FULL GIRL CHAT: May 22, 2020

[@twentysvn]

I think it was weird and too much and meant for the camera. The ‘grown folks’ comment felt really weird. It was really cringey and done for the gram. I hate parents doing too much on the internet.

[@RC-dp1gu]

Yes it was wayyy tooo much.

[@Amy_Nicole_Sabas]

i generally believe in PDA being healthy for children to see but my problem with the video is the way the mom was looking at the child while doing it and talking to him about "grown folks stuff" like they were purposely making him uncomfortable. it made it seem like it was intended to be sexual and raunchy when she acted so matter of fact about it. that video felt like a violation to the child because of those actions. rubbing sexuality in your child's face in that manner can cause him to shut down and not want to discuss those things with you because of the uncomfortable way you introduce it.

[@olgak5955]

well said! agree

[@bgkaay8]

Exactly! I noticed that right away and it was weird how they didn’t pick up on that. Context is everything

[@akilahking2516]

Exactly! It was a comment which wasn’t loving at all!!!

[@KaySparkle]

There was no rubbing sexually at all. he didn't touch or grab his ass, they kissed once, no humping. And she said "grown folks stuff" because he shouldn't be doing dis not because it's "inappropriate", because it's not but because he's to young for girls and focusing on dem anyway. Yall are looking to bring a good black man down because he wants to show his kid plus other men out there what it looks like to love someone besides grabbing womens ass ,etc.

[@marisallanah]

@@KaySparkle exactly! Im still so shocked that everyone has a problem with this. Its Kinda sad

[@missjesuschick]

That’s too much, children should see their father respecting their mother in other ways like holding the door open for her, pulling her chair out. There is much more to respecting a woman than just holding her and kissing her.

[@Strawberryfearsforever]

They can’t see all of that?

[@roseglitter6786]

That was so tame, he just had his hands around her waist and kissing. Its like Amanda said, racial bias and her being a curvy Black woman (even if you are a black woman too.) make you think its more profane than it is. These people were just holding each other.

[@Thisbrickwall]

THISS!!!

[@omphilemoerane2569]

I love this comment. My boyfriend is like Lenny, doesn't like PDA but he's very chivalrous and it's that chivalry that lets people still be able to see we're together even though we're not holding hands and kissing. And to be honest I kinda feel more loved from having my door opened, having my chair pulled out, being offered a jacked when I'm cold etc than from being touched and kissed in public.

[@paulajett2756]

I totally agree. My parents were married seventy years until my father passed at age 92 years and my mother at 89 years. My parents were black. Love can be demonstrated in many ways without having sexual under tones in front of your children.

[@Anna-lf1jv]

Why does Adrienne believe that children need to know that their parents have a healthy sexually relationship? I'm adult TMI

[@Sara-zu4og]

Whatsup I think a lot of it has to do with her not being a parent and maybe naive to the world. Once she becomes a parent a lot will make sense. As with most of us.

[@Anna-lf1jv]

@javi ruiz That might explain why younger women date older men. Do you believe so many women have daddy issues? It seems to be very common. Sometimes it's the in thing, tv makes things seem normal.

[@VellaBella4]

I think it’s because she said her parents weren’t really together for the right reasons. So they were just together for the sake of the kids but not necessarily in love.

[@br00klynnative58]

Fanta well they need to get locked up

[@mariawilliams4737]

Because her tale crazy that’s why lol

[@tessa4181]

There’s nothing wrong with parents loving on each other but watching it, I felt like a third wheel. It was a level of intimacy that seemed like I shouldn’t be there. That’s just me tho

[@TheShanShan721]

Tessa i thought it was weird that they recorded and posted it on social media. So many People over share...the public didn’t need to see that

[@mona-nf3im]

Your not the only one. I felt a little bit uncomfortable.

[@paulajett2756]

Amanda and Adrienne, please understand that children are impressionable. Parents can show affection for each other, but not like that in front of their children. I have seen first hand, how children act out what they see at home. I have seen children as young as seven years old try to do inappropriate things to other children in the classroom. When you ask them where did they learn this kind of behavior, they will answer, "at home, on t.v. ect." Children are very observant, be careful how you present yourself before them.

[@makittlk]

That's exactly what I was thinking, then the kid go outside and do the same. ......

[@just-nadia-and-keys]

Agree... You can tell Adrienne and Amanda do not have kids! Let's hope their perspectives will change should they have kids one day!

