Full Episode: Harris vs. Swaby

Tenaja moved in with Taquan after one month of dating. Tenaja is pregnant with their first child together but says Taquan’s ex is interfering in their relationship by trading money for attention. Will Taquan end this indecent proposal situation or say farewell to his future baby momma?
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[@kardiair2]

The fact he called her simple minded. That hurt me. No ma'am.

[@K_Allday]

kardiair2 Right. Straight up disrespectful.

[@October3074]

kardiair2 but he wasn't lying, that manbitch has consistently shown her who he is and she stayed with him AND got pregnant by him.

[@akstylez_ak5037]

kardiair2 Yes, that was haaaaaaaaaard body. Never in the history of me watching Divorce Court have I heard a man, any man refer to the women he “love” as simple minded. That alone told her what he thinks about her

[@bryanbeeman5256]

Akstylez _ak No, the sad part is she KNOWS she's simple minded and she didn't refute it when she had the chance to. She just nodded her head.

[@Shycrochetqueen]

She is because any time she still with and 6 months pregnant by him so she can't be that bright

[@KDanielsDesigns]

So she just watched him break someone else’s heart and takes the girl’s money and she still decided to be with him? Wow

[@MarinaRhymin]

Yeah… at this point, I have to wonder about her moral compass, too. Either she has none, or someone who was supposed to teach her about life and love failed her GREATLY.

[@Aqualeta72]

He is not poppin the way he think he is

[@princejacobmacauley]

Brittany Reid He looks like a big mess in my eyes dear.

[@PeggyRabbit32]

Chile no....

[@starisesun7692]

Fr he ugly af 😂

[@TheJavacia]

@@starisesun7692 Don't forget BROKE.

[@myothernameisnana7188]

@@starisesun7692 inside and out. ...

[@dramaqueen10141]

If your “mommy” did everything for you maybe you should stay with your mommy 😂😂😂

[@lesliemartin2901]

Kamilah Ahmed... or marry his mommy! Real talk...

[@dramaqueen10141]

Leslie Martin true 😂

[@iamnae6472]

Exactly!!!!

[@brendakabanda2181]

Exactly

[@TAYTHEToxicKing]

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[@VintageAfro91]

Wow! Now I see why the people at his job couldn't stand him.

[@iluvdant]

VintageAfro91 she should’ve too. Smh

[@patp2690]

Yeah there is no way everybody hates you. If everybody dislikes you....... There are few people at my job that I wish would die ......I would secretively rejoice..

[@VintageAfro91]

I know right. That should've been a clue.

[@JaNequaDesiree]

Cocky affff! For no reason.

[@sunnyhoney7665]

VintageAfro91 Exactly!

[@shawndrawoods160]

Sorry, two minutes in I was done. What kind of woman are you that you sit there and listen to a man break another woman’s heart? Should of let him get it together and then deal with him. She got what was coming to her.

[@lilmommy1402]

shawndra Woods word

[@shacoyasamuel8114]

Lmaooo this is my daughters father who have been running from child support court for months now ‍♀️‍♀️ Yes she did stay with him smhh not surprised being that she stayed with him after finding out about my daughter mid relationship & still continue to stay as they live together & she sees first hand he does nothing for his kids ........ thank god ii left him when my daughter was 10 months Been happy with my guy ever since who’s a great father to my child ♥️

[@shawndrawoods160]

shaCoya Samuelcc ... good for you. As you can see, she did you a favor. Be blessed.

[@October3074]

shaCoya Samuelcc I'm not surprised. Any bum bitch of a man that takes money from women with the claims of "but I got kids that's y I took the money", clearly doesn't pay child support.

[@Adwoa1]

Right! As a woman, have you no pity for your fellow woman? Also if from the start, he treated another woman so callously, how did she think he was going to treat her?? 😩

[@stylefan32]

The problem is from youth we're raising our daughters to be strong and independent. But unintentionally raising our sons to be entitled, lazy and dependent on women taking care of them. When as a society did we become okay with that?

[@Silented1234]

Shatonda Taylor entitled? Honey, women are more entitled than anything. So when a man actually has the “nerve” to feel he deserves something, it’s wrong. Foh

[@samoea19]

joshua38410 you clearly didn't watch the video.

