Are Asian Men STILL The Lowest Ranked Males? | BUZZFEED REACT

[@goodbad-boy]

1:24 You guys are the first people I've seen bring this up. I've seen lots of non-Asian men make fun of Asian men as being undesirable, because they see Asian women reject Asian men in favor of other men. So thanks to that, Asian men get a lot of disrespect from other men

[@Revenger3rdUnit]

Majority of Asian women are with Asian men. Majority of Asian women in mixed race relationships are average to below average in looks in my view. Asian men get disrespect because we are kind, safe and good hearted people therefore seen as easy targets. They are just puzzies at the end of the day picking on who they perceive as weak but Asians are strong and don't need to brag as we are humble people.

[@djblanc360]

As an asian guy who's also short, dark-skinned and rough-looking, it took me more time to date successfully cuz I had to build up the other factors that made me more attractive: body, money, fashion, social skills, etc. Yeah its more work than my non-asian counterparts but the way I see it, there's no downside to being a better version of myself. My personal controversial take from watching black and latino men, whom asian women typically want where I'm from, I lacked a masculine frame due to how I was raised: being assertive and leading the interaction. Not sure if its an asian culture, but I was conflict-avoidant and never pushed back when I lived with my parents which translated to my interactions with other people. Also acted goofy all the time, I think its hard to build sexual tension when I was making jokes all the time.

[@familykidsrus5858]

How old are you? if i may ask. My friends, don't focus on the "non-Asians." Focus on building the best version of you. F them all. You got to have that kind of attitude. You don't lack the masculine frame. You just need to build it up. No men is born with a masculine frame. All men are born as a helpless infant. We have to work at it, if that's your goal. Hit those heavy weights in the gym. Eat nutritious food, have the right mindset and you're on your way. Hope to hear from you soon. Good luck.

[@bam6210]

Asian women don’t even go for black or Latino men…you don’t have to work more than a black or Latino man if you’re talking about Asian women..don’t think it was your race you were just fuggluyy lmao or short

[@ImLure]

@@bam6210 if you’re referring to Non-Western Asian Women then you’d be only 95% correct with 5% margin error, but if you’re talking about westernized Asian women, then you’d be wrong in think that. From my observation in the US, it’s strictly based on proximity. Most Asian Women are dating either exclusively white or Asian depending on proximity, but if you go to Cali or NY were proximity to different groups is different, you can see a different mix and match. Even here in Texas, I see Asian women with different kinds of people. Don’t sit here and lie to yourself or people to make yourself feel better.

[@bam6210]

@@ImLure lie? You’re the one trying to make yourself feel better. It’s not that it doesn’t exist, every type of couple exists. But it is rare. Asian women usually only go for white and Asian men. And black men themselves do not go for Asian women often, nor Latino men.

[@MsSammiRoss]

I agree with you and I'm extremely proud of you 😇

[@BTY11]

As you get older, you realize and accept what you're born with. And if a woman is not into me...I'm totally not into her. Find your people. Find the girls or guys that really really like you.

[@UserUser-ic1fw]

Only problem is what if she is into you for your stability? Most asians men are seen as stable choice.

[@coolgamers2794]

*I am that Super Chad Asian American guy who just rekts the entire dating field.*I will say it but to all my Asian fellows; don't be afraid to date outside the race.*2/3 of all my ex-gfs were White and I could give a fk much about what people say. I had a tiny bit of Hispanic, Black, and Asian girls in the past; but throughout my entire life I had nothing but only white girls to hangout or mingle with due to my upbringing with military service. All the white girls would say about me was that they loved my tough charm and that they always felt safe around me. Being a former military Jarhead; I don't take crap from anyone and I would credit my Super Chad status to being toughened up in the U.S. Military in the late 2000s. I am not saying military is the only way to be a Chad. You can build your own Chad status through your own legacy. I am very patriotic as I fly the American flag and will always put American values first before my own ethnic cultural value. This was also how many white girls drooled over me since the average white guy around my inner circle looked like dork and were too full of soyboys. Average Asian guys; you gotta tough up a bit and learn more about how the world is now. Take care of your fitness, physical health, wealth, and values.

[@sebastiank9175]

so totally agreed, perhaps this insecurity usually happen in western borned asians. I am a Australian Japanese and I never had identity problem as a child or as teenager growing up in Sydney , my dad alway tell us to be confident, be proud of your looks and work on the spiritual side of you, he always say a confident and spiritual person always shine from within even though they might not be extremely good looking people. go find the people that appreciate and love you and not waste time on impressing someone that is not loving and open.

[@kreidas123]

Ther problem is really "finding my people". I think by this point I'm so burned out from all the rejection that I just started concentrating more on tennis and pickleball... not exactly the best networking environment.

[@f0gGenx]

@@UserUser-ic1fw Then you get to know them long enough before making bigger commitments. hopefully you have good judgment on whether someone is using you or not. Good luck.

[@SirFoodie1904]

Being an Asian man we are still at the bottom of the barrel,the Asian females even rejected us. I’m no exception I approached an Asian female and got humiliated in front of her friends. The funny thing was while that was happening, there was this tall beautiful blonde Caucasian woman walked up to me and walked up to me hugged me and whispered to me” Sweetie it’s her loss and I want you!”and kissed my cheek and grabbed my hand, and said to the Asian female “Sorry ladies but he’s taken!” That blonde female is now my wife and we have two beautiful children together now. For me it was also difficult to find Asian females because I’m 6’6’ 193 pounds. My wife is also quite tall herself she’s 5’9’ that’s what attracts her the most, she said she’s always been attracted to Asian men but was never approached by one. So when she noticed that when witnessed I was being humiliated in the crowds she took the courage to approach me and I’m so glad that she did. My wife speaks Fluent Mandarin, Spanish,English and French now she’s also learning my language which is Khmer or Cambodian.

[@nevertime1246]

great story!!! sounds so heartwarming. Congratulations to you both :-)

[@monikaherath7505]

This happened.

[@tylerthecreatorsbiological8130]

Bro you tall as hell

[@tuilaXungAn]

Man! Your height is the first thing we can hardly reach up. Bro, you’re lucky af. Congratulations!

[@achillesxiong92]

Bro 6'6" for any southeast Asian is incredible.

[@monique7838]

I’m a Hispanic woman who prefers dating Asian men. I think Asian men are beautiful! However, it’s hard to meet Asian men.

[@alext.9033]

We Asian (western) men love Latinas/Hispanics! Don't be shy to approach them if you are somewhat interested with the 1st impression. Asian men need help with confidence sometimes

[@MsLotusBlooms]

I'm black btw, so I get where you all are coming from. I never understood why women weren't into Asian men. I always thought because they dominated the most intellectual fields, came from good families, and made tons of money, why wouldn't they be top pickings? That's highly attractive in men.

[@jasonfromguitarcenter]

@@alext.9033Wait Until She Suddenly Start Yelling At You For Absolutely No Fucking Reason & Calls You Mamahuevo 🤣 (From A Spaniard)

[@jasonfromguitarcenter]

@@MsLotusBloomsHabla Español?

[@Aspirek2]

As a Korean guy. I hear the “Be confident and be ur self” but you would not believe the amount of girls who won’t even speak one word to me before blocking me because of my looks. It’s disgusting but can’t change jt

[@elisabetecristina6188]

You just are shy! That's why!

[@JohnGosblin]

just do plastic surgery like all the other Korean did

[@monikaherath7505]

From my experience in the US, Koreans definitely hang out together and date each other a lot. I have many pretty Korean friends who say they like all kinds of men, but really only date Koreans because of the unspoken understanding between one another. Why not go for Korean girls? Also, are you full Korean? Cosgrove is a very WASPy name lol

[@Aspirek2]

@@monikaherath7505 yes I was adopted. I have full nationalized citizenship in Korea.

[@deadman123x]

@@elisabetecristina6188 really? That’s what you have to say, you’re delusional

[@familykidsrus5858]

For all your young Asian studs out there, F those negativity around you--don't give them a second of your time. 1. Work on yourself. Get in shape, build up your physique, learn how to fight, (Boxing, Muay Thai, etc..) regardless how you were born. Take the cards you were dealt with (short, skinny, ugly, fat, etc.) accept it and improve it, let it be your motivation, and move forward. 2. Chase excellence--work hard, build a business, or get the high paying job, in other words--get the FU money. Money will give you plenty of options, don't let anyone tell you otherwise, if not, at least, it gives you a ticket at the entrance. 3.Continue to invest in yourself--Never stop learning--build toughness within your mind, confidence, social skills, dress well, get educated, etc.. Don't allow anyone to talk shit to you. F the negative people. Go to the mirror, look yourself in the eyes, and tell yourself you are a BADass. 4.Be yourself, be authentic, have integrity. Think long-term, life is a marathon. Focus on your family, your circle of friends that support your endeavor. Cut off negative people around you.

[@stevest8675]

Excellent advice bro.

[@JackIsNotInTheBox]

What family? If money cannot buy love

[@Aspirek2]

I agree but I should not have to change my body to fit the racist views of”SOME” women. I accept it’s just the brutal true but i will not change myself to fit for someone’s views

[@familykidsrus5858]

@@Aspirek2 If you agreed, then improve yourself. You're not changing your body to fit anybody, it's for yourself. You're not changing your skin. You're not dying your hair blond. If you had a magic button to push that instantly improve on your physique, looks, money, you would push it immediately. Chase excellence, do things you might not like because it's hard. If it's easy, everyone would done it. Don't focus on the about "racist" stuffs and others. Improve yourself in every way, physically, intellectually, financially, whatever it takes to reach your maximum potential.

