From Trauma to Hope X Sarah Jakes Roberts and Serita Jakes

A night of soul care with you and Jesus.

[@kameronytg8891]

Gods timing is perfect. Did anyone else stumbled across this video in 2024 ? I loved it Thank you Father for the beautiful women of God that you have placed in our lives Amen. ❤❤❤

[@mechellemoore9446]

LISTEN! I just stumbled across this video TODAY!!! This is the most beautiful conversation I have ever heard.

[@Milani2k]

Absolutely girll It is beyond amazing

[@jazthejourney]

That her mom took accountability so quickly, apologized, and asked for forgiveness from her daughter so quickly, Oh miss Serita, so many little girls inside grown women needed to hear that. Such maturity. I wish I had a mother like her.

[@jayleenphipps2123]

This is beautiful ❤. For a mother to recognize how she may have contributed trauma to her child, apologizing and encouraging Sarah not to repeat generational trauma.

[@elisadiaz320]

I pray that God help me help me heal those wounds. That he blesses me with a maternal mother figure one day. If it’s his will.❤

[@brownbeauty4evryadig]

My mother would never which is why we haven't spoken in 8 years. It's a generational curse that I will be breaking with my children. I always apologize to my children when I am wrong . I allow my teens and my 26 year old son to express themselves to me..I pour good things into my children. This conversation was my confirmation that what I am choosing to do is correct.

[@adelejohnson8517]

I’m grateful that I was present at that moment of the passing of the torch! It was priceless!

[@flowforever9084]

Yes Mine nvr acknowledged This is exactly what we wanted. Traumatized kids....angry adults Sometimes they just didn't know any better. But you hv to forgive. I've seen what it did to our family. I forgave my mom. It hurts though 😢 💔

[@brijosttany]

Every adult daughter should have a space like this to talk to there mother

[@AMATEURDECORATINGLIKEAPRO]

I love how they really "See Each Other." Every Mother and Daughter needs this relationship. "I am truly a mixed veil of emotions." I relate.

[@Shelincali9]

A lot of motherless daughters needed this. Thank you ❤

[@tammywilliams9335]

Yes most definitely. I even was teary from both of there conversation

[@user-oi9ux5gc1b]

I just wonder why didn’t she ask her mother what she wanted to know while she was still alive instead of carrying this for so long? How can you have a normal relationship without asking… So much damage done.

[@dorciabarnett2700]

Beautiful, open, honest conversation between mother and daughter. I’m believing God for in due season I’ll be able to have this conversation with my mother and daughters.❤

[@dorethasharp7409]

@@user-oi9ux5gc1b AMEN 🙏 🙌

[@latoyajones6634]

I wish I could have had a conversation like this with my mom before her passing... I'm inspired to make this happen for my girls. Thank you for this!

[@latoyarenee7792]

"Sometimes we just need the acknowledgement" Such a beautiful and necessary conversation. Healing

[@sandraruncie4351]

Amen sis!

[@aaronmolasky9611]

Oh my God you nailed it thank you well said happy holidays and happy new year

[@lifewithkasha]

This made me bow down to our king !!!!! Lord, I forgive my mom 🥹

[@swest20091]

Listennnn ok😢this was me too sis

[@MayerConstance]

Yaaaas Queen me too

[@ellencapers8448]

THIS IS DEEEEEPPPP AND I LOVE IT! SO MANY OF US HAVE ISSUES UNSPOKEN! THERAPY WITH ONE ANOTHER IS HEALING! GOING TO ALL THE SERVICES PREACHING SHOUTING AND SPEAKING IN TONGUES DOES NOT MATTER IF WE R NOT REALLLLYYYYYYYY HEALED! WE MUST BE HEALED!

[@DaughterOfDestinyLinda]

Beautiful one sis...you're in turn freeing yourself. I had to hug my daughter and tell her I love her and that she must forgive me for all the ways I've wronged her.

