Friends To Foes In 10 Seconds - REACTION

Friends To Foes In 10 Seconds - REACTION
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Hey, everyone! 👋 Today we’re diving into some truly jaw-dropping stories of friendships turned sour in record time! ⏳ From petty arguments to shocking betrayals, these tales will have you questioning the meaning of loyalty and trust. 💔 Whether it’s besties falling out over something silly or friendships ending in the most dramatic way possible, you won’t believe how fast things can go from hugs to hostility. 🫂➡️😡
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[@cookiewitch]

A few years back, my husband and I were passing through a small town in Arkansas. This town was so small that they really only had one store...that's right, it was a Walmart. I am of Asian decent and this town only had Caucasians. My husband is also Caucasian. We were shopping in the store for a few items for the road. As we were heading to the cashier I noticed that everyone ( and I do mean everyone) was stopping and staring at us as we passed them. I leaned into my husband and said " they're all staring at me " and he said ( without missing a beat ) " That's because you are the most beautiful woman they have ever seen." . I will never forget how special that made me feel. We have been married for 42 years.

[@tkat921]

Married for 42 years!? What a sweetie pie, how lovely is that! Also if you've been married for that long, do you mind sharing how old you are?? I never expect older people to watch content like this for some reason 😂😂❤ with love

[@richardhernandez8120]

I love that for you he for sure is A keeper omg

[@percarlemil]

THATS TRUE LOVE LOVE FROM DENMARK

[@YM-qb6gh]

Awwww

[@ginahouston9352]

THAT's the way it's done.... wishing you two many more years of happiness and Love 🤎

[@BreeS-zd5rx]

The first story gave me flashbacks to my childhood. I had a pretty serious spinal deformity (now fixed), and an entire group of friends dropped me because they were embarrassed to be seen with me. People can be so cruel when you're "different." I want to give her a hug so badly. 😭

[@erikarussell1142]

I too had scoliosis. Had to wear braces. Then had surgery because my spine collapsed and I almost died. People (especially kids) can be so mean.

[@BreeS-zd5rx]

@erikarussell1142 Mine was kyphosis, which causes similar issues and comes with a similar surgery. I had to have the surgery too because it was too much of a curve to be corrected by a brace alone. My school reported it to my mom every year all of middle school and it wasn't until my freshman year of high school that she actually took me to be seen. That's a whole other story though. But yeah, years of bullying for something I couldn't help.

[@taylorshelton6507]

What??? How could someone be embarrassed of something that first of all you cannot help. Like it’s an effing medical condition?? And second of all, it has NOTHING to do with them??? I am so sorry that happened to you. People can be so so cruel and I do not understand. I would never be embarrassed to be friends with someone for ANY REASON. Unless maybe if they are a POS like it sounds like your old friends were. Glad your spine is fixed and hopefully isn’t giving you problems anymore. ❤

[@SweetPea_G]

I wanna give you BOTH a huge hug!!🥺😭🫂 This ish is NOT OK!!!🗣️💯🫶🏽

[@t-and-p]

I'm so truly sorry that you had to experience that. Growing up, one of my friends had fairly severe scoliosis. If anyone had even looked at her wrong, our whole friend group would have given them the dressing down of the year and/or thrown hands. It is **absurd** that people couldn't look past something physical and, when it comes to friendship, insignificant in order to see the person inside. To this day, my friend is still the absolute best - kind, sweet, gentle, hilarious, compassionate, bursting with empathy - and a complete joy to have in my life. I can't imagine missing out on her friendship. I have no doubt that you are equally awesome. It was their loss, my darling, they chose to surround themselves with pretentious, shallow, fairweather friends, so would have been repeatedly let down - and deservedly so. However, you still deserved so much better 💕 Personally, I'd be embarrassed to have a friend group who are so shallow and ignorant, so I hope you're able to see it as a lucky escape! These days, I hope you're surrounded by people who deserve your fabulousness 😎🤩 Wishing you all the very best x

[@nessa007productions]

My heart completely breaks for the person in the first story! I really hate that she went through that but it’s always better to find out who your real friends are and get those who aren’t out of your life.

[@BrianAndresScott]

Me too. I don't understand how any friend could do that to a friend

[@eraldadevole]

Same, I just started the video and I’m speechless… it was her friend.. 😕

[@mzharpie3096]

Aa

[@SilverMichi]

Same... it's an awful feeling to feel isolated and alone even by those who claimed to love and care about you when you're struggling and really need them.

[@Pitacrumbs]

Dude that’s horrible. I’m so angry that happened to you u.u

[@kellyking9443]

I REALLY want to just give this first girl the BIGGEST bear hug and tell her how she deserves so much better!!! 😢❤

[@justhereforthecommentslol2425]

The first story really hits hard for me. When I was still in the military, I was stationed in Korea for one year. While African American culture is popular there in terms of music and fashion, WE are not popular there. All the looks and stares that I received when traveling were beyond irksome, but unfortunately, I was used to traveling places where I was the "other." While I did get the occasional rude comment (which I would shoot down with a ferocity that I am not sure some deserved, lol) my friends often handled it before I could say something. I would often hear them asking people "Do you have a problem?" "Are we going to have a problem?" before I even noticed the slights against me. I even had someone laugh and point at me in broad daylight to which I responded with a sarcastic laugh and double middle fingers. My point is that my friends never made me feel like trash because of the stupidity of the locals and how some of them treated me. I will always love them for having my back the few times that it was necessary.

[@squizzyicetea]

But her storytelling was so annoying. I skipped through it. All. The crazy fake Kamala Harris giggles in between things.. It was annoying

[@sallygardner8644]

I lived in India for a few years, I am white, and one of my Indian friends commented on how uncomfortable it was to walk with me because of all the rude stares and comments I got. She literally said, I’ve never felt unsafe in my own city before walking with you. BUT, she only walked closer to me and never let me travel alone at night. True friends will have your back!!!!

[@lucycarlisle9120]

10/10 can confirm that the amount of staring in India (I am very pale, but have long dark hair & features very similar to the local population) is intense.

[@JenniferDaniels909]

My boyfriend at the time went into a gas station somewhere on the outskirts of Delhi. I think in gurgoan. (I am spelling that wrong.) and in the few minutes it took him to pay a dozen men surrounded me in the car and were just leaning over staring at me in the car. Happened all over India. I’ve been a few times. Still love India but I get stared at 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@Shelby-s2w]

As a black woman, i expected to be stared at in India, but it was actually my white friend who got all the stares and questions. It was a nice break for me but an eye opener for her lol

[@loosilu]

For me, it was going to Rwanda. I'm strawberry blonde, you better believe I stood out! It's a strange feeling. I was working with local graduate students who became my friends, and they made sure to take care of me.

