Gay Man Claps Back At Homophobic Boss. “It's Been A Delight Working With Everybody But You.”

[@gerardoarellano7698]

“It’s been a delight working with everybody else, but not you.” 😂

[@jayr6637]

Reminded me of a work farewell years ago, where my team leader said a few words, then handed over to me. Being a fairly direct person, I said; "Most of you have been fantastic to work with... the rest have been bearable!". There was much laughter, as everyone knew "the rest" was in reference to 2 difficult people in the company!

[@BlueEyed888]

When I quit my job due to my homophobic boss I was in my exit interview and I used the line that Murray had in the old Mary Tyler Moore show where Ted Knight was asking for marriage advice and Murray (Gavin McLeod) says “You know how you are? Don’t be like that!”

[@EctoBuzz]

As an older gay dude (soon to be 60)... ya know, one who's from the previous generations who paved the way for LGBTQ rights for future generations... you make me so darn proud for standing up for yourself. I am as glad that life circumstances made it possible for you to put that homophobic manager to his place... while in drag. Bravo! :) I particularly draw a significant amount of pleasure from knowing that this company you used to work for, lost quite a lot of their clients resulting from that manager bigoted behavior toward gay folks like you and I. Bravo once again, Barton! ((Hugs))

[@lightyears2go]

Gary Lee with poppers amirite

[@lightyears2go]

^ Gary is an oxymoron. he comes off as a fun-loving troll - yet is hateful simultaneously.

[@EctoBuzz]

@@jorgee7470 You're quite right! Apparently he's so far deep in that closet he's way beyond Narnia.

[@tonystark4434]

Gary Lee i think u are an ass hole. sorry i misspelt that. here is what i meant: i know your an ass hole

[@EctoBuzz]

​@Farmmaster Flex : Thanks for showing everyone you worship hatred based on your wilful ignorance. Oh and it is as futile as ludicrous to pretend you have "grown up", since you have proven otherwise... quite eloquently that is.

[@chitonic]

You bothered to give 2 weeks notice. That’s very nice of you. I wouldn’t.

[@emfisher8168]

It's important because it can be used against you when applying for future jobs..

[@heatherbeane3234]

Agree, I only have used the no 2wks notice once.

[@Theyralltakenfu]

Why not, he could at any time tell him to go f*ck himself. I'd do it just for that reason. He got what he wanted in the end. He did the drag thing, the wealthy lady obviously put it out there that this business isn't as friendly as thought, and others followed after him.

[@HobbyOrganist]

@@emfisher8168 true but do you really think a jackass like that manager would tell the truth to someone and say you gave 2 weeks notice or more likely the jerk will say a lot of negs and "he quit without notice and some inventory is also missing"

[@HobbyOrganist]

@jon fraer Pedophiles wind up being priests and child day care workers...

[@racheldavin7763]

This story proves something I've always believed: sometimes where the laws don't protect you, the people will.

[@sersastark]

This.

[@philmorton4590]

Except the other employees in this story, less business equals layoffs and redundancy. He effectively tanked the business on the way out. Not a successful story on dealing with homophobia.

[@arieltroncoso3871]

@@philmorton4590 Except those employees left specifically because of the manager. And even then - it's ridiculous to insinuate that an employee leaving a job after being threatened and more-or-less robbed like that is a good look for the others of that business, that they'll just sit down and take it. No, the failing of that place was on the manager. The manager was even the one to instigate a workplace dispute. Not Barton. Barton dealt with that homophobe beautifully. He packed his shit, knowing he was bringing in a lot to that place, and found better employment when they decided to undercut him and everything he offered over a part of his identity. And on his way out, he was proud and open, and because the manager was a childish unprofessional clown about it, they fumbled everything in the aftermath. You have a problem with how the workplace suffered? Make sure homophobes like that don't make it to positions of power.

[@lil_weasel219]

This is a very sheltered worldview. In my country (homophobic one), as a grey ace lesbian, the law protects me better than the people, 70% of which are homphobes, and many would beat me up or kill me. Sorry, but you are very wrong

[@anobody4606]

@@lil_weasel219 *SOMETIMES

[@huskymcfluff]

Boss: "This is highly unprofessional." Better response: "You're one to talk. Where's my money, thief?"

[@Laudon1228]

Many US states are “Right To Work” states which is utter reverse of the truth. States billed it as, you can’t be required to join a union in your field to do your job. What it really is was union busting. It was really “right to be taken advantage of”. No collective bargaining. It’s utter bullshit.