[@TheMaishaHarris]

Now THIS is what true healing, communication, and accountability looks like. ❤❤

[@CR-mx6tj]

Now look….I can’t be crying watching this! 😆 This makes me see Mrs. Serita in a different light. I love her honesty & how she poured her heart out. Mrs. Serita is being open about the things she realized she did not do so well and admitting she has unhealed wounds and questions too from her own childhood. This was powerful‼️ Acknowledgment is Healing ❤️‍🩹 Thank You Mrs. Serita for being a source to so many with this message. Sara continue to talk with your Mom. It’s healing both of you❣️❤

[@dove628]

I admire Mrs Jakes journey..& in tune with Sarah's calling & the people she reaches... with Pastor Tore... what a test.a.Mony

[@MissPJ01]

What a blessing, Cora need this same kind of interaction with her Mom too, each child need Mom differently, I'd like to see Cora as well, God continued blessings 🙏

[@thabsilengcobo4880]

There's too much power in that

[@tonyajscott]

Perfectly stated and I too am grateful for this dialogue of healing. This conversation is also breaking yokes of bondage off of God’s daughters. Glory to God! 🤍🙌🏽🕊🙏🏽

[@shondabonner2162]

This is nothing but the move of God! This is wonderful! I don’t think Sara really knows how valuable she really helps others. You are the best. ❤

[@ButterflyRhomance]

This conversation ALONE is a great gift for many! ❤

[@CH-ib3jw]

So true

[@jermaineharris5971]

📒📜🐟 31:00

[@jermaineharris5971]

32:02

[@patrina7608]

This is why Bishop and his family are great. They are transparent, sincere, kind and 😢very generous with their lives and time. Thank you for making faith and God real and reachable. Thank you.

[@yvettemiller3352]

💯 agree ❤️ 😢

[@poochiegarner5030]

That was beautiful ❤️. I volunteer when you come to Atlanta, Ga and Charlotte, NC and I just love you for who God made you. Thank you for sharing real life and reminding us to forgive. No parent get it right, all the time. I just love y'all 💕

[@belle3055]

Good for them. In my family we barely talk.

[@Classy4514]

Yeah right

[@worshiplibrary7157]

To the 1% of people reading this: your amazing and loved God put u in this life for a reason and everything will be better soon...

[@Queen1ndonly]

I’m really crying 😢 I wish I can talk to my mom like this

[@Yukia76]

Me too My mom passed when I was 8 years old 😢

[@SassyDiva53]

Me too☹️

[@kyrianjoseph1403]

Me too,I live with my mom and it’s like living with a stranger.

[@shaneyg25]

Me too

[@leelees1319]

Me too sis....me too.

[@bridgetteyelder77]

One day in my Mother's den before she passed away she looked at me and said Daughter I am so sorry. She apologized for things that happened in the past that were painful to me and it touched me in such an Amazing way. I really am enjoying this moment you all are sharing with us.

[@sydneemays4412]

Sarah got the apology I always wanted. I felt that

[@markelablack8575]

This!!!!😢

[@lrussell6668]

This is so real and powerful. It’s enlightening to see how Ms Serita is open and honest with her daughter

[@classydenisha]

There's a little girl trapped inside of all of us. Love this!!!

[@DaughterOfDestinyLinda]

"You're not only healing your children but you're also healing the nation!" Mind-blowing! That was everything Mama Jakes

[@shawandamatthews9148]

I cried this whole episode. Thanks for always being transparent and vulnerable. I have always watch First Lady Jakes from the screen and the audience and I wanted to be classy, humble and funny just like her. Watch her be so human and real makes so many walls break for me. I feel seen and heard all at the same time. Thanks for your families continue sacrifice

[@sharycehunt2793]

I was screaming in my kitchen! From the first time I saw you preach Sarah, I knew you were your Daddy’s daughter (2-fold). I’m so proud of you Sis! I have joyfully moved through “Woman Thou Art Loosed” to “Woman Evolve” Let’s go…we’ve got work to do!

[@hannahjames6]

I would have fly all the way from France just to meet your mother she needs to have a documentary on Netflix. She is a legend . She is so humble and a perle rare ❤❤❤❤

[@user-ys6gj5kz7b]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Totally agree: She is an invaluable and price phenomenal Queen doing exploits.....and we love her and thank God for her life, her love for God, her husband, the Potter's House ministry, her family and God's calling, purpose and destiny on her life. Amen. We celebrate you Mrs. Serita Jakes.

[@stephaniebaker8336]

I love, love, love "The Jakes Family" All you all are anointed!!

[@La_Leocadia]

This conversation was EVERYTHING!!!!!!! Wow! I didn’t think Sarah could be MORE relatable I was wrong. Sarah you are a gift to this generation and women of ALL ages. You are able to pull things out of people with no effort. Just your presence creates comfort even for your own mother. Watching her be so vulnerable and transparent and OPEN was healing even for me. I’m so grateful for her showing all of us what is possible if we just SAY our truth! Thank you BOTH for this gift. ✨✨✨✨✨✨

[@lisarosebud4017]

Just like that !

