you'll never "feel like it"

instagram: @inayah0

[@turtlemeat.]

you actually got me to close minecraft, go shower, do my laundry and clean my room, thank you gorg

[@theMAKAproject]

Good on ya! thats not easy sometimes!

[@WhizPill]

enjoy the progress

[@alias_peanut]

What are the most common triggers

[@alias_peanut]

What's that right feeling... Not a morning person.

[@dv_interval42]

Did you sustain this or did you come back to your old self?

[@kennesir]

sometimes I forget that my mind and thinking are not a final form of it

[@Ic.roseee]

Wdym? (Not a rude comment) just want u to elaborate a little :)

[@kennesir]

@@Ic.roseee I mean that when I stuck some problem or business, I only think how I can do it, what I can change around me for this. but new friends, new happens or places changes something in your mind, your perception of the world, your approach, so we develop and move on. and sometimes I need to do it myself. not a first time and not a last time probably :)

[@alliekarrenbauer3538]

This is exactly what I needed to hear, thank you

[@kennesir]

@@alliekarrenbauer3538 thank you too for saying that

[@Tony_Westcliff]

eternal mood

[@theabsolute_now]

It's so trippy how every single thing counts and either helps or sabotages you. I try to remind myself to think about the future whenever I make a decision. Now I am more mindful of what I eat and things I do

[@alexhaslemore75]

Wait can you elaborate because I think something you said may have clicked in my brain

[@TheComputermonster12]

@@alexhaslemore75your actions have consequences lmao

[@GingerSadClaps69]

*now i am anxious

[@Wholeness9]

I am because of we. Profound and truth is in your statement,life altering. Consider reading/listening to “BE YOUR FUTURE SELF NOE” by Dr. Benjamin Hardy easy read, easier to apply and changed my trajectory in life the first day in the program and continuing daily gains now. Heal,be well, be you and LOVE US !--O’DELL

[@karinalumen9722]

This style of thinking helped me overcome my depression. I started doing things (going through the motions), told myself I could still feel my feelings but i had to do the actions, even if it took 4 hours to clean a bathroom and i did it non efficiently I had to do it. If going through the motion put me into ‘this place’ then it was going to take me out

[@MyaRiri]

It makes so much sense Thank you for sharing! I am in a kinda same situation so it helps :) I wish you the best

[@mackenzieedmonds8694]

I. The Gap (4:10) II. Becoming a Match (9:40) III. Closing the Gap (13:05) IV. Sticking to it (20:39) V. Accountability (23:40) VI. Being our Own Authority (26:25) VII. Negative & Positive Connotations (27:44) VIII. Being Consistent (32:49) IX. Taking the Risk (34:36) time stamps for future me. what a beautifully explained video.

[@PatronSaintofChaos]

Thanks girl! Literally just took a tour of a gym, and thought to myself "I'll sign up when I feel like it". This video called me out in the best way.

[@strawberryinsomnia9188]

The best way to start going to the gym is to just show up at the same time every day! Maybe you decide you’re not in the mood in the parking lot and go home, or maybe you only work out for 15 minutes-but that’s ok. Without pressure it’s much easier to form the habit, and eventually it’s just easier to head inside and work out a little bit since you went through the hassle of getting dressed and going there!

[@katepreble8574]

I just joined for the first time in my life! It’s doable, even when you don’t feel like it! Literally never thought I could do it but here we are. Good luck!

[@kevyslatt]

you have no idea how good your videos really are, never stop

[@inayah0]

That means the world to me

[@kinny3021]

i lost my mother a few months ago and watching your videos has really helped. a lot of the things you talk about in these videos are things my mother would say to me and advice she would give. it’s crazy because a lot of the things you’re saying is word for word things she’s said to me and it’s nice to me. So it’s really nice to not only hear these things my mother would tell me but to hear them being expanded upon. I like to think that my mom sent me your videos to encourage me to not get stuck and keep going even with her not here. so thank you for your videos they’re very comforting and inspiring.

