Oh man, this must have been so traumatic. So glad you survived. Sending you much strength and love ❤❤❤
@butterygold8 ай бұрын
Imagine being trapped for so long with a deceased man at your feet and when you manage to call someone they didn’t answer. That in itself must feel like abandonment even though it was not intentional.
@manicmaggie8 ай бұрын
It must have been traumatic and the suffering must have been immense.
@pontshomosiea61878 ай бұрын
The man has a strong character believe and hope ;28hours is not a child's play without light,food and water
@MissNMpontshane8 ай бұрын
😢 This is why I don't like people who close data and stay away from their phones.... Man they took long to get back to him
@andileklaas6838 ай бұрын
I also couldn't hold back my own tears as I was was listening to the survivor's father. I'm also praying for a miracle. A big thank you to all the rescue workers.
@noravanwyk54608 ай бұрын
I cannot even remotely imagine how traumatic this experience must have been for this young man . I am just truly grateful that he is alive . I am sure that he would definitely need some trauma counselling. 😢
@leoniea1388 ай бұрын
Praying for the rest of the team ...
@nomalungelongcete58758 ай бұрын
Of course 🙏
@leoniea1388 ай бұрын
It's like nobody knows about the imminent crash ....my goodness ...do people not read the internet ? The biggest crash in history ,, worse that 1929 depression coming...Trump warned the world right in the beginning of his Presidency and its happening now.....do people not know this ?
@DoreenJohnstone-gy9mv8 ай бұрын
Thank goodness you were found and survived. Praying for full recovery.
@WendyBost8 ай бұрын
Delvon - I wish that I could give you a big hug - Sending you and your family much love during this time. You must please speak to a professional counselor on an ongoing basis as this traumatic experience will linger for some time. Glad you are safe!
@Arti-iChi8 ай бұрын
My heart going out to Delvin seeing him crying ad his father speaking❤❤
@suganmoodley64758 ай бұрын
This is so painful to watch. Just glad we have some survivors of this horrific incident.
@VukileGcobho8 ай бұрын
😢 this is so sad, just my tears too, praying for those whose members are still under trapped 😢
@JeanneFourie-kh3hh8 ай бұрын
Whoever Delvin's employer is, I take my hat off to him in respect, regarding how he handled the situation and how transparent, compassionate and pro-active he was.
@thubelihlesphelele79018 ай бұрын
No he wasn't he took two days to named in the news coz he knew he is using cheap materials, illegal foreigners with no minimum wage. Typical white/DA behavior
@gaoneanitamolosiwa16968 ай бұрын
Tell me please, is he standing while intervewed. Its a big mistake if they are not provided with chairs yet they are asked unending questions about a serious accident that traumatised them.
@colourinmyrainbow8 ай бұрын
I agree. This was a heartless interview.
@Jada_summer2118 ай бұрын
There is a couch behind him
@noreenhills24338 ай бұрын
I cannot believe the questioning technique or lack thereof. The journalist was really not equipped to hold the interview. And please don;t tell me its her job. Pushing Delvon while we can all see he is traumatised, is not the way to do this. Shocking
@moetikitso728 ай бұрын
@noreenhills2433 I agree, she was very cold. Too cold. No emotion or sensitivity.
@andreaadelbert76838 ай бұрын
@@colourinmyrainbow totally agree and Delvin should of had a chair and taken off the screen after been questioned.
@laurenkinghorn8 ай бұрын
What a traumatic experience to go through. I can imagine how elated his Dad must have been and can also understand how difficult it must be for Delvin to feel happy to be alive when friends have passed away or not been found yet. Sending peace, love and healing to all involved. ❤
@anitavm19518 ай бұрын
What a beautiful family, thank you for sharing.
@Claire11elliott8 ай бұрын
Delvin's dad went to the scene as soon as possible. I think of all the families of victims in Malawi, Zimbabwe, Mozambique and other parts of SA who can't be in George.