[@loosilu]

@@Shelby-s2w For me as a white woman, it was going to Rwanda. Holy cow, people literally spotted me half a mile away. I learned very fast not to take it personally. I also realized that for a lot of people, I will be the only white lady they ever had a conversation with. That's a heavy responsibility. I'm kind of socially awkward, so I just had to be double sure to pay attention!

[@KilroyW45here]

For the first story: She needs to drop that "best-friend" immediately. It took me 15 years to learn my "best-friend" was my worst enemy. Especially when it came to my self-esteem. I hope she doesn't allow this treatment to happen to her any longer, and I'm glad the other gal was there to show her what real friends do.

[@glancycorner7425]

It took me close to 30 years to drop that so-called best friend. 😢

[@sunnyandthechlo]

I still remember in like 3rd grade I came to school wearing this amazing sparkly belt I had just gotten and loved. I even bought 2 more in different colors. My 2 best friends came up and ambushed me, yanking off the belt and stuffing it in my backpack, then acted like they’d saved my life. “Thank god we got that awful thing off you.” About a month later everyone at school was wearing sparkly belts and I got to break mine out again. They were like “wow you’re a trendsetter, remember when you wore that before everyone else?” Yeah you soggy lampshade remember how you made me feel like crap about it too? One of those ‘best friends’ was ALWAYS doing that and at that age I assumed I was doing things wrong. “Take off that headband you look stupid, why do you look down so much when you walk, don’t make that face…” even the way I folded shirts was hopelessly wrong. It takes a long time to recover from a ‘friend’ like that. I’m so sorry for anyone who has to realize your friends aren’t your friends.

[@BalwinderSingh-vy8wb]

It took me 5 years to finally break that friendship. Grade 5 to 10 but I was a teenager so rest of the school years were shit. I was anxious all the time.

[@lilnugget5961]

My daughter was in a new school in a new state in 7th grade and on her first day during lunch (you sit with your class in that school) she was sitting next to two best friends. One of them accidentally knocked her milk over and it spilled in her lap. The table started laughing including the girls best friend. The girl got teary eyed and asked he bf to please not laugh, but she still did. My daughter of course wasn't and got her a bunch of napkins . Then it was almost time for the bell and the poor girl started crying and saying she can't stand up because everyone is going to make fun of her especially because of where the wetness was. She asked her bf to help her figure out what to do. The bf said, laughing, your on your own! So my daughter took her milk, poured it on her lap, and said there now you're not alone! The girl began to laugh and said I can't believe you did that for me. My daughter said I can't believe I did that too😂

[@carolwhydoyouneedmylastnam7341]

Your kiddo is a true bestie lol

[@Siobhanjcm]

You raised a stellar child ❤🎉

[@jesclifford88]

Oh bless her she sounds lovely 😊 She should’ve poured it on the horrible bfs lap though too 😂

[@snapdragon1194]

Hat's off to you for raising such a beautiful spirited person.

[@ivonneiglesias1439]

Queens fix each other’s crowns ❤

[@WatchingUTube]

And now I’m over here crying 😭 ❤❤❤ My son was born with a very special hand that is very different. Most people will never see anything like it in their entire life. From the time he was born I’ve worried how people would treat him and of course they didn’t disappoint. However there are good people out there who know how to act kindly. Thank you to all the humane loving people in society who don’t judge people based on appearances alone.

[@QuotetheRaven75]

I don't want to tell you why since I don't talk about it in public... But I can really relate to your Son. All I will say is I was born with something similar. I wish you and your son a lot of blessing and happiness. Blessed be

[@bearstarpresents2264]

14:00 President Grover Cleveland married his best friend’s daughter, was there for the birth and he helped her raise after he died, while president inside the White House. He was 49. She was 21.

[@vampyrelle]

Yucky!

[@Sk8rToon]

Also look at the current administration. And a certain “grab them by the 🐈” interview… Sadly being creepy & grabby does not stop some from being president

[@user-db9nc1im8c]

@@Sk8rToon or being found by the Jury to be liable for sexual abuse 😅

[@scarletohhaha6938]

​@@user-db9nc1im8c or admitting to being attracted to his own daughter 🤢

[@No-sv6mu]

In college I had a friend that was born with severe birth defects including missing one eye, that she had a glass eye for. She was very unsteady on her feet and walked with a limp. She also did not have full use of 1 arm. She was also insanely nice, smart, loyal, and funny. While out one night a group of 3 boys began harrassing her on the street. Me and another friend tried to shield her. It got heated. One boy even spit at us. We watched what dorm they went into, and I called my supervisor at the campus police department I worked at. He saw red. He showed up at the dorm, went through the scan card data and found the boys that checked into the dorm. After a mediation with the university the boys accepted 100 hours of community service and wrote appology letters to us. Their behavior was so disgusting. We even received a letter from one of the boys mother who was mortified by his behavior. I hope they learned from that. Dont treat people horribly because they may look different. And I could never imagine leaving my friend to deal with that kind of treatment and ignore it.

[@trinitybernhardt9944]

I knew a girl with birth defects like that and I truly saw her as one of the most beautiful people I ever met. She was so kind, generous, and loving that it took only minutes for her inner beauty to shine through. I knew her through church and never really hung out with her outside because she was so popular and I was so shy, so I didn't see how she was treated by others, but pretty sure she has been thriving as a lawyer helping others. People who judge on something so shallow ultimately harm themselves.

[@phaedrapage4217]

You are a good friend. ❤

[@CarpeNutella]

You're a good friend, and a good person. Good things will happen to you. May you always have every ingredient for your dinner recipe! May you find a $20 bill every time you pull on a coat. 😊

[@michellelaudet5363]

Why is this a thing? Are we really this backwards still? Yikes.😮😢

[@BeBooBoopBeepBeep]

I'm so sorry you guys went through that. You are great friends.

[@jrebecca0195]

"Put a finger down," Charlotte gives bombastic side eye! 😅

[@jenniferziegenfuss3719]

Charlotte wants to PUT A FINGER UP!

[@jrebecca0195]

​@@jenniferziegenfuss3719exactly! It's such a silly thing to say!

[@lsleight5332]

I noticed that, too🤣

[@emilyfogerty6438]

I saw that too, lol! 😂

[@ayla6854]

I agree with that side eye. I hate the "Put a finger down" bs. Just tell your story.😑

[@karenneill9109]

Many years ago I spent a summer in Finland. I’m not ethnically Finnish, but I’m Northern European. Everybody could tell I wasn’t Finnish, but I didn’t stick out. I had a friend in my language school from Somalia. Not only was she very dark, she had a hairline that started halfway back, so she didn’t even look like the black people on TV (most from the US). When we went out, she got a LOT of stares. She’d gotten used to it, but it was quite a surprise for me. I’m a Canadian, and I’m so used to people of various ethnicities that it didn’t phase me. We began to make a game of it, confusing people (who were these two, why were they friends). We joined arms and skipped, we did silly marches, had a wonderful time. That way people looked at US, not at HER. Isn’t that what friends are for? To make difficult situations easier?

