gender dysphoria (a playlist)

everyone keeps misgendering me- :')
(and my pronouns are xe/xem, he/him, and they/them^^).
timestamps:
0:00 - number - temporex
2:02 - swing lynn - harmless
7:16 - this is home - cavetown
10:59 - summer depression - girl in red
13:31 - bad idea! - girl in red
17:08 - winter solstice - phoenix
21:01 - 4 morant - doja cat
23:52 - juilet - cavetown

[@sleepykarl]

timestamps: 0:00 - number - temporex 2:02 - swing lynn - harmless 7:16 - this is home - cavetown 10:59 - summer depression - girl in red 13:31 - bad idea! - girl in red 17:08 - winter solstice - phoenix 21:01 - 4 morant - doja cat 23:52 - juilet - cavetown

[@That_One_Enby]

Hi! Checked your about section and didn’t see any pronouns. Just wondering what you preferred pronouns are! Also have a nice day (:

[@sleepykarl]

@@That_One_Enby oh my, I didn't notice I didn't put my pronouns in my bio, I'll do that right now^ but my pronouns are: xe/xem, he/him, they/them !

[@-katbug.]

Ah, you missed your chance to add "dysphoric" from Cavetown! Still a great playlist!

[@thephantomreaper5511]

Thank you

[@corncobbob2326]

How come Bad Idea sounds a bit different from the Spotify version?

[@marianseuih5446]

Dysphoria feels like being uncomfortable taking a shower, or just feeling like you are trapped in a skin that is not yours. It feels like you are trapped in your own mind and can’t snap back into reality, it isn’t a fun or a fantastic feeling. Which makes it almost impossible to overcome.. dysphoria makes you feel empty, it makes you feel like you are being controlled and manipulated by a puppeteer. It is like staying up on a school night trying to make the tears come out but you just can’t seem to cry. It makes things even worse when you don’t have a supportive family. It makes you feel like you just want to die.

[@h3ll0.s1lly]

i feel that, it's a horrible feeling but we must stay strong!! we'll get better one day :)

[@marianseuih5446]

@@h3ll0.s1lly yeah, hopefully we’ll all get through it. No one deserves to feel trapped in someone else’s body.. it’s a horrible feeling. And it hurts to know that most trans people commit suicide.. it just makes me want to cry. Sending virtual hugs

[@h3ll0.s1lly]

@@marianseuih5446 yeah :((

[@Izzy-xy4kx]

yeah. our minds are a horrible hellscape that we cannot escape from. i have a especially transphobic family so.. yeah! fun. dysphoria to the max. just know, you are valid, and i support you no matter what you are. you could be a murderer and i would support you (not really but you get the point lol-)

[@the.crawling.rot_.]

Couldn’t agree more, my mom always says so me; “You better find a way to explain this ‘feeling.’” But there is no words to explain the pain, and not a day gos by when I wish that people who don’t understand get to feel it, even just for a minute. That would change the world.

[@Catinthecosmos155]

On my period so I’m experiencing ALOT of gender dysphoria right now (I’m non-binary they/them) and Honestly this helps lol, knowing I’m not alone I’m this experience

[@pumkitdrawz]

same, im nb and puberty sucks :((

[@basicallyblobbity4226]

Same bruh 😞

[@sagedebnath4253]

Same... Honestly wish I could stop it easily :\

[@Espen_goBrrr]

Same tho😭😭 this shit sucks the life outta me

[@QueerAndHunger]

Same

[@Lunarbun2]

I wish I were a girl so bad I want to dye my hair and get earrings and get cool girl clothing I wanna be myself I wish I didn't have dysphoria but my parents are so transphobic I don't know what to do; they don't let me do anything. I haven't come out to them yet and I'm so scared to because I know they'll stop loving me and I think they'll restrict me even more. - - - I'm glad I can just be online cos hearing all y'all's experiences and listening to stuff like this helps a lot. I admire y'all for making it through

[@drownedtrashrat3501]

Hey queen just here to tell you are a girl Even if you don't yet get to present the way you'd like to, and you don't feel like you'll ever be a 'real' girl, _you are still a girl._ stay strong luv, you'll get out one day, you've just gotta hold on

[@thecreature916]

I think I might be a trans girl to but heres some advice: wait until your 18/moved out of your parents house and then come out then, so then if they dont like you they cant do anything

[@theowlhouseseason3213]

I totally get your point.. it must be incredibly difficult not being able to just.. do what you feel like. Your body however is not you, as well as your gender. There is something essential, the silent watcher of the emotions and thoughts, you are that consciousness. You'll be okay I promise that. Focus on your breathing and try to observe the dysphoria. I'm proud of the young woman you're growing into

[@justforfungamergirl7402]

Dying your hair and getting earrings is usually viewed as acceptable for any gender thankfully! Anyone who says otherwise is lame

[@Yourlocalidiot14]

I have a similar experience but ftm and my family is completely against lgbtq so I'm super scared to tell them. I'm going to wait till I'm 18 or until I live on my own.

[@eggsbenidict1]

uh- you are making some of the most relatable playlists ever- i mean on Friday i was getting my hair done and my mum was like "why couldnt you have been born a boy? your hair wouldve been so much easier to do" and im just standing there like "you WANTED me to be a boy?- then why dont you like the fact i want my name changed? or i want to be a boy myself? huh?" of course not out loud but as soon as i got to school i told my friend and she agreed with me-

[@BashyBoy]

Damn- is she not hearing her own words?? You have literally made the change that she supposedly wanted herself! I'm absolutely so sorry for narging in on your situation here but I just have to at least state how stupid that is, she should be happy that you're trans, not disappointed or whatever she is, remember that you're NEVER going to be alone, our community as trans people will always be here for eachother

[@eggsbenidict1]

@@BashyBoy nah its cause she thinks im going through a phase even through shes apparently supportive of the whole lgbtq community- like i only have two teachers who actually use my choosen name and one who actually use they/them pronouns for me cause i havent told the other one yet and my dad is exactly the same as my mum-

[@itmightbesaturn]

i know love, i know. its hard. some people can't accept you for who you are. and they're just like that. and that's ok. because you need to know there are people out there who care about you. including me. that is such a shitty thing to do on your mom's part, and i believe in you to keep going. you don't deserve that and you never did. i love you, and wish you the best