@leilahjoy95538 ай бұрын
😢
@funkdunk8 ай бұрын
He definitely needs to get that counseling support that has been offered, he has been through a traumatic experience and it seems that he is struggling with survivor's guilt.
@ThapeloLekalakala-v1u8 ай бұрын
😢😢😢
@Honeybee8978 ай бұрын
What is survivor's guilt? Please educate me.
@TCALLINAN8 ай бұрын
@@Honeybee897 the only thing he saw besides darkness was his colleague at his feet who passed. It’s possible he could feel a tremendous amount of guilt for being able to live and continue on with his life. Its a common result of situations where someone survives a situation others didnt. I pray counsellors reach out to him and dont wait for him to contact them
@Honeybee8978 ай бұрын
@@TCALLINAN thank you very much for sharing and educating me on that. Believe me I never had an idea of what survivor's guilt was.
@TCALLINAN8 ай бұрын
@@Honeybee897 it sounds awful from what I’ve read. It could ruin people’s lives because they feel guilty for the smallest things, for example, eating breakfast. It triggers this guilt that they dont deserve the breakfast they’re eating because the other person will never have breakfast again. Its not conscious but it plays out in every aspect of their lives. I pray he is able to work through his trauma and finds peace.
@rosariccardo35298 ай бұрын
Delvin is a very brave young man who deserves all the love and support he needs. I appreciate that the interviewer needed a story, but I think she also needs sensitivity training. I watched the clip because I was so glad to learn about a survivor, but I cringed at her questioning style. I left with the impression that she would do anything for a story ("Move over, Delvin! I want to speak to your father!", leaving him standing forlornly after describing his ordeal through barely contained tears.) Traumatised people are vulnerable and they deserve respect, dignity and care. And if as a reporter part of your job involves interacting with them you have a responsibility to equip yourself to provide that. It's only fair if you are asking them to give you something.
@jillfisher25858 ай бұрын
You know this is so insensitive & intrusive towards Delvin with your stupid questions....give him space to heal & grieve....the media is without conscience
@Rose4Him58 ай бұрын
I am shocked at the way this interview was conducted.
@watchingforvibes8 ай бұрын
It is very insensitive. It's so appalling
@OscarDunn-yb9is8 ай бұрын
...my thoughts exactly...why do you ask him why is he emotional...it's very obvious...
@leoniea1388 ай бұрын
Glad you are safe sir ...sending prayers and blessings ....
@bekosithole93218 ай бұрын
This interview was not carried out in a dignified manner, it lacks so much humility. The SABC could have done so much better. It's distasteful.
@sasvanwyk58868 ай бұрын
You want the interview to be carried out in a dignified manner without pride grace and dignity, iow, a humble manner, with humility. This is a tall order! Glad you were not my teacher. I found the interview informative - as it should be
@mandisahlongwane14838 ай бұрын
@sasvanwyk5886 Yes, it's informative but she was bombarding him with questions even when she could tell that he was overwhelmed, I think that's what they mean
@sasvanwyk58868 ай бұрын
@@mandisahlongwane1483 I think she wanted him to describe his ordeal as best he could to entertain viewers. This is what tv is mostly about.
@Bigscore_238 ай бұрын
How can she ask “why are you emotional at this time” like really interviewer?? That’s a low IQ question
@moetikitso728 ай бұрын
Wow. Is it just me or does the reporter sound very cold for interviewing someone who experienced such an ordeal.
@laudigerber97298 ай бұрын
Agree 100%. It's sad. 😢😢
@neiljosephbennett91198 ай бұрын
Totally agree - our media coverage is cringeworthy, to say the least!
@k1k9928 ай бұрын
No not cold at all. The reporter has limited time to capture all. She managed to capture all in a limited period. Well done!