[@stevechan6244]

we are Brain washed by Social Engineering. Asian men get your Ph.D's and join the CCP as the problem is without China then there is no Asia or Asian men. The CCP Counter Balances the Imperial Gaze and the brainwashing. A WAR maybe the only way to change this. As the US Government promotes it and so too does the White controlled media. Japanese people are disappearing as the US Controls trade in Asia and the Japanese Educational System in secret. To win we may need to throw our efforts to counter balance the Western Hegemonic Imperial Gaze or Social Engineered Processes against all Asian men. Remember IF there is NO China then there is NO Asia. Western Colonialism has not stopped! It just changed its shape in the Invasion of Asia! Ask yourself this? Why are there no Chinese Military Bases around the USA? Why are there bases around all th Asian Countries? Because they want to take our land and resources. Those resources include the Asian Women! As in all battles from all civilizations they take the women! FIGHT! Quit complaining and FIGHT! Step up and work out but do not think that joiniung the US Military will make you American. My cousin has a Silver Star and was a US Marine. Francis B. Lai held the US Medal of Honor from WWII. Did it matter? NO! We are being emasculated and IF China loses then we will lose as well. They may be Authoritarian but they are the Counter Balance to our own suvival. As these White men on here make racist comments and take American born Asian Women then you should understand what happened to American born Japanese too. The women married the gaijin and the Japoanese males all died alone! Is this what YOU want as Asian men? I do NOT think China is our total enemy as Asians. The real enemy is the white guy who says you are American and then stabs you in the back!

[@manilamartin1001]

As a short 5"6" Filipino guy, I just moved back to the Philippines. No reason to live your life alone. Asian men earn double what white guys do in the USA. Just save some money and find a mate in Asia. Anyway, good advice. I would generally stay away from Asian women who had white fever as well as white guys with yellow fever just for my sanity sake. At least when I was young. I also stayed away from negative asian guys in general. I made friends with lots of cool black guys who were more the nerdy type and high income rather than just hanging out with just asian guys.

[@leannewheeler5351]

Isn't finding a mate in Asia what white guys do too?

[@tinyblackmage]

Lots of Asian women have white fever though, even in Asia itself. The difference is that there are fewer whites in Asia, so these women have to “settle” for Asian men. Asian men ALWAYS have to work harder to compete on the same dating level

[@BritonAD]

Good for you! American women aren't worth it anyway.

[@nebhalabir1201]

@@tinyblackmage brutal..

[@doomvictor3934]

​@@tinyblackmageThat unfortunately is the truth

[@TomChenLife]

What are you guys talking about? It’s still happening in the media. The **ONLY** male Marvel hero that got his own movie that **DIDN’T** have a love interest, was Simu Liu’s Shang Chi.

[@mrt445]

It's only one movie, maybe the next one

[@karowana]

That's not true though. Black Panther, Captain Marvel didn't have a love interest.

[@TomChenLife]

@@karowana Watch it again, yes he did

[@TomChenLife]

Not to mention, Ken Jeong is still relevant in western media and he continues to pander to the westerner’s stereotypes of Asian men.

[@redmangoose182]

@@karowana nakia

[@blueberryscone]

not afraid to go right for the jugular. bless you, fung bros and everything you do for us

[@PricefieldPunk]

The Kpop look should not be the standard for asian guys. Thats a horrible standard to try to live up to. A normal asian guy cant wear the clothes Kpop stars do without looking ridiculous and its impossible to look like a kpop star without tons of help/money and effort everyday.

[@henrytep8884]

Yeah it’s a tough one, plastic surgery plus make up. It’s a zero sum game, in fact society might be better if we promoted the natural looks Vs the perfect look. What I mean by zero sum is that it causes people to spend money on aesthetics, which overall is a zero sum game because we already spend enough on aesthetics whether through clothing and make up, so it exacerbates the problem when people on average have to spend more money to be superficial, or conform to a new more expensive social norm to maximize their chances for mating preference, or even landing a job. This is amplified by the fact that housing is more expensive and inflation is higher, so we already have fewer dollars available to spend on discretionary.

[@hlee2]

its all soft power. Until China garners more positive influence, as an asian male you're stuck with the kpop archetype if you wanna get girls. Of course there are always exceptions and YMMV but at the population level Im pretty sure going kpop is the way

[@Football-we4sm]

I don't understand what their problem is. I'm a 6.1 foot guy from Eastern Europe. In my country, I am in the 10 percent of the guys in appearance. It makes no sense for me to go to Scandinavia and be average or even worse than average there. Go to those countries where women will appreciate you, and not reject you just because they don't like your race.

[@ajtam05]

Mainstream Americans could give two fucks about my peoples Kpop in terms of clout and desirability. Again...I say "mainstream"...not the weirdos that love Kpop. Lol...they always existed even before Kpop was a thing.

[@Gnomesmusher]

Yeah some of the Kpop stars are good looking but a LOT of it is also fake. Wearing makeup, the constant hair styling, etc etc. I advocate for bettering yourself and making yourself look attractive but wearing make up and the insane amount of effort to making your hair look "perfect" isn't practical and to me seems fake. Almost any dude can look better with that much makeup... if you're into the make up look. It's too feminine for me though. But hey that's what's popular nowadays.

[@TofuBebe]

As an East Asian guy, high school sucks. No girl has ever approached me or shown any interest in me. I feel like I’m doing something wrong. I feel so demasculinized to the point where I question my gender and sexuality. And the Kpop standards aren’t really helping my self esteem. On one hand, it’s good to have more Asian representation, but on the other hand it’s like if you don’t look like a member of BTS you have no appeal.

[@eternalbraid]

As an east Asian woman, HS sucked for me in much the same way, being one of the only Asians in a school of 2k students. I could feel the unsaid "other" and some more blatant racism along with it. It got better as I get older, and had more control over my environment, and getting more more comfortable with who I am helped too. Wishing you the best of luck.

[@vesselseternity3266]

Dnt fall into the void of lgbt

[@usersixnine347]

Another case of somebody who doesn’t do anything to improve his appearance so he looks for excuses, in this case, your race. Why don’t you take a look at yourself buddy. Do you dress well? Do you take care of yourself? Good hygiene? Social skills? Personality? It’s really not that hard. And if it is you can practice or improve. The overwhelming majority of women do not think about race when dating, just who is attractive. It’s in your head.

[@chontron3456]

Focus on yourself. Get your style on point, hit the gym, eat clean, and get a fresh haircut from a good barber. understand though it’s tough now. It’ll get better. Focus on yourself and bettering yourself in all facets of life and you will get there organically. Good luck bud. Also do not submit to watching pron. It only weakens you as a man. You got this!

[@TofuBebe]

@@usersixnine347 I never said I was looking for excuses. Why would you say something like that? Are you East Asian yourself? I do keep a very good hygiene, I’ve changed up my hairstyle a few times, and I’d say I try to match what other guys at school wear, usually black jeans and some shirt. The main problem I can think of is my height (I’m 5’6), my skinny body, and my typical Asian monolid eyes. I’ve turned from an extrovert to an introvert within the past years due to my self esteem gradually dropping, so no, I haven’t approached anyone with the fear of being rejected and humiliated.

[@iNeverSimp]

I've never had problems with any race of women. I'm Chinese Canadian and have been around all sorts. I'm not even tall. I'm 5'9.5" so just about average. I do look fit though. Plus it helps that I can talk to girls with ease. Look, the majority of girls aren't going to approach you. You have to work up the balls to do it. If it doesn't work, who cares and walk away. Women like guys that know what they want.

[@GinoYouTube]

Dude, i’m Filipino and chicks love me from all races… i just look at them in eyes and smile, and listen to them, and make them feel loved. No none sense… just pure chill, without trying hard.

[@ggh_-ts6pn]

I'm Indonesian. Even among Asians, I feel like there are still "hierarchy" of attractiveness. My Chinese descents (or oriental look in general, can be Japanese/Korean/Taiwanese descents) Indonesian friends are considered the most attractive guys among Indonesian women. Then after them, Arabic descents Indonesians are also considered very attractive. The typical local Austronesian looks with darker skin are often mocked as unattractive.

[@mrt445]

In the west Austronesian would be considered more attractive than the east Asian look.

[@unknowguy7604]

You should be proud of being austronesian. Deeper eye sockets and better maxilla. As a taiwanese man i am pale and yellow with small eyes and envy austronesian people. My face is flat and pale which is bad on men. I know filipino and indonesian men that have a nice tan and look better or manlier than east asians.

[@tre4993]

@@unknowguy7604 at least you’re taller and higher IQ on average

[@GaryHField]

Same with the Philippines bro. Light skinned Filipino males, usually mixed with Chinese and Spanish/American ancestry, are preferred by Filipina women. The typical Austronesian looking guy is not preferred as much, unless he is muscular and tall.

[@sasukeshinobi8537]

What are you talking about? Indonesians have variety of skin type. That’s what makes them unique Asians. Plus our eyes are usually bigger than East Asians and we don’t need plastic surgery. The only problem is our height 🤣 But I think young generation getting taller✊🏼

[@TraOTang]

Asian men are on the rise. Let’s show the world how great we are. As an Asian guy, I do get approached from different ethnicity of girls. Let’s rise together my Asian bro.

[@cambodianpleasuresquad1753]

you look handsome but need to lose some body fat to look more lean.

