From Pregnancy to Miscarriage, Dealing with Grief.

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@maplesushi 5 жыл бұрын

You are such a strong woman to share this experience and it’s great to make it a conversation because some women feel ashamed for something that DOES happen. Hugs and love 💕

@TheHayashiLifeJapan 5 жыл бұрын

Yes, the shame is real!!! OMG

@janeadlington6581 5 жыл бұрын

So sorry Sarah. Be kind to yourself and allow yourself time to heal. Sending you love from Australia. xxx

@Rose_from_UK 5 жыл бұрын

A lot of women don’t talk about this, I suddenly had so many women telling me they had had one too. What a shock to hear those words “spontaneous abortion” poor you. I was devastated with my miscarriage, I never thought I’d get pregnant again, sixth months later I was pregnant with twins who are now 16. I wish I could come sit with you, and listen and hug you. It sadly wasn’t meant to be for this little one, god needed another little angel and that’s what I have to believe. Do not blame yourself or look for a reason why this happened, I drove myself mad with that and the overwhelming guilt I felt. Everyone goes through this differently, so I don’t know if I can give you any comfort, but this is not the end, and my Dr told me that most miscarriages were not viable pregnancies, and that something just went a bit wrong. Conception is an astonishing miracle, when you really think about it for all the things that have to happen for that one tiny little piece of your husband and tiny piece of you to meet and creat a baby is mind blowing. But it DOES happen all the time, and there should be no reason why it won’t again. On a different note, I hear Mary has found a lovely new growl sound. You hug that lovely daughter and I hope you and your hubby are ok, it’s very hard for men too, especially because they find it all a bit hard to imagine in the first place. I will stop now. I am thinking of you xxxxxxxxxx

@pokkets9284 5 жыл бұрын

My mom had one miscarriage after me, then years later had my brother. My mom was very far along, so it was a huge shock, I can even remember being around 5/6 and hearing about it. I'm so sorry this happened to you. You're such a strong woman!

@that_chicnic9645 3 жыл бұрын

I know this video is old, but I wanted to hug you so bad! You are a strong woman and I applaud the fact you arent afraid to talk about these real struggles some women go through.

@TheHayashiLifeJapan 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks 🤗

@jessicasummers8531 5 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry, Sarah. I have many friends and family members who have gone through the same thing. It's not easy for anyone no matter how common it is. Much love, don't beat on yourself. It's nothing you did. Just give Mary all the snuggles.

@Dennis2001ify 5 жыл бұрын

Even with the commonity of miscarriages , it still a very hard thing to go through. I hope you're doing well sarah , stay strong

@jeshiedesu 5 жыл бұрын

I'm very sorry to hear. Sending you lots of love and hugs to you and your family!❤

@katkaRKM 5 жыл бұрын

Virtual hugs Sarah. It's very important that women talk about it.

@sunshinecindy570 5 жыл бұрын

Sending lots of hugs and prayers your way! Your so right that people don’t talk about it. Your very brave. 🙏🏼💖🙏🏼💖🙏🏼💖🙏🏼💖🙏🏼

@JMHoskins87 5 жыл бұрын

I appreciate how candid and real you are on such a sensitive subject. I'm sorry for your loss, but thankful that you have Mary and hopefully a good support system at home. Best wishes. ♡

@kikij7830 5 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry this has happened to you and your family. Thank you for sharing something so personal with us. I also cried with you.

@FairlyOddChelle 5 жыл бұрын

I'm very sorry, Sarah. I am sending you so much love right now to you and your family.

@samipyle1502 5 жыл бұрын

Hang in there girl! I had one after my son too. Lots of love and hugs to you and your fam!

@krissyb5970 5 жыл бұрын

Sending you so much love for being so candid. And I'm sending you a huge hug. I have had two miscarriages. I don't want children but they were still very hard to go through, so I can only imagine how hard they are when you are trying or wanting to be pregnant. I hope more women can talk about how common it is so we can support each other and remember to be kind, always.

@zenithian15 5 жыл бұрын

Sarah, I'm so sorry for your loss. I can only imagine how painful this must be for you. But I know you can get through this, and that you sharing this personal story will also help other women in grief following a miscarriage. You are strong, you are brave, and you are loved. I wish I could give you a big hug right now. Lots of love from Canada! :)

@everlynevins 5 жыл бұрын

I love your vlogs. You really keep it real, and I agree that this subject needs to be spoken about. I'm not a fan of people, who are not going through it, tell those who *are* that "It's private. Why are you telling everyone your business?" -- seriously, I want to smash my face against a wall everytime I read that. Women need to hear they're not alone. I'm sorry you're going through this. Sending good vibes your way from Germany!

@chaitealoverr 5 жыл бұрын

Sending virtual hugs for you and your beautiful familly Sarah 💜✨

@martham7356 5 жыл бұрын

So sorry to hear, Sarah. Sending you love.

@hannahinjapan7087 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing! Sorry to hear of your loss but I so admire your strength.

@thepopquizkid 5 жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry. I know exactly what you’re going through.

@tarabooartarmy3654 4 жыл бұрын

I’ve had multiple miscarriages. When I was 17 I had one and the hospital paperwork listed it as “spontaneous abortion”. Somehow my friend’s husband (a deeply religious guy) found out about this (I really have no clue how that was possible, but unfortuantely, it happened) and he told my friend she couldn’t hang out with me anymore because I was an “evil woman” who “had an abortion”. I tried to explain it was a miscarriage and that I didn’t personally believe in abortion, but he would not listen. It made it all that much harder to deal with, because I lost my best friend in the process. If more people talked about this kind of thing, maybe more people would understand it.

@TheHayashiLifeJapan 4 жыл бұрын

Oh no. I’m so sorry! That makes it even worse. Ugh. I wonder with how some states have changed abortion laws, if they have changed their wording on medical documents.

@alexandreamms 5 жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Praying for you and sending you hugs!

@surfergirl09100 5 жыл бұрын

You’re so strong for sharing this sending love and happiness your family’s way!! 💓

@cindiakers2361 5 жыл бұрын

I am so sorry for you and your hubby's loss!!! My love and prayers are with you guys!!!! (There is nothing wrong with crying....it cleanses the soul!!) (Both my mother and mother in law have had miscarriages.)