FULL GIRL CHAT: March 23, 2020

We’re chatting about whether you can have more than one soul mate, if it’s OK to bail on a date if you’re on your period, and whether you should always share your opinion on things.

[@gaila.9852]

I think it’s totally fine to reschedule a date because of your period. No matter the reason, let the person know ahead of time.

[@destineeallen88]

Agreed. If you don’t feel up to it... don’t go!

[@esmejaftha6752]

@@destineeallen88 a

[@SydneyKong]

"You nastyyyy" when tamera said that, i immediately got that's so raven vibes when raven would be like YA NASTYYYY

[@homebody5549]

“If it’s not medical” gosh this is quite insensitive. Who cares about what men think, I dont want to do ANYTHING on my period and it’s our right as women to do whatever and feel whatever when we’re on our periods. It doesnt have to be endometriosis to be really bad! So rude and insensitive on their part😔

[@AishAishBaby]

Exactly. Im super surprised how insensitive they are on this topic. It doesn't have to be medical for it to be “serious“. Some people experience horrible cramps, vomiting, diarrhea and fainting. And a pill won't fix it.

[@asiyah7714]

@@AishAishBaby the need to get it real bad, so they understand!!!

[@id3389]

Wow, this period discussion is disgusting. I’ve had my period for more than a decade, and it doesn’t get easier to “take an advil” and still be in pain, feel like you’re leaking everywhere, be tired and anemic... mind y’all’s business, let women do what’s best for them 🙄

[@lovechocolatemuffins]

Ikr, what Adrienne said was very ignorant, especially for someone who hasn't experienced that pain

[@id3389]

@@lovechocolatemuffins And Loni, having experienced it, too, understanding that it can get bad... idk what she was on about...

[@amethystwolf24572]

Talk to your doctor. If your pain is severe enough that a pain killer doesn't help, etc. then it could indicate a number of issues, including endometriosis. I'm not attempting to pathologize period symptoms of course, but there is a dearth of education about women's health issues like this.

[@BATOOLESK]

@@amethystwolf24572 i called my doctor and checked everything no medical issues it really is that bad for no reason

[@TheTruthAintInYa]

Nah

[@gaila.9852]

I always find it interesting when someone gets into a relationship, posts a lot of pictures with that person, calls them "the one," breaks up with them, deletes all the pictures, and does it all again with the next person.

[@robynbeckles]

My period is very painful! I'm very uncomfortable and I can barely concentrate if I'm not on a ton of painkillers. I went on a date once on my period, I didn't want to but I went anyway and the date was a bust so that made it worse for me. Could've been at home in bed but I dragged myself out to a date that wasted my time! Never again!

[@berylhall2204]

For someone who loves her alone time, Adrienne has girlfriends and boyfriends for every topic.😆😆😆😆😆

[@stacey6229]

Cause she be telling her own stories😂

[@TheTruthAintInYa]

Right like those people that are forever alone but always with people

[@lifeisbeautiful9455]

😅😅😅😅

[@nich3_255]

Okkk😂

[@_KINGACH_]

Lmao

[@angellll357]

I'm gonna miss Tamera saying freaky stuff and Loni looking at her weirdly 😂😂

[@4KidzENT9149]

Yah I don't like that they are no longer on air, but it's time for all of the ladies to flourish and do new things with their career

[@gaila.9852]

Adrienne, God knows everything that will happen, so it’s impossible for you to “mess up” His plan.

[@snoopz2]

Call the guy and reschedule..... but don’t just bail out or stand the guy up, that ain’t cool.

[@alicia8643]

NAYA RIVERA WOULD HAVE MADE THE PERFECT NEW COHOST 😭💔

[@Julia93939393]

Loni clearly has NOT been in excruciating period pain if shes acting like people with that pain shouldnt cancel plans. When you've experienced excruciating period pain, you need to check out for the day

[@MichelleRom]

This is coming from women who don’t feel extreme cramps. Not only am I in pain, I’m in a horrible mood. I’m canceling lol.

[@GS__]

I believe that 'The One' is what's best for you RIGHT NOW, at this point in your life. You are constantly changing and so are your emotional wants and needs.