[@HoodQueen258]

Cope

[@asdasdasd4222]

Maybe from hispanic or black women. Hot white girls don't even consider us as human

[@louielove7514]

Asians got small peepis

[@ImmanDelarama-bm4xm]

@@HoodQueen258 OK Muslim

[@DTKRDMNK]

If you're an Asian Bro entering the dating scene, bring 1000+ bullets and shoot every shot. You're gonna get rejected A LOT. Don't take it personal (it's tough), just keep shooting.

[@justinchan6043]

Just from own past experiences, as a Chinese American guy, I can say that I've gone on a lot more dates with Asian women than any other ethnicity. I just think that most Asian women aren't going to downgrade an Asian dude as much as, say a white woman would. But I genuinely find Asian women really attractive, so maybe I ask more of them out? Or maybe I feel more confidence around Asian women? I dunno. All of that are factors.

[@Razear]

The tides are changing because of the influence of Korean pop culture, even though the women that consume this stuff is relatively niche, but statistically, Asian men are still getting the short end of the stick on dating apps in terms of responses by women. Of course you can mitigate this by interacting with girls in real life instead, but it's a telling sign of how women collectively perceive us.

[@usersixnine347]

Except for the fact that these statistics are done years ago. The very point that the tide has changed is that that isn’t true NOW. How women perceive us? Most women do not see race as the very first thing when looking for a partner. Get out of your bubble.

[@theia1653]

Most will never say it outright but even in real life they are on average more receptive to anything but Asian men.

[@usersixnine347]

@@theia1653 no they aren’t. Literally just to outside and talk to women bro. It’s not that hard.

[@SylvesrerSam]

@@usersixnine347 most women see status and Asian men in America are not the status or hot quo. No famous white woman has ever dated an Asian man in America Even Britney Spears has dated Middle Eastern men despite middle easterners getting no media representation either.

[@SylvesrerSam]

@@aussiedanny28au15 Indian guys can be either or types. They are either unattractive or you can get some who can be Jay Sean or Freddie Mercury level.

[@purporchid8628]

Im a black woman and I’m surprised this one thing isn’t really one of the main points that comes up: non Asian women know that Asian culture tends to favor white or Asian over anyone else. There are a lot of non Asian women I know that are attracted to Asian men, but tend to fall back because even we hear that Asian men (and the societies they live in or cultures they’re from) don’t really place much value on women who aren’t white (American/Canadian/European) or an Asian woman from the same culture as them. I just don’t know how it’d work for Asian men as a whole to be “wanted” by all demographics of women when there’s the perception that they only deal with like 2 specific groups

[@tatjana7008]

my korean uncle grow up around white guys, and was sure all women except white ones are unattractive. My mother didn't understand why he thought so, now she knows why. His friends just inserted this opinion into his mind

[@purporchid8628]

@@tatjana7008 that’s crazy that someone’s friends can mold their mind into thinking only a certain type of person is attractive, as if their own opinion wouldn’t even matter to them. And crazier that they implied even women from your uncle’s culture shouldn’t be considered attractive. Your uncle had some wild “friends”

[@tatjana7008]

@@purporchid8628 well the same happened when I was at school, one guy said he dates Korean girl (not me), and everyone were laughing him off and said why he dates Asians, as they are all ugly. I looked at them furiously, they were scared and said "except Tania(me) and her family". He broke up with her week later, because pressure was quite high

[@shin-ishikiri-no]

Yeah it's just their own self-limiting biases at work. I feel sympathy for Asian men but they definitely need to explore their own racial biases. My overall impression is they have the same mentality as Asian women obsessed with white men, but simply cannot date white women to the same extent as Asian women date white men. Which actually reinforces the stereotypes of Asians as being group-thinkers hopelessly drawn to anything white. Like, half of these guys could find someone if they looked for 2 seconds at Arab, Black, or Latina women, but most aren't thinking that way. When i was in Japan I saw two couples with a Japanese father and (presumably African) mother. Both had kids and seemed content/happy. Rare but it goes to show there are alternative ways to solve a problem.

[@bascal133]

That’s a fact. I think if they were more open minded to dating any attractive person interested in them and not putting white people on a pedestal or just defaulting to other Asians they would have more luck. There are a lot of lovely women out there they aren’t considering due to racial bias themselves

[@janetz1001]

K-pop did not make Asian men higher on the everyday dating scene, it only created more impossible fantasies

[@mashitta5969]

actually it is possible and real life in Korea but I do agree that it would be hard to occur in america.

[@markymark3700]

Asian here. It all depends on how attractive you are as an individual. If you are a confident hot asian guy then it will be really easy to get girls, but if you are an insecure ugly asian then it will be hella hard, in the end its not about being *ASIAN*, it all comes down to an individual.

[@goodbad-boy]

you are talking on an individual level. individually, some asian guys might do well. but on a macro level, asian guys are still seen as less good looking. therefore, it is about being asian.

[@markymark3700]

@@goodbad-boy i dont know where you from, but here in my uni in cali, i dont see any of that problem at all.

[@Gnomesmusher]

I turn 50 next month. And seriously, asian men have it far better nowadays than when I was a young dude. I'm not saying that we shouldn't talk about these issues or criticize but at the same time, I see too many young dudes, not just asian guys, not put in the effort to make themselves more attractive because they've given up or they completely blame the fact that they're not getting women on being asian. It's for sure a handicap. But we don't have a choice but to get over it. Things are getting better slowly. I've seen it firsthand. But you guys need to put in the work to make it happen and not just complain about how things are.

[@accordiongordon]

This is what the Fung Bros would call a micro perspective. Yeah, self improvement never hurts, but it doesn’t do anything to address the root problems. For meaningful change to happen in the favor of Asian men, it’s important to concentrate our efforts on the main issue on hand

[@Gnomesmusher]

@@accordiongordon Yes and no. The micro perspective is to work on yourself. But it also helps us all if we all did it and not give up like so many of us have. If enough asian dudes just put in the work to make ourselves better than it helps address the root problems. It helps change the image of us. But no, I see too many dudes throw up their hands and not even try because they're too busy blaming racism.

[@Uniquenergy]

I literally knew a non-asian guy that played video games all day long, then waited for his Asian girlfriend coming home from her finance job. She literally pays the rent and everything. The guy does nothing at all except maybe bang other girls while she's not home. They were in a long term relationship for almost 7 years before he broke it up. She was complaining and blaming herself that she didn't try hard enough. Of course she tried to get him back long term, but instead became a door mat for the guy. Mean while other Asian guys that have their shit together, good job, personality, etc try to get with her, but she turn them all down. I think your 20-30 years ago was better for Asian guys because you didn't see Asian girls selling out.

[@Gnomesmusher]

@@Uniquenergy Haha trust me. Back then there were plenty of white worshipping asian women as well. It's always been like that.

[@Daniel-ld7xs]

Agree but it’s just so irritating when some insanely mid dusty/crusty mouldy cheese smelling looking white boy gets some pretty Asian girl 😂 like wtf have some respect for yourself

[@ricerice566]

My brothers in Christ, it starts first with good hygiene and a little bit of cologne, always. Then personality and confidence. But what I will say is that the online dating and pick up culture in the West is horrendous and we will never see a Western world where Asian and Western features standards of beauty will mix seamlessly. So cry about it a little bit, and then move on. That's it. Heads up, kings.

[@mrt445]

You're caring way too much about what white people think

[@ricerice566]

@@mrt445 To say it's just white people is dismissive. It's the western experience, so that applies to any person raised and nurtured in the Western world, black, asian, white and latino, etc. included. I think it's dishonest to think that not one Asian has thought about his masculine identity growing up. Toughness and acceptance of it comes later, but when you're young, it's not immediately like that so you do care. About my second comment, I wasn't referring to Asians specifically in terms of online dating and messaging but its entirety. Though I would say that the majority of Asian guys don't get by on looks in general, so my comment about smelling good and having a good personality goes very far.

[@mrt445]

@@ricerice566 When you say Western features you're obviously not talking about Asians who are simply born in the west or other non-whites because being raised in the west won't automatically give you the western facial features that you're talking about. Btw Asian men already generally have the best hygiene so I didn't understand that. It takes a lot more than hygiene that's for sure.

[@WarPigs413]

Too much cologne is awful

[@partridge7341]

The victim mentality of the Fung Bros and of these comments is mind blowing. Never, EVER have I accepted that I am any less than anyone else, or allowed any “disadvantages” related to my race to hold me back. Here are a few points: 1. I’m dating hot white girls left and right, with literally no problems, so stop making excuses for yourself. In fact, I often feel bad for having to reject many of them and breaking their hearts. I’ve never let my race define me, nor have I acted with any insecurity because of it, NOR have any of the women treated me differently because of it. So if you go into the game with a victim mindset or inferiority complex, you’re setting yourself up for failure to begin with. Sure I’m a tall, good looking, successful Asian guy, so I’ll admit that it all helps, all of those traits will help ANY man, not just an Asian one. 2. Your failures are just because you suck, stop attributing it to your race, it’s insulting to the rest of us. Short men of other races don’t have much better luck, okay? BUT women like a well rounded man, so if you’re working with certain shortcomings, such as being unattractive or short, then work on your positive traits. 3. Lastly, the world in changing. Whether it’s mainstream western media or the propagation of Asian media into the west, we have a lot more visibility now. As an Asian guy in the west, you’re dealing with more helpful constitutions than ever before, so stop making excuses for yourself. If you’re not having luck, then go work on yourself and see where you can improve. As a side point, I’m helping you guys out too okay, by showing everyone how great it is to date and Asian guy, and by showing them that we have big wieners.

