Watch This To Know How I Forgave A Close Friend | Gaur Gopal Das

#forgiveness #lettinggo #gaurgopaldas
The forgiveness principle explained here is a generic one. Every situation is different and every individual’s capacity to let go is different as well. Whether or not we release the negativity is an individual choice. But to heal ourselves, it is advised that we do make an attempt, sooner or later.
Note: a) Forgiveness is not a black or white thing. These are many shades of grey and whether or not to forgive depends on the situation as well.
Ex: If a criminal or rapist is allowed to let go in the name of forgiveness, it encourages others who have such perverted tendencies to act wrongly. Have written on this elaborately in the book #lifesamazingsecrets
b) If a person repeatedly wrongs us and takes undue advantage of our goodness ...our letting go, our forgiveness can land us into the space of abuse. Stand strong and never allow anyone to abuse you in the name of virtue.
c) If you have asked for forgiveness and the person involved doesn’t respond even after a few times, you have done the right thing. Give them their space ... and let time decide how things move on.
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[@himal_pillay]

*Forgive not for the other person, but for your own peace of mind.*

[@himal_pillay]

@@SA-jj3em absolutely. Time heals :))

[@foodie1885]

Superb

[@himal_pillay]

@@SA-jj3em I've made a video on this! have a look if you want :)

[@GTDGAMINGTILLDEATH]

I feel it depends a lot on what connection you have with the person, sometimes forgiveness and apology both aren't required at all!

[@GTDGAMINGTILLDEATH]

Because sometimes like guruji said, in a close relation We say thing's We don't mean so it's up to both of the people understand this and at the same time remember all the great things which We have done for each other, all the lovely moment that We have spent together and move on instead of looking for an apology.

[@vanitanaga1280]

It took me many years to understand that forgiving someone who has hurt us is in fact for our own peace and to stop hurting ourselves. Forgiving is not easy but brings such calmness in life

[@touchwoodofgod9196]

sir ki bate mujhe etna heal kr deti h ki me unko words me nhi bta skta

[@GTDGAMINGTILLDEATH]

Forgive for them too because somewhere or the other even they got hurt! Shit happens because of both sides, nothing is one sided. If you were subject to bad behaviour or insults out of anger then you also gotta closely observe WHAT made the other person react like that! No one will say shit out of the blue moon without any reason! Forgiving only for yourself is nothing but selfishness,it only funnily means that you really haven't moved on and have only forgiven to satisfy your ego.

[@vanitanaga1280]

@@GTDGAMINGTILLDEATH To each his own 🙏

[@GTDGAMINGTILLDEATH]

@@vanitanaga1280 agreed!👍 Hope you find people who would treat you nicely and with same enthusiasm! We all deserve to be loved unconditionally.

[@virensridhar9985]

But a dog who has bitten you once has the potential to bite you again... That's why I find it very difficult to forgive and reconcile with a person who hurts me even once... Because if I do, the person will again hurt me in future...So you just have to recognize sometimes that such person is not the right person to have a close relationship with...

[@73_kritiagrawal49]

Forgive, not because they deserve forgiveness.💔 But because you deserve peace. 😊❤️☮️

[@sudipadeb5131]

Maturity is when you know the art of letting go! U r superb sir.. Loads of respect for you

[@virensridhar9985]

Letting go is different and forgiving is different

[@priyanshushekhar8762]

Forgive someone even if they are the reason of your tears and distress, it does gives you peace of mind and also forgive yourself in your heart for hating that person

[@shreehari2681]

I Forgive But Not Able To live like before again . my Life is completely different Now

[@gourabghosh3455]

@@shreehari2681 i think u have understood the mistakes which u did previously ... now start a new journey .... start your new life ...and try to life your life with enormous joy and try not to commit the mistakes which u did previously , okay ?? Btw good morning and have a good day😊🤗

[@enjoyfullife-naturalminimu6534]

