Gentle Parenting Gone Get Y’all Hurt!!!!!!!

Shirleen shares an example of why gentle parenting doesn’t work! Catch her Live this weekend in Birmingham, Alabama at Stardome. #comedy #family #parenting

[@TandyL]

“You better get them, before they get you” Truer words have never been spoken!

[@lakeidrasmith9138]

He had the idea. 😂 That's so true. Cause when your parents don't play and you get disciplined right, you won't even have the audacity.

[@tcdecatur2077]

Ahem. The caucasity. Cause…😒😒😒

[@letitiaabuckley7968]

Say that

[@dajewel1982]

Not even the audacity!!

[@mamat1213]

That’s a fact. AND they are SHOCKED at the audacity of others! My teen will be like, mom I can’t believe so and so said -- to their mom, I’d be dead! I’m glad she knows what’s up😂

[@canduscanty8583]

Chile these kids got a lot of that AUDACITY!! Fo sho smh

[@benjaminbrown4367]

Grandma said, "bend the sapling while it's young...you can't do nothing when it's a whole tree."

[@primeminister66]

Amen

[@myhueofyoga]

Goodt Gawd!!

[@cjohnson_]

MY GOD!!!!!!!

[@diamondansong5328]

Mine said the samething

[@diamondansong5328]

Mine said the samething

[@NaturalDivineGoddess]

*Shirlene: “I believe to this day that she is walking back to the house holding his hands..telling him the dangers of throwing that truck.”* 😭😭🤣🤣🤣

[@antisoshall1]

That part had me 💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣

[@teefinerbee2450]

😂😂

[@darylb51978]

Too funny. Took me out when she said that. 😂😂😂

[@coryanntopanga]

🤣 I acted up one good time with my mama when I was about 7 or 8 and she told me I was about to be the youngest homeless person in life. She had a switch and a shoe (???). The plan was to beat me, then put me out and told to "make it happen since you so grown, you got it". I fell apart and begged for forgiveness. She still tore my butt up, but I didn't find myself in a cardboard box or turned over to the state so that part was good.

[@lisae9958]

Yes indeed she is😂

[@lewiscameronp]

I’m the hitter! I’m the hitter of this house! 😂

[@nettesthebest]

I screamed 😂😂😂😂

[@CeeJay611]

😂😂😂😂

[@SprocketsDaddy]

“The girl who used to have a head.” 😂😂😂👀

[@magalienia6958]

THIS!

[@fontainelebrock345]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@1BeautifullyBlessed]

😂😂😂😂

[@NaturalDivineGoddess]

*Shirlene: “Any hitting going on??” “I’mma be doing it.” “YOU GOT TOO TEACH THEM EARLY.”* 🤣😭🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@GTM-hl4bx]

Never would I ever THINK to pick up anything and throw it at any adult figure in my life. I’m 41 and am still scared of what could happen if I even tried it!

[@tiffanycotton4616]

I say that all the time. I’m 45 a entire adult and still scared if what my mom will do to me and she weighs 100lbs. We were taught early discipline and respect

[@empresserica]

Ok?!?!?

[@neodeshahendley2578]

53 and feel the same

[@kurtwagner7610]

@@neodeshahendley2578I feel you.

[@geemcgraff8281]

Gen x do not play that why.

[@dawntillery2594]

He threw that truck like he been throwing it!! Yesss Ma’am!!

[@EllBeeCUSoon]

PREACH, Shirleen!! PREACH!!!

[@2thankfulnGrateful]

Amen!!!

[@letitiaabuckley7968]

Shirleen should have been whipping him back to getting that baby😂😂😂😂😂

[@rosasmith5376]

Had to put the baby down, is like taking yo earrings off for a fight 😠

[@rinabitoni3746]

😂😂😂 "THEY HIT YOU WITH TRUCKS, THEY STEAL YA CAR!"😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Hazbinhotel782]

I knew she was about to do some damage when she calmly put that baby down😂😂

[@cjohnson_]

Oh yea he finna catch it now

[@TC-ym1vk]

Right😂😂😂I was laughing so hard

[@jasminecarter8998]

“He had thoon it befo!” 😂😂😂😂

[@NaturalDivineGoddess]

*Shirlene: “You not gone play with ME.” “I AM NOT ONE ☝️ OF YOUR FRIENDS.”* 👋

[@sisterstephanie7908]

The Girl Who Use to Have a Head sounds like a wonderful book to give as Mother's Day and Father's Day gifts.

