Garrett Garfield-Don't Wait (Domestic Violence Awareness Tribute)

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This song was written and recorded in tribute to Kammy Mae, the Kammy mae foundation, and all victims and survivors of domestic violence.
The strong women you see in the video are all survivors in the fight against domestic violence, and I was honored to be a part of their video.
Please visit Kammymaefoundation.weebly.com for more information on how to help.
Stand Up and Speak Out! If you or anyone you know is in a domestic violent relationship there is help. Contact the domestic violence hotline at 1-800-897-5465
Proceeds for the song will be going to help raise Awareness for domestic violence through Kammy Maes story and the Kammy Mae foundation.
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Video shot by: Tim burton ([e-mail])
Video Edit: Cory Beaver (Instagram- @thecorybeaver)
Song produced by: Clayton Blue ([e-mail]) & Garrett Garfield
Song mix and Master: Clayton Blue
EDIT* Sharee Nelson 12/31/1970-07/07/2002
Special thanks to:
-Julie Garfield
-Hailey Arnold
-Suncrest Elementary
-Sherry Hill
-Evita Chatterley
-Brad Wentz
-Brittani Hardy
-Tammy Coates
-Lynsi Edmunds
-Andrea Hunziker
-Clark Layman
-Sommer Wagner
-Jaysha Hardy
-Morgan Webb

[@shayevondekempt6069]

It took nine year's to leave my abuser. The amount of damage that was done. Is so indescribable. I will never be the same. I pray for those who are going through this. To have the strength and courage to leave.💖

[@kerilee7882]

How did you do it?

[@marianacastro9625]

Same question as her …

[@shayevondekempt6069]

@@marianacastro9625 My abuser's crime's caught up with him. It was his arrest and getting sent to prison that saved me. And I changed my phone number. I finally just got the courage to say no more. And get the help I needed to see. That I didn't deserve that. But when you get beaten down so much. It changes you. The abuse was horrible. I still have scars. I suffer from PTSD. But I am getting stronger. I have faith and GOD.

[@snehamishra2333]

Facing the same from my family's side... The saddest thing is that you can't even get rid of it when it comes to family... Neither you can speak it up with anyone... Things like this kill person from inside each day! But anyway have to deal with it

[@MP-pd8xo]

I was in an abusive relationship for 3 years and the amount of damage it has done is indescribable. I escaped in 2013 and the pain is still there even though I’m in a wonderful marriage. My husband is the best most amazing person I can imagine for myself but my ptsd kicks in and the memories flood my head and I can’t forget……no one can understand the pain…not even my husband but I know I am strong and he helps me so much through everything. I am strong. I am wonderful. I am worthy. That abusive person will not defeat me. He doesn’t deserve the best of me.

[@robyngemma7382]

Only those who have truly been abused will feel every emotion when listening to this first time

[@marvismatarozzo5119]

I agree! If I had heard this while in the abuse, I might have cracked into a million pieces.

[@carolestrasburg9847]

Or those who knew the victim when she was a small chiy

[@WVGURL304]

It took me 16 yrs to get away it's been 8 yrs now and I'm finally happy again it took me 8 yrs to undo what he done mentally my physical scars will always be a reminder but I made it

[@hannahzoe3521]

This is exactly what I needed to hear and see right now. It's been 2 weeks since I called the cops, 2 weeks that he's been in jail, and now I'm 2 days away from starting a new life far far away. After ending an 8 year relationship in such a traumatic way, it feels nice to know I'm not alone and I did the right thing. Thank you for everyone involved in this piece of art ❤️

[@nahiloveyou5335]

I proud of youuu cuzz can get out from this situation 💜im sorry to hear tht but i happy for youu to hear this .

[@nahiloveyou5335]

I proud of youuu cuzz can get out from this situation 💜im sorry to hear tht but i happy for youu to hear this .

[@thomasjacobs3006]

And that all in 2 weeks????? Can you please let me know how you did that?

[@bfd670]

This....means so much to me.. 20 plus years of domestic violence, left only because he put me in a coma and caused brain damage.... People knew what was going on, yet i always lied and said it was my fault. I am a miracle to be breathing.

[@peytonclarke6832]

Over a year since I left the abuse, and still finding it hard to heal, I will get there ...