[@inayah0]

Thank you for sharing these beautiful words, you have touched my heart. ❤️ I am sending you so much love.

[@Saladitaaaa]

this honestly kinda organizes my overthinking and hyper-self awareness. ive had a "feel like it" mentality for so so long, and the fact that this video was recommended to me definitely felt like a wake up call lolll. love your perspective and how you compare it to other real life experiences. its pretty comforting knowing im not the only person with a "feel like it" mentality. i hope we all can figure it out in the end :)

[@inayah0]

I completely relate! Yes, we are all doing it together. You got this 💗

[@Samantha-vlly]

Hyper self-awareness = perfectionism I struggle with this too and there are unnecessary things that I’m trying to focus less and it helped me be with my self and aware in general

[@areyoureally131]

The gratitude game has helped me reduce the pain of the guilt I feel for making excuses to avoid growth. The balance is coming in tiny steps, thank you for your words!

[@Mathoose]

Yessss. For waking up early I’d suggest going on a nice walk. It’s so quiet out and you can hear the birds. I look forward to my walks now aka waking up

[@amyrugg2540]

I have given up on habits. There is an alternative. When I think about doing something I let myself off the hook for having to keep at it. So maybe I see something that makes me want to work on something specific on my body, I have a very specific reason and motivation to do it, my why. So it’s not just oh I should excercise… So I do it as much as I feel like while the inspiration is high. Maybe I wonder, why do I never feel like cleaning? I realize it’s because I was looking at it as my job when I really want to focus on reading and writing and my cleaning is a support of that. So I realize why don’t I write? I don’t have a good quiet place to write, so I work on that. There is a lot surrounding things you do that can support what you want, but sometimes you have to go about it in a roundabout way to figure it all out. So I do follow inspiration.

[@theMAKAproject]

Just wanted to say, I've only recently stumbled across your musings, and I wholehearted appreciate you putting this stuff out there. I've been on a bit of a rollercoaster with my own creative journey and so much of what you present hits home hard. I know much of it empirically, but somehow the way you present it makes it feel more doable and hopeful. Thank you.

[@inayah0]

Proud of you! We’re on this rollercoaster together, I get it ❤️ sending love!

[@theMAKAproject]

@@inayah0 Proud of you, lady. Way to show up for your unknown community. We don't know who will change our lives, or whose life we will change until we speak up, be genuine in ourselves and connect with honesty and transparency. Thank you for lighting the way.

[@amyjanemade]

this!!! exactly this.

[@Timely-ud4rm]

This video is perfect! Waking up for me is easy because Im excited to get the day started. Im an night owl btw! Attaching habits to existing ones is so easy. I have the habit of brushing my teeth in the morning, I attached exercise and meditating to it. Didn't need to spend a month redirecting my focus on doing the habit because I attached new habits with existing ones. Starting a new habit is easier said than done. When the excuses come in, personally what helps is telling yourself why you'd love it. Why do I have to brush my teeth in the morning? I love making sure my teeth are clean. Why do I have to waste 2 minutes brushing my teeth? it'll be fast and while I brush I can think about day and what I wanna do. These are the thoughts I had when creating this habit 2 years ago. now it's just automatic like a robotic like clock work get up brush teeth. Thanks for making this video and I hope my comment helps other people enjoy the rest of your day :)

[@lovingamoc]

your question examples reminds me of the "choose your hard" line thats been passed around the webs lately. the reframing of decision making is so relieving T. T < 3

[@durrcodurr]