[@Silented1234]

brwnbutterfly and you clearly haven’t passed the 6th grade....🙄

[@samoea19]

joshua38410 because I pointed out the obvious fact that you didn't watch the video. 😂. Somebody is upset. Btw...a bachelor's degree is far pass the sixth grade😂✌

[@Silented1234]

brwnbutterfly oh wow, a bachelors...and you probably make less than 100,000 still😂😂🙄 we big boys over here, go play with your toys...

[@saucy05]

Judge Lynn is the ultimate wife material. Smart, confident, beautiful, and just full of wisdom.

[@hanslesolo]

saucy05 ...and funny

[@TheNaturalRunway]

saucy05 very few #MEN match her #confidence, inner #beauty, or infinite #wisdom

[@dequadrewalton2582]

her type are rare now

[@angelabaldwin9889]

Saucy05, I wish more of our men had those qualities as well.

[@anthonymckenzie5182]

No 👎

[@dzireveal3074]

She should have left before she got pregnant

[@dashawnathomas6402]

d'zire veal exactly I don't know why she went with his nasty ass

[@YT4Me57]

d'zire veal That conversation she overheard between him and the previous woman should have been the first red flag. How you get them, is how you keep him.

[@Les_lee]

no being pregnant will be excuse she will use or staying and putting up with years of ridiculousness.

[@RB4GOD]

...she can still leave

[@panic9899]

She can always abort ?

[@cb990]

it's 2018... why are women still chasing men with multiple kids who have no ambition and no money?? wtf... the pickings are NOT that damn slim.

[@bryanbeeman5256]

LaDonna C - Apparently they are...

[@wellthatsinteresting1]

Like one previous poster put it, ain't shit dudes=black womens kryptonite smh

[@abrown1021]

And he was using his ex to get money for his children on top of all that.

[@dashawnathomas6402]

LaDonna C she cause having his baby with his nasty ass

[@Silented1234]

LaDonna C why are men still chasing women with multiple kids? Cause actually, that’s more statistically realistic.

[@nonilovechild5524]

"Young hearts. Run free. You'll get the baby but you won't have your man. While he's out busy loving every woman that he can. Young hearts. Don't be no fool when love really don't love you."

[@pennidud4932]

Noni Lovechild Candi said it best! #oldschool!

[@tgirl1762]

I love that song

[@AuthorJanaeMarie]

Sorry, what song is this? I want to look this up.

[@pennidud4932]

Author Janae Marie Candi Staton-Young Hearts

[@jaeraee3437]

Well said

[@kiaglam9879]

She knew how he was when he called that woman and broke up with her . he is trifling! !!!! To bad she is already pregnant. Sooooooo sad

[@bryanbeeman5256]

karma will- The only thing sad is he has 2 daughters and a son on the way... And the kids have these idiots for parents...

[@dashawnathomas6402]

karma will right he just don't know how to stay commitment to one female he's nasty as hell

[@brendakabanda2181]

@@bryanbeeman5256 exactly

[@padlamini8850]

I feel sorry fr her too dt she realize late wat kind of busted he is. 😩

[@mitchellmoss3066]

I think judge Toler should do a meet and greet

[@kiathadiva7]

L maooo did this dude say he's irresistible????......what is he smokin????

[@meskyb9052]

kiathadiva7 I know I was like what?

[@Ria19907]

I was like...Boi if you don't get ✋✋

[@sasha-kayfuller5821]

kiathadiva7 dwl I was wondering the same thing and he's not all that

[@JaNequaDesiree]

With them uneven teeth.

[@sasha-kayfuller5821]

Ja'Nequa Wise lmao!!!!!

[@savannaguffy3751]

She is gorgeous she can move on and find better

[@johannajoseph7945]

That's why my mom always told me you can't be pretty then be pretty dumb

[@TAYTHEToxicKing]

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[@melpho3635]

This was sickening to watch.

[@p.r.9982]

This is exactly how I felt!!!

[@quichequiche3177]

Mel Pho Judge Lynn made me emotional. She was so angry and out done!!!

