Gabe Goes Bowling! Autistic, Nonverbal Teen learns the art of bowling and takes on the arcade!

Gabe is autistic and nonverbal! His therapist Kiana takes him to do different activities for two hours each week. He has recently started to enjoy bowling!
His bonus mom and I decided to take him to the local bowling alley that he has been to with Kiana. He was so happy!
Gabe loves loud and exciting places, this was the perfect activity for our family!
First we started by using the ramp but eventually Gabe took it upon himself to try bowling without it! We were shocked and so proud of him for trying it his own way! He made so much progress in just an hour. He was paying attention to where the bowling ball ended up and seemed proud of himself with each try!
Afterwards we headed to the arcade! Gabe learned how to play ski ball for the first time and even succeeded in making one in at the very end! It was an awesome feeling to see him do so well! Even just trying is a huge accomplishment! Later we shot hoops in the arcade which was my favorite part of the afternoon! Stay tuned for that video!
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[@michhart4237]

I've had a rubbish start to 2023 but watching this wonderful young man battling his fears and never giving up has made me smile, cry and burst with pride for him. He is a true gift. X

[@managerialelitetoaster3456]

You've got plenty of room for things to improve then!

[@moondash475]

@@officerjimlahey Ok but that’s just how he is. If it’s painful to watch, that’s just you.

[@monerabaraguir1124]

HE HAS A MODELS FACE HE'S SOO HANDSOME YOUNG MAN WE LOVE YOU FOREVER GABE

[@Wizzcan]

Honestly, we all love Gabe and his 2 Moms! ❤️❤️❤️

[@fortheloveofgabe]

Thank you!

[@Wizzcan]

@@googleuser4530 why??

[@sp-1973]

@@googleuser4530 troll 😒🤣

[@alyssamiller9800]

Love you gabel

[@Lylo-mj8ek]

Amen❤❤❤🎉

[@nsheintal]

Gabe’s world is constantly getting larger ❤ Caroline is a natural born teacher and mother. The patience she shows is absolutely incredible❣️Way to go Gabe and his mamas 🎉🎉🎉

[@magador1]

I can't read his feelings, but he seems to enjoy it. You two are doing a very good job and are there for Gabe, God bless you. Five years ago I did a photo exhibition, I'm a photographer, and I noticed a boy who was standing in front of the pictures completely excited, the next day he was back. His mother told me that he was obsessed with photos and photography. He is also autistic and rarely speaks even though he can. I invited him to my studio and he loved it. After I explained the technique to him, he immediately wanted to take photos and obviously remembered everything I explained to him. Since that day he has come to my studio very often and now he has his own key. He also does exhibitions but he never goes there when there are visitors, he doesn't like it when there are too many people.

[@barbarabruce7648]

That's wonderful of you.

[@juliadonley5563]

Amazing! I would enjoy seeing his photos.

[@matrix5000100]

I have ADHD and suffer from social phobia. I also somehow live in my own world, so that I often find it difficult to understand the "normal" world. I'm fascinated by people like Gabe. I'd love to know what Gabe's thoughts are on a day like this. I hope I didn't write anything wrong? It's always nice what Gabe mother does for her wonderful son. Gabe is a great young man and always looks well dressed. I think and hope that he is a happy man.

[@empress2529]

You may have social phobia and you might have the combined disorder: ADHD & Autism.... Gabe indeed, he always looks to handsome, and he can speak with his hands, but he rarely does, in the videos

[@enochia]

I have really bad social anxiety but my boyfriend and sister forced me to go bowling recently and I actually enjoyed myself towards the end. Sometimes you just gotta push yourself or have someone push you to face your fears

[@pepperjo8252]

Gabe 100% has two moms. Caroline was heaven sent. I often think this is the perfect family. Thanks for sharing all of your videos.

[@windwhisprz]

She is amazing and you can see they share a deep bond. Incredible parents!

[@debbypatterson5178]

Very very good parents, patient and loving but I can promise you they don't have time for pillow talk at night their head hits the pillow and they are asleep it is stressful to keep this pace up

[@nsheintal]

I agree 100%

[@duke6726]

So many of wish Gabe the best that life has to offer. He is so very lucky to have people in his life that truly care about his wellbeing and happiness.

[@Had_A_DAT]

I coach 3 children with autism. 1 is non-verbal. We have a great time every Saturday! We integrated them into our teen bowling league and all of our kids help each other. Acceptance is our biggest rule. That's one of the reasons I LOVE bowling, everyone can do it. It's one of the most inclusive sports. Great job, Gabe!

[@CowboysNo1Fan]

I love bowling too! My 18th birthday party will be a bowling bash

[@kellyherrin]

I LOVE his smile. So pure and sweet. You know it's never fake or put on for show.