Tell you what, I've been a night owl myself for many years, and what helped me to get up early was simply to use an alarm clock to brutally wake me every morning (sometimes I change the time one hour forward or back if I want to get up later or earlier). I got used to it and often wake up even before the alarm sounds. The time going to bed doesn't really matter. Even today, I often can't sleep in a structured way, but the point is that I woke up at the right time no matter how many hours I slept. Since I get tired when I drink coffee (during the day too), I simply drink coffee even in the evening or at night. To me, the point was to accept that I can't sleep at fixed times. I just take the sleep that I get. Using a nature sounds app on my Echo device helps me fall asleep faster (things like ocean waves or wind with wind chimes). Ever since I've been doing this regularly, it's become very easy now and I don't even think about it anymore. I make things easy for myself, I have food ready to eat, so I don't have to cook in the evening (here in Germany, this isn't common anyway -- people normally eat dinner at noon). But eating anything in the evening is good b/c it gives your body power to sleep. Because we eat only so we can go back to sleep. Thus, eating something in the evening helps me to get to bed earlier. But I don't force myself to get to bed early, I only force myself to get up early (except on weekends, so my body can have more freedom on weekends).

[@samhughes6895]

On “waiting for energy” I don’t think people understand how much energy our digital entertainment sucks from us. I recently cold turkeyed video games and suddenly I’m sleeping on time, getting out to pursue my interests consistently, and all that good stuff. A lot of people cope for their instagram/gaming time when honestly, as far as keeping motivated in your life, they are poison.

[@zachinnifayfayfomosadface]

I appreciate your existence so much. You’re so very inspirational.

[@inayah0]

I appreciate your existence so much

[@_gabrielle_w]

I love this channel! the simplicity of sitting down and crafting an arrangement of flowers whilst having a lovely conversation about the inner workings of growth. So here for this

[@MariliaFranca-yo5bz]

I'm learning english with your videos. I love them, and you have a such beautiful voice!

[@shishi2776]

* such a beautiful voice

[@MariliaFranca-yo5bz]

@@shishi2776 Ok man, there's a lot of native comments to you fix too. Pass to next.

[@MariliaFranca-yo5bz]

@@shishi2776 but thank you, by the way.

[@shelbycross304]

I’ve always been a morning person so waking up early has never been the problem. However, I used to lounge around for an hour before getting out of bed. Something unexpected that changed that was getting an automatic feeder for my pet and setting it to 6am. She will pester me until I get up to open the door and then I’m like “well, now I’m up” and start my day right then. This external factor had a significant improvement of behavior that I never thought could be solved from a pet feeder. You might give it a try!

[@sleepyzora]

24:44 this part is so true. i've been wanting to get a gym membership for a while now. i have such good excuses such as: social anxiety, i've never been to a gym before in my life, i'm a student and it costs a lot, i live with my mom and brother and i have chores in the house to do, including walking my dog, i want to have a job during summer to save up money, i want to visit my grandma in a different city often, i have to wake up in the morning instead of sleeping in because the morning schedule of the gym is cheaper + there will be less people in the gym at that time etc. but NONE of these are good or valid enough. i'm going to apply TODAY for a 4x a month membership and stick to it. i decided! good luck to everyone reading this and watching this video!! we got this

[@Samantha-vlly]

“Doing even you don’t want to” These words embodied your whole dedication once you go in.

[@Sanchez-With-Support]

thanks for reciprocating the energy I've been putting out into the 🌟cosmos 🌟 , the last 4 months of my life have been a complete shift in priorities, motives and overall perspective and its led me to question some aspects of our world and spend a little more time understanding and making sense of the human experience, I've been struggling to find like-minded perspectives and yours is truly refreshing. stay pondering shawty.

[@maykruvi]

so glad your channel came up in my recommendations, everything about your videos (& yourself!) is so calming. Hope you have a wonderful weekend ❤

[@sssugarquartzzz]

I needed this 3 years ago ;-; but I’m thankful to hear it now!

[@Dr34dful]

you have so much insight into being a person it's lovely hearing you talk

[@coffeechiqq]

I just love these talks, its so natural and warm!! Thank you so much!

[@zachinnifayfayfomosadface]

This video almost brought me to tears. You have no idea how much your mind and voice helps me . Thank you so much.

