Gender Roles, Building Wealth & Living Abroad - DON'T BE SOUR EP. 77

[@howtobeast]

BACK WITH THE HOMIE ❤

[@jmctigret]

Glad you back in Texas! When it’s time to vacation, go to Spain to recharge! Good balance.

[@kadonsmith9427]

Can’t believe the hate you’re getting on this pod really shows how they just don’t pay attention to what yall actually say.

[@chancock4222]

@@kadonsmith9427 What he actually says is the same crap Andrew Tate says, just with flowery language and a few more "bros" thrown in.

[@kadonsmith9427]

@@chancock4222 it’s really not he’s reviewed Andrew Tate in vids he says he has points but he’s off on over parts

[@chancock4222]

@@kadonsmith9427 To say Andrew Tate has points is the most simple-minded, ridiculous nonsense I've ever heard. Tate still believes and David espouses "gender roles" which are absolutely worthless. A person has roles in a relationship, not a gender. There are women who are award- winning architects, engineers, mathematicians, etc that are traditionally considered "male roles". Should they not take these roles in issues utilizing these skills in a relationship because they're women?

[@ProXxSnipesx]

I think the fact that he moved to Spain, lived there for a year, struggled to maintain the work schedule & moved back just shows that sometimes you gotta take risks and live life. He experienced living in a beautiful area in Spain. Most people won’t be able to say that

[@danearendse9516]

I like the fact that David is open to take risks, make mistakes and learn from all of it. I think he is going to have the most epic memories.

[@ThatsBadTV]

David can’t make up his mind to save his life lol

[@A.M.1.]

Bro really living life like a video game lol.. he does what he wants. Slightly jealous cant lie

[@MJB073]

Joe looks different

[@kaylarice1562]

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[@AlexMcDaniels]

He seems shorter, maybe he’s not sleeping well and shrunk.

[@RenSayLess]

Puffy cheeks. Water retention or weight gain

[@pjw4125]

I like David but I had to stop watching his channel. The videos are like one big advertisement. I pay extra for no ads for a reason.

[@omarabu1]

But have you seen the latest edge joggers?!

[@crzycolchris]

Just the monday videos

[@littleamy20]

same, and the trainwreck of decisions he makes and reverses is just a hot waste of time to invest in (to me)

[@lokiz0072]

Unsubbed from David a long time ago, there’s only so many videos someone can make about how to pick up girls before that shit is stale. It’s so boring.

[@pjw4125]

@@lokiz0072 right. I’d only watch for entertainment. Not info on that.

[@michaelahunter3872]

Regarding Taylor… Maxx will build the house, but Taylor will make it a home. Anyone who doesn’t understand how valuable that is, isn’t worth your time.

[@losi4570]

Yes! I don't know why people hate the idea that the man is the head of the household, made possible by the support and teamwork from the wife. Its not saying the wife is "less". Its saying that I know I chose a man that I can trust to lead me, and allow me the comfort of being the best at my role's in the household.

[@chancock4222]

@@losi4570 Because it's nonsense. It's only for people who aren't secure in their masculinity. There is no "head of the household". It's stupid. Equal partners using their individual talents for the betterment of the home.

[@chancock4222]

@@losi4570 So you're saying Zaha Hadid, who literally won one of the most prestigious awards in architecture should let her husband build the home while she decorates it?😆😆😆 Kid stop.

[@Atlas302]

@@chancock4222 who says it's nonsense you, lol. Human history and the success of these gender roles have been the pillars of family and human advancement. Look at the the family and social decay with devaluing of men and women and their different yet equal roles. Head of household means it's on you if something goes bad, as a man its your burden. Maybe you can't handle that. There can only be one CEO...

[@chancock4222]

@@Atlas302 Because it's been disproven by latest data and research. People often say "human history". Well of course, because throughout history those have been the traditional roles. But recent research has shown it to be flawed. There is no "head of household" regarding gender now. New studies have proven this. Recent studies published by both Harvard Business Review and Pew Research showed women not only to be as effective, but often have BETTER leadership skills than men. Going off history is ill-informed due to history being based off tradition, not actual data.

