

Same. lol.

[@kadygirlforever]

Same! My husband donated blood last month and the lady was throwing out all the signs of interest and complimenting his cologne. In her defense he forgot his wedding ring on the rush out. He told me right away and I just laughed and said “can’t blame her, you’re hot, babe.” It’s only a big deal if we’re keeping it secret, that’s a sign that there’s something to hide and it’s deeper. Just so there’s no touching or exchanging of numbers, we just take it as a compliment and go on with our day.

[@user-pt1cz4ot1e]

It’s such an easy thing to do. People that hide it……hide it for a reason. 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@lotstodo]

I got approached by a romance scammer. I was polite, but he kept texting. I told my husband. I told the guy I don't email, that my husband does the family emailing. He suggested I get a secret email. I told him, That won't work for me, I'm not a sneaky wife.

[@Mewse1203]

Agreed! Also, if my wife's friend hits on me, I'm telling her IMMEDIATELY. That's not the kind of person we need in our life...

[@curiousnarwhal]

My partner's bestie was super toxic like this. When I pointed out all the toxic stuff she would do, he would say that he can't stop being friends with her because he is her only friend. I told him to let that sink in a bit.

[@rhaenfals7661]

This is why I stuck with my toxic exbff for so long 🥲 it didn't end up well

[@rebny7801]

Oh! I was the only friend of a guy (not toxic, just excentric and bad at socialising). Recently I wrote him that I am determined to take control over my time rather then constantly beeing nudged into someone elses time plan. and since there are only 52 week-ends per year I am willing to see him 3-4 times a year. He completely gosted me since. If you spend time with someone like that you are probably a wery empathetic person, but remember you canot save them. So take care of your own nerves and your own time.

[@dezia398]

It took years for the wool to come off of my husband's eyes when it came to the girl he used to be friends with. He told me, "I never understood why you didn't like her." I explained it to him like, "If I had a guy friend and he did [insert examples A-Z here], the same things she was doing to you, how would that make you feel?" That's when it finally clicked for him and he got it.

[@jefferyschic]

​@rebny7801 he's probably tearing his soul apart, wondering what he did. Check on him.

[@jessiealexander3515]

Something valuable I learned from one of my best friends when kicking our other friend out: we are not responsible for other people’s relationships! This includes being “the only friend” when we know we shouldn’t/don’t want to be involved with this person

[@alissahhodges5854]

When you leaned in saying, " we always find out," I felt that in my soul. At this point, my husband's thinks angels just deliver me his dirt on a platter!😂

[@NelehLove9313]

Basically

[@lizzyblitz07]

​@@NelehLove9313 it's kind of like the Cat Distribution System ™️ but for possibly life altering drama. The universe has its ways, and so do good women trying to help each other out

[@CoffeeVampyre]

He has not stopped the coworker from flirting. THAT is why she would be upset. He has not set the boundaries, and his male friends are covering for him.

[@lilscenechick1995]

Oh 100%!

[@ladygrndr9424]

It is a kneejerk for most men--heck, most people--to not rock the boat in their relationships. Especially when they are the ones being the victim of sexual harassment. There is too much victim blaming in our society for many people to not worry that their partner will suspect them of leading the other person on, or "not setting boundaries" as you put it. He MIGHT have tried the work-appropriate ways to set them, and this woman is still violating the boundaries he tried to establish. Should he have told his partner? YES. Do I understand why he didn't until it got to the point of her actually physically assaulting him? Also, yes.

[@user56gghtf]

Ding. Ding!

[@TacseraEpSekahs]

We don't know that. He WAS having their together photo on his desk. And he also told his GF when said coworker wat trying to put herself on him. Also, can you imagine even bringing this up in a conversation? "Honey, I have a coworker who thinks I'm too good for you. What do you think about it?".

[@beverleyhollett7741]

oh 100% the guy was basically keeping it quiet so he could keep his options open but owned up when he couldn't take the risk that his gf might have seen more than she actually did so he would appear disgusted by her behaviour and therefore innocent in any wrong doing!

[@nopenope9118]

My boyfriend and I started dating when we were in high school. Shortly after we got together, his ex started texting him and asking to hang out. She lived in another town about 20 minutes away. I had met her before a couple times through local metal and screamo shows that we both went to, and we were friends on MySpace and Facebook. The first time she asked him to hang out, he told me about it, and me, trying to be the cool chill girl was like “yeah, no problem” 🙄. I was at the library studying for exams with my friend (or trying to), and my boyfriend went to a local coffee shop with his ex and texted me throughout the entire thing. He shut down any advances and told her he had moved on and wasn’t interested. She persisted. She asked him out to the movies. He brought me, a group of our friends, and our friend’s puppy that we managed to sneak into the movie theater with us and who somehow wasn’t noticed the entire time lol. Our group was large so we took up several rows on the side aisle and he sat next to me in a two person space, leaving her to sit with a group of our friends that she didn’t know very well. She was NOT happy that he brought me and a whole group of people to what I’m assuming she thought was a date, and she stopped texting him after that. Great success. 18 years later, and through all the highs and lows that nearly two decades bring, we’re still going strong. He’s the love of my life. I’ve gotten hit on at work several times and always tell him about it, and he tells me when a lady is hitting on him. If I ever found out he had a “work wife” he was keeping secret from me, I would be absolutely devastated. That’s emotional cheating for sure.

[@bethannprather1462]

Thank you for saying "emotional cheating". I left my husband of 20 years due to this. He had a long distance emotional relationship with a much younger girl for about 2 years. She completely fell for him etc etc. She sends me conversations... after seeing how he talked to her? I left....4 kids and all. It is cheating... almost worse than them screwing

[@caffeinatedkatie4696]

Louder for the people in the back EMOTIONAL CHEATING IS CHEATING!