[@MissHunterELA]

🥴🤣🤣🤣🤣😸

[@Passion84GodAlways]

Not "The girl that usedta have a head"!!! 😩😫😄😆😅😂🤣

[@ameliaandrews3052]

😂😂 yep past tense...knocked smoove off

[@Passion84GodAlways]

@@ameliaandrews3052 😆😂

[@hustlefor2541]

😂😂You ain't never lied Miss Shirleen!! I come from the old school. Mama would've knocked my head off and then would've told me to get up and hush up all that crying. 😂😂😂😂

[@hattiewhitfield2629]

And put your head back on!

[@hustlefor2541]

@@hattiewhitfield2629😂😂😂😂

[@reneeharrell7075]

Lol....I would never try anything like that growing up with my parents. I had to get my own belt for a whooping or a tree branch from the yard and get the hell whipped out of me. Both of my parents were on the same page too... Parents didn't play back in the day. Now, it's called child abuse.

[@courtneyj4050]

her run alone had me curled over!!!!

[@simplywandaful5889]

It took him hitting the baby to make her take action? No ma’am. “Come on in the house and lemme talk to you “ 😂

[@tcdecatur2077]

In the house? I’m a 70s baby and if I started the show, my folks finished it. Audience or not.

[@simplywandaful5889]

@@tcdecatur2077 Oh 60’s here and indeed wherever you acted up you got tore up 😆.

[@GWU-VideoSoul]

@@tcdecatur2077 OH HELL YEAH , THAT ASS WHIPPING WAS THE FINAL CURTAIN CALL ......PERIOD !!! 💯💯👍🏾😳😳🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@whispermcgaughy7251]

He sho nuff dun thewn it before! 🤣

[@sashaanderson5563]

😂 😂This is honesty in the form of comedy … but I can only imagine what his teachers/classmates will endure 😣

[@Lily-cm3nj]

That's why teachers don't wanna teach these bada** kids and folks are starting to homeschool their kids.

[@sharita7270]

Or are already enduring….. Don’t look like he’s new to it, he’s true to it.

[@thequeendee5420]

Right?? And imagine as he gets older and realizes the world does not revolve around him and will not suffer his foolishness lightly.

[@christalbrown7138]

😂🤣 he throwed befo! he throwed befo! He throwed befo!🤣❤❤❤❤❤

[@Whewchilee]

He hit them with that muscle memory throw!

[@wandaperkins9242]

Preach! You are so right this is not the first time throwing objects at his mom!

[@tanishabellinger6464]

“I’m the hitter”😂😂

[@ginagreen5756]

If I had thrown a truck at my Mama, I'd still be walking with a limp!😂 You are the best Miss Shirleen 🌺

[@cjohnson_]

Not just at your mamma but while holding the baby who that could really hurt. The way my mamma woulda put that baby down n tore my ass up 😭😭😭😭😭

[@Lily-cm3nj]

Walking with a limb and the arm that threw the truck broken!

[@terrancemartin1042]

​@@Lily-cm3njif it was my momma I'd be in intensive care

[@Lily-cm3nj]

@@terrancemartin1042 ok

[@JLoveG578]

My mama My mama did not play that ❤ am in my 60’s I still thank God for my mama , she was strict but right ,❤

[@brendaalbright8159]

Preach Shirleen! Baby you giving truth and be straight with tough love! That boy knew he threw that truck before!!!👍👍👍

[@pattilewis5227]

No lies detected

[@sammiwright4169]

The thought of even throwing anything at my mother would have caused me to have a seizure. My brain would not be able to process such a notion because of the built in fear of knowing that my mother is not the one! 😂😂😂 I'm nearly 60 years old and I still can not conceive such a thought. Even if the thought somehow would have come up, I can assure you that my body would not have followed such a command, but as I already stated, my brain knows better to even allow such activity to take place! 😂😂😂

[@deec3561]

Im a mom and I approve this message!