[@raulgolfs]

Great to see the fellas back together again, but a ton of overthinking in the episode.

[@YosefFisher]

Lol

[@LoKoenigg]

From the laundry list of reasons he gave as to why they moved back to the US, it sounds as if they did not think through moving to Spain at all.

[@littleamy20]

if you've followed him for any amount of time, this could be said of more than 1 decision they've made, including the Spain move.

[@ThatsBadTV]

He’s not impulsive at all lol

[@Charliechorizo]

I'd much rather live his path, than yours, though.

[@theresahouseknecht1923]

Life is about experiences. I admire their willingness to try new things and explore the world. They are better for it.❤

[@ThatsBadTV]

@@Charliechorizo yeah I wish I had millions to blow like that to lol

[@seanb5522]

David is funny for trying to play it off like this wasn't a terrible decision, everyone knew he'd be back in this TX house it was never going to turn a profit that quickly

[@littleamy20]

it's wild to me that he has such a big male following that probably follows his advice or looks to emulate his moves

[@kevinstarr9405]

This was probably my favorite podcast from all of Don’t Be Sour. You guys took some very controversial topics and discussed them in a sense that is very motivating to all of your followers. Excellent!

[@drye386]

To both maxx and David, y’all should ask Heidi about that topic of a male not wanting a female who is like them? (Business wise).. let’s make it interesting 😎

[@JEHOVAH485]

They said there were exceptions.

[@littleamy20]

They touch on a viewpoint (and a reel David created) about not wanting a female partner who is like them - success-driven, etc. Is the exception Heidi and her Buffbunny empire? because it has to rival Alphalete and crush whatever David's clothing brand is...

[@brittanyhebert639]

Maxx, we appreciate you staying humble (while still succeeding and motivating us)! Very refreshing.

[@stephaniebrooks3629]

David is shallow as hell…

[@furiouslyfanning8085]

Explains why he doesn’t wear a wedding ring. You’d have to be a viewer or Instagram follower to know he is in a committed relationship.

[@AngelHouseman]

Maxx post your accomplishments, things you are buying now are only due to your work you've put in which we've been watching develop through all these past years. Very Motivational!

[@taroyamashita9196]

Maxx is going to alienate way more people than he motivates by flexing

[@kschrop]

@@taroyamashita9196 Agreed! A woman of Taylors caliber will do that to a man.

[@BrandonBridgman]

Maxx you seriously don't need to worry about people judging you for spending hard earned money you make especially on $900 Gucci loafers when regular joes are buying Jordans or something similar at those prices. You spend money on your house, you drive a Jeep (a nice Jeep granted, not hating) and business stuff 90% of the time. I would love to see you spend your money more on yourself more because #1 you earned it and #2 you deserve it. People need to grow up and people are unfortunately always going to be jealous. PS-Very happy to see David and Julia are back 🙏 congrats

[@newjackcity2054]

Have much love for you max but you simpin a bit getting married is crazy in todays society a man has to much to lose

[@f3penang287]

This contempt for money is just another trick of the rich to keep the poor without. Michael Corleone said that in Godfather II. Since the explosion of Sourstrips, all Max talks about is $ but puts a downplay spin to it.

[@Leeoh949]

Wouldn’t it make sense that a motivated person likes to talk about money lmao

[@DanySfeir-xq1hp]

Love these podcasts so much, I only have one fact to state that there's a lack of responsibility when people say "yeah I'm religious" and then behave and do things that are clearly not in the same path as someone really being a christian. If you are a christian you should not have sex with multiple women. if you are religious you should not get drunk, you should not swear a lot etc etc ... I am not judging anyone but it kills me every time I hear someone say "yeah I am religious" and then you see how they behave and the two do not match whatsoever. Saying you are religious is a huge responsibility towards yourself and to god, I think people take that word lightly.

[@tiffanybanks2759]

Amen. 1 John 1:6

[@jsunshinej]

everyone so jealous judging his moves and decisions. bro if i had the money to waste on moving to a fun country even if i change my mind after 6 weeks id still do it lmao

[@laurenm8147]

Young and unstable

[@revodrvr]

Dude. Buy what you want and show it. I'm super pumpednfor your success. I'm not loaded by no means. Just a 34 year old truck driver that makes bout 100K Ayear. I've never understood jealousy of other people's achievements. I get so excited for my friends when they finally get something they really want. True followers know what kind of person u are.