[@me7376]

I would really like someone non Christian / non religious at the table for more diverse views on things

[@aaliyahmarais]

Marlene Eichberger none of them besides tam are really Christian

[@rakailw4836]

Aaliyah Marais You are hilarious 😂 but yeah I do feel like Tam is usually the one that brings a biblical view

[@selma8337]

Aaliyah Marais yeah but all of them have the same “religion”

[@morganr235]

Aaliyah Marais Adrienne is very religious!! If I’m not mistaken, she is a Christian

[@disneydisney1490]

morgan r same as Jeanie

[@tamerilee]

Adrienne’s hair looks so soft 😍😍😩

[@poeticjustice8420]

They can't let tamera leave. I need her and jeannie on the show

[@mimibln4639]

can‘t believe tamera is leaving😩

[@princesaskies38]

Rightt

[@naziabegum6379]

Huh? Leaving the real? Why

[@lovechocolatemuffins]

Adrienne, I would gladly swap my period cramps with you, let's see how you "figure it out". I have been in so much pain that I feel dizzy and have to lay on the floor. It would be amazing to see how you "learn how to deal with it"

[@deserieoware7055]

Completely agree. I was like what is this girl talking about?

[@selma8337]

I recommend drink LOTS of water and eating a LOT of almonds, trust me I know how you feel. I had heavy cramps including passing out for a very long time. Not saying it went away, but doing that really made me feel better. Hope your doing okay girll hang in there💘💘

[@lovechocolatemuffins]

@@selma8337 usually drinking a lot of chamomile tea before and during period helps with cramps, too

[@lovechocolatemuffins]

Usually these methods help but unfortunately sometimes they don't work

[@AishAishBaby]

I totally agree with you. Super surprised how insensitive they are on this topic!

[@jaecepeda7752]

Tamera ,who is going to react like you!!😢😢 she loves getting the freaky scoop lol

[@realtalk9404]

My sister is my soulmate 💕 she’s my one she’s the only person who can support me yet challenge me and handle me cause i could be a lot 😂 I pray I find a husband and I’m happy with being in a relationship but my sister is my soulmate

[@pricelliouskapingailunga.5426]

Me too sister squad❤️😂

[@foreverskye4683]

Loni’s makeup looks stunning, just beautiful!

[@MailyNguyengetconnected]

I told my friends exactly how I feel about their boyfriends and usually they'll admit that they feel the same thing after their broke up. It's not about what you say, more usually how you say it.

[@Thetorturedarcher]

why do they always use madamnoire as a source? i never even heard of it...

[@Unknownuser89878]

I've always assumed madame noire probably pays them

[@rashnas4029]

right, i always thought if madamnoire stops writing articles theyre gonna stop having topics

[@lovechocolatemuffins]

They should hire someone non-american or non-christian to have different perspectives on the subjects

[@lovechocolatemuffins]

@stan 1 ikr, diversity isn't just about race

[@wallawizardz]

Loni isn’t a Christian

[@lovechocolatemuffins]

@@wallawizardz she is for sure

[@wallawizardz]

. How? I have never seen any evidence of it

[@lovechocolatemuffins]

@@wallawizardz she has talked about going to church (about how she sat in an elder lady's seat I believe) and many others that I don't know off the top of my head

[@sandraarita217]

I get really really bad cramps so what I learned to do was.. right when I realize or can sense my period is going to come that day I’ll pop an extra strength Tylenol (the GEL capsules) right before they come and it prevents my cramps from getting super intense... ! Really works try it !

[@heythere5817]

Of course soulmates aren't real. Do you really think all of these people out there will be finding their soulmate in the exact same country they already live in. Of course not. It's just about finding who's most compatible with you the most in your lifetime that you come across. And there's nothing wrong with that.

[@gaila.9852]

That's the point though. There are all these people all over the world, and you two found each other in the same place.

[@lovechocolatemuffins]

I agree with you, there are many people in the world that are perfectly compatible with you and saying someone is "the one" is delusional lol The only way I would use the term "the one" is if I decide that this is the one I want to be with forever, but I don't think there's just one person in the world that matches you

[@heythere5817]

@@gaila.9852 that's just not likely 😅 do you really think if we each had one soulmate on the whole entire planet they would really be in the same city as you? I seriously doubt it. Yet most people who claim they are with their soulmate met them in their city, or in their travels. It's just not plausible. I think its dangerous to truly believe their is only one person for you, what happens if heaven forbid they pass away or leave you prematurely? Are you going to be alone forever more because they were "it"? Dangerous way to think.

[@gaila.9852]

Hey There There are people all over the world, and the two of you ended up in the same place at the same time. You don’t think that means anything?