[@wesd3819]

My name is Wesley and I am also special needs and watching him makes me happy

[@diamondheart9268]

I love the way he had “Happy Feet” when you put on his bowling shoes. It looks like this really is Gabe’s Happy Place because he just wanted to dance away. Loved this vlog. Great job mom’s!

[@fortheloveofgabe]

My favorite part

[@mariannebenjamin1330]

I love the way Gabe communicates! “Touching noses”! What an incredible young man. He has two mom’s that care so much for him. I like it that you engage him in social activities!!❤

[@janet-leecomeau8035]

Sensory overload.........lights, talking, noises, pacing, music, flashing, .......just breathe and take your time.......he is fabulous

[@Arkalius80]

From what I've seen, Gabe doesn't seem as sensitive to overstimulation from this kind of thing as many other autistic kids are. Gabe seems to do just fine among large crowds with lots of activity and noise.

[@kathybasilico5686]

Agreed

[@Littleone124]

Not everyone with autism gets over stimulated. In fact, some thrive better with lots of stimulation and Gabe appears to fall into that category

[@PeterGregg]

As a Christian guy that's on the older side I keep a prayer journal because I can't remember from day to day who I want to be praying for lol. I have Gabe on my prayer list so I remember to pray for him every day (hey, it works lol). When I pray for him and I also see a new video up I get excited!!! I can see Gabe processing things at a hundred miles per hour mentally so I was really curious to see how he was going to deal with a really busy place with tons of lighting input like the arcade. So many lights demanding his attention all at once was like an overload but he did great, I was feeling very proud of him. The bowling part - I wish they offered those side rails sooner, it looked like a awesome idea so every ball wouldn't go into the gutter. It must have been a wonderful feeling for him to see some of those pins fall down once he got the point lol. Thanks for a fun video, keeping you guys in my prayers - big thumbs up - tell Gabe I give a high five and a big thumbs up from Miami Florida 👍👍👍👍👍

[@ALLWILLBEOVERR]

Bless you

[@suzanne7277]

I will pray for Gabe too. Our God does miracles for people, he can give Gabe a blessed life always 🙏❤️

[@rdoodoo2021]

You seem nice 🙂🧡

[@suzanne7277]

@@officerjimlahey sorry to hear you are anti. How about you start having some faith, you might be surprised at what faith does and where it takes you 🙏❤️

[@Louise-ep1ml]

Bless you what a nice good guy 🤗

[@peggyh2637]

Most adults would not go so far from their comfort zone. Gabe is definitely trying hard because you are able to see the immense progress and he's proud. Gabe's Mom, you are doing a magnificent job with your son! Blessings to all of Gabe's family. 🥰

[@joygernautm6641]

Oh my God I’m crying. I just discovered your channel today. I also have a severely autistic son, who is 18, also named Gabriel.♥️.

[@melissacallan3991]

Both Moms are doing the best for Gabe as not selfish and share lovingly. Gabe is this happy as trusts his Moms and friends introduced to.

[@grahams8212]

Wow, what an amazing outing. Looks like it was so much fun. I am also amazed at how Gabe is able to cope so well in that environment with all the lights and sounds and movement there.

[@marywilson6760]

Thank you to the Family of Gabe, for letting us see into his world and hopefully get a better understanding of this Special young man and how he copes with things each day. God Bless you all always. ❤❤❤

[@Lylo-mj8ek]

I love when he gets those happy eyes and that half smile like he is up to something 😂. You can planely see he is a very happy person.❤

[@lisalong9353]

Oh my, I have never seen a channel like this. I have a grandson with autism and I was so lost as to what I can do with him. You, Gabe and his Bonus mom are giving me so much hope. Thank you for sharing Gabe's life with me.

[@cathybrown]

I love the Gabe videos. He's a great guy, and his mom is #1! ❤

[@joycebrown6079]

Bowl and twirl, cute love it!! 🤠

[@sandrabackus7482]

Wouldn't it be wonderful if people would learn how to love the simplest things in life and find joy in what they do. His joy is contagious.

[@slimsonite2111]

I love his dance/wiggle when getting his first shoe on!! 😄💖 He's so excited!!

[@DesireeTN]

Have them put the bumper pads up, so no gutter balls are thrown. He loves it and watching others intently. She is such a blessing.

[@charishurt1768]

He did a fantastic job looked so happy 🥰🎊🥳💙

[@Appelcat222]

What a fun place! So much to do! Gabe did such a great job bowling and he looks so comfortable & happy. And skeeball…WTG Gabe!

[@laurelmakula2835]

What a sweet kid. You give him so many experiences. He’s so lucky to have you both!

[@russellthemuscle60plus11]

Wow, He looks very excited to bowl, his mothers are amazing teaching him.

[@robertyanes4751]

So happy for Gabe. He looks to be really enjoying himself. Your such great parents..im glad he has such fun, and loving parents. Go Gabe!