[@mariskakat6063]

I left about 6 years ago and I'm still healing. Don't be ashamed of your journey in healing. It takes time. I highly recommend a therapist. It does get better, but it takes work and willpower. You CAN do this ❤️

[@mnsnsprings1]

Came out of an abusive relationship Was abused for years by husband and his family without knowing that it was abuse Breaks your soul You are no longer the same person

[@melissadavis4532]

This song deserves more recognition

[@kcorleone1805]

Couldn’t agree more …. Lots of Garrett’s music deserve more recognition. You spoke my mind with that comment!

[@Enriquez95]

Still stuck in this abusive relationship going on three years I have a 3 month old son and I am scared to try to leave everytime I almost do he promises never again. this song gives me hope

[@leighsartin1733]

Sounds so familiar wish I could help you some how!! Prayers💜❤

[@ginnypoquette5802]

This brings back so much and now im still having to deal with him because of our kids. And I see the pain in them and he doesn't even see he how much damage he really did to us.

[@Noobchannel518]

And now your gone man. Rest easy beautiful soul. Heaven gained a sweet angel

[@user-lucariogirl]

After having multiple abusive relationships piled on top of another, it is painfully dreadful to be in a relationship. It is hard to love, when you don't feel deserving of love. I'm still struggling, but this guy I'm dating is allowing me to be a new fulfilled version of myself.

[@MC-mk6gs]

❤ this is all I have known my whole life

[@MC-mk6gs]

Mine said any.other man would of killed you by now and shot you twice, and he still denies saying

[@viciouscupcake]

I’m going through this. This song gives me hope.

[@tayeblessed6008]

I'm sitting here crying ,I cant believe I survived and got away .he tried to kill me .I survived something horrific to others

[@emmathwaits3938]

we survived. we did it. we really did it.

[@lunabinofsin]

Me too babygirl. I cant imagine how id feel today if i didnt leave 2 weeks ago....i did the right thing.

[@kimberlyastine]

Me too. I am writing my survivors memoir in hopes my story helps others. I was shot on 9/11/2020. I didn't escape until 2 months later. I am very lucky to be alive. You did it. We did it. We are all survivors! 💜

[@nahiloveyou5335]

@@kimberlyastine uolls r survivors💜💜💜💜 im proud of uolls

[@christelbroeders887]

Me too 🖤

[@toejamontoast]

Tough poop to my violent ex, I'm not ready to be an Angel yet. Court... And I won, he's got another conviction... I may be left with permanent physical damage but... I LIVED. I survived... I've been broken hurt and in so many ways but? I survived and it's hard but there is an army behind you, believing in you. You'll be okay. Just believe in yourselves. 💜💜💜

[@frankyxop715]

This song is fantastic, especially because it was made for my mom, it haunts me to this day.

[@laurensmyth4550]

THIS SONG WAS ON REPEAT WHEN I WAS LEAVING HIM!! THANK YOU!

[@lauriedretke5]

I'm a survivor of Felony Assault. I speak often about my ugly journey to recovery. I simply LOVE this song. Yup....my ❤ is still open, but does anyone want it now. Thanks G.G for the gentle reminder that 'im not broken'

[@ghostofkyiv3422]

This is exactly what I was looking for there is a girl I care about who is going through a difficult situation with her boyfriend she’s afraid and I’ve been trying to get through hopefully this will show her the light

[@sanjyamick6618]

Thank you for sharing such a POWERFUL truth! I....we...are not broken. I did not deserve anything he decided. There is love on the other side of healing! A whole self! I am.good enough! I am loved! I did survive!!

[@ebonymaria6062]

lyrics: This isn't him you know it But the bruises feel the same The stomach leaves unspoken but you can feel the rain when you've had enough he knows it he breaks you down again and all your feelings hopeless when you you trying to find the end but it's not your fault when he breaks your heart don't wait your not broken your heart still beats the door still opens don't wait to walk away your worth more than he let's you see and people start to notice then he he promises to change but it It's not your fault and it's never been your fault a promise that is broken tell me time again don't wait your not broken your heart still beats the door still opens don't wait to walk away your worth more than he let's you see don't wait your not broken and don't wait your not broken and don't wait your not broken don't wait your not broken and don't wait your not broken and don't wait your not broken don't wait your not broken and don't wait your not broken and don't wait your not broken you never did deserve it don't you ever take the blame for the life he has stolen now your an angle Heven gained don't wait

[@aubreyrangel9755]

This touched every level of my soul… My sister was murdered by her husband in January 2021 💔 please don’t stay if you’re in an abusive relationship!!!

[@zoed4304]

Having been through this myself - this is very powerful and true. ❤️

[@rebeccarose113]

Me too since 19 x

[@ryanwilliams3878]

You touched the lives of so many, Garrett! Look down over us all. 🖤

[@juliegarfield5673]

Beautiful song. Beautiful boy. Thanks for listening.