[@nopenope9118]

@@bethannprather1462 I’m so sorry that happened to you but so proud of you for standing up for yourself because you definitely deserve better! Your kids deserve better. I know how hard it must be to leave after such a long time together. Just know that your strength is inspiring to other women who are in similar situations. I hope you’re doing well ❤️

[@bethannprather1462]

@nopenope9118 I'm doing so much better! Moved to a whole other state, started a cleaning company and my kids love it here. Thank you 💜

[@melindaroop1346]

​@@bethannprather1462It is definitely cheating and worse than him just screwing around. I dealt with my ex doing that while I was at home with our baby. He was talking very inappropriately to another woman and calling her "sexy" and obviously had an emotional relationship with her.

[@romebigred2]

The Christmas party story: I ALWAYS tell my wife when somebody is acting suspicious, since long before we were married. I'm not a player, not swoon -worthy, but I'm cute enough and I do attract some attention. My wife is not bothered and quite confident--after a decade of marriage, she finally asked me, "Why do you do that? What are you telling me for?" She thought I was trying to point out that I'm desirable, or trying to make her jealous. Don't get me wrong, I love my wife dearly, she's a wonderful match--you can't judge her off just one thing. But I don't tell her anymore.

[@sai6118]

The last one was straight up DIABOLICAL. In what world would you do THAT???

[@danaeads919]

I doubt it's real. She would immediately be ostracized and even bullied by the entire school.

[@Rose-ie3dz]

Fr that ish had me gaging

[@Suedepants100]

I guarantee it’s real. Attention whores do some crazy crap. They were not in the middle of the dance or around other people if you listened to her describing where they were sat.

[@BenStrickland-fj4bc]

Serial killer mentality, that's next level crazy

[@lesleyjackson2750]

She would be getting punched straight in the face, end of!

[@hawthorn99]

Also my husband tells me immediately if a co-worker is hitting on him because he's uncomfortable. My husband talks to me about things when he's uncomfortable. My man does not keep things to himself. I also tell him immediately if someone hits on me. We're not trying to make each other "upset"(I put it like that because my man does not make me upset when he tells me about that he didn't do a damn thing except be attractive which aint news to me)We're being as transparent as possible and talking about what concerns us or makes us uncomfortable. We don't hide anything from each other because we see no point in it, we're married.

[@abigailbeardshaw4196]

Also what the guys who “don’t want to upset their girlfriend.” Don’t realise is that telling us when it happens might “upset” us a little at the situation and not them, but us finding out a lot later on our own will make us “upset” with them and them alone!

[@SewLauraAnn]

"he didn't do a thing except be attractive, which isn't news to me" is iconic,

[@trin_t419]

Charlotte, your videos have been getting me through my husband’s deployment. He was gone through the second and third trimester of my pregnancy, and came home for the birth and then had to leave not even two weeks later. And now you’re getting me through my postpartum days with my 2 kids under 2. Your videos make the hard and lonely days better, I am sooooo incredibly grateful for you, you have no clue how much your videos have saved me💖💖

[@JanetHoots-b3c]

Hang in there ❤❤

[@MrsMcGwire]

Thank you for your and your husband Service!

[@loveli420]

I'm a Navy brat and come from a heavily military background family. Sending you so much love, I know it's really hard being so strong but you're doing amazingly. ❤

[@sarahdelgado0808]

❤You got this, Mama!!! ❤

[@CharlotteDobre]

You got this babe! Thinking of you!!

[@rachelhatchet]

My husband and I always tell each other whenever anyone hits on us. Most of the time it gives us a really good laugh! Like the time when I had just had our second baby and we are in our early 30s and he was heading home to change and shower and these 2 freshly 18-20 yrs old girls started hitting on him at a stop light. Like, my man was looking rough and just stayed up ALL night with me while I was having our baby and still got hit on by these young little things! It was hilarious! 😂

[@crystalskot9890]

I have to say I LOVE the new beginning edits where it’s quick clips of what we are getting into. Chefs kiss!

[@stephenbanks5952]

Even if she had gone into the store they still needed to find each other and this would have involved the second one checking her phone. OP is not the AH.

[@angelastrouse3003]

my thoughts exactly. If I go to meet someone at a restaurant or store or mall. I will wait outside or say "hey I'll be in front of so and so store."

[@heezypeasy8611]

This! I'm the type of person who would have waited to go inside or would have been checking my phone the whole time. I'd be worried that my friend was inside waiting for me, or vice versa, ya know.

[@johncmitchell4941]

Perhaps the friend passed on brunch, went dark for hours, and stayed that way a lot to cover that she was cheating on hubby. Imagine having called him & hearing, "She said she was spending the day with you." A last minute selfie of the two girls together and her story sells. btw, who ignores their phone for an hour or hours without being bored and checking it. Busy being shady?

[@macgirl1234]

Yeah this was so suspicious. Who doesn't check their phone for an hour when they're meeting someone... Especially someone from out of town?! That is very odd

[@elizabethshuster218]

Also, OP said she got there early, so it wouldn't have made sense that her friend was already inside waiting for her. I would naturally wait outside somewhere for my friend too.

[@alishasimms2846]

2nd Story: The friend who was supposedly on the inside of the store is lying and gaslighting her friend. If not, how could she not have seen her friend standing outside waiting for her? Why would she not go outside to look for her friend, or call to get her friend's ETA? Finally, why did she fail to answer her phone or respond to the many messages her friend left for her.

[@sai6118]

Yeah, that's what I gathered too. Ain't no way she was inside for an hour and didn't get annoyed enough to call the lady and check how late she was gonna be. She's lying about being in there for an hour. She probably reached right before she actually called back and decided that lying was better than making up an excuse for being an hour late.

[@BeeWhistler]

Yeah, Charlotte pinned down the problem here. You may have distractions, you may have technical issues, but to spend an hour inside not even wondering where your friend is? Means you just didn’t care that much.

[@tomastomasi975]

I'll never understand the guy who didn't want to tell his gf that the co-worker was hitting on him cause it might upset her. Apart from common decency to tell your gf, you then leave her blindsided when she has to interact with that person. Plus, you and your partner are meant to be a team, working together, good or bad.