Propaganda of a Betrayer and FAKE, FAKING Others!! In whatever we do in life, we look for essentially one thing! How do we get that one thing? What is the process to achieve it? Take a look to know the answer BE ORIGINAL instead of Sinking with Man made. As the Original God has created you as Smart and intelligent, find out that Original God who has created good things on Sky and good things on the earth than following the Man created and made Religions and Gods and following them like a fool.There are a Minimum of 199 Man made Religions and their Gods. Man copied the Scripture of Original God. God has NOT created any Religions on the earth but Man Created Religion and God. Find out your number from it, 5 You shall Not bow down to them or worship them ……….. the LORD your GOD am a jealous GOD, punishing children for the inequality of parents to the third and the fourth generation of those who reject me.: 7 You shall not make wrongful use of the name of the LORD your GOD, for the LORD will not acquit anyone who misuses his name,

[@sahiba2087]

And it also motivates them to do more wrong n bad deeds. Isn't it?

[@shreehari2681]

New Journey Joy i m living Still Not THAT Happy No Emotions Or Puri zindgi Kharaab Hone k Baad Galti Pta chalne ka Koi Mtlab Nai Wkt Pr Paani dvaai zrurii Hota Hai

[@casahilmehtaa]

To forgive someone is tough but when you do it, your soul feels much better.

[@shreehari2681]

Not Always Even if Forgiving , Pain is There ZAB koi Bimaari k drd se mr Raa Hota Hai TAB Koi motivation Kaam Ni aata

[@UnwindDivine]

And that what is important right Sahil?

[@virensridhar9985]

In my experience, you can forgive, but the person will hurt you again

[@ratulchakraborty2132]

This same story i've read in your book "Amazing secrets of life" Guruji.

[@aradhanaekmallick4585]

Me too

[@enjoyfullife-naturalminimu6534]

Propaganda of a Betrayer and FAKE to FAKES!! In whatever we do in life, we look for essentially one thing! How do we get that one thing? What is the process to achieve it? Take a look to know the answer BE ORIGINAL instead of Sinking with Man made. As the Original God has created you as Smart and intelligent, find out that Original God who has created good things on Sky and good things on the earth than following the Man created and made Religions and Gods and following them like a fool.There are a Minimum of 199 Man made Religions) and their Gods. Man copied the Scripture of Original God. God has NOT created any Religions on the earth but Man Created Religion and God. Find out your number from it, 5 You shall Not bow down to them or worship them ……….. the LORD your GOD am a jealous GOD, punishing children for the inequality of parents to the third and the fourth generation of those who reject me.: 7 You shall not make wrongful use of the name of the LORD your GOD, for the LORD will not acquit anyone who misuses his name,

[@moharmitra519]

Exactly chapter forgiveness, right?

[@touchwoodofgod9196]

me too but sir's voice is so magnetic i love to listen sir's sound

[@goodvibes3571]

I hve just started reading this book 2-3 days back

[@nowaskthedoctor8313]

Often forgiving someone is easy but forgetting and trusting again is the difficult part.. waiting for the video Sir 🙏

[@ASR_4_U]

💯

[@shreehari2681]

i Forgive But Not Have SAME Feelings of Love Life again Very difficult to live

[@vksomji]

Yes I agree with your thoughts.👍

[@promesthetic]

My friend back stabbed me..She just shattered me at that moment. Maybe i forgave her for her hypocrisy but even after facing me afterwards she showed as if she hadn't done anything..You're right forgiving is easy but not forgetting..

[@sangeetanair1209]

Very difficult to forgive and forget....

[@dimilivenkatarao8060]

Forgiveness is the only thing we should follow to be as a kind person..

[@partnering4success106]

"People are not bad from heart, it's just the situation or the circumstances which is the cause of their particular behaviour at some point of time"..my husband's saying..... I thought about it several times (aise hi) but when I started observing people's behaviour, then I realised the true meaning of this line..and it's very true...as Guruji truely said, have a pause button and go in memory lane, think of his positive and the importance of her/him in your life...which is heavier..the life with him or without him... Go with emotions...and believe me, you will get your answers and forgive that person from your heart... Jyada ho to " JAADU KI JAPPI" bahut kaam aati hai...Save your relationships and CHILLLLL , kyuki " yahan se Zinda bach ke koi ni jaane wala" 😊😊

[@ed07-sssj]

