Tommy, I love your story of the fishing trip. During your telling of the trip and the view you had the whole time, I got a woody just imagining the scene myself. My? I would've made sure that I snagged one with this guy.
@dixiechatty95810 ай бұрын
Have at it! If it feels good to all four then it works. Just keep the lines of communication open. And, if you record it, let us know where to see it!
@markymark76194 ай бұрын
My husband and I have been together for 24 years and we still enjoy sharing with others!
@calvind205410 ай бұрын
Not for me. But do what you do. Every person and every couple all have their do’s and their don’ts. To each his own. Where couples are concerned, please be careful of communication with your partner. Be very clear and make sure each of you understand. Then, everyone is happy. Rock on people.
@jameskantor04599 ай бұрын
As long as both you and Tyler are both enjoying, it and happy about it is fine .
@shanedorival317710 ай бұрын
It’s not my vibe, but you’re all consenting adults. So you can do what you want. Funny thing is, we all love the stories. So I guess we’re all voyeuristic and can’t really judge you.
@carlosbustillo583410 ай бұрын
As long as you have open communication with you and your partner is the most important thing in any relationship. Sometimes it can be a an opportunity like this that add spice to the relationship. Just always go with your gut instincts. Enjoy and be safe.
@JamesMLeggatJrP2E10 ай бұрын
Live your lives judgement free. Ignore the negative people who only wish they were as open to many of life’s experiences.
@jpmasters-aus10 ай бұрын
I came out late in life, married to a women, and involved in a religous setting. When I first came out, I wouldn’t have done that, and whilst I haven’t done it (I don’t have BF and tend not to meet a lot of people, probably because a lot of the parties start a bit late for me 😅), but I think if the ‘vibe’ was right, and everyone was consenting, I could see it as a possibility.
@matthowland177010 ай бұрын
This is just my heart on it. If we are together then I need it to just be us. I'm monogamous and if you are not ready to settle down and be in a relationship stay single. However group play when you are all single I am very down. I just don't share my other half.
@gwizz147410 ай бұрын
Was there protection used while having fun in the bathroom
@Dave-jv1kj10 ай бұрын
That face is so beautiful. That’s clearly what guys are attracted to cuz I get none.
@damb40810 ай бұрын
I find it’s a personal thing for me. I struggled with low self esteem and a complete lack of confidence in my own body. No one in the community at the time found my amazing self worth their time or effort. This created a “settle debate” with myself that I would have to find the trinite crusted unicorn to be able to experience love. When I found three throughout my dating career, I decided I lacked the aforementioned. Though I was open to messing around with others (aka infidelity), my partner just mentioning another attractive person was not ok. If my husband were to ask to be open, it would be a struggle, but I’d insist on never knowing and if I was unable to fulfill his desires, then I’d rather have a husband happy and healthy and forever knowing that I’m the one with the ring, his heart, and that our kids will have both of us together as their loving parents.
@dalemettee114710 ай бұрын
We used to have an old saying," If it feels good, do it!" If you four are all in for it, get together have fun love each other. Many guys that I met over the years were friends and had sex together on a regular basis.
@mrexcet7 ай бұрын
As long as all of you are feeling fine with what you are doing nothing is wrong. If anyone involved starting to feel uncomfortable or awkward it's important to talk about it so no one get hurt. Skip moral and stigma... I do agree with you that the gay community are so full of moral and eager to judge.. Strange actually when the same community shouts about understanding and acceptance. A good thing would be to start inside the community before demanding it from others. That's my opinion. Keep up you good work exploring and enjoying regardless what all spinsters are telling you.
@TJinPgh8 ай бұрын
I've never been big on random hookups. But, that's me. I don't mind that others do it beyond it being so difficult to find decent guys who don't (or are at least ok not doing it)
@gregg59589 ай бұрын
My husband and I are open. Not a single day of jealousy. I want him to be happy. So if I’m not in the mood, it’s fantastic that he still has options and vice versa. Couples and threesomes are nice too. As I have always said, I wouldn’t expect him to only go to movies, or out to eat, or shopping with just me, so why should I expect him to do something else with just me? Different people fill different needs in a relationship and for us, that extends to the bedroom activities too. It would be as weird for us to only be with one person as it would be to only ever go somewhere with each other and never ever anyone else.
@georgH9 ай бұрын
That's great, love it!
@TheRealAndyofBeverlyHills10 ай бұрын
This is so hot!!! Just to be in that bathroom corner 😂😂😂
@seattleward7 ай бұрын
I was never confident enough to do this
@williamqueen87909 ай бұрын
My husband and I play with others from time to time but lately it’s only been one other guy, it’s hot to watch your man have some fun.
@leehuff504510 ай бұрын
I feel if you truly love someone and they satisfy you, why do it with other people.
@gregg59589 ай бұрын
For the same reasons I don’t go shopping with just one person, or out to dinner with just one person. I don’t expect to be all things to one person or expect one person to be all things to me. It’s worked great for my husband and I for 16 years. 😀
@stevyd7 ай бұрын
@leehuff5045: Glad you know what you want, others often want something else.