[@brendakabanda2181]

Beyond sickening

[@latonyaking1551]

Hurtful 2 watch

[@KnottyCeltic]

I had the same visceral reaction by the end. I felt sick for her. And I felt sick looking and listening to him. He's not human. He's like a psychopath and being a judge, Judge Toller recognized that and warned her off him.

[@bribri0786]

I will never understand how people can come on this show seeking marriage advice after they've already conceived a child with the very same person. If you're not sure you'd marry someone why have a child with them? Birth control really isn't that hard....

[@thornabloodheart2598]

Britt Brat birth control isn't 100% she could have been on it and still gotten pregnant. Don't be condescending just because you don't like someone's choices. Poor choice or not, it's her choice and we all make choices sometimes.

[@fortunate1forever670]

Amen!

[@tatianadaniel3569]

@@thornabloodheart2598 Birth control isn't 100% so why take the risk of not truly getting to know the person before getting pregnant? The previous comment made an incredibly valid point.

[@jjdesigns5558]

You never had sex without condoms someone you thought you would be with the rest of your life? People make mistakes is up to you as a person to learn from them

[@WriterOfMany]

@jjdesigns5558 my reply to that is NO. We're not having a baby until we're ready and married. Mistakes happen, I get that, but far too many people need to more responsible and need to cool their jets and remember playtime has consequences.

[@asouthernwriter]

He was arrogant and stuck up at work, so you decided to date him anyway? She had all the signs are still refused to leave him. Both need to get their priorities in order. I feel sorry that she got pregnant by him. People move from relationship to relationship too fast, and wonder why they don't work. Just messy! This guy is an a-hole!

[@vanhoot2234]

lol there is a reason why everyone didn't like him at the job

[@Bubbleyumizchewi17]

Love makes people do odd things....

[@October3074]

Joyce J / ASouthernWriter I feel sorry for the baby, not her dumb ass.

[@pasorie8490]

Joyce J / ASouthernWriter he’s an a-hole. She saw the red flag from the beginning.

[@quichequiche3177]

Joyce J / ASouthernWriter She should have gotten a clue with that phone call he made. if he can embarass her like that...she eas foolish. it happens to the best of us, BUT DAMN!!!!

[@AshaL2377L]

Dignity should be on the teaching syllabus in school systems.

[@meskyb9052]

Hayat237lul and the Definition of MAN

[@meskyb9052]

Realjayrome Dignity = self worth , the boy was prostitution getting paid for sex and he doesn't think that is wrong

[@bryanbeeman5256]

Realjayrome- That's right, and they're simple minded. She KNEW EXACTLY what she was getting into. She with her "Oh, he's leaving her to be with me; I know I'm a bad chic" self. You get what you pay for and buddy she's paying big time.

[@sigerg82nwtbs71]

She's not going no where.smdh

[@eyejusskant]

I had to share these words on my social media!!! This is truth if I have never witnessed truth before.....

[@ericajohnson209]

I wish they would just say "Woman" instead of "Female." Drives me nuts! Lady, woman, girl, etc., sound so much more appropriate then "Female."

[@patp2690]

Erica Johnson Personal issues lady...let people talk the way they want. Who are you to correct grown folks?

[@Hollablackgirl93]

Erica Johnson I always cringe when someone says 'female'.

[@SpamNeggs23]

It the way uneducated people speak. It’s shows he has now value for women as people but refers to them as property.

[@DeviancyBehavir]

Actually it shows how he places value on people in general. It shows that he doesn't really see people as people, just tools to use or get what he wants. If he were to call them women, instead of females, he'd have to think about them more on a personal basis. That's why it's relevant. But, hey, since you think you know everything, you're just a female. Deuces!

[@bryanbeeman5256]

Deviancy Behavir- I agree 99%. It's not what you're being called, it's what and how you respond to it.

[@colleenthecatlady2344]

Never seen her tear up Marriage certificate before!!!! Go Judge Lynn!!!

[@SamanthaTheAstrologer]

She has.

[@akstylez_ak5037]

Colleen Hardesty I have. Plenty of times.

[@Alexz_Archivz]

Newbie. LOL!

[@VashtiPerry]

@@Alexz_Archivz 😆

[@mlm1916]

I've seen her do that b4; and she's usually mad while she's doing it ! I hope that girl got it, tho'.