Wow I really like your way of thinking. Superb. 👍👌👏🙏🌹

[@enjoyfullife-naturalminimu6534]

Propaganda of a Betrayer and FAKE, FAKING Others!! In whatever we do in life, we look for essentially one thing! How do we get that one thing? What is the process to achieve it? Take a look to know the answer BE ORIGINAL instead of Sinking with Man made. As the Original God has created you as Smart and intelligent, find out that Original God who has created good things on Sky and good things on the earth than following the Man created and made Religions and Gods and following them like a fool.There are a Minimum of 199 Man made Religions and their Gods. Man copied the Scripture of Original God. God has NOT created any Religions on the earth but Man Created Religion and God. Find out your number from it, 5 You shall Not bow down to them or worship them ……….. the LORD your GOD am a jealous GOD, punishing children for the inequality of parents to the third and the fourth generation of those who reject me.: 7 You shall not make wrongful use of the name of the LORD your GOD, for the LORD will not acquit anyone who misuses his name,

[@ed07-sssj]

I believe that everything on this earth which is “ good “ and that which takes you to follow the right path is Godly. God = Good. Other religions also teach us to be good human beings . So how can I term them as bad? No way. You are a Christian by the way you are quoting verses from the Bible. I am a Catholic. But I see all around we so called followers of Christ do the most treacherous and disgusting things to other humans. That’s what Jesus said “ stop behaving like hypocrites “. Practice what you Preach . That’s exactly what we are not doing. Reminds me of the song by The Eagles “ Last resort “. Perfect for people who have made God a business. Good = Good. Nothing else matters. 🙏

[@touchwoodofgod9196]

i just love sir's way of talking........i agree with you

[@pawandawra1626]

We are blessed to have you Prabhuji💓🙏 so proud to be a part of Krishna consciousness for so many years 💕 Hare Krishna 💓🙏

[@Kamlesh76]

Biggest pray or thing in this world is to LOVE Biggest charity is to FORGIVE BUT WITHOUT KEEPING EXPECTATIONS

[@IshaSharma11]

So true

[@depressioncurewithvikram3607]

Forgiveness displayed by you is simply exemplary prabhuji...dandavat .this gives all of us great strength and confidence in Krishna consciousness .hare Krishna ! ! !

[@dhaneshwarikumari148]

Forgiving someone close its truly tough. However we forgive but, don't forget. Definitely with all due respect of love and good memories we forgive, but forgiveness also doesn't come from one side it's mutual. If it's mutual it's create further stronger bond because one who hurt also consider for take responsibility to not either repeat the same or also discover why it happens otherwise it's can't be healed. Sometimes it's good have also thought to forgive with understanding something happened for a reason or for a season.

[@hansiagarwal4750]

Very difficult to forgive a person who hurt us. But what a lesson of forgiveness 🙏

[@prity4007]

He has made our thinking better.....jai prabhu jii🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@enjoyfullife-naturalminimu6534]

Propaganda of a Betrayer and FAKE, FAKING Others!! In whatever we do in life, we look for essentially one thing! How do we get that one thing? What is the process to achieve it? Take a look to know the answer BE ORIGINAL instead of Sinking with Man made. As the Original God has created you as Smart and intelligent, find out that Original God who has created good things on Sky and good things on the earth than following the Man created and made Religions and Gods and following them like a fool.There are a Minimum of 199 Man made Religions and their Gods. Man copied the Scripture of Original God. God has NOT created any Religions on the earth but Man Created Religion and God. Find out your number from it, 5 You shall Not bow down to them or worship them ……….. the LORD your GOD am a jealous GOD, punishing children for the inequality of parents to the third and the fourth generation of those who reject me.: 7 You shall not make wrongful use of the name of the LORD your GOD, for the LORD will not acquit anyone who misuses his name,

[@rajeshroby1258]

A Guru is a Guru dispells ones darkness in which ever way he sees right thank god I have been blessed with more than one

[@BitastaMukherjee]

Thank you for this video.. Guruji.... From now.. Whenever I'll feel anger for somebody... I'll remember your msg.... I should memorize all the good things... That the next person had done for me....