[@sherylriehl1334]

He’s doing so well!! Looks like he’s having lots of fun! He loves those French fries! Ha ha!

[@jguitar23]

The most gorgeous bowling alley I've ever seen! So cute, his first non ramp shot! Bravo young fella!!♡ It's theraputic for me to watch your family because my Mom and bro had/have autistic behaviors with massive tantrums. Gabe is so sweet it helps me think about their behavoirs less fearfully.

[@craftycat1185]

Mom you have a absolutely adorable son. He seems so pleasant and loving. May God continue to give you all the strength etc…. Prayers and love to you all❤️🙏🏻💯So proud of you Gabe. Your a champion in my eyes😊

[@karenrobey1067]

Love this family. I love how Gabe enjoys being with his Moms and always is so happy.

[@sylwialalala4393]

You both are an incredible parents He's really lucky to have you in his life ❤️ Lots of love from UK 🇬🇧

[@margaretmarsden9003]

I absolutely love watching Gabe he is such a good looking young man .I feel like giving him a great big hug . You are so loving and it’s beautiful to watch how interactive you are with him to make him happy and feel safe❤❤❤❤❤

[@prosquid2550]

This is such an amazing video. He is such an inspiring young man with two amazing and supportive moms. Way to go Gabe!😊

[@user-bg4lm4hn9c]

Gabe a great guy who I’d say with the incredible & fantastic support he receives from his incredible & devoted Mother he will come on fine 🍀💯✊💕

[@samlove1081]

God bless Gabe and his two moms!😊

[@ronelle.p1824]

I am pretty sure he enjoyed this outing very much. Gabe's a dancer. I watched his dance moves. He did lots of spins. I was so excited to watch his progress in the bowling! Great work Gabe.

[@kathybasilico5686]

All the flashing lights and noise can be overwhelming, but Gabe seems to handle it,after a little pacing. Get getting involved in many things. Even if things don't go well the first time it opens the door for latter attempts. Good work moms.

[@christelbrown2349]

Caroline is so wonderful with him!! He has a real blessing with both moms. I love how she interacts with beautiful Gabe.

[@theslitherysylvie4010]

I love your channel! My daughter is 20 years old and is non verbal and has Autism. I am always trying to think of activities she might enjoy, and this is a great idea!

[@O-fv8gh]

Love Gabe and his family! He has such a loving committed family . They are both so blessed . I enjoy his dancing …Touches my heart , hugs to Gabe !!!

[@tomgentry9212]

Such a truly inspiring family. Gabe is an inspirational young man as well as his two moms.

[@user-qp6cr4vr6p]

Amazed at how calm he is, in such a stimulating environment! Love it! 😊

[@joesony5196]

Gabe has amazing smile;has a chance to be with mom

[@aprilfox1057]

This chap has to most wonderful mom’s in his life. Gabe you are achieving so much on your learning journey. Keep up the great work.

[@sandrabackus7482]

See he's so happy wanting to bowl that's incredible I love it😂❤

[@lucyrosepetal]

I use all my wishes that Gabe gets a miracle and clicks to talking.

[@lindamarie6574]

Gabe is adorable! I think everyone loves Gabe!

[@kathybasilico5686]

Hi moms. Looks like Gabe is giving bowling a good try.. a lot going on lights ,games, music,bowling and food. GABE handled it ,even enjoying himself. Great job keeping him interested. Hard/loving work for you,moms, but so worth the effort. God bless all of you. Kathy

[@karenfitzpatrick6256]

Small steps forward. Huge leaps forward. What a great time!

[@yeesh9215]

Love his eyes. So expressive. I bet area folks around town, say "Hi Gabe!"

[@bettypisiakowski2148]

I don't know how this showed up on my feed.. but I am blessed to watch you all..and your love for each other..May God bless you as you have blessed me ❤️

[@joshmckenna7319]

He is so brave.

[@mnchst6]

I like seeing you guys get out and really enjoy the world with Gabe. I love it!

[@darlenequinn193]

I know you moms know almost everything there is to know about autism and I know nothing, but watching Gabe made me wonder if it would be possible for him to communicate using simple American Sign Language. My grandchildren learned how to sign before they could talk watching Signing Time videos. He just never gave up on his bowling. So calm and great to see.❤

[@andyclark8991]

Love the videos. Mum & Gabe you’re awesome you all are.

[@mustlovedogs5569]

The dancing while getting shoes on is so great. I bet he would like air hockey too at the arcade

[@johnbartholomew1837]

Mother always remember that the good Lord puts special children to very special parent's. I am proud of your parenting skills and proud of Gabe

[@LP-kq9rq]

Hello beautiful people! I admire Gabe for having such amazing moms right by his side and i admire the 2 moms for having such an amazing son! Really, in my opinion this is what family life is all about! No matter what is going on.....love rules! Greetings from the Netherlands 🌻 We love your channel!