[@nessblaze]

Damn the judges advice at the end had me on my feet! Love this lady

[@sharoneh8929]

Burn up the marriage certificate...So right Judge Lynn

[@sasha-kayfuller5821]

The lady's reaction behind her thou when she heard they dated for 14 months and she's 6 months pregnant.

[@Tboogiewitdabun]

Sasha-kay fuller now that's called jaw dropping 😩😩😂😂

[@sasha-kayfuller5821]

Tiara Divirgilio lmao!!!! For sure

[@kimberlyk912]

Sasha-kay fuller That was hysterical!!

[@kimberlyk912]

I replayed several times!!

[@sasha-kayfuller5821]

kimberlyk912 lo!!! Yea, honestly I laughed so hard when I saw that.

[@monawilliams286]

I knew she wasn’t going anywhere by the unfazed look on her face when the Judge was reading what he said. She probably was skinnin and grinnin like she won some type of prize when he called ole girl on speaker phone and broke up with her 🤦🏾‍♀️ This is the same arrogant, narcissistic fool you met at the workplace (when people show you who they are, believe them). I’ve been d***** down properly but ain’t none that good. Children are a definite Blessing but I’m sick of Sistas just having babies by any old body smdh

[@sophismith5855]

mona williams good point!

[@diamonddiamond2024]

U said it all.

[@miareneeslivingroomtalk9683]

‼️‼️‼️

[@JumpTossCatch]

It really is magical thinking at its finest. She saw and experienced who he was off rip....via her co-workers and in their shared employment. But for SOME reason...she thought, "Not with me, he won't!"

[@kiathadiva7]

Girl RUN !!! FAR FAR FAR AWAY!!!!

[@Tboogiewitdabun]

kiathadiva7 nah she chose him! she chose to have a baby with him so she knew what she was getting into...

[@kiathadiva7]

Tiara Divirgilio I agree but NOW she know he's a dog and she needs to take her son and do better!!! And make sure he as good male role models in his life so he wont end up like this poor excuse of a man...

[@dashawnathomas6402]

kiathadiva7 exactly she doesn't need no thot

[@bryanbeeman5256]

All she gonna do is find another man just like him, get pregnant AGAIN and want to marry him as well.

[@Nobodyhome630]

kiathadiva7 She can’t run too far .... she’s pregnant now 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@IrieSanny]

Judge is the person I needed when I was younger. I just love her.

[@misskingstonjamcutie]

She's very pretty. I hope things work out well for her, she seems like a good person. He's no good!

[@dianeddy5890]

she was actually my manager. she's really cool.

[@fionawoods3434]

She is is pretty jus dont get y she got this clown making her a fool😧😧😧

[@mimijules2646]

He trying to be co-parents more than anything..being a faithful husband ain't part of his plan.

[@kiathadiva7]

Did this dude say HE HAS FEELINGS too???... but he has cheated LOL.....BOY BYE!!!!!

[@dinoman4451]

$200 Smackaroos to talk? where might i find 1 of these humans? lol

[@brendakabanda2181]

The nerve of this fool. And he loves oral sex.

[@asho345]

Who told these boys that being a man means being as cold, manipulative, and emotionless as possible? Where are they learning this from?

[@naediggs4816]

Ash O This has been the culture for a while, sis. Sad as it is to say, what's being and has been promoted for some time now is raising men to be and act like sociopaths. That's why they can do this shit with no remorse

[@anthonymckenzie5182]

Tactics we learned from you "girls"

[@sasha-kayfuller5821]

Living together but not together. What kind of foolishness is that. Kmt

[@HeresMyBit]

OK thats what I said!! Pure fuckery

[@sasha-kayfuller5821]

HeresMyBit dwl precisely

[@Learningalphabetandnumbers]

Sasha-kay fuller after reading that they still togther, I came to see the comments. Imma ask the same question. What kind of nonsense is that??

[@ednaaugusta8417]

Sasha-kay fuller te

[@DeviancyBehavir]

She's trying to save face, she's played herself in a major way and don't know how to get out of the situation. Probably playing the I have so much invested in him game.