[@Moondragon1821]

Coming from someone who complained about an annoying guy hitting on me at a bar and then got accused of cheating and cold shouldered for a couple days, sometimes it's better not to tell them. Though this was a stranger I'd never see again vs a coworker. But still. Not to say OP would react in the way my ex did, but if you know your partner can easily get jealous or suspicious, not talking about it is better.

[@viviannehoffmann6005]

Exactly! If our partner tell us the truth from the beginning we are not gonna be mad at them but at the person who are trying to flirt with them!

[@sarahcaitlyn88]

Agreed! If you're in a good relationship then you should both be secure and trust your partner enough anyways to know that they wouldn't do anything! Because now, she looks like a fool and we know how much women LOVE that! "Tee hee he's in a relationship but flirts with me" 🙄😑 makes the partner look like a fool.

[@sarahcaitlyn88]

​@@Moondragon1821I understand what you're saying and I thought about that.. However, that sounds like it wasn't a good partner because it sounds like they didn't trust you.

[@viviannehoffmann6005]

@@Moondragon1821 that actually happened to me. My ex had this friend and she was flirting with him. I never got to met her but the told me about it and he asked me if I was mad. I told him that I was not mad at him but at her because she knew he had a girlfriend. I just asked to be cautious with her and he agreed

[@TeacherTonya74]

The mall friend just showed how little the visiting friend meant to her. If I was meeting someone and they were that late, I'd be calling them too. She knew she was waiting outside. She was inside laughing at her with her other friends.

[@why_potato]

2:59 I had a friend who convinced me my bf at the time was a terrible bf and we shouldn't be together. I broke up with him (at her insistence) and the two of them immediately started dating. Everyone in our friend group shunned them. He was able to rebuild all of the friendships (we're also still friendly), but she ended up moving away (small community, word gets around). It was glorious.

[@pleinairlizfair]

3:26 had a “best friend” in high school like that Charlotte, even tried to tell her how selfish I thought she was and all she said in response was “no I’m not” that’s when I realized yeah, leave her behind.

[@jo-annbastings]

I loved how the kitty cat in the second story was kinda consoling it’s human while she was telling her story.

[@christinamccarthy8683]

Yes he could tell she was upset so sweet kitty

[@Threecrazydogs63]

I am from NYC. Restaurants in the city can be crowded. They don’t want people hanging out inside waiting. Not checking your phone is asinine. She is completely wrong. You are meeting someone. You check your damn phone in case something happens.

[@mortimerbrewster3671]

Both were in the wrong; the degree of who is more wrong is up to interpretation. Any time I'm meeting with someone I let them know I'm at the location, walk inside and check the entire place and then start the "where are you..." communications. They may not like you hanging out inside but I doubt they would get annoyed with you looking around and stepping back out.

[@condar419]

It was a jewellery store, but your point still stands.

[@Mariewolf_94]

i also live in NYC and absolutely agree. my friends and i always meet up by a public transit stop/station or IN FRONT of the mall/restaurant/whatever. WE 👏DO 👏 NOT 👏 GO 👏 INSIDE!! if it's extreme weather conditions outside (too cold, too hot, heavy downpour or snowfall, etc), then we'd text or call "Hey, I'm here! I'll be going inside and will be waiting by/in front of X". since OP said the jewelry store was in a mall, the friend should have called OP and told her she went inside already if she wanted to check out something else or go on ahead into the jewelry store to check it out while she waited for her. communication, ppl, it isnt hard!

[@AmyWarriorPrincess]

If you live in a big city, like New York, LA, you wait for the person OUT FRONT.

[@raraavis7782]

I had that happen on a blind date once. I arrived (on the dot) in front of the restaurant and waited there. I never go in alone in that kind of situation, because what if the other person doesn't show up? Plus, I didn't know what name the table was under. 20 minutes and several texts later, I got on my bicycle and drove home. Halfway there, I finally got a response saying, he had been waiting inside all the time and why hadn't I just come in? I mean, if he had been nice and apologetic (or funny) about the situation, I might even have gone back. But he totally tried to turn the situation around and make it like I was at fault/stupid for waiting outside. Even though I had texted him several times. Who the heck does not check their phone for 30 minutes in a situation like that? 5 minutes, I get. Maybe 10. But half an hour?

[@AcousticTelevisions]

6:25 she wasn't in there

[@Nthabi_Habibi]

Absolutely not 😂

[@motheomotlhale5003]

My thoughts exactly

[@AmethystEyes]

To quote the late great Carrie Fisher, “he flew to her side, slowly making his way to her front”. 12:00 Yeah, I’m always suspicious of the boyfriend’s “support”.

[@stephe1506]

I love that quote, but it does hurt that she's talking about her own dad abandoning his wife and family to cheat with Elizabeth Taylor 😢

[@talia6442]

@@AmethystEyes Carrie Fischer also says “he ‘comforted her’ with his penis”…

[@jamesfallman5323]

Great quote!

[@reneecollier5034]

WAIT!! About the story of the girl that 'wiped her discharge on the arm of the GRWM girl," I'm going to need a part II! Because in my world part II would have gone like this: And after I realized that she had wiped her body fluids onto my arm, I hit her so hard that I knocked her unconscious. And now I need bail money.

[@Ripley1994]

How much do you need? Plus, I'd pay good money to see that!! 🤣😎

[@emilymcnabb13]

I’m literally doing my makeup and listening to the video, and when the girl was telling her story about being on the gymnastics mats, I stopped what I was doing and my mouth was wide open just like Charlotte’s 😂 WHAT ON GODS GREEN EARTH!?

[@SharonL92]

QUEEN CHARLOTTE HAS POSTED!! Petty potatoes ASSEMBLE!!!! We love you, Charlotte!!

[@LunarisArts]

I find the "POTATOES ASSEMBLE" so funny because I've always labelled myself as an admin potato = I can be used for anything.

[@oooILikeItOooOoILikeItBby]

The way I’m eating potatoes while watching this 😭😭

[@Ninjashy15]

Private sweet potato reporting for duty! 🫡

[@tani8411]

im late but ive arrived

[@spritals]

Twice baked, here and ready! 😆

[@jmjpmc]

My sister read my diary in high school. I've never written anything down since.... That was 50 years ago.