@lizanel48188 ай бұрын
Disagree ... if you look closely, you could see her getting emotional as well ... this must've been one of her most difficult intreveiws of her whole career as a reporter. As part of her job, she is suppose to distance herself from any emotions. I think she did a wonderful job, especially at the end, touching his shoulder, and aslo stopping the interveiw ... hats off to you, Ma'am
@doremi1318 ай бұрын
Besides, it's been a week already, so at least he is out of the shock a bit.
@shantibel8 ай бұрын
Bless you Delvin, and bless the rescuers. So happy you survived. Love to you and your parents. What s dear dad.
@leoniea1388 ай бұрын
Too many buildings going up way too fast in this town....its scary .....would not want to make use of those buildings
@janetpretorius46048 ай бұрын
That is a very revealing comment. It is sad that corruption and greed are so easily traded for material wealth, which I suspect is the case.
@TheYodellingqueen8 ай бұрын
That is a very true statement! It's all over the Country though .. The Beautiful scenery and birdlife we once knew, jas had to make space amd place for building upon building 😢😢
@LP-ei3xe8 ай бұрын
I was asking my wife the other day, are these people who build in George working through the night or what, because with rate the buildings is popping up is unbelievable
@TCALLINAN8 ай бұрын
@@LP-ei3xe they are. They work through the night on all these new developments
@leoniea1388 ай бұрын
@janetpretorius4604 I'm not to sure about corruption and greed in these contracts...I have no such info....but I am referring to my safety ....if a building goes up so fast and open in record time ,, I will feel unsafe ....and I can point to all the old Government buildings in our town ,, the school van Kervel , all the churches in this Diocese and Cathedral in Oudtshoorn and every other church in my town where my father worked as a Mason,, those buildings are solid ,, and I also refer to everything I was taught about buildings as a kid ,, and learning to read plans ....again I'm saying ,, it's too fast.....it's just not making sense on the level of safety and security ...I would worry ....
@cig356618 ай бұрын
Very sad....what a traumatic incident all the best to Delvin & his family.
@joanhenschel35118 ай бұрын
Hallelujah for this rescue.
@Rose4Him58 ай бұрын
SABC please train your journalists on how to do an interview with a person after such a traumatic experience.
@Claire11elliott8 ай бұрын
I thought she asked questions that families of the victims want to know.
@SiphesihleSiphesihle-x8u8 ай бұрын
had the enca done this interview would you have such an issue?.
@MrJakes19888 ай бұрын
@@SiphesihleSiphesihle-x8uYES
@k1k9928 ай бұрын
Are you an expert on how to interview people subjected to this kind of trauma? The journalists did an excellent job in keeping our community updated.
@gilbertdavies11828 ай бұрын
@@k1k992 Not sure why you're defending this heartless journalist.... nothing to do with the "industry" or7 time limits.... have a look at some of the other dignified iterviews to see the difference!!
@perthkraya32098 ай бұрын
So sorry for the loss of your colleague. It can't be easy.
@colleenwait26378 ай бұрын
Glad you wer saved and Safe now so sorry about all the people who passed away condolences to all there families and loved ones 🙏
@perrympeters8 ай бұрын
My heart breaks for you. It is awesome that you are still with us, and very tragic that so many are no more. Tons of love to you and your family
@gavinkywe12708 ай бұрын
found myself crying...when dad spoke
@colourinmyrainbow8 ай бұрын
A callous interview! Delvon is left standing like a spare part and then the interviewer asks him why he is so emotional. FFS! He has to process an extremely traumatic event. This is heartless and dumb!
@Jada_summer2118 ай бұрын
This journalist is emotionless
@brianmills27508 ай бұрын
Could not agree any more
@noreenhills24338 ай бұрын
Totally agree. Shocking.
@gilbertdavies11828 ай бұрын
Pathetic, all just about money making news flahes for them 😡🤬
@moetikitso728 ай бұрын
I agree. Cold voice!