[@CaptnJack]

werent other people dressed up for the day too?

[@jounigames5876]

@@CaptnJack I'm guessing the thing that was unprofessional was talking about the employment issues :) Hope this helps

[@owei647]

Who on earth would hate on this guy? He’s fun, adorable, personable and hella fine! Like, hello?!?

[@owei647]

Trevor Fluck and you’re ignorant as fuck.

[@alexandradutoit6150]

The same bigots who hate anyone because they dont understand the lovely colourful world of lgbtq+

[@CarlCoppinger]

A rotten bigoted homophobic tool would hate on this guy.

[@thomaslowdon5510]

Wow that could not happen in uk That manager would get a hefty fine and even fired.. Discrimination in the workplace is strictly against the law...big time

[@1977vision]

At the moment; I fear in our political climate this may change but I hope not.

[@Dako108]

Well it was I think he said, Idaho, an extremely conservative state, but there are a lot of places like in Calif or Washington, New York where you couldn't get away with it and it would likely not happen in the first place. Why do you think he moved to Seattle?

[@andrewlikestrains4138]

E. D. Hopefully it becomes federal law.

[@jaywest3734]

A boss can and should be able to fire someone for any reason, although I do disagree with firing someone for being gay. Too many employment laws actually makes it HARDER for someone to get a job because they don't wanna take the chance to employ.

[@jaywest3734]

@@1977vision In the UK? What are you talking about?

[@badhinjana]

"What are ya gonna do?! FIRE ME?" LOL I LUV HIM. GET IT BARTON!

[@missustoad1]

When I was teaching in a country where the principal had been an old communist party member prior to 1989 (intimidating the staff with his power over their lives), I was called on the carpet and he threatened my job. "What are you going to do, Miklos? I asked him. "Send me back to America?" I love what this young man did.

[@etienne8792]

Imagine being so bigoted you jeopardize your company financial stability and quality of your employees leaving you, the clownery ! Amazing !

[@rollerbladinggeek5507]

Etienne imagine being so bigoted u judge someone you never met based on a video of someone else's memory online

[@Meredith34567]

@@rollerbladinggeek5507 And who, exactly, are we judging? Some random nameless, faceless manager at an unnamed arts and crafts shop a few years back? What do you think we're going to take away from this? All craft shop managers are homophobic? It doesn't work that way.

[@rollerbladinggeek5507]

Meredith34567 Take a look at yourself first before you judge others.

[@Meredith34567]

@@rollerbladinggeek5507 Okay? And?

[@rollerbladinggeek5507]

Meredith34567 And congrats on liking ur own comment

[@astrangerhere]

Glad to hear the frame shop lost ⅓ of their clientele as he said, probably including that very wealthy woman. Yes that boss had a right to be a homophobic bigot, and his clientele had a right to take their business elsewhere. Sounds like his bigotry hurt the company big time. Hope he's satisfied.

[@kenjoe]

@Gary Lee It is nothing to DO with whom the writer (A Stranger Here) sleeps. It is great to see bigotry, misogyny, racism, and any other form of prejudice backfire on the perpetrator. Sad that you are so far away from respect for all. And probably call yourself a 'Christian' as well.

[@reeceenglish5201]

@Gary Lee OP isn't displaying any rage, what are you talking about? Being called a homophobe does bother "sane" people since its clearly affected you enough to warrant your nonsensical comments 💀💀

[@zf8604]

Gary Lee idk what you think gay people are but I can tell you what the rest of us really are. The people you see at pride are quite literally less than half a percent of a percent of gay people. Especially with the younger generation (gen z) we aren’t making it a personality trait, shoving it down other people’s throats, and we actually want relationships and families, not one night stands. Sorry to burst your bubble but there are millions of gay people (using as a collective term right now) Turning towards familial living, healthy relationships, and only saying they’re gay when asked. You have a very stereotypical view of gay people and you shouldn’t. A good majority of us are one of the most tolerant people on the planet since we know how it feels like to be discriminated against. Yes, there are bad gay people just as there are bad straight people these range from dumb “activists” to pedophiles.