[@storyln]

I feel you on this so much! I love writing (journaling, creative writing, short stories, whatever). My verbally and emotionally abusive exhusband read one of my journals and ripped it up in front of me because I mentioned a male friend in it. I haven’t journaled or written anything in a notebook ever since. I did wind up leaving him, thank god. Ain’t nobody got time to be treated like that.

[@FatalLightAwareness]

@@storylnwhy does he get to be the cause of you quitting something you love? You should continue writing!!!!!

[@FatalLightAwareness]

Also, I dont want anyone reading my journal, and they know it. But if anyone should ever be so stupid as to read it, and feel upset by something, it’s their own fault!

[@raquellofstedt9713]

My mother read mine I haven't journaled since and never will. learned my lesson well.

[@lilycollegemythbusters5532]

When the pandemic hit, in 2020, I was worried in case I died and my journal were found, so I destroyed all my journals! LOL! No regrets!

[@katrinabrown9234]

Charlotte, I genuinely wish the kind of discussions that you have about relationship and friendship dynamics were something I were exposed to growing up. I swear not only would I have saved myself from so much pain from crappy relationships but I would have also known what it looks like to be a good friend or better yet what it doesn’t look like. You are literally helping young women be better and stronger and I hope you know just how valuable that is.

[@NancyZaidi]

I’m friends with my besties husband but that’s because we have all been friends since freshman year of high school. I was friends with both before they ever started dating, pushed her to ask him out, and went to their wedding. Their kids consider me to be their aunt. She also knows she has zero to fear from me trying anything or her husband trying anything. I have also been known to coordinate surprises for her with her hubby. You don’t toss a good friendship away for a dude that will probably cheat on you too

[@appalachiabrauchfrau]

I think my worst "best friend talking to a partner" story is my girlfriend in high school had a crush on my best guy friend, she broke up with me to try and date him but he stopped talking to her as soon as I came crying to him about being heartbroken. She got upset with him "why aren't you talking to me anymore?" (He was only nice to her because... we were dating, like... it's called being pleasant.) She tried to get back with me with the caveat that she be allowed to date him, not getting the picture at all lol. She's still one of the first people to like his posts online. Just a crumb of his kindness really got her that fucked up. Like it's been 15 years, girl, please just talk to a man, pick one off the street.

[@porkchop2512]

“Dudes, they ain’t worth it.” Is gonna be my next tattoo 😂

[@Bronwyn101411]

regarding the lady whose friends ignored her messages and delayed brunch til later: I have a face blindness thing and can't recognize people unless they're like actively also looking at me and showing body language that they know me. My friends know well that I refuse to go walking around the public to "look for them". We have to have a set place, tell each other if we are wearing something flashy like a bright jacket or specific shoes, and both confirm that we are "here" in the vicinity. People who don't get anxious and can just walk into a crowd like a mall and just SEE THEIR FRIENDS in the crowd is something I am so jealous and bitter of lol. Her friends were rude and dismissive of her comfort.

[@BeeWhistler]

Oh, you have the full face blindness! I’ve heard of many levels and variations but yours sounds pretty challenging! Yeah, in your shoes, I wouldn’t be looking around, either. Sincere question, do you use code words for safety? Or is their reaction enough to help you recognize them? I struggle a bit only, because I don’t like looking at faces and because a change of hairdo will throw me off, but if I know someone well enough, I don’t have an issue. So it’s really not face blindness. I’m just easily overstimulated, lol!

[@Bronwyn101411]

@@BeeWhistler usually their body language is enough for me. My real name (which is not my username) is pretty unique, so if they call my name I also feel more secure. I tend to recognize their hair, walking style, and I get to know their clothes so it's easier to separate them from the sea of "unfamiliarity" . High school was horrible when the culture calls for you to be able to walk into a cafeteria and find your friends at a table and go sit with them. I think that's where I learned how to deal with it the most, when my friends would be like "why didn't you come sit with us" because honey I literally couldn't find you anywhere and just chose the empty spot hoping someone would see me lol

[@prolifegenzgal]

@@Bronwyn101411 I'd never heard of face blindness before, so I did research, and my deepest condolences. That sounds like an incredibly challenging way to live.

[@halifaxguy]

7:08 lol… I’m the friend that says ‘yeah, I’ve arrived and I’m going to pick at table I like and grab a drink, let me know if you are going to be late because you know I’m ordering if you are more that 10 min late without letting me know. lol ‘😊

[@margaretcossman8579]

The girl at the mall was gaslit. Betting the “friend” was hooking up with someone and was using her as an excuse for the husband. Then saying she was there the whole time. There is no one who would wait an hour for someone without checking in with them. OP was ready to contact the husband. And she NEVER looked at her phone for an hour to see missed calls and messages!?!

[@gabemortimer8552]

The story about waiting outside for an hour at the mall gave me dejavu. (Sorry if I misspelled) My friends husband called his friend to meet at the mall and let his friend sit and wait for an hour while he was getting it on in the back of his wife's car with his mistress. His friend called him, but there was no answer. Called his wife because 6 out of 8 of his kids showed up to the mall looking for him. His wife found them in the parking lot in the car. Turned out that he was using his friend as an alibi.

[@tinahickman6300]

8 kids??? Good grief!!

[@rebny7801]

That guy's budget is messed up! Condoms would be much cheaper lol!

[@samlynx2016]

In HER car too?? That's all kinds of nasty, F-d up, and audacious!

[@BeeWhistler]

You spelled deja vu right, just put in a space and you’re good. And that guy reminds me of my husband’s dad! He cheated on step-mom #1 with her hairdresser. Once after the dad and step-mom #1 split up, my husband had a broken arm and his dad sent him to school anyway… because (it turns out) it was his day to meet his mistress. Then he took him to the hospital later because the school called, and because hubby was gonna be seeing stepmom #1, who is a nurse, later that day. And yeah… hairdresser and compulsive liar mistress became step-mom #2 and kept trying to portray them all as a happy, loving family. No wonder my husband is now no-contact!