[@battle-stormz6249]

Sooooo all these white parents kissing in front of their little kids who feel embarrassed and sometimes say "get a room" and everyone laughs...no one ever scream inappropriate...You completely missed Amanda's point about it not being something often seen in the black community, The black woman's body shape is absolutely the problem here.

[@omphilemoerane2569]

True. I had a friend whose parents were a little too much with the PDA even when I was visiting them (embarrassing!). Anyway, I do believe their behaviour is definitely what made my friend a little fast. She always had some boyfriend and she would always put on a show filled with tons of PDA in front of her us (her friends) and sometimes even in front of her dad. Parents should keep it to a peck on the lips and a warm hug.

[@paulajett2756]

@@omphilemoerane2569 I have witnessed this also.

[@madison.amariiii]

It was the "grown folks" comment for me. I don’t like that she addressed it as "grown folks business" and telling them to mind their business while proceeding to do that in front of them.

[@FlexNFly]

Really love how these ladies are still doing this from home. Many people are dealing with these uncertain times in different ways. I appreciate them being consistent. For some people, this show is comfort. Let's send them some love everyone. We never know what people are going through yet they still show up for work.

[@stephanierojas3709]

Amen to that ♥️♥️

[@Fupababy]

yes!!! bless u ladies of the real

[@anais3580]

" Children should know that ' my parents are intimate, they have a healthy sexual relationship ' " what?? why do your children need to know about that ? I understand giving a little kiss, holding hands, etc. but that video was too much. You need to teach your kids decency. What if your kids grow up and do all kind of stuff in front of you with their gf/bf when they grow up ?

[@pacificocean7361]

FACTS!!!! and today they're not keeping it real

[@britbritnicole]

Pacific Ocean what do you mean? She is being honest about how she feels. They all feel differently about it and that’s ok.

[@hollyshropshire6458]

I just can’t wait to see if she becomes a mom how her views will change😂

[@Strawberryfearsforever]

This video was fine to me. They were kissing. Big whoo.🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Anna-lf1jv]

@@Strawberryfearsforeverit's okay for parents to show love in front of their children. It's the way you do it. The dance was just a little intense and the kid was told you know nothing about this.

[@MajesticMyronn]

I think there’s a way to be affectionate without being extra... and that extra bs where y’all over each other frolicking , kids imitate what they see so BE CAREFUL what you wish for... talking about “ I want my kid to be like...” then when they get in trouble for “showing love to someone they like “ don’t get mad... there’s a time and place for everything including in front of your children... there’s a way to do it

[@CaioGPL]

These type of comments always make me feel like yall were never kids. Kids already see intimacy everyday on tv, it's your job as a parent to teach them about the dangers in that, but other than that, you not kissing your wife or husband in front of your kid isn't gonna change a thing.

[@riwajtv]

kyle l yea but kids needn’t see their OWN parents get intimate. They’re uncomfortable for a reason. Not everything needs to be normalised, yall will keep saying this until we’re okay with them actually having sex in front of us cuz it’s what nOrMaL couples do

[@Ebunoluwa13]

@@CaioGPL it's not about never being kids. I personally feel like there is a appropriate age to be showing such intimacy in front of children when they'll understand what it means. A friend of a friend of mine once got in trouble cause her 5yr old son went around school wanting to 'rub tummy' with all the other kids. The school called social services straight away and it turns out the kid was watching teletubbies at his grandads house. Imagine if the kid had said 'mummy and daddy do it in front of me', straight away that's a red flag and the kids go into care. All because he was too young to understand

[@nozukagirls]

@@CaioGPL My parents always told us to close our eyes if scenes on TV or in movies were too sexual. They let us know it wasn't meant for us kids to watch. They kissed in front of us but their sex life was private.

[@Kadericka]

Myronn Coleman huh? Lol

[@aliciapaquette1131]

But why was the mom like staring at her kid while her and her husband were doing "grown folks stuff"? The grown folks comment came from the moms mouth. I felt icky about it

[@gaila.9852]

I agree. The way they both looked at the child was off-putting.

[@katelyngraham4260]

Its was honestly the dynamic of the video like it was performative and uncomfortable to an extent

[@makittlk]

Am I bugging ? Or these 2 parents were being really erotic, that's not about showing love, that was SEXUAL ! Guys keep it real, even me I would have been inconfortable. 👎🏾👎🏾👎🏾👎🏾👎🏾👎🏾

[@niffylolly9337]

they really were he could just kiss her or do little things instead of slow dancing and kissing like that to me it was just showing of !