[@stephenivers]

my mam said she was hoping for a boy too its so annoying

[@stephenivers]

my mam said she would of preferred a boy but would be fine with both she says she accpects me but she barely uses my name and if she does it doesn't feel right like it does in school everyone uses it noone uses my deadname

[@jjsoriani4973]

It's so hard being gay in Brazil, i can't talk with people about it, i would proably get kicked out of my family and lose all my friends, keep fighting for your rights, i know it's hard to keep hiding yourself, but it's the only way to keep your mind and body safe until financial independence!! Hope the best for every LGBTQIA+ in comments❤

[@Shesty852]

É tão bom ser assumido, mas também é ruim pensar nisso quando sua família já sabe, mas ainda te trata como se fosse uma menina(e eu sou às vezes) e te faz pensar que você pode se apaixonar facilmente e cair nos braços de algum desconhecido (provavelmente homem) :/

[@literally_me972]

Simmm, é horrivel. Aqui a galera trata a gente como se fosse só mais uma uma piada :(

[@I_question_decisions]

I'm a demigirl but sometimes I feel like a they/them and it's confusing and it emotionally hurts

[@rancholotl3384]

@@I_question_decisions same T-T

[@user-in6pq9yb2x]

Hi from Russia, same :( Im genderfuid good luck bro

[@LeA.01]

When I was younger I was classified as a "tomboy" by my friends and family. Now that I'm older I realise it has never been that I was a "tomboy" it's the fact that I never felt comfortable in the female body specifically so that's now why I go by all pronouns(he/she/they but mainly they/them).

[@-enigma-8218]

same

[@stephenivers]

i was a tomboy as a kid its obvious now that i was just a boy i cried at night when i was little praying to god (one i don't even believe in) and santa to wake up in a cis boys body

[@-enigma-8218]

@@stephenivers i didn't understand the concept of gender as a kid and i was fine(ish)

[@Skull_Silhouette]

I was classified as a "tomboy" by my family. But I've finally figured out what/who I am... I'm nonbinary and I go by She/He pronouns. I am finally content with who I am.

[@user-kj4du3pd1z]

​@@stephenivers same

[@lemonboy200]

love the playlist dude. in all honesty, gender dysphoria is kinda uncomfortable when it goes for me. it was all better when i found myself trans. thanks for the playlist dude

[@the.crawling.rot_.]

Loving the name and pfp

[@danilsonvasquez]

😊

[@morgenreed8166]

I wish that my mom understood. I wish people saw my body how I want them to. I wish everyone including my family would call me Toby instead of Momo... I wish people would ask me my pronouns everyday so that I'm comfortable. I wish that I could dress how I want without people calling me names. I wish people didn't joke about dysphoria. I wish I could get a binder. I wish that I could wear makeup and suit without people saying "You cant be both". I wish I could dress casual without people saying "You cant be nothing you have to have a gender" I wish people would just understand....That im Bisexual and Gender fluid and My pronouns are He/She/They!!! AND IM FUCKING PROUD TO BE!!!!!!

[@HyperNovva]

Hi, how are you doing now?

[@user-in6pq9yb2x]

Hi fella gender fluid im too :D

[@altalune-9]

YESSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I DONT FUCKING CARE WHAT ANYONE SAYS ABOUT ME!!! I KNOW WHO I AM!!!!!!

[@Unstable-homosexual]

I’m trans/nonbinary (He/They) and this really helps my gender dysphoria at school, especially when almost nobody respects what I want to be, they just see me for what I look like, a girl with short hair

[@kirii.delight]

same for me, all of my classmates make fun of me for "changing my pronouns everyday"

[@h3ll0.s1lly]

im so sorry dude D: you're so strong

[@kanashi01]

He/the is Demi-boy I think,

[@drownedtrashrat3501]

@@kanashi01 pronouns don't exactly equal gender; some pronouns are associated w gender but using certain pronouns doesn't automatically make you a certain gender

[@i-quit-thischannel]

I'm the same.. I am trans and go by he/they, and I tell people that and that my name is alex, but they continue to call me adalynn and see me as a girl with boyish clothes and short hair

[@cecilsweeps]

I just came into terms that I am actually transmasc after burying my feelings for so long, thanks to my mother who made a transphobic comment about a trans celebrity and made me feel wrong for wanting to be the real me. Even just remembering that moment, I can feel my body shifting and moving as if there's something protruding from inside my skin. I don't get gender dysphoria often since I don't really care about the fact I'm biologically female and I feel comfortable with both of my masculinity. But when it hits, it hits hard. I still feel wrong with hearing my dead name leave people's mouths. I'm close to finishing high school (junior at least, there's still senior high which is, unfortunately, not optional) and I have a auntie who's also trans and is willing to take me under her wing in exchange for good grades. The asian stereotype somehow had sewn its way into my family too :'] Hopefully I'll be able to legally change my name and if financially possible, get top surgery. As much as I think they're cool, I'd prefer getting rid of weight off my chest.

[@Zephr-is-a-silly-guy]

You go dude, I'm almost getting close to the end of the first year of high school, and as soon as I get a place of my own I'm hanging a Non-Binary flag out front, changing my name to bean, and cutting my hair short

[@cecilsweeps]

@@Zephr-is-a-silly-guy oo that's great!! wishing the best to you ^_^

[@TheRealDAVEMILLERaubergine123]

​@@Zephr-is-a-silly-guy omg I love that name

[@-Homosapian-]

I don't really know what I am at this point. I don't like being labelled or under a specific term. I like being known as being under the non-binary umbrella, and I like They/Them pronouns. But sometimes I feel like being called a girl and using She/Her and He/Him doesn't sound bad either, now that I think about it. It's difficult because I don't know what gender I really am. My family supports me, as I have already come out as bisexual to them, and I have a girlfriend. But when it comes to gender identity and what to be referred as it's a different decision. My girlfriend said I might be gender fluid but that doesn't sit right with me still. I'm just confused but for now I will probably use just any pronouns and be under the non-binary umbrella. Anyway I love this playlist thank you for making it!!