[@loosilu]

That's how real ones do it. :) You're an US!!

[@arbonneladyTN]

Absolutely! Great story!

[@KirstiStephenson]

I'm really shocked to hear that! I'm Canadian of Finnish Heritage and there are many brown and black people that have immigrated to Finland and live and work there in great Harmony! How many years ago was this trip? Like maybe at least 20+years? Or were you in a small village and far away from a City centre? Anyways I'm sad to hear that but luckily your Friend had you to help her! ❤

[@Mina56]

Omg that’s so sweet of you. Especially the US part and not staring at her.

[@karenneill9109]

@@KirstiStephenson It was 30 years ago. 🤣 The people weren’t hostile at ALL. But they were very curious!

[@chelseatappa284]

I want to give the girl in the first story a hug 😭 poor thing, you deserve good friends!!!

[@suburbanmama0062]

My husband and I go back to our early teens. We dated off and on through high school. He was in the military while I was finishing high school. I had a ring my mom got me when I turned 16 that I would move to my left ring finger and turn around so the opal was on the inside to act as creep repellent anytime I went out with my friends. It was far more effective than anything I or my friends said. When I was pregnant with each of our kids, my hands swelled too much for me to wear my usual rings, so we got a bigger band. Several years ago, I decided to give our kids the band I wore to each of them. Our son decided to put his up for safe keeping. He wears a couple rings, but he's a car guy and didn't want to risk ruining that band. Our daughter wore hers on a chain she had that also had sentimental value through most of high school. The chain broke and she realized that it fit her. She wears it on her right hand now, but if she feels like she needs some extra creep repellent, she can switch it. It's really sad that a symbol of another man having a "claim" is more respected by creepy dudes than anything else. The woman's obvious refusal should be enough, but it sadly often takes the threat of another man, whether in person or implied by the symbol of the ring. I've advised other parents of teen girls to get them a ring they can use as creep repellent, especially if the young lady is shy or quiet since it wouldn't require her to say anything or make a scene. I also recommend martial arts when kids are growing up. It can help build confidence and the ability to deescalate situations.

[@tacies.8125]

First story - I needed 2 tissues! Crying for both her pain and out of anger towards the shameful behavior from her “friend.” I hope she continues to travel and holds her head high.

[@ZiggaMau]

SAME! Just heartbreaking 😭 and infuriating! When she started crying I LOST IT! Like, give me her number babe, I just want to chat! 🤬

[@Anemicpanda]

​@ZiggaMau right?! Like, I'll be your friend! My heart broke for her. 😢

[@MsMelissaAnn]

She can come here to Taiwan and hang out with me. I would stand up for her.

[@erikarussell1142]

1:42 this is why I would walk closer to her. If it’s a lot for you, it’s a lot for her too. And there’s SAFETY IN NUMBERS. What?!?

[@erikarussell1142]

3:29 oh nooooo and now IM CRYING WITH HER!!!! Oh my whole heart…

[@twiztidclownkiller]

I will make a scene in public about a few things. Seeing something like this, is one of those times.

[@erikarussell1142]

@@twiztidclownkilleroh. The way I would shame those people is unREAL

[@alywitch7189]

I'm confused why people are staring at her to begin with?? I don't see anything different about her. I remember we had some rude people behind us I stepped up real quick for my bestie. Watch your mouth especially inn front of your child sir

[@erikarussell1142]

@ because she was in Japan. Not very many colored folks in Japan. .02% of black people in Japan. They just stand out. It isn’t supposed to be taken personally, but it’s hard not to. ETA: especially in this instance.

[@UzumakiDonnoHinata]

I had to report a guy at work cause he kept running into me from behind and brushing his whole body against me when there was more than enough room to get past without touching me. He does it to all the other girls, too, but I'm the only one who complained formally. He was fired from his last job for the same thing. He's now on a one strike notice. I said I could work the same shifts as him as long as he quit touching me. He stopped, but it made both me and my female boss super pissed that he didn't stop the multiple times I told him to and acted like he was just clumsy and couldn't control it. But when his job was threatened, his clumsiness was magically cured overnight.

[@andreaturner7207]

I had a pal who went through this at a hotel. She kept complaining but everyone made excuses for him. Finally she snapped at him anytime he tried and suddenly the excuses from him and the other staff stopped

[@UzumakiDonnoHinata]

@andreaturner7207 I'm so glad it stopped and some people have the common sense to at least pay attention when snapped at. My guy said "I like it when women are mean to me." Everything made sense. I felt like I was being baited into flipping out or physically retaliating. In a just world, no one would have to put up with this kind of thing.

[@heykate93]

We had one guy like this too. One guy touched my pony tail when my hair was up. And would touch girls shoulders and stuff. And mad some of them really uncomfortable. I had to say hey I'm not a touchy person. And I didn't really have problems with him.

[@lillyf973]

Ain't clumsy anymore, eh Icabod??!!😅

[@cougarjrv9890]

I never cry at stories, but I'm leaking listening to that first lady. I just want to hug her! She's so sweet and doesn't deserve to be treated that way. 😢❤❤

[@jammabeanz9021]

I'm almost 66, and for the most part, I have been surrounded by the most fabulous people I could ask for. I'm half Canadian FN, half Black American. Even in Canada, people aren't as enlightened as we like to think, but it definitely beats the USA. Chin up Destinee, they're not worthy of you, your tribe is closer than you think, and if your heart is true, they will celebrate with you your whole, blessed and happy life. Cuz we got magick like that

[@Princess_Zelda2022]

5:19 I lived in china for two years in high school. I was extremely overweight and was constantly stared at, taken pictures of and offered all sorts of weight loss things unsolicited. It was so bad that I didn’t want to go outside and go to school (it was an international school but I was the biggest person there). One day I finally decided to go to the zoo with my mom and sister because I love animals. My hero of a mom started taking pictures of people who stared at me and took pictures of me, she snapped for their attention too so they could see her reciprocating. (I also have brown skin but not as rich and beautiful as yours) You did not deserve that! You are beautiful and I’m so glad that you had a real friend there too ❤ Sending hugs!

[@Shelby-s2w]

I love that approach of taking pics back

[@Bevrast]

Being overweight or fat is not comparable to being looked at for something like skin color. One can be worked at, and the other one simply is. I know that chinese people will look no matter what, as long as it is different. My sister is blonde and fit. But she was mostly stared at specifically for her blonde hair. Even as a child they would come and ask to touch her hair. So I know they are rude. But you can do something about the weight, but something can't be done about your skin, so not comparable.