@JoshuaMutize8 ай бұрын
Thank you very much
@mbulelomankonkwana80388 ай бұрын
This interview is too soon...😢
@johnconifer61508 ай бұрын
Very traumatic experience. Bless you.. Praying for those still under the rubble.
@brianmills27508 ай бұрын
I really don't know how you could even go and interview him so soon after his ordeal shame on you have some compassion
@dikolizaskk58478 ай бұрын
What a heartless question from this Vanessa asking the poor guy why he is emotional
@makabongwekahla71508 ай бұрын
Nothing wrong with this interview. She was very polite and understanding. What do you want her to say?
@mandisahlongwane14838 ай бұрын
There's nothing wrong with the question, it was a way for us to get into his head space and tap into his emotions but rather she's the wrong person to ask it, she lacks compassion and empathy, she's not a soft person at all
@Visionery18 ай бұрын
We have no idea how traumatic this must've been for him and what 'movie' will replay in his head for years to come. Hopefully he will get the support he desperately needs, even though he's trying to portray an image of strength.
@aneneschreuder58208 ай бұрын
It is caller Survivors guilt.. .Hope you feel better soon and that more people will be rescued.
@reinettbernardo27798 ай бұрын
I know this is not important in the grand scheme of things, but the interviewee should have positioned herself better alongside father & son during the interview. She now has her back to the survivor of such a huge rescue.
@nutechousespinnaclehomes79638 ай бұрын
She is the, type of person who looks down on people, Devon please step aside for me, what a heartless human being.
@BlueyaSayayer-sy7gg8 ай бұрын
THIS REPORTER!!!NO MAN Get well soon boeta wishing you the best ❤
@markstemmett52968 ай бұрын
Not impressed with the lady doing the interview, very little empathy and inappropriate questions
@tessakbrown8 ай бұрын
Heartless
@lu8818 ай бұрын
Are you watching the same thing we're watching?
@k1k9928 ай бұрын
She has a lot of empathy but very little time to report. I guess if you are not in this industry you would not understand
@MirriamSofe-yj9pq8 ай бұрын
Speedy recovery,we are praying for you and all you're colleagues and friends under the rubble and those recovering in hospital especially those who are critically injured.😢😢😢❤❤❤❤❤
@elbiedorman12668 ай бұрын
Daivon, that must be so traumatic with Mixed feelings of relief and anguish for your colleagues who are now gone and perhaps still alive and yet trapped under the rubble. We are praying for you and you loved ones and everyone involved with the rescue team.
@TheKefmoth8 ай бұрын
Please help this man with psychological counselling! Survivor guilt is deadly!
@LynnRuffer8 ай бұрын
Well wishes to Delvin we proud of him for speaking out and we pray for a full recovery.
@sharongouveia35738 ай бұрын
Did they offer counselling
@Princelargo8 ай бұрын
We give thanks for the help for those struck down and for Gods mercy
@ingridsweeney17878 ай бұрын
I don’t know any of the people, but listening to this story there were tears running down my face. So glad Delvon is out. Well done to Delvon’s boss for organising for his parents to come to George and be with him
@tmz5348 ай бұрын
Our hearts go out to you, ur colleagues and their families. Its devastating we r glad of the few that survived we pray they may be more survivors
@mkhumbuzibiko57068 ай бұрын
Just listening to the father, my tears just ran down. Very emotional ....
@Zackthebrit14438 ай бұрын
Morning....u are a chosen....Delvin
@Alexander-fw7st8 ай бұрын
Yes, you are. What a lovely young man.
@svrensburg8 ай бұрын
How could she asked why he is feeling emotional at this time? Really
@KateCoppen8 ай бұрын
❤ bless ..prayers to you and all those who went through this experience
@smcptrsa8 ай бұрын
😢Oh man delvin sweetheart im so happy you are alive but im so sorry that you are mourning the loss of your friends and colleagues 😢
@jdp28018 ай бұрын
Praying for everyone 😢
@leslenesantana75758 ай бұрын
Please lord help these people 👏👏
@jezzaj45798 ай бұрын
The reporting is very poor. To have them interviewed in this manner in what I would assume is their own home comes across as insensitive and cold. You could have at least had them sitting down and not stand like soldiers in their own home. This is terribly traumatic for them. Come at me I don't care.
