Gabby Confronts Clayton Following Their Breakup | The Bachelor

[@1313sp]

It's like she's the adult calmly explaining the most basic thing to a child.

[@funchik93]

For real though. He's a little kid. Gabby is a mature woman.

[@sergeantwilliams8185]

She’s too good for him.

[@itydity4743]

She's like, "I know, it's hard..butttt"

[@michaelwheeler3782]

You are right on

[@gamerjamson]

Ya she is condescending for sure.

[@reinepoaty6747]

She’s so emotionally intelligent.

[@ruthiebenjamin1744]

She's an ICU nurse - so profoundly beautiful. 🥰

[@juliecopelandbarrows2971]

He's emotionally immature for sure. She's a gem.

[@shashacollins4420]

Indeed 💯

[@gamerjamson]

🤣

[@SavvyMuhon]

@@gamerjamson What’s so funny?

[@everydayoilmommies5091]

I wish Gabby a joyful and successful bachelorette season

[@SydneyKong]

SAMEEEE

[@stntwello4862]

Gabby had unbelievable grace and poise unlike Rachel who acted like a spoiled brat! Hats off to Gabby and nothing but good vibes to Clayton and Susie!!!

[@mitchellmartinsky2299]

it's not gonna go well

[@Change2be1]

it hurt her granddad to see his granddaughter hurt.

[@sl9691]

@@stntwello4862 I don’t think she necessarily acted like a “spoiled brat”. She was heartbroken and loved him so much- to the point that even in the process of him breaking her heart for the second time- she desperately wanted him to have a realization that ultimately just never came.

[@mohinderreece]

Gabby was everything and more last night. She was the moment. Her ability to express what she needed to say was so clear and concise and extremely accurate. she was just operating from a space of maturity that Clayton just did not have. She also seemed to have a better understanding of Clayton’s journey towards love and the process than he actually ever did. Lots of respect for her for not being manipulated to the very end. Reclaimed her power and gathered herself in a heartbeat. I think Gabby was most upset about giving him that second chance after he admitted to being intimate. I also liked that for her it was not about the intimacy he had with both of them and that she was not Susie in terms of that and what her needs were. She was extremely real. Hope she gets to find her person.

[@shrutik9673]

She can articulate her feelings wisely

[@clairelivefreeordie2551]

exactly....she doesn't sound like an idiot at all. Gabby & the other woman are intelligent women yet they were taken by this guy? The whole show centered around getting that cozy room to take it to the next level. Susie was right to voice her objections regarding sleeping with someone so soon. The show *encouraged* this & he took full advantage.

[@NotAMuse]

Gabbie didn’t care that he was intimate with the other girls, that wasn’t a deal breaker for her. Gabbie understood the Bachelor process. What mattered to her is that once Clayton figured out who he wanted to keep and pursue a relationship with, that he communicate that to Gabbie immediately so that she can determine how she wanted to proceed. She felt that he strung her along because of his hurt ego after Susie left him, which was absolutely correct. The fact that he still can’t understand or accept that is a red flag for his relationships. So glad she and Rachel dodged the bullet.

[@leahtaylor9045]

Gabby really knows what love is. She’s actually ready for marriage.

[@kylerobinson6102]

I would marry her in a heartbeat - 37 year old Bachelor in Edmonton Canada and I am sooo in love with her.

[@SusieQ1971]

@Kyle Robinson hurry up and apply to be a contestant on this season of the Bachelorette!

[@kylerobinson6102]

@@SusieQ1971 lol I did to be honest

[@fonaalsh]

@@kylerobinson6102 I’ll be rooting for you too 🤞🏼

[@assmahane3510]

@@kylerobinson6102 oooh i hope you get in!!

[@katelynhuff8008]

Gabby is so wise!! She's a joy to watch and you just can't help but to root for her!! Her Bachelorette season might be the first one that i watch every episode of.

[@elle8388]

She is wise, smart, intelligent and emotionally mature and knows her worth

[@gamerjamson]

She just salty dude picked somebody else les be honest

[@daniellap8939]

"i'm sorry *you* feel that way." No Clayton, you apologize for *your* actions that led her to feeling that way.