[@purplekittycreates]

⁠@@Bevrastthey weren’t comparing their issues, they were just relating to her for feeling like an outcast. Op said they also have brown skin so it could be two reasons why they are staring. Weight and skin tones aren’t the same but you also don’t know if their weight is controllable or not

[@nicolebarley1986]

@@Bevrast Actually it just goes to show how ignorant you are. This is NOT the oppression olympics. It IS the same. The goal of bullying regardless of reasons (race, gender, sexual orientation, appearance, economic status, etc.) is to ISOLATE & HURT the person it's aimed at. PERIOD. ANYONE can be the victim of bullying! "One can be worked at, and the other one simply is" - actually BOTH can if you have the money to get the procedures or you can always wear makeup (plenty of women of color do skin lightening & other various cosmetic methods, and yes there's always lipo & various other types of weight loss surgeries if you can afford it). But if you're poor you're stuck with the body you have and SOME people cannot lose weight no matter what they try, and diet & exercise do nothing because of medical, hereditary or otherwise complicated issues. In asian countries their FAT PHOBIA is so bad that they have shops that are obviously meant to SHAME bigger people (look at just a few of these insanely demeaning clothing store names: Fatty Fatgirl, Fat Boys, Chubby, Moo Moo, Piggy, Fat Cat) and don't even get me started on their obsession with cosmetic surgery... I on the other hand have always been bullied because I'm short and skinny. I've been pushed on the ground and stepped on while they yelled "it's a cockroach ew kill it". I went shopping at a thrift shop and showed up to school in what I thought was a great outfit but was promptly made fun of for "being so poor I had to buy people's old leftovers". They often made fun of me saying "jesus eat a cheeseburger or something" and started rumors that I was anorexic - I wasn't. I was so small they tricked me into betting I couldn't fit in the locker & then locked me in (luckily the janitor heard me crying that night to let me out). A boy asked me out just to find out it was a prank because at lunch he announced in front of the whole damn cafeteria that he couldn't believe I would take him seriously and he would never like an ugly girl like me. When they found out that I had spent 2 weeks in a psych ward because I tried to kill myself they made fun of me for being crazy. When they found out I was in fostercare they made me fun of me saying even my mom didn't like me. When I went to Paris for my senior trip they were so jealous of me (because you had to be a 3rd year french student to get to go but my caseworker wanted to give me one good thing to look forward to) that they kept ditching me (whenever I'd stop to look at something or take a picture, I'd look up and they'd be gone) but luckily I'm very smart & resourceful and was able to find my way to the next location - but I could have been kidnapped and tricked into a dangerous situation since I didn't really know the language or where I was - it was terrifying but thankfully something was looking out for me. So YES it IS THE SAME! The person is left feeling ashamed of themselves, they feel like they're all alone and no one cares. No one should ever have to feel like that.

[@nancyrukavena6992]

​@@BevrastThat sounds like victim blaming to me. How is she supposed to "work at it," if she can't even go for a walk, or to the gym? Nevermind to the stores for food, clothes, shoes, or ANYTHING without being treated like a freak of nature? Not to mention doctor appointments, haircuts, or anything else? Furthermore, we don't know why she was overweight. Is there a medical condition? Psychological trauma? Sometimes genetics play a role in a person's physicality. This woman's experience is very relevant, and similar to the black woman in China!

[@Tennesseegurly]

That broke my heart. Beautiful lady. She deserves better friends.

[@jordtas]

A few summers ago I visited Xiamen, China (and had an amazing time) and I had the same experience as the first woman with the first story. A lot of people openly staring me (I am also Black). I was with my friend who was showing me around her hometown and she would ask people to stop staring at me sometimes when it became uncomfortable or too much. At one point she had a tense exchange (in Chinese) with a server at a restaurant who kept staring at me. I asked my friend what was being said and she said the woman wanted to know where I was from and when she said I was American the woman asked how could that be when Americans are white. She also asked some questions about my hair. My friend said she told her to please not discuss people’s appearances and to let us enjoy the meal. She was ver apologetic but I was really grateful to her for helping me navigate these situations and for showing me such a good time! After hearing the first story I am even more grateful for my amazing friend.

[@tenin982000]

so sadly racism does exist there towards you and i am not sure how much the social credit system also makes people do something there too.

[@lanabanana5626]

the system has nothing to do with the racism in there. Majority of them still think dark skinned is sign of poor and they still use African to describe bad luck in gacha games. I know cause I live in nearby area.

[@n4musica]

Im an American expat who lived in China for 6 years as a black woman and BY FAR the racism against black people is far worse in the US. In China, it’s ignorance, in the US, it’s a centuries old, intentional effort to keep people divided and underserved.

[@PuertoRicanqueen90]

I have noticed that when you say your American.. Ppl assume it's not true if you aren't white... Its super weird

[@tenin982000]

@@lanabanana5626 yes i know racism exists there we saw some of it during covid but people ignored some of it.

[@duffgirl216]

12:18 Charlotte, as you would say - PROTECT YOUR ENERGY!! I'm so glad you don't give haters the time of day! YOU ARE WONDERFUL!! ❤

[@widowgirl1254]

I want to give the girl in the first story a hug! You deserve better friends

[@ashpie22]

The first girl sounds so sweet and reminds me of my friend in the UK. Black women/people get crap from all over the world at times and in that vulnerable moment she needed someone more than ever. Virtual tight hug to her.

[@hannahlow7877]

She was so sweet, I would've loved to be there to advocate for her! Hugs from me going her way too. 💚

[@tenin982000]

not just that but where she was they do use a social credit system as well. So it does use social behavior. what her friend did i wouldn't call her a friend after that trip.

[@Lolieif]

She had such a lovely, sweet voice and demeanor. She deserves so much better from friends

[@annschroeder3472]

I agree, she seems so sweet. I also have been treated the same way & no matter how you try to act like it doesn’t hurt, it does.

[@tattyuk75]

If the first girl was my friend, I would’ve been like a rabid dog straining at the leash combined with a Star Wars-style protective shield to protect her from anybody thinking ill of her. All the while, making her laugh and distracting her and trying to give her a good day. Her tears broke my heart ♥️

[@t-and-p]

Same! Something snaps in me when I see people being cruel for no reason, especially to someone I know and care about. Poor girl, I just wanted to reach through the screen and give her a hug 💕 She definitely needs and deserves better friends... Thank you for being one of life's decent people and standing up for the people who need it 😊

[@glancycorner7425]

Exactly! ♥️♥️♥️

[@giagraham]

1st story: Literally went through the same thing with my friends in Shanghai, some of the very petite friends even became targets for physical aggression (people shoulder checking them and pushing them). So I became mama bear, i was constantly looking out for trouble (you can see intent if you are looking for it) and making sure that no one wandered off or got left behind. Because friends look out for each other

[@fiafia5802]

First story I was crying w her bc I think we’ve ALL felt this way at one point and time. That’s not your friend babes. Drop her and anyone else that makes you cry. You should only feel JOY and RELIEF around “friends”. Know your worth ALWAYS!!