[@gabemortimer8552]

@@BeeWhistler Thank you! I'm sorry that happened to your husband. I hope that everything is going well now!

[@stephaniecastro984]

I think my brother-in-law handles being hit on extremely well (he’s extremely handsome). He’s kind and polite, and invites them back to his table, to meet his wife…my sister. It’s always funny to watch their reactions. 😂

[@CompanionCorbs]

That last story… I’m military. I was deployed to the Middle East with a girl like that. And being a limited number of females out there, I was stuck living directly with her for 6 months. I’m still in therapy for it.

[@natalialin730]

That last one was SA! Same as if a man wiped his fluids on you 🤮🤮

[@CompanionCorbs]

@@natalialin730 there are a lot of times those stories aren’t taken seriously. We had a poor dude whose bunk-mate would self-pleasure ALL the time, even when the poor dude was awake and around. The poor dude tried to avoid their shared space as much as possible - the nasty dude just did not have any sense of appropriateness… and then, most likely because the poor dude looked like a degenerate himself, his reports weren’t taken seriously. The few times I tried to say something, male leadership just assumed I was being weird by airing “private girl stuff”. She would literally not shut up about her labia-plasty, her twice rejected nipple piercings, and her poor undereducated BF… but any time I would pair up or solo with a dude for social hour if nobody else in the unit wanted to go, she’d say “Have fun on your date! 😍” in the unit comm chat. These guys were my brothers and I did not intend to have that reputation - especially when I was going through a divorce. I did not need any bullshit reason to complicate that process. In an effort to get me to embarrass myself, she told me on her last day there that the guy I usually hung out with, who yeah - I thought was hot, had a crush on me. I was like “I’m leaving in 3 weeks anyway - I don’t need that reputation and he’s been professional. So it is what it is”. And when he later probed for what she had said to me, I told him and he was devastated - because he had told her he liked her months earlier. We were a fucking game to her. She had always been welcome to hang out with him, or with he and I. But she said no. And she was waiting for me to make an ass of myself and confide in her because I’m a trusting girls-girl. This shit still has me fucked up because if they had that conversation months ago, and let me know, I would have encouraged them to hang out. Be apparently she hated me. And she had even told our commander that. And it was only because I was smarter. Girl, I’m almost 10 years older than you, you had better hope I’m smarter. But I also worry about that guy - had she only been kind to him to hear what went on when he and I hung out (it was literally complaining about work and talking travel plans - not with each other. I was clearly not his type). So had she genuinely never been friends with him too? Urgh. I hope I never see her again in my life or my career.

[@natalialin730]

@@CompanionCorbs My instinct tells me 10 years will not give her extra smarts. You really helped that guy dodge a bullet by the way. He sounds really nice and she's a nutjob, and hopefully he's met someone more genuine. I didn't have that many female friends because they were often nice to my face but b's behind my back, until I met my equals in intellect and values. Also, I'm older now so I guess I'm not as much competition? But anyway, I've gotten over people's shenanigans by avoiding them and getting satisfaction that they were most likely jealous or intimidated by me. It hurts at first, but honestly, good riddance. Girl, you were above her.

[@clumsystitcher]

17:00 if you tell us we're upset at her if you dont we're upset with you. Hinding it makes it look like it might not be one sided

[@jenniferschroeder3086]

My best friend helped me through a breakup, mostly helped me stay strong and not give into the ex's BS and allow him back in. My best friend and I are now married for 10+ years and have 9 year-old triplet daughters. ❤

[@jessicagriffin4608]

The notes at 18:10. "Tale as old as tiiime." YESSSS CHARLOTTE

[@SoManyRandomRamblings]

In high school i told my best friend that i was gonna ask David to the prom on Wednesday, so on Tuesday she asked him. I stayed a super awesome friend anyways and helped her get ready for prom, she wanted Henna decorations on her body and i did them for her, got her all decked out, and then she stood him up. She screwed with everyone's heads. I found my way away from that toxic friendship eventually.

[@AnnJo-gq8gu]

WTAF when was it? Has she come out of the closet since then? Because why?

[@the.scorpio.wonder]

My son says “Hello charlotte!” Every time I watch you with him! Maybe once a week, while he’s running around the house.🤣

[@WeOnlySayHello]

Acceptable

[@caljones]

That’s adorable!

[@dinasilva9263]

So cute, my niece also loves watching Charlotte😂❤

[@the.scorpio.wonder]

@@dinasilva9263 the outro is his favorite lol

[@MissJellybean]

I am so glad that I have zero problems with confrontation and violence. I only use those powers for good to defend myself and others, but I realize it's a blessing all the time. If you ever need an internet stranger to stand up for you potato gang I have your back.

[@Jessielovesya]

You are that cyber friend we all want in our corner ❤

[@lunaportia989]

Thank you! I appreciate it 🙌

[@saltycat662]

Same girl, same. My friends call me the Hulk and they always tell people not to make me angry lol.

[@M_SC]

People need to do it for themselves

[@MissJellybean]

@@saltycat662 My friends call me a Pitbull. I will tell people please don't make me unleash her or if I hear somebody's done something wrong to my friend that deserves retribution They have to tell me to stay on my leash. I leave it up to them.

[@thevintagehomesewist3918]

Just the fact that the one friend, supposedly waiting inside for an entire hour, never thought, "Gee, i wonder where my friend is? Is she ok? I should text her and check in." Is crazy. I cant imagine waiting on a friend for even 30 minutes and not checking in to make sure all is well. To me that shows a huge lack of care and consideration. I would be miffed too.

[@dragoscilvio]

My childhood best friend ghosted me after her mother tried to take over my wedding, and when I stood up to the woman, my childhood best friend was angry that I dared tell her mother no. After days of trying to reconcile without backing down my boundaries, she finally said she was still my bridesmaid, however, the night of the rehearsal she was a no show and ghosted me. Thank God I had amazing friends and an even better support group and we were able to find a spare dress that matched the theme, and someone able to stand in her place for the ceremony. Needless to say….we have not spoken since

[@brittneybrown369]

My best friends husband IS my friend. BUT we only talk solo about surprises for her. We have never had a convo she didn’t know about or wasn’t involved in. BOUNDARIES are important ❤

[@brittneybrown369]

Don’t know if it matters but we are all in our early 30s and have all been friends 20 years and they’ve been married 17.

