Gay Dating Advice 🏳️‍🌈

I give my advice on dating while gay :)
Let me know what you guys think and if this has been helpful for you!!
#gayguy #gay

[@lauracorbett4577]

I’m not gay but I love the part where you say be yourself

[@nigelbond4056]

Matthew, you come across as a really lovely and thoughtful young man. I wish you all the happiness you wish for yourself. Just subscribed 👌

[@Traveltheme706]

I was thinking the same

[@matthewscorner2000]

You’re so sweet, thank you!

[@jantoxen]

I really agree here. Do you.. drink coffee?

[@TaylorSaundersYT]

Definitely don’t force any connections for sure, and always be yourself. I was married for four years to my (now) ex husband and we connected very well… but only after a little practice with each other, and an understanding of where the other one was going in life. Knowing physical roles was important too for the bedroom. I was always bottom, never top. He had to feel comfortable knowing that I wouldn’t be imposing myself in a way he wouldn’t like. But anyway, always appreciate each other and what you bring to the table 😊❤

[@Traveltheme706]

Great advice, my fiance and i have been together 7 years

[@kies_digital_footprint]

thats great advice and we all need to hear that!

[@idfeiven]

Hey Matt! I really like the way you talk in your videos: very paused, you take your time to say what you want to say and most important: you clearly stick to the point. Really love it! Apart from the video content of course! Keep it going!

[@Shory22]

It is good that you are learning this early. It took me a lifetime to learn.

[@Klause_01]

It's really great that videos like these are available! Thanks matthew! i subscribed! 😊

[@iana6713]

Yes - I agree with what you said in this video so much. Getting involved with someone who is unsure of who they are is a certain way of ending up on an emotional rollercoaster. I speak as a bi guy myself who is certain of who he is, likes guys a lot, would really like to meet someone, and has known what I am for a long time. I want to find someone who's sure of who they are, not someone who's uncertain as it is asking for trouble, and will likely end in heartbreak. You speak about these matters really well, and I've enjoyed the videos of yours that I've watched so far.

[@antoknee100]

Until he puts a ring on it, you just keep on keeping on, the way you are. You’ve got it all and any guy would be lucky to have you and if he loves you, he will accept your quirks, unless said quirks are harmful.

[@nmthatti]

To your 1st point I'd like to add: it will become obvious once you move in together who you really are, regardless of that self-improvement bs. If your first month or two goes well, I don't think there is really anything that can stop you from then and on. To the 2nd: If you're "meant to be for each other" (which basically means you can have a good vibe with one another) that connection will automatically create itself and you'll feel like "Wow! That person I can chat with with ease!", which is a wonderful thing. Note that this doesn't mean that you'll be partners for life, but this goes the same for just friendships. To the 3rd: I happen to have had several people who I wanted to be with who were "figuring out" and it should not come as a surprise - they did not turn out to be even bisexual which meant time was wasted.. Though we have time on our hands for relationships and one should not rush, these type of emotional valleys tend to really shake their mental wellbeing. "What if noone wants me?" and these type of questions. I hate to think about these questions even though I'm fine with being single on an everyday note. However, I, too have days when I think about if I'll ever have someone, but it is best to stay positive and keep pushing through and believe that there is someone. You should also just enjoy life. Don't look for someone desperately, that is depressing. To the 4th: This is probably the hardest. Not only for me, anyone who is just a slight bit insecure, self-conscious or less confident. As someone who doesn't like to go to places where there are only strangers, this I have not yet come to terms with and I'll really have to push myself in the future. Also I don't believe in going up to a person with the intent of ✨relationship✨. I prefer to do some things done together, getting to know each a bit better before getting closer. To the 5th: I really like to talk about things like these with friends and others. Sadly not many people had I been able to talk about life and lifestyle as I just started to think about these topics deeper for a couple of months. It is really hitting me that soon I'm going to uni and what's after that? Looking for jobs, a partner, a house, hopefully children, etc. It's useful to have a plan to give yourself a base of (or a bare-bone answer to) "what do do now?" To the 6th: Think of being gay as a bigger accomplishment if you happen to find a partner since being gay in dating is like hardcore mode in minecraft: So many people are against you and you only have your will and mind and physique to fight against them (but just stick to words please, they can have as big of an effect as words if not bigger.) Dear reader! Thank you if you took the time to read these few rows. I hope you have a wonderful new year and may success come your way! Have an amazing year and don't worry, you're not alone, you can always ask for help. Don't be afraid to:D I did and I'm still here O:) Take care!

[@kmac7161]

I wish there were more emotionally intelligent guys like you in my area, plus you’re handsome. Someone will be lucky to have you as their partner.

[@絶句-法律]

You should stream or something lol.. i'd hear you all day your voice is so soothing

[@matthewscorner2000]

I will on tiktok :)

[@絶句-法律]

​@@matthewscorner2000 i was watching it the other day and it got terminated or something i was so confused lol. but ill be there ofc wont miss it

[@matthewscorner2000]

@@絶句-法律 Yes of course, I may go live on instagram as well :)

[@BigRob3425]

Great points Matthew.