[@Personal_Info8]

You don’t need to rush it, don’t worry. You’ll find what label/labels are right for you eventually. You don’t need any labels if you don’t want any either so no pressure ^^ I’m also in a similar situation. I use many different pronouns and I’m okay with some of them at certain times but not later on. However, I’m certain I’m gender fluid and I know sometimes I’m bi gender. I guess I just fluctuate between the two.

[@chaosteller]

If it helps any, I label myself as queer and genderqueer! But, dont forget - going unlabeled is perfectly fine as well!

[@ghostly222]

I feel the exact same as you and it’s really confusing so I just wanna let you know that you are not alone with this feeling and that there always people that will understand you.

[@phluffydragon8097]

You could be genderflux! Its similar to genderfluid but your hender can range from a scale at times. Of course you should take your time and you dont need to decide on a label right away! Its whatever is comfortable for you :]

[@octaviansamich9978]

Not to push anything.. but um.. have you tried looking up Agender? It sounds a lot like what you're saying here. Being Agender is basically being genderless. Most agender people don't really care much about pronouns but usually prefer They/Them.

[@Star18262]

I just wanna tell everyone here that even if you don't look cis, your valid. Your looks don't invalidate you in any way. Im so proud of all of you. Thanks for just being yourself

[@Zephr-is-a-silly-guy]

:D

[@its_andriette2918]

:D

[@leelakrishnan3531]

I don’t want to look cis but in the way that I want people to look at me and go that’s a boy who was born a boy but is currently going through a major gender crisis, I’m transmasc

[@breaddfairy_8534]

I'm actually having a hard time with gender dysphoria rn, I was tired of no one seeing me as a guy so I just thought "well maybe if I just go back to she/her people will respect me and not harass me" but it just caused more rumors to spread and it just hurts and I'm afraid to go back to school after Christmas break bc of all the rumors, but this playlist rlly helps thank you

[@constanceloudermilk7959]

I feel you I'm a trans male and ppl us she/her on me but I go be he/him/they/them but no one gives a crap but I want you to know you are a man trans or not you are who you are I hope you have a great 2023

[@breaddfairy_8534]

@@constanceloudermilk7959 ty your so sweet

[@traveler6784]

Just wanted to say you're a great guy

[@breaddfairy_8534]

@@traveler6784 tysm !!

[@idork7302]

I'm having what I call a "soft day" because of this playlist. Its essentially where I feel an ungodly amount of gender euphoria, and I feel all soft and warm and fuzzy

[@Ang3l_l33]

I love this playlist mostly cause I’m going though some gender dysphoria myself

[@corncobbob2326]

How so? What makes it go away for you? Your comment doesn’t reveal your gender and pronouns but know that you are valid af and that body parts and appearance don’t make you less of what you identify as. I even knew a trans dude who didn’t get top surgery at all and got more bazongas than I do and people still refer to him with the he/him pronouns he wants.

[@Ang3l_l33]

@@corncobbob2326 well right now I use she/they pro nouns but I go left and right in my brain of what gender I am and sometimes I look at my friend gender a say do I feel like that gender so that your answer I just didn’t wait to write a really long answer

[@lenny_starboy]

I hate dysphoria but all this music made me comfortable tyy

[@watatsumiigrl]

i barely even feel dysphoric, but when i do i cry my eyeballs out and it kinda makes me wanna relapse 🥰- this playlist really helps, ty

[@leelakrishnan3531]

I used to cry so much that I have lost the ability to, and no I just feel like shit and burry my feelings under a layer of poorly forced smiles and “I’m fine”s

[@melonzpip1776]

i'm in a new friend group right now and i haven't come out to them (genderqueer it/any). The second language we speak in has gendered verbs and my new friends often correct me when i refer to myself in male verbs. It makes me feel uncomfortable to say the least, i wish i could tell them asap but with the new homophobic law i'm afraid i'd get reported ;( thank you sm for this playlist, they help me to cope a lot 😭🫶

[@scurly0792]

Hungary?

[@onlinepredator8544]

it ☠☠ be so serious

[@sidthemonsterkid4927]

I'm sorry for the mean replies YOU ARE SO VALID some people just like being mad for no reason

[@scurly0792]

@@sidthemonsterkid4927 Which mean replies? I only see one that could be considered mocking

[@sidthemonsterkid4927]

@@scurly0792 Lol sorry I'm very stupid and I wrote that very late at night and wasn't really thinking right but that's what I mean I guess lmao I'm terrible at explaining hope u understand have a nice day :)

[@mia_theblade]

I love Cavetown and Girl in Red so much TwT

[@pon_ponyo]

i am female born female always have been came out as bisexual questioning being they/them “no i’m definitely she/her” “but what if?” “oh! being a demigirl exist! i think this is me!” “yeah i like she/they now” “can you use they more than she?” “actually…i think i am they/them” “i’m they/them now” “i wish i looked like him…” i want to be a skinny boy with dark black fluffy hair that covers my face and a flat chest “am i trans?” “no i couldn’t be, i can’t be trans” “what if i was called he/him?” “what about he/they?” “no…i’m they/them…but what if..?”

[@G0th-Bimb0]

This playlist helps. A lot. Unlike my family. Whenever I talk about how I feel about my body, myself, or my thoughts, my family always say that it's just me growing and that I shouldn't worry about it because I'm a growing teenager... The only people I can truly talk to are my friends, people online, and my SS teacher. (She's amazing.)

[@erebosterra6045]

nah don't feel sad they tries to help you, not from ur sight but from their sight they trying And don't feel bad about ur body im sure its just ur thought💜💜

[@-enigma-8218]

I keep trying to hint to my mother that i want to be a boy, and i once said i have gender dysphoria, but she said that she experienced the same thing when she was my age and she didn't transition

[@kermitthefrog4835]

*Me peacfully playing online games and suddetly becoming friends with someone* Someone: So what gender you are? Me: Uhh..