[@roopacproopa9172]

Each word has encourage and highly motivate give positive energy....

[@joychaudhuri8782]

Such a deep concept but so lucidly explained. Guruji, you are great!

[@thr6453]

Thank you God for recommending this video. And Dad I Love you ❤️

[@themindfulshow]

Acceptance and forgiveness are the greatest strengths we possess..❤❤

[@swetamahapatra9843]

I can very much relate to this as i have also gone through such heartbreak from some of my very close friends or better to say best friends with whom i once dreamt of having a lifelong friendship,are completely strangers now. And it really feel so much hurt when such people whom we trust the most do such unexpected things to us. But however i am still dealing with whether i should forgive them or not. Bcz its not just abt forgiveness but also abt the fact that they didn't value me when i valued them the most. Hope will soon learn to forgive people and to move on.💓

[@komaldhamija6065]

Yes yes I have read this chapter in your book "Life's Amazing Secrets" and I did love this story a lot ❤️.... So much of my doubts went away just by listening to this story ☺️ Your stories come exactly at the time when I am in doubt relating to that very particular thing that you talk about in the story....I don't know how does this happen but I am really really grateful for all your teachings.....❤️ I don't know whether you will read my comment or not but Thank you so much for always guiding me to the right path even from distance....❤️❤️❤️

[@bhargavisanthanam5888]

Absolutely....yes,I understand...Yes,sometimes you are thrown away and you feel like trash and deep down the hurt and negativity is too much because its by a close person...But,yes,its better to not talk abt it or try to remember good times to forgive the other person. But,what I have been practising is forget rather than forgiveness...However,forgiveness is little difficult but,I will try to..after watching this video of your's..Thank you so much ji. 🙂🙏🙏👍🏻

[@smitashenoy3381]

What a wonderful message sir. Wish everyone who has wronged someone and truly repents, receives forgiveness from them.

[@Katrinagreen5252]

Thank you so much for this video, a friend hurt me very badly in the last week and embarrassed me and I have found it difficult to reconcile until I watched this. Hare Krishna 🙏

[@roshangupta8161]

Forgiveness is an act where u get peaceful mind .

[@swapnilkheur8954]

This instance is in his book 'life's amazing secret'

[@_humans]

Every human being goes through this kind of situation some or the other time.. and it teaches life time lesson

[@moonsyoungestsun6550]

I'm just always amazed at how the people who hurt their friends never seem to think they are wrong, even when karma boomerangs that same negative energy back to them. You'd think that it would make them reflect on what negative they've done to others but they don't.

[@nalinicooner1853]

We can forget only if we forgive someone first.it really helps decluttering your mind. Only for your peace,forgive.thanx for the nice video

[@himanshusingh4186]

Guruji had also shared this story in his book 'Life's Amazing Secret '

[@depressioncurewithvikram3607]

Forgive n move on - yes prabhuji .we are sincerely grateful to you for this powerful lesson ! Hare Krishna ! ! !

[@kartikjain336]

Why don't we make a group on social media of such positive people from the comments section? We could get to meet some beautiful souls which we might never get in outer world. Give you your views if you want to be in such group.

[@partnering4success106]

Or send a hi... I will add every one...

[@kartikjain336]

@@partnering4success106 on which platform? Whatsapp, insta ..?

[@partnering4success106]

@@kartikjain336 whatsapp

[@sagarshende192]

All these lessons are full of deep insights. Every video of this monk I watched taught me something great which I could not have learned on my own....

[@sagarshende192]

Initially I felt it works but it doesn't work really because unless people realize true Krishna consciousness they act according to their whimsical mind. I regret to say that I was absolutely wrong about these videos. I have realised it now. All Glories to the Lord and all his eternal servants

[@dhirendramishra4337]

It's simply wonderful message by GGD ji

[@alenrayamajhi1557]

Forgiveness doesn’t happen quickly.It takes time but being able to pause on right time is also hard.Every action have a reaction.Being able to pause on right time art of spirituality.

[@chiragpatil9709]

Forgiveness is only the key,you speak on todays life guruji it's very amazing thanks for teaching us life lessons.