[@tiffanysteffy1993]

Wow This song hit me hard in my already broken heart :(

[@kittyp330]

what a beautiful thing to make. thank you for putting your beautiful voice to a good cause

[@hope2175]

Stumbled upon this song just to find out this beautiful man is no longer with us rest in heavenly peace Garrett your music changes lives even if you are not here to see the impact you make❤️❤️ I am a survivor of DV so this song hits close to home❤️‍🩹

[@juliabruce7368]

Me over here looking for songs for a dance to perform at a fundraiser to prevent domestic violence bawling Nmyeyes out. My dance teacher: you OK? Me: yes

[@AngelaBuyck]

Thank you from a survivor

[@georgettemoussa221]

beautiful song, such powerful words...thoughts and prays for all victims and survivors

[@kray9438]

Rest in Power Garrett. 🖤 Your music lives on 🙌🏽🙏🏽

[@juliegarfield5673]

Where words fail... Music speaks.

[@samcurto4793]

I sent this to a friend who cried and sent it to someone who is going through this... THANK YOU

[@Noobchannel518]

Sadly he passed away from depression a week ago :'(

[@samcurto4793]

@@Noobchannel518 who?

[@Noobchannel518]

@@samcurto4793 the artist of this song. Garrett Garfield He passed away a week ago. Depression got him. 🥺

[@samcurto4793]

@@Noobchannel518 wow......he was truly an amazing artist.....😭😭😭😭😭

[@Noobchannel518]

@@samcurto4793 you're right I didn't know he passed until I seen lauren babic write something on youtube about him. It broke my heart I loved his voice it was so genuine and calming.

[@blantonstamey6455]

Amazing. Moved to tears!

[@Nicksalesmusic]

You're doing so much good man. I love it.

[@lavendergilly5843]

If he's not abusive why am I afraid he will hear me listening to this song? (just thinking outloud...)

[@stephaniemata3971]

You saved me

[@kristengolightly6257]

You are amazing Garrett!!! I can’t believe we lost our freya! She would of loved this song ❤️ I just shared this with her.

[@thoraleah3]

I loved it. What a beautiful tribute 💔💔💔💔💔

[@Noobchannel518]

We lost garrett a week ago. Depression got him 😭

[@sheenarobinson8454]

19 years later an I'm still suffering from what he done to me , the nightmares the fear in my mind , an wow I wish this song was out when it all first started because back then it was hard for other people to understand , I wish my life took a different route , I wish I never had to go through what I did an yet still I'm a prisoner in my own mind 😪 such a powerful song xxx

[@Witchymomma37]

I left my abuser after a year relationship I’m glad I got out when I did but he told me he ain’t going out without a bang I had to take a beating ,broken nose and one concussion later ! I’m here listening to this song I’ll never forget the victims of DV 12/20/19

[@kennyarmstrong4191]

Incredibly touching. You're voice is beautiful, mate. Big love from Scotland 💙🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

[@amgleason71]

I survived it from my abuser. As a male d.v surviver. It's been 24 years and I still feel broken.

[@408_SJ]

We need to learn to get out of those relationships when you see the person is not going to change. I know is fuck up. You as a person and for those the love you and needs you gotta do the change nothing is impossible as long you breathing and start over again don't matter how many times it takes you to accomplish victory for yourself.

[@penelopecollin1311]

Hi, i am sure you will never see this but just in case I need to try. I am a university student and for a family violence class I am using your song to help victims of abuse. I need to show a copy of the lyrics and I cannot find a copy anywhere. If there is a chance I could get a copy I would really appreciate it. Thank you

[@aubreylynnrangel]

lyrics: This isn't him you know it But the bruises feel the same The stomach leaves unspoken but you can feel the rain when you've had enough he knows it he breaks you down again and all your feelings hopeless when you you trying to find the end but it's not your fault when he breaks your heart don't wait your not broken your heart still beats the door still opens don't wait to walk away your worth more than he let's you see and people start to notice then he he promises to change but it It's not your fault and it's never been your fault a promise that is broken tell me time again don't wait your not broken your heart still beats the door still opens don't wait to walk away your worth more than he let's you see don't wait your not broken and don't wait your not broken and don't wait your not broken don't wait your not broken and don't wait your not broken and don't wait your not broken don't wait your not broken and don't wait your not broken and don't wait your not broken you never did deserve it don't you ever take the blame for the life he has stolen now your an angle Heven gained don't wait

[@thoraleah3]

Thank you for your powerful music and beautiful message 💔 rest in power Freya

[@lisawatson7171]

please tell me where I can get the lyrics to this song. It has touched me so much. I wish someone would have told me these things 25 years ago. It took me 12 years to leave.