[@Just_us-2]

The saddest part of this sad situation is that I believe that she already knows that he's who he says he is but she's willing to stay anyway. The guy is arrogant self centered and sorry.. She should have taken heed to the way that he broke things off with the other female (over his mobile phone while on speaker). And btw I'll bet that he hasn't changed his number and will still go by this other females house for money because he's an opportunistic LOSER.

[@sharoneh8929]

So sad. The drama and the trauma. I wonder if there are deal breakers...Love ain't support suppose to hurt✔💯 He is too messy and low-down!!! Red flags all over this relationship🚩🚩🚩. He is so entitled💯✔ Run girl 👟👟👟

[@seangriffin6527]

I'm done. This grown ass man said do the nasty lol..

[@jaeraee3437]

He is a mean guy and immature ..

[@keishawilliams7546]

Taylor John let's not forget ugly

[@meskyb9052]

Taylor John I am not sure if he's mean but his upbringing was so wrong I know a few black men who believe the woman should cook clean , do everything and he doesn't have to bring much but his Penis , it's his mother's fault she put up with a boy like him and he taught that is normal

[@bryanbeeman5256]

He's 24 and yes he's selfish, but I'm not putting that all on the mother. She may have enabled him, but he grown. These simple women keep falling for him so that's what they get. Quit trying to hold other people accountable for a single person's actions. He's showing you how he is, show him how you're not interested in that foolishness brother not being with him... Is that too much to ask for???? Apparently it is, because you can look at the show and see so many of these types of guys just leaving women and making babies.

[@drknow1997]

He is 25 years old. What do you expect? Most guys that age are mean and ugly.

[@Nobodyhome630]

Taylor John Extremely Immature.....

[@Nautyivu]

Mr irresistible.. all the money u get you couldn't fix ya teeth? 👀😭😭 oh okay

[@inspirationalt2143]

Kay Khronicles lol😂😂😂😂#amess

[@princejacobmacauley]

Lol you are crazy.

[@JyustMi]

Kay Mainval I was thinking that. 😂

[@latishaross8270]

Hahahahahaha 😂😂😂😭😭😭

[@sr3549]

His teeth look like when you wake up at 8 and got work at 8:15 and miss a button on your shirt. Oh well

[@inspirationalt2143]

Shalom Robertson 😂😂😂😂😂rel life tears...hella funny👊👊👊

[@October3074]

Shalom Robertson they look like a pair of dice.

[@Tasticks526]

Taquan wasn’t lying when he said Tenaja is simple minded. She is! His responses on the compatibility test should repulse her enough to move out and stand on her own, but they’re still “living together but not together.” Yeah, okay. 🙄 No need to prolong the inevitable. He’s not going to be faithful and he knew just what to tell Tenaja in those short months in order to get her to this point. Some men use impregnating women as a form of control so they can always have access to their lives. Not to mention, Tenaja sounded like she thought it was cute that he called women up in front of her. Girl, that was a con! A man who’s about his business doesn’t need an audience. Had her feeling all special until she realized she’s just going to be baby mama #3.

[@helena3631]

the live in nyc rent crazy expensive and they dont have high paying jobs ..a decent one bedroom 1500

[@mlm1916]

@Tasticks526 : I do think that she is simple minded. Do you think she understood what that meant, tho' ? Her lack of reaction, when Judge Toler revealed his statement to her, stunned me‼️

[@jo-annbastings]

@@mlm1916 that’s why it gave a vibe of that broad being simple minded.

[@bryanbeeman5256]

Judge Lynn- "Now you know who he is and what are you gonna do about it?" Her look... crickets.....speechless 😶 That's why I'm asking the Lord the bless me to be here to continue to raise my son and daughter and teach them to use their intuition, intellect, and knowledge to make better decisions to not end up like this or in this type of situation....

[@elena-lc4uk]

She is going get another low dude and he will get another women

[@nnamdiphilip3011]

I still don't understand why a lot of women keep on settling for less when they can get the best

[@Marc98338]

Because she is with him lol. That already says enough. Its not about what you can get. This woman clearly has the picking abilities of a 4 year old. So thats what she deserves...

