FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS?

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Join Sadia Khan on Impact Theory as she discusses the challenges of modern relationships, the importance of self-reflection, and maintaining genuine connections. Learn why staying true to your values matters, how to avoid toxic dynamics, and the significance of rewarding the right partners. Gain insights into overcoming societal pressures and building a fulfilling love life in today's world
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[@KennyNeilson]

You are exactly right about men who try to be good . Being good will not attract women without proper communication skills. Most good men don't have these skills because they live moral lives and this causes them to not meet enough women so it limits communication with women thus hurting their communication skills.we seem awkward at a first impression and the woman rejects us .then we expect rejection.then we become reclusive.then we turn to our vices. You're right on.

[@catilina9251]

In my twenties I realized that one of the most important things you need to do in life is know yourself, everything else hinges on that. Nice to hear I was on the right track early on; some people apparently missed that class... Also "It's about the ability to turn down sx" : this is typically from a woman's perspective : women get the offers, men need to work for them. Hence why body count is valued differently across the sexes.

[@LebohangMmihi]

Sadia always drops knowledge for men. I love her for that, but man I cannot help but infatuate everytime I see one of her videos. She's so beautiful.😊❤

[@tonitv9991]

it’s not her original face, she cut it up and has no wrinkles from botox.

[@PurifiedWord]

Proverbs 11:22 (KJV) As a jewel of gold in a swine's snout, so is a fair woman which is without discretion.

[@elvinrichard5882]

If being a good guy worked to get and keep women every man would be a good guy.

[@Elleon09]

word....you're speaking bars my bro

[@ONETimothy2.12-14]

What's rarely touched on when women lead the convo is that love simply does not mean the same thing to men and women. Women have been forced to stick to their families for all of human history. They can't handle the freedom to choose. The minute they got that freedom they left for any reason with the distinct ability of convincing themselves they're the victim. No matter how easily they quit or how superficial their reasons. Men on the other hand, have always been in the position of authority over their marriage and household (until recently). So we've learned to love our wives having the privilege to be horrible if we wanted.

[@facelessandnameless]

This. It’s 100% true! Haha

[@Shayster-_-]

exactly, i think we all start out good.. and gotta teach ourselves how to be bad😂.. Its being bad with control.. Thats the key

[@janstiller803]

If we only could go back in time... since there are more narc/ toxic men & women out there nowadays: maybe some 100, 1000, 10.000 yrs ago life was just better, and women were kinder to men, and vice versa?

[@vpoppv]

Agree to disagree. I have a body count of 5, and have turned down a few. I don't think it's out of line to expect someone with a similar body count.

[@Blackmass92860]

It is Body counts counts

[@carrino15]

You could identify why you choosed as you did all day long, but if you have experienced violence against you, being gaslighted, lost your kid due to manipulation and fabrication of lies and on top of it all got emotional and financially abused, then you are allowed to perceive yourself as a victim. Dont be angry on yourself because you became a victim of someones egocentric behaviour and being blamed by psychologist like Sadia to " behave like the narc", you dont, you have to accept that you became a victim to move forward and acknowledge the injust that has happened. But remember, the best revenge would be to manage to carve out a good life for yourse

[@megavega9606]

That diabolical laugh when discussing woman have more options and therefore higher rejection rates tells me everything I need to know

[@mrraamsridhar]

Totally

[@tonitv9991]

the woman with plastic surgery is wrong. She embarrasses us as women.

[@scottspiwak9073]

I like Sadia but the title of the video is, "Friends with Benefits?". .... Did I miss that part???

[@Marcelube]

It's interesting how so many women say "why do we do that, then?" só often and ar the same time... claim they are so sensitive and understanding. Jesus. It's hard, it's hard. High maintenance. I really don't want to give up on women but they are very persuasive in a bad way. I mean, on every media they talk and they talk and they talk, and they feel and they feel and they feel. And it never ends or changes an inch. Pointless circular debates and discussions. It's hard. And the thing is the most honest ones say that's all it is really. It's hard. It's tiring. It's exhausting. It's... childish. When will we be able to have a partner and feel a bit peaceful?

[@johngalvin3124]

Life is hard. But we don't give up on it. Good luck.

[@catilina9251]

Most women run on emotions. Emotions only want 2 things : to be expressed and to be validated. So you end up in endless circular "statements" that jump from one topic to the next, with no real conclusion. In the end it was just a let's-all-express-how-we-feel group chat. The difference between most male and female discussions is often appalling, 2 complete opposite realities. It is also the reason why most women try to coddle everyone else's feelings all the time, while most men know that that is a recipe for inaction. Even the word "respect" has different meaning to the sexes : respect me as a man means respect my role as your protector and provider, while respect me as a woman means acknowledge and validate my feelings. 2 different worlds...

[@erictoombs4842]

Let's not be disengenuous here. Men don't ask women about their process of choices anymore than women ask in detail how he got his money up. There is no attractiveness symmetry between men and women. We don't find the same things attractive. Women might like a man with experience in bed, but men don't like the same thing. Stop trying to shame men for what they want and absolving women of their bad choices.