[@rhileynnna]

17:11 lol yet we currently have a president who has zero respect for women and also grabs them unprovoked

[@xandreshephard8764]

Came here to say this. Quite fricken unfortunate.

[@pandorasaidoops]

This. All this.

[@xxshadowslightxx]

I literally came to the comments to say the same thing 😅

[@user-db9nc1im8c]

and found by the Jury to be liable for sexual abuse

[@katesachen]

Current US pres literally said he grabs women by the 🐱

[@916TheBear]

To the first girl... you are an absolutely beautiful person and you deserve so much better than that. You are loved!!

[@lauriedengel7988]

When I was a teen, my friends and I would say "Take a picture, it lasts longer!" When we caught anyone staring. You've never seen heads turn away so quickly 😁

[@Sar-ahG]

That definitely works until the creepy person on the bench actually takes a picture 😅

[@keladry12]

The problem is that some places....they will!

[@marcorotondi2564]

First story is my whole life. How friends can treat you like garbage and when they are treated like garbage they end up blaming you for not sticking up for them

[@onecatshortofcrazy12]

Those aren’t your friends my dear. I’m sorry you have had to deal with that.

[@marcorotondi2564]

@onecatshortofcrazy12 i totally agree and I eventually learned that. Haven't spoken to them in 10 years

[@blackwidor]

Big hugs xx

[@onecatshortofcrazy12]

@@marcorotondi2564 good. You are better than that and they are not worthy of you.

[@thirtysomethingsewist]

2:45 “If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor” (She wasn’t even neutral though!)

[@haydendegrow945]

The first story gave me massive memory lane trips. When I was being bullies as a kid, a LOT of kids that I thought I could call friends left me to preserve their reps at school (most of the bullies were the popular kids, so you, be there or be square kinda thing). This left me with pretty much nobody to be with for years at school. It taught me, though, to be very cautious with making new friends that will be close to me, and to value those friendships more than anything when I do make them. Loyalty and trustworthiness go hand-in-hand, and I never ave stopped being so to the friends I later made

[@MessyRedStudios]

OMG the first story has me in tears. I want to hug her.

[@Alexisk273]

I'm a shy person with a lot of social anxiety. The moment someone that I care about is having a negative experience bc of other people, like absolute strangers in public, all that goes out the window. It's not about me anymore. It's easy to forget yourself when it's someone you love

[@ToriBeyondTheClock]

I'm the same way. I'm very shy and it's hard to stick up for myself, but I'm quick to stick up for others.

[@angiegoebel4837]

I'm the same way, but with a little anarchy. If people are staring and making your friend uncomfortable, then you do something to make the starers uncomfortable, like hold hands, link arms with or even kiss your friend. My friends and I would do things like that back in high school, cause we had odd group styles that people always stared at (think hippies, preppies, druggies and goths all together)

[@carynllee]

So this happened to a friend of mine while we were at a concert. For context, we are both happily taken, and my SO was there with us, sitting on one side of me while she was on my other side. I am INCREDIBLY bold and confrontational. She is not. This guy would NOT STOP touching her hair, brushing her arm, attempting to flirt, and after her face literally dropped from the frustration after telling him politely to leave her alone and him persisting, I turned around and bucked up asked LOUDLY “DID YOU JUST PUT YOUR HANDS ON MY GIRLFRIEND??!” The public embarrassment was enough to make him change seats. Bye! 👋🏽

[@marshawargo7238]

Yah, I don't think Charlotte's showing her ring to him caused him to back down. (his wife at home wearing his ring isn't stopping him) It was the fact that she verbally & loudly apposed his actions that got him to back off! He didn't want word to spread about what he was up to! He was working with his sneak & surprise method 😢!!!

[@paulab984]

I like it when Charlotte reads the stories more than when we ask watch tiktocs together. Charlotte's the best at getting the story across whereas so many Tiktokers don't story-tell well at all.

[@seligurl_528]

Omg, the first story is so relatable. As our girl Charlotte says “The true pain is friends hurting you.” Be proud and find better friends babes, yaaaas 🎉

[@katsuyafeather1309]

A friend betrayal is so difficult. I feel like it stings for years. I'm so sorry for that first girl.

[@mplwy]

Wow, that first one made me shed tears. Broke my heart to hear her heart breaking while she was crying and talking about the person she thought was her best friend. 💔❤️

[@dinasilva9263]

Even after all these years Charlotte is still humble, kind, funny, sweet and ALWAYS true to herself. She's just so adorable. Thank you Charlotte for being an amazing person❤

[@kristinshirley6249]

Yes!!!!!! I fell in LOVE with Charlotte and her personality when I found her on IO. She was the only reason I watched that show. She has made my life so much better and I love her for that!!! ❤❤❤

[@dinasilva9263]

@kristinshirley6249 same with me ♥️

[@Super_Time_XxX]

The only reason I was subscribed to IO was because of Charlotte! I jumped ship with her and I'm so proud of her and how far she's come!

[@dinasilva9263]

@@Super_Time_XxX exactly, me too. I'm so proud of her. She's just gettin' better and better.

[@Jaysteel9940]

Charlotte has absolutely no reason to be jealous!!! She’s gorgeous, talented, intelligent, has her wits about her. She’s the Potato Queen! We are not worthy!!!

[@Sweetypiesugarlove]

Th face Charlotte put instantly when the girl said “Put a finger down!” - 😂😂😂😂😂

[@susanrogers917]

The first one made me tear up, I am so sorry you went through that but that is not a friend ❤😊

[@rachelmaddowswife8713]

Same, that's so terrible, but so relatable. I feel like we all have a story like that from middle school. The fact that this was happening with adults is wild.

[@lifewithdougthecat]

Same I just wanted to give her a hug I could never let my friend go through something like that alone

[@bellerain381]

Charlotte telling her story and giving that creep the riot act is PEAK QUEEN ENERGY!! Love that she showed him THE RING!!!!💍 Mike’s a very lucky man!

[@arbonneladyTN]

Exactly!

[@arbonneladyTN]

Charlotte is so true on the ugly people! I’m glad she has stepped away from the comments section, and I hate to see nasty comments!

[@smb611]

I have a friend who shared an apartment with her husband and my boyfriend right after high school. (These are 2 separate men, by the way.) I was asleep in my boyfriend's bed, and her brother came into the bedroom and kissed me on my sleep! I was afraid to tell my friend, but when I did, she immediately told him off!! I'm so glad she stood up for me! In recent years, we talked about that, and I found out she has since shut him out altogether! Not just about that, but that didn't help their relationship. Love you, Charlotte! ❤❤❤

[@evelynperrigin3343]

Blessed be to the lady in the first video, that was a frenemy not a friend. A real friend would stand up for you and walk by your side through thick and thin like charlotte said!