[@wandablackmon1780]

Now that was a healing conversation. Many generational curses will be broken as a result of this video. Thank you so much for your honesty and transparency.💕

[@catina2826]

Amen!!!🥰🙌🏽

[@nicholerenee7730]

I believe that!! God bless

[@nokubongamartins]

This is one of the most beautiful conversations I’ve ever watched.

[@Maria-006.]

Amen 🙏🏻❤️🫶🏻

[@tammywilliams9335]

Yes it is 👏💞

[@patricianixon6650]

Love this ❤️

[@mwilliams2640]

AMEN AMEN!!!!

[@TheMaishaHarris]

It really is. ❤

[@veritastold830]

"Can't see the Glory without the entire story." "God made the difference." Amen, and Amen, Sisters!!

[@thewerkerb2932]

I literally cried the entire episode. Apparently this was the healing all of us didn’t know we needed. Thanks First Lady for apologizing for the mothers who could not, cannot, or choose not to. My heart is full ❤

[@jennytaylor3962]

To all the mothers. Don't be hard on yourself. There's no manual for parents and even if there was....one size does not fit all. You may not have got it all right, I appreciate you for not leaving or forsaking us even though it was tough. You did and continue to do your best. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯

[@blaknbeauty1]

Awesome 💪✌️

[@queenisrael8158]

God bless you and your family.

[@awatkins8429]

Many don't do their BEST or anything close to it...deliberately. Some mothers attempt to actually destroy their kids (especially daughters). And those are the ones who need to be held accountable.

[@It.is.I-tx6ri]

@jennytaylor3962, This is the comment that I, as an immature parent didn’t know I needed to read. If only my children would l/could say this and mean it 🙏🏾

[@joibrown4426]

Y’all have released me today from something I didn’t know I was dealing with, I cried the whole time and don’t know why, but I feel free. I feel unshakable

[@richgirl3457]

I literally just told god this was what I didn’t even know I needed. Cried like a baby. And I too feel so refreshed. I’ve had resentments toward my mom that I’ve let go and forgiven her for but I feel like this gave us room to be okay with those hurts even though we’ve already forgiven. May god continue to bless everyone🙏🏽💕

[@debbieyoyo2997]

Its the mother-daughter talk

[@Caesarechez1]

HALLELUJAH 🙌🏾 GLORY TO GOD ❤

[@ellenthompson7491]

This is beautiful may God continue the union with you Mrs. Jake’s and your daughter Sarah it’s beautiful beautiful ❤

[@MsPurplerain23]

I’m 😢crying too. My mom did the best she knew and I’m grateful for her and love her so much 💜 I’m crying because I wish I was a better mom to my children 😢 I love them and I know they love me Lord help us it stops here ❤

[@tifftiff3162]

This was like a drink of water. So refreshing.

[@LazyLadyy]

This is the kind of relationship I pray I receive with my future children. I won’t be perfect but I will do my best. This conversation is so healing.

[@TheKaRenaLee]

This was my first time ever hearing Sarah’s mom talk. I loved this episode!! This was so beautifully powerful and moving. Her mom is such a beautiful example of being willing to listen and learn and grow. She said I was a drama major I’m weak same mama 😂❤

[@callmenow303]

Send me a write up✍🏻💬☝️ for prayers, counseling and daily motivation to keep your spirituality fit in the faith 🙏❤️❣️🥰❣️❣️

[@christineporter9914]

Beautiful Relationship between Mother and daughter 🙏🏾❤️

[@Jesus.SaVeS77]

GM, @Christine Porter, 🤦🏾I wishd my mom & I had talks like this before she got really sick & pass'd on to Glory, etc. (RIP) Momma, she's absent from her body, but present with the Lord! 🙏🏾 👍🏾❤️

[@christineporter9914]

@@Jesus.SaVeS77 Amen, My Mother is no longer with us either she just passed away 5 months ago. We Miss her dearly. But we know we'll see her again.

[@Jesus.SaVeS77]

Gdm. @@christineporter9914 Oh 😱 sorry to hear. I didn't know u loss yur mom as well. My condolences to U & yur family. I'll be 🙏🏾for yur comfort,🕊️, strength. The joy of th Lord is yur/my Strength... amen. My mother took her flight Apr. 2020.🤦🏾God knows! It still fresh like it was yesterday. So even tho I/U & other's may still feel hurt, sadness 😢, grief, 💔, etc...We shall see our dear mom's again. If we Endure until the end the same Shall be SaVed...In Jesus "Mighty & Merciful" Name, Amen. My sista, may God continue keepn & blessn U/I/others as well. Let's be/stay strong in the Lord, etc...amen. 💝

[@christineporter9914]

@@Jesus.SaVeS77 Amen Sis you continue to be strong as well, God Bless you 🙏🏾❤️

[@uprayup]

I love Christians who are Balanced. There are so many things we can enjoy in life. I was raised in church where everything was a sin. I am so glad that I started reading the Word of God for myself and discovered what LIFE is all about. We loose our families and many more things in life when we become so distant from everything. Thank you for sharing this video. I love you both.