@karaokequeen19248 ай бұрын
A trained psychologist or counselor should have been present at this interview to advise the interviewer how to handle it better. They should make that standard proceedure after such a traumatic event. ❤
@Vlogimo8 ай бұрын
What a poorly prepared and trained reporter. You go off camera and ask your interviewee if they okay to proceed, you also stop and pan away from the subject if they become emotional to preserve their dignity. Who trains these people?
@nutechousespinnaclehomes79638 ай бұрын
Devon, if you can step aside for me, what a heartless media SABC going all the way to tell a survivor the number of people who are still trapped to someone who is still not recovered that information alone can kill a person through shock, Are these journalists trained?
@moetikitso728 ай бұрын
Heartless
@paulrowe94868 ай бұрын
@@moetikitso72 She is a Real amateur ! UNFIT !!!
@drows61568 ай бұрын
Strong one Delvin. Stay strong brother ❤❤❤❤ I can see Delvin takes care of his family
@daniellemeiring5808 ай бұрын
Delvin you are in our prayers...
@PamelaMogwera8 ай бұрын
This is so traumatic 😢😢😢😢😢unforgettable moment
@leilahjoy95538 ай бұрын
Praying for the rest of the team 😢
@LoverOfLife2678 ай бұрын
The camera panning out to show Delvin crying is a bit ... I dunno how to explain it but it's coming across very exploitative 😢😢 do better
@beverleydutoit75768 ай бұрын
Dalvin you are very brave.
@JohnEDow-jo2inBokke8 ай бұрын
Glad you alive brother🙏. Heal well physically , emotionally and spiritually. Go well
@sanengcobo86598 ай бұрын
What a nightmare. I hope they heal from the trauma.
@LeeCebos8 ай бұрын
This is so traumatic , the need counseling ❤❤ I'M praying for all the families who lost their loved ones 🙏 and those who were still waiting to find their members of the family ❤❤
@chrisMchon8 ай бұрын
Man this must be hard to go through
@sarama-singhflovers79848 ай бұрын
Why was there no chair or a more suitable and comfortable place for this interview..this young man want through a painful and traumatic experience. Inconsiderate l would have to say
@Claire11elliott8 ай бұрын
He might want to stand after all that lying in one position.
@noreenhills24338 ай бұрын
Agree, and the more he became emotional the more she pushed. Shocking.
@k1k9928 ай бұрын
How would you have managed this interview? Easy to complain but a different situation when you are actually working on scene. You are not working on this scene so know nothing. Respect those that are actually doing the real work.
@paulrowe94868 ай бұрын
@@k1k992 Garbage !!!!! She was totally insensitive !
@mercykahla97398 ай бұрын
I think if he can open a go-fundme we can help him with the little that we have he needs proper counselling & needs to take some time off
@thandindimande34198 ай бұрын
How can Vanessa not interested in finding out about other person who he mentioned that was the one who responded when the rescue team when they're shouting for survivors. 😮😮
@rsamom8 ай бұрын
If she asked Delivin about it, it would have been more upsetting to him. Also I do not think they are allowed to give the names of the deceased yet, as many probably need to be officially identified.
@jaydeedavids35598 ай бұрын
Sterkte boy
@SandraNaidoo-eh4oi8 ай бұрын
Praying 🙏 🙏 over all
@charlottethokoa7118 ай бұрын
I hope he gets counseling forPTSD
@liviwefinca42848 ай бұрын
The questions are so irrelevant at this point because you’re making him relive an experience that cannot be explained by words.