[@jyotikadam8459]

Very touching message

[@kamali4286]

Thank you Gopal Das Guruji ❤️

[@azazelydv4755]

The man who is armed with forgiveness won't be harmed by anger. - teachings of Baba neem karori sant Maharaj gurudev 🌷🍀💚💚🙏🏻 Sitaram radheykrishna Sitaram 🌹🌻🍀🌻

[@enjoyfullife-naturalminimu6534]

Propaganda of a Betrayer and FAKE to FAKES!! In whatever we do in life, we look for essentially one thing! How do we get that one thing? What is the process to achieve it? Take a look to know the answer BE ORIGINAL instead of Sinking with Man made. As the Original God has created you as Smart and intelligent, find out that Original God who has created good things on Sky and good things on the earth than following the Man created and made Religions and Gods and following them like a fool.There are a Minimum of 199 Man made Religions) and their Gods. Man copied the Scripture of Original God. God has NOT created any Religions on the earth but Man Created Religion and God. Find out your number from it, 5 You shall Not bow down to them or worship them ……….. the LORD your GOD am a jealous GOD, punishing children for the inequality of parents to the third and the fourth generation of those who reject me.: 7 You shall not make wrongful use of the name of the LORD your GOD, for the LORD will not acquit anyone who misuses his name,

[@touchwoodofgod9196]

well said i 100% agree with you

[@surajkrishna5170]

@@enjoyfullife-naturalminimu6534 I can't understand what are you saying? Do you want to say why god have created so much suffering in this world? It's because this is not our world. In bhagwaad gita, krishna clearly said that "This world is dukhalaya (world of misery) and is temporary" He created this world to reform our choice. We have came in this world to be happy independently without god. That's why we are suffering. Just reform your choice. Try to love god and go home back to godhead (SPIRITUAL WORLD). Lord jesus also said "Make the treasure in the home of god" Hope you understood

[@oye_abhishek]

Before this i was spending life, now am living it. ❤

[@sravanjampana3382]

AS YOU TO FORGIVE SOMEONE HIGHLY DEPENDS ON THE SIZE OF MISTAKE AND TO LET GO THAT SERIOUSLY NEEDS A HEART FILLED WITH LOT OF LOVE PEOPLE MISTAKE LOVE ONLY MEANT TO DAILY COMMUNICATION BUT SENDING BLESSINGS OR DOING PRAYERS TO THEM TO GRANT THEM BACK TO OUR LIFE NEEDS A HUMBLE HEART.

[@enjoyfullife-naturalminimu6534]

Propaganda of a Betrayer and FAKE, FAKING Others!! In whatever we do in life, we look for essentially one thing! How do we get that one thing? What is the process to achieve it? Take a look to know the answer BE ORIGINAL instead of Sinking with Man made. As the Original God has created you as Smart and intelligent, find out that Original God who has created good things on Sky and good things on the earth than following the Man created and made Religions and Gods and following them like a fool.There are a Minimum of 199 Man made Religions and their Gods. Man copied the Scripture of Original God. God has NOT created any Religions on the earth but Man Created Religion and God. Find out your number from it, 5 You shall Not bow down to them or worship them ……….. the LORD your GOD am a jealous GOD, punishing children for the inequality of parents to the third and the fourth generation of those who reject me.: 7 You shall not make wrongful use of the name of the LORD your GOD, for the LORD will not acquit anyone who misuses his name,

[@shreya6135]

😭😭😭❤️

[@sravanjampana3382]

What you said is true but to search true god you need to know self first self exploration leads a way to inner peace conflicts inside are a way to glory and success.Forget about fakeness if you are filtering best from the worst that mean you are a godly creature. Take something from everyone but follow no one. Stick to your ideology respect each other idea's most importantly believe in yourself in the journey.. Give and receive back wholeheartedly.. @FindTheOriginalGod❤

[@hiteshsharma0605]

Very true . Thank you prabhu ji

[@laxmigorai4972]

Hare Krishna Prabhu ji🙏.. Very awesome and inspiring real story this was.. I have also read this in book written by you☺️

[@Maitreyaaaa]

I had tears of joy in my eyes... Feeling calm

[@seemasharma-tb8oy]