[@13thdisciple]

"I've not had many opportunities to feel joy." ... I can so relate. Yes, we have to give ourselves permission to give ourselves time to feel joy, to exhale, be still!

[@aprilbrown6739]

OMG! That part of this episode resonated so loud with me.

[@divinejustice8359]

I am praying that the Jakes family find healing and peace from their problems and traumas.

[@medoralittle8465]

I love this conversation between Mama Jakes and Pastor Sarah.. praise God

[@gautayasmin6365]

I found healing in watching this. ❤ to see a mom not become defensive but opening herself up to listen to her daughter, acknowledging her mistakes and sincerely apologizing is so powerful. Some daughters might never receive this from their moms and it hurts . So thank you for allowing us to be a part of this life changing conversation. I receive this for myself too. God bless you 🙏

[@zibahcharles109]

This is the most beautiful Mother-daughter conversation, that I am grateful to have the privilege to ‘listen in’ on. Very powerful & healing. 💜 My prayer for now & into 2023 is that God unapologetically love on me, receive my vulnerability & ‘mother’ my childhood wounds in a divine way. I have a daughter who deserves everything good.

[@citygirlofbethlehem]

@hamisuabdullahi1819 dis a whole scam sis Sarah a introvert she ain't scamming

[@DarSheaNaja]

That is a great prayer

[@RhondaSRamos]

Kudos to ownership of how a parent's choices can be your child's consequences. This is so rare, unfortunately. Sarah has been liberated. Walk in your freedom. The captive has been set free! Hallelujah!

[@lwmsculver3628]

Yes Sarah did!! She taught me, a much older woman to NOT be ashamed of my youth pregnancy. I carried that for a long time, but I tell MY STORY free now 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@kerronyoung88]

Bless you!

[@terralewis2680]

Say what you want about this family but they are doing the work! They are showing us how to initiate the healing and restoration that needs to take place between generations. I love the work they are doing. My soul is glad! 🙏🏽♥️

[@donotwastetime]

It is always encouraging to see black women move from mother and child to woman to woman conversations.

[@terrymarie3738]

I’m not even halfway through and sobbing and wanting to call each of my children. How beautiful that you shared this moment. And when Serita said, “I’ll make stuff up” I laughed so hard but I couldn’t agree more. I will apologize to the end of time for whatever if it will heal my child in any way. Thank you ladies. You are both blessings to so many including me. 🙏❤️

[@dawney5467]

What a beautifully and honest therapeutic conversation. Thank you both for modelling that🙏🏽💕

[@tracigroce3412]

On my lunch at work, and balling my eyes out. Lord, I needed this. I'm currently seeking therapy, too. 🥺

[@lavjamsoflocamp]

Me too. I am an orphan😢

[@lezhatc56]

THIS IS A BIT LENGTHY BUT ... .. Both of you ladies blessed me extremely bcos I was able to see I wasn't the only girl who grew up without her parents and siblings & I wasn't the only one who grew up in a violent home hiding in the bathtub from flying bullets amongst alcoholics cussing & fighting & shooting & cutn' one another & Etc. I also understand getting pregnant at 15 & having to take care of a child as a child myself. I had to grow up quick. I remember having to walk to work at 4 or 5am in the morning pregnant to get to work, no help but from God. I felt so alone, but God was always there for me through some very difficult , hard issues .... THE LORD DELIVERED ME FROM SO SO MUCH MORE AND I STILL HAVE MY RIGHT MIND ..... IN SPITE OF THE DRUGS, I'VE BEEN DELIVERED 25 YRS., IN SPITE OF ....... OOH CHILE .... THAT, THAT, THAT AND THOSE OTHER THINGS, I STILL MADE IT THROUGH IT ALL BCOS GOD LIFTED ME AND HE CARRIED ME AND HE BROUGHT ME THROUGH AND OUT OF IT ALL. I AM NOT IN A CLOSET SLOBBING, EATING COTTON AND PULLING MY HAIR OUR STRAND BY STRAND, BUT I MADE IT & FOR THAT I'M VERY GRATEFUL & THANKFUL TO GOD BCOS HE MADE ME WHOLE IN AREAS THAT I DIDN'T EVEN REALIZE I'D EVER BE MADE WHOLE IN.I KNOW HOW TO CLOSE THE DOOR TO TOXIC PEOPLE, PLACES & THINGS TODAY AND SAY NO YOU WILL NOT IMPEDE ON MY JOY, LOVE & HAPPINESS BCOS I AM A HUMAN BEING WORTHY OF LOVE, PEACE, JOY, HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS AND WHATEVER I DEEM NECESSARY. THE LORD GIVES US PERMISSION TO LIVE, LOVE AND BE JOYFUL THEREFORE NO ONE ELSE HAS THE RIGHT TO TAKE THAT AWAY BCOS GOD HAS NOT GIVEN ANYONE THAT MUCH AUTHORITY IN ANOTHER PERSONS LIFE. THANK YOU BOTH FOR BEING SO TRANSPARENT.