[@Schoolboner]

She isn’t actually saying anything profound. Ive binged her videos for a couple of weeks now

[@cirylsad1]

@@Schoolboner she really doesnt have to say anything profound for her audience to resonate with her. i believe that her motive is to simply spread awareness and help people become better versions of themselves :]

[@korvotron]

@@Schoolbonerits not about being profound. alot of people just need to hear a message and have it fully articulated

[@daysofraiiin]

It’s nice having someone to listen to. 💗

[@vultirR]

inayah, ive been at the start of my "spiritual journey" (whatever that means) and i think thats whats been drawing me to your channel. i really appreciate the descriptions of vibrations and what not, a lot of this is new to me and youre opening my mind to things, like a teacher:> im excited to see what your next video will teach

[@roxassnow-oq7qx]

love u so much. everything u say in every video resonates

[@Ryuseigun687]

I love how there’s no judgement here. I’m not being berated or told I need to be better by you, I’m told by someone who is human too, going through the same thing telling me how they’re figuring it out. Thank you, we’ve got this, we’re gonna make our goals come true!

[@Ladylovesdogs]

Your channel randomly popped up on my feed and you are a gift! Everything you're saying is so true. Plus you're authentic. Thank you for the encouragement and realistic perspective

[@inayah0]

Thank you for being here! ❤️

[@Dontcrysnowman24]

You are so exquisite, I see you going through every little tiny steps during the deep thinking process and really trying to comfort others

[@hellojello2211]

Wow. Literally everything you’ve said, are things I’ve been experiencing within myself when it comes to consistency and changes. Literally everything you’ve said I’ve had to learn for myself thru experience. And tbh I’m rn at the point where I trust myself that I will get to where I want to be no matter what because I try my best to continue to do the little actions even when I miss a day or two I keep going back to it and I trust that I will get there. Thank you so much for making this video. It was so refreshing to hear this.

[@Xsinx_Noir]

Magick is psychology. Practicing our craft is the real therapy. Its nice to se others express it in action.

[@BlackXSage]

I never thought I would listen to these "mumbo jumbo" motivational life lesson talks but damn...you got me. These are so good and I actively appreciate watching/listening to you. Thanks.

[@betaffy]

thank you, truly. it really helped me a lot to feel relief about the stress i’ve been feeling about past few weeks. thank you for being there

[@_alaamagdy15]

Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts with us. Everything in your videos: your words, your vibes ... literally EVERYTHING is perfect & I truly need it. The way you talk really says that it's from personal experience & that's why it makes me believe that I can do it too!! Truly thank you so much!!

[@nikaella]

i haven't even finished the video yet but this has already changed my perspective on manifestation and the importance of affirmations in my progress, ty for this video 💗

[@dannybaron7865]

i found you right on time. you say things i've been trying to formulate well for a long time. thank you!

[@teresaricourego3506]

this is my first time watching one of your videos and i just have to say; you are the purest most kind soul I've came across this last few years and i want to thank for being so naked and honest. can't to keep up with the videos!

[@hannahmichaels9992]

This video has several good points, I’ll come back to this every time I need a reminder of what it takes to change, and that we’re all capable. Thank you so much for your words, this video came to me at a really good time

[@angelforge_]

this is so so helpful, i've really been struggling for a long time with this exact thing. Thank you so much for posting!

[@kris3451]

Love the voice, love the hair, love the gesticulations (finally... a chance to take that unusual compliment, and pay it forward). Loving the vibe of your talks and presentation. So calming.

[@felixfeelstherock]

I needed this so bad genuinely thank you for making this

[@smograbbit9611]

I’ve been waiting to “feel like” cleaning my home for a long time…I’m taking baby steps to clean right now, because of this video. Thank you 🖤

[@UU-ob7ge]

-I appreciate how this video feels like a series of affirmations aimed at becoming a better and more dedicated person. While I have encountered similar advice before, I find your approach particularly engaging as you consciously work on building a positive inner dialogue. Whatever your doing, thank you for encouraging both yourself and your viewers to adopt a more positive but in the same time a more conscious attitude💕

[@kaisfp]

I just listen to music whenever I MUST do something I reeealy don't want to do, like washing the dishes, moving to a new home, building a space ship, terraforming Mars, and the list goes on. Listening to music while doing chores (ex. building your hadron collider) is most likely going to help you keep going.