I have read the same story in his book ' Life's Amazing Secret' U know what, when I read the title of this video, at once that story clicked in my mind and I clicked this video 😅 and I was right this is the same story Sir you are a really great personality of India and a truly amazing gift for us And for you all I suggest you all must read that book it's really wonderful

[@rohinisharma-hw6su]

What a wonderful message

[@kavyam.m8635]

There are no words to describe how gurujii relate our life into spirituality... Amazing stories.. Which will inspire me everyday.... Thankyou @gaur gopal das... ❤❤

[@AssameseVloggerDG]

Great share Prabhuji. It happened to me too once ..and I guess probably everyone faces such a situation in life where he or she feels absolutely lost and awkward. But it totally depends on the person how we decide to deal with it. 😊 good morning to all. Have a great day.

[@kritisingh6452]

Watched so many of your videos just to find this ... actually what I needed right now. Clarity.😊🙏 thank u guruji

[@aswinikumarrout488]

Same story I have read.. The book Life amazing secrets.. Guru ji

[@AnuragPandey-lv1xh]

Hare Krishna Prabhu Ji I love your beautiful lectures and I want to crack IIT please bless me and pray from god to succeed in my life hare Krishna

[@himalaydebsourav]

Thanks for sharing your own life experience, it touches us more than anything else.

[@IshaSharma11]

Such a genuine person you are ❤

[@UnwindDivine]

That he is. Right Isha?

[@yaminisekar2664]

Pranam guru ji... It's a speechless video.. outstanding thoughts. In normal life it's not so easy to pause the moment but hereafter I will think on this video and try to press a pause and delete button. Thank you guru ji 🙏 pranam

[@rishabhsoni3411]

His words are more thn just words.

[@enjoyfullife-naturalminimu6534]

Propaganda of a Betrayer and FAKE, FAKING Others!! In whatever we do in life, we look for essentially one thing! How do we get that one thing? What is the process to achieve it? Take a look to know the answer BE ORIGINAL instead of Sinking with Man made. As the Original God has created you as Smart and intelligent, find out that Original God who has created good things on Sky and good things on the earth than following the Man created and made Religions and Gods and following them like a fool.There are a Minimum of 199 Man made Religions and their Gods. Man copied the Scripture of Original God. God has NOT created any Religions on the earth but Man Created Religion and God. Find out your number from it, 5 You shall Not bow down to them or worship them ……….. the LORD your GOD am a jealous GOD, punishing children for the inequality of parents to the third and the fourth generation of those who reject me.: 7 You shall not make wrongful use of the name of the LORD your GOD, for the LORD will not acquit anyone who misuses his name,

[@pinkighosh-puja3501]

Similarly, there was a person whom I considered my good frnd. But for some reason, she insulted me in front of everyone. I felt very hurt but I didn't react. I I forgave her, that time I thought of all the good memories we had spent together. But now I found one thing that insulting and blaming me has become her regular habit. I never found that her actions and words match. She used to say that she respects me, trust me, cares for me, but she does the opposite..

[@Aulin001]

Don't worry i believe definitely there is someone who wants your pure friendship 😊 just move on if any situation hurts you and thank God for everything 🤗

[@pinkighosh-puja3501]

@@Aulin001 ☺️

[@moonsyoungestsun6550]

I have the same situation.....sort of. My friend insulted me in front of others once and also said some condescending things, one on one. This was many years ago but it still stings when I think about it. Over the years, she hasn't been as bad. However, I believe it's because she's been humbled by being dumped by guys and not getting all of the opportunities she thought she was entitled to. I believe that karma boomerangs around to people like this to bring them down several notches. So they might feel high and mighty in the moment of spewing hurt but it always comes back to them 10 fold.

[@NiteshKumar-yz7pd]

Forgive hits different!💥

[@rajeswarikamaraj547]

Press the pause and after react n respond 👍 guru ji extraodinary one my Pranams to u ji..

[@r_rahul_dash]

It becomes difficult to be like " seh lenge thoda ". Forgiving (friends) people these days become our mistakes, because they have taken this as an art of surviving daily benefiting themselves only. They even brag about their trickery applied on others and how much they are smart in this way . Surreptitiously they will do things which you know but can't do or may be you don't know whether to give them a lesson or just leave, forget. all these never stop after once .. Rather continues several times .

