Gender VS Sex | MTF Trans YouTuber

I'm Steph a twenty-something MTF Transgender KZbinr.
Okay so although not all response to last week's video was poor the ones that we're we're really bloody poor! I have noting but respect for my subscribers, but negativity breeds negativity. Just because I don't identify the way you do doesn't make me wrong, it just makes me human. So this video is split into two parts, The first is a ramble and further explanation of last weeks video. The second is a very quick run-down of the key differences between sex and gender.
Quick Disclaimer, I am not looking for advice on how I choose to label myself, nor am I looking for you to pass your opinion's of how I should identify. Views expressed in this video are my own, I'm not a doctor! Just got 25 years of trans experience. It may not be your opinion, but let’s not try and silence another trans persons voice… #gender #mtf #transgender
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[@Him_He_Me]

Your life, you journey, your identity. Your expression as well hon. Theres no right or wrong or rules. Live your life. Glad to see you're very comfortable and deleriously happy.

[@stephanielynnette]

Comfortable and deliriously happy! That's the goal!

[@billiesparkles7998]

I proudly identify as a Trans Woman on registration forms. And although I fight dysphoria everyday with presentation, and I too have XY chromosomes, I still want to present as female because despite the anatomy of my body being in opposition to my inner being, I am spiritually feminine. Loved this video.

[@jordyndillard8794]

I was actually talking about this same thing with a friend earlier. I am hoping to get bottom surgery this summer. Girl you speak your mind. Don't let others get to you.

[@PlXlESTAR]

So glad I found your channel Stephanie, you seem really smart with a lot of great information and I enjoy the atmosphere that you create with your videos they always make me smile while also helping me a lot thanks heaps for what you do and the content your sharing!!

[@stephanielynnette]

Thank you so much! This comment honestly warms my heart! Thank you so much!

[@jamielynnwallace1125]

As a trans woman...who is proud of being a trans woman...who is also biologically male...I agree with you, and don’t let opinions the delusional left bother you. You speak truth to their power.

[@stevie_M]

I couldn’t say this better myself 100% correct ✅ Stephanie your sex is biologically male not female ❤ your ‘Gender’ is Female✅

[@aminahmad2595]

You can’t come into our washrooms. Your a man.

[@jamielynnwallace1125]

@@aminahmad2595 I’ll do what I want...I’m an American citizen. 😊😝

[@sarahmccoy1941]

I am so f-cking tired of labels. Stephanie, I do not know you personally, but from your videos you strike me as being a smart, articulate, and attractive person. Call yourself what you will. Live and let live. People should strive to be better people instead of judging others.

[@stephanielynnette]

I actually love labels because they help me find and relate to a sense of identity but to each their own! Love and let live! Have an awesome day!

[@marradka2584]

When I first came out as transgender MTF, I presented as female and changed my name and gender markers. I hadn’t started hormones and would call myself “a male bodied person and a woman”. This too me was the most accurate and honest description. I feel really gross when I imagine someone thinking that I am deceiving people. So, I didn’t even try to pass. Now it’s a couple of years later and I’ve been on hormones, had some surgeries, grown natural breasts. Now I feel like I’m being deceptive if I call myself male. I frequently call myself “partially female”. I say things like “when I was male … , but now that I’m mostly female.” I think for myself how I identify myself that sex is biological so I identify with whichever one I am more like physiologically and anatomically. Like sure I know I’m not cis gender. Also, I bring into this my own issues. I have a lot of gender Dysphoria around being AMAB. I don’t always feel or act super feminine. For me the reason that J started to alter my body was because I had gender-Dysphoria about being male and treated as male. So my goal personally for myself was to change my biology enough that calling me a male would be more absurd than calling me a female. But it’s still hard to get over the fear of being accused of being deceptive or dishonest. This is why J use terms like “mostly female”

[@stephanielynnette]

“Mostly Female” now if that’s not a one woman show I don’t know what is!

[@MsNoelleCrossdressGamer]

I personally think anyone has the right to chose their gender identity without being judge.

[@stephanielynnette]

Me too!!

[@MsNoelleCrossdressGamer]

@@stephanielynnette I am crossdresser (Male to female). You'll here me use pronouns she/her to describe myself. I don't mind if people use the pronouns he/him to describe me if they don't mine me dressing as a woman so I could practice my freedom of sexuality.