[@WhiteRaven696]

"But if I told you, you'd be upset!" Yeah. At the other chick, now I'm upset at you!

[@marrsings7131]

3:06 my dad had this saying that used to drink me MENTAL when I was in public/high school it went. “To your friends you secrets go, but when they turn foe, the whole world shall know” It makes so much more sense now that I’m an adult and I’ve learned to keep things to myself!!!

[@helenwright413]

The second story: I'm sorry, maybe I'm being thick here, but why didn't her friend message or call her? They're supposed to be meeting up, whether inside or outside, makes no difference. Why wasn't her friend just as concerned for her wellbeing? Anything over 20 minutes late and I'm calling/texting to see if everything is ok. I'm someone who doesn't have their phone glued to their hand either, I can spend a whole day not even checking it once. However, if I KNOW I'm supposed to be meeting someone, I'm checking my phone every few minutes to see whether they've text or called. I just don't get why it was down to that girl making the video to go inside and check? It's so much easier to just pick up the damn phone and find each other that way. Shopping centres are busy as f*ck. What was she supposed to do, just wander around staring at strangers looking like some lost puppy? Nah mate, my social anxiety could never! I just don't think she cares about you my girl 💔 Find better friends who actually want you around and care about your wellbeing 🤗 You deserve better. Everyone deserves better. Big love from Manchester UK xXx

[@crimsonfirelily]

Exactly! I just met my best friend yesterday at the mall. Both of us texted each other to make sure we met at the same place. Also, we that we were both running a few minutes later than planned. That's just what you do! Be courteous and kind to each other. My goodness, you are friends! 🧡✌️

[@BrianAndresScott]

Absolutely 💯 agree

[@VictoriaMarch13]

I agree ❤

[@BeeWhistler]

@@crimsonfirelilyI was think much the same thing. I’m not super social but my friend and I would go out for a lunch sometimes. We both have kids and stuff going on and expect some delays or unexpected things to crop up so it was no big deal if something came up or someone was late. What was essential, that neither of us struggled with, was to keep up a steady chatter as the time approached, things like “We still on for lunch?” “Yeah, I’ll be a bit late.” “Can we change to Friday?” “Can we push it back to 1:30?” “I’m just leaving now.” “I’m here, where you?” “I’m out front.” “I’m already inside.” “I got us a table.” Just very simple stuff! The key is, whatever happened, it took just a few words to update each other. What I’m seeing from Charlotte’s channel and others, and this is really sad, is how many people have never had someone reciprocate the basic respect and consideration that their better nature tells them they should give other people. So many of these people, these sweet, mistreated people, ask if they’re in the wrong because they’re able to admit mistakes… when they’re surrounded by awful, selfish people who tell them they don’t deserve basic decent treatment. I’m happy to be able to tell them, as you did, what genuinely nice and respectful people do in these situations. Then more people can recognize they aren’t being treated right and maybe fix that for themselves.

[@crimsonfirelily]

@BeeWhistler You said that so well. It really is just being respectful and kind to each other, which I thought as friends we would naturally do for each other. It is truly sad that somehow people got lost somewhere. Or maybe never learned how to be kind to each other. I treat people how I would like to be treated and surround myself with the same. It is what I learned and taught my daughter. What happened to human kind in some of these videos lately... ✌️

[@KittenlessLadyCat]

That last piece, smear on the arm, where I come from is called...get your ASS BEAT in 10 seconds or less! 😂❤

[@nickibabi1678]

Absolutely!! 💯

[@transsnack]

Pretty sure that's a criiiiime tooooo. Wiping your bodily fluids on someone without their consent is a big no no.

[@reut0094]

It's also sexual assault pretty sure

[@BrianAndresScott]

Yes, that's just absolutely disgusting

[@MrsAlmightyKey]

Girlllllllll~~~~, let me tell you, I was just about to say um yeah that's on the same level and being spit on that mofo wanted a death sentence!!

[@erikarussell1142]

My friends are friends with my husband. They talk often with out me. But it is never a secret. It is never taboo and if we were to break it off they would be 100% on my side. That being said the conversation isn’t the issue. The issue is you’re hiding and keeping it secret cuz you knew it was wrong. That is cheating. The second you have to hide your actions because it is wrong? You’re 10000% wrong and that’s that. Wrong is wrong. Shame. Shame on bf and “bestie”. (Edited for correction)

[@yellowpillpeople4745]

When men tell their partner that someone is hitting on them yes, we will be upset but we feel like they are on our side and are truthful and honest with us but when they don't, we think they are hiding something, and we get twice as upset than we would have been if they had just told us the truth. When men hide stuff like that it tells us that they do not trust us to be able to handle our emotions like adults and that is when we have a problem.

[@elizabethlaney6091]

You crack me up girl!!! “The friend in the back that is all on us!” 😆🤣😂

[@i8mud4u2]

Running to Charlotte's new video in 10 seconds or less!

[@lilycollegemythbusters5532]

Yup! Every time! Go Charlotte go! Great stuff!