[@lavendergilly5843]

I'm in stage 4 of half leaving. 11 more years than I needed to stay.

[@stevey_]

RIP Garrett

[@littleguylearns816]

This is amazing Garrett. You are truly an artist that can speak from his soul.

[@allisonwerth8848]

Wow.... tears.....

[@theawarenesscoach7244]

This is beautiful. Thankyou for your creation!

[@chelslyscott9145]

Beautiful song! Great message!!

[@leighsartin1733]

Sadly so true! Pray for me for strength and courage!!!

[@johngilreath4145]

Love it bud.

[@manticore_9978]

this is so sweet

[@Barefootforestwanderer]

It took me 10 years to leave . After 3 battered women’s shelters and after I got out of the hospital the last time, I took my 4 babies and got out for good . They gave him 7 years in prison for what he did to me and my kids. He made me feel like nothing. Well I got my GED, went back to school again and became an EMT then volunteered at my fire dept. I bought my own home and truck. I made it and I’m not afraid of anything or anyone anymore. I was nozzelman first in last out of fires 🔥… I literally walked through fires and became strong inside and out . If you’re getting beaten don’t wait to be killed, and don’t let your kids suffer through that.

[@kristyofarizona9492]

Such a POWERFUL & MUCH needed message in todays society. Ur 1 of the good guys to be sure. Talented, pure of spirit & easy on the eyes yet uncorrupted. . .a rare bird indeed. Wishing U much deserved success.

[@lighttheway5088]

My friend Annie and her Mother are gone. Annie’s soon to be ex husband violently murdered Annie and her Mother. Her Mother died trying to protect her daughter. Annie was only 29 years old and a beautiful soul.

[@marandacurry9023]

When people talk to me or get close to me I think they're going to hit me or choke me out pretty much anybody that raises there hand to try to give me a hug or anything I flinch I'm not the same as I used to be I've been mentally and physically abused

[@gayleseely6958]

Thanks u for supporting me

[@haveyouseenmyson1415]

Nice

[@BlackSheepIncorperated]

❤

[@justmepoetry5830]

Just thank you...that's all I need to say

[@julieayala677]

My mom was murdered from demestic violence I’m 17 and I have to go forever without you mama she tired to leave and he shot her in the heart and den in the back leave while you have your chance don’t tell him just leave god bless who ever is reading this I wish you the best . R.I.P Monique Ayala aka my mama 🤍🕊

[@zmama1691]

He broke me beyond repair...

[@dixiilala9141]

You are not broken my love. You have just disconnected from your true self so that you can survive this. No one will EVER break you.

[@user-qj7mm4ec8e]

I am so proud of you if you ever need anything please reach 💜

[@braydenmurphy4608]

I was abused mentally as a child and then was abused mentally all last year by my ex girlfriend. I’m still healing. It’s very hard. Abuse happens to guys too…

[@rinnawayye5240]

I’m going through this and have been for years. I have no idea how to get out. I’m afraid.

[@remyfalla4182]

R D i just got out 😞 but i still love him dearly ! ❤️ know your worth you will get through it !!! X

[@GarrettGarfield]

R D I’m so sorry for the pain you’ve endured. You are strong, and absolutely worth removing yourself from that situation. There are people who can and want to help, please please reach out. Thinking about you [phone]

[@aymontoya9453]

Same here R D. 😔

[@rinnawayye5240]

Ana Deleon I’m physically free and in a safe place. I believe you can be too. Fight the fear, I hope you find your courage to do what is right for you. You are enough, you will be surprised I think to find out how many people will support you. I hope you are able to reclaim yourself freedom. 💜💜💜

[@mariskakat6063]

I've been through this and it took years to get out, but I did. It felt impossible. I truly want to help you, so I'll tell you what I did to escape. One day while my abusive ex was at work, I knew he would be gone for 8 hours. I called everyone to see if they could drive out to pick me up asap. My dad eventually drove out and got me. Haven't seen that asshole since. Wait till he is gone and LEAVE before he gets back. Find a safe place with a friend or family. It's easier said than done, but it CAN be done! Thinking of you and wishing you the best ❤️🙏

[@biancatoxic368]

💜💜💜😢

[@marvismatarozzo5119]

He had to have seen abuse or been abused for the amount of raw emotion in this song.