[@pacificocean7361]

I agree with you 1000% it wasn't something beautiful like beautiful love it was like they were about to make a porm in front of their child

[@sheeshneesh]

Y’all are tripping. That was not THAT sexual.

[@gaila.9852]

@@sheeshneesh The mom said, "This is grown folk's business." She made it a big deal.

[@TheTonyspik]

you buggin. Cause you a bug a boo You buggin' what? You buggin' who? You buggin' me! And don't you see it ain't cool.. That was not sexual. You want sexual let me put on some cardi B and show you how I pop dis bussy

[@wintress211]

The pda topic: I agree with Tamera, only.

[@damfad6028]

I agree totally with Jeannie and Tamera 100%. It’s a little bit too much

[@saramichele7366]

I'm finding that I agree with Jeannie a lot lately. Definitely not Adrienne.

[@just-nadia-and-keys]

Jeannie contradicted herself when she said she might do that in front of her own kids.

[@damfad6028]

Nadia D I guess she means if she were to have kids

[@raywilliams926]

Why did a couple ladies try to dismiss Jeanie's assessment? Welcome each other's views... You don't have to agree.

[@BigbossBonita]

Because Jeannie make stuff up to emphasize her point, that's annoying

[@shocomoco1867]

Because the Real doesn't do 'agree to disagree'

[@br00klynnative58]

Jeanie has no point.. she makes zero sense

[@britbritnicole]

I don’t totally agree with Adrienne, kids don’t need to know or see everything you do with their dad. But, I know that she grew up not seeing that kinda love with her parents so I get where she’s coming from.

[@jamikaperrin9555]

Loni ain't lying, Amanda took ALOT of heat off of her back. She just sits back and agrees now.

[@lastnamefirst9423]

As far as the parents PDA the fact that the camera was rolling...made me feel like they were putting on for the camera, and that's what makes it weird for me. I heard no music it seemed contrived the son was starring. All of that made it weird. When parents are naturally loving and affectionate I think it's beautiful.

[@patriciabailey708]

No, that was too much.

[@sonrisaverdean757]

I don’t think so lol they didn’t do anything extra kids are just uncomfortable thinking of their parents that way bc of society but being caring and loving should be normalized

[@ariela_]

Exactly that was over the top

[@Sara-zu4og]

I think if the child is uncomfortable with it then we need to respect that and them. Showing affection is fine but we need to know the limits. I’ve heard adults say they wish their parents weren’t so open because it affected them negatively. I agree with Tamera. Let a child be a child, damn! We all know the difference between affection and too much so let’s stop playin.

[@theeelevatedsongstress]

Honestly though!!! 👏🏼

[@samreen2037]

Isn’t it a bit too much for a kid to take in? If you wanna normalise love between parents to your kids there are soooo many other ways which will make sense to a kid! Kids are curious af so you don’t need to stand and start showing them what everything is just for it to be normalised. But okay!

[@pacificocean7361]

Girl you're right that was ridiculous what they were doing. It's a difference between porn and showing somebody that you love them by giving them kisses on the cheek or on the lip and not moving your body suggestively in a pornographic way that was bulshit and they're not keeping it real

[@rebeccamyrtil2696]

Pacific Ocean 😂😂😂

[@samreen2037]

Pacific Ocean I wish Jeannie and Tam start standing up for their opinion and not be scared of anybody!

[@Thisbrickwall]

Also let’s be real. Whenever I was a kid I would get uncomfortable af whenever my parents would show TOO much pda so I wouldn’t wanna do that to my kids. Also to Adrienne, there’s no comparison to pda and breast feeding and cleaning private parts lol. Tf?

[@sabssads]

their faces when loni said she’s finally gonna have them over 😭

[@britbritnicole]

bsbgirl85 why do you need to see it?

[@gaila.9852]

@@pacificocean7361 Let's be kind.

[@jenny-ht4df]

@@pacificocean7361 and her cheap, plastic cups

[@Jodha1]

Giiiiirl my face was the same way.