[@fortheloveofgabe]

Thank you so much!

[@evamnieto62]

I love gabe, he is such a wonderful kid with a wonderful gift, and that gift is having me, looking through his world how wonderful life is!! He make me happy, he make me feel loved, make me a better person just to see him go in life so amazing the way he see it !! And the two moms are doing so an amazing job, love an care for him !! Thank you both! But mostly thanks Gabe! You make my day every time I see you videos ! Gracias 🙏 por compartir los momentos más hermosos de sus vidas con este niño tan especial para todos ! God blessed you always !! ❤

[@rjlong89]

He seems like a good kid

[@ByFaithAlone13]

As a parent, I adore you both!! God bless, stay the course, it’s going to be a beautiful journey, you’ll see!! Well done awaits you💜

[@fortheloveofgabe]

Thank you so much!!

[@suzanne7277]

Fantastic video ❤ I’ve just shared it with my 27 yo Autistic Spectrum son. He doesn’t talk much except when I ask him questions as he’s a very quiet natured person. I think he will enjoy this video as he enjoyed the activities that Gabe does - beach, bowling, game arcades, throwing balls. Keep up the great videos ❤

[@raynell808]

I just started following you all and I just adore you all. I'm also learning about autism. My nephew just married and his step daughter has autism. So I figure I start learning about the different types, so that I can engage with his daughter properly. I enjoy your videos very much. Thank you for sharing and educating me. Aloha From Hawai'i!!

[@caraevans2609]

I love seeing you guy out in the community living it up!!

[@bluejack644]

Nice ambient glow on those lanes. Every bowling alley I've ever been in was way too brightly lit. That one looks cool.

[@davidcopperfield-notthemag397]

Wow. I am shocked Gabe can go into this place with all the lights,activity and noise!

[@davidclaytonddc]

Such an enriching activity, it is nice to see how much fun you are all having.

[@francesrivard9045]

I love this kid. God bless him and his family.

[@chelscidpfighter5980]

Go Gabe! I couldn’t stop smiling! ❤❤❤

[@KikaJay]

Such a cool family. I love you guys! Gabe is awesome!

[@sativadiva3771]

Hi Gabe. Been watching your videos. I luv your authentic self!

[@yvonnemckenna6936]

amazing job Gabe... wounderful mums 💞

[@cathycollins9538]

Gabe has the best moms ever and the moms have the best Gabe ever! 🍃🌸🍃

[@brianna2124]

Excellent job Gabe!! 👍

[@slimsonite2111]

Nice shot! 1,000 points...woo hoo!! 🏆

[@maryhernandez8818]

Ur teaching. I'm left speechless at times.

[@melissasmith5756]

i love watching him hes a great kid i wish i could meet him lol ❤❤

[@marlisevisser1995]

Love this young man. Love from South Africa

[@peterosbourne3571]

He's just great.

[@judyvispi]

Love it! He is doing great! The love and care you guys give is amazing, he will find his speciality someday, keep teaching and loving! God Bless!🙏😇

[@marktegrotenhuis]

This looks like so much fun. I like bowling too, or actually any kind of sport where it al comes down to aiming at the right spot. But I actually have gotten less good at it because I rarely ever get to do it anymore and going to those kind of places by myself is something I'd never do. If I would be closer to you I would love to hang out with you guys some day.

[@rodsan7867]

Aww so cute he gets happy to bowl it brightens a person to see so much happiness

[@Dolly-Days]

Beautiful! Really enjoyed watching you all have fun together!

[@carolmartin4413]

Way to go Gabe...and moms!👍

[@jaxjax3494]

I love his facial expressions! Good job mom!

[@gareymincham1939]

What an amazing young man & family 😊

[@Jules-bk6qo]

I love the bowl and twirl! I bet it brings good luck every time

[@eleanorvincent32]

You guys are a Beautiful Family. Love watchin you all. Just found you recently

[@beverlykeller5264]

Awesome video, music and graphics! Gabe does so well with all the sensory input, my head would be spinning ❤️

[@Heaven76Sent]

❤ You are all so awesome.

[@annmurray7437]

Looks like you had a great time Gabe with your two mom's and you did great ❤️

[@mollythousand1598]

He's so frikkin' cute

[@kahwana1604]

I loved this video. The ramp in use, build confidence, then no ramp. The interaction between Gabe and Caroline is just amazing. She knows just how to approach each new experience. God Bless both Moms. 2 is better than 1. And french fries to top it off! 😋

[@timothyleon558]

Such a great time out. I feel lifted through every second of your bowling experience. The French fries and atmosphere just seemed so positive for each of you. Gabe is always dressed impeccably regardless of what makes up his outfit. I’m so glad he has the amazing loved ones around him.