[@pointeprincess302]

I almost screamed when I heard him say that. The self awareness just is not there

[@anonymousanonymous-qx7mv]

He did apologize...unless youer deaf or blind

[@Crystalbomb321]

@@anonymousanonymous-qx7mv I'm sorry you feel that way isn't expressing remorse towards their own actions.

[@anonymousanonymous-qx7mv]

@@Crystalbomb321 Im sorry you dont listen to a whole dialogue

[@Crystalbomb321]

@@anonymousanonymous-qx7mv I'm sorry you don't have common sense.

[@anythingcanhappen290]

Never saw Gabby as eloquent during the episodes but she grew on me.i feel like I went to a motivational seminar just listening to her. But he has this childish element in his comprehension that I think it all went over his head.

[@alexandria2748]

'But he has this childish element in his comprehension that I think it all went over his head.' That's exactly my sense as well. He doesn't address *any* of her points, although she's given him so much to respond to, and comes back with extremely generic statements. He's in over his head and can't grasp her thoughts. She's clearly the more intelligent one, and like you said, he's quite childish in his maturity, or lack thereof.

[@bkopgamer]

Gabby did handle herself with true class.

[@leighbierman1513]

She was always this eloquent, this was her finale.

[@michaelwheeler3782]

I tend to agree. CLAYTON is a child

[@chandrikadas9163]

Agree he doesn't seem capable of love or very bright really...

[@TrueCrimeTalkWithTaves]

Gabby is woman’s woman . Definitely one of my favorites from this franchise . She’s very well spoken

[@ahoward3503]

Gabby and Rachel said everything I was thinking. I couldn't agree more with everything they expressed to him. And what was with his dead eyed robotic, repetitive answers? Throughout the last episodes I heard him say the same thing over and over again. He still doesn't seem genuine in his apologies. I think that now that he has what he wanted he doesn't even want to bother with Gabby and Rachel.

[@stntwello4862]

You can only say sorry so many different ways!! Why does BN have so many malicious citizens?

[@elijahparis-salmon9943]

@@stntwello4862 I Agree. It doesn’t matter what mistakes He made , Gabby showed him Mercy And that’s why I Respect her so much for being merciful towards him

[@SydneyKong]

SHES SO WELL SPOKEN AND MATURE 😭😭😭😭😭

[@assmahane3510]

very!!

[@gamerjamson]

Oh look she can talk 🤣

[@SamanthaTwist]

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@ellegonzi]

Love how she was introduced as this big weirdo and goofball but her maturity and how intelligent she is has come through with everything that transpiresd at the end. I think she'll make the best bachelorette.

[@aL13711]

I think also a lot of people underestimated her because of her voice but I do notice that she is the most articulate of all the contestants, she speaks in full sentences without using filler words all the time and she has an amazing ability to get to the point with her emotions.

[@chocolatecat198]

Love Gabby giving Clayton a lesson in logic, honesty, and empathy

[@godlikes3222]

One of the best reflections about LOVE I’ve ever heard: “to assume responsibility to protect, care for and not hurt the one you love”. Kudos to Gabby!!! Let’s learn from her pain and save unnecessary tears and heartbreak. Let’s reserve ourselves for someone capable of doing those, and let’s start by protecting, caring for and not hurting ourselves!

[@SydneyKong]

WHAT AN ICONNN. 😭😭😭😭😭😭 GABBYS GRANDPA PRAISING GABBY WE LOVE TO SEE IT

[@oOKitty86Oo]

They were my favorite part, and I'll never stop rooting for our loveable ding bat XD

[@alaskamountaingirl]

That’s her grandpa?! Aww 🥰 Poor grandpa seeing all of this foolish 😔

[@SydneyKong]

@@oOKitty86Oo trueeeer

[@kms5793]

It really made me mad when he begged her to stay and then broke up with her again immediately after. I know she's gonna make an amazing bachelorette and im so excited to watch her blossom into that role. She deserves the world.