[@carlosnzs]

Where do we apply to be your boyfriend

[@INFP-Turd]

I also want to apply! ❤

[@realdavebob]

Smooooth 😂

[@ADHDLIVET24]

Thanks for your reminder!!! ❤❤❤

[@BrayCave]

Great first video. I love the advice.

[@matthewscorner2000]

Thanks!

[@twinkincarnate]

thank you for this matthew ❤

[@gabbywills98]

Wanting to get back into dating next year, and I feel that this video may have found me just in time! 😅

[@southaven1981mje]

Ive had 2 long term relationships. I’ve been single now though for 5 years and 42 I’ll be 43 this month.

[@Traveltheme706]

I hope you find someone for you if thats what you want, things happen when you least expect

[@iana6713]

Wish you the best in finding someone when the time's right. I'm in the same boat.

[@ilovetotri23]

I meet my husband over ten years ago on a dating website! I was so shallow. I had spent many years in therapy. I had a great friend that told me to just get out there. I took my friends advice...ten years later I am married to my perfect person!

[@ilovetotri23]

I fell instantly in love with him! Not because of my superficial feelings. But, because he was so warm and genuine

[@ilovetotri23]

I fell in love with someone I never expected to! It was not a decision I made. Love is love!

[@jlf6235]

all these apply to every sexuality, thanks!

[@shades131313]

I married my bi-curious friend. Totally worth it.

[@boiyonetta]

Finding love is so difficult. 😢

[@alberteinstein3612]

A few weeks ago I was talking with one of my friends about this topic, and I emphasized number 5 when it came to political affiliation. Going along with values, what I said was that if you do not choose someone with the same political beliefs as you, you WILL face some kind of fundamental conflict down the line. Simply put, western society has made EVERYTHING somehow political, and if you and your partner are on opposite ends of that spectrum, it’s not going to be pretty. Oftentimes, our political affiliations come as a result of our core beliefs, so they become synonymous

[@Jose-ym4rm]

My problem is that the guys I have dated or hung out with are very into the gay scene 24/7 and I am not into that. I am more interested in sport, hiking, biking, camping, spending time in the woods and things like that. I do not like or go to clubs/bars and such, it is just not my scene. I go but for no more than an hour and I am done.

[@Doglover79586]

Great, solid advice

[@donnadegradi1621]

You seem to be a very nice young man. Try to hang in there and be patient along with trying to be optimistic. It may come when you least expect it.

[@utahjag]

1st boyfriend and Love I met at a club. Second through friends, not Love. 3rd at a bar, 10 years and still not Love. 4th through friends. 5th Love, through friends, younger guy but we had the same interests. 6th and last, through friends. I went on 2 dates through dating apps and both were mistakes, because I wouldn't have sex with them right away it didn't work for them. Just my $0.02.

[@Sean-dl8ym]

The only time I feel a natural connection is when I'm with curious guys unfortunately

[@thuantruong3220]

If I find something is truthful and honesty in my life I happy I don't care you bye or gay I still love you

[@nobodynowhere21]

"The reality is that someone is going to accept you for who you are. Completely. And you don't have to put on a front, or a facade, to try to get other people to like you. You really don't." LMAOOoooo, i remember when I was this age and this naive. Nice thought, though.

[@JosePerez-u1c]

Hey Matthew 👋, that is some awesome advice 😀 for those looking for a friend 🧡 to have a relationship 😀 with!🎉❤😮

[@Oakwood09]

Gained a new subscriber ✌️

[@matthewscorner2000]

@@Oakwood09 thanks! :)

[@yesmoladarling]

I and my boyfriend love each other so much. Hope to see you

[@johnsharestories]

Nice job man! You are a very good speaker, and I appreciate you sharing your experience. If you would like to collaborate on KZbin content, then let me know! Just subscribed!

[@FernandoLuna18]

How come you are single if you are so cute!

[@mrfacespace]

Wait. Did I just hear you say to watch out for the gay-curious guy? Mathew is learning as he goes:)

[@ssscarletwitch591]

What if i don't know who i really am? Or ever will

[@maxsongzm]

❤❤❤

[@theterrarian1486]

If there are no queer spaces or groups around you, make them. Don't be afraid to create safe spaces, you will always find people who need them. All it takes is that first step, and trust me; other people are waiting and watching for someone else to make that step first, and if everyone does that, no one will.

[@jorgecueto9649]

You are extremely cute. Finding love is difficulty equally for gay and straight men. What happens mostly for straight man is if they are short or poor they are invisible to women. And for gay men they have to be attractive and not promiscuous which is unusual in the gay community. I've been this bisex guy always not sure what i wanted for one year relationship with my ex (my first male "boyfriend"). We're initially only for the hook-ups but we began to enjoy time together. We're on and off for three times. We've never cheated each other and yet none of us had the courage to own our fellings and say i love u. I had to change city for economic reasons, it was sad. People tend to think guys like me are full of lies and just using people. It's not like that. The truth is I just haven't fall in love enough. I'm glad for the time we spent together, good memories. And the advice to not waste time with these type of guys couldn't be more right. If someone is not sure what they want and you clearly like the guy don't do it to yourself. Move on. I regret doing this with my ex now i know I'll never do it again with somebody else.