[@dr.u3417]

True that...!!!we just have to teach the people how to treat me😈🤓😎

[@gudduchoubey8573]

Please apa Hindi me video banaya kro apaki video bahut achhi

[@sataveekcool311]

Sir thank-you for this morning lectures, it had blasted me with good & great potential energy this morning 😃🙏💖

[@Keepprayin69]

I liked ur lecture.

[@shraddhas8107]

Yes, this story was there in his book ' Life amazing secrets'

[@updatetodayajlbyshripaul2301]

Great GYAN

[@aashishpokharel007]

Thank you Guruji for helping us pass through these tough times. 🙏🙏🙏 Wish people understood the other end of the story.

[@umanandhini6]

Absolutely..we are human s ,forgive,reconcile and let go...life is too short to hold grudges and resentment.. thank you.🙏

[@shreehari2681]

I'm Not Holding Anything But How That Person Live whose all Feeling murdered

[@priteshparikh7415]

Often a Pause made while in different situations can help to maintain relationships. We have to evaluate what is more important, the situation or the person. And the pause at right time helps. Thanks Prabhuji for the insight.

[@ramamurthychinna3570]

I have listened earlier before it sounded nothing useful for me, but I am seriously hurted now by my close one, I can actually relate it, it feels good now. Thank you🙏

[@pritamadhikari15]

I read this amazing story in guruji's book 'Life's amazing secrets'.

[@suminthraoojugir9041]

Excellent lesson for all of us to learn. Thank you Sir. Rushen,Trishen and Suminthra Oojugir Kwa Zulu Natal South Africa

[@TarunGaurangaDas]

moved by hearing this live example on how and why to forgive...

[@meditationandrelaxationmus741]

You are my guru from now thanks I am a electrical engineer too to err is human and forgive is divine so if you forgive think you are divine don’t feel low ever

[@ravikhatri4831]

Thank you Guruji🙏 Shat Shat Naman

[@rakifille6778]

Prabhuji please upload more videos🙏. Thank you.

[@torshadas8745]

Whenever i go through an existential crisis...u help me out of that prabhuji.....thank u❤️

[@mamathabandari346]

A few minutes of pause or silence diffinely save in any relationship or save up our a lot of anger words at that very moment. If ppl understand this truth, worriesless life we have. I'd watched it before, but now I'm still felt like a fresh new one reminder to myself. Thank you Guru ji! Hare Ram! Hare Krishna!!! 🙏❤

[@HARU.7243]

Just had sn argument with my father and he said something that hurt me really hard and deep.... But I understand it now that what he said maybe wrong but the intention wasn't.... Thank you Guru ji🙏🙏

[@UnwindDivine]

To even accept that is a big step Diksha. amazing ❤️

[@SHASWAT_MUKHERJEE]

I had read this story about a year ago from your book "life's amazing secret". It's nice to recollect the memory btw book was awesome.

[@subratadhar586]

Forgiveness the symbol for a Spiritual life ...

[@enjoyfullife-naturalminimu6534]

Propaganda of a Betrayer and FAKE, FAKING Others!! In whatever we do in life, we look for essentially one thing! How do we get that one thing? What is the process to achieve it? Take a look to know the answer BE ORIGINAL instead of Sinking with Man made. As the Original God has created you as Smart and intelligent, find out that Original God who has created good things on Sky and good things on the earth than following the Man created and made Religions and Gods and following them like a fool.There are a Minimum of 199 Man made Religions and their Gods. Man copied the Scripture of Original God. God has NOT created any Religions on the earth but Man Created Religion and God. Find out your number from it, 5 You shall Not bow down to them or worship them ……….. the LORD your GOD am a jealous GOD, punishing children for the inequality of parents to the third and the fourth generation of those who reject me.: 7 You shall not make wrongful use of the name of the LORD your GOD, for the LORD will not acquit anyone who misuses his name,

[@alpa7547]

@@enjoyfullife-naturalminimu6534 what is this mad

[@enjoyfullife-naturalminimu6534]

@@alpa7547 You!!!