[@CarmenGonzalez-yw4uw]

this is the first video of yours that i’ve seen but i can already tell you have such an awesome, no-bullshit way of talking through these topics. i really like your attitude about gratitude lol. immediately subscribed i feel so safe here

[@XxyGoddam]

Damn I love that you prioritised this beautiful sunset light at the price of some noise rather than soaked yourself in tons of bright lamps for a crisp image. The image looks so soft, beautiful

[@jindipity4772]

Real, I said I was gonna study when I feel like it, when my mind and body is ready but that never came to fruition for a whole year 😭 plus, due to constant pressure and procrastination, I didn't really get anything else done too. Now, I know better and will change for the better 🙌✨

[@---pu7ke]

Beautiful video! Truth about stepping out of our comfort zone delivered with real advice and compassion. Very helpful

[@leona9358]

I love your videos so much and I love your aura and personality. You're such an amazing person thank you for these videos ♡

[@nosgoo]

I don't have the slightest idea how I found you. But I feel you're talking to my heart. Thank you for the video!

[@rainynightlight202]

I really appreciate this video, and it really helps me when i ask myself how i'm supposed to start something or start a new habit. I haven't ever considered thinking about why i'm scared or why i'm uncomfortable to start something new. Also, the part where you explain using gratitude made it make a lot more sense to me. My dad has told me to start practicing gratitude before, and then he never really goes into more explanation about it, and i'm just like "well duh? Of course, you should be grateful for things. What?". And just in general this video has made me understand how to start a habit a lot more. (Also can i just say that you remind me of Megara from Hercules so much and not just in your looks but in the way you talk about things and your voice and body language too.)

[@matthewgoetzka8855]

I've been challenging myself to oaint everyday and I have been, aside from one, for the whole year. And what you said about creating positive connotations with our habits leading them to feel like rewards in and of themselves, it's been so true. Committing to one consistent habit makes it easier to implement new ones ✌🏼🎨

[@chrjsnt]

Just got done cleaning my apartment and have been living my whole life and got this video. It’s worth it to just do it!

[@curly2828]

Your videos are so aesthetically pleasing for some reason

[@Wholeness9]

Critic: so do you write every day or only when inspiration strikes? W.SOMERSET MAUGHM : I write only when inspiration strikes, fortunately for me, it strikes every morning at 9:00 a.m.

[@shubhangianuragi9294]

im a writer too but i struggle with writing consistently. how do you build that kinda discipline with writing? ugh im only asking because your comment made you sound to me like you maybe a writer.

[@moldybreakfast5507]

@@shubhangianuragi9294the whole point of the video is that you have to change your mindset from doing it when you want to, you just do it because on a higher cognitive level you want it

[@moldybreakfast5507]

Set a timer and just sit for 30 mins a day when you have time to write and just try every day, as a fellow writer It helps

[@luluwithwho]

I'm obsessed with the way you edit your videos

[@Samantha-vlly]

One of the “bosses” I struggle in my growth journey is having a home that doesn’t had that mindset. It just dissapoints me sometimes and Idk if I should be grateful with it or face it seriously. It’s the external thing keeps me back and forth of my self-growth journey.

[@tristynlinde]

I just took the plunge and signed up for a gym membership and powerlifting sessions and honestly I'm sad that I waited for so long, bc I'm actually really enjoying myself. The movement feels good and I actually found that I fit in with the people there so well and that it has become a part of my socialization really quickly.

[@deekay10]

You're so pretty You're so well spoken You're so knowledgeable. Love your content 🥰

[@bellasmom48]

What i like about your videos is that the things you say and how you word everything you can tell it truly comes from your own personal growth and not just to push out another video! Its a change for sure

[@jenii.m]

My mother always say this phrase when I was younger,"You're mind is more powerful than you think." And after watching thie video, it made me realize that I have the control to overcome with this uncomfort feeling and that I can do it without feeling it.