[@astrangerhere]

@Gary Lee I find it interesting that it's always non-gays that always seem so obsessed with the sexual practices of homosexuals. I wonder what that means... In any event, I don't owe you any kind of explanation, but I will say this much: this video is about a bigot who denied his employee a raise that had ALREADY been promised him when he found out he was gay. It had nothing to do with parades, or flaunting gay sex, or any of that. The boss was simply a bigot who didn't like gays, so he took the raise back. And frankly admitted that was the reason. From the way you have commented here, it sounds like you'd be the kind of asshole to do the same thing. In any event, you know nothing about me or what I want in life. N.O.T.H.I.N.G. So shut the hell up about what my "agenda" is. I have no interest in going around tearing down businesses. In this video, yes, that boss had the RIGHT to do what he did. And the employee had the RIGHT to do what he did, and the customers had the RIGHT to follow the guy they liked to a new place, not wanting to do business with a man who was a bigot. Isn't that what you anti-gays preach? "They have the right to run their business how they want?!" Well this video is a classic example of that -- it just backfired. Be careful what you wish for. I commend parents who introduce their children to pride and other inclusive events. Hopefully less of them will grow up to hate other people because of whom they love. (And yes, it IS about love, not just sex.) You're straight, yes? Ever been in a relationship with a woman? Or maybe you're in one now? How would you like it if we reduced your relationship down to nothing but sticking your dick in a pussy? Don't like that much, do you..... it's insulting. And if you've ever been in love you will know that love is far more about than that of which you describe.

[@genghissmith4949]

Gary lee Why do you think it's ok to discriminate against someone because of their sexuality, sad specimen? And what 'hate' has been displayed here? Are we not allowed to fight back against bigotry now?

[@Threemuchfiveme]

15 minutes quick drag? That's the bravest thing I've heard

[@ramonanaya6236]

Lol ikr

[@thedevilsadvocate5210]

It ruined his career as a frame maker

[@Silver_wind_1987_]

@@thedevilsadvocate5210did it really? You twat

[@SusanOnTVShows]

@@Silver_wind_1987_ Ignore the troll.

[@Silver_wind_1987_]

@@SusanOnTVShows hmmm I usually do lmao

[@Joe-xf7nr]

Interesting story. I am in a similar situation currently, my boss is not promoting me for years while other new guys are getting promoted. I did found out that he is doing illegal criminal activites so i am going pay him with the same treatment.. wish me good luck

[@duncanb4835]

Bring him down

[@OnThaMove]

Joe All the best of luck and love to you, brother.

[@JockScrapDraws]

Good luck 😁😁😁😁

[@haelotny6523]

Good luck bro 👍🏼

[@blondesense1708]

Good luck honey!

[@darklyresplendentone]

I love how Barton stood up for himself and he kept it so classy with how he handled his resignation... Good for you, Barton! You have set an example for everyone, regardless of gender or sexual orientation. 💯💯💯

[@WhitneyHouston4eva1]

Good on you Barton for being honest with that guy that you didn't like the way he treated you for being who you are

[@riannamajzoub5241]

His qualifications are the only thing that should matter to a job. If someone brings your business so much why would you risk it all by being an asshole? Well I guess this manager really only cared about himself in the reality but I am glad Barton did'nt allow him to get away with this.

[@faerefolke]

He possesses all the positive qualities of a man. Cute, fun, likeable and caring

[@rollerbladinggeek5507]

Rebecca Benway really? Are u sure... and also speaks badly of others.

[@butcharmstrong9645]

I couldn't agree more! He's absolutely adorable! You forgot just one more important attribute however....INTELLIGENT.

[@Hekeepblessingme]

rollerblading geek hello????????????????? He was treated badly by an employer and he’s not allowed to speak on his past hurt and pain???????? Fuck off lmfao

[@turntableone4356]

Who would be homophobic at a fine art frame shop? It can happen for I worked in an art museum and ran into homophobic employees there of all places.

[@andrewcarson6925]

@Gary Lee BITCH GTF ON DUMB HOMOPHOBIC BITCH

[@astrangerhere]

@Gary Lee You are going around on every comment to this video saying the same homophobic trash. "Gay people hurt small businesses..." "Gay people are vile...." "Gay people have butt sex..." Shut the fuck up you fucking asshole. People like YOU are the ones that deliberately breed confrontation with insults like this and then cry, wah, wah, wah, gay people are so mean to me, wah wah. Nobody gives a fuck what you think.

[@christopherparks4342]

@Gary Lee gay people don't define their entire existence by who they have sex with. That's what homophobes do. What you're doing is called projection. Homophobes use sexual orientation to define every aspect of gay peoples lives. Then they accuse the gay people of being the ones who did it. It would hever have been a big deal if intolerant bigots didn't turn it into one.