[@cyndiphillips6911]

It took me 15 years

[@nicolefox3200]

I need help 😢

[@jennrosejohnson]

Last night I threw out my boyfriend who got drunk and beat me last night, this made me bawl thank you so much for this.

[@myselfkristy]

I'm sorry to hear about that. I had my husband arrested for the 2nd time because he almost took my life Sunday. I saw my life flash before my eyes. He held our cat down to the ground with his foot. He grabbed my hair and pushed me towards the dresser. I got up. He pushed me towards the closet & hit me in the face. I fell he grabbed me by my hair. And dragged me across the ground. Flipped me different directions. At one point, luckily I moved my whole body the same direction he grabbed my neck. Because he tried to snap my neck. He said lucky I dont snap your neck. I would choke you if I wanted too. You dont love me, that's why you treat me like shit. I told him I do love you. He then says, say "Honey, I love you." I repeated those same words. He says "I don't believe you. Anything to save your life". He's said those same words to me before in the past. After he let me go he told me to give him insurance for $100. I'm not what for. Maybe cuz he knew I was gonna call the cops. Cuz I always do. He told me he was gonna call his job and tell his boss he wasnt gonna come in. That he was having problems with his wife. That I'm more important. I took that opportunity when he was on the phone to grab my back and run out the house. I've massed him 4 times in the past. I couldnt get to my mase or stun gun because it was in my backpack with a lock on it. At one point when he held me down, he asked for my pin code. I dont know what for. He didnt take anything from my bag. To test me to see if I'll give it to him and to scare me, I suppose. I been having a hard time copying with this. I love him so much. But I rather chose my myself, then him. I knew he was violent with his ex girlfriends and his 2 ex wives. I figure people can change. He was so sweet when we met. He had bought me and my best friend christmas gifts on christmas eve 2018. And we were a couple the day after Christmas. Got married 6 months later. It all got worse after we got married.

[@myselfkristy]

I know he knows how to use a gun. He use to be a crip when he was young. He has a old school crip tattoo on his left arm. He'll be 48 next month. Hes a immigrant. He came here from Thailand when he was 2. He left his green card at my house. It needs to be renewed next year. In a way I hope he gets deported for what he did to me. Crazy thing is this isnt my first abusive relationship. I was going with his close friend he grew up with for 5 years. My husbands 1st wife was married and has kids with my ex boyfriends oldest brother. So their basically family. I love my husband still, deep down inside. I feel stupid for still loving him. As much as I hate him and resent him for all the things hes done to me our entire relationship. I could never hurt someone the way he hurt me. Not just psychically. Emotionally, mentally, verbally and financially. He would gaslight me. And accuses me of cheating and hacking his facebook all the time. When I caught him making accounts under my name with my previous husbands last name. He even talks to women on Facebook and says it's only online. He doesnt meet them. And he does it to piss me off because I have guy friends. I told him many of times go find someone else. Cheat on me. Go ahead. Becaude deep down inside I want him to, so it'll be easier for me to leave. I kick him out all the time when he gets out of hand or I feel irritated with him because he gives me no space whatsoever & I'm always walking on eggshells. I can never be myself. He came back one day and a bunch of condoms fell out his bag. I was pissed. He says I thought you dont care if I cheat on you. But I haven't. I been faithful to you all this time. You cheat on me. That's why you pick fights to see another guy. I hear that shit all the time and it makes me angry. And he says why get angry & defensive if you ain't doing nothing wrong. I'm angry because he always projects his insecurities and guilt onto me. I'm not mad about the cheating. I'm mad that he accuse me of cheating but yet hes the one with the condoms, claiming they were passing around condoms at the beach to the homeless people with the soap. Why take the condoms if he not using it? He says it's not like your fucking me. We rarely have sex cuz of how he acts. But his excuse is because I'm cheating. No matter the argument it always leads back to me cheating. I'm done with his abusive, toxic, manipulating, malignant narcissistic behavior. Hes controlling, jealous and insecure. I deserve better and he knows it. I told it to his face many of times.