[@mitch20003]

youre dating hot white girls left and right yeah.. I call BS unless you straight up look like a male model or youre super rich. were talking about the avg looking/slightly above average asian guy here

[@partridge7341]

@@mitch20003 1. The fact that you find this hard to believe just speaks to your inferiority complex. 2. I already stated that I’m successful, good looking, and tall, but I’m certainly not the only Asian guy that has these traits. And again, any guy with these traits is going to be successful. 3. If you’re an average or below average Asian guy, then why would you expect anything more than an average or below average girl? Of course you’re not gonna get hot girls at that level, whether Asian, white, or anything else.

[@mitch20003]

@@partridge7341 a good looking Asian guy will not have the same results as a good looking white guy. This is a fact pal. You're the argumentative type that is right all the time. even if you do pull hot chicks, you're one person which is anecdotal. Gtfoh . Even dating studies show Asian men are the least desired by far

[@mitch20003]

Edit* the avg looking Asian guy will even struggle dating avg looking guys.

[@mintchoco5640]

How do the fung bros have victim mentality? David literally said he believes in self agency. No way did you listen to the video

[@kreidas123]

Asian men may be more "recognized" on paper, but I'm definitely not seeing it, despite being extremely active, sociable and confident. If anything , too many women of all nationalities see me more as a tool or as "only a friend" than a dateable type. And I truly despise women for it.

[@mitch20003]

that whole just be confident doesnt really work...

[@Charles_The_Texan_youtuber382]

As a Latino man I truly believe East and South East Asians are macho and manly. They are hardworking religious people that make society great. As a Latino man I will always go out of my way to respect East and South East Asians no matter what.

[@potatoeskimos]

stfu bro don't lump us Malays with the rest of Asians. We're not Asians.

[@troigcyusa]

​@@potatoeskimos you malays are midgets

[@mitch20003]

Thanks brother, unfornately we are seen as feminine in the west. it is what it is. Holleywood always made us look bad in the past, its either some dorky asian guy or some kung fu, never the bad ass guy that gets the chick in the end.

[@mitch20003]

true story. malays are midgets and worse off than east asians in SMV@@troigcyusa

[@marisolflandez3964]

For me, from the Philippines, we are bombarded with western products , movies, politics, etc. which makes us more into them. What changed now having more exposure to c-drama, k-drama, KPOP, makes us aware and exposed to more Asian men and i felt it helped a lot in Asian men getting more attention. It’s all about years of years exposure. Personally, I grew up seeing both western and Chinese movies and I always had big crush on Chinese looking men but I find them snobbish and aloof which can be explained by culture of being timid and shy generally.

[@stevechan6244]

Brain washed by Social ,Engineering. Asian men get your Ph.D's and join the CCP as the problem is without China then there is no Asia or Asian men. The CCP Counter Balances the Imperial Gaze and the brainwashing. A WAR maybe the only way to change this. As the US Government promotes it and so too does the White controlled media. Japanese people are disappearing as the US Controls trade in Asia and the Japanese Educational System in secret. To win we may need to throw our efforts to counter balance the Western Hegemonic Imperial Gaze or Social Engineered Processes against all Asian men. Remember IF there is NO China then there is NO Asia. Western Colonialism has not stopped! It just changed its shape in the Invasion of Asia! Ask yourself this? Why are there no Chinese Military Bases around the USA? Why are there bases around all th Asian Countries? Because they want to take our land and resources. Those resources include the Asian Women! As in all battles from all civilizations they take the women! FIGHT! Quit complaining and FIGHT! Step up and work out but do not think that joiniung the US Military will make you American. My cousin has a Silver Star and was a US Marine. Francis B. Lai held the US Medal of Honor from WWII. Did it matter? NO! We are being emasculated and IF China loses then we will lose as well. They may be Authoritarian but they are the Counter Balance to our own suvival. As these White men on here make racist comments and take American born Asian Women then you should understand what happened to American born Japanese too. The women married the gaijin and the Japoanese males all died alone! Is this what YOU want as Asian men? I do NOT think China is our total enemy as Asians. The real enemy is the white guy who says you are American and then stabs you in the back!

[@williamwong4040]

Now that is only some Chinese men not all of us are like that maybe you just came by the bad ones but if you look carefully you might find good ones

[@CheeseLayong]

Man...if Bruce Lee was still around! This wouldn't be a conversation. Asian culture is so diverse it's hard to picture what an average asian guy looks or acts like.

[@Fitbyyah]

We have to stratify Asian men. There is East Asian, Southeast Asians, islander Asians, and subcontinent Asian. I love this talk but not all Asians are built the same, or look the same. We are doing a disservice by trying to review us in general terms. 1. Much of what we see in Asian media is only being promoted by certain Asians. The ones with a 💼 who push a certain look 👀 2. We are not highlighting much of our darker skinned good looking guys who appeal to more of minorities. Island Asian are not represented at all. I would put Bruno mars in that category but we don’t rep him as our Asian model of cool hip and good looking. We continue to push bling empire of white dominated look 3. We need more balance approach. I think if we honestly highlighted our best we would get a difference response. 4. Will all due respect some Of my Filipino Asian male friends were considered the hottest male in the classroom not the hottest “Asian” male. No 🧢 With respect to all my Asians let’s diverse the pool 🏊‍♂️

[@Fitbyyah]

@@cambodianpleasuresquad1753 I’m not sure about second largest Asian group and being here for 100s years . But this has nothing to do with people controlling media and a portrayal of Asian males features and looks. In general particularly on the west coast in the Big City areas , southeast asian and island Asians are considered attractive by minorities. And also they present with certain look and style that vibez with popular urban culture. This is not what is promoted on bling empire or house of HO. Or any other asian media that’s being pushed. But there obvious is certain amount of money being pushed in that direction. To each it’s own. And beauty in the end is variable based on location and preferences. But I would say on the west coast island Asian and southeast Asians are doing well! Diversify the pool 🏊‍♂️

[@ajtam05]

Yeah, I agree. But problem with that is........the Whites and Blacks don't distinguish within their respective ethnic groupings. So pretty sure last thing that would happen is them giving us that courtesy. Plus........people way too lazy. We all Chinese no matter what we say. Lol...and Japanese if they really hate you. And if they kinda like you.....maybe Korean. Lol...jp.

[@mrt445]

This channel focuses on East Asian issues. Southern Asians are an entirely different race with different cultures to the point that east Asians probably have more things in common with whites than Southern Asians. Also Filipinos generally don't look like east Asians especially with the Spanish admixture so it's not surprising that ethnic Filipinos and Mixed Filipinos do better.

[@mmrgratitudes]

Filipinos look and act more “western” - so no surprise there. But, this channel is really for East Asians. It’s very much from their POV.

[@goodbad-boy]

Why should we include Bruno Mars when even he doesn't associate himself as Asian?

[@ryotv1747]

Honestly, I've been really successful as an Asian kid, with finding women. The thing is though, is that it's always been white/Latino/black women, and not Asian women. So I see exactly what they are tryna say. Asian women, more than anything, look down on Asian men. We need to stop the inner racial divide. Asian women are extremely hard to please if you are an Asian dude.

[@LinusLee-c4n]

As an ugly Asian man, I have already given up the thought of being in a relationship, and I’m just more comfortable being single without thinking about getting a girlfriend.

[@JohnSmith-jl2mh]

As an Asian guy myself, here's my advice. Get yourself one nice girl. You don't have to be popular. Ignore the mass opinions. Eat nice homemade food. Listen to good music. Enjoy your life in the nature. That's it. C'est la vie my Asian fellow.

[@karaoke888]

Asian guys need to start just thinking of themselves as a guy first (gender over ethnicity) before anything else. Yes we all have our ethnic labels in our case Asian. However as a guy you need to first get on your purpose and gain confidence and work on the image you want to project. For some it will take more work than others. Women want to be with a guy (any ethnicity) that other women want to be with. Stop comparing yourself with others and focus on yourself and what you can do for yourself. Do not let the media dictate your success or lack of it. Know where you will be the most successful in relationships. Choose wisely and understand that not everyone out there is for you and vice versa.

[@MichelleJaelin]

“Stop comparing yourself with others and focus on yourself” - totally agree

[@karaoke888]

@@MichelleJaelin 👍

[@jasonk3605]

Asian males, seriously. Should we move back to our birth countries? I have thought about this. There are some drawbacks to living in Canada/US as an Asian male. Anyone else considered this?

[@user-mv3ng8pp4b]

You should, I was born here sadly, but now that I think about it it’s like a house. You’re in their house you go by their rules,

[@mitch20003]

yeah was born in japan, moved to the USA when I was a kid. would live there but what would I do for work. I know I can get chicks there. here, using tinder is depressing as fuck. most dont do the cold approach anymre 80% of people meet through online dating now

[@shin-ishikiri-no]

The interesting thing is white men can go to Asia and get even more women (due to being white).

[@eugenechin2863]

Asian males are like fine wine. We become more appealing as we get older. For now, get a good job, work hard and take care of your health, the girls will come when you are around your mid 30s. My theory why Asian men are more appealing at a later stage is that we age pretty well compared to white males and females. Remember those white studs from school, look at most of them now, their looks have gone downhill and probably look as old as your father. While most of us Asian men look like they just finished university. We will hopefully have a great job and be yourself and the girls will come. Girls do dig mature men. To those self hating Asian women, who cares about them, there are many other Asian and non- Asian women out there just waiting for you. I wont worry too much if you not popular with the ladies at your young age, things will balance out when you get older. As you get older, you may even get a plus compared to other races. I am a 50 year old average joe who often gets mistaken for a 35+ yr old. I have a better dating life now (after my divorce) then when i was in my 20s and early 30s.