[@tonystark4434]

Gary Lee FUCK OFF

[@josephhoffman2992]

I swear this loser has commented on every thread.

[@chrisaugust7992]

Oh shit! I met this guy about seven years ago when I was touring Boise as a slam poet. I loved his work then, and am so fucking proud to even vaguely know him. 💜

[@ricsautter-walker5885]

I am also from Idaho it's nice to hear attitudes are improving. Moved to Boise in '96 it took us nearly two months to secure an apartment, no one would rent to two gay men, luckily we had friends to stay with or we'd have been homeless. Never had any employment discrimination. It was odd in those days parts were open and some not at all. We went all over downtown in drag without issue, holding hands at the mall would've gotten us beaten up. Thank you for bravely sharing your story, wish you the very best.

[@annamarielewis7078]

Why? You’re going to make it gorgeous, keep it immaculate and be great neighbors 💜

[@seanahmed9079]

...and he's a cutie pie!!!

[@jamesdowling41]

I was going threw the comments looking for someone to mention how cute he was.

[@No1KCfan6]

@@jamesdowling41 it's not "threw," honey; it's "through" in that context.

[@jamesdowling41]

@@No1KCfan6 Thanks you, I feel so blessed

[@blackbirdgaming8147]

No1KCfan6 Found the spelling and grammar Nazi

[@No1KCfan6]

@@blackbirdgaming8147 oh, come on. "threw" instead of "through" is a pretty egregious error.

[@shaunslattery1667]

Its great to hear stories like this,when i was younger it was a case of put up or shut up. There was no way you could speak out. Well done to him.

[@saoirse7167]

There’s a good chance that manager lost his job if it was clear he was a detriment to the company. It’s really nice to hear that everyone stood by you

[@andipandi5641]

vengeance is a dish best served cold..

[@paulettecassin7497]

With electric blue wigs😇

[@TheWolfboy180]

Bravo Luca Vengeance is useful when it’s deserved. Our entire legal system rests upon punishment. Just like not all acts can be forgiven, not all crimes can go unpunished.

[@OwlpoAnimations]

Kevin Leavey we lighten up when your in either Florida, Mid-West, or parts of Texas/California.

[@andipandi5641]

@Kevin Leavey i think that you are not taking into account the context of my remark.. i am saying that if a person is simply taking what they deserve .. and the only way of doing that is in a way that leaves the villain missing out through his own misdeeds - then that is fair enough.. but i am an extreme liberal - i would let the commandant of Auschwitz off with stiff word.. however - at the same time - i would remind US voters that regardless of whether they end up with a republican or a democrat administration - US foreign policy and its military is essentially no more ethical..

[@andipandi5641]

@Kevin Leavey altho.. this is a good story: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pImQhGBsjrOjn7M

[@dannyray9375]

Wow! He's so handsome and a dreamboat! Thanks for being yourself and standing up for what's right! That means a lot! Thank you!

[@dannybarnard9525]

Danny Ray hey my name is Danny Ray to where do you live i am in Albertville Alabama

[@all-gone]

He’s a good story teller too. Nice recap.

[@dannyray9375]

@@dannybarnard9525 -- Texas here.

[@timwatkins4962]

The loss if clientele and employees should have said something to corporate about the manager. He should have been fired.

[@src3360]

A real American HERO!! 🌈

[@norml6874]

SRC so your not a hero unless 🌈

[@src3360]

NORML Anybody can be a hero 🤙🏻

[@genghissmith4949]

Gary Lee Someone who fights back against bigotry is the very definition of role model.......how is it you don't realise this?

[@src3360]

Gary Lee You’re right.... so don’t piss off a gay You’ve been warned....

[@genghissmith4949]

Gary Lee Wrong on all accounts, sad specimen.....as someone has already pointed out gay activists are a small fraction of the LGBT community, but nevertheless do an invaluable job in highlighting abuses of anti-discrimination laws. Now, you why have you not answered a single one of my pertinent questions,....and why are you obsessed with ‘butt sex’?

[@harperwelch5147]

You ARE fantastic! I live in Seattle and we don't tolerate that sort of employer behavior ever. Glad to hear you left Idaho. All your advice was wise and thoughtful. I'm just happy that you took charge and took charge of business too!

[@nategraham6946]

Every time my dad has given a 2 week notice he was fired on the spot.