[@shardayb.7192]

I don't watch the Bachelor, I'm not even a fan of it, but this woman is very wise and insightful for being on this show. She seems more adult than he does, more mature and even speaks more like an adult than him.

[@nemom7791]

Damn Gabby is hella eloquent, wow! Everything she said was GOLD!

[@00830616herman]

People who have good senses of humor are usually really smart! Gabby did really well making her feelings known!

[@hsmd4533]

That’s so true.

[@SupaPinkix]

I’ve never watched a full episode of The Bachelor but can tell that Gabby’s a LEGEND. And Clayton is just... something else.

[@ClarissaKoppel]

WHAT A QUEEN. She's so mature, emotionally intelligent and poised. As if that wasn't enough, she's a blast!

[@SamanthaTwist]

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@kattravino9582]

this guy has 0 emotions, I can't even relate or empathise with him. He's just horrid

[@jancam5469]

Gabby is way ahead of Clayton, she is so witty, that’s a powerful woman Clayton can manage. Lol…Gabby is an ICU Nurse and Racheal is a Flight Instructor, it seems like he is intimidated by these women’s intelligence.

[@anonymousanonymous-qx7mv]

Susie is equally intelligent and wise...

[@katyducharme1346]

This man truly doesn't know what happened. He's quite juvenile in his apologies. I feel bad for him. I don't think he knew how strong these women are!

[@NotAMuse]

Gabbie roasting Clayton gives me so much life. I can’t stop rewatching this.

[@marcoylagan9024]

Gabbie wasn’t roasting the man she was forcing sense into him

[@momokyuu69]

You know what ISN’T an apology? “I’m sorry YOU”… anything. ESPECIALLY not “I’m sorry YOU feel/felt that way”

[@JDfaith2024]

Gabby is a bright, self aware, and articulate woman. I wish her all the best and pray she finds loves in the near future 😃 🙏 🌹

[@jayvee7482]

She IS a nurse. She is college-educated and that itself says she's very smart.

[@preciouspayne3188]

Yes

[@gamerjamson]

Lol do you know how many people have a degree and are still complete morons with no common sense?

[@Rebecca_Szostek]

Gabby is incredibly insightful, she's very smart and super classy!!! She's better off not being with him, he can't even match her intellect.

[@kaybrown2201]

I thought the same thing. His lacks emotional intelligence selfish and so void of emotions. This guy will trample of your heart and watch you cry.

[@200991602]

He is typical let's say in a prototype way all muscle no brain

[@gamerjamson]

🤣

[@scully392z]

Clayton has a lot to learn.

[@mitchellmartinsky2299]

I think everyone but him and a few others have a lot to learn

[@gamerjamson]

Ya don't date chicks like this one lesson learned 👍

[@SamanthaTwist]

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@tvaddict6491]

Gabby is just......Man I aspire to be as calm and wise and composed and poised as her!! She might be the strongest personality in the Bachelor Nation, hands down!!!!

[@marcoylagan9024]

And rachel is more like emotional and just goes through the point

[@thequeen3834]

Gabby grew on me. Looking forward to her season!

[@Sarah-yd8th]

I love her and absolutely support her for the way she explained. Because that's one of the most important things about love. When you get the most intimate with someone in love, you should also get emotionally ready to take responsibilities to a certain level with loyalty, honesty and sincerity.

[@eggnogalcoholic]

3:06 I am LOVING the audience member in the top right corner giving the YES to Gabby’s explanation of the responsibility of love!

[@Delilah25]

She's so far above him in class, emotional intelligence and empathy. She's so much better off without him.

[@funchik93]

Gabby is so ready for marriage. She's a mature woman, she knows what she wants. He put her through the ringer and she came out on top. I'm so ready to watch her find love and so scared the producers will do her dirty... Edit 7 months later: this franchise can burn in hell.

[@tiffanyjones7179]

She’s so impressive and very well spoken.

[@gamerjamson]

Why everyone keep saying this?

[@tiffanyjones7179]

@@gamerjamson That’s just my opinion on the matter. I can’t speak for everyone else but I’m assuming it’s their opinion as well.

