Gathering Evidence When Representing Yourself in Divorce

[@kirstenbrightman4354]

Court is this morning! I'm extremely nervous representing myself but I have a ton of evidence to support my claim that I am a good and fit mother for my 3 children!

[@lauranelida5230]

Ever since I saw the documentary "Divorce Corp" I will say I gathered my evidence you do have to dress to impress. Show the judge and opposing counsel that you are smart and professional. They will see..." this person takes the Law Seriously "🤝 🤝 I won my case representing myself and I am now studying to become a paralegal 🤗

[@nelidalara1301]

I am a Pro-Se plantif that will say that I have gathered all my exhibits and I have written a evidence list. I am ready to go to family court and win my court case. I have a professional outfit to wear for Court 😉

[@LilmissJ111]

Bless you truly, ty so much from an abused father.

[@gustavhinaele8427]

Are you from South AFRICA?

[@SteveandShayTv]

I am going thru this thank for the video! My ex wants custody because I asked for a child support increase which is way past due.

[@divinceocristao3321]

Thank you so much. Much love and respect. This advice is priceless

[@SussyBacca]

The most helpful video I've seen on this subject so far!

[@Army20Veteran20]

I had every piece of evidence, witness statements, DCF reports, police reports, text messages, recorded phone calls, emails; everything against my ex-wife and opposing councel. The judge presiding disregarded everything I had and limited questions I needed to ask. In a word, I was hung out to fail by everyone involved against me, even the one behind the bench. In addition my constitutionally protected rights were violated by CSEA, with the help of the judge. How should I respond to all that?

[@marciahammond9735]

Hi Wendy your videos are very helpful. I have been told that I have to provide ALL the evidence that I have before I go to my first custody hearing is this normal. No suprises in court !!!! Thank you

[@liberation5521]

Thank you I am so close to pre-trial for transcribing multiple ideas from unsuccessful restraining order attempts is a great idea. I have done every piece of discovery possible. There is no way a cluster B will ever sign a medical release by the way. Request for admissions is a great way also to impeach someone on the stand. I know they're not used often in probate but for very difficult cases where there's been a lot of conflict it's a good idea. I even held a deposition which was useless because the new supply, her girlfriend, just kept repeating I don't know, I don't recall, please repeat the question over and over and over. Waste of money but I'm thinking there something I could do with that because I don't think that should be allowed. Interrogatories are very helpful as well, request for documents although with a cluster B will have to file a motion to compel because they will not give them to you right off the bat. I feel like I should go to law school.

[@handzupchump]

Thanks for explaining about the hippa thing!

[@DTibrey]

I love your videos! How do I know what to submit in the event of modifying a custody and visitation order as the custodial parent after pressing matters have come up and are not covered in the current order (i.e. communication, smearing, travel, school, medical). Besides usual forms...is there a memo of points and authority, a brief, a declaration, exhibits, or what sort of combination is there. With all the research, it becomes overwhelming and you do a great job of explaining things in a non-legalese fashion for us non-lawyers haha

[@kellijeray6886]

What about securing text messages from opposing side in family court?

[@hmongtalk1175]

Have you ever had a case that use PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR. Before or after filing devorice because spouse was cheating after getting kick out and ask to leave because of the police?. and was constantly treat with restraining orders?

[@sarahzellner]

I have a question. Can a judge grant an immediate danger temporary custody order to the father without the mother being charged for any crime for putting the child in immediate danger?

[@asianp1067]

Wendy how fast can you subpoenaed bank records and get then in hand? how much will it cost for say 2 years worth?

[@KkGaming-xg6ed]

Not only do u give great legal info but u are beautiful in doing it. Question...if I hire an attorney for my family court custody trial, if I am successful in getting primary physical custody awarded by the judge, can I request to get my lawyer fees reimbursed by my child's mother? Keep up the great videos! Thanks!

[@kkkristi]

Kk Gaming you can ask for anything you want! It doesn’t mean the judge will grant that. I ended up having to hire an attorney because my ex disputed paternity, so it was a huge fee that I wasn’t expecting to have, which my attorney asked the judge to consider reimbursement. It was denied.