[@linnsoltwedel]

Girls might want a successful guy at one point in the life but when we want to settle down you want to safe guy the guy that’s gonna be a good dad and a guy that’s gonna take care of us in a non-necessarily financial way that in a way that’s gonna make us feel safe. And Julia most definitely help you to get where you are.

[@Kaylaskye]

It’s nice to see young men and women with traditional values.

[@Meg345_]

Some of the stuff David says just makes me want to scream lol I’m glad that Maxx doesn’t just agree with the stupid shit that David says

[@emma_m0]

So true, completely get you.

[@elleryvandooyeweert9655]

I found Maxx THROUGH David, but now only follow Maxx… David going full on red pill just killed his channel for me. Unwatchable. Great workout app tho!

[@reddirtprincess]

Most of us that started with you 10 years ago are also in a different financial position than we were in our twenties. You shouldn't feel bad for your success.

[@christiansnowden5945]

I’ve said this plenty of times & I’ll say it til I’m blue in the face. Julia is a real one, she stood by David’s side & helped him grow himself & his companies into what they are today. 100% loyal

[@daniellespeck8534]

Maxx, your true followers will be proud that you can buy expensive things. Also think about this. 10 years ago relative to your income you maybe were comfortable spending $50-$100 bucks for something nice. Now relative to your income you can buy yourself $1000+. The point I’m trying to make is relative to your income your spendings the same now then before. Keep doing what is best for you and your fam.

[@Maal1981]

Thank you Sir Max and Sir David. I am sorry for back talking and thinking I am right. I wish I could get some discipline from you two

[@mcnell311]

Maxx - If you always mention “how well you are doing” but say you arent flexing….isnt that really just the same as flexing? We enjoy the content. Its not that deep. Just be the best potato you can be

[@Skrrrr12]

Max… let him answer your question before asking or interrupting!!!bruh…

[@alejandroarriaga_]

Joe should have been there for all of these questions!!! David seems like he’s beating around the bush and doesn’t want to offend anyone. Joe will tell it how it is!

[@jaisway]

Married life isn't for everyone. It takes a lot of work and people today for the majority are not willing to do the work. On another note... I think people rush into married life way to fast and not properly vet the relationship. It's more than just being in a relationship. In the modern dating landscape of unlimited options it is very rare that you find someone on your level. Once you've been through divorce court and have kids it will show you a lot of what happens on the bad side. I'll never say never, but I'm pretty sure where I am in life I will not marry again for my own financial protection. Love that you are back, David and Julia. Looking forward to more great content. Thanks, guys!

[@Maal1981]

Thank you very much. I want to belong to Max C.

[@badomen125]

Man moved to Europe and then realized the time change and being far away from people would be difficult afterwords

[@Oscarbruv]

Finally got to finish this one! Whoever just sent you that dm about money changing you is just a hater. You’ve worked hard for it, and no matter what people will always complain. I’ve been following since the Virginia walking to work days and I think it’s great to see you treat yourself for a decade of grinding!

[@ludfx4yyc403]

Just remember you are as busy/challenged/stressed as you want to be.

[@Maal1981]

I pray that your surgery is successful, and you never experience and pain physically nor emotionally. And I also pray that you do not experience any more issues against healthy (loved ones). God bless you and thank you and David De La Marinas and the crew and your four legged life beautiful friend for the KZbin video.

[@solomoe2]

A sense of humor makes a man significantly more attractive.

[@jorgegil6596]

When someone posts expensive things sometimes it looks like they bought it for the purpose of flexing, not because they liked it

[@mayito0810]

David is full Red Pill.... tough to listen. His wife is nothing more than a trophy piece and clickbait model. Seems different than the way Maxx treats Taylor.