[@miriammwaibula]

I would love a friend like Jeannie but God knows I won’t be telling her some of my craziness coz i know she’s that one friend who’s gonna give it to me as it is. 😩

[@Tegist123]

Hearing this now, I wonder if Jeanie feels that way now and if her ex husband was her twin flame and she and Jezzy are soulmates.

[@natashaa.1035]

My mamma says there’s no mr. right, just mr. right now😂

[@manudid3971]

Tamera: There are 7.7 billion- Adrienne: wHAAAAAAATTT???? Tamera:....people on this planet Adrienne needs to chill with her reactions 😂

[@noahhandel2127]

I think she was saying "Riiight?"

[@MsMak03]

@@noahhandel2127 Correct, she said 'Riiiiiight??!'

[@musicallybeve]

She said 'right?'

[@mapulemampuru6584]

I remember Jeannie at some point saying she believed there are soulmates for a season , not there’s just ONE? Guess we grow and evolve

[@mireillem3150]

"The One" concept is so wrong. So if your "The One" meant for you dies or marries someone else, what happens to them? Die miserably?! 🙄. Love is a choice you make once you have validated the essentials like chemistry, purpose (which varies per person).

[@CJ-dg3bm]

"You naaasty!"😂😂😂😂😂

[@taatiiis]

Loniiie looks so beautiful 🥰 she should keep forever that makeup stylist. 💖

[@EggandBanana08]

I prefer if the stuck to guest co-hosts so we can see a variety of personalities and opinions. Especially if the started bring non Christian, other races and nationalities as well

[@tamerilee]

12:11 Tamera’s voice is so lovely and pleasant ☺️☺️

[@gaila.9852]

I think people call someone "the one" while they're with them, but they're wrong until they actually find "the one."

[@SydneyKong]

"you hope there's a two" LMAOOOOOOO AHAHAHAHAAHHAAHAHAH

[@andileduma417]

I'm starting to think Addrian is me, we have so much in common, opinions, mindset, principles... Etc😂

[@tamerilee]

Loni “if it’s not medical...” 🤣🤣

[@loganchugg6847]

When you know you know!! Tamera hit it. I do believe there may be more than one “soulmate” but when I met my wife I KNEW.

[@JordanDion]

I am a formal talk show host and this is a show that I'm Dreaming to be a host on one day:))

[@anieshaevans65]

HonestyLove tam and amanda just left. it would be amazing to see you here. 💖 praying for your success mama

[@JordanDion]

@@anieshaevans65 thank you so very much really really appreciate the encouragement,, Please stay safe God help us

[@reaperinahoodie8386]

I hope you get to 🙏🏻💜 be safe and good luck to you!

[@sunnyside1419]

One of her videos says how to whiten skin. We don't need a selfhating black woman nobody on the show

[@reaperinahoodie8386]

Sunny Side I took a look and it’s about dark spots, not your whole body. I can see what you mean though.

[@martam.9818]

I love Adrienne, but the assumption you have to „figure your period out“ is really insensitive. I have endometriosis, I take the max Dosis of Ibuprofen during my period and I still can’t do anything. My endometriosis was just diagnosed and there is a lot of women who suffer from endo without knowing it, because it’s so hard to diagnose it. A lot of women really suffer during their period and everyone who doesn’t should just be really happy instead of telling other women to „figure it out“ who have a different experience.

[@jazmin3376]

i feel you. i jus had a laparoscopy in april for my endo and it hasn’t done anything. nobody talks about the depression and pain that comes with jus having a period. people think it’s jus sticking a pad on and going about your week. try having extensive abdominal pain, nausea, vomiting, and the overall shock of pain. it’s sad women have to live in silence about something that should be dealt with and treated. i’ve lost so many relationships jus because of this chronic illness and it truly sucks

[@martam.9818]

@@jazmin3376 I‘m really sorry to hear that. I’ve just had my first period after my laparoscopy and the pain was thankfully much better, but it really takes a toll on my mental health that I constantly have to worry about my endometriosis getting worse and maybe never being able to have children. And the depression due to the pill I have to take doesn’t help either. How are you dealing with it? I wish you all the best girl!

[@jazmin3376]

@@martam.9818 i’m a full time college student so i honestly don’t have time to actually sit and reflect on my pain and feelings but i’m pushing through. i hope to start acupuncture to help with the pain and finding a good specialist who actually cares about my health!