[@paddy404]

oh boy, kinda needed this rn, its midnight and im kind of wanting to wear my binder... i was ment to be sleeping but the dysphoria sucks... i wish i didnt have any boobs... and sometimes i dont understand why is it so hard for some people to understand...i dont really wanna be a boy, im deffinetly not a girl...im a demiboy... and i dont know how to explain that to teachers, to classmates, to older siblings, to parents, to friends... i just want to be completely out of this closet but my anxiety about how to explain is keeping me half out, letting people deadname and misgender me even after i say my name and my gender...i just feel aaaaghhgh- I want to cry... Why is it so hard? im an adult soon so why is it so tough for me. why do i always result to either hiding, shutting down or age regression why cant i just stand up for myself. why cant i correct them without feeling like im a spoiled brat, an ungrateful karen, an entitled bench Am I just too scared i would loose the only people I know and not be able to find anymore people? maybe...Im scared of being alone..abandoned...but the longer i stay in this closet i feel like im going insane the more my mom calls me a girl and introduce me as her daughter when she KNOWS im her son, her child, kills me every day... and im scared of crying cuz she will know im too weak... I just needed to get that out tonight...

[@phluffydragon8097]

Im in a bit of a confusing situation, ive known for around four years now that im non binary, but i still havent come out (despite believing that i am in quite a safe situation to do so) and with every day that passes its like ive started forgetting to even think about coming out. Somedays it feels like i forget who i am. Its not bad but i feel like if i dont come out ill go through my whole life as someone im not, and people misgendering me doesnt effect me as much anymore, its like im used to it, until one time someone says something and it gets in my head. I guess im just scared. I used to be so worried when i realized, what would people think? Would the people i care about even accept me? I dont even think about that anymore, i know they would… eventually. But ill never get eventually unless i make a change now

[@funni_clowns9592]

You’ve got this!! I came out to my family and friends, and my friends accepted me but my parents didn’t. If they accept you, they will fight for you, do anything they can to make you comfortable. My parents cannot stand me, and yes, it’s hurts, but the ones who love me care for me and we get closer and closer together. I know I’m a stranger on the internet, but you shouldn’t be afraid to come out!! I believe in you!!!

[@Agent-2256]

you've got this!! I believe in you!! I believe that you can do it!!😁😁😁😁

[@altalune-9]

MAKE A CHANGE!!! TELL YOUR STORY! DONT LET THE WORLD FILL IT IN FOR YOU!!!!!!!

[@Abyss.birdtale]

i cried to cave town- there was a karaoke event today and some one started singing this is home and most every one was happy listening to it but me and my friend almost burst into tears aaaaaaaaaaa it happens 5/10 of listening to this song -

[@bugboy7757]

ey now this is what i have needed lmao- are you alright though? apologies for asking- other than that the songs you choose for these are amazing, and i love the thumbnail :D

[@sleepykarl]

ah ah I'm doing okay- it's just a bit hard to deal with ppl misgendering me and I'm not out to some ppl so it's hard but I hope your doing well! and tysm

[@bugboy7757]

oh alright, just checking in :] if you ever need me, i, a random commenter, shall be here then lol. Also yw!!

[@sleepykarl]

@@bugboy7757 awe your very sweet, have an amazing day!!

[@bugboy7757]

thank you!! also u too! :D

[@l0v33rx]

@@sleepykarlwhat r ur pronouns? i dont like assuming

[@Zack_is_proud]

Gender Dysphoria sucks, but we all have it. I wish I wasn’t trans a lot though.

[@sleepykarl]

ah yeah same here- I wish I wasn't trans, I wish I was born male so badly:(

[@boybye]

@@sleepykarl in the same situation ♡ I know its hard but know you're not alone ♡

[@samsoderstrom6348]

We live with the worst curse that someone can live with but in some wierd way we feel proud of it. Isnt it wierd. We can even gain confidece from it. Im a transgirl btw

[@atlas3611]

​@@samsoderstrom6348not really proud of it, I'm stuck with my "family" who doesn't support lgbt people and i live in a country where being lgbt can get you in legal trouble

[@Strawbabiebug]

Ive been rlly dysphoric lately so this playlist fits, also it slaps so thats a bonus. I started my transition almost three years ago but it honestly feels like ive made no progress. Im too scared to get a binder even tho i know all the rules and know my mom would probably be ok with it. Im not in a situation where i can get t rn, idk just feels like im not manly enough. Just bc im fem doesnt mean im not a guy tho! Its just hard.

[@xxashleythefoxx6765]

Bestie not being manly enough is bogus you dont owe society anything there's plenty of feminine or androgynous guys I understand the feeling though it can be rlly hard sometimes (Ps im transfem)

[@tw1nki33]

I’ve listened to this so many times- I love this playlist 😭❤️

[@sleepykarl]

awes tysm eee

[@JustAPileOfMaggots]

I haven't really ever had too much trouble with gender dysphoria but the playlist is really good :)

[@fallendolly]

i just wanna run away and stop worrying about what other ppl think of me, i just wanna be who i wanna be lol

[@keyonalyles2267]

I have been having gender dysphoria ever since I was a young teen. Maybe if I wasn't a woman, I could be more accepted by society. I'm nothing like a woman at all and I don't seem to fit in with any of the guys either. This is really hard for me to explain, but I hope you know what I mean. You guy are fantastic, keep being you

[@S.c.o.p.e.r_p.a.w.s]

Oh thank you so much!!!!!!

[@OfficiallyOcean_old]

I’m at the point where I’ve just given up on trying to figure it out, 3 years of constant back and forth. I’ve tried to not think about it but my friend figuring out what they are so easily has made me gone back to thinking it. Idk I’ve seen it always fluctuate but it’s weird, whoever I’m dating really changes it. Let’s say I’m dating a lesbian, I tend to want to be more fem and stay to feminine genders, maybe I’m dating a bi/pan/Omni/ etc girl, I tend to be more masc or fem and stay toward more masc and fem genders, a straight guy I tend to be more fem and stick to more feminine genders, bi/pan/Omni/etc guy I tend to be a little of everything and my gender is the same. But I’m dating a guy who really doesn’t know his sexuality, he likes women he knows that but he’s not so sure about men. It’s caused me to be more gender neutral and a little of everything. When I’m with no one I’m everything or fluctuate a lot. Idk I’ve tried to stop thinking about it and give it a break but it’s hard when you just want to know everything Also- my partner (cis guy) helps people with gender and shit, he’s really good with helping people. As much as I want help from him I thought it would be weird, not wanting to hurt our relationship

[@kirinsteele4855]

imo someone you love will love you for you, that should be the case if so, wallowing in the puddles of "what if" can be just as bad, hope it gets better soon.