[@crzycolchris]

you only feel that way because david switched to the whole sit down monday model.. his vlogs are still very much the same they've always been. wish he would go back to the 2 vlogs, but i understand it was getting tough for him over there in spain

[@Texasgirl95]

Couldn’t agree more

[@nikolalolic2037]

Max is just an average looking dude,David is a top tier playboy,for guys like him girls are just a number,it's a different mind set…

[@lokiz0072]

@@nikolalolic2037David was better looking before he got veneers, but he’s been in a committed relationship for years so idk why ppl think he’s a playboy. Maxx was more of a playboy than David was, he just kept it off camera.

[@furiouslyfanning8085]

God forbid she gets “chubby”.

[@NicolaiNNielsen]

David moved back because Spain didn't have Sour Strips 😝 Sour Strips --> come to EU!

[@SeptemberUnique]

i believe in traditional and different gender roles btwn a man and woman, but there should be equal value between the man and woman.

[@SeptemberUnique]

essentially a complementarian view

[@omarabu1]

All factors were predictable before making the move overseas.

[@littleamy20]

for anyone who thinks through their decisions...

[@StasTalksStocks]

Buddy looks like Theo James

[@FullysFlips]

34:49 people who say things like “money has changed you” are either A. Projecting their envy and jealousy or B. Seeking confirmation that they have some sort of influence over your conscious or subconscious. Either way, their motives are not in the right place and we shouldn’t pay attention to them.

[@ntash92]

Couldn't agree with David more on Switzerland..the Swiss really do it right. However, after traveling internationally, there is a lot to appreciate about the US. Convenience and autonomy are really something that sets America apart. I also just spent 2 weeks snowboarding in France and I will say the ski resort in France (not speaking for all of Europe) are different...especially how adults behave in lift lines. It is CHAOTIC - people rush to get on the lifts, push, ski over people's equipment...it was very stressful, pushy, and hectic. The US resorts I frequent in the west are far more orderly! But the terrain out in Europe was super fun.

[@ValerieFromVega]

Won’t lie, the previous episodes with Beast were boring to me, not that I don’t like him but if he were a taste- it would be flavorless to me. This episode not only completely changed my mind!🎉 I feel like I got to know him better and I Loved how you two were vulnerable while still maintaining your “masculine frame” which is difficult to do. As a woman who appreciates masculine men, 👏 You 👏 two 👏 did an excellent job at speaking vulnerably without being “soft and emotional” which is feminine energy 🧬, and without being cold and shut down (distorted or wounded) - which also isn’t masculine because it doesn’t penetrate. Healthy masculine energy has to be “receivable” 🗣️. I feel like this episode was masculine therapy 🙂 and you two both are great role models for men. 🪽Keep growing forward.

[@JosephVega-qp1lt]

On your next pod you should talk about Brian peck, Dan Schindier, on how they abused child actor stars. Look into What happened to Drake Bell

[@Maal1981]

I really love your show and your guess. I found you from watching Steve Cook which I love watching also. I just wanted to say God Bless you and your Family, Friends, and Fans and everybody. Have a wonderful day.

[@Maal1981]

I really like you two Sir. I first seen you Sir Mqx with Steve Cook. Thank you for letting me watch and listen.

[@ephraimavong6570]

Great video Maxx, love seeing the boys back together ❤

[@Maal1981]

I am sorry I was distracting. I was monopolizing some of your attention and perception during your show. I just wanted someone to like me.

[@Myvirtualbulldog]

The people that started w u ten yrs ago, also have developed too so I bet it is all relative and not as a big of gap from personal items Ruff ruff woof woof

[@emmas6944]

Max, you're a great dood. :) Thank you for all you've done and you have continued to stay genuine and keep your morals, values, good qualities and make us laugh and smile along the way :) You deserve this wonderful life you've built and all the good things in this world. Happy for u

[@danmikkelsen1093]

I love the home renovation stuff. Just came to home after Easter vacation to a cold house where the gas furnace was broken. Like you said a positive attitude and shit load of money solves all you problems :) By the way a jeep is now Fiat aka stellantis now, but again you started to like Italian brands like Gucci. I know they had a Fiat 500 Gucci edition, so maybe one day a jeep Gucci edition will see the day of life ;) Keep up the good work and I’m loving the home improvements vlogs ;)

[@jeanobalinghasay4244]

Why is he introducing himself like he aint been on the pod? He's like Joe at this point

[@solomoe2]

The people who started watching you 10 years ago are not at the same place they used to be either.