[@beebee__]

I think that PDA should be normalized, especially in Ghanaian (which my family is) and other African cultures. If you ask most people of African descent, they will tell you that growing up, they never saw their parents kiss, hug, or say, "I love you." I don't think the PDA should be erotic, but I do think children should see parents openly expressing their love for each other.

[@r3cyclexD]

I'm with jeanie and tamera, why is Adrienne saying we need to normalize sex for 8 year olds? so they can start having sex at 12 years old on the playground?? I'm all for love and affection between parents but not sexualization.

[@pacificocean7361]

Dang I am so glad to see in the comments there are some decent people for a change, thank you

[@britbritnicole]

I don’t think she means that

[@ladyrodriguez6811]

adults over sexualize things not children. That clip makes grown folks uncomfortable because they are familiar with sex. A child’s mind does not visualize things that way, they only see affection.

[@ldesigns7790]

Maybe its the drinks 🍷

[@gaila.9852]

@@ladyrodriguez6811 The mom literally said, "This is grown folk's business." The parents are the ones who made it more than it was.

[@joshuamarimpietri7708]

Why were they talking the their child while they were doing that tho?

[@gaila.9852]

Exactly! I'm surprised none of them mentioned this.

[@niemagrimes3407]

It seems like maybe the son asked the question “what y’all doing” and that was their response. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@ms.beautiful]

🗣🗣🗣THE BAD GUY in Discussions I will admit that like Loni said; Amanda has taken some heat off of her!! Loni you need to take accountability for what your opinions are!! You obviously don’t want to be politically correct and you like to stir up controversy BUT you don’t like the backlash that comes with your opinions and comments!! Amanda seems to relish in the backlash and trending because of her opinions and comments!!

[@joshuamarimpietri7708]

What are her opinions?

[@Preah3]

that was too much and then to announce it to the child...you can show affection in a more appropriate way.

[@DM-ek2sk]

Adrienne is just going to always have the same opinion as Amanda, she even sits like Amanda in the chair now, she speaks like Amanda and gesticulates like Amanda. Also for them to say that that should be normalized, I’m sorry but I don’t want to see people (whether my family or someone else) being so erotic in public. It’s TMI

[@paulajett2756]

Maybe Adrienne is the tiny girl who is looking for the bigger and aggressive girl to agree with her. Loni use to come to her defense, now Amanda is taking Loni's place.

[@daphneymarc9420]

I highly disagree with Amanda and Adrienne. I'm a teacher, and kids are in fact very impressionable. I've seen firsthand kids act out things that were very questionable as a result of what they have seen at home. This is not okay, by any means. The mom clearly said this is "Grown folks business. Mind your business" that clearly tells you he shouldn't have been in the room to observe them in that way. To Adrienne's point... we don't need to "normalize sex" they see it everywhere, enough as it is.

[@theeelevatedsongstress]

Right!! thank you!! like man. its literally everywhere. Shoot you almost need to stop you children form watching certain movies. Hopefully they won't have to walk won the street wearing blindfolds on. Goodness gracious!!

[@carlamonyelle1587]

i can't get past the deep frying chicken "applaud" sound LMAO... i love the realllll x

[@wandaprather1960]

That's funny😂😂😂

[@justSymiah]

I love how Amanda has gotten more comfortable in her position and she takes more initiative in giving her opinion ! I feel like she’s very included now , not that she wasn’t before , but you can tell that she has gotten comfortable and more open and has really embraced her position , the real , and the other women ! ❤️

[@gaila.9852]

The parents are the ones who made the dancing more than it was.

[@rainbowchampagne10]

i dont think it was how curvy her body is its just a weird feeling i guess when u know what happens next 😬i agree with tam and jeannie

[@pacificocean7361]

She was throwing shade at Jeannie when she said that, like black women are all so curvy and you don't know anything about that!! that was just shade toward Jeannie, some of the girls are just haters I don't know why, but they got along pretty well before Amanda and seems like they're scared to speak up because of Amanda and Lonnie for some reason

[@gaila.9852]

@@pacificocean7361 I don't think that was meant to be shady toward Jeannie at all. Amanda was making a general comment about society's perception of a curvy, black body.

[@fanoffive9401]

@@gaila.9852 EXACTLY!! Black women are over sexualized on a regular basis. Who thinks about what's going to happen "next" when two people are doing a two step. How sick minded of you.

[@LavendrSkies]

@@pacificocean7361 It wasn't shade. There are curvy Latina and some white women as well. Adrienne is curvy and she's Latina.