[@jujugarcianyc]

I hate that these conversations always leave out or underplay one of the most important Asian men in Hollywood history - Sessue Hayakawa. They at least mentioned his name here. His widespread fame may be PRECISELY why Hollywood’s white male power players of the early 1900s became fearful of the power of Asian men and turned the country onto a track that portrays them comedically and asexually

[@fungbros]

The fate of our entire race did not lie on the shoulders of one man.

[@jujugarcianyc]

@@fungbros Agreed! Unfortunately, the long-term marginalization of a group can begin with a pretty small group of men in power who do evil crap to stay in power, not infrequently at the expense of an entire race. And that small group of men can sometimes be inflamed/motivated by an even smaller group of men (especially if within that group exists someone as dashing/alluring as Sessue was).

[@Teleios15013]

@@fungbros then why are Asian men typically portrayed so negatively in western media

[@riiraa881]

@FUNG BROS. One man (the former president) riled up enough people to create a wave of hate against Asian Americans by just saying a few words over and over. Hitler did the same. Trust me, it can be done.

[@rww4645]

@@Teleios15013 they want to only help black guy. they want to make money off asians and have asian women as 2nd choice. the hollywood and media do this, they want to exclude asian males. Go to asia and watch media, the guys are very cool. Good-looking. The last thing the Jews and Whites in media (high level) want is Their White Daughters Bringing Home Asian Guy.

[@mvn7328]

I am around alot of average white guys, black guys, and latino men. They ain't getting any. If your tall, confident, out going, dress well, and have a good career, your gonna meet women not matter your race. Especially here in SoCaL.

[@doomvictor3934]

You said the magic word-"TALL"

[@SephirothWaifu]

I feel there's much more to the nature of the dynamics if dating really. I feel that gender idenetus and preference has change so much. Reading through a lot of profiles of other women theres a lot of negative experiences with men as to heterosexual women and a large handful are more intrested in friendships and or others finding themselves curious and intrested in the same sex. Very ibtresting and the last profile where its screams that all her relationships men she hated! And wants to explore being honosexual. So I feel it's more complex and not this shallow and dehumanizing subject of race statisticvdating scale. As and adult myself I discovered as of late, my lack of interest as to not the dating part but being sexually attracted and active I've always questioned myself since a teen and although being hetero the connection to another level was different. But I later understood myself as to being asexual. Something not anyone heard about. Wish I knee sooner and my spectrum type. I'm totally relived and elated!!❤ I feel that it's just people have more choices and where to connect it. As being female I understand that womens mindset is not so primal as men into being in a relationship just to have sex and the function of our bodies. Watched some intresting videos on women amd men's bodies amd other details. I love science and it's really fascinating how complex biology truly is. By far- in digressing- a lot of complains come from women on these dating apps on how men seem to either treat dating like a sport for sex and only seem to care oy about that- just a lot of complaints and frustrations. I'm sometimes think this maybe a bad sign lol. No matter what who you want to be with should be above aex amd our shallow nature and connection is the foundation to form the network if an ideal relationship. But when it comes to people I'm kind of dark minded, I will be so surprised if we go extinct sooner than theory. We are just a complicated mess out of ever other species. From race to failing relationship, petty skirmishes leading to domestic violence..I almost feel relationships are too dangerous to even want to be in. So much toxcicty. I only honestly feel sorry for children. Never asked for the cruelty and UNORTHODOX nature from their parent's distorted relationship.

[@bronzesun21]

im living in osaka japan, and when i go to the clubs its like either the asian guy is by himself or hes killing it. outside the club enviornment idk everyones situation is different

[@bronzesun21]

@iyttf fgel you sound goofy as hell, Ive lived here for 5 years. Black dudes go to the clubs, dj at clubs, work security at clubs, and bring girls back home or to the hotel. Sorry to shatter whatever fantasy you got going on

[@bronzesun21]

@iyttf fgel they're also aware of downsyndrome but I'm sure you could still have a good time here despite you're challenges.

[@thegabster93]

Asian guys are hot. I always thought they were. There weren’t many around me growing up here in Texas but also I feel like they’ve never been into me when I have talked to some. I feel like a lot of them want skinny girls and mostly white or Asian girls. Not thick or curvy latinas. I’m not obese by any means but I’m definitely not skinny. Also some seemed stuck up lol. I always thought darker skinned Asian guys were hot af and wish there were more around me.

[@thegabster93]

I went to California and Hawaii and fell in love with all of them lol.

[@kcuba1228]

Darker skinned Asians? you’re thinking about Filipinos!

[@Noirthodox]

I’m into curvy Latina. Where have you been my whole life?

[@thegabster93]

@@kcuba1228 ahah yes I love Filipinos. Vietnamese and Cambodian too.

[@thegabster93]

@@Noirthodox 😼

[@aiswaryabersan7983]

The main why women don't want to date asian men is due to their culture and family. Asian men's are very traditional in general they like to marry a women with the approval of parents. Most of asian parents want their sons Bride to be from same race and culture. Middle eastern men's family never agress to marry a non muslim women, race and religion matter in south asia. In east asia too they like daughter in laws which keep up their traditions. From some aspect not all women are comfortable with it so they usually avoid. some western women don't like to live with their in laws in the same house are some of few reasons Asian men's not very successful in dating terms.

[@raphaelsanluis9711]

I totally agree .

[@georgieman1910]

I was practically a ghost or non-existent back in junior high and even high school to an extent. Women just did not notice me. I didn't burst the stereotypical asian man/friendzone bubble until late in my twenties. To reach that point I had to adjust my whole demeanor. Everything from learning how to banter and humoring women to just how you carry yourself. It wasn't necessarily the clothing or anything. From there I've run through the whole gamut of women from nearly every race. I've even dabbled with several married women for a while (white and chinese). Looking somewhat attractive helps but attitude and personality is everything and will make or break your chances of meeting and dating women. Hands down.

[@georgieman1910]

@Joyce Richardson ? What does that have to do with my comment?

[@biscuit119]

You're proud of messing around with married women ? You shouldn't be.

[@georgieman1910]

@@biscuit119 I'm neither proud nor ashamed. I'm illustrating how I went from a drought condition to the extreme opposite.

[@biscuit119]

@@georgieman1910 Still that's wrong. Hope you find the right one & do right by her.

[@lisalchambers1596]

I see some sexy ass Asian men. There's nothing wrong with u to me.

[@firstlast2780]

History and media aside, I think size, build and hygiene matter. Not only most Asian men are relatively small in size, but also they don't work out or keep clean images. If you look at a lot of Latino men, a lot of times they are not big in size. But they apparently work out and have good body build. Plus, they keep their hair in style, their nose hair and mustache neatly trimmed and they wear properly as well. I think if all Asian men keep up with their day to day image like the latino men, things would change.

[@unknowguy7604]

Latino men do have better or wider builds than asian men though. Broad shoulders and also deeper eyes sockets. Still genetically more attractive than east asians no matter how well groomed or buff asian guy is.

[@Danux_GA]

Latinos have way higher SMV than Asians that’s the difference

[@monsterego22]

This sounds trivial, but im wondering how much height plays a factor. As asian women are upwardly mobile, climbing the corporate ladder often involves height for men. People forget that many hispanic women also reject hispanic guys on dating apps. But hidpsnics are racislly diverse. But the ethnic looking ones are a lot shorter than even most asian giys.

[@ryzer0881]

You guys have covered this topic and covered it well in several videos now. Even back to your makeover videos for Asian males, which was honestly a better, less direct way of addressing this issue. Think we need to focus on solutions to bigger, broader challenges that the AAPI diaspora and world are facing at this moment. Know that anything related to dating and relationships probably nets tons of views and clicks, but I'd appreciate your perspectives on other subjects. Just a suggestion. Keep up the great content.

[@Football-we4sm]

I don't understand what their problem is. I'm a 6.1 foot guy from Eastern Europe. In my country, I am in the 10 percent of the guys in appearance. It makes no sense for me to go to Scandinavia and be average or even worse than average there. Go to those countries where women will appreciate you, and not reject you just because they don't like your race.

[@QQQ-eo2gp]

@@Football-we4sm not everyone has the luxury to travel the world and settle in foreign countries..most Asian Americans were born here not by choice.

[@AlphaOmeg-y3h]

There’s attractive guys in every nation, but Asians overall are not hyper-sexualized especially in America.

[@leobe2104]

Yes, they are. They're fetishized and a lot of people treat Adian people like servants and objects

[@AlphaOmeg-y3h]

@@leobe2104 maybe in the small world you live in.

[@luke33]

Because white americans want to make Asians to disappear.

[@nhiathor8155]

Society is changing. Growing up in the 80s 90s 2000s yes. 2010s and especially 2020s, I do not agree about it being desexualized. Sometimes a specific area or region may play somewhat of a role.

[@Saving10K]

Even in Shang Chi there was no kissing scene.

[@cocaineminor4420]

Shang chi was the worst representation

[@cocaineminor4420]

In china they could create something even more better than Shang chi

[@jasonfromguitarcenter]

@@cocaineminor4420But They Choose Not Too

[@himmydawg]

Great video guys! Appreciate the perspective. Love it.