[@JoeDSquid]

That's just what I needed to hear right now 😌

[@MichaelWalsh-qn3ef]

Joseph Dempsey Good Jason.Any others words that help or just make youfeel better is a good thing.

[@scottyh8494]

It’s what we need to hear all the time. 😀

[@genghissmith4949]

Gary lee At this point you are of no use to anybody.....

[@michaelgaynor6866]

@Gary Lee ,Get turned on,asking such a question?????

[@tonystark4434]

Gary Lee , how about u just shut up

[@NighttimeBird]

Your boss might fire you without giving any reason? Why do people think that’s cool?

[@zndanner]

Coming from a state like this, it allowed me and my coworker to walk out without any recourse action because the manager hired someone we both told her was unsafe. He ended up harassing the female employees and r*ping the manager's daughter. It is a double-edged sword because it is good and bad for both employees and employers. I wouldn't, however, work in a state that wasn't right to work.

[@traekas7228]

Pedro, I’ve been looking for a comment here about someone thinking getting fired for no reason is cool. I haven’t found any. So, one question is, what makes you think that people think its cool to be fired for no reason? This practice, active in some states, needs to be abandoned by both employers and employees. I’ve heard about it, but, as far as I know, have never, personally, fallen victim to it. I have quit a job before without giving 2 weeks’ notice. Partially, because my friend/coworker, got fired for one infraction of a policy. But, got fired, really, for being such an obvious Dyke. I worked there for another week, then, accidentally found out how much some of my coworkers and Supervisors truly disliked having the “2 dykes on nights” working there. I was hurt from head to toe, mainly bc I had thought that the guy I just quoted, felt positively towards me. I quit that same morning when I got home. Anybody who might have a problem with the language I just used? Its kind of like the use of the N word by African Americans, a “take back our Power” over this (no longer) painful slur. I don’t often use the word, on a regular basis, as our entire LGBTQ 🏳️‍🌈 Community used originally hurtful epithets (slurs) to refer to ourselves, making those words much less hurtful.

[@CoryMck]

@@traekas7228 the person right above you seems to find benefits in it.

[@CoryMck]

@@zndanner this is only advantageous to employers since they control the job market and workers do not.

[@stevegardner713]

No-one in (as far as I know) ANY European country - and many more countries too - would be as bigoted as many of the US States. In the UK/Europe we just cannot believe this is still allowed. Its archaic.

[@fatdad64able]

I think when his boss asked why I quit, I wouldn't have discussed it with him.

[@adriannavarro2536]

not even done with the video and i can say i love this story

[@rollerbladinggeek5507]

Adrian Navarro That's the definition of prejudice.

[@rollerbladinggeek5507]

(Your comment right there)

[@nancyjay790]

@@rollerbladinggeek5507 I have told my children for years that I will always be prejudiced in their favour. The fact that they are wonderful notwithstanding.

[@rollerbladinggeek5507]

@@nancyjay790 at least u admit to it...

[@adriannavarro2536]

@@rollerbladinggeek5507 interesting take considering I provided no context to my comment. Did I pause the video to comment 2 minutes in? Maybe at 5:34? Or perhaps at 6:50? Your comment comes off as insecure narcissism. (My comment here)….2 years later 😂

[@orlando1a1]

Go Barton!!! What a rectal orifice that store manager was - I loved how he put that loser in his place.

[@kittyformanrn9268]

You are such a great guy!💕

[@orlando1a1]

Why thank you, Kitty.

[@EctoBuzz]

At this point, 13 homophobic "rectal orifice" disliked this video. Well, they can all go kiss Kim Davis' bigoted ass for all I care!

[@gamaliel5584]

WHAT A RECTAL ORIFICE

[@genghissmith4949]

Gary Lee What has brought you to this low state.....is it religious extremism?

[@abigailfowler1843]

Thank you for featuring someone previously from Idaho. Our state has a lot of work to do, and it can be even worse for those who are LGBTQ. This was empowering to hear.

[@timslater566]

Unfortunately here in the United States there’s nothing “UNITED” about it. It’s more like 50 completely and totally different countries (states) each with their own laws, education levels, and culture. Life and laws in one state can be completely different than the state next door.

[@arieltroncoso3871]

Facts. That's what happens when you overrun what is essentially a continent, pretending to be one unit.

[@jasayehan]

I love his energy! Sometimes the best revenge is just to be your most unapologetically fabulous self!

[@raydaveed]

The only thing that shocked me here was that he said his 15min drag wasn't good. *Like that fabulous in 15min ?!!* For real.