[@OfficiallyOcean_old]

@@kirinsteele4855 thanks that helps

[@sunnyy-YAYYYY]

awe this is so cool!!! Comes out the day after I came out to my friends as trans :) amazing playlist though, temporex is a great artist to start with

[@salemthehermit602]

I think its kinda wonderful that your playlist arrived just as I was having a gender dysphoric moment over my voice, thanks for the playlist man!

[@VeucroX]

Fr

[@artiroche4995]

Fun fact : first time I got dysphoria I don't understand the fuck it was, i was just crying in front of my mirror, feeling uncomfortable... finally i found out I was non-binary...

[@traveler6784]

Worst thing is when someone associates identity problems with past traumas when visible differences tell them apart. I feel like they're looking for an excuse to invalidate what I feel. Stay safe y'all,you're valid whether others believe it or not:〕

[@matchaconpanecito]

This playlist helps me, now i know I'm not alone, am gender fluid and my dysphoria just don't help me

[@melbell2678]

Same

[@ollie.1564]

Me too!

[@EchoDotNetDotCom]

I just recently realised I’m genderfluid and wondered why I slowly started hating the feminine parts of my body more and more but only on certain days and also feeling uncomfortable being called a woman or girl on some of them aswell, BUT I FIGURED IT OUT AND IM HAPPY I UNDERSTAND WHY I FEEL LIKE THAT!

[@Bodukduk]

Damn How did you know I felt dysphoric???

[@GrassFloater]

agreed, there is Definity some sorcery behind KZbin schemes, I really hope better, and i hope you have a good week.

[@Bodukduk]

@@GrassFloater Haha, thanks! Hope you have a great week too.

[@corncobbob2326]

Idk what you identify as and the pronouns but know you’re valid af. Know that body parts and appearance don’t make you less of what you identify as. If you feel a certain gender at heart than you are that as you say you are. I knew of a guy who didn’t have top surgery and it was obvious even with his tight shirt and no binder but that doesn’t stop him vibing as a guy and people use he/him pronouns even then. It didn’t make him less of a guy. So whatever you identify as, you are that and you’re valid. Biological stuff, body parts, and appearance won’t make you less of what gender you are.

[@Bodukduk]

@@corncobbob2326 Okay that just cheered me up a ton- Thank you. Really needed the validation.

[@corncobbob2326]

@@Bodukduk you’re welcome! happy to have cheered you up as I’m not the best at comforting. I even knew of people that are trans but don’t do any surgeries or hormones or change their appearance for it and they still feel comfy in their skin and still feel the gender the identify as. I knew of some people that did some changes but also kept other certain parts they were born with and I knew of others that got rid of all the things they didn’t want. Even the people that only did some changes on some parts but still kept other certain parts they were born with still feel the gender they identify as. So I’m serious when I say that body parts and appearances don’t make you less of what you identify as. The stuff that I explain here shows why “diversity” is a word that’s thought of when it comes to the trans and lgbtq+ communities since people got a variety of different traits and experiences while still sharing some similarities for members to relate to. So again, go for what makes you comfortable but know that appearance and biological stuff don’t make you less of what you identify as. If you identify as a certain gender at heart, then you are that. Don’t let parts of your body, biological stuff, and other people’s negative opinions make you think you don’t count as the gender you’re most comfortable with.

[@roleplaysmp6621]

All of these songs are so nice. I remember watching this 5 hours after it came out so TECNICALLY I was early at some point-- I love the bad idea! cover, she sounds like she's having a breakdown and I love the sound of it!

[@_hcneyflower_]

Does anyone know who the cover is from? I absolutely love it.

[@copia_emeritus6654]

it’s not a cover it’s a live version i think! don’t quote me on it however but you can hear the sounds that you hear on live recordings yk

[@roleplaysmp6621]

@@copia_emeritus6654 ohhh that would make sense!

[@Nubxdd]

Cuando le dije a mi mamá me dijo "estas bombardeada de información, no eres hombre, no eres trans, no eres lesbiana. Eres una niña" me mando a terapia, y desde Junio del año pasado que no voy. Siempre que hago algo, me saca el sermón de "No eres hombre, aceptalo" En mi escuela me dicen que son "mamadas". Eso me lástima, me hace sentir tan mal. Mi hermana, diciendo que "me acepta" y luego luego me trata de "ella". Mi vida se resume en Disforia, y es horrible :( Tengo una amiga, ella me trata como quiero. Me dice "lindo","amigo","Chris" y es muy bello. Y su familia también me trata así, a veces solo quiero estar con ella para siempre, ella me hace sentir cómodo, y amo que me vea como un hombre.

[@tw1nki33]

I’m really sorry your dealing with this.. and that your family doesn’t accept you but I hope your life gets better and you find more people that accept you.!

[@KahlosEyes]

this playlist actually helps to calm me cuz in my case, i just had to put my pet down, and it hurt a lot. but somehow, this playlist makes me feel more calm and happy. especially the gender dysphoria. love the playlist dear!

[@3dmila_]

A absolutely love your playlists, you are making me smile as soon as i see the notify that you posted

[@jennethcruz2184]

!SLIGHT VENT! I told some people i want to be called kyle or Lyle instead of my real name because it doesn't feel like me, i have been teased about it and they been using my wrong pronouns. but i just act like i don't care but it really makes me uncomfortable people ain't respecting me, i haven't told my parents but they already call me kyle since it is my nickname to others.

[@corncobbob2326]

Ignore the people that use wrong name and wrong pronouns and only respond if they refer to you correctly. Or spray them with something unpleasant every time they misgender or deadname you until they do it correctly. Or maybe every time they deliberately do it wrong and give you crap for it, call them something that would specifically grind their gears (example: if someone is insecure bc they’re living in the shadow of someone they’re related to who is more successful, refer to them as “X’s sibling/kid/relative” instead of their actual name) so they know how you feel every time they deliberately do it wrong and crap on you for it.