[@ms.rockscientist5915]

My GF starting dating a guy that was a keeper about 15 years ago. 3 years ago my GF died. I'm still his closest friend to this day. We bonded over our grief. I know she is happy I'm here looking out for him. Also, our friendship keeps her close to my heart. Sometimes it is a wholesome thing. Just saying. 💕

[@lashadi1445]

So are you two now together? If so, that is really sweet. ❤ Sharing that reverance for her memory is important and your friend is happy you two are there for each other I'm sure too! I have heard of similar stories where the to be departed made such wishes known. It truly is heart warming and makes me teary eyed. 🥲

[@caffeinatedkatie4696]

I just hope it wasn't trauma bonding alone that made you stay friends after her passing

[@ms.rockscientist5915]

No, we're not together. We have discussed, casually, a possible scenario where we could end up together. However, until I'm satisfied that we have both processed, healed, and moved on from, our grief and related emotions; i won't even consider it. I don't say this to him, but I do remind him that until I've worked through some things emotionally, it would be unfair for me to get involved with anyone. And, that is the truth. 💕

[@moiramarriott4403]

My Aunt was bridesmaid to best friend and coworker. Best friend died. Aunt after a few years married best friends husband , now my Uncle . They both remember former wife, friend special occassions , fanilies etc Aunt over 90yrs old , its been many years of love, support

[@dianaquick8883]

I had a very unique relationship with my friends and their boyfriend's growing up. We all grew up together and just started dating the male friends that we grew up with so we were all talking to each other. Then we all got married to the same guys we were with in high school. So now 30 years later we all still talk to each other and each other's husbands. And no I did not grow up in a small town. I lived in Phoenix and had a graduating class of over 600 people. We just happened to keep this friend group together from 2nd and 3rd grade.

[@jadziamary7301]

I love this lip color! Really pretty 🥹💗

[@SanniSandyBunny2000]

Miss Paratey, being "attacked" by her kitty 🐈 😸 🐈😸 while she was talking, even tapping her with his paw, soo soon sweet 💕

[@klbriceno1]

especially the tap.. like "why you mad mom? I'm right here" lol

[@raghailligh1080]

@@klbriceno1 Yes, that kitty seemed very cute and sweet. I was hoping we'd get a better look at it.

[@what_equals_42]

My "Friends to Enemies in 10 seconds" moment happened a few days before my ex-friend's wedding, when she obviously decided it was too close for me to drop out as MOH and cranked the dial right up from Moderate Bridezilla to Hellb*tch. Kind of wish I'd been able to see her face when I dropped out over the phone, then immediately afterwards blocked her on everything. Sad thing is the rest of the wedding party doesn't know most of what she was doing to me, but I hadn't spent much time with them anyway, so not really a loss there.

[@Catherine.Dorian.]

Lucky you dropped out, I stupidly still went to the wedding and just never spoke to her again

[@seekersun624]

I feel like it's fair that the one fiance felt like mentioning a coworker was flirting with him was pointless, so long as now that his fiance has established she'd rather have been aware of it he honors that and tells her abt any future similar situations

[@YourAdventChild]

Oh I absolutely LOVE when someone's telling a story and they go "But I'm a Virgo, so--" 'cos you just KNOW you gotta get the popcorn ready. I will be needing ALL the details, thank you 💅

[@Redde37]

My friend introduced me to a guy friend of her because "we were perfect for each other." We actually hit it off really well, he was on his way to come see me, and all of a sudden "his car broke down" and he ends up ghosting me and won't return my messages or pick up my calls... ...and she messages me to say she's leaving her husband for my boyfriend 💀 We don't talk anymore, but I'm still friends with her ex husband. 😂

[@anastasiarivera3063]

0:49 Charlotte's "Oh no" sounds so genuine and sympathetic 🥰

[@dinasilva9263]

I Love that Charlotte seems like that unique and special good friend that when we have one, we need to appreciate and cherish❤

[@ValerynValentine]

First story, almost exact thing happened to me in middle school. Had a first crush, mentioned it at lunch to my girl friends, who kept asking. Pointed him out in the lunch line, and we were all giggling, I thought it was so fun. Next day, she had asked him out. Really sad, because unfortunately I stayed friends with them for a year after. The friendship / crush I had for that boy ended that day, and eventually, same for those girls. Found out high school that boy had liked me, but oh well. Haven't liked anyone in the same way since. Some people can be so mean. Always try to find good peeps who would treat you kindly, and would never do things like that to you 🙏🌸

[@geni1147]

It happens to all, I had a friend who was friends with this girl who did exactly that, it was mentioned casually that she fancied him and the next day that girl was saying she the boy’s best friend for ever 😂 like grow up. Another time in my case, it was the start of Spring where were I live is a day you give roses to friends and love ones. I saw this girl being sneaky and I knew she wasn’t going to do something nice. She was talking to a dude and kept glancing in my direction. I thought maybe it wasn’t what I was thinking, she wouldn’t dare. Oh she dared. She made him sent me a rose, to see if I would get excited to get an anonymous rose saying he liked me on the note. I got the rose when she wasn’t looking shoved it into my backpack and luck was on my side because my sister also sent me a rose and I smiled wickedly. I took my sister’s rose and flaunted it. When she came and ask annoyingly; oh my you got a rose, who is it from? I was smiling from ear to ear letting her see my sister’s note saying happy spring’s day to her face, I said my sister isn’t she wonderful. Her face dropped it was iconic.

[@Whaleasouris]

Adding the couch made that moment so much better. 😂

[@erinmartin1768]

That last story is CRIMINAL. DIABOLICAL.

[@ShoreFell]

Here’s my thing with telling my girlfriend if someone else is hitting on me; I’ve been in a situation where I did tell the girl I was with at the time, and she accused me of making it up, thought it was an excuse to break up, and three weeks later we weren’t together. I’ve been told it’s attention seeking and degrading to your partner in the past so I just shut my mouth when it happens to me.

[@kiwifreund]

I had been friends with a woman for around 10 years. Knew her when she was single. She eventually got married and had twins that she was homeschooling. We made plans to meet up for a St. Patrick's Day parade. I had gotten there, parked, picked out a spot, reserved space for them. She was texting me all the way up to the point until she said they were parking, and then...nothing. Didn't hear from her for a WEEK. Then she gave me a lame excuse about how she got an upset stomach. I was like no. You don't ghost someone for a week because you claim you are parking, and then all of the sudden you aren't. THAT was crappy. She was supposedly a really logical person, but would do really crappy things all the time like that. And her kids are completely socially clueless.

[@Sunfl0wer25]

19:29 Char popping up over the couch 😂

[@EmpressMina]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@lilycollegemythbusters5532]

I love whenever Charlotte acts out a scene and puts herself right into their situation. She is the best!