[@peachlife5118]

While Amanda brought up a great point about black women's bodies always being sexualized, this was the completely wrong clip for Adriene to bring the topic up on. This woman is clearly dressed provocatively and sticking her booty out, it is not about her curves at all, she looks kind of skinny to me.

[@Gamlinessa]

I look forward to this everyday!

[@nettystylz]

Me2

[@honorarygoonie5823]

Me too

[@moomoocachoo9025]

When Loni kept saying "Like that" I was just waiting for her to pull a Tabitha and say "Like so like that."

[@Muslimahgirl5]

I caught jeanie saying "our kids" cant wait to see her as a mother.

[@MoMorelife]

PLEASE pause at 5:24-5:25 and I apologize in advance for being so childish 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ms.beautiful]

🗣🗣🗣PARENTS and Public Display of Affection Amanda I get that Black women’s bodies are over sexualized because we are more curvaceous BUT I don’t think that was the case in this instance. I don’t agree with Amanda and Adrienne!! No one wants to see couples caressing each other!! A hug or peck kiss is one thing BUT a man’s slow hands glidin over a woman’s body is innuendo!! I agree with Tamera!!

[@CaioGPL]

@Michelle S go away troll

[@ms.beautiful]

Victoria Ramirez I am relaxed and I never said that they were grindin!!

[@plusjongin8807]

i think more than then dancing together (which i don’t think was inherently sexual/there was no grinding), the way the mom spoke to the child about it was...weird. saying “this is grown people stuff” made it seem more sexual than it had to be, instead of just sensual and loving.

[@12Cee45]

I agree with you full 100.

[@jyn88]

It's true what Loni said @11:18 about Amanda taking some of the heat off of her. People harshly criticized Loni daily before Amanda became a permanent co-host. Loni seems to be in better spirits lately at least, but now I'm concerned it'll eventually take a toll on Amanda.

[@jeslovesjesus]

jyn88 Amanda was built for this she’ll be fine 💪🏽🖤

[@taliyahbradford7555]

i remember when adrienne tried to talk about the ‘machismo’ persona and loni cut her off. i dmed her and told her to bring it back up (specifically about bad bunny and yo perreo sola) but nonetheless im glad she brought it back up even if she didn’t see my dm LMAO... i really like Amanda’s influence on her.

[@avafreeman336]

Adrienne has always been a know it all, when in fact not even knowing what she's talking about just for the sake of being heard first or at all way before Amanda arrived, what she knows best our children and young people don't need to know, and she needs to respect and educate herself on what's really important.

[@taliyahbradford7555]

Maria Alvarez-gomez i forgot what episode but it was the same episode when loni was talking about how black men cheat because of slavery....

[@dayannaortiz2257]

I love seeing the ladies evolve! I remember when adrienne seemed to change her opinions when others at the table thought differently and now she stays confident in her opinion and i love it

[@SpikeWillDo]

Loni has made comments on the show that were not right. I don't think that it makes her a bad person, but she was wrong. When she told someone that their profession was part of their white side, when they weren't even White.

[@britbritnicole]

She was joking

[@SpikeWillDo]

No she was not because she tried to defend herself using Tamera as an example. Also even as a joke if a white person would've said jokingly something like "that's your black side coming out" it would be taken very serious. Btw I am latino and I don't like when white people make fun of our culture, or what we do for a living. I also like Loni, she is one of my favorite host, but I just think that if they call out people for their wrong doings they should accept and own up when they do something wrong.

[@DM-ek2sk]

Adrienne literally makes money acting out Amanda‘s part in front of Amanda’s eyes on a show called „the real“ 🤣

[@keabetswemokwena7498]

I'm so happy Amanda is in this show that video was a beautiful depiction of black love. I love it and I want to see more of this

[@TL-yc1nl]

One of life's biggest lessons is if someone doesn't like you, there is NOTHING you could do to get them off of your back. Never place yourself in an environment where you are not embraced, you've been lied on, or where you have been downed consistently. You stand no chance. If you have to co-exist, do so with the most respect and dignity possible and get out of dodge quick fast and in a hurry.