[@lizziedeerest]

I appreciate the knowledge you’re sharing in this video. I wanted to share that a couple years ago, I had to take a job that started at 5:00am. My alarm went off at 3:30. I didn’t even have the willpower to prepare myself in advance of the starting day. But what was interesting is this: the first day I was tired and loopy, but fine. The second day was a little better since I crashed at night and made up sleep. By the third day, it was as if I’d always woken up at 3:30am. I was full of energy.

[@SinisterEddy]

I just stumbled across this video. I am a closeted trans person, and I just found out relatively recently that one of my parents has a very rare form of cancer. This video has made me realize the complicated feelings I have right now. The reality is, being a trans person is not ideal, and at the same time my life always feels like a ticking clock in the sense that I always feel like I'm running out of time and that I've wasted my life by not being myself. I'm afraid of the treatment I could face if I transition, and I'm afraid of being in my deathbed pre-transition wishing I chose myself over internalized hate. And it's hard to validate your dysphoria when the world hates and kills trans people. And now there's a genuine time clock of the confusion of the illness. Thank you for this video, as hard as it is I think my next steps have to be coming out. Are any trans people watching this? Any advice? For context I am a 20 year old college student.

[@nopenope5561]

this video came up on my home page right when i needed, procrastinating on working on the music i love and needed to pick it back up 🙏🏽

[@meias.coloridas]

showing the flowers arrangements at the end adds such a beautiful metaphor to the video

[@Yayraneem]

Pleaaaseee do videos on your style and how you discovered it/ what you look for when you buy outfits because your style in its colours and textures really resonate with me and I’m trying to move further into that aesthetic

[@amberjay4971]

You put this so beautifully thank you, i love wise women

[@Bri-xb8ud]

Thank you! I’ll save and come back to share progress/see other’s progress that’s transpired via your words of encouragement and wisdom.

[@grace.1123]

It took me some time once I started consistently working out in 2021, but 3 years later and staying consistent I can tell you it’s all about just keeping to it even if you’re not perfect every time. At this point exercise is so consistent for my brain that if I go 3-4 days without going to the gym I start really itching for a workout. I can’t imagine going back to living life sedentary because I already start to not feel good physically if I even go a week without exercise.

[@cccynthiaccc]

im watching this while im baking, i really needed to hear this, i recently lost my job and now i feel stuck at home w no routine, i find it hard to get up of bed and do something productive w my day bc i honestly dont feel like it jajaj and this is nice to hear, i dont feel alone

[@lilroush123]

first self help video that made me whip out a note book i took so many omg thank you this makes sense to me

[@lilbop4942]

this was genuinely very helpful, thank you

[@waterlilyyy555]

thank you for this video , it’s incredibly helpful because I’ve been feeling a lot of resistance lately

[@EcomCarl]

Kalyn's insights on bridging the gap between where we are and where we want to be are spot on! 💡 Consistent small actions pave the way for habit-building and long-term progress toward our goals.

[@isabellajimenez3935]

I was having a depressive episode and felt so anxious and this video really helped me so much thank you girl I subscribed❤

[@demiandejour]

thanks girl and btw ur hair in that way its sooo pretty and the hole vibe its so lana del rey

[@melvin4829]

first time I've stumbled across your videos! Love this, the message and subscribed!

[@PlanetXeddex]

This is true. I always find a way to put off things that I should be doing. It's a bad habit that I need to change.

[@tepigfan7169]

at a turning point where i need to put the most amount of effort to achieve my dream job, thank you for this

[@Tdawgg.]

Really enjoying your content. Your content is so prevalent in my life right now and greatly appreciate. Thanks for making videos 😊

[@heyyitsalii6242]

Inayah thank you so much for sharing your mindset, it helped me adjust my own and become more optimistic for the future! You’re a bright soul keep doing you, I love love your videos🌞✨

[@inayah0]

That makes me so happy! We are doing it together ❤️💞💞

[@haileewilliams]

i genuinely love these videos.

[@minamina-np7lr]

thank you so much for this video, you broke it down spectacularly. i will come back to rewatch it!