[@meloshotz]

Threwn the truck 😅😅😅😅

[@Romans_Twelve_Two]

The girl who used to have a head 😂

[@rosasmith5376]

She is so funny telling the TRUTH 😂

[@SheisB515]

Tell em Ms. Shirleen!! Early AND often!! I don't even want to put in writing what would've happened to me if I had thrown a truck at my mama 😂😂😂

[@snss1440]

Y'all out of order!!! You are 100% on point. FUNNY but you are absolutely right!

[@tlsthoughts]

"He'd have gotten a cardio exercise?" That's TOO funny!!🤣😆🤣😆👏👏♥️♥️

[@dawntillery2594]

The girl who used to have a head, but lost it when she 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@TheArtofBeingReacts]

"He proceeded to run down the street, she had to put the baby down. The baby ain't really actin' -so she knew it'll be safe." I had to pause it and laugh when she said that😂

[@frector123]

1000% Miss Shirleen

[@kerrylarry8110]

I am screaming hollering chile the reads be coming through 😂😂😂

[@carolcrawford1193]

Hey Shirleen , at that moment when he ran he would have thought I was a 18 wheeler or a semi cause he would’ve been done for,and every time he saw a truck pass by the fear of God would’ve quickened his spirit.

[@patriciastricklen6372]

He would have been eating that truck,I promise! From a great great grandma! Blessings and whippings🕊️🙏🏾❤️

[@lovebug6388]

😆🤣😂😆🤣😂

[@Unknown2Yoo]

All truth. You think about doing something and then visions of that spoon/switch/paddle appear and you think, "NOPE!"

[@tnt3929]

"He threw that truck like he been throwing that truck"😂😂😂

[@amycoleman8161]

Keep these coming please 😂😂😂😂😊

[@NaturalDivineGoddess]

*Shirlene: “He had Thun it be4.” He THUN IT BEFORE!!”* 👌

[@zerogravity4008]

I also blame Cps new laws. I’ve seen kids throw hands on their parents…the parents nowadays can’t even say I’ll tear your head off or lay you out without Cps yelling abuse! But the kids do just that to their family? Insane! These kids are OUT of control! Especially at school! All my mother needed to do was give me that 👀 and I’m back in order!

[@SumthanSweet]

CPS doesn't make these laws. Talk to your local state officials about that.

[@qianagreen8339]

Baby n Louisiana CPS tells u u can spank your kid on the butt but u gotta use ur hands...it can't b with an object like a belt or switch and u can't leave marks

[@louis-vd3ur]

My mom threw me the look at my wedding dinner🤐😂

[@teeteetronda]

All day long facts! Facts! Facts!

[@Brick_Squared]

*_THEWN!!!_* 😂🤣😂🤣

[@andrealawson5988]

That’s right Shirlene!😂😂😂

[@vickiefranklin3658]

Enough is enough! I'm the hitta of the house! Say that Shirleen! I did'nt think about throwing nothing at my elders, cause i'd still be unconscious if i did!

[@trevacollins2929]

"Turn to your neighbor and say hit that butt " 😂

[@helenguzman2327]

“I’d be the girl with no head.” 😆😆😆 Thats the truth. Can not even imagine 😦

[@ylp3able]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 that truck been putting in WORK!!!!!

[@rainbowens4712]

He decided to run down the street😂😂😂😂 Billy ran blocks and blocks and blocks in the hitter of this house😂😂😂😂 yes yes yes

[@aieshadarby]

I caint......Lol. Preach! 😂😂😂

[@deborah9587]

Amen! You speaking the truth no matter what others think. It might not be for every child but for some it's needed.

[@Xoxotho]

Block and blocks and blocks and blocks and blocks 😅

[@dbltwinmuva9209]

😂😂😂😂 “you better get them before they get you.” That’s LAW!