[@CaringWithCarrie]

I actually LOLed 🤣🤣

[@SheilaGrant44]

The friend wasn't thinking about her for a whole hour before thinking to call her. She's wrong

[@susanchrist3730]

I was thinking the exact same thing Plus you're going to tell me that she sat there for an entire hour and did not scroll her phone at all. Not in this day and age.

[@jeanams07]

Oh no, she was straight up lying. She wasn't there. She just tried to play it like she was so the friend wouldn't completely lose her sh*t. Also, I would not be surprised if she went to eat without her, because an hour is the perfect amount of time for that friend to go to brunch first.

[@ladygrndr9424]

My best-friend's hubby and I do text each other...to discuss 3D printing, good hiking trails and where to meet up with the kids on days my bestie has to work. Without her and our children being best friends, I don't think he and I would remain that good of friends since he drives me a little crazy with how disorganized he is. But it is still lovely that she trusts me like that--speaks a lot to my character and that of her husband that she knows we would NEVER.

[@Ripley1994]

The last bit Girl, she was marking you like a cat marks things and areas that are theirs!!!! Ugh!!!! I'm literally shivers from 2nd hand PTSD!

[@mskrezz97]

That last video had me sitting in silence for so long after.

[@galilali4]

Me 2

[@joysgirl]

I literally put my hand over my mouth and just sat for a long minute, in complete silence. It was either that, or scream.

[@mskrezz97]

@@joysgirl saaamee!!!

[@ceilinh6004]

Seriously. That's *nasty.*

[@thatonewitch]

At that point I may have started throwing hands, she committed assault in the most disgusting way possible

[@maggywolska1943]

This is why my any my friends always met up in the bookshop. Low shelves, small space next to the fountain and benches. Easy to just look down from the escalator and instantly see your target. And, a costa to the left. Logistics 101, we had it all down to a science.

[@RebeccaHunt-wv8bc]

What's a costa?

[@Fayellen95]

@@RebeccaHunt-wv8bc Coffee shop chain in the uk. Costa Coffee.

[@chrisw443]

A shoulder to cry on always becomes a blank to ride on.

[@F-dp1rp]

My childhood “best friend” went through my diary on my birthday with my other friends at my house, while I was in the ER with 2 broken fingers I got back home with a cast up to my elbow and one of the girls told me about it. Everyone in our class knew everything I wrote

[@misscoconutkiller]

My best friend at that time and I were introduced to a whole bunch of people mostly of them boys. She told me which one I was interested in, when I told her which one was my type, she immediately starts flirting with him. They ended having a 3 year relationship. Turns out that he was a total creep...never told her that I don't used to have good taste in men :)

[@MizKayKay]

I will never understand things like "oh I didn't tell you because I didn't want you to become upset" like....don't you want me "to become upset" 'cuz you don't wanna hurt me or is it more like a "I withheld important information from you (and probably lied too) because I didn't want you to be upset because then I would have to deal with it and you being upset and right now I don't want to deal with it -- I hope I never have to deal with it" -- that's why I have a partner - a TEAMmate - she and I talk literally about every single thing, good or bad. We face it together.

[@saltycat662]

It's man code for "I didn't want to tell you just in case I decide to be with that other girl". Women need to learn how men think. They will keep things hidden for good reason.

[@deepwaters7242]

Re: hungry girl at 6-7 minutes: I just saw a study about hunger and decision making. They followed the decisions of Judges before and after eating, and the numbers were atrocious! The judgements were so much nicer after food, and worst when very hungry! It's a wild study.

[@ranran8934]

"We always find out and we'll be double upset." So true.

[@lesliemathes3723]

I met my husband through my best friend (male/gay), which is also my husband's cousin so they do chat without me. But, I don't have to worry about my friend hitting on my husband, hehe. Also, my husband will straight up tell you that he's a snitch. If a woman hits on him or flirts with him, he comes straight and tells me. (I tend to be a firecracker, 😁) I'm just 5'3" but when I'm mad, I'm ten feet tall and bullet proof (I think), and I go for the jugular with the first lick! My husband is 6'6" and trembles when I get "The Tone" he says, 🤣🤣. Anyways, love the reaction and Love you Charlotte!!

[@SomethingAboutBeautee]

For the last two weeks you’ve been making me laugh while I’ve been recovering from heart surgery & then catching Covid! Thanks for being so amazing! Much love from Hamilton! 🇨🇦🥰

[@lisamelroy2855]

Take care of yourself, and feel better soon, bestie!! ❤

[@SomethingAboutBeautee]

@@lisamelroy2855Awww thank you so much! I really love this community. I also had heart surgeries earlier this year & both Charlotte & bestie’s like you were all so supportive & since my surgeries are all out town, it made it a bit harder for some people to come visit so this really helped. Thanks again bestie! 🥰

[@badkitty4922]

Omg, look at the awesome markings on the second lady's cat! GORGEOUS!!🐾🐾🩷

[@paradisestruggle404]

19:27 this girl is all of us😂😂😂I feel exposed

[@jessarie98]

Losing a best friend over a stupid guy is bad, but losing your sister over a stupid guy is 10× worse honestly

[@roxiegs348]

Second video: the girl had been in the store for 45 minutes so then she went outside. Her friends were late and didn’t bother to update her during that wait time. They were the in the wrong, not the girl telling the story.

[@lilithinaries8563]

sweet the cat senses her being upset and trying to comfort her. I love cats lol

[@shelbydiamond8606]

The friend on the couch knew cause if a friend dropped a bomb like that in a group there would be more of a "WHAT" reaction

[@SoManyRandomRamblings]

Yeah, that was more looking to see the reaction, than it was surprise.

[@TheNinnyfee]

I LOVED your rant about, "Guess who they run to..." These women literally never support you to get a boyfriend because they want to keep you on hold for themselves, or to achieve any of your goals. Beware of people who keep you from your dreams and from overcoming your challenges.

[@AreiaBlood]

That friend on the Couch was like “Yes! Drama, you rang?”