[@SamanthaTwist]

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@cattt2267]

Well we have to thank Clayton cuz he's giving us Gabby as one of our bachelorette leads because he brought her this far along the journey!

[@kaitlynbristle5685]

Gabby is so intelligent and beautiful. One of the best contestants to come out of the franchise.

[@jaminjohannashow]

First❤️ so happy Gabby and Rachel are the Bachelorettes!🥳 Praying they find their person and wish the best for Clayton and Susie🙏 Gabby looks stunning! So true what she said about love and actions backing up words You go sis! We all make mistakes and grow from them and I believe Clayton will and I wish the best for them all. I feel terrible they had to go through that. They will find their person❤️

[@annkirk7676]

You go Gabby, Clayton she gave you everything you were not up front with her period!! NO transparency at all !!!

[@Change2be1]

I guess Clayton was surprise to see Gabby read him he thought she was slow and easy.

[@elijahparis-salmon9943]

@@Change2be1 I get it. I totally understand how they feel but he made a huge mistake and he deserves a second chance. But we’re not gonna just sit here and come at Clayton like that because he has apologized so many times. But he did the best he can. My God. Yes he made a mistake. And he has learned from all of his mistakes

[@sandraatkins2539]

Clinton told them what they wanted to hear because he wanted the chance to sleep with the two of them. He exploited their love for him. In all candor, I think Gabby and Rachel decided to have intercourse with Clayton thinking it would make him pick them. Words are not vows Gabby. Clayton did not force you to sleep with him. Afterall Clayton was still a virtual stranger to you. In the end, he picked the girl who did not sleep with him. I hope this taught both of you a lesson. Please don't further disgrace yourselves and your families by sleeping with men in the fantasy suite. Focus on character and personality instead of being swayed by a bunch of sweet words and intimate kissing. Words are just words until a person proves himself. Yes Clayton was a bum for exploiting both of you, but each of you also played a willing role in your own heartbreak. Blessings

[@lauralittle6021]

"I'm sorry you feel that way" is not an apology!

[@elizabethheim1130]

I feel like when she’s explaining herself, it’s in a tone that says “it’s ok” and it’s not ok

[@Sara-qw7lc]

I didn’t like Gabby much during the season but this episode, I respect her so much!!! Like how put together she was and how she didn’t shed one tear for this guy!

[@SilatShooter]

She was my favorite. She looked great last night. Hope she sets a better tone for her season of the bachelorette. But I can't help wonder how it will work with two bachelorettes at the same time, what if they both like the same guy? Or their favorite guy 'loves' them both?? Deja Vu?

[@RGarg-zj4eo]

After this I love Gabby so much.... She is so matured. She is gorgeous, mature and responsible Literally the reasonable logical lesson is a lesson for all men!!

[@2playlaughgrow]

I'm not sure who Clayton spoke to first - Gabby or Rachel at ATFR, but he basically repeated his words with both ladies and said a whole bunch of nothing ...

[@seshat927]

Rooting for you Gabby 💕💕💕 can’t wait for your season!!

[@sphaleriteme]

This man really has a hard time admitting when he is wrong. I hope Susie is ready too deal with that

[@Vim-eo2zy]

Are we watching the same season? Because didn't he just admit multiple times that he's wrong and have made mistakes? I'm not sure he necessarily understands what mistakes he's made though.

[@heinchaldejongh3259]

What A Queen. Only the best of the best of gentleman for her season ♥️

[@lisamorman-patterson2773]

Such a smart young woman...applause..

[@forgiven213]

"When you say you love someone you're assuming responsibility to protect them, to care for them, and to not hurt them..."👏

[@rileybooker9824]

Gabby is a gem. Just look at the amount of people nodding behind every word she says.

[@nievarezproductions]

“I’m sorry you feel that way” … not an apology bruh

[@rish9359]

Gabby is smart and well-spoken.