[@Musa03n]

depends on where you are in America/west countries YES

[@Tizonwar8]

Chinese Australian here, interesting observation I have is that in Australia, second generation Asian Australian seems to be much harder to find a girl friend due to their Asian counter part being so white washed and would date anyone. Fob Chinese guys seems to have it much better, because their fob Asian counter part seems to be less likely to date outside their race. Also if the fob Asian girl comes from a city in Asia where it was colonized by foreign power, they tend to have a higher preference for foreign men instead of their own. The key factor here is how much Asian pride these girls have. In some situations it's far easier for second generation Asian men to date outside their race with another ethnic race or a European race without their closet colonial pride. Even in the instances a second generation Asian male is able to find a second generation Asian female, it tends to be that the male is better looking than the counterpart, meaning the guy has to use his sexual market margin value as a security to hold on to their counterpart.

[@Tizonwar8]

@@riproach7452 go read history book

[@HuntVeil5]

The European merely colonized China, just a few islands. Malaysia and Singapore is a bit different since its a different sort of demographics. But I got you, when I got to Australia, it was astounding how much they try to mimic America by potraying more black folks( nothing wrong with it) but the population of blacks in Oz is so much smaller than other ethnicities...

[@themarathoncontinues4211]

@@HuntVeil5 it’s a global obsession by many groups, even groups that hate us.

[@HuntVeil5]

@@themarathoncontinues4211 thats right!! More like a programmed global obssession

[@themarathoncontinues4211]

@@HuntVeil5 all over some more melanin + different phenotype, crazy when u think about it 😂😂 Australia definitely has an obsession. Even on the TV ads, so many blk American rappers/athletes with zero relevance to the country

[@josefarrington]

The only movie that I know of where an asian man is projected as a sex symbol is Dragon. He is shown getting second base with an Asian woman 8; and the boyfriend of a white woman 8.

[@madbug1965]

Anyone remember Mr. Yunioshii in the movie Breakfast at Tiffany's? Totally f_cked up...

[@rachelmaddowswife8713]

People need to start looking at the dating statistics as a glass half full rather than a glass half empty. Sure, some Asian American women don't end up with Asian American men, but y'all are only 5% of the US population. Over half of AA women marry AA men, whereas it should be only 5% if they only liked you as much as other men. This means they have a more than 10x preference for AA men! Stats don't show white women preferring white men at that high a margin. Do a subset of pathologically insecure AA women need to shut up and stop trying to elevate themselves at the expense of their own race? Absolutely, but that in no way represents the majority, or an accurate picture of the dating landscape.

[@tamekaholterman9063]

I think the Asian live in China or Japan or Korea are looks quite different from the Asian live in western coutry.

[@tamekaholterman9063]

those live in west are more likely to have dark skin.

[@ninjapirate123]

maybe

[@John_DaMan]

people gotta realize that life is long and the world is huge. People are obsessing into making everyone like them and thinks everyone needs to like them. I'm the opposite, i hate 99.9% of people. People call me a misanthrope. but i'm cool with that. Just find people, places, culture that you enjoy being around. If you're more traditional in values and you're around people who thinks there are 1 million sexes out there, then you're going to go crazy. Similarly, If a chick don't like you, it's cool move on, cause she probably would have drove you crazy anyway if that's her attitude.

[@ginkusanagi2531]

Well said brotha!

[@anasian8894]

exactly my attitude lol

[@DeltaCharlie27]

yep. be your best self and you will attract like minded

[@kaivonafsari9741]

Ya'll need to get over this subject. Seeing two grown ass men go on and on about this is kind of sad. Screaming into the wind is not gonna change a woman's opinion of you. Be the best version of yourself and don't fixate on this "race tiering".

[@rogerdean3375]

Really appreciate the discussion and analysis as all this talk rings true to me, but just never hear it anywhere!! A lot of things you said are things I've come to realize are true as an Asian dude. Its been better for Asian dudes more than ever, but you still need to be on point!

[@kwolf2145]

As a whole group East asian men in the U.S do have a problem getting with women but Indian men do not because marriage stats which actually are facts that includes the whole population shows Indian men in the U.S are married more then Indian women by 10k and slightly marry out more too. But East asian men in the U.S are much less married then East asian women for each of the main East asian groups and it would be 500k or more less married if you include all East asian groups which means they have problem getting women in general since many East asian women obviously do not want to get with East asian men. The biggest difference for total marriages between men and women for a specific East asian group in the U.S is with Filipinos where Filipino women are married more by 168k then Filipino men, followed by Korean where the women are married more by 85k more.

[@inumusha7108]

I don't know where you get that stats from. According to the latest data from dating apps like OKCupid, Indian men are ranked the lowest, even below East Asian men. Many Indian American and other westernized Indian women in countries like the UK (and there are plenty of KZbin videos on these) don't even want to date Indian men but prefer exclusively white men. There was a KZbin video that showed an above average Indian guy could not even compete with an average white guy on dating apps in the US.

[@kwolf2145]

​@@inumusha7108 I love that you brought up OkCupid because it proves that your source is total BS. Dating app data which there is not much of anway generally does not have substance, especially OkCupid which would only include a tiny percent of single people and the data is B.S because it's based on "Quickmatch" scores which is something that the site creates based on your profile and doesn't mean girls actually like you. 92% of Indian women in the U.S are married to Indian men which is a fact that includes the whole population unlike B.S dating apps with tiny samples so what you say it false and obviously some will date out, but it's not many and Indian guys are married 10k more then Indian women so Indian guys don't have issues getting women in general like East Asian guys do who are much less married then East asian women. You're pointing to dating app data and KZbin videos which have no substance to make claims which is pathetic. Also the average white guy has problems getting women and is constantly whining about it whether it's incel, mgtow, red pill or blackpill guys hence why you have hundreds of dating channels for men and we know that is there is a 50% divorce rate and white men have the highest rate, also marriages are going down and many relationships are dysfunctional even if they are with women. The internet is full of white guys whining about women and about not getting women.

[@kingknights5107]

@@inumusha7108Indians have a million different dating sites.. you cannot use one small site to get a clear understanding of Indian men’s desirability.. Indian men has the highest SMV among all men on a global basis.. JBI #1..

[@SamSung-pn6il]

Asian males may be the lowest ranked males in SMV in their 20s and become heighest ranked in their 40s. If Asian male wants a hot chick in their 20s, wait for like 20 yrs. You can have as many as you want later.

[@bie-p1l]

lmfao so far from reality

[@kronicturbo8327]

@@bie-p1l he basically meant betabuxxing

[@naglfar6305]

@@kronicturbo8327 never keep an LTR with betabuxxing only short term relationships. Pump and dump

[@mitch20003]

@@bie-p1l true, women in general dont find asian men attractive. you can make all the money you want, sure you can get chicks but those chicks will never be sexually attracted to you and Ill bet you that she will eventually cheat you on you if she gets a chance

[@BLVCKSEA]

I never really had a problem pulling females growing up.i have average asian heigth (5,7) and Ive ran through all the types..but mainly white and asian women..some latinas and a couple of ebonys. My sons mother is filipino/german. So i settled in between my two main demographics when it came down to that.😂 On my momma tho all the girls ive hooked up with or dated have been pretty good looking. Never dated an ugly girl. 🎉

[@tweeze123]

I am one of those 30+ old who never cared about dating. Just felt like a chore

[@BritonAD]

Because it is.🤣🤣

[@gnexiagundam]

Save the $$ for your paradise 😁

[@jchannel7409]

the sudden popularity of bts and kpo/ the like in the west actually does not benefit all asian men if we are being honest, it either benefits just a sub section, of a. koreans and b. those who have the east asian look. opposite to what many say about this bringing some kind of "awareness" to all asian men, it only affects a portion. if you fit none of those requirements it does not benefit you (mostly southeast asians if we are being honest)

[@bam6210]

Actually it does benefit southeast Asians, they can look similar to East Asian. I think you mean south Asians .

[@jchannel7409]

@@bam6210 i literally said it benefits "those who have the east asian look" i never said anything specific about southeast asians. Please read my original post and don't accuse me of fake statements you made, piss off kid

[@JapanQuest]

I think Koreans and Japanese don't have much problem for dating in West? I think Chinese is considered politically alligned with Russia, North Korea, Iran, so maybe that's why? Shohei Ohtani is a good representative for Japanese people. He is our Kpop😅

[@jchannel7409]

@@JapanQuest yes also those 2 pop cultures have a LOT to do with it as well in the west. generally, japan and korea has the most popular asian pop culture in america. unfortunately not the same level can be said about chinese pop culture (one of the major east asian countries), and then SEA pop culture is basically nowhere near that huge

[@TunXAM-hw1nk]

As 19 years Vietnamese years old boys, when I was first come to Australia, there was a Chinese Vietnamese girl ask me to be her boyfriend, then later on a Chinese Thai, there are about 2 more I "swear". I maybe a lucky guys with special look to have that many girl approached me. However, it is may about attractiveness but also about your differences in their society, when everyone are outwards and speaking fluently English, I am the only shy boy don't speak much and they seem me as a special guys of the class with distinctive look compare to others asian guys, I am myself have mixed feature of South East Asian (my dad, central Vietnamese) and East Asian (my mom, northern Vietnam), strong jawline (SEA), deep eyes (mixed with monolid and double eyes lid) , heartshape lips (SEA) and high nose bridge (EA). In conclusion, Asian guys, you are all special in multiculture countries, where everyone have their own beauty features. I can not talk about others perspective as a young boy so that is what I feel and experiences as an asian man in Australia society.

[@aperkins07]

As an Asian guy, I completely gave up on American women. Dating scene is very different compared to Asia where it's very easy to strike a legit convo with females to form a relationship at least from an Asian American perspective

[@SFBay69]

JBW is the law

[@hithere748]

Western women are horrible.

[@owenwu7995]

American women are extremely racist and shallow. You saved yourself a lot of trouble and headache.