[@nats2976]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 no lies were told!

[@tnt3929]

"Hospill"😂😂 I love it!

[@christa526]

We love you so so much. Please post as often as you can! You are a jewel!!!

[@oneshoerr]

"Im the hitter of this house" Lmao😂 i hollered

[@jodyross5707]

Truly, I can’t even imagine the terror of waiting until my dad got home if one of us even spoke disrespectfully to our mom, but throw a truck? No ma’am. OHN

[@SonoNariFiorewithGrace]

It’s frustrating and sad how some parents don’t care. A woman just leaves her child coughing so much in a store while she was shopping with a friend and not once did she go ok he is coughing so much let’s get him some chicken noodle soup and have him drink his orange juice & water he needs to stay hydrated, get him his vitamins too and may Jesus strengthen his health! ^She just ignored him throughout the shopping trip. It also is bothersome the way some children touch items in the shops and their parents don’t tell them please don’t touch the items and don’t throw them, leaving a mess. If this was in different countries the customers would’ve gotten kicked out for making a mess in the store. Please parents need to have their children behave better, discipline is necessary! Can’t be letting the children acting up in the shops and yelling at their parents, throwing a fit. Ask for godly wisdom for parenting and I know this isn’t every child that behaves rudely but come on y’all, we need more respectfulness shown out there!

[@Lily-cm3nj]

And that's why these new chullun are bad as hell and the parents ain't got sense enough to raise a pet rock!

[@tinkthestrange]

People will ask me what is wrong because my youngest is always crying. It’s because I don’t allow her everything she wants. She doesn’t even ask because all her ideas are mischievous and I almost always say no. “Aww why is she crying?” “Because I won’t buy her ice cream, I won’t let her eat off the store floor, I won’t let her open the toy boxes on the shelf, I won’t let her touch and lick all the fruit in the produce section…” it goes on and on. Y’all better let these kids cry, it won’t kill them. I know it’s annoying but y’all know the cops arresting parents for beating kids in public and toddlers have the attention span of a flea. Sometimes we just need to get groceries or buy seasonal clothes even if our little unsocialized heathens don’t want to act nice.

[@sholondaflynn6483]

I'm telling you, with God's love, get them before they get you.👋🏿🤛🏿🤷🏿‍♀️

[@athomas6277]

All I can say is 'mmmmm-hmmmm, MMMMMMM-hmmmmmm'. Let 'em know - EARLY, TOO!!!

[@abattle2233]

Yep, he threw that truck like he wasn't scared. He didn't get scared till her realized he hit that baby😂😂😂

[@thelovelymissmonica1938]

His Life would have Been in Danger if he THOUGHT he could throw that that thang At Me!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@NaturalDivineGoddess]

*Shirlene: “ Turn to your neighbor and get that butt.” Not “turn to your neighbor.” Chile, these pastors make sure you turn to that neighbor in chuuuurch. Some of leaders say, “TURN TO YOUR NEIGHBOR SO MUCH THAT IT BECOMES YOUR SPIRITUAL EXERCISE. After three turns. I put my head down and start praying or pull out my phone until the exercise is over.* 🤣🤣😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@chasefasten4120]

I work in retail and I watched this 12 year-old, who was as tall as his mom, bow up on his mother because she said he couldn't buy anything. He started bobbing his head talking about, "I'm not asking you for money." That woman stayed cool as a cucumber but I was ready to jump over the counter bobbing my head, "she said you ain't gonna buy nothing."

[@Lily-cm3nj]

She shoulda knocked him into the Twilight Zone!

[@sherrywright6927]

Amen Amen Amen

[@tia.Hennigan]

My brother just said them exact words “ put that fear in them early “. 😊

[@letitiaabuckley7968]

I was not never their friend always a Parent!!😂😂😂😂

[@letitiaabuckley7968]

Throwing a truck, Raising a hand, Talking back, They would have been at my funeral- talking bout closed casket, 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@SuperstarSEVHN]

Benny would’ve belonged to someone else that day🤷🏽‍♀️ she already holding a baby, don’t chase…replace.