[@meanguyy2]

Women stop giving dudes like this your time and attention they're men who only want one women but you won't find him dealing with lames like this dude

[@erinjohnson4273]

Right on brother

[@brishaberries0101]

The ex boosted his ego, and it boosted the gf ego to see him choose her over the ex. It's sad to see a man take advantage of a woman you know loves you and you don't love her.

[@ThePrettySweet79]

Simple minded...sounds like he was right about her. Living together but not together...Okay! Like Judge Lynn said, she not leaving him.

[@shayeillo6074]

I knew she was going to stay. He's disgusting.

[@angelabaldwin9889]

Some women love to be dogged walk.

[@iluvdant]

These comments are about to be liiit! This is a complete “smh” case!

[@bryanbeeman5256]

Let me say this: Stop defending this woman. She knew what she was getting into. All of these women did. They are just as irresponsible as he is. I don't feel sorry for no one except for all these kids having to be raised by these irresponsible and unaccountable people.

[@inspirationalt2143]

Bryan Beeman 100 could not have said it better myself👌👌👏👏👏

[@Shechatsalot]

She is pretty.

[@bryanbeeman5256]

Crissy samuels - Pretty ignorant

[@tripleekitchen...6676]

He's a narcissistic..

[@angelabaldwin9889]

To the bone

[@stepdbull2941]

Yep

[@Sydonnewarren]

One of the worst types of guys to get yourself involved with. Get out of there girl!

[@addicted2love57]

Wow 😲 all that money he took from that other girl and he never used any of it to get his teeth fixed? Go figure. Oh well I guess he’ll just continue using that front tooth as a beer opener

[@starisesun7692]

Hell nah 😂

[@coribuchanan6947]

This dude is a shell of a man...so so sad. He has such a twisted view of what a man is. This girl...no better. It just makes me sad...especially for the kids.

[@bryanbeeman5256]

Cori Buchanan - Kids from broken homes seek out others like where they came from... It's what they know. If you notice mental retarded people fall in love (their version of love) with other mentally retarded individuals. Do they have a lot of problems?? Yes, but they identify with each other. You don't see one mentally retarded person with a person that's not mentally retarded. Same thing with simple minded, damaged people. Just stay away from me...

[@dashawnathomas6402]

Cori Buchanan ikr she dont need him period

[@coribuchanan6947]

Dashawna Thomas period

[@kre.7339]

Red flags are all over this mess!! She should run fast as she can, but they're still living together. Sad. Judge Toler's real talk didn't do any good. When she finally learns the heartbreaking lesson, she's gonna be bitter and broken.

[@pdonwarrior453]

When relationship start out as immoral, they never end well. Remember he broke another girl's heart to be with her. She has allowed him to mess with other women, take their money and she still sticks around. The judge knows that she is going to stay. She is pregnant with her first child, why would she want to raise her child by herself.

[@ashleya.7481]

She's not going no where smh ladies know your worth

[@erinjohnson4273]

Amen too that! I know my worth after being out of a relationship going on two years. I'm waiting for my real King to find me. I refuse to settle out of lonliness! Been there and done that

[@nildabridgeman8104]

Absolutely

[@mariemells3510]

Man bye! Take care of your child ,and leave that fool before he brings you back something !

[@bryanbeeman5256]

Marie Mells - She is uncouth just as he is...

[@tumama030]

If you don't listen to nobody u betta listen to Judge Lynn Toler!

[@sasha-kayfuller5821]

I like guys like him who tells you straight up how it is, so if the lady stays its her choice and she can't complain about anything that happens. Judge right he gonna do all that shit but she as to know what she wants. Hope she leaves for good and do good for her and the baby.

[@jamesgibson3716]

I hate to say it, but you're right. How do you get knocked up AFTER 6 months???? This is messed up on so many levels...

[@sasha-kayfuller5821]

James Gibson true, but I have a pretty good idea how smh its such a shame thou

[@sasha-kayfuller5821]

Carl Smith yes he his but he made it be known that he is so whose fault is it that she got hurt? If I didn't answer it means I didn't get it.

[@baitprojects9759]

People get pregnant on one night stands too you know. Condoms and other birth controls are not %100.

[@akstylez_ak5037]

Sasha-kay fuller Yes I can also appreciate that as well. It is up to her to be along for the ride.