[@lezhatc56]

Thanks, but I am really so good. God Bless you and Grace & Peace.

[@lindaoliver8715]

Two beautiful women of God, you both nailed it! I am so blessed. I even ordered the book. My mother is 92 years of age with 8 children. I am the only one seeing after my ill mother, who never paid me any attention growing up. Siblings treat me horrible. But, everyone was too busy to care for her, but I dropped everything and ran to her rescue she was on hospice. And she at first gave me a hard time, now realize I'm all she has. I am hurting so badly. And feel so lost. Because I have a lot of questions, but I don't want to upset her. To hear you both! you just enlightened me so much. Thank you 🤍my birthday is July 23rd..... 🕯

[@NatayaMcqueen]

Hey love where did you buy the book who wrote it

[@lazellclea107]

Thank you First Lady and Sister Sarah ❤️

[@honey9651]

Pastor Sarah this is something I really needed to hear and see. A generational curse was just broken in front of the world 🌎. Its so much strength in a mother saying Im sorry. We are Mothers we aren’t perfect 😢. Thanks so much. This is very powerful 😊

[@suniwillbe]

This mother and daughter conversation is breathtaking 😢😢❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@WLynah]

Mrs. Serita- your babies are great conversationalist because of you and Mr. Jakes.

[@Ckrissy013]

It’s tooooo early for me to be crying like this! Mrs. Serita is just so so sweet!

[@tamikoh.776]

I watched this at 2:00 am this morning. You never know what people been through or going through. Thank God she is getting the help she needs 🙏 🙌 ❤

[@sabrinaoritz7049]

❤

[@tynitajackson452]

The transparency in this video feeds my soul. You both are given me permission to forgive myself and ask for forgiveness. Like First Lady Serita, I have unresolved issues with my own Mother. I also have 2 daughters 26 & 23. I have began my own journey of being accountable and saying I’m sorry. This video is a gift from the Holy Spirit. The transparency will help so many Mothers and Daughters. I am committed to sharing it with others. Thank you 🙏🏽

[@Rose.Marie.]

I am so proud of you! - a mom of a one year old who is also on a journey of accountability as well as forgiving parents and healing my own family wounds

[@quinnetterjohnson2363]

The most beautiful dialogue between Mother & Daughter. Such a marvelous Grace on both of them!❤😊❤

[@fergusonartistry653]

Guilt is what I felt when my dad died from Covid. The only time I got to visit him in the hospital was when he was taking his last breath. I struggled for a long time after that with my relationship with God. And I agree it’s hard to fight who you love. Although I wanted to walk away from God I couldn’t God kept drawing me with His love. In that battle I got to know God’s love for me on a whole new level. Not only was He holding me up when I was at my lowest. He was carrying me also! God is faithful!

[@gigiFLOWER2023]

Thanks for sharing. I can relate. I lost my baby sister on Christmas day last year. She was only 31. I'm still processing it all. Family wasn't that close prior, now a relationship doesn't even exist at all.

[@Junior-ym2nt]

Serita crying for the truth 😭😭🥺 imagine all the kids who are separated from their parents are having the same questions 😭😭

[@pumkinpie8730]

God is good.....I'm so thankful for this conversation and to see her mom in a bigger and different light. This has helped me. So much I just called my son(only child) and had a heart to heart

[@flowforever9084]

Praise God This made me wish I had had a more indept convo with my mom. Her children are angry adults. She didn't acknowledge anything. That's all we wanted.

