generational trauma

[@selin2luv]

This really resonated with me a lot, especially the isolation part. Being 17 and possibly the only one aware of how unhealthy and destructive our family dynamic is feels really isolating at times, but it makes me feel a bit better knowing that what I'm going through isn't something new and that some people are breaking out of it, in which i can possibly break out of it as well. Thank you for this video Inayah, your channel is my safe place 🫶

[@inayah0]

I relate so much. You got this, be patient with yourself. We are doing it together! Sending so much love

[@Genesis_06178]

omg i relate to this soo much as someone who is also 17 and is in therapy for some unhealed trauma and is also starting to realize how unhealthy my family dynamic is too and honestly im even shocked my parents let me do therapy again (sorry for trauma dumping a bit in the comments hope it doesn't make people uncomfy😭

[@Iliekmelonz]

I’m 17 too, and is it just me or did we all suddenly become fully aware and conscious of the trauma and abuse at this age 😭 I used to not care so much about anything and I wasn’t as insecure, but when I turned 17 it’s almost like all the trauma and stress and doubts in my life came all at me at this age

[@chauxyo]

"These wounds are passed down from people I didn't even get to meet" HEAVY!!!!

[@kristenmarosi8559]

I'm 53 and still working on healing generational trauma. It's an ongoing process. You made some very good points. You were upfront and honest. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.

[@inayah0]

We’re doing it together ❤️

[@zakayuu]

Thank god the internet exists!!! Girl, I needed to hear ALL of this.😭

[@kennesir]

its so strange feels like this girl lives in a different place and culture, speaks different language but seems she is more related with me than most people around and talks about things carefully me. thank you for this. honestly im not alone right now

[@KeevanNorton]

17:10 this is such a big thing for me. i am so so aware of the unhealthy patterns (and at times emotionally abusive) that have continued to go on in my family. it makes me feel insane sometimes trying to communicate these very obvious issues but not being listened to, even when providing solutions. i’m tired of trying, i’ve continued to work on myself in therapy and through my own research and will not stop trying, i refuse to carry it on, but it is fucking hard. especially being stuck in that environment which is lacking so many boundaries and care. i cannot wait until the day i can move out and create safe spaces for myself

[@nathanstefanov]

It’s weird that I’m only 14 and already came to the realization that my generational trauma is not ok. I find it kind of lonely sometimes, because not a lot of people my age have the same perspective that I can relate to, so it can be harder to make friends at school. However, I am so extremely grateful that I get to have the resources to find amazing people like you that I look up to and other people on KZbin.

[@inayah0]

Wow! So proud of you. You always have a community here, keep it up ❤️ we’re here for you 💗💗💗

[@_lyx0]

This is really well told, thank you angel. I truly needed this🤍🫶🏼

[@meaganterry3485]

I love herrrr ❤️ she makes me feel like I’m not alone

[@Wayloz]

The educator and healer, inayah loving the pups and the peoples.

[@cubejoga]

Even the doggos felt the good energy of the speech and wanted to contribute themselves

[@formlessval]

I'm grateful to experience and live during these times where humans are genuinely trying to help each other. Of course there are snake oils out there, but there is also many gems like this channel that motivate people to heal themselves. That is how you create a better world! Thanks for the inspiration and motivation to do stuff on my own Inayah!

[@alifiaafflatus622]

Watching your content truly helped me to reflect on the reality that I live in, and to continue being proactive in dealing with generational traumas. There's something I've never heard elsewhere, where as an Asian, I can relate to how we can't always adopt Western values despite the fact that it might be healthier. I really love everything about this video!

[@earthbeanlexii]

Thank you so much for sharing this beautiful!