[@Grimmfullish]

The fact earlier I was complaining about being dysphoric after taking a shower and KZbin recommend this to me-

[@jadylittlegirl4153]

some weeks i'm feeling the dysphoria and it's so strange for me because i didn't ask myself about my gender and so comfortable this playlist because i remember i'm not just asking about gender and it's new for me before i thought i was a cis girl seeing now i have I want to see things slowly and I hope no one finds out Mainly my mother because the last time I told her that I was lgbt it went wrong and she put me in a conversion camp.... I hope she doesn't find out...

[@beerizzer]

Omg tyzm yer liek my fave playlizt creator and thiz playlizt honeztly feelz like a rlly comfy zweater with hot coco, tyzm ^w^

[@sovlmc]

love your pfp :)

[@annasiembab]

love this sm, helps me with my dysphoria

[@SouthParkAndGay]

mruh the 2nd song is what made me bawl my eyes out earlier istg :,)

[@jaybell-Rose]

Thanks for making this playlist, I feel like this all the time as I go by They/he, I generally feel dysphoria most of the time

[@SouthParkAndGay]

bro- i heard this playlist on my recommended and i cried to the 2nd song :,) (my pronouns r (xe/xem/him/they/them/her) everyone calls me she/her which kinda ngets on my nerves bc i prefer the others and nobody ever calls me by the others-

[@Axeomeelonbarry_official]

This is Home is on of my "safe songs" meaning that to much is happening its to loud I can't function or I'm stressed out its a song that helps me breath in a way it helps me come back to the actual world and drift away from the noise other than the song I love This is Home

[@The_b0y_with_n0_name]

Relatable playlist title. And nice playlist as always! Being pretty early this time ^^

[@sleepykarl]

aw tysm!!!

[@dust5601]

I am currently questioning my gender right now but I'm glad I'm not alone during this

[@xxashleythefoxx6765]

It can be hard and overwhelming just know there's never a rush and your allowed to be wrong a few times and just know that you are valid- and that im proud of you ♥

[@Agent-2256]

on a planet of 7 billion lonely people, you'll never be alone if you reach out. we are here for you, don't forget that.

[@tammybendetti7438]

Xir videos are so awesome. Totally helped with my gender dysphoria! ( :

[@your__local__murderer]

first song and i'm already in love

[@Average-Cholo_]

what is gender dysphoria??? gender dysphoria is a sense of unease that a person may have because of a mismatch between their biological sex and their gender identity. You're not alone. i have gender dysphoria too :) if you want to discuss you can with me I'll always have time to share with other people, and painting :)

[@lost-in-the-sauce]

this BOPS Really really good on this one!!!

[@TWILA649]

I just wanna say I was in technology class and my sub ( as in a teacher) was walking around and I was sat next to my friend and we had to share this piece of wood and the sun said " once your done give it to them" and I'm so fucking hyped about it my pronouns are he / them btw

[@idtfk]

I thought the dysphoria would go away if I started my hormone treatment... But when people start telling me or talking to me, that I don't look like a Man/Boy or questioning me about what I want to do with my body (like taking my breasts pdf,etc)... I feel bad about myself again... Perhaps these thoughts and feelings are eternal(?, but at least I understand that I was not the only one going through this

[@Shark_Lover86]

Some people are just horrible. You look like a man though, they just say shit like that to make you feel bad about yourself. You look manly

[@arsondoesstuff1135]

There could not have been a better time to find this. I'm staying with my grandparents and they don't know I'm trans (he/they) and i can't tell them cause they are EXTREMELY transphobic.

[@A_Chickin_Nugget]

It matches so well I might cry

[@irl-mikantsumiki]

For most of my life I was a girl(born a girl) but when I was 9 I figured out I was bi Came out to my parents They accepted Then I felt non-binary, I didn’t tell them,then I was going in and out of she/her - they/them and now I recently found out that I might be a demigirl! And none of my parents know yet but some of my friends do,I’m waiting a little to make sure I’m 100% a demigirl It took a while(about 3 years lol)but I think I finally found out who I am Update!: So I told my parents and they accepted me!!!! I was taking with a friend the other day tho and he was talking about pronouns or something and I somehow got involved in the conversation and he was like “you’re a she so I call you she” then I said “they,she they,I use both” then he said “Omg I swear every time” then I said “yeah I’m a Demi girl” and he goes “Don’t bring Greek gods into this”😑 Boy shut up But other then that my bf knows and he’s ok with it so things are pretty good :)

[@Luminated_Ghost]

I’m so happy for you :D

[@irl-mikantsumiki]

@@Luminated_Ghost ty!

[@corncobbob2326]

I was reading this story of the MC who is a trans woman and the story is about several stuff including her identity and there’s a point where she experienced dysphoria. Is it cool if I ask questions on dysphoria and other trans stuff as I’m an outsider wanting to understand more? All I know is that everyone’s experiences may vary, I even knew of a trans dude who’s never experienced dysphoria and still hasn’t. And some people are cool with having certain body parts and wanting to keep it still whereas others want to get rid of parts. Experiences vary for everyone. As a heads-up, I’m blunt and have trouble putting things delicately in a way that shows or presents what it is I’m asking exactly so idk if people will understand me as well if I try to be less blunt. Know that whatever I ask, it’s from a place of wanting to know all kinds stuff (even if it’s weird and oddly specific and/or involves stuff on the nsfw and 18+ side so if you’re a minor, git away pls) and genuine curiosity. It’s me wanting to understand and learn about things. I swear there are no evil, malicious, disrespectful, or even creepy intentions (even if there’s a chance of me appearing or coming off as creepy with my words or questions, I swear I don’t mean any bad stuff behind it). Sometimes google is informative but sometimes they don’t cover the stuff that people reveal in their own stories and experiences. If you’re cool with it, even the stuff that may seem creepy (lots of people have different standards of weird or creepy while some people are genuinely fine with answering strange questions or talking about strange topics so I feel like it’ll vary with each person on what’s weird and creepy vs fine), reply to this letting me know and I appreciate you being up for it. This is a “what do you want to ask but daren’t” type of stuff btw.

[@drownedtrashrat3501]

Hello !!! _Very_ late response, but I'm an agender transmasc, pre- everything, closeted in a transphobic family (i use he/they pronouns). I'm open for any questions you still have!