[@iamlegend8120]

Wow!! 😂😂😂😂

[@evemoore2135]

Yes ma'am. she's trying to help people, you gotta get that butt LOL

[@Reneb736]

EXACTLY!!!!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅😅

[@concernedcitizen8373]

Some of these new parents do stuff based on the "new wave expertise" - a lot of them don't have kids. Other parents know how easy it is to go to jail these days. Who's going to take care of the kids? Who is going to pay the bills? And who's going to protect Jermaine when I get out of jail? She could also be one of those yelling and threatening parents and that mess don't work either because afterwhile, kids know you are just talk. Not EVERY kid needs hands but we have to learn our child(ren) to know what's effective.

[@PHILDR85]

He's most definitely thrown something at his momma before 😂😂😂

[@navybeans17]

I woulda lost all my teef if I thrown something at my moms...lol Shidd she threw all my stuff outside cauz I rolled my eyes and whispered under my breath at her .. I was 15😂😂😂

[@Lily-cm3nj]

Oh Lord that was me wit the eye rollin' and mumblin' under my breath that's why I'm cockeyed and missing teeth to this day! Lol

[@myhueofyoga]

He done Thune it before!!!😅

[@GiveItUpJan]

Parent better get them in order, before the penal system do…one way of another

[@Lily-cm3nj]

They're building private prison as fast as they can cause they know they'll be filled to rafters as their bank accounts grow fatter!

[@yvonnelee2468]

You are so right! I got a whipping because my Mom said she knew what I was thinking after I failed to wash the dishes before I went to bed. I will never forget that. I am 68 and it happened when I was a teen.😂

[@iluvmyboba]

"The girl that used to have a head." Ha!!!

[@InTheRecoveryRoom]

Clearly … he had “ th-ewn” it MANY times b4😂😂 #iserioislyDOUBTit😂 #🥷🤺🥊🥊

[@sassafrast6438]

Truer words were never spoken! ❤

[@suzym4706]

Amen!🙏🏼 words of wisdom

[@mellowvoice]

(Lost me @ Billy, ran for blocks, and blocks, and blocks, and blocks, and blocks, and blocks...🤣😂😂😂

[@mariascreven1433]

That took me out, also! 😂😂😂

[@classicassie205]

He need that whooping, were you give a swat with ever word…the one that goes “don’t, you , ever, in, your, life, throw, nothing, at me, and nobody, else” my mama used to have the longest sentences😂😂😂

[@Kayelle321]

I don’t believe he ever got a whoopin… she chased him, he ran too fast, she couldn’t catch him… when he realized she couldn’t catch him, he turned around, stuck out his tongue and started shaking his little butt taunting her.

[@katrinagant237]

True words Shirleen!!!

[@leeslove1999]

That's right don't be no push over parent and don't appease them with material things.

[@TheInfamousAD]

Let the ⛪️ say Amen 🙏🏾 I co-sign ✍🏾 this message

[@southernsass2937]

I KNEW better not to even put this kinda thought nowhere in my head. My kids knew too. Parents today wanna be soft & "be their friend ". See how far that's going to get you. I woulda grew up with a prosthetic head & legs.

[@LaVieJolie1]

“ you done did it now sucka” 😂

[@cookiehooks8492]

Gentle parenting translates to letting your child do whatever.... train them while they are young. If you don't believe in spanking (I am a firm believer in WTA), then you better develop some kind of discipline that has ramifications cause when another type of authority comes into play, there is NO such thing as gentle jailing...... IJS

[@MsMusiqisinme]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@thetowertarot13]

😂 Amen! So true!

[@happybutterfly7124]

There was a small incident at my house one weekend when my nephew came to visit with our son. When I addressed what had happened, I told my nephew, "I kill for less than that." He responded, "I know. Scott told me." To this day, my 52 year old, almost 6' tall son will tell you, "My Mom hits like Mike Tyson." & Yes. I'm short.

[@itsyagirlashleytv]

Man I used to be too scared to run 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@neiclemons8297]

You are absolutely right