[@danielchoi5943]

bro, most of my friends (future doctor, wall street investor, etc.) are struggling with dating here in Texas and get married in Korea (they're Korean) in about a month. These guys are decent looking as well, so definitely I'm not alone in saying that women got some HIGH HIGH standards for Asian men (at least in Texas and NY).

[@suzygirl1843]

BTS helped. I see Gen Z girls liking Asian men. Most black girls think masculinity is how you evaluate sexual appeal in men but now they're moving away from that and I think K-Pop helped that. It was exotic and paralleled black American Pop.

[@lockiet7227]

I mean this might be unpopular here but I don't want the Asian image to be represented by K-pop dudes. That's so pigeon-holing it's almost a fetish.

[@PricefieldPunk]

Most asian men in everyday life dont look like Kpop stars thought. We dont have flawless no wrinkle skin, thick flowing hair, and above average height.

[@bayareayackem100]

Ain't nobody want no d*mb gen z girls

[@jialian93]

@ERRATAS 0202 I don't but I'd say kpop has definitely helped me.

[@funkthat]

1st of all never take advice on what women like from a woman. They cant even decide what they want to eat for lunch. 2nd asian men need to stop believing what mainstream media wants them to think is attractive to women. Women dont even know they fetishize the kpop idol look but when they date and experience a guy like that they find out its not really what they want.

[@smoothdahustla9729]

1:32, I think that because so many Asian women don't respect Asian men or find western men as a better option it causes the men of other races to swoop down and take a great portion of the very attractive Asian women. Either by marriage, LTRs, ONS, or using the Asian woman as a semen receptacle. The fact that many Asian men overlook that and still take these women on leads me to believe that maybe those men don't value themselves as much, I am 1/4 Japanese. I've seen a lot of this here in America. But have seen it while I was stationed in Korea, Philippines, and Hawaii.

[@paulidson1483]

I think Asian guys do ok nowadays, but the bottom line is if you're below average of any race then you aren't getting much action

[@mitch20003]

and an ugly woman can get laid anytime she wants lol versus guys will have to get hookers,

[@theadmiral4625]

“That’s so specific……” LMFAOOOOO 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@PV96]

I actually think the KPop craze has helped quite a bit. People see how attractive and sexy most Asian men are. Also seeing Simu Liu in spandex didn’t hurt either!! 🥰🥰🥰

[@ramsaybolton9151]

I think it's the opposite. In reality most women ( not young girls) are not actually very attracted to feminine looking men in reality. The trend is emasculating. If you look at the old Chinese/Japanese movies the men were much more masculine looking.

[@sbp1664]

@@ramsaybolton9151 Stop taking your redpills and instead of believing in stereotypes, pay attention to what women actually say. They do not want overly tall, necessarily taller than them, ripped big men, regardless of the race. Many women prefer lean/slim/skinny build, good hygiene and pretty face with delicate features

[@hauduemattroivietnam961]

@@ramsaybolton9151 old Chinese/Japanese movies the men were much more masculine looking? Then how much better condition your father's and your grandfather's generation had than these Kpop generation boys have today??

[@이수민-j5y]

​@@ramsaybolton9151 In fact, the most masculine and popular actor in Asia is Korea's Ma Dong-seok. and, Hwang Cheol-soon has the best body in Asia. Korean men are more diverse than anywhere else in the world.

[@ramsaybolton9151]

@@sbp1664 This is not true in my experience. You can look at dating apps to see evidence for what I'm saying. I see lots of good looking short and skinny dudes that are single. Then I see lots of tall Shrek looking dudes with hot girlfriends. Obviously anecdotal but this is what I see. There would be no reason for "short kings" to be a thing if this didn't have some truth to it. Also if your opinion was true there would be less sexual dimorphism in the human population. This is obviously not reality.

[@DiamondFlame45]

I agree with what Andrew said! Work and improve with what you have and be strategic on the lanes you want to date in. If you are an Average looking Asian guy, don’t act surprised if the hot girl doesn’t give you any attention.

[@Football-we4sm]

I don't understand what their problem is. I'm a 6.1 foot guy from Eastern Europe. In my country, I am in the 10 percent of the guys in appearance. It makes no sense for me to go to Scandinavia and be average or even worse than average there. Go to those countries where women will appreciate you, and not reject you just because they don't like your race.

[@marlonelias]

We need to change this my fellow ASIAN brothers!.!.

[@clementmckenzie7041]

I can only speak as a black woman. From what I see Asian women, like Asian men, a whole lot. Black women like Americanized Asian men and white women like foreign Asian men. The issue is will an Asian man approach a variety of women, what's the sexual hierarchy that Asian men subscribe to, where women are concerned. Also y'all back up off Jacky Chan. Black people love him, he is yours in Asia, but he is ours in the U.S.

[@ajtam05]

As a whole group? 100%. As an individual in my experience? Not so much. I have 100% no issues, but that's just my personal experience etc. But it really depends on where you live, your social group, your age brackets etc.

[@usersixnine347]

As a whole group? The majority of Asian men at least the younger generation do not deal with these issues.

[@ajtam05]

@@usersixnine347 Uhh you can't escape societal norms no matter what generation you are bruh. We all live in the same society at the same time.

[@usersixnine347]

@@ajtam05 what societal norms in 2022 makes it so hard for the average Asian to date. Buddy the overwhelming majority of women do not even look at race as the first thing when choosing a partner. Get out of your bubble.

[@ajtam05]

@@usersixnine347 Lol no you clearly have no idea what sociology is and how historical social norms have been and still exist. For you to say, "women don't blah blah blah"...that's the most error prone erroneous simpleton statement I've heard in a bit.

[@ajtam05]

@@usersixnine347 And the title is about "ranking". It's not about being hard. They can be mutually exclusive. But sure...if the arbitrary "ranking" is low...it "can" potentially be harder.

[@koragray4794]

I'm mean in the movie "Boogie" you do have the Asian-American guy who played basketball and also got a love interest who is a black woman, same thing with the movie "The Sun Is Also A Star" you have a black woman lead with a love interest (who is a asian descent) as well, also look at music videos shoot you got artists like Doja Cat & Saweetie (who is blasian by the way) who got asian models in their videos but however I'm agreed with Andrew like he said everyone have a preference but if you don't have a reason why you don't date Asian men it's lowkey sus why you don't like them at all but also I agreed with don't rely on the media though and also by the way I'm like Asian men also so I'm ain't got no type (in my Swae Lee vc) but overall my advice to asian men out there just be yourself and be more comfortable in yourself but confident as well.

[@yolo9264]

Here are some of the problems of the average Asian guy : Shorter, skinny and weak looking, lack of confidence. I seen short white guys struggle getting girls too though. I’m Viet and this is what I have notice when I was younger growing up in America. The media and culture did have a negative impact on the dating life of Asian dudes but maybe not so much anymore. I never had issues dating outside my race back in the day because I was confident, decent face and had a jacked body. I also had a couple Asian male friends who are handsome and tall got pretty much any girl they want. I also seen shorter Asian guys got hot girls too. The point I’m trying to make is that you don’t have to be tall and handsome to get girls but get in shape and be more confident.

[@manilamartin1001]

Thats awesome. Me and my brothers are 5'6" and i think i did much better because I was more comfortable around girls. We all made good incomes but my brothers were typical shy engineers.

[@DallasTechie]

True dat. Confidence and swagger radiates.

[@sleepy421a3]

I Agree, you just need confidence and a nice body. Last 4 years all I ever dated were mainly latinas. None ever lasted because my dumbass can’t keep my egg roll in my pants 😂 ohh and let me Add have a nice dress game because a women love how a man dress

[@MyLife-og2kr]

Confidence is key.

[@emmanuelespiritu3040]

You guys should also mention how Asian men are not attractive unless they're half white. I hear that all the time amongst Filipinos.

[@rrtds9378]

Yes true. Growing up with mostly rock musicians, white guys. The guitar player is my best school friend. Anyway every practice and gigs, they all bring girlfriends and their BGF. All of the girls were hot looking. One I really like but she married my best friend anyway. Oh well 🤣

[@fortune_roses]

Asian men are attractive & smart. More as they get older. Many *still look young* well into their 30s... which isn't always the case for other men

[@raphaelsanluis9711]

I quite agree .

[@mitch20003]

this is true. Im a gym rat, i rarely drink, kind of a boring guy but I look young. Im 38 and can easily pass as late twenties.

[@smoothdahustla9729]

5:45, I think that Aaliyah didn't really want to kiss him but also Jet Li has never had a kiss on screen cause he was trying to only kiss his wife...I swear, I heard something like that once. Either way, black men were gonna have a fit and asian men and women weren't gonna like that either. All for different reasons.