[@Julzsysksksk]

I’ve literally been binge watching inayahs videos for the past two days

[@coveredunseen]

you're such a comfort to the world. thank u so much for being here ❤

[@MiguelThinks]

I am super grateful that my parents are not your "typical Filipino" parents that couldn't help but pass down ideas of toxic positivity and other cyclical ignorance. But I do hear stories from other 2nd or 3rd generation adults who had to endure years of emotional and mental abuse. I love that you called out the common idea of enduring abuse from their parents under the guise of resiliency. Whether its defined as resiliency or not "true resiliency" isn't the point, but that its just not healthy regardless. I love the kind of videos you're putting out !🖤

[@Pooptart420]

You’re my current favorite youtuber and I’ve been watching so many of your videos. I genuinely love your content and in the future I’d love to do so as well. Im glad I came across your channel❤

[@inayah0]

I’m so glad you’re here ❤️ sending you so much love

[@huntingrusskayadevuskah]

I’ve done publicity research on aces and generational trauma. thanks for being the macrophone of the research, u really something!

[@LeylaBad]

This video really resonated with me on a personal level. Thank you so much for speaking up on these sensitive topics.

[@marianazzz1]

ok you get a cookie for this video because it resonated HARD as an immigrant first gen daughter

[@miamoudilou]

i loveeeee thisss also thank you for making my work shift survivable

[@inayah0]

heyyyy I love that

[@miamoudilou]

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[@abstergo06]

Posthumous Forgiveness is very dear to my heart and the fact that (from what I know about it) my father seemed to be very similar to Kevin's one in many details makes it that some of the lyrics hit very very different for me lmao, it is such a beautiful song

[@hello0-060]

THIS IS A BANGER

[@kyra.brianne]

this made me feel so genuinely seen, i've always felt so isolated with others not understanding what this feels like so thank you for this video 🙃❤️‍🩹

[@inayah0]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@plSzq1]

I will just dump my thoughts without organizing I see that we barely communicate. Each of us have their stream of thoughts, emotions, visions, generally what we experience consciously inside. But in such families, when we are a child and have natural unfiltered expression and freedom. Suddenly hitting a wall of traumas. So we disconnect from our expressive side. We start to think what we say, which keeps growing. In the end we have families full of people that have their own often very specific vision of reality based on what they experienced in life and what they experienced in ever expanding abyss of the inner life. And in families we barely communicate about it. I talked with one of my parents honestly once. No conversational filter, no Chess-minesweeper talk mode. She did follow with some realizations but in the end fell into belief that I'm bipolar because I never spoke like this and I'm quite, lazy person that just likes to kill time. It feels awful how little we all know each other but also on the other hand I did something that for her and her mother it would be impossible to even imagine or comprehend to speak to each other openly and expose the inner life. In the end we cannot compare truly how do we see the world and what do we perceive, feel, are afraid of or want to change and we end up in families of hyper individuals often with developed egocentrism, narcism, explosive amok. After 20 years I realized that I didn't had trouble with memory as a child as some, especially my father, projected onto me, because I couldn't bring up to a memory names of places he was taking me to. I didn't remember those things because they didn't care to my child mind because my child mind was focused on constant scanning and sensing fathers mood and planning conversations for the whole time ahead. Meanwhile most of expression got forever internalized and I'm like a mindless statue to some other people. My sibling can't stand coexistance with anyone else because she has to tolerate in her space anyone who doesn't have installed and well developed ghost mode. Even then when she suffers I can't stand anymore to experience that too because It keep ringing in my mind that we are all nodes that resonate with negative feedback loops and both get out altered negatively each time after every traumatic reaction between the two elements of family. I often feel cheated or scammed after hearing for years as a young person how important family is, and how you can't abandon it, and how I should respect older family members. Meanwhile I didn't even understood why I dislike it so much and why it feels so hard to do those "family" things and why do they feel so awful. I was shaming on myself for not feeling any longing and not missing basically anyone. It feels very confusing now in this world now because it feels like what I see and what I'm noticing and often start to talk about it openly as if everybody around also seen it clearly suddenly hits me back either with "surprised confirmation" when someone notices something new, but more often it's suddenly as if I was attacking someones personal simulation like I'm some walking cognitohazard. I don't think that I am a failure, I often felt like that, in terms of failing family life. It's terrible that we all had to and still have to suffer that much with ourselves. For a period it was often spiraling out in me in terrible need of destroying such families, breaking them apart, it felt awful, when your mind explodes with hundreds of visualizations and projections fixed on something like that. Thankfully a lot out there in the world led me to improvement. So many stories around emanating with so many similar experiences of other existences sometimes even with hints and solutions. Can't stop seeing it all around in music, art, stories, movies, tv series, anime, philosophies, religions, whole culture. Hope it was fine read. The need to communicate like that keeps boiling in me. This was just stream of my normal thoughts, considerations and probably beliefs too.