@astrobot7023 ай бұрын
When narcissists try reenacting Diddy parties....
@DavidTraini-rx5uc10 ай бұрын
You do you! F#ck what anybody else thinks, the only ones who get to have an opinion Are the people involved!
@fb66810 ай бұрын
Now that you're crossed that line it will happen more with many guys. Not for me.
@watchtyme10 ай бұрын
AGREED!
@David-l3i2f10 ай бұрын
So everyone just held it while you 4 had it off? And everyone knew? How rude and selfish.
@matthewcollins41578 ай бұрын
In my opinion, do what you want to do, just don't like or try to hide it from the other. There is no reason too, first of all, and second, if you want them to be open with you, why would you not be equally open with them? A relationship is more than physical. In my life, I don't care if the person I'm involved with plays with others or not, as long as we play, and he fulfils his other non-physical commitments to our relationship. I do not believe people are naturally monogamist. I think a lot of people are immature, possessive, and try to own and control (i.e. enslave) other people and think that by getting into a relationship that they suddenly own their partner and have a right to determine what they can and can't do and divorce them of having any free will except what they allow them to retain). I think this view is wrong but I think it is unfortunately the way a lot of people ultimately view their relationships. It used to be that this view only applied once they were married but since the 60s, it has been expanded to being that way from the first date! There is no courtship anymore, you are essentially "married" from the time you meet now and the actual marriage is just a formality to get legal rights. If you truly have respect and trust in your relationship, then you don't have to control them, they will give it as a matter of course and won't intentionally do anything to break it, no matter who else they have relations with. It is possible to have multiple relationships at the same time and it has nothing to do with "settling down". Jacob (also called Israel) had four wives concurrently from which the twelve Tribes of Israel came and if God blessed him and he was able to settle down with four wives till his death, then there is nothing wrong with multiple relationships, multiple partners, and is not a sign that you are not "settling down".
@warrenbutler899010 ай бұрын
Go guys. Adults having fun.
@garywilson96409 ай бұрын
Its nobody's business what consenting adults agree to. BUT - do you need another guy to swap around. 😅😊
@billyblackie941710 ай бұрын
There is far to much stigma around the issue but most stigma comes from people who are scared but yet have no issue doing other things still not acceptable in society and voice their opinions to redirect attention on themselves and faults they have
@MrJt345110 ай бұрын
not for me at all sorry i just find it kind of wrong in a way. i like monogamy, but to each their own is fine just not for me i have to many issues with it
@shawnklein999710 ай бұрын
I think it shows how much you love and trust each other that you could do this, personally I think it makes your relationship grow, but what do I know?
@davidmcclellan995910 ай бұрын
IT'S NOT BAD AT ALL YOU CAN TALKING TO ME ANY TIME YOU WANT TOMMY YOUR MY BESTFRIEND AND YOU ARE SOO SWEET COOL . LOVE DAVID
@davidlaczko620410 ай бұрын
Sounds dangerous health wise, but maybe their is more prevention these days, still...
@gregg59589 ай бұрын
It’s not 1980 anymore.
@Vino-bv5ic10 ай бұрын
Why not?
@bajanyaoikaizer690210 ай бұрын
Sky-clad Homies Forest Adventure & Extra Zesty Story Time As long as everyone is happy, healthy, comfortable, willing, and not being left out, -and the cameras are hopefully ready on occasion- have at it.
@georgH3 ай бұрын
So hot, that's super awesome, I wish I could do it more often. I despise all that judging
@sillyrabbit7349 ай бұрын
As an older gay man... I'm not gonna judge, cause I too was young once - BUT I personally wouldn't post that stuff on KZbin... if we had it back then. - It was another time
@scottholmes706910 ай бұрын
How would you feel just watching and not being taken care of yourself? Would it have been as hot or hotter?
@ahkiv612710 ай бұрын
STD's is the only issue, imo. But it does sound deliciously exciting!
@josephlenehan44617 ай бұрын
Joseph and today
@jeffreyrichards129910 ай бұрын
nice😅
@otismack10 ай бұрын
Since there was no penetration, I assume that it must have just been oral sex? Did just 2 of you orgasm? If so, isn't that a bit selfish? I realise that you were trying to avoid any direct reference to the actual activity to avoid crossing any KZbin boundaries. I don't see any harm in spelling out what happened more clearly since there were no videos of the activities. There are a lot of KZbin videos with verbal explanations of sex that haven't been taken down.
@davidreph521010 ай бұрын
its about monitization.. and he clearly stated that they did something else ... "bathroom" in the bathroom.. and that penny tration is only allowed to visit when everyone is in agreement.. and everyone was
@willzander65144 ай бұрын
That's funny. In my .mind there was clearly penetration, and I don't think any physical protection was used.
@esmith66568 ай бұрын
you makeup 90 percent of your stories.
@LuisPerez-ft2rk9 ай бұрын
I’m not impressed. I don’t understand or care for Open relationships . I have self respect.
@Debbie3388 ай бұрын
Translation: I’m proud to be a judgmental asshat. 🙄