[@avecnayo]

I would suggest taking a page out of Black America’s playbook. If you can’t be accepted by the mainstream, disregard it and make your own culture with your own notions of what is sexy and what isn’t. Just stop worrying about white people and being accepted by them. Sooner or later white people will get curious and want to colonize whatever you’re doing. This also includes sexually fetishizing you, which will ultimately trickle down to people being open to dating you without any weird racial factors. (But the racial fetishization never goes fully away) Also lean more into Japanese and Korean aesthetics, not telling anyone to mute their culture, but China is so over represented in Asian American media. Most people “like Asians” they just don’t like China due to a myriad of reasons. Let China and Chinese stories take a backseat for a while and diversify out to other East Asian cultures and south eastern Asian cultures. However, I think the biggest issue and why Asian Americans probably won’t take a page out of Black peoples hand book is that it’s too difficult to do that when most of your group is comprised of first generation immigrants. Immigrants of any ethnicity to any country have a survival mode mentality. Maybe if there were more Asian “expats” that would change. And another reason is that while Asian men might not be desired Asian women are, and many seem A-Ok with leaving their Asian brothers behind. Black people were collectively rejected from mainstream society and built their community together. (In spite of how bad Black men who date outside their race often degrade Black women, but that’s a different topic concerning a different issue) Ultimately, While I won’t say I “feel sorry” for Asian men, because everyone can make their own choices about how to present themselves I will say that I find it unenviable and quite peculiar how not only are you dealing with bs from other races but your own women are often in on it as well. Madness

[@avecnayo]

But also moving is dope if you can afford it. I grew up in Orlando, and while I didn’t have a problem dating in Orlando, I just wasn’t really attracted to mentality of people in Orlando in the mid 2000’s so I moved to Tokyo because I wanted to be around my friends and other Tokyoites, or people who resided in Tokyo (of all backgrounds) and yeah it was good for me bc it put me in contact with people who had the attributes that I looked for not just in romantic partners but also casual relationships in which I would learn about myself. Moving isn’t for everyone, but if you can do it, seriously consider it.

[@mrt445]

China definitely isn't overrepresented in Asian American media. There are more Chinese Asians in America obviously but media-wise Japanese Anime and Korean TV shows/films clearly dominate in the west and are preferred by not just Asians. China had the Hong Kong film industry which was successful internationally but it's no longer what it used to be. Regarding Asians building a new community/culture within America like blacks did that would be extremely difficult at this point in time because you have to be segregated from whites and other races to achieve this. Also black culture has become mainstream because they essentially created the majority of music genres in America and they dominate most sports. Asians would have to dominate a specific part of popular culture to successfully create their own which would be extremely difficult to do. Also there aren't enough Asians within America to do this and they're far too diverse coming from different parts of Asia to view themselves as all the same. Also with an extremely high interracial marriage rate amongst Asians (including the men) this won't be possible achieve over time.

[@avecnayo]

@@mrt445 perhaps it’s just my opinion then. But I do think that Shang Chi would have been more accepted by non Asian viewers if it had been centered around a Korean and or Japanese character and story. I feel like the issue is often split up into two fronts, more representation in media and getting non Asians (see white people) to sleep with Asian males. (Over simplification, yes, but the main focus ALWAYS seems to be on women and dating more than how other men of different races see Asian males). While Asians can’t directly control how other races choose to view them, I feel like media could be influenced more easier. And a lot of Asian American made media (anime and K-pop are foreign influences from different societies and backgrounds) seems to focus around Chinese Americans and their experience. (And the strict parent trope as well) But Shang Chi wasn’t created by Asian Americans and it’s just an example. But look at Crazy Rich Asians. I’m not saying ignore all Chinese stories, but perhaps try playing up to “trends” if one of the goals is to get non Asians (aka white people, because it’s ALWAYS white people that Asians seem to care about impressing) to “care about” or acknowledge you.

[@mrt445]

@@avecnayo For one Shang Shi is a Marvel character thats at least 50 years old so they can't just change his origin. Secondly if you want Asians to do their own thing and create their own culture they shouldn't care about what non-Asians think and whether they accept their characters or not.

[@avecnayo]

@@mrt445 I agree with you there

[@a11an72]

Growing up i CLEARLY remember asians represented as the opposite of castrated eunuch , with like jackie chan, bruce lee , shaolin movies and the like , THATS the characters i remember of asians , not the nerd guy that has a 5sec role in some movie ... i feel like asian guys are coping abit with that narrative

[@perfectcircle360]

I think it's an interesting topic, I just like dark hair and eyes. So physically, I find Asian, Spanish, and Portuguese men more attractive. But that's only a physical thing, personality can alter the attraction. Just found this video, subscribed. And the guy wearing the bright blue shirt, I'm guessing Andrew is his name. He's my type, I think he's hot. Everyone has different taste and what they find attractive. Not every man is interested in me, that's OK, because it's better to find people who have intelligence and open-mindedness to accept me for being unique. Don't be put off by haters. Try to be a decent human being, be yourself, be kind and honest. And yeah.... you ain't gonna please everyone, but you will find someone who likes you.

[@carnival5925]

Yeah just do our own thing nothing else matters, we'll find someone who actually like us for who we are anyway

[@karnnap6178]

Baseddd

[@RobertRod818]

Mediterraneans are actually hot!

[@robert-antoinedenault5901]

It's a shame to hear about this. I can't comment to this as it seems that Canada (Montreal) even with all the ethnical problems we have gone and still going through (as a pro immigration country), I find that we have less of that issue here (based on my Asian friends). The only comment I could give is that many were residing in ethnic enclaves (china town) and were not interacting with their neighbour as much as others that have put certain limitations. But what broke the mold here in our perspective (as a Caucasian) is the mass influx of Vietnamese immigrants here during their war. As I grew up Asians (mostly Viet's as they were the majority here, second was the Chinese ) their presence here was on par with everyone else. Maybe it's our European back ground that makes us different but the buffed up look or the k-idol look is not an issue here. To some maybe but for the masses it's still just about that normal connection.

[@HoodQueen258]

K pop is gay

[@narutoash111]

it really depends on what you are looking for. are you looking for the white washed asian american, the diverse americans or the fobs/internationals. i prefer fobs because i am traditional and prefer to keep in my culture if i date. if i date someone international, im also ok with it because its mutual learning and melding. you lose too much cultural value if you date americans, unless they are willing to learn and be in the culture. unfortunately the asian american bubble is one that i have never liked.

[@muiyoung]

Many people hold stereotypical impressions of Asian men as lacking aggressiveness, passion, and sex appeal. However, the reality is that many young Chinese men are diverse. Just visit major cities in China, where you'll find a variety of physically attractive and interesting men.

[@chrispanda1886]

Mmmmm im not too sure i feel like its asian culture - asian guys r generally super attractive but they seem unattainable because there is a reality that they only seem to date their own race therefore you kind of do a hard pass on them its like whats the point? even if they like me theres a chance their mom will hate me type of thing too. But in terms of media i do see what u guys r saying.

[@shin-ishikiri-no]

Yeah basically the limiting factor is their own racial bias.

[@funkyboodah]

Here's the thing: it doesn't help our mentality (as Asian guys) to dwell or think about this. It doesn't put us in a positive mindset necessary to go out and approach women. But simply ignoring it does disservice to the actual disparities of real experience. So it's a tough place to be, but I feel like we have no choice other than to ignore it and proceed confidently anyways as if this did not exist. That's the only way to stay positive and go out and get it. I mean what are we gonna do, call our RACISM and cry UNFAIR to get pussy? There's no way that would work anyways.

[@mitch20003]

you can go approach women wont really help much. Women generally dont see asians as sexually attractive.

[@funkyboodah]

i understand how you feel but IMO thats just not true. I'm asian and I can approach hot white, black, latinas and get the numbers when I put in the work@@mitch20003

[@Js_Son83]

I think also, Asians that comes to America we live n grow up in places that's white dominant so we don't see other Asian just on TV n on internet...

[@MrPurge11]

Good video, enjoyed watching.

[@tlee3374]

Guys & Gals - remember you're human. Don't let your ethnicity/race/class/status or whatever your peers, friends, family, media, society say.....stop you from going after what you want in life. Remember you didn't get to pick your ethnicity, race, height, physical looks, and such.....you were born into this life "As Is" so do what you can with what you have. Getting rejected is a blessing.....means he/she is not the one for you so it saves you precious time because Life is temporary so F*ck It.....seek and destroy the B.S you have been told.....prove'em wrong.....you M F'ERS all got this!!!!!

[@MrHmongrice]

That 90s show just took a dump on Asian men. Could've had an Asian gangster, instead they added a gay Asian boy.

[@jasonfromguitarcenter]

The Gangster Was Wilmer Valderama 🤣

[@clownworld360]

majority of us are not born from asian rich parents 😂

[@mottahead6464]

My main hack when it comes to attractiveness? I can dance. Clink.

[@Koolaidfrozenpizza]

Asian bros should re embrace the beard and man bun look. Historically that was a lit era.

[@joshuafult84]

They can't grow beards lmao

[@vehnashur2771]

I would be interested in hearing about the "model minority" stereotype. Also, what's the deal with all the skin whitening? Also, whites being given an upscore...yeah....you just learned that?

[@dragonboy718]

i see many asian and non asian women(and men) with asian guys

[@disengagedsage737]

For me, I've been pretty fortunate with the dating scene. I'm usually the first Asian guy that someone has dated. With that said, when I go out with my Asian female friends, I do notice white guys hitting on them as if I'm invisible. Maybe that's from the stigma that Asian women don't date Asian men. Not sure but I find it disrespectful.

[@philippelindsey5042]

I think Asian men have to control their Media image in Western markets. Are there issues there? Yes. However, in Asia I don't think its as big of issue. Now, all women of all groups like tall men, and strong muscular men but, I think Asian fashion can equalize some of that downgrading. It looks to me like the biggest issue is that Asian men need to project themselves differently in Western Framing. There is dirty media war on Asia masculinity because its an area Mzungus went to war in the most.

[@oranebrown2169]

The current asian in any western country will be considered effeminate, its the same reason black people are considered criminals, it all perspective, you are taken at face value here and if your shoulder are not wide enough, the costume will not fit.

[@philippelindsey5042]

@@oranebrown2169 I am saying Asian men must gain control of their Media Image. That’s a big problem they must use their Asian media to change the image and force Western media to change what they project

[@dassandavis5507]

Love this video