[@LifeIsAWholeVibe]

This was so beautiful ❤ When Mrs Jake's said when she lost her mom she felt like she lost her anchor, I felt that in my soul 🥺

[@lrrussellrussell8227]

Just a SUGGESTION 😢😢😂😂 can we get a SISTER or SIBLINGS conversation such as this one. This was healing to me, Mrs. Serita is so my mum even her past to current. My mum was a Pastor I grew up in church as well 💯💯😫😫🙏🏾🙏🏾🥰🥰

[@creelelani7165]

not having my mom here is not easy and this helped tremendously. Thank you so much for the transparency! I cried the whole time 🥺🙏🏽

[@jessicarowling]

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[@notyourusualst]

Right? I’m grateful for this amazing chance to listen to a mother’s heart.

[@BoJoPoet]

THIS is what healing looks like. It's the conversation that I wish ALL mothers could have with their daughters. The way no offense was taken by Sis. Sarita while Sarah was speaking her truth and the way Sarah listened and sat in the moment of her mother's pain was so beautiful and healing to witness. THIS is women's ministry...

[@kgilliam19]

67 where?? cuz Pastor Serita you look goodt! ❤️ I have always admired your gentleness and your gracefulness. You are a gem to the body of Christ. Thank you for always empowering women with words of love and truth

[@andreashinault5616]

This is a tear jerker OMG. I needed this today. 😥

[@FaithWawira-gy4wr]

You know that you are loved Ladies!!?? I hope you know this. Hats off. God bless you 🙏

[@casandratappin6349]

"Every Girl Child has the opportunity to reproduce after their own kind." ~Serita Jake's THIS hit me like a ton of bricks!! What a Word to my heart. Even if I may not be able to physically produce after my own kind, I can spiritually! I really needed to hear that ❣️

[@ouranoswealthgroup7042]

Omg!!! My whole heart just came out of my chest when Serita said it was like Sarah taking her first steps when she saw her on that stage accepting the torch. *clutches heart*😢😢😢😢😢😢😭😭😭😭😭😭 I can envision it.

[@relly.b3an]

I’m glad that we as a collective of (black) women are now tackling hard convos & generational trauma, early. Talking about it truly helps. Thank y’all for your vulnerability and service to bring us all healing, by example.

[@ouranoswealthgroup7042]

Omg! My heart just broke in half when she said ‘you forgive me’. Awe this is too real from me. 😢 I gotta come back to listen…. Awe, Sarah.

[@hlabilepinks8906]

I FEEL LIKE IM IN THERAPY, CRYING MY EYES OUT😭😭😭😭😭TO HEAR A MOTHER NOTICE WHERE SHE WENT WRONG AND APOLOGISE OMG😭😭😭THANK YOU FOR THIS MRS SARAH

[@meiekahenderson2428]

I really loved this VLOG, my mom doesn't talk to me like this; she talks to her niece , I'm a motherless child an only child if you will(but no matter what I always honor thy mother). I have been in therapy I always pray good things and I make sure that I treat , my daughter and two sons , grandson and granddaughter with love , joy and always love on them. But I thank God that I have been in remission for 6 1/2 years and I'm very grateful that God Blesses me to be here for me and my children Amen . Sarah Jakes , I'm 51 years old and I have been watching you every since I have been watching your dad preach and God has an awesome anointing on you AMEN. love you and mother Jakes . Blessings and Abundance

[@bettiebrown2409]

All i have to say as a mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother At 77. Thank you ladies for the healing and gave me. You help me to Free My self, of so much things. God's blessing be with you both at all times 🙏 🙌 ❤ Thanks

[@glamazini]

Every person I've known who says, "I don't know what the therapist could say to me/do for me." or any form of that statement has eventually GREATLY benefited from therapy and was transformed when they went. I loved this conversation; thank you for sharing it. Oh, for every mother and daughter to experience the gift of something similar. 💛

[@ravenpn4275]

Going to therapy was the best decision I’ve ever made. I hated when our sessions were over.

[@Ruth_1_16]

Wow, thank you for this 😢intimate moment.

[@TreJ999]

Sis. Serita!! What a role model of grace and humility.

[@r.z.j.8261]

Sarah, you are very lucky to get along with both your parents!!! I ❤️ love how your Dad is everybody's dad!!

[@Mommii517]

...and the book!! Oh my goodness!! It was so freeing and eye opening! It's not our fault!!! A must read!