[@jasminemania2984]

one time i asked this lady if she was pregnant and she definitely wasn’t i felt so bad & i almost got fired 😬 but i was young and stupid now i know not to ask that

[@0310tp]

adrienne low key mad when they say she cant take them being honest with her LOL.

[@batoolaltaher8971]

I believe that there is more than one soulmate for a specific time and might stay or leave. if they leave they are no more your soulmate because another soulmate will take their place.

[@oneinamillion8037]

I like honesty too Jeanie, tell me the truth!

[@sarahcijntje5067]

Chile😂🤣😂🤣 I’m so much like Tamera😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣 She has that wisdom with her, she’s quietly the frekiest after Adrienne😂and she has a hard time saying them nasty stuff sometimes😂😂 I love her

[@angiei.2788]

I love Tameras earring... anyone know where they from?

[@Bohlaleinabowl]

Adrienne looks soo good with tat hair and makeup and those earrings

[@se6266]

I wouldn’t cancel a date on my period because I like food especially on my period!!!

[@elijahnickson2440]

I believe as people grow that their interests grow with them and that it’s definitely possible for there to be more than the one

[@kristeninglesby3964]

Adrienne is such a Scorpio! YAS Scorpio sister

[@sarankaba1268]

I hate that Tamera is leaving

[@paularubidoux7798]

Don't try to force anything on yourself or him so if it don't work out it don't hurt so bad

[@MinnieMoo48]

Am I the only one who remembers this girl chat and others from earlier than the date the title says it's from?

[@gaila.9852]

I’m with Jeannie. I want the truth.

[@juliannaokike4063]

There are things that are supernatural that I have experienced that I do not always understand.

[@marciajoseph2040]

Love this

[@Shortfoot84]

I am Loni. I mean the best but it doesn't seem to come out right. I had to learn to keep things to myself. Unfortunately, this also means that I must keep my distance because sometimes the honesty just slips out.

[@taongatatendachirwa714]

Gosh. I will miss Tam. Idk if I'll still watch this

[@geminidesai8577]

I'm going to miss tamera 😔

[@yenitaylor683]

Didn’t Jeannie say that you could soul mates for a season?....

[@avamoses974]

Lol yes I remember😂😂

[@mireillem3150]

Girl, people be changing as their life situations change. Lol. Love is a choice, and that's it

[@ppeachdj2832]

That’s true. Speaking from hurt after a divorce. She’s clearly at a different place now. People learn, people grow.. don’t we?

[@dlr7308]

Adrienne looking BOMBBBBBBBB

[@novemberr_]

Loni really keeps it real😂

[@Bohlaleinabowl]

I dont think there's anythingnwrong with resceduling becaus you're not feeling well due to nyour period. You dont have to say it's because of your period if you feel uncomfortable but it's also okay if you dont mind sharing too.

[@lissyio.442]

I agree with Tamara

[@iamporshalove]

Im with Tamara, I dont believe in soul mates

[@COTY2015]

Man I'm gonna miss Tamera

[@Krfran14]

Adrienne looks beautiful here x

[@anthonyespinoza2734]

Loni's face @ 6:43 😂

[@oneinamillion8037]

I would reschedule if it was heavy because I won't have the same energy during my period. Also not feel comfortable. If he couldn't reschedule and I really liked him, I would pop an Aleve and drink an energy drink.

[@oliviatoscano]

Side note does Jeannie only have one earring on???

[@tagaway6173]

No sha has on both sides. Is the design where one is different/longer than the other.

[@paularubidoux7798]

I m a cancer I love everything and everybody. .float on. Lol

[@beth1188]

The one I'm with now I feel is the the one I never felt like this with anyone eles I've ever been with . he is my one my soulmate the one I was meant to love he truly the only man I've ever been in love with it was a ahh moment when I realized that. He has shown me what love is .I believe my exs were all place holders till I met this man this this time in my life

[@paularubidoux7798]

People will be going the limit with it though. . passing out. Holding their head drinking a beer .

[@juliannaokike4063]

Why do women stick there pads together is this suppose to be a trick of some sort? I don't want someone controlling my cycle. Besides that is not going to prevent someone from getting pregnant. What is the reason behind that I saw this over at my other siblings house.

[@blessingbatista7230]

I think u can have MORE THAN ONE soul mate Only ONE TWIN FLAME❗❗

[@paularubidoux7798]

No. You'll be mad if he hurts her

[@teniayowale-adeyemo8509]

🥰❤️🥰

[@victoriajohn7079]

I think if you found your soulmate but missed the opportunity to be with them. I think God will put them back in your life some how.