[@zoechater7326]

Charlotte, thank you for doing what you do. People, kids especially, can be so so cruel about difference. You have clearly experienced this and are so vocal about healthy boundaries and what to expect from a healthy friendship. Teens really need to hear this so thank you. As an autistic person I've spent most of my young life being tret like a freak of nature for being different, and now I am a teacher and a mom and I get to advocate for people like me and teach young women to hold healthy boundaries. Love your vids. I am now guilty of walking around saying "ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!" if I am displeased lol

[@BunnyQueen97]

I’m SO GLAD the first woman had real friends in the end ❤❤❤ sometimes you NEED someone who loves you to make it obvious that you don’t deserve anything less!

[@tamiguin1035]

Being an older woman (62), my parents divorced when I was 12. This was the 70s and any divorce had a terrible stigma. We were thought of as trash. I was in 6th grade and for several months my 2 best friends would not even speak to me, their parents told them not to have anything to do with me. I was 11 during the custody battle. It still hurts 50 years later to be ignored by my friends. The school was small, but only 2 kids had parents going through a divorce. We, me and the other kid were basically shunned from the whole school.

[@kateq7212]

This is so true. I didn't realise that my grandmother was divorced in the 1930s. It was a family secret because of the "disgrace". I found out when I was in my 30s. My grandmother and mother had to move and set up a new home on the other side of the country!

[@agnes15101968]

My granny was born in 1916 and when she was a kid, her parents forbade her to play in a certain street of the neighbourhood, because "a divorced woman" was living in that street. She was allowed to play anywhere else in the neighborhood, but not in THAT street. Divorce was treated as something devilish.

[@dustyking8851]

We're about the same age & I remember the stigma of divorce. I don't know why it was never a big deal with us when we went to Catholic school no less. We didn't think it was a bad thing or a thing anyone should be punished for. Never made any sense to me.

[@Sar-ahG]

That sucks those sound like terrible friends - I wish it wasn’t weird to have married parents now (I mean, mine aren’t either and I was only 3) - having 50 plus percent of divorce now - maybe it should be looked down on again but not to trickle down to the children?? A happy medium would be nice

[@2304sarah1]

This breaks my heart.

[@aliciaedwards7503]

3:47 omg i just want to hug this girl 🫂 so sorry this happened to her 😢 she deserves soooo much better!!! I hope she’s doing good now 🫶🏽

[@BostonBarbie]

The way I would have crashed out for my friend and cause the biggest scene making a fool of myself is actually something I’m very proud of. Just bark at everyone who stares at you. ❤

[@cw7147]

12:07 THIS is why people often feel HAPPIER when they get off social media!!! I still have my Facebook page and I'll still mindlessly scroll for a few minutes here and there but if I'm doing it too much, I'll inevitably start feeling that quiet anger and/or anxiousness that comes along with it.

[@meganpettway2310]

Home girl in the fist clip: you can be my bestie!!! Much love ❤❤ girl oh hell no!

[@erikarussell1142]

Ikr?! I would’ve put my arm around her, fixed that chin up high and we would’ve just gone and had fun. Give em something to stare at then. Us, unabashedly having fun regardless of their thoughts.

[@FicentMagni]

Is it that rare to see a beautiful black woman in china? I seriously had to rewind the video to figure out if i missed something Girl you come to Denmark, I'll be honored to walk around with you, maybe your beauty will shine on to me ❤

[@jenniferziegenfuss3719]

Trying to say this gently....but countries/towns obsessed with being homogeneous and general homogeny...will be incredibly racist and bigoted toward anything that is different from said homogeneous This is why the best cure for racism is to get outside of whatever bubble you were raised in and interact with others from different walks of life.

[@curleyqreviews9793]

Yes. China is very racist unfortunately. When I worked for VIP Kids, we had emails going out saying they will support the teachers who have been victims of racial verbal attacks. They recorded everything and some parents would refuse to pay, claiming that the teacher was ignorant because they were (insert race).

[@cherylanne6549]

I also lived in China but I'm white. When I lived there you just never saw a black person. The one time I did see a black man in our small town, the police were following right behind him. I am also very overweight and my friend in China was very tall and very overweight. Everywhere we went we had to put up with men mocking us. But my friend would point to her crotch, hold up her little finger and then point to the men and they obviously got the idea that she was mocking them back. Worked like a charm.

[@jwi1085]

As a slightly overweight (at the time) white guy in china, kids would come and pinch us to see if we were real and take photos. This was 20 years ago.

[@FicentMagni]

@@jwi1085 that's insane.. it's not like they're seeing a human with two heads or something.. bad manners

[@Kitty_Lola86]

For the last girl who wanted advice: Tell her how much you appreciate her being "real" with you the other night, and say you want to return the favor. Then show her the messages while giving her back the same speech she gave you about looking "desperate and embarrassing"

[@HAppytobeHer]

I have lived in China for more than 6 years now as a foreigner, it does get easier and there’s nothing more shocking than the first month. First girl- you are so beautiful! She doesn’t deserve your friendship. Contact me if you’re still in China ❤

[@maddydavidsdottir9862]

When I was born I was born in Norway, we moved to the UK when I was 2 weeks old and then back to Norway when I was 14 months old after my brother was born until I was about 7 when we stayed in the UK for a few years, I didn't speak ANY English as my family spoke Norwegian, German, Russian predominantly and I was home schooled until we got to the UK, I was bullied MERCILESSLY by my peers not only for not being English but also because I was a VERY early developer if you get me and i was partially deaf from a very young age due to a surgical complication. Im also adhd and autistic and we disnt know this when i was in school so i was the very nerdy, very quiet, weird goth girl who would rather ait and read than socialise and there was a girl in my class all through to high school called lucy, lucy had a learning disability and was developmentaly disabled because when she was born she was starved of oxygen due to complications but my gosh! Lucy was my angel! I LOVED lucy, she was the only person who didn't judge me, didn't bully me and her and my dad helped me learn English, lucy was amazing and every single time anyone stared or made whispers behind my back lucy would look them dead in the eye and call them out and spill all their dirty secrets 😂😂 lucy used to say that she didn't care because people would always stare and no one on this earth will ever be 100% happy and will always find flaws with others because every human is flawed. Lucy was my only friend for over 9 years until she passed when we were teens, she saved me during all that bullying, so many times I wanted to quit life but she helped me. I miss her, I haven't had a friend since (thanks autism lol) but knowing that I had lucy in my life meant the world.

[@meili2618]

That first story made me really sad for that young lady. Sometimes traveling while Black is challenging. I remember being left behind in a store by my fellow group of students during a study abroad. It was that moment I realized I could not rely on that group for “safety in numbers”, so I made friends with girls from another school, hung out with them, and got comfortable traveling by myself when necessary.