[@corncobbob2326]

LISTEN UP AND IDC HOW LONG YOU THINK THIS COMMENT IS BECAUSE IT’S HERE TO HELP: Idk what you identify as and the pronouns but know you’re valid af. Know that body parts and appearance don’t make you less of what you identify as. If you feel a certain gender at heart than you are that as you say you are. I knew of a guy who didn’t have top surgery and it was obvious even with his tight shirt and no binder but that doesn’t stop him vibing as a guy and people use he/him pronouns even then. It didn’t make him less of a guy. So whatever you identify as, you are that and you’re valid. Biological stuff, body parts, and appearance won’t make you less of what gender you are.

[@corncobbob2326]

I knew of people that are trans but don’t do any surgeries or hormones or change their appearance for it and they still feel comfy in their skin and still feel the gender the identify as. I knew of people that did changes on some parts, but also kept the rest of the original parts they were born with. I knew of others that got rid of all the things they were born with that they didn’t want. Even those people I mentioned in the 2nd sentence here that only did some changes on some parts but still kept the rest of the original parts they were born with still feel the gender they identify as. So I’m serious when I say that body parts and appearances don’t make you less of what you identify as. The stuff that I explain here shows why “diversity” is a word that’s thought of when it comes to the trans and lgbtq+ communities since people got a variety of different traits and experiences while still sharing some similarities for members to relate to. So again, go for what makes you comfortable but know that appearance and biological stuff don’t make you less of what you identify as. If you identify as a certain gender at heart, then you are that. Don’t let parts of your body, biological stuff, and other people’s negative opinions make you think you don’t count as the gender you’re most comfortable with.

[@0Https..starzz0]

I love this playlist sm

[@TanksTurky666]

Not tryna vent but thanks for the playlist, I always listen to your playlist when I’m at school, weather is be I’m walking in the corridors or taking a tests they always help. I have social anxiety so yea. sorry if none of this makes sense, your prolly not gonna see this but anyways thanks again❤️

[@clemantineMoth]

I feel like dysphoria is different for everybody. For some it’s like taking a cold shower but they’re not 100% comfortable with another is just not feeling like you’re in the right body. For me it’s more like: I love my body. I have a great body and a great family a great life and I know I do and I feel guilty that I have it. I feel like my body should belong to somebody else. I’m not who I am. But sometimes my body feels like it’s too tight and pulling in on my skin and my bones. I have learned a lot of things over the years. And I still squeal when I get that giddy feeling of looking in the mirror and seeing who I am; a boy. If you want to share your story (or vent or something your proud of or anything) I am here to talk and if you don’t want me to talk then I’m here to listen. Stay safe❤❤ (Also pros are he/him + neos

[@Shesty852]

Essas tipos de playlist me faz pensar de que não preciso necessariamente ter disforia para ser trans, muito embora eu já tenha muitas! 🩷

[@stephenivers]

I don't know why but i saw one of the "comfort your inner child" playlists and i thought how do i comfort it when all it makes mr think of is that poor unsuspecting girl

[@InTheNameOfRedacted]

thanks for the cool playlist, dude 👍

[@chrispy_tutu]

I honestly don't know what my gender is. Sometimes I feel like a girl. Sometimes I feel like a boy. Sometimes I feel like both. Sometimes I feel like none. Sometimes I feel like I'm all of it. It's always frustrating when I'm on my period. But, sometimes I'm glad I'm on my period. I just don't know how to think. I always go with non binary or all gender(?) Because I feel comfortable with it. But, being a girl wouldn't be so bad. I couldn't really fit in the the boys thing but meh. So now I think I'm polygender? It's the closest thing that I can relate to. Thanks for reading this. Ily

[@HyperNovva]

From what you're describing, I guess you could be genderfluid? Hope this maybe helps :)

[@BlueBillinski07]

god it's been a while since i came here for playlists.... It must be getting bad again...i came out to my parents as bisexual and trans and they didn't support me and they've been trying to get me to see that i'm a girl but i don't feel like i am and everyone is misgendering me and i feel weird around everyone and idk how to feel and i'm not being myself, thank you i love this playlist ( i go by he/him they/them btw

[@yourfriendlynerdViv]

Any tips on how to come out to my parents as nonbinary? I’m scared my mom is going to take it personally or make it abt her.. But anytime I’ve tried to tell anyone or came out to any member of my family (aside from my parents) they’ve acted like it never happened.. Also for names I was thinking Rayne.. any tips or ideas? Or suggestions?

[@mich599]

do it at night if you think they might not accept, it will let them sleep on it and have a different opinion in the morning it worked with my dad

[@LuzNocedahehe]

Oliver sounds cool too! Personally since i might be a dude i like the name Alex😌

[@marianseuih5446]

Hmm, I like the names Alva and Marian. Alva means elf and is a gender neutral name, and Marian means rebellious and warlike. I don’t know many gender neutral names that are very good so sorry if they are bad. Forest would also be a good name

[@kit_that_guy]

April Fools is around 3 months away, you could come out and if they take it badly then say it's a prank. If they take it well then tell them that you're being serious. HAVE A SUPPORT GROUP. A good support group will be a safety net to fall onto, and they'll respect your identity. If you need to, get a job (just in case). If it turns out that your parents are accepting, then still keep the job. The money will be useful later on. Keep in mind that I haven't come out to my parents yet (mostly due to fear). And personally, I think Avery is a nice name! It just didn't fit with me very well. So did Ash. Actually figured out my chosen name a few days ago. If you're wondering, it's Kit.

[@drownedtrashrat3501]

@@kit_that_guy you are a genius I can't try it bc I know for a fact my parents would take it rlly rlly poorly but when I move out and am ready to come out I think I'll do it on April fools day just to mess with them

[@morgenreed6885]

Ah! I love this playlist sooo much! Thank you so much for making this! I recently came out to my mum a few nights ago and this has helped me a lot. So thank you so much ill be listening to your other playlists that you put out there! You might see me around other playlists i really like.. Stay safe out there everyone and have fun...♡

[@LuzNocedahehe]

Congratulations on coming out! im so proud of you!!!