[@zachbrown4953]

"It's halloween, which is my faaaaaavorite holiday" just in case we weren't sure he's gay

[@davidburrus3913]

You bring out these of what a person should b gay or straight! God Bless 🏳️‍🌈

[@coupleofbeers31]

Great story! I'm not surprised it was in Idaho. The LDS church has that states in its clutches for sure, I think most of the residents are LDS members. Was up there in 2016, it's a beautiful state and very clean but the people seemed very weird for sure. They didn't seem open and friendly. As a gay Hispanic man from Miami, FL I was getting stares left and right from the White conservative LDS Idahoans. Pretty scary for sure but we had a good time and seeing that canyon in Southern Idaho was something else.

[@kellharris2491]

I am sorry to here that happened to you. I am ashamed but not surprised. Please know that we aren't all bigoted or judgmental.

[@coupleofbeers31]

@@kellharris2491 Oh no no worries. There's nothing to apologize for. I wasn't treated badly or anything. Maybe the people were standoffish because I looked and dressed differently. I didn't see any kind of gay culture or scene which is quite sad. Then again I was in the Southern part, near that canyon, near American Falls and other places like that. I flew into SLC airport, and was able to see Utah as well. There were many friendly people for sure but there was this air of extreme conservatism and intolerance that I sensed. Also the men there, in both Utah and Idaho, are really hot! LOL. There was eye candy as far as the eye can see. Probably the hottest guys I have ever seen here in the States. I really sense that many of them are in the closet, just an observation. Again the LDS church is very anti-gay and these men are trapped by that kind of religious mentality. All men are expected and almost forced to marry women and have these large families up there. Cheers!

[@Laina241]

good job. my twin is gay and a number of my students who I advise at university are gay. Through stories like yours and my brother's so many young people are given courage. I appreciate your courage. BRAVO a thousand times for anyone who takes courage from your story

[@annamarielewis7078]

When I was very young, I wondered if I became gay could I date gay men because they are so handsome. Such lovely ignorance of youth. I never understood why gay people were disliked. It must be ignorance and fear.💜💜

[@shiroi201]

That is the most amazing story 😍 and the fact that his boss felt really quickly how wrong his bigoted decision was through the clients and workers leaving is the best part!😁

[@joecab1]

DAYUM you are a daring soul. I love it. Glad things worked out that way and you stayed true to yourself.

[@paullamoureux274]

"It’s been a delight working with everybody else, but not you.” - BEST! LINE! EVER! Kudos to you Barton! So many people would have accepted that managers "excuse" and continued working because they didn't want to make waves. It was interesting to note how the business lost customers and good employees because of that one manager.

[@travisgrant5608]

What a smart, intelligent young man! Good on him! You go bro!!! 👍💞👏💞🤗

[@evilr.714]

Love the final message , it was't just for lgbtq community , but for everyone!. Nicely done Barton!. ;)

[@tonystark4434]

Evil R. may the gay gods bless your soul. lgbtq forever

[@Havvyer]

A fine art frame shop manager being homophobic? How does that even make any sense?

[@russellepatch7848]

You stood up for yourself and showed him he couldn't push you around. Congratulations!!!

[@rickchris7698]

Over the many years I've worked for and with some real "tools". I'm glad this incident worked out for the better.

[@donaldstorm4959]

I'm so happy you had good friends there ♥️ that's a real awesome thing and customers that really like you, and your boss had to hide in his office, cheers my friend. DRS.

[@thomascannon6744]

Same problem in Arizona as an RN in the 90’s. Best of luck. Sounds like you're in a good place. 🌈

[@crowebro9581]

Thank you for sharing. I'm going thru it at work right now being openly trans FTM and am looking for a new job where I feel appreciated. They expect me to do the work of 3 ppl with no raises while they give ppl who slack off doing only one job raises. I've given the last ten years of my life and worked tons of 12-16 hr days on salary and instead of a thank you I get told what still isn't done.

[@BFDT-4]

Was the store manager religiously motivated? Hmmm. In Idaho??? Hmmmm. Last lousy manager WE remember was from the Morridor.

[@aziaman1]

Bravo, Barton! You are a true inspiration to those of us who care about equality and dignity! :-)

[@TigerBlackTigerBlackTigerBlack]

This was an amazing story! Thank you for sharing it!

[@31xrg]

Great story! Wonderful coworkers!