[@Texasgirl95]

David and Maxx have such different perspective about relationships. David sitting there saying “oh ya girl has a nice ass that would be fun to hook up with.” Come onnnn. Maxx has was too much respect for Taylor to talk that way. Maxx- 1 David- 0

[@AvergeJoehere]

He’s speaking honestly. Which shows he has control of his urges and loyal to his girl. Don’t over think everything

[@jonathancalderon7682]

Can you guys talk more in depth on how you feel about prenups?

[@Heresthe411]

Would love to hear this too

[@Merz604]

Bro, Maxx, ur talking about Taylor too much, it's border line cringe. Please don't simp!

[@dontbesourshow]

Nah, I will continue to simp for her because she’s worth it. One day you’ll understand the same feeling my friend , at least I hope you do

[@tee.nguyen]

Thanks for sharing guys great conversation and transparency . As far as wearing brands as long your humble and like not flaunting it Buy them shoes for a nice out if you want whether its important event or not. Personally to me it doesnt always need the logo or huge letter brand names across the stuff as long you pair wear it well and not over saturated it. Also maxx you done a hell of a job staying true to who you are and personality in your vlogs and such so you built a good foundation so we know deep down who you are and not this extra material stuff

[@furiouslyfanning8085]

Love to see a couple like Christian and Heidi. I don’t think David could ever everrrr handle a woman like Heidi.

[@irubenguler]

Maxx… this was probably one of the best pods. No joke. Good stuff. Get David more on.

[@robc1773]

Totally understand what Maxx was trying to say about American convience and choice/variety. I visit the US from the UK a fair amount and the grocery store is a great example of the amount of choice you can have on products is CRAZY. Until you see it you can't really explain it to someone. Not that the UK/Europe is bad with choice. But America definitely gets more variety. You could probably spend 2 months trying different beverages alone as an example. Sometimes I am overwhelmed with the choice!!

[@MinimalisTech]

Damn. Have I been watching you for 10 years?

[@CarsWithCory]

Spend your money how you want, show what you’re proud of and F the haters… huge difference in you being proud and other “influencers” that flaunt their nice shit to get you to buy their course…. Or buy their stuff.

[@laurenm8147]

And maxx doesn't want us to buy sour strips? 🙄

[@CarsWithCory]

@@laurenm8147 I’m sure he does… him showing Gucci loafers isn’t a lifestyle ad that makes you buy sour strips though 🤷‍♂️ Where others show a lambo, and say if you buy my shit you too can have a lambo… buy my stuff and be like me. Maxx doesn’t to that big difference

[@taylorsandidge1383]

Coming from your last video! Lol

[@bigpickle941]

I remember my first beer 🍺 great episode wish you all the best i cant wait for the 10 years later the same questions

[@divine7223]

now US aint that bad huh, EU is so much better blablabla and now they go back

[@CatDaddyClub]

Y’all gotta stop getting these veneers 😭

[@jckclt]

Those are gigantic horse teeth

[@devonmorquecho]

Why they look good?

[@TheBlackHole123]

Shut that cat daddy mouth up

[@austinthornell]

Dude looks just like Will Compton 😂

[@NinoSamparisi]

For real tho. I thought it was just me but when David came with those I was shocked. It just never looked natural to me ever… it’s a shame but I guess he likes it so it’s all good 🥲

[@JoseDelgado-j7j]

Glad the boys are back! just in time to have kids near the same time.

[@esthelagonzalez5571]

We love u maxx - enjoy yourself - its hard on the come up - but treat yourself to nice things - we work too hard to get here -

[@TheBlackHole123]

Hope to see David more now that he’s back on tha mainland

[@ajh.fitness-lifestyle]

Glad to see the whole gang back together! 💪🏼💪🏼

[@mrandmrs2975]

Maxx seems so sassy towards David versus his other friends!

[@linnsoltwedel]

Julia helped you BIG time getting where you are, saying something else is very, very wrong.

[@GregAllenF1]

Did he say anything else? He has always credited her for being a part of the success.