[@ladyd6335]

I love how Judge Toler let him known how worthless he is.

[@tummieflowers2681]

Lol, me too.

[@CherylJ7501]

Dude you are a legend in your own mind. Young lady go your own way

[@jamesgibson3716]

First thing. She favors Crissette Michelle.

[@monicaclasener]

He's only interested in his needs and wants and cruel in getting them fulfilled. There's something seriously wrong with him.

[@mdniteeagl1647]

Co-parenting roommates? Are you kidding me? Tenaja, punt him to the curb! What exactly is the point - to *watch* him date all these other women and treat them like he treated you? What kind of example is that for your son?

[@kimberlyk912]

MdniteEagl So she can pay the bills!!

[@mdniteeagl1647]

I'd look for other housing arrangements if that's the case. I'm sure Tenaja can get more reliable assistance from family and/or friends.

[@bryanbeeman5256]

MdniteEagl maybe not...

[@bryanbeeman5256]

Quit fooling yourselves, this is the best she can do for right now... She has no self worth. If she did, she would have been left... Judge Lynn knows what she's talking about. This girl ain't going nowhere no time soon.

[@TheSaintb23]

All I've seen is the intro and he's clearly out of the relationship! Where's her mother and family because he doesn't want her.

[@starlight7825]

The man in the audience at 11.00🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jonathanholloway2317]

LOL........................

[@jazminegraves19]

Where is her mother

[@JARRAE_DIEZ]

This is the type of dude women go after then get mad 😡 when he leave for the next lol 😂 and never gave a chance to the guy who treated them like a queen 👸🏽. 💯💯💯💯

[@gorgeoustgirl]

Never see Judge Lynn like this before. She was on fire! So passionate about the lady's happiness. Hope the lady moves out and moves on.

[@akstylez_ak5037]

This was a great and insightful episode. I appreciate him being honest, upfront. And I’m glad the judge was able to pick it apart. Girlfriend please take heed of this info. You have one baby and don’t have anymore. Judge Lynn spoke true facts and I stand by it. Run girl run. Before you have many more years of heartache

[@okaygworl]

Hopefully he sees this but he's VERY resistible lmao

[@ninanano]

He thinks too highly of himself

[@briannerucker1071]

that last line took me out. If we dont stay together, we'd be the best co parents ever LOL

[@tummieflowers2681]

Swaby is NOT ready for marriage. When he said that every dog has it's day, I was speechless. He constantly cheats and lives off of women. Taking money from his ex makes him less than a man.

[@donaldneil2020]

Which part of the 5 boroughs they at so I can avoid them

[@nildabridgeman8104]

Uptown Manhattan

[@reina2081]

Lmfao Dude at 10:34 has me dying bruh!!! His face!!! 😂😂😂💀💀💀💀

[@Tiff0324]

She knew who he was and still wanted a relationship with him, i can't completely blame him because this guy is so straight up with who he is and want he wants. She should have ran, maybe she has self esteem issues but i hope she works on herself for the sake of her child. Good luck

[@bakihanma6770]

14 months is not long enough to decide to have a baby plus he already has 2 other kids, why do this to yourself? My people are so dysfunctional. So now another child born into a broken family.

[@fr671]

I want to know the woman giving money to a man for attention. Give her my number

[@bryanbeeman5256]

Reggie J --- 😂 😂 😂 Me too

[@kywii85]

yes Reggie... get your money

[@dashawnathomas6402]

Reggie J right

[@trendygirl3489]

Reggie J if I give you the number, will you give me a finder’s fee. Lol

[@fr671]

Trendygirl 34 Sure

[@Weeeewriter]

*Why are these mothers raising their sons to think that a woman is made to serve him? A relationship is a partnership, double standards don't apply. Women want a man, not a boy who thinks he can. Grow up son.*

[@anquentinwilliams2764]

This was very hard to watch. It's sad how many men walk around with his mentality.

[@rescueistheway4470]

still living together no way!!!! man women really need to work on their self-esteem for real....

[@Terrence915]

I hope she honestly doesn’t stay with him for the sake of the child. I believe in 2 parent homes but his son DOES NOT need to learn from him. He’s toxic in an insidious way. I hate that she procreated with him knowing how bad he was.