[@poroasmr]

would love to see you on twitch! i hate tiktok

[@incisorboy]

A gay bar? All of the gay bars and clubs in my area are 95% straight girls.

[@myralchista]

Be handsome and that is it 😢

Hey! Happy Belated Thanksgiving/Early Christmas 🎄🎁! I subbed your channel! :-)

[@joemug4079]

You! Are giving dating advice! lol. I can see right through you. I’m not being mean! Don’t cry! But…let me give YOU…relationship advice. That’s the mature way of “dating”. It’s called ….long term….dating. Dating is what people who aren’t mature enough….yet….to have a deep relationship. I’ve been married for 24 years. (I’m a gay man). I hated dating. Yes, it’s exciting to meet someone “new”! A “new” find”. At first. To walk around with and show off your new….”find”. To eventually be disappointed with. Or not to be measured up by. I understand what you’re trying to…relate. But good advice….wisdom…comes with experience and age…and honesty. But you’re entertaining.

[@michaelthomas3821]

one other thing that might be helpful: realize that both of you are on your best behavior before getting all infatuated. everybody has flaws. some people are good at concealing them until it's too late. don't expect their flaws to get better just because of you. but yeah, bars. one of the real drags of gay dating now is that apps are extremely reductive. what you look like, how big your dick is, whether you're a top or a bottom. it's rather dehumanizing imo. if you're just looking for a casual hookup, fine but if you're looking for more the filter is way too restrictive, imo. bars are by no means perfect, but at least there's a little mystery and allow you to pick up on personality cues that apps can't provide. my husband of 30 years probably would never have met up with me in an app, but we met at a bar and I was able to work my charm :)

[@moe00711]

please fix your microphone, the volume on this was too low, thanks :)

[@matthewscorner2000]

Yeah, I'm going to start filming on my phone, my mic sucks on my pc :(

[@samuelforce7883]

I disagree that you shouldn't change yourself. Everyone changes themselves all the time, even healthy minded people. Compromise is key to a healthy relationship

[@matthewscorner2000]

@@samuelforce7883 I meant don’t change who you are on a fundamental level just to appease someone else or get someone to like you. It’s important to be your authentic self rather than putting on a facade. Of course we grow and change and need to adapt, but don’t change who you are as a person.

[@samuelforce7883]

@matthewscorner2000 maybe. Who I am is a facade. It's been like that a while

[@samuelforce7883]

@matthewscorner2000 I think I miscommunicated. I believe people change themselves alot perhaps even fundamentally just to appease others. I think that's healthy

[@matthewscorner2000]

@ Ah, got it. I guess we disagree.

[@samuelforce7883]

@@matthewscorner2000 to be fair, I think your right that would be for the best for our own health. Maybe I'm biased since I do change myself for others to please them. Maybe you're right

[@jomp6141]

Well I wish I found this video before engaging into 4 failed relationships in less than six months. Lmao.

[@WhiteAngel14ProMax]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@gt9-w8y]

Here to hear if shit is the same on the other side

[@MauriceTiberius-z2m]

Where are you from? I am trying to place your accent, it is either northern Midwest or West coast, I think.

[@heposlis2409]

Okay but we were all at some point curious Weren't we Its normal to help someone explore that with them I wouldnt mind

[@michaeljohndennis2231]

Matthew, you are going to get loads of offers for dates from across the world, because you are absolutely gorgeous and handsome - I’d be your Irish boyfriend any day 🇮🇪☘️🇮🇪😍😍😍😍😍

[@ericfreshcorn3590]

I have been looking for a Boyfriend still am from Ohio

[@Traveltheme706]

Good luck you will find someone things happen when you least expect it

[@edsmale]

Ditch the headphones

[@pablodejesus1373]

Hello Matthew👍🤝

[@zacharysmith8902]

Very cute boi

[@samuelworley7300]

ur adorable

[@davewillb-on4zs]

😎🫶

[@thuantruong3220]

I am by I tried to look for a boyfriend and cute and trustful in honesty for me that's the part one one thing I look for a boyfriend if I look a boyfriend is not true for honesty that's no good Palmetto you buy or gay

[@kelhndeluca9019]

Well I’ve tryed reaching out and no luck so good luck with everything take care

[@gordon-n6s]

You are making up stories that never happened just to generate revenue for sponsors. Shameful.

[@MostlyLoveOfMusic]

it's definitely harder to find people when you're straight

[@ljb5163]

That’s not true. Straight people have the numbers advantage. Also living in a heteronormative society helps.

[@idahosprings2224]

I’m straight, how did this come in my feed? I’m proud to be straight though.

[@wallaceoliveira2675]

❤❤