[@snehamishra2333]

More power to you 🙂

[@nahiloveyou5335]

@@myselfkristy glad to hear tht u can get out from abusive situation 😭💜 im sorry to hear all this things . n hoping u happy peacefully rn

[@Vanja133]

🤫😉🥰

[@Anna...MayBug]

Hi, my name is Joanna and I was 14. This is my story. (From what I can recall, I don't remember large chunks of my childhood due to trauma.) I was born into a home of domestic violence with my parents fighting and my brother and my dad drinking and fighting. All of this continued up until 2014 when my dad died due to suicide. A few months after my dad died, my mom got remarried to my now stepdad. Let me say now that I have never liked my stepdad. I never understood why I didn't like him until a year or so ago when my cousin told that he tried to have sex with her not too long after she turned 18. I was severely uncomfortable around him after she told me that but I never told my mom. Last year when I was in 13 in 7th grade, I was out of school for a week with the flu, one of those days I was out of school, I was laying in bed trying to fall asleep and my my stepdad came into my room and touched me, thinking I was asleep. He doesn't know that I know and my mom still doesn't know to this day and it has been over a year. My mom and stepdad fight and yell all the time. Only a few of my close friends know what has happened. My mom verbally, emotionally, and mentally abused me as a child and I am planning to cut all contact with her when I graduate and move out. She doesn't know that I plan on doing this and she won't know until it happens. I am going to get my payback for years of domestic violence and abuse.

[@user-ei3tc1wr3k]

It took me 13 years to get away from my abusive husband. Unfortunately I am still fighting a divorce.

[@saramarconi5178]

at 2:16 what does he say? Please i need the lyrics. Thanks!

[@nahiloveyou5335]

Dear come here , cuzz have someone already wrote down the lyric on comment .

[@christinecorney]

I didn't get out before he put me in a wheelchair. Don't wait to leave!!!!!!!

[@tiffanykenny4722]

I got the courage to finally leave.

[@hope2175]

Congratulations love❤️

[@tiffanykenny4722]

@@hope2175 thank you ❤️

[@EarthenEternal]

Offfffff..... The it's not rape hits fucking hard Thank you for acknowledging that it is...

[@Gfister820]

My best friend of 9 years stopped being my friend because her abusive boyfriend didn’t like me. He beat her everyday. Idk if she’s even ok. Her family hasn’t heard from her in idk how long. And I haven’t heard from her in a year. She was my ride or die now I’m afraid she may die

[@bmc5075]

I love him but his words hurt me

[@Oliv_iamccarthy]

My boyfriend tried to kill me the other night. Like actually said he wanted me to die. For months and months I was hiding the marks he left on my body. That night tho, everything switched. After he was done with me, he tried kissing me to “fix me” and all I wanted was to throw up after the kiss. It didn’t feel good at all. I sat back and I dissociated and used my brain. It was time to leave him the next morning. He’s now hiding from the police and still hasn’t been arrested. Wish me luck.

[@truckingwithtobee]

It took me 15 years to leave my abuser. It was my father….

[@jessicaray1884]

Man

[@marandacurry9023]

I'm not the same person I used to be I'm more scared

[@LearningK-re7iq]

Care bear 4U ❤

[@michellebrannon1907]

Help me!

[@nahiloveyou5335]

How bout you now ?

[@caitlinohanlan1669]

I’m in the same boat

[@marandacurry9023]

I am domestic violence survivor

[@pamelalamar5022]

I dont know how I survived! Beaten so bad that I had reconstruction on my eye and cheek bone, and broken noses, and broken arms .Had a gun to my head ! Broke up with him many times and found me and raped me! Went to my parents house and smashed out their big bay window to get at me! I never pressed charges because he said he would go after my family! That is how they have a hold on you!!!

[@katharynemoore7095]

How do u know its not your fault and you dont bring it out it him.. That you are broken

[@githens20]

15 yrs and counting not physical anymore since he cares about his high paying job now verbal and mental has broken me over years it's always my fault I hate myself I have 3 boys with him he has money but I'm not allowed anything I'm broken I hate myself but I did get 20 yr old niece and her daughter out the the situation he has stocked her for a year and 2 months ago he trying to kill her he bust3d her windows out, tore her care up with her in it with a crow bar and her new boyfriend in it let's not go on the pos she is with now bc he didn't do anything but film it he father is a detective and it took everything in me to tell him to please think of his kids and the grandbaby but after her new bf dropped the charges he had and her ex my bil was done with my niece alot has built up to it I was lucky to actually have the baby that night her father didn't even care if she was in the car or not he is in jail for 6 months then will be transferred to another cou.ty for violation of probation bc he had a dui at the time and he will get 11 29 I'm hoping he does but I also.live in fear he will come here

[@elizabethcampos9535]

Women are so beautiful why do men always abuse the good ones why not the bad ones...

[@SarahHughes-ee8bo]

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