[@naturalself9]

Run girl 🏃 RUN

[@dakotachenoa474]

I feel so sorry for this young girl she doesn't know about these dogs in the street and she seems so trusting!!

[@savannahdonaldson1585]

First of all, any man who feels their entitled to do things like cheating on the person they claim to love, degrade that person, disrespect that person, etc., is no man at all.

[@mlm1916]

She does seem simple-minded. Her lack of reaction to being told that he said that about her surprised me a little. How she felt special b'cos he called that other girl to 'break it off', but he still was seeing the ex, that alone should've warned her. I hope she gets herself together ... I really do.

[@architectmathenge36]

tbh she saw the red flags and ignored them lol

[@bryanbeeman5256]

The naive comments are too sad on here... What's this "I feel sad for her/I feel sorry for her" mess. Did you not watch the episode? I guess being a therapist allows me to hear what people are saying past the words. I don't feel sorry for her, but I do feel for all of those kids having to be raised in the manner they will have to be raised. Most likely damaged because none of these individuals are responsible or accountable.

[@shacoyasamuel8114]

Lmaooo this is my daughters father who have been running from child support court for months now ‍♀️‍♀️ Yes she did stay with him smhh not surprised being that she stayed with him after finding out about my daughter mid relationship & still continue to stay as they live together & she sees first hand he does nothing for his kids ........ thank god ii left him when my daughter was 10 months Been happy with my guy ever since who’s a great father to my child ♥️ & my child is very happy & well tooken care of ii don’t miss a beat 👩‍👧

[@oliviadeanne3402]

she just smiled the whole time

[@bryanbeeman5256]

At 13:04, the Judge said "He think you simple minded and don't want to give you no attention..." At 13:07, the look on her face says "Well, I am... I'm not going anywhere..." This is why I don't fool with simple minded people...

[@carolW54]

This is why I like Judge Toler, she speaks the truth, and doesn't sugarcoat it ! This young lady is going back for more heartbreak !

[@kardiair2]

Irresistible. Bwoy bye

[@Tea-mf9kh]

kardiair2 haha ha Right😂😂😂😂

[@starisesun7692]

Fr lmfao 😂😂😂

[@CrimeSheTyped]

“I’m gonna change one day she just gotta accept it” PLEASE CHOKE

[@mraims2plez]

Judge Toler is crazy: She said I passed out Joe got me some water and I got back up.

[@HorseGirl4]

Sometimes I get to these kinds of episodes where there is a giant red flag to stay away from these kinds of people. It shocks me when people stay and deal with this kind of abuse... 😒😒😒

[@ayefo7800]

Its couldn't believe that this woman sat there and listened to this guy break up with his then gf. That shit actually made her feel good??? We gotta do better with our daughters and we gotta do better with our sons. Smh

[@Arron413]

I watched the end of the show and she is still in a relationship with him. They are not living under the same roof as non-lovers. They are together!

[@RG-xv5ji]

This dude is a fool

[@dashawnathomas6402]

yo itsme right

[@millah_knows_b3st]

He never heard of turning his phone off, or blocking😒

[@avirgingardenista2892]

She set herself up for that bad juju when she allowed herself to be a witness to that messy shyte he did to the other chick. She found humour in it and thought it wouldn't happened to her. Lol. The only thing is this...you were exposed on t.v. we'll never know who the other chick is. I believe she knew he was getting money from old girl and was spending the heyll out of it too. Then she get knocked up by this fleabag stray dog. A mess. When he does try to settle down he's gone get served a platter with some serious karma. Lol. I really would like to hear a follow-up on them.

[@King-crimson-glory]

Too many kids is been born out of wedlock. girl, you should have figured out if he wanted to be in a relationship before you got knocked up.

[@inspirationalt2143]

At some point in life u have to put the blame where it belongs....you deserve what u allow..#girlbye #keepyourlilpieceofman 👊👊👊

[@dreamianyaundi3208]

Shontera Payton I agree

[@Nobodyhome630]

Inspirational T I see your point ...... I wouldn’t say you deserve what you allow..... but I will say that you have to accept the consequence of what you allow..... good people get treated poorly all the time by people that are manipulative and cruel, and they didn’t deserve it