[@thevesselwithsisterb6060]

I just wanna say thank you for this powerful and unexpected treat! It was a treat to watch you two together engaging with such transparency and vulnerability💞 but I'm not surprised Pastor Sarah because it's one of your gifts! You talked about giving permission to feel Joy but you have this gift where you give people permission to be honest and to be themselves. You allow people to express both the put together and the not so put together parts of themselves on display removing barriers and things like guilt and shame and self doubt. That's a gift💥 you're able to dissolve walls that people have built and hide behind with such ease! It's so beautiful to watch🤗 I can go on and on but I'm just gonna end by saying this...I've watched you grow. I've been a fan for quite sometime now and I look forward to watching you evolve! Stay in alignment and obedience as you've been💞 remember it's never about us it's about who God needs us to reach! You're doing an amazing job! May the Mighty Lord continue to Bless you and your family always! Your dad made the right choice! Hey girl💞 you got this

[@Milani2k]

Chile I can not express more how thankful I am for this story.😭😭 I have been crying for most part of the video because I relate to it soo much😭😭 If it wasn’t for my spiritual coach, my stepmom and one of my closest friend😪I definitely wouldn’t have survived. Dealing with so many traumas, including not having a father figure in the household until the age of 10 when God blessed me with one, and having abandonment issues when he couldn’t be with me anymore because of health issues and had to go back to Holland, having rejection problems and so many other childhood traumas, I am still here fighting and crying out to God like, How much more😭😭 But thank you soo much for this ladies because It shows that I’m really not alone❤❤

[@beverlyputman9950]

Such A Beautiful Honest Conversation. Full of Truth but with a mutual respect and such compassion♥️

[@lifestylewithchiffon]

This is so beautiful. Thanks for being so transparent women of God.

[@hannahjames6]

I can relate to your mum she suppressed all her childhood trauma emotions until late I lost my mother I was 9 years old and her death up to today remains mysterious

[@ouranoswealthgroup7042]

‘Now, I can’t see the glory without the story’ 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜🙌🏾 God is SO very good!!!!!!! Let’s do it all for the glory of God. Throughout all the Bible, my revelations started last year with the story of Pharoah and the Israelites- God does EVERYTHING for Himself and His glory. Put the fear of God right in my heart discovering that mystery I didn’t see till my 40s. I been reading that Bible since I could speak and just seeing this. Praise God!!! That is a God I don’t ever wanna be in front of…

[@somethingwithsina]

"Thank you Pastor Sarah"🥺❤️ oh man.

[@delynnturner6742]

This is so important. My mother had a huge personality and consequently her emotional interactions with me when I was a child and adolescent created a great deal of trauma for me. As a mature adult, I see her now as a very young mother in her twenties, thirties and forties who had a lot of critical unresolved trauma from her own childhood. She was a baby raising babies and did not always have the emotional skills and resources that she needed at the time. But she blessed me. When I was in my forties, she and I had that conversation. She acknowledged her role in my emotional trauma and apologized to me. She denied nothing and completely affirmed and gave value to my feelings. It was such a healing time for both of us. Later when she got sick and began her decline, I had no left over feelings or regrets about our relationship. I loved my mother so much and she behaved like a queen when I needed her to...she straightened my own crown before she left for Glory. She was such a blessing to me.

[@chrystalmacklin985]

I long for this from my own mother. But thank God for the ONE He placed into my life ❤I’m so glad you got what you needed from your mother❤️

[@jackiem.3812]

THIS. IS EVERYTHING!!!! It is so cathartic to see that we all have history, questions, and unmet needs from childhood. I personally have gone through my own healing, with out counseling, but litterly by the counsel of the Holy spirit. I knew I was depressed, suppressed, but I couldn't remember why? So I would pray to God to reveal it to me. So through out ten years I would meet someone from my past, that hurt me, and when I saw them I didn't remember right away, but days latter it was like I remembered and those feelings would come up...I was able to be in that moment, hurt, be angry, and make a choice to forgive, it was a choice until it was a reality, but when I was free from many offenses, I was free, indeed. How? By burying myself into the word, and taking the time to know who I was in Christ vs who I thought I was because of the trauma. That was healing...and it has helped me to recognize, and put the blame where it belongs, and not take it as I was not worthy of love. But that I was fearfully and wonderfully made by God... and that hurt people hurt people... jealousy is real. But there is deliverance in forgiveness!!! It wasn't easy, but, it was so worth it. God litterly counseled me through His Holy Spirit and I am stronger, so much wiser, and Better than better! To God be all the Glory for the great things he has done. Ps. Mother Jake's, I have know a man who was from a large family who was given to his aunt and uncle, and not raised with his family-because that aunt could not have children. ( he never knew- another one of his siblings told the family, the reason when he was in his seventies.) He said he felt rejected and alone, and didn't understand why he couldn't live with his family. Perhaps your aunt could not have children, and maybe having you stay there someone thought you could bring peace into that home. Just a thought. So I'm seeing that we all make mistakes unknowingly that can be traumatic to others. So we all have a need to forgive and to be forgiven. And we know because God works all things out for our good, we can trust that our steps although traumatic- the good, the healing, the forgiveness is ordered by the lord, to workout for our good...look at the beautiful nurturing, and protective mother and grandmother you have become. God knew that you would mother a child that would speak healing and deliverance to the nations and She would need her experience and your good mothering and the not so good mothering to cause her to have a NEED for a savior, healer, and delivery. Yes, it was all for God's glory!! Sin and the fall was the cause, but Jesus was and is the healer, and the hope for us all. In him we can be reconciled from trauma to this wonderful hope that we now have in Christ Jesus our Lord. (This is the very essence of salvation-sin, hurt pain, reconciled by one, and emplimented by our faith, forgiveness, and our hope in Jesus Christ. )

