In those TV dramas, almost everything is Fake. Those Daqing emperors wouldn't speak like that, and they were using many Manchurian and Mongolian words. They wouldn't speak today's "Standard Chinese" at all !
In nyc, they call you Mama because they respect you as a women And it’s not all the ppl in nyc talk like that Nyc is a very diverse culture of place You cannot find any place like nyc in whole USA it’s a unique society