[@TheTonyspik]

That bad guy section was totally low key directed at all the Amanda haters!! And I am here for it! People make Amanda out to be the bad guy for speaking about race and racism. They find ways to pick at every word and opinion she has because people don't like feeling discomfort or being upset or depressed. And that is the feeling that many get, especially white people when racism is talked about. Just like when Tamera and Amanda said if she said about the color blue vs "what about PINK?" when Amanda says black livesmatter many whites say "all lives matter" when amanda mentions antiblackness people go what about white people, or asians, or native americans. And when Amanda speaks her truth and many people's truth people are quick to say "THAT'S A LIE!" because it aint their truth or experience. And like Tamera said "whenever your fighting about something, whether it's SOCIAL INJUSTICE , the person who thinks opposite will find a way to make you look like the bad guy! YAAAAS I'm here for this low key shade to all the Amanda haters!! Lastly I think this was a confirmation that the other cohosts DO like Amanda! Despite the constant attempt of fans saying no one likes Amanda.

[@britbritnicole]

That part

[@mirandajohnson2340]

Say what you want about Amanda, you literally can not deny that she be speaking straight facts all the time. Also Jeannie looks gorgeous 🧚🏼

[@gaila.9852]

They were speaking directly to some of y’all in the comments.

[@ayaan8877]

The two step was fine but the creasing,stroking of his arms and sensual kiss made it too much. Also why was she looking at her son talking about "grown folk stuff" 😂🤮

[@youmadornahhh]

Who what where is loving on a woman considered not masculine? 🥴

[@mattquintana7814]

It’s the act of openly showing affection that people consider not masculine which is totally ridiculous

[@sonrisaverdean757]

In my culture men don’t do that they don’t show emotion to their kids or wife or anytime else. It’s not only loving on a woman but it’s the idea of showing emotion to family members.

[@naylani7790]

That’s what I’m sayin’ 💀💀💀

[@melmortazavi7824]

Adrienne looks like she's going to the Oscars!💋

[@Laelah-he5js]

It's MONDAY, May 25th! 😁 Tamara you guys are ADORABLE! 😇 "Chicago loves THE REAL!" It ticked me pink when you said "Ooo Jeannie you nasty!" 😂😂😂

[@stephanielopez8163]

Wow I'm thee amanda of my family! Amanda I feel you! They can't stand us smart, independent and outspoken women that we are!

[@youtubecommentator9650]

"Here comes race"! - Amanda I laughed so hard, because it's true with her 😂😂😂

[@niffylolly9337]

Adrienna pls hush shes so silly at times behaving like a child, snapping at Jeannie recently, somethings are meant for the bedroom period!

[@GreatRhyno]

I Agree with Amanda there was nothing wrong ,you got to remember kids don't think about what the next step is,they just see their parents being affectionate with eachother

[@llehsir]

PDA Topic: Sometimes I wonder if I'm watching the same video they are The creepy thing here is that they involved the child. It's one thing if yall just walk up to each other and that spontaneously happening. However, to involve the kid in the conversation and then proceed to do that? Inappropriate.

[@user-ce5yh3zx4v]

It's creepy AF

[@jenny-ht4df]

Loni is rewriting history with her bad guy comment. Dear, YOU were a willing participant in the bad guy image.

[@wintertshikila]

I just need to say how great an actor Amanda is. The fact that I had no idea that it was her playing Tiffany proves this.

[@gaila.9852]

Jeannie waited her turn then dropped a gem.

[@leygraham7872]

idk if it's a Caribbean thing but I didn't see anything wrong with it. If you go to a Haitian party you will see a few couples dancing like that. It's literally just dancing. I saw this growing up and it was a little embarrassing, but usually seeing parents showing pda is. It's not like I'm traumatized by it or anything.

[@annasir0la914]

The reason why this show is flopping: if you were to show this video 3 years go it would have been: ''Lies! Doin your bam bam bam in fron of yo kid, have several seats ma'am''. Now we get: '' why do we, as a society, have these preconceived notions about a curvy black body'' like............... we already know amanda's input every time, might as well skip her and her overused buzzwords. Not saying Tamar was an ideal person and that there were no issues between them but this is just boring and bland

[@khaloodh58]

I thin it’s the hand rubbing and touching each in a very I’m in the mood way like if it was cute and they’re dancing and smiling I wouldn’t mind it it’s just the faces and the way they were rubbing each other and lookin at their child like while rubbing.