[@robertschwartz4810]

This was a valuable lesson for everyone. It's hard to believe that it happened so relatively recently.

[@NativeNYker73]

@Robert Schwartz I'm not at all surprised to hear of Barton's story happening in the Pacific Northwest. This part of the country, save for Portland and Seattle, really is about 25 years behind almost every other corner of America. Still, I agree with your message that there are valuable lessons to be learned all around as it pertains to Barton's story. Chief among them, I think, is that when we take pride and ownership over our narrative as members of the LGBTQ+ communities, there is very little that others can do to diminish the strength that comes from acceptance and love of self...

[@NativeNYker73]

@Gary Lee I can certainly see where there might be cause for concern with some folks involved in the activist culture. However, that has not been my experience and I certainly hope it's not been yours. Being the product of folks from within the Black community who fought the civil rights struggles of the 50's and 60's in the American south, I'm reminded of something my grandfather would always tell me as a kid "...fighting for civil rights ain't gonna always be so civil!" In the end, that hate you referenced often results from previous experiences of being hurt, abused or feeling dejected. I think that's part of what Barton was trying to convey in sharing his story. His employer's vitriol ultimately may have cost him more than just a loyal employee (of course, we're only hearing Barton's side of the story by way of this channel).

[@genghissmith4949]

Gary Lee You have been brainwashed well.....I pity you.

[@tonystark4434]

Gary Lee if u don’t shut up i will report u. i graduated college, i can do anything

[@carlhaluss]

Beautiful story and beautiful guy who has the courage to stand up for not only his rights, but the rights of every other day person. Bravo! Great to hear that this story has such a happy ending. Certainly made my day!

[@julianfantasia9033]

0 dislikes... never seen that on a video with views before. Perfect.

[@jessicascoullar3737]

The boss and eleven of his family members seem to have found it (at the time of writing).

[@barbkeen1221]

@@jessicascoullar3737 22 more of his family hit the dislike button. I'll betcha that the mgr was closeted! Hmmmm! 😂😂

[@jamesmcinnis208]

That seems to be important to some people

[@fevkin]

What a star! Such a lovely man who dealt with his predicament in the best possible way

[@oceansideartist]

Wow! What an inspirational young man! Good for YOU!! ❤️🇨🇦

[@acreymundo]

Thank you for your story. It illustrates why we must always honor who we are. Being true to ourselves is the gift we give ourselves and others in order to transcend.

[@commentsiguess1263]

The dislikes are from his boss.

[@yzz8866]

He moved onto a better job and left his bitter and hateful boss in the dust. Bitter and angry people are miserable and seek to spread their misery to others. Life is too short to pay any attention to people like that.

[@commentsiguess1263]

@Gary Lee Begone bot

[@commentsiguess1263]

@Gary Lee So what, you just copy and paste that comment pretty much everywhere?

[@timpatrick7985]

@Gary Lee you sound absolutely delightful .

[@tonystark4434]

Gary Lee shut up

[@stevefreedman470]

Barton honey, I AM SO PROUD OF YOU!!! NEVER let ANYONE dictate your self worth and value as a person. I think the way you handled yourself in this situation was great....it's amazing what we in the community have to deal with and the ignorance of others. Especially in the office. With my job, only a select few know I'm gay and it's been fine....they don't care....as long as I do my job...thats all that matters...for me coming out at work is not necessary...only if you feel the need....I know if anyone asks me if I am gay I say yes....being honest is always the best...and besides why do they care....I loved how you handled yourself in this situation and you stood your ground and kept your dignity intact....so proud of you! I know you're going to go far in life honey and keep on keeping on....best of luck! XO "Mama" Steve 😊

[@kevinl6231]

I like the fact that in some cases you can choose who you work for. Managers will have to step up their game and treat their employees with dignity and respect. edited for bad autocorrect

[@mindakahn9964]

Kevin Lew Since when does a manager get to override HR? Having been both this smells really bad. Litigiously bad.

[@KevinRoddy]

Barton, you are adorable, and thank goodness you got away from that boss. You are wise beyond your years. The best of luck to you in the future! Aloha from O'ahu!

[@SeanShimamoto]

What a freakin’ AWESOME story!!! Lotsa ❤️ and aloha from Hawai’i! 😍🏳️‍🌈🤙🏽

[@beth-bi9yv]

I'm so glad you stood up for yourself! Glad things worked out for you! !!!