[@clintbartonismyfav]

I didn’t even read the title of the video but clicked it so fast to say YOU ARE GORGEOUS DAYUMN

[@shanewright4650]

Thanks for sharing this. I feel a lot of meaning and value in what you are sharing. Honesty produces truth. And it takes of a lot of self-development to reach this level of honesty - but also comfort in your self to the point where you're willing to share all this. You have given me the courgae to start expressing my inner self such as my perspective more. I feel that your significance and value could further grow if you are to integrate more of your advice with your own anecdotal experience. Show what you have done in the past and where you have fallen short. And then showing where in your life you have applied these ideas and how it has changed that aspect will really make it like we are on this journey with you. Letting others know about your experience in life can show them where these unique ideas and advice came from and will make it clear how valuable you and your advise is.

[@TheodoreDorado]

This is exceptionally well done. I don't even remember clicking on the video, but I'm pleased I did. I needed it; fell out of routine this weekend. I get up at 430AM now lol. You're a natural. I feel like you effortlessly combined all the important points of James Pressfield and James Clear, plus your own contributions based on direct experience. I love the accountability, too :) I wish this vid was available years ago, fo sho. Thank you!

[@Jeni_hehe]

Just watching 10 minutes of this video made me set my alarm at 6am to get myself back into that routine that I used to have and I know I thrived in!❤

[@Kay-ip8mi]

i’m not kidding, i was just having a breakdown because of not realizing my goals, not actualizing them, and i opened youtube to find a tarot video that would give me advice lolll, and yours is the first video i saw on my recommended… so weird

[@mycrashrandicoot]

hi, seeing this video a few months after the upload date as it was just recommended by the algorithm but i wanted to leave a comment with my appreciation anyways! not gonna leave my whole life story in this comment but tl;dr i'm autistic and have adhd, depression, anxiety, the whole shebang lol and after a certain point in my life and school career i began to have extreme motivational and attention issues. which naturally i didnt deal with at all just kind of coasted and suffered indefinitely until i graduated hs, got into college, then spectacularly went down in flames during my second semester and dropped out. im a year out from that decision and for the first time ever i'm actively seeking out content that would help me with, ideally, being a human being. not a lot of stuff online clicks for me but your format, way of speaking, and presentation of information is really helpful and keeps me in the right headspace. your explanation of affirmations is the first time it's actually made sense to me and not sounded like pseudoscience! so thank you very much for this, genuinely. i'll wrap this comment up but your arrangements are so beautiful as well. one of my mother's close friends is a florist and growing up i would always love seeing them when we visited. i hope your journey has been going well so far :)

[@6randpa69]

the hardest thing to realize getting older is that changing IS HARD! there is no way to cheat and skip the journey from who I am today to who I want to be! But the journey does not need to be miserable. I can have the gratitude and appreciation to feel proud of where I’m going.

[@itsmariaangel]

Your video looks like a moving pretty painting I love the flowers

[@Maksim-rv1qb]

Thank you so much for the video! It was truly inspirational! 💗

[@harth3221]

One of the greatest videos ever made 😢😭❤

[@daynalow4444]

added this to my watch later playlist. will watch it later when i feel like it

[@rachies1591]

Great video. The theme of positive vs negative connotation (Pavlov training, neurons that fire together wire together, etc.) brings to mind how neurodivergent brains have this experience also yet sometimes in different ways. For example; if you have ADHD and grow up in a household where routines & practices aren’t implemented to support your needs as an ADHD person, it can be that much harder to have a positive association with things like routine and time management. Let alone figuring out which organization tools work for you and what doesn’t, etc… I find this video very useful motivation, and it’s also good to hear that everyone struggles with this, and not just neurodivergents!

[@Samantha-vlly]

Growing up in a household that holds a lot in past and not that open about growth in general makes me feel stuck. I want to make my home the first place feeling that growth but I don’t feel it. I instead feel that push outside(in school) it helped me have that new way of opportunities, but again the home I have is not making a way of it.