[@teresahuntoon3535]

That first story broke my heart. I just want to give her a hug and be friends with her.

[@dianenamciu638]

I moved from New Jersey to Ohio in my junior year of high school due to my father’s job. At first, everyone was curious about me then I became invisible. I spent 2 years of the loneliest time of my life. I am 64 years old and it still bothers me to this day. I’m a nice person, but that doesn’t matter. I have never gone to a reunion nor do I ever see any of the people in my class

[@Kris30-o2g]

That girl around the 3:30 mark. When she started to like cry im legit like oh baby no dont do that😢your gonna make me cry 😭😂😭😭

[@LisaRotante]

I watch and rewatch your vids while im at work and my employer asked me "why does she always scream?"😭😭😭😭😭 he's referring to your oh my god scream when you're shocked

[@maryanderson2507]

That first story had me in tears when she started to cry. I can't imagine not standing up for my friend.

[@Good.Morning.Petty.Potatoes]

Good Morning Petty Potatoes! ❤

[@queenbee137]

Good morning bestie!❤ Happy Sunday, hope you have a great week!

[@Bass_Robin8]

Good morning! 🥔❤️

[@Good.Morning.Petty.Potatoes]

​@@queenbee137 Good Morning Petty 👑🐝 and to your Petty 🤴

[@CrickBritt]

Morning!! 🥔🥔🥔💅

[@Flower3-op4cn]

Good morning!!

[@ujung8564]

The second story, the audacity of the "friend" to ask the person she's been so horrible to "why you blocked me, did I do something wrong?"....What a snake!!

[@mandachris7146]

She clearly didn’t know how instagram worked. If she did she’s an even bigger snake. Ugh mean girls

[@agnes15101968]

Do not go on insulting snakes by comparing them to such humans please...

[@PhiPhiB]

that last girl, she should show the snake the texts and look at her while asking "you think you're pretty? I know im pretty" hahah. She would DIE.

[@booknerd9850]

True Story 2 24:38 When I went to college (here in the UK) for my Art & Design Level 3 BTEC qualifications, I made a "friend" she seemed sweet and kind at least for most of the time, but I saw her true colours when we went to a mutual friend's birthday celebrations at a nice restaurant and then drinks in a decent club. For some context I rarely wear makeup or dresses, my hair is either up in a messy bun or in plaits most of the time. I can't be bothered with makeup or styling my hair everyday and prefer to wear comfy clothes. So for the celebrations I decided to wear a bit of makeup (mascara, little bit of nude eyeshadow and lip gloss) and wear a nice blush pink with white flowers knee length dress. She pulled me into the bathroom at the restaurant 3 times, each time after one of the guys complimented my looks, she made comments like "He's only saying that to be nice." Or "You look a little bit desperate." which hurt each time she said it. She would say the same things when we went to the club, the breaking point was after one of the guys who was talking to me about the course as he was doing the level below me, she dragged me into the restrooms and said "You look like a dog in heat with the attention he's giving you. Stop clinging to him, he's not interested in anything you have to say, just go home before you embarrass yourself even more." I ended up crying quietly, which she snickered at before she went to join the others. I ended up leaving with a quick goodbye, only as I was outside I got a message from the guy (we had exchanged numbers earlier on) asking why I told my "friend" that he should hook up with her. I explained to him that I didn't say that, then I told him about everything she had said to me. He got livid, came to the door to take me home and said that he has a bf, that she was no friend and was just using me (I have Autism, so I struggle to pick up on some certain cues and make real friends.) which made me realise that she had used me to get 'look at me, I care about everybody' attention. I learnt that he was a true friend unlike her, who now only has little minions as her friends. Sometimes it takes seeing how people act in certain situations to know who is there for you and who is just using you.

[@EnchantedEther]

😢 3:13 aww don't cry! They don't deserve a good friend like you girl!

[@SherriLyle80s]

Right?! I want to be her friend 😭. She seems so sweet. Poor thing.

[@rachelhatchet]

First story, the tears i could hear her holding back broke my heart! Baby girl you need new friends! Ill be your friend love, ill have your back!❤

[@clumsystitcher]

The first story is heart breaking I just want to give her the biggest hug ever

[@naffiekinz]

The look at the camera when she said “Put a finger down” lmfaoooo. Charlotte just spoke for all of us without uttering a single word.

[@Nemowei]

When you visit a very monoethnic country and you do not belong to that ethnicity, be prepared that people are going to stare, take photos, and possibly touch you, especially if you wander outside of "international" neighborhoods. My best friend and I spent our teen years in a very monoethnic country in which neither of us belonged to the ethnicity. We always had each other's back. I couldn't imagine not.

[@jaybee2337]

Allegations of inappropriate behavior against a guy could keep him from becoming President? If only.

[@twistedfrannie9311]

Doesn't stop them from get òn the Supreme Court either

[@Whatsername4224]

Why did I have to scroll down so far to find this comment? Apparently being a creepy grabber not only gets you the presidency but a crazy cult.

[@elenawilliams32]

Watching from outside the US.... He was convicted, so a wee bit more than allegations for the poorly educated orange man. I think I speak for many outside of the US, we can't believe the majority of people voted him in the first time.... Let alone a second! The us education system obviously needs vast improvement, not dismantling. The general public needs to understand what they're actually voting for.

[@heathersmith8549]

For real. Looks like SA perpetrator is the current prerequisites.

[@Jenniferlynn6504]

Right? That's what I was thinking. Apparently you can do that and be a convicted fellon and still be president

[@late_gamer13]

3:08 She is NOT your friend! Best friends are supposed to support, protect, and be PROUD to have you in their life! I'll be your best friend! You're so beautiful and kind, and I love your accent 🥺🩷 She's for the streets. Throw the whole friend away! 😤

[@thegamerwitch]

0:11 Charlotte's "middle finger up" look 😂

[@lilnugget5961]

Omg yes 🤣🤣🤣

[@LeonorAranton]

Literally 😂😂😂😂

[@amandamariemedia]

I paused cause it was so funny lmao

[@caljones]

And it was one of the few times it would not be directed at the poster

[@dinasilva9263]

It was so funny😂

[@fabamb9801]

U show her the texts n say u look desperate n it's embarrassing ❤😂lol...shots fired😂

[@icarusfluffybottom899]

@2:19: The editing on this channel is really top notch these days. Truly. Art.

[@suebee0619]

With the second girl, I’d totally invite the friend for coffee and have a convo like “oh! I found out why you got blocked on my instagram!” and then cheerily explain how blocking works on IG.