@Carol-AnneGillespie8 ай бұрын
😮he is a living miracle❤
@rabaroanamaphai61168 ай бұрын
Oh man 💔💔
@devlintemosho73548 ай бұрын
Be well Delvin,,,,my name is Devlin by the way,sending love and healing❤️❤️❤️❤️
@thecraftyzulu38248 ай бұрын
We are so thankful that he was found alive. The trauma though! You can see it in his face. His parent's' trauma. This is so sad and upsetting. May they all be healed from it. 🙏🏾
@CharmaineDaniels-b9q8 ай бұрын
Cant help to cry with Delvin
@Elfin19938 ай бұрын
Man this guy is so brave to be talking about his experience so fresh after 💔 It just points to how important community psychologists are. HPCSA NEEDS TO REGISTER COMMUNITY PSYCHOLOGY AS AN OFFICIAL PROFESSION. He needs a lot of TLC.
@Princelargo8 ай бұрын
Strongs. Wishing a full recovery
@remilafakir70228 ай бұрын
Wow so grateful 🙏
@TCALLINAN8 ай бұрын
Terrible journalism. Insensitive. SABC please be sure to find delvin a counsellor. You have made him talk about something none of you have ever experienced and left him crying to the side for what? Views?? Awful
@zanelemofikoe48008 ай бұрын
Not even a seat…
@TCALLINAN8 ай бұрын
@@zanelemofikoe4800 terrible!! No consideration of him at all. Im shocked and appalled. Its bad enough his voicenotes are circulating social media.
@silasramoroka80248 ай бұрын
Can't imagine the trauma
@liespypolygraph8 ай бұрын
I was not aware that there were any locals/South Africans working there. As far as I understand, the workers were from Mozambique, Zimbabwe and Malawi. This uncle is South African, so is his son.
@angelag698 ай бұрын
Hugs to the family
@Khutsomachika7748 ай бұрын
Ver sad😢
@kathyohara66588 ай бұрын
39....missing Another man has been rescued....
@andreochse96638 ай бұрын
Why no company named , why no owner named , why no contractor named
@Claire11elliott8 ай бұрын
The company is Neo Trends, but many companies were subcontracted to perform different roles.
@yolandanovember76568 ай бұрын
So emotional....it's only by God's grace 🙌
@IndependenTMedia2108 ай бұрын
What kind of questions is this journalist asking ..shes traumatizing this more than 😢
@marlintaolivier18218 ай бұрын
Oh wow! Delwin please take all the help so you can be able to pick up the pieces, not just for yourself but also your family and all who did not make it. We pray for you 🙏
@chrisjpndala75768 ай бұрын
Speedy recovery 🙏 to you my brother
@Onalenna_Thobega8 ай бұрын
Oh man… he’s traumatised 🫶🏾. So sorry
@Anonymous-in4pc8 ай бұрын
This is absolutely so sad... So glad Delvin is ok. Does anyone know what will happen now from a legal point of view? What will happen to the construction company?
@cathrinemarwendo76548 ай бұрын
Strong journalist of indeed. This is too sensitive and emotional . You are a strong women for carrying the whole interview without shedding tears. Thats being proffettional . Otherwise this is a difficult cult interview which some journalist will drop some tears. Lets hope everything will go well
@AneleMgudlwa8 ай бұрын
Prayers for families who and are going through this and thank you lord for the survives.
@CharmaineDeAlmeida8 ай бұрын
These reporters need 2 be schooled 2 be more sensitive towards people went through such heartbroken trauma
@k1k9928 ай бұрын
Could you have done a better interview.? Are you an expert in councelling trauma victims? If not - please don't make negative comments.
@paulrowe94868 ай бұрын
@@k1k992 Yes ! She was terrible and insensitive ! Anyone could have done better ??????
@gilbertdavies11828 ай бұрын
@@k1k992 If you're and expert and can't understand what people are saying seems you need a bit more training too bud, she was disgusting to say the least!!