[@SamMKKK]

“I did feel the way that I felt with her about having those feelings, but I did have love for you all.” HELP 😭😭

[@Sy340]

I don't really watch reality TV but when I saw this on another youtube channel I became so intrigued. How Clayton genuinely felt self-righteous about manipulating the feelings of 3 different women to solicit their utmost affection towards him is a perfect case study on how modern dating zeitgeists have conditioned people to prioritize "having a lot of options/interest" over assessing a genuine connection with someone. I think Clayton was focused on maintaining the interest of multiple women and maintaining the "chase" and he took advantage. But what makes Gabby's words so powerful and compelling are that they speak directly to the popular attitude of comparing and reducing people to "options" in "competition with one another" rather than seeing them as autonomous individuals with their own desires, needs, and expectations that are capable of rejecting your rose and walking out at any time.

[@blueRosesforme]

Gabby was 100% right with every word she said to Clayton. She is beautiful and intelligent with such an eloquent fashion of expressing herself, I can only hope for the ultimate match in her future partner! I look forward to watching her Bachelorette season !

[@sarahkelly3234]

Ok, Gabby seem to be very intelligent but i cannot imagine seeing her on another BN show knowing how it operates. Great Speech.

[@juliecopelandbarrows2971]

At least she will have more control this time... I hope. The guys will be lining up for both of them.

[@jbwmh2776]

“I’m sorry you feel that way” isn’t the same as “I’m sorry I did that to you”. He SUCKS

[@kmart3736]

Hopefully now Clayton understands what it means to love someone. Thanks Gabby for the free lecture.

[@bhavanasurti5646]

I like Gabby because she said everything to Clayton what she has to say being upfront.Gabby you deserve better

[@HaleyPatriciaASMR]

She’s a queen. She’s so sweet, mature and well spoken

[@di_from_north4460]

Gabby is my favorite bachelorette EVER! And I have watched the show from the beginning. I feel she is the absolute funniest, smartest, most charismatic of any woman to have graced the cameras of this franchise. She will do wonderful things in her future career and in life, and I hope she finds love....Although I am not sure she will find her soulmate on this show....I wish her the best.

[@mcnaaame]

Gabby's EQ is off the charts

[@Bayoubebe]

Congrats to the girls who dodged a bullet. Good luck to Susie. She can only carry the emotions for both of them for so long

[@christinesmith7505]

Clayton and Susie aren’t as mature as Gabby, but together, Clayton & Susie will grow and mature. They’re good for each other. Everybody had an incredible parental support system at home. I really like the way Clayton’s parents stood up for the girls and supported their side in a fair and just manner. They did what was best for Clayton, not what was easiest and one sided.

[@sandraq7600]

She perfectly expressed true, real love - protecting someone and looking out for them.

[@vi3mpress]

Gabby is so classy and smart!

[@a.n.v340]

Gaby is a incredible woman she deserves love! She can explain herself with such class 👏

[@catherinetong4472]

I don't think Clayton is malicious at all, BUT he definitely thinks "love" with his other head.... which his love is likely lust, not true love. As Gabby said, when you really love someone, you care and protect them, you do not want to hurt them.

[@Ashbash-kf5xd]

Gabby is a rare gem.

[@JamminOnThe1]

When you love someone you protect them. I also think that you really feel that life is incomplete without them in your life. Theres this indescribable gnawing at your heart when your apart from them. So yeah, Clayton needs to reassess what “love” means. It’s not like in Anchorman. “I love lamp”.

[@jenniferrogers5491]

Susie better RUN!!

[@Userhandleidk]

He really said, “sorry you feel that way.”

[@Fran-su6vw]

gabby is a gem and we must protect

[@tubbsmom]

This was a little hard to watch for me because I loved listening to Gabby talk but Clayton truly doesn't seem to understand at all. I hated hearing him respond

[@jetsetmonkey9555]

who’s here because you didnt watch claytons season but wanna know more about gabby’s bachelor history coz you adore her on her current season

[@LuigiTheItalian]

Everyone in the crowd is against Clayton, and he's supposed to be the light of the show.

[@200991602]

Beware anyone that says " I'm sorry you feel that way " , they are discrediting your feelings He never owned it , his words don't mean a hill of beans

[@brittneythomas5101]

I love her, she is so intelligent and such a lady.