[@rabasnet9328]

Guruji you are so so cool and so godly. Please continue to help me affirm your thoughts. Om tat sat

[@Kkabir76]

Thank you so much sir. ...🙏🏻😊🙏🏻 For sharing this valuable lesson

[@rajatkantagnihotari9880]

One of my fav lessons from prabhuji's book lifes amazing secrets❤️🙏

[@deepalipriyadarshinee5535]

Thank u Guruji.God Bless You.

[@PallaviPal-ms4qj]

Yess... recently..I have been egoist..for such a stupid reason ..than I realised..it's mine mistake..and apologize..to him..😊❤

[@aestheticpostsonly]

Hopefully things will be fine from my end as well. I wholeheartedly respect her. I hurted her a lot. I feel guilty. I shouldn't have. I have realised my mistakes. It's not done 😔

[@abifarindamilola4662]

I am a big fan from Nigeria..... Thanks for this

[@sandhyagoel4838]

So wonderful message to get inspiration

[@aditikhanorkar3115]

This vid made my day🙌 thankyou @gaurgopaldas 🙏

[@anchorcaaspirantreshma4655]

True....wonderful message...🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@simrankaur-ts8gk]

i needed it very much. Thanks alot sir .😄

[@positivity20]

Nice video...👍forgiveness is proportional to the respect we have for the other person and also proportional to our humility..second factor is universally applicable..

[@keepingonscrolling]

Prabhu Ji , please make a video on how to get motivation ?? Hare Krishna

[@SUKANIA-ji6jc]

Swamiji pranams🙏, Forgetting is very difficult. Forgiveness comes only after forgetting, sometimes we feel that we are useless , when people who we love and respect hurt us. Swamiji please guide us to forget those moments.🙏

[@moonsyoungestsun6550]

Yes, this is exactly what I'm having difficulty with. I forgive but then the negative done or said to me, by the friend, no matter how long ago, resurfaces in my head. Then I get angry all over again. So I need to understand how people just forget these things because not being able to forget just causes the process of forgiveness to start over again and again.

[@srikanthsree13]

Guru's are chosen carefully by God and you're giving your best to move ahead the people problem, where they get stuck to an area in mind. Which in turn just like toungue keeps on going towards teeth which has food and never be able to remove that. Similarly awareness is just like that. You give examples and make life easier for everyone. Let the god in you keep on realising everyone's potential.

[@JLinfo-dc9ft]

I too believe in it F&F formula.. Forgive & Forget. Thank u Prabhuji for such a wonderful video. 🙏 Stay healthy and keep sharing us such spritual and motivated videos.

[@kritivyas2421]

Yesterday I was deeply hurt by a very close friend because that person was not giving me enough time in this crucial time as I'm having exams in a few days. This friend of mine and I talk for hours everyday so I developed a sense of authority towards her. Not that I was asking for much but just to listen to me, at the point being that person said he didn't had time for me but was talking to someone else with full interest. This made me mad and I decided at that time that after my exams I am going to cut off from this person because if he can't be with me on my crucial time then what friend you really are. Today morning I was trying so hard to settle into this thought that this is final I am no more talking to her after my exams. Until all the flashes of the good things (done by this person) started to bombard in my head. I was mad until now but I think holding on to my anger is not going to make any good even is gonna affect my exam I really want to do good. And what so ever I'm mad now but in a few months I will surely forget what happened. So I'll move on and focus on what I truely have control over that is me myself and my priorities.❤️

[@alenrayamajhi1557]

Forgive but never forget whether its good or bad.Learn a lesson.If the person is creating too much negativity in your life better to move on.

[@sahiba2087]

And would you still continue the friendship or leave?

[@yajatsawlani7154]

I like to listen to your stories

[@anusreepatra6419]

Hare Krishna...Jai Srila Prabhupada... Dandobat pranam Provu ❤️ Gouranga ❤️

[@pcsaboo1972]

Fantastic explanation. It is true that people who are close to us only hurt and very practical solution that we must also count the depositories by them in our life and exclude this particular withdrawal.