[@linnsoltwedel]

@@GregAllenF1 He said that the girls were not the reason for their success at one point.

[@GregAllenF1]

@@linnsoltwedel He said they were a part of the reason for their success. Max was successful before Taylor and now credits her with helping him reach the next level of success. David likely would have been successful with or without Julia, but has credited her several times for helping him every step of the way. She also is likely the driving force behind the edge designs. To be fair, both Julia and David’s red pill content is cringe right now. So she is also a part of that issue haha

[@linnsoltwedel]

@@GregAllenF1 He said in the beginning that "neither of them made us". Witch is so untrue for him, with using her body so much to earn views.

[@martinishakerxxl]

The guy with wooden teeth

[@ConnorNewell]

34:30 I don’t see it as rubbing it in anyone’s face. You’ve done with with your NMD’s, Cole Hans, Gucci are no different

[@emma_m0]

“We’re trying to slow down, We’re getting older, I’m about to get a wife” 😂😂 You go get that wife Maxx 😂🤦‍♀️

[@osasumwenokunkpolor8783]

Great pod guys🎉

[@kelleykollock6266]

Buy your stuff, you’ve earned it! I think long time followers are well aware and supportive of that!

[@caseybennett4201]

Another great podcast. Just let me know when you are ready to interview a power couple who have built a wonderful life by making risky decisions. We have an amazing story. Well, if I am being honest, my wife has the amazing story! I am just along for the ride.

[@Hazelnut543]

The description 😂

[@armandosanchez1552]

Fuck that! Buy what you want! You worked for everything you deserve to enjoy. Anyone who doesn’t like it is just mad at themselves because they haven’t found that thing inside them that is stopping them from doing better for themselves. Your character is all that matters.

[@RHarvz]

Maxx, What if the people who came up with you are doing financially well as well! Buy whatever you want if it brings you happiness!

[@phoenix-king779]

1:16:00 show lincoln

[@danearendse9516]

Bro spend your cash, you worked hard for that shit plus I'm excited to see what you would buy. One thing about David he don't have a problem spending his money and I like it if he show his purchases a specially if it's a new car

[@aaaaaahhsjddjjcndm]

David saying he wants his partner to be like a supporting role to his main character, but then gets annoyed when her problems are minuscule compared to his. Makes sense

[@martyozaeta]

How much money did he make and get to write off for telling us he was moving and posting to KZbin?

[@derricku.1046]

Show the nice stuff you buy. Part of me comes for the motivational aspect. Whether it be business, life, $, nice stuff. It shows us what’s out there and available when we make it and if we should ever push ourselves to work hard for something like that.

[@JEHOVAH485]

David, you don't have to explain yourself (apart from the fact that was the purpose of this podcast, LOL). Your businesses gave you the opportunity to see if Marbella was an option. To be able to acknowledge that it was a choice that didn't fit is a strength. Best wishes for you and Julia and finding your forever home.

[@chasityjhanji2160]

I think it’s cool that Maxx is still so excited about fancy designer purchases. It’s an endearing quality, and I think any good follower would be happy to see his success!

[@SwolfieTv]

@23:36 LMAO "that didn't rhyme at all" especially being someone that listens to Martial Mathers

[@crzycolchris]

David ya'll made the right decision bro, just stay here! You got built in life friends right here. USA is gonna be great again starting Nov!!

[@catley1990]

Very good watch it's very enlightening. One part got me about hate comments towards you max and it reminds me of what I heard before that a person that are above others will never talk down to them that's below them

[@Anrchy011]

As someone that has grown with your content since damn near the beginning, (we're even the same age by 2 days) it's nice to see you being successful. Even if those that have followed you haven't or never achieve that same level, they should be happy for you

[@lttlod1]

Don't ever let anyone make you feel bad about the abundance you created in your life. If someone is standing in judgement it's just their projection of their lack of self worth onto you. I've been following your journey for many years Maxx, and I've only ever been inspired by your success!

[@benjamin.kelley]

"People overestimate what they can do in one year, and underestimate what they can do in ten years." I'm also not a ring guy - I don't get the ring guys - but I will wear the shit out of my wedding ring when I meet that right girl.