[@Banzai8th]

Body and self identity autonomy is a right that every individual deserves

[@stephanielynnette]

Agreed! Hope you’re having an awesome day!

[@TemptedSpirit]

100% get it ❤ gender is a wide and fruitful spectrum

[@stephanielynnette]

You know it!

[@decoraborealis]

I'm sorry that you had to deal with negative comments Steph :( One thing I would say is that it's important to keep in mind that you can't please everybody. If you had said that you fully identify as biologically 'female' there would probably be outrage and pushback to that too. All you can do is keep being you and share your truth, and try not to let the haters get you down ❤️

[@stephanielynnette]

Ugh, Maya you always know just what to say! So much love!

[@jedimasteralli8523]

Stephanie, you're amazing for putting your journey out there! Seeing your videos has helped me on my path a lot. They've given me the courage to see past the transphobia in society, and keep working to become the beautiful trans woman I'm turning into. I'm proud to be who I am, and no one can take that away from me! Thank you for being you and doing what you do. Keep on rocking it❤️💜.

[@keisha989]

Bet your Glad you got that out your system Trans Rights Are Human Rights

[@stephanielynnette]

So unbelievably glad! 😂😂

[@angelsky6869]

What rights are you talking about?

[@normatemp2071]

I use this framing too.

[@aminahmad2595]

Immigrants flooding this country will fight this don’t worry you pedo

[@TheMissymoo100]

Wtf? How can a transgendered woman saying she identifies as a transgendered woman on a channel about being transgendered possibly annoy people?? FFS.

[@stephanielynnette]

I bloody love this comment so much! Ahahaha 💕

[@laurence1211]

Take it with a grain of salt?! I think i have hypertension after this video, but i did learn something

[@angelsky6869]

Why do you say you have hypertension after this?

[@laurence1211]

@@angelsky6869 A humorous reaction to how salty this video is, though interesting to watch. A lot of salt gives you hypertension.

[@stephanielynnette]

@laurence1211 did you learn that I occasionally before uncharacteristically salty when pissed off 😂 this comment was hilarious!

[@angelsky6869]

@@laurence1211 ahh

[@laurence1211]

@@stephanielynnette one of the many things I learned lol

[@CassieAngelica]

Thank you for the clarification.

[@stephanielynnette]

You’re very welcome.

[@unknownninja1]

Indeed people nowadays only want, diversity as it relates to physical representation. However dispise diverse feelings and thoughts. Which is not good for a ever changing society. Furthermore if anyone wants to be around people. Who share the same opinion, don't subscribe to any content creators. As nine times out ten, they might have a opinion that differs from yours. I may not always agree with someone's opinion. However I will always defend they're right to express it to the fullest. As it relates to what you said about, your identity none of what you said was offensive. It is just another case of people trying, to find fault where there is none. You have a good day and please stay sweet.

[@davefitzgerald5334]

You're fascinating.

[@stephanielynnette]

Oh stop!

[@stellakylie2356]

❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼🧚🏼‍♀️

[@stephanielynnette]

Oh stop it now!

[@theleviosadi]

sex is a spectrum. you can identify your sex or gender where you want on that spectrum

[@stephanielynnette]

That’s what I did! Yay for self Identification!

[@cliffcoyle9448]

I never had sex so i say my sex is "no". 😜

[@stephanielynnette]

Amazing!!

[@BreakdancerKiiyoshi]

YOU ARE A MAN YOU WILL ALWAYS BE A MAN NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT ! NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU MUTILATE YOUR SELF !

[@normatemp2071]

Sex and gender are not the same concept. Get a grip transphobe.

[@stephanielynnette]

@@normatemp2071 I would love it if the transphobes at least watched my videos before commenting their drivel

[@aminahmad2595]

Maybe you can stop calling us transphobic just because we think this trans agenda is lunacy. You think I want to be in a washroom with a male. Idc if you feel like a woman.

[@aminahmad2595]

Your men literally which is why you don’t get why this bothers woman so much

[@normatemp2071]

@@aminahmad2595 your comment has already been deleted. Ill tell you what, we can pick up this conversation in the women's restroom sometime. 😘