[@arturo435]

He really pulled an awesome Bye Felicia

[@quantafreeze]

I don't know why, but I love quitting. Moving on can be so cathartic.

[@annamarielewis7078]

And the boss is always so shocked!

[@walterharris1301]

I love you didn't back down. You should sue the company.

[@paulghencea9037]

He can't because of those laws he specified in the begining. If he could he probably would. +it's not exactly cheap sueing anyone for that matter

[@mindakahn9964]

Paul Ghencea Just because it’s a job at Will in an at will state does not mean you cannot sue. Been there done that have the merit badge. Don’t be sheep.

[@brianlavigne596]

Ok, I love this guy! He's my hero! Very inspiring! Ignorance will never be ok! And ignorant people need to be taught a lesson! Too many bad managers out there. It's a shame. It's so important to move on and be valued by someone who appreciates what you DO, not what you ARE! God bless this man!

[@marcelhatch3563]

Wow. People like Barton make me proud of growing up in Idaho!

[@lucasrestrepo985]

Proud of you, best 2 weeks ever! Also I love how patient and intelligent your exit plan was. I had this happen to me but I was young and did a messy job with it.

[@Teby1969]

Inspiring.... truly inspiring. Thank you!!!

[@maximumeffortflsb2715]

Glad KZbin oddly suggested this video. I too recently switched jobs because of management not valuing my work and what I brought to the company. It is always unfortunate when people in management positions are able to bring their personal values to the work environment and dictate what happens to an employee because of their gender or sexuality.

[@lucassende211]

One thing doesn't make sense to me. He said that HR told him that the raise was going to be retroactive. Any company that I have worked at would present that increase to you in writing. Unless they do that....its not official. Also HR handles the pay....so why wouldnt go back fire fly to the person who told him that?

[@julielampe4987]

What a great story. Good for you Barton ❤💜💙 I really loved what you said at the very end. Very sage advice.

[@earlfrancart5687]

what an awesome story.. great job Barton

[@mspalmboy]

Congratulations. Discrimination must be called out. Well done and I trust that you are now in a job where you are acknowledged for being the valuable person that you are. Best wishes for your future, and thank you for taking a stand on behalf of us all 😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀

[@scottyh8494]

Great...Thanks Barton good outcome for you.

[@roysmallian2889]

A very sad story.. Who could benefit from any of the actions?

[@paulcr2]

Great. He did the right thing! (btw he looks like such a great guy, and he's very handsome)

[@clarkclarke]

Great story .. "You are valuable no matter what anybody says". You are priceless" Barton

[@GiGi-ot5ik]

Great story. I love it!!

[@alfredflores3160]

Thank u thank u...an inspiration for many who have to suffer under employers like that.

[@PhillipE1210]

I love a good comeback story!

[@NarutoBaby94]

That boss was beyond unprofessional and unless he cleaned up his act won’t do well in the future

[@jamesmcinnis208]

The seventh wealthiest woman in Idaho - LOL!!!!

[@pbiasizzo]

I laughed, too. I just imagined that woman walking around Podunk, Idaho, proclaiming it!

[@jamesmcinnis208]

@@pbiasizzo "Do you know who I AM?!?!?"

[@Carol-S]

"What are you gonna do - fire me?!" Bloody brilliant. You have a gorgeous attitude & would be an asset to any workplace XX

[@TheTriptamineDream]

Another reason unions are awesome. Actual protections.

[@rwledrew]

Good for you. Don't take it lying down. You did it in the best possible and positive way. You helped future people. Good work.

[@kherynnw8603]

Good for you darling. A beautiful energy and soul like you is valued.

[@dreamyblue6688]

So happy to hear that’s he’s moved to Seattle 💙

[@annamarielewis7078]

Close to Oregon. When COVID is over,I want to visit you. Message me💜

[@dalmartrois7684]

From Amsterdam I'm so proud of you

[@CraigTulloch]

How disgusting that you can be let go for no reason just cause your boss or manager takes a dislike to you. US employees need some protections. Another time I’m happy I don’t live or work in the “Greatest Country on Earth”.

[@juliancoulden1753]

Congratulations! Brave and ballsy! And cute!

[@SarcasticCupcake223]

This guy dressed as a drag queen for Halloween just to subtly tell the manager to "stick it" ... that is the best thing ever! I love this guy so much!!

[@DharmaDerelict]

That is so awesome!

[@cheesydoritosking269]

PERIODT. you sure did put that company almost out of business. I got so much to learn from you.