[@jamikaperrin9555]

Loni's face tho when Adrienne was talking. Lol...🤣😂🤣😂

[@khaloodh58]

Did Jeannie just say “ jay and i would do it in front of my kids” “MY KIDS” “KIDS” ohhhhhh jennnnie are u gonna have...👶🏾👶🏾👶🏾

[@Besh-ls5ee]

Hehe.,,😂....would be cute though if she wasn't hypothetically speaking😏

[@mandys1038]

Would be cute if she does but Jeannie could be talking about Jay's kids since they will be her step children.

[@kayecee5970]

A medium I follow says Jeannie has a son waiting to come down from the spirit world.The son is mixed race so I believe it’ll happen soon.

[@anonnona6433]

11:21 Congrats to Loni for passing on the bad guy baton to Amanda🙊🤩

[@IAmAngelManneh]

They should've showed the whole video. They were grinding and it was inappropriate and weird to do in front of him. That's why the child said can y'all get a room.

[@gaila.9852]

Do you have the link?

[@IAmAngelManneh]

@@gaila.9852 This is the video twitter.com/davidbunmii1/status/1250725458267844608?s=19

[@Minkyb1978]

The parents were doing too much. They can be affectionate without being sexual.

[@RC-dp1gu]

Kissing and hugging is great. But that was too much for my taste. Too slow, long and sensual for in front of another person. Especially a child. And I bet Amanda would have thought so too, if the couple was white 😬 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@kaki_karei]

Nope! Amanda is authentic. Loni needs to take responsibility for some of her misteps and mis-speaks.

[@khaloodh58]

Amanda I don’t think people hate you because you say the truth i think they hate you cuz of your attitude and the rude way you’re delivering that truth sometimes you look like you’r about attack someone cuz they disagreed with you one time i got scared for Jeannie cuz you were hitting the table so hard like you about to attack her it’s not about the truth it’s just about being polite and calm and not blaming your attitude on being passionate and outspoken you can be outspoken and say what’s on you’re heart but not in that way.

[@arianamullins2367]

🗣👏🏻

[@ivorenesmith9003]

And sometimes she just doesn't speak the truth.. like jussie smollett is "lowkey noble" or using an emoji that's not exactly your skin color is tantamount to blackface..

[@issyikhis3449]

@@ivorenesmith9003 but its ok to have a difference of opinion.. you don't have to agree with Amanda.. i see her argue and sometimes gets convinced by Jeannie or Loni.. its called a debate..like i think she and Jeannie are friends that disagree... they both get animated in their arguments but i never understand why Jeannie is always the victim. She is tough and can defend herself.

[@ivorenesmith9003]

@@issyikhis3449 it's her opinion and it's also not true; opinions can be incorrect/false. There is nothing noble about lying like he did. If he wants to advocate so much for the groups that he feels are marginalized, create a charity or fundraiser like normal people.. work in behalf of those people, volunteer... but no, he decides to drum up a false story. wrong is wrong.

[@gaila.9852]

Everyone’s connection and lighting were perfect today.

[@DM-ek2sk]

You can show your children that you adore your spouse without having them to witness actually acting out the bedroom action. Your children will feel the love inside the household. Also there are thousands of people who have great chemistry in the bedroom but they don’t match in „real life“ nor are they good parents in any way

[@lalalinduhh]

Loni: you get LIQUOR LIQUOR LIQUOR LIQUOR AND YOU SPRITS IT WITH SOME LIQUOR!!! 🔥😂

[@JEO301983]

@6:27 Did Jeanie just say "MY KIDS" ? 👀

[@she2hadthedramathick]

we love to see Adrienne's growth!

[@MetraMc17]

Nobody: Amanda: here comes RACE! 🤣🤣🤣sis🤦🏾‍♀️😂😂

[@NaNa-wy2tk]

I don't think Adrienne knows that the uncomfortable feeling the child felt stayed with them for a long time, especially if it happen when they were very young.

[@NaNa-wy2tk]

It's not like being affectionate needs to be taught. It's inherently embedded naturally in human beings to be affectionate to love ones. So unless your child is a fucking psychopath, you don't need to show him how to be sexually affectionate to other human being.

[@earthgoddess_66]

I love all your diverse and sone similar reactions to the same thing and that's why this show is called The Real. You represent all spectrums of your audience. 👏🏾👏🏾

[@zora99ny]

This hair is really working for Jeannie

[@MzChad]

Loving the real at home. It’s elevated their conversation. Loni and Tamera need to speed more tho

[@nantabafj]

we usually refer to God as our dad, our parent, that's how we relate with him.He loves us like our daddy. Imagine God like that? If u cannot imagine your overall creator in that imagination as his child, then it means it's wrong for u to be extreme with your own children like that PERIOD

[@coopercamacho]

I totally agree with Amanda and Adriane. Most of us never seen affection growing up and I personally didn't see anything wrong with their pda in front of their kid.