[@chilins8083]

The first story just gave me serious whiplash because I went through exactly what she did. I thought I was over it but the way she told the story just unfolded painful memories in me. I also was in China as a foreigner but for me I was half a year there. I am not ethnically East Asian so I stood out as a sore thumb. All the staring, talking about me while I am in earshot ( people kept saying American about me, while I am in fact not American), all the illicit pictures taken and asking if I could pose in selfies with them just cumulated over time and grinded at my psyche. I was so tired after a few months, doing a quick grocery run felt like a chore, I didn’t want to leave my room. When I was outside I felt the need to wear make-up to conceal the tremendous amount of acne I developed there because 1. I knew people would take pictures of me and 2. I knew I represented white people in their eyes. If I misbehave in public I would be responsible for so many people thinking caucasians are rude, disorderly, ugly, etc. I still haven’t processed the whole experience so I totally get the feeling that the first girl is feeling. Hugs to you and you are so beautiful. We are not responsible for the curiousity of other people

[@boudicca272]

I would live to see Charlotte investigating a creep at a Halloween party dressed as Cruella DeVille... epic. 😂

[@jessicaaudette5216]

The first one broke my heart so much... Im so sorry for what you went through sweet girl! I just want to give you a BIG hug, I send you loads of love

[@alexisdouglas4832]

5:35 I just about cried 😩 that poor girl

[@ConnorMiller417]

The first story hits close to home for me. I can relate to what she went through. I have a disability myself that makes it hard to communicate as well as anxiety challenges. Even to this day at 26, I can’t tell you how many times in my life I’ve had people stare at me because of my mannerisms that I can’t control. It’s very difficult and I feel for anyone who’s had to go through mistreatment. I remember friends walking out on me because they didn’t wanna be seen with me because everyone else didn’t understand me. As hard as it is, I’ve learned to adapt and live with it. You just can’t let people bring you down. I hope this helps. ❤

[@lilith9875]

Im sick as a dog and all i wanted was some comfort from the potato queen 😂 thank you, i can now be achy and fevery in happiness.

[@Good.Morning.Petty.Potatoes]

Hope you feel better soon!

[@lilith9875]

​@@Good.Morning.Petty.Potatoesaww thank you so much ❤❤ that was so sweet

[@malcolmgray.5913]

Get well🙏

[@FicentMagni]

@@lilith9875 hope you get better soon, remember that chocolate is important for the rehabilitation 😉

[@dinasilva9263]

I hope you feel better soon❤

[@jamiem9179]

It wouldn't stop him if he ran in the US! Love the call out Charlotte!

[@Farah101]

I was looking for this comment. The whole world can see that America is ok with a convicted criminal and sexual predator as President. That’s wild. The first lady, Destinee, is such a sweetheart. I had to hold back tears and then anger listening to that.

[@rintintin7292]

😂😆😀😐😟😖😭 it’s funny but a sad truth.

[@jamiem9179]

@Farah101 some Americans seem to be but not all of us. Many of us are just as appalled as the rest of the world...if not a little more because we are the ones going through it. Keep boycotting US goods. And keep the people living here in your thoughts and prayers 🙏

[@jamiem9179]

@rintintin7292 it's awful 😭

[@Karmatic_303]

​@Farah101 Fr, bro has like 20 lawsuits relating to sxual charges.

[@ashleyrobertshaw394]

The first girl , you deserve better friends no one should ever treat anyone that way 🥺 a friend will stand by you and have your back and you’re beautiful soul ❤

[@katemarr1984]

Charlotte the look on your face @ approximately the :59 mark says it all. My heart goes out to the beautiful lady. She deserves so much more.

[@robynsriot]

The first story makes my heart ache that poor girl

[@yarjona9981]

My therapist suggested I’d go on a friend date to rebuild my confidence, get all dolled up and leave the house after I lost two family members in a month and 27 days and later being dumped by “the love of my life”. Her answer: “No, nobody will pay attention to me.” We’re not friends anymore. Thank God.

[@askthefrog]

First, I'm so sorry for your loss! And secondly, what the actual heck?? She said that?? My immediate reaction was just: "ew", because that was absolutely disgusting! Sending good vibes and hope you're doing ok ❤

[@lj9608]

The trash took herself out. Wow, what a jerk your friend was.

[@Matilda-y]

So sorry for your loss. It’s in those hard times you find out who your real friends are, and it’s always a surprise.

[@renatafisher5767]

I literally NEED a friend date rn I've been craving friends to go out with, I'm so sorry the jerk of a person said that! 😞

[@Ciela531]

That *side eye* from Charlotte to us/ the camera as soon as the first person says “put a finger down” 😂😂 0:11 I’m here for it and am 100% in agreement with Charlotte 😂

[@yvettejones5323]

The poor woman in the first clip...my heart goes out to her. I can't ever imagine not being there 100% for my friend if she felt uncomfortable in any way in any place we were. What horrible people (because they're not her friends). I wish I could have reached through the video and hugged her.

[@blaszizzz]

God I just wanna hug that lady in the 1st clip. Empathy to another human being has no colour. What is wrong with some people?

[@noreenelizabeth6617]

If my friend was being treated that way I'd ask if they needed to lock arms or hold my hand because I would just want to show them I support them. I'd talk trash about and to, anyone treating her badly. I did something similar in 6th grade and learned from it.. I felt so bad for how I treated my friend, and thankfully, she forgave me. I'm so blessed that she welcomed me back with open arms. We are still friends to this day.

[@christinamann3640]

18:56 the fact that you were dressed as Cruella DeVille makes this story SO much better!

[@Weeeewriter]

I'm in British Columbia and I tell you Charlotte, you can get bad comments on community sites too. Recently, I put up a post in our local Crime Community page, about a guy who didn't stop, but drove right in front of me when it was my turn to walk. The walk sign was on and I was just about to take a step, but a guy in a white truck didn't even stop, didn't care that I was there. If I hadn't been paying attention, I would have been hit. If it would have been a person who had a baby stroller or a person with a walker, they would have been hit. I posted in there reprimanding that guy, I wasn't looking for pity, I just wrote on there to call him out to remind people to be careful and watch where they're going. Many people responded that they went through that, but there was also many people writing comments blaming me that I should watch before I walk, that it's not the driver's job to be careful, basically blaming me. If I wasn't careful and paying attention, I WOULD HAVE been hit. I ended up taking the post down. I was surprised at the backlash I was getting for calling that guy out. So I know what you mean Charlotte, there will always be people commenting negativity, even if it doesn't call for it.

[@christinamann3640]

It’s literally the driver’s job to obey the traffic laws, and what part of RED LIGHT did Mr truck nuts not understand? I feel like posting on that community site now, and let some idiots have it 😠

[@MistyJohnsson]

I want to give this woman a huge hug for having to deal with absolute garbage treatment! She deserves all that glitters. You can see the she’s a beautiful inside and out because of her raw, sweet emotions. I wan’t to be her bestie!🫶🏻🫶🏻

[@TRNcBrwn357]

Bless your heart, first girl. So glad you shared that, to show there's still decent people still out in the world.