[@praises2]

So very well stated!!

[@Sharon-fd4er]

THE ACKNOWLEDGMENT 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️ that’s IT!!there’s SO MUCH HEALING in: THE ACKNOWLEDGMENT 🙌🏼🙌🏼 hallelujah

[@keynan394418]

"You playing out what I wish christmas would have been"..revelation in my life!!

[@daisydaniel4593]

I watched it twice. Simply beautiful.

[@JocelynHairGoddess]

Just imagining that “I’m sorry” coming from my mother. 🙏🏽 this is just so good thank you ❤

[@kingdomwomanvictoria]

Totally loving the spirit of Serita Jakes...she wears the spirit of humility like skin!

[@kimjesus4829]

This bring clarity to my life and what God is saying thank you

[@7style0]

An authentic platform of genuine love and grace healing teaching of understanding and unconditional love threw the anointing of the holy spirit. Healing and Reconciliation with forgiveness of Restoration in holiness threw the truthfulness of Jesus Christ grace of love and compassion was shown here on this platform of grace given by God. Amen. It's Wonderful how Titus Two women complement each other with love. Amen. God bless you both always in peacefulness with serenity and calmness with tranquility in overflow. Amen. Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah Praise Hallelujah 🙌 🙌 🙌 🙌 🙌 🙌 🙌 🙌 🙌 Thanks for sharing your love. ♡

[@YolandaDHall]

Wow! I sincerely appreciate the honesty and candor that you ladies shared. Never have I ever witnessed a “First Family” be so real, and sharing with us that they are just like us, imperfect, dealing with issues and working it out. Thank you, thank you you I have fallen in love with you all at a whole new level.💜

[@crystalnabors3347]

I smiled, I laughed, I cried, I absolutely loved this segment ❤ I couldn't wait to share it with all my friends.

[@AshzxQuidYT]

First Lady Jake's before I started this video I asked God to help me recieve this message. I lost my mom last year and it was one of the hardest things I had to process. My why's also died with my mom and while she was dying I didn't have the strength to be there for her when she died 💔 I knew that I couldn't mentally process what I was going to see. I loved her so very much. She didn't mother me either. I didn't know much about her and was not allowed to get close to her. My step-dad was abusive and told me to leave her alone she needs to rest. She suffered from bipolar disorder. And would not speak for months and when she did get up she was manic and unhealthy. God bless you and your family! We all grieve this life and look for a promise of a better tomorrow. You are right about therapy I have gone for years and what therapy does not do is give you the answers you need from the people you love the most and have lost.

[@joyh.729]

Sending love, strength and hugs to you 🙏🏽♥️

[@WLynah]

You guys are adorable. This conversation is so heartwarming. Mrs. Jakes Roberts I am 59 years old and I just announced that you are the best and most anointed woman of God that I've seen in all my days. I love so many of the saints who are awesome. However, you are truly special and your role is BIG! Mrs. Serita - I've seen you as the quiet one on tv, but it's a blessing to see you in this light. It shows that you're a precious beautiful person and in spirit. Hindsight is 2020- you have quiet charm and divine wisdom. Could you and Sara do this every Christmas? You and your family have give so much already, so I understand if this is asking too much. Love you and your family and appreciate your sacrifices. I'm glad you are guiding Sarah to set her priorities to avoid a major pitfall of parenting; prioritizing it all is challenging.

[@maxinebell355]

Listening to you both (Mother and Daughter)was such a blessing! Thank you both for being so real to the world! As Born again believers we need to be open with the world that we as believers are not exempted from issues. So thank you both!!!💐💐❤️❤️

[@catherinepeace4813]

Thank You Sarah and Serita ❤️ We Love You ❤️