[@justmemadison]

I think that the conversations being had in that family are what mattered. If they are talking to their child about love, marriage, etc. and also talking to them about their bodies and making sure they know that other people cannot touch them, hug them, etc. like their parents. Parents tell their kids to tell them if anyone ever touches them in an inappropriate way. What does inappropriate mean to a child...what they see at home? Kids are having sex at very young ages these days...if the family is having open, honest conversations with their kids -- it would make a big difference in how they feel about and approach sex, setting their own boundaries, appreciating other's boundaries, consent, etc. Communication that honest and open is what matters. No judgment, shame, embarrassment -- that's what makes them insecure and sets them off in the wrong direction. Be kind and thoughtful about their age and experiences and how scary it is for them. Seeing your parents dancing close for a few seconds is not going to affect that kid in a negative way. It seems like they were trying to get a reaction from him. Oh and people need to stay out of other people's homes and stop judging their parenting based on 1-2 min videos.

[@yamboghini7307]

I don’t wanna know my mom has a healthy sex life.... disgusting bro come on... this crazy 😂😂😂

[@iriswilson2050]

The couple is not doing anything WRONG. My husband and I danced like this and my two boys are happily married and has carried the tradition with their families. Different strokes for different folks.

[@sopekookie7]

For me it was the way the couple were speaking to the child and the tone of their voice that made me uncomfortable.

[@nette9136]

Loni's makeup is stunning!!!!! The "PDA" in front of the child was simply slow dancing and a kiss.

[@Relrellz]

Nothing is wrong with the first clip. NOTHING at all. That is normal. What kind of households do people grow up in? Love and affection is normal.

[@bomme2046]

Loni I want some of that drink tooo! All the splashes and dashes, I need LOL!

[@LABEAUTEADDICT]

No Adrienne, a kid won't be uncomfortable in front of his parents affection if it's done naturally.. so for parents to display that type of behavior "just" for their child to see it, it's creepy..

[@jadechua404]

jeanie: i think like a child also jeanie: THEY ABOUT TO GET IT ON girl.

[@NaNa-wy2tk]

I don't understand the guy's point about how it's good for men to show physical affection to women. Was this ever a common issue and mentality? It just sound like an excuse to justify what he done.

[@marisallanah]

I'm actually shocked people were so offended by that PDA video. Am I the only person who saw no problem at all? I thought it was really sweet...honestly, perhaps it's cultural idk, but I've seen people dance that way at family events. I would say it's sensual rather than full on sexual and there's nothing wrong with that imo, especially since we're talking about a loving couple and a family dynamic. I even think it's healthy for the kids to see real committed love. People are so afraid of physical intimacy it's crazy. I just loved seeing all that Black LOVE ❤️. and yeah the kid was uncomfortable, but that's pretty normal for kids to be grossed out when their parents act lovey dovey. I thought it was fine but to each his own🤷🏾‍♀️

[@NaNa-wy2tk]

Amanda and Adrienne are wrong on this one. I wish the others restricted their overbearing energy and stayed true to their opinion. Jeannie is usually not afraid to have a different opinion but for this one, she decided to be passive.. probably because race was brought up. Amanda was immediately fired up once she realized she can bring race to the conversation, and Adrienne was fired up because it's sexual-related topic. How typical.

[@britbritnicole]

They are staying true and the main one should be addressing this should be tamera because she’s a parent

[@MB-iq9ew]

...Totally agree with Jeannie only!...🥇very wisdom words!

[@rachelisabelpalay]

Adrienne was on one today! Go head!

[@gaila.9852]

Stand up for yourself and what you believe in.

[@agirl9491]

I am that person/friend who always brings up race cause most things in this world are race driven, but Amanda sheeeeèsh you are overdoing it. Damn!!!

[@pacificocean7361]

Ikr dammm!!!!

[@LavendrSkies]

Shut up. It was a needed part of THIS discussion.

[@agirl9491]

Skye A. In MYYYYY opinion it wasn’t, so let’s agree to disagree.