[@user-mc6de6yw1g]

how many times this man going to say “ i want to be transparent”

[@Mikayla_Y_1998]

Yes or “ incredibly sorry “🤣

[@pauljtee9141]

Probably as many times as he says, “I was just following my heart!!!”

[@ilanam3398]

I'm convinced he is a robot and has a limited number of programmed responses.

[@ms-lc1gr]

@@pauljtee9141 He's a medical Miracle . His heart is located so much lower than most people. Must amaze the x-ray technicians when he gets an X-ray

[@vllawmsangi9609]

And i thought i couldn't love her more

[@CATSWITHKYLA]

He is always absolutely sorry for what he did 🙄

[@rammyabdurahman3080]

I think Clayton is one of the worst bachelors I've ever seen on TV and not only the worst bachelor he is not a trustworthy man in my opinion because he disrespected Rachel and Gabby. He played with their minds which a man shouldn't do at all. He should have been honest with the both of them instead of keeping them there longer. Clayton's maturity level is like a child in my opinion because if he loved Rachel and Gabby, he should have been honest with them and told them that he was in love with Susie in the first place. Back to the Women Tell All episode last week, Sierra told Clayton that he isn't ready for marriage and I absolutely agree her because what he did is what a scammer would do and which is misleading people when he knew that they weren't the one for him.

[@Aledale581]

Clayton isn’t following a word she’s saying

[@jayvee7482]

Katie can learn a lot from Gabby. The way she classically communicated with Clay-hun WITHOUT attacking him harshly.

[@donzee6624]

Katie the former bachelorette?

[@Crystalbomb321]

Katie had no class whatsoever.

[@MarinaMarina-fr8ex]

Omg, Gabby is amazing, I admire her so much, I would be pissed of!

[@michaelwheeler3782]

I hardly noticed Gabby at the start of the show . As the weeks progressed I kept wondering what Clayton saw in Gabby. All along I believed Rachel would end up with Clayton. To be honest if I had been Clayton, Rachel would have been the woman to receive my final rose. By the end of the show I got to love and respect the tremendous woman that Gabby is. To me Rachel and Gabby we both deserving if being the final rose. If I had been Clayton I'm not sure if I would have given the rose to Gabby or Rachel. In my mind both ladies would be a dream to be married to and equally deserving. I am going to watch the Bachelorette, if either one of these ladies walk away without the man of their dreams I am done with the show forever

[@kmart3736]

Gabby is a QUEEN 👑

[@christinesmith7505]

Gabby is the most incredible young lady. She is wise beyond her years and is blessed with the ability to express her wisdom succinctly and with such clarity that it amazes me. She also has a strong sense of right and wrong that will serve her well in all walks of life. Gabby should be a United States Supreme Court Justice. Our nation needs her at the helm. She will go far in life. She’d make an incredible United States President. Just sit back and watch Gabby’s intellect, common sense, reasoning, perseverance and logic shine. She’s a rare gem 💎 🌹♥️

[@inka87871]

🤣

[@evelynmedina4294]

He's not remorseful for what he did, good for Gabby for sticking up for herself

[@Alchemy8789]

Go Gabby!! You tell him how you feel!!!

[@priscilliacarter1144]

I like how Gabby does not mince words

[@sacdiyaa1]

Well said girl... 👏👏👏👏👏

[@Catch-qn3xh]

Blows my mind she's Dean's ex girlfriend. Now we know why Dean was so messed up. What guy wouldn't be after losing her? Betcha a cookie it was her decision to split up. She's AMAZING.

[@SusieQ1971]

@dolores e When did she date Blake?

[@donzee6624]

Which Dean?

[@ms-lc1gr]

@@SusieQ1971 she didn't date Blake. She went out with a group of people of which he was one

[@SusieQ1971]

@m s ya I'm not the one saying she did, I was responding to someone else.

[@SusieQ1971]

@Don Zee The one who went on Paradise and met and is still with Cailynn.

[@mauracorsini7727]

she is so damn eloquent. love love love her.

[@daniellejohnson9322]

Hell yeah Gabby! .. You go girl!