[@morgenreed6885]

@@LuzNocedahehe thank you! It was a journey and im stil kinda upset but thats alright! Cuz people like you make me smile..by one happy comment so thank you so much ❤

[@deadeuph7231]

Thanks for this playlist, it's really helping me :)

[@krvusnijegu]

idk what my gender is like ive been saying im agender for more than a year but now im not even sure cause my pronouns were they/them but now theyre they/he/she and ive been thinking that i might be trans because i like being labeled as a boy but i still like my title of being a lesbian and having a queer relationship and those little things that are not proving that im not trans and like i just dont fucking understand anything

[@kanewien]

It's like you read my mind, I recently got my hair cut and it fixed a little bit of dysphoria lmao :^

[@kanewien]

crap it's already growing again oml 🤠

[@_vomit.gremlin_]

hair grows pretty fast sadly, but once you figured out a hairstyle and trust a barber they should be able to give you something you feel Good in whenever you get a new cut :) or buy some clippers and learn how to cut your own hair very slowly :)

[@kanewien]

ty for the advice!! I do have hair clippers and hair dressing stuff bc my mum used to be a hairdresser so ill ask her to teach me

[@grim7720]

I'm gender queer but like what makes me dysphoric changes alot sometimes it'll just hit like I'm wearing a skit then boom i feel weird or i notice my chest (my chest almost always like 98% of the time makes me feel dysphoric so i kinda just try to ignore it) Gender can be weird man

[@Casper_th3_Ghost]

Man is it nice to know there are ppl who have experienced gender dysphoria as bad as me💗im so glad this playlist exists tho

[@quill5143]

This is amazing!!! Ong you did so good!! Really felt it, and that's a good thing! Really helped me today! Also, may I know what it's like using xe/xem pronouns? I just wanna try them out and I wanna get it from someone else's view first!

[@boybye]

Just in time for me!!

[@taitaitsu]

Dude that save me i really sad with my dysphorias and that video make me feel really better

[@Dadzawa_4_life_XD]

Im not dysphoric in the sense im trans (although i am bi) i just feel so ugly. Im 14 and a girl but im overweight, not in the sence i cant run or be active but im just.. not skinny. Its hard to explain, i just always feel like clawing out of myself and fittinf into a prettier, skinnier me. I look around and see my friends with flat stomachs, defined faces, slender fingers, thigh gaps, etc and im just covered in stretch marks and rolling my skirt because the button broke. I feel so embarrassed, like o dont *fit*. Ive tried every diet (including just not eating). Ive tried exercise, yet im just not pretty. I see these tic tocks saying 'you can get fit like me! You need to work for it!' But i CAN'T! Its so lonely... and im sorry for talking about an unrelated topic, im sure you wanted to see something you could relate to here. Sorry.

[@Ashe.B1]

I came across this when I was trying to figure stuff out, I started going with she/they and a different name but it didn't feel right so I went with they/them (especially because everyone used she/her all the time and rarely they/them) and I feel so much like myself, I go by Ashe instead of my given name and finally came out to my families (dad/moms sides). They're trying and I recently bought a binder and it'll be arriving in a few weeks so that's really exciting! I'm happy with who I am now after years of struggling to find my identity and I can't wait for pride months so I can properly celebrate with friends as who I am

[@br0ken_crayon148]

gender dysphoria is forgetting your real name. standing awkwardly in the middle of the room when your gym teacher asks everyone to split the room by "girls" and "boys". getting confused when you need to use gender bathrooms. cutting your hair and having to look into the mirror for 5 minutes to figure out whether or not you like it or not. always changing pronouns or gender identities. having gender events happen (periods, etc). its waiting for a breakthrough, where you can finally find yourself.

[@sobshiftss]

This playlist gives me euphoria tbh

[@DecayingAnt]

and somehow i thought i was the only one obsessed with summer depression (the song)

[@soobinpouty5864]

ever since i started having gender identity crisis and now confirmed myself as trans, for some reasons i kept getting gender dysphoria up until now, and sometimes i become too hard on myself and questioning myself if i really am a boy or im just confused. none of my friends call me by my name and CONTINUE to misgender me and misname me. and it makes me really sad because it makes me feel so invalidated

[@littlesunshine1314]

i’m not rly feelin dysphoric rn, but these songs are awesome

[@wetmoistpurplebarneygloves]

Loving this playlist so far I don’t exactly know what gender dysphoria is but I do enjoy listening to this

[@flamoof7255]

HELLO MY FAV PERSON 😁💕🙃

[@dig1t4l_b0y]

ok so. I came out. And my family was super cool about it! But now… things are just super weird, yk? My mom took it well, she tries to use my pronouns, even tho sometimes she misgenders me. My brother is super supportive too. My dad… i think he’s kinda avoiding me. He avoids talking to me and using pronouns. I don’t rlly like him (ik thats a horrible thing but oh well), but it still kinda hurts. I feel so bad and so confused all the time. My friend also came out and his mom allowed him to use a binder. I’m so jealous of him, even tho i love him so so much. This hurts sm, i never thought I’d be unhappy after coming out :( I wish I could be a girl, like my parents always wanted me to be. I found out today that my dad rlly wanted a girl. I guess he never had one. Sorry for the vent. Ik probably nobody will see/respond to this, but yeah. Whatever.

[@Minty-qb6sn]

It's been 3/4 of a year sense I got my hair cut so it's getting really long and I'm starting to feel really uncomfortable in my own skin again but I keep trying to remind my self that my sisters keep up with my pronouns and my dad said "I always wanted a son as my first kid.. I loved you as a girl and I will when your a boy or anything else"

[@Shark_Lover86]

If it's making you uncomfortable I would talk to your parents about it, I'm glad your parents are accepting!! You look very handsome today

[@some_ramen]

i wasnt looking for anything like this but somehow yt found out i had gender dysphoria but im glad for it

[@aligamer4407]

This is honestly my playlist.. I've been feeling like a guy instead of a girl... My pronoums are She/Her/He/Him.

[@hes_in_your_bed_im_in_your_bed]

Thank you for making this :D i keep on getting misgenderd to :( my pronouns are he/they or they/them even though i came out as trans a few months ago :( but my friends use the correct pronouns :))