[@sho3bum]

your every video is a gem, I am glad I found you

[@airconn--]

THANK YOU ALWAYS FOR YOUR MUCH NEEDED INSIGHT

[@reneechinakwe-venn1935]

Feels like I’m listening to ‘The Midnight Gospel’, I love it

[@kevyslatt]

never feel insecure you are so great i’m your number 1 fan. love from the cayman islands

[@velyia]

your channel found me at the perfect time

[@LNA453]

love the way you speak. thank you for sharing ❤️

[@kevyslatt]

i love your mindset

[@Itnas_--]

Thanks a bunch to you! I felt relieve to listen from you nd you're such a nice person just be like this I mean forever.. And next time I hope you will make a video about how to build a confidence like in every situation how to handle it nd how we can overcome our insecurity.. I'm sorry but perhaps you're also maybe trying to overcome your insecure but you can share your thoughts because I like how you talk with your cameras or with us it's a big thing to express anything like even most of us don't know to express our thoughts properly.. I hope you get it what I want to tell. So yeah all the very best nd keep uploading like this kind of motivational videos and people will inspire from you.. ❤

[@frida-fritos6]

loved this video ❤ well spoken ! also how do you edit your videos .!?? The filter looks so good

[@АйсулуДёмина]

Hello! Thank you for your videos, I subscrabes recently in order to study english (train listening). I like the topiks you voice). I wish you success in developing this channel💟

[@ein7859]

I love this #mood 캠코더로 찍은 것 같아요 ❤

[@tonywords6713]

Thank you for not running a ton of ads on your videos

[@ariannita100]

Giiirl youu aree amaaziingg!!

[@Velvera309]

Just the way you are!!!!!!😁

[@cjms_gotnobooks]

You are a true gem

[@cxsettee1218]

I found your channel only yesterday and I love your content

[@shaolinmonk]

Well I came across the videos and I have to say yes coming what I been tho in life I think it still a work in progress and I would like to thank you for the information

[@PCBackUp-iu9zy]

I have paranoid schizophrenia and paranoid personally disorder it has been hard to trust people I am leaving how to trust again thank you are worthy and you are loved you are very pretty.😻😍🌹🌺

[@dinni3318]

Thank you for this video ❤

[@kevyslatt]

23:55 fav part

[@A_Deep_Richness]

Thank you for your video and topic ❤

[@dikshasingh3526]

Beautiful

[@imsahillk]

Which camera do you use for recording your videos?

[@cadenpeterson9083]

What camera she use, always looks amazing

[@Itnas_--]

No that's her beauty bro..

[@Mr.Nathan-t2c]

Ommmm my goooosh I LOVE YOU

[@phooup]

which creators that you talked about helped ?

[@Doit4mojo]

Real rap per usual I’m afraid

[@fadlinqasrina2648]

i love you! you’re a blessing inayah

[@augustgirl2905]

what? Muslims can touch dogs first of all, Muslims just believe that having a dog at home brings bad luck but isnt even haram. And so what she can do whatever she wants, idek if shes muslim but it doesnt matter

[@Benkaos209]

This is my contribution to the world of emotional health. I wrote this song for all those that suffer from C.P.T.S.D. This song is about my triumph over the tragedy of this affliction that plagues our society. I hope this gets out to those that need it. kzbin.info/www/bejne/qX6baI16oLGmkM0si=dXfxlsklVUEZ8Z39

[@kevyslatt]

count me into your community

[@AditiTirpude]

11:23

[@io-rj6sk]

wait ur asian?