[@Mike-sj3qh]

How about let’s talk about all the narcissistic women out there as I personally can attest to the fact they exist as I ended up being married to one and of course it was my fault I missed all the red flags until 2 years in cause that’s when she flipped the switch. Guys aren’t always the bad apples out there since there are tons of women who want that perfect man body and has millions of $$$$$. Well I don’t have millions but do even at the age of 55 still have the body builder build and let’s just say that doesn’t matter and it certainly doesn’t matter how nice of a guy you are cause that gets used against you gentlemen. I am convinced it’s better at this point to stay single less headaches for sure.

[@user-xn7uu9jt9q]

Totally Agree.....

[@Shayster-_-]

Im 22 and I already agree wit u.. Lmao women especially younger ones in this age just want a fun time.. Unfortunately im not playing games with women rn.. Im working to max out my stats and love myself fully.. My spiritual health is too important to be chasing pussy rn..

[@connorissa961]

Lisa, you look great 😜 I always love listening to you. What a treat, this conversation was. Thank you both

[@indyd9322]

I disagree with her on some points. The vast majority of women would never cheat on a good husband, regardless if they had some muscley personal trainer hitting on them. Also, women don't create narcissistic men. There are real people with Narcissistic Personality Disorder who are capable of truly horrible abuse. Maybe the term narcissistic gets thrown around too much, but that doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

[@linseyk5728]

I think you missed the point...

[@ddnick]

Lol

[@ONETimothy2.12-14]

This entire comment of yours was only to take responsibility away from women where they are in fact feeding into the problem. Also stating that a "vast majority" of women wouldn't cheat was complete bs. Cheating emotionally and then getting divorced is also cheating.

[@btwthblood]

YES! I LOVE THIS!!!

[@lipinglin1994]

Only thing I don't agree with is that women need to choose very carefully about the men they slept and spend time with. It is not about the numbers. It is about if she is able to grow and become a quality women. The body count just shows her bad choice. If she made the right choice, her body count should be 0-1.

[@Elisabeta.Marina]

Man, just cause she wasn t dumped doesn t mean she s a good woman, maybe she s cheap to keep.

[@RB.4125]

I wouldn't call a good selection process if you keep choosing the same qualities in a person that will lead you to increasing body count.

[@Duke_Desmo_888]

Contradictions

[@samjon6403]

Her body count is three or four. That automatically makes her less desirable for long term relationship with a top shelf man.

[@user-xn7uu9jt9q]

Watch the entire Interview, and actually ponder the information, BEFORE replying with your "Valued" Opinions......🤔😉😉😉

[@thetruther954]

Sadia. I’m picking up a little interest on your part, could just be me. But if I have intrigued you, I do like the help and the friendship and I hope you’re with or are finding, a good guy your own age. Enjoying this right here with you now, for the moment.

[@ONETimothy2.12-14]

You from Broward bro? This comment is wild lol

[@thetruther954]

@@ONETimothy2.12-14 well, thank you thouartenmity. Good lesson. Remind me where we are? Before I get too drawn in completely, look at what you've done. I want you to feel it. You are doing harm.

[@przemyslawgawel8501]

Sadia still not married ? 🤭

[@TheSunshinefee]

not true at all. the good man also has high standards. they want beautiful women. if you are not beautiful as a woman you are overlooked.

[@nightguy5967]

Beauty for a man can start at like a 5/6. You know what can help in moving that number up... Going to the gym

[@larrywalker4900]

The point of this is what to say men and women are equal in body counts. I do disagree with that conclusion. Men and women are different and how we look at each other is also different. Its really is about what makes the other person attractive to the opposite sex. Men do not want to know the body counts are high and will preference the woman they are attracted to to have a low body count if not 0 bodies. Women do care about body count but they will not break the relationship even if its high. and thats because if other women want that guy he is high status enough or has enough value to that woman to be the top option for her. now is this the end all be all rule NO. But this is the highest probability of happening there is.

[@gatsinzijohn2620]

I think Sadia is beautiful 😅

[@sunrayrosin7181]

This podcast proves to me that woman want chads and husbands/fathers and solid men are not wanted. So men need to basically be rock stars or playboy studs. But don’t waste you time with a LTR because if you do, sooner or later she will cheat. And she will call a man a narcissistic abuser when it’s all about her and how happy she is. Got it.

[@HappyBabyPenguin-jo5je]

What difference does it make? ♠️♠️♠️♠️🚨🚨🚨🚔🚓👮‍♂️

[@vincewill11]

This lady is very confused, men and women are like cats and dogs, pets but not the same.

[@coolwater1573]

You ruin us good men.

[@TheFriendlyPsychopath.]

I’d never pullout of Sadia.

[@angstvision7108]

😂😂😂

[@angstvision7108]

Slime-her and the real Ghostbusters

[@TheFriendlyPsychopath.]

@@angstvision7108 I will simultaneously let us scream like Michael Jackson upon the bust.

[@PurifiedWord]

If she agree with me on anything that take away her power. 😅 So my girl she don't agree with me on nothing 😅😅

[@Ravi50237]

No virginity is super important

[@Elisabeta.Marina]

Why and what for?

[@Shayster-_-]

@@Elisabeta.MarinaIt is love.. How many D’s you ride indicates how much of your eggs, fertility, and value you have… No man with self respect for himself wants leftovers.. If your body count is high and you have no man.. Thats why.. Because you are a piece of meat.. You must live with that and move on..

[@Shayster-_-]

or used hymens.. disgusting