[@lillianwilliams5510]

Why wear night life clothes on daytime shows The worse,is to feel,this is my soul mate and there isn't a connection from the other person.also if one leaves or dies, does that mean there is no one else. Some people go through life without really having a soulmate. or live miserably looking for the perfect one. or one to replace. Yes there are women who are in pain during their menstrual time.. Also is the date about having sex or having a nice time. We go to work, we continue to do, our daily tasks,but each woman has to know their own bodies, self respect, and morals. There is always a time to speak and not. There is also a way to say everything. opinions are not necessarily to be shared, especially, if not asked. We all have to know when to give our opinion. and to whom.

[@doneecemcneil7826]

Hi edagdwg I'm soooooo blessed to enjoy my life because god has blessed me with the gifts of. true love from the inside out it's real that is a special gift from god only linda j. Peace

[@doneecemcneil7826]

Hi edagdwg god teaches us to be free because he already knows us already true love comes from god only no matter who you are blessed to feel gods gifts of true love from the inside out Linda j. Peace

[@jonk6248]

HOT TAKE FROM TAM

[@refiloesemethe9947]

Tam people are stupid and I am probably stupid for thinking this, cause I think I am thinking what they thinking when they ask whether you gon have twins. I dont think it had anything to do with your size. I just think that because you are a twin, they autimaically think you gon have twins.

[@BATOOLESK]

ADRIENNE 👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻 iam in my 30s and have SEVERE PERIODS !!! And no its NOT MEDICAL . Its how i was born .

[@dmemcfc3]

Well since the show is called (The Real ) that means the women on the panel expect the real from the public, so i've got to say this about a comment i heard from one of the panelists on the show which made me look up at the television to see who's mouth that came from because i don't watch the show but my girl loves it anyway i'll get to it and the thing what bothered me was when i heard the big boned black woman say to the Asian / Chinese woman something on the lines of you and your people will know referring to nails manicures and pedicures making out every Chinese person knows how to do manicures and pedicures that's about it other than their food, long story short to me it was straight ignorance and coming from a Black person she should know better, I didn't like it personally its made me feel uncomfortable for the way not one person on the panel or in the audience acted as if they didn't hear it there was just an awkward moment which lasted for a few seconds where the whole entire audience and panelists froze it could've been an advert for the saying ( The cats got ur tongue ) because no one had a thing to say i just said to my girl that's out of order what she said there because she's automatically labeling the Asian/ Chinese woman she's basically just being nasty to her fellow panelists as well as being on The TV i would also say that she is unkind because it's not as if she is dumb she's on a tv show and she's not ignorant to the fact of talk like that because she would've been a victim of it herself one time or another through being black so yeah when you rule out them two things ur left with a person who's got certain ways which are not nice.

[@amandabear3531]

My mom and dad be together over 44 years now and me and my man be together for 9 years now but I really don't believe in the one I just believe being in love with my man god kwow how to help people and us he loves us

[@trendalecharon7021]

Loni a Damm like she gone say something girl bye

[@thetruthsetsfree2012]

_Come back to Me precious child ~ Jesus_

[@paularubidoux7798]

He needs to go. . I don't like him. . I care about my friend first

[@lifeisbeautiful9455]

But you got married people out here looking for affairs… so no I don’t believe there is one person… the only guarantee in life is death.

[@aaliyahmarais]

How is Jeannie Christian but believe in past lives like a worldly Christian ?

[@joaopedrobispo4783]

Maybe she's reffering to past lives in the sense of recent past. For example: 10 years ago, I had a different life than I have today, so with that being said.... that was my past life.

[@boluadebekun9370]

Jeannie has backslid she was stronger back in the day when she was with Freddie but now it seems more like she’s ‘spiritual’ Vs having biblical standards Unfortunately....

[@aaliyahmarais]

Being Bolu agreed

[@Robyne2]

wrong date bye

[@doneecemcneil7826]

Hi edagdwg only god can bless us with another true love Linda j only god can give you another life to love someone else you become someone elses true love and god takes us away from that person for sharing them Linda j .peace

[@trendalecharon7021]

Men don't do loni need to stop

[@dilveensingh2806]

Riscajal Riscajal Reskejal

[@blendkurdi9087]

I love you so much 😘😍💕💕💕2:27 💘❣️👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