Get Real When Pressure Becomes Too Real ft. Eric Nam I GET REAL Ep. #9

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[@preciouscanillo]

I’m so early. Omg Hiii support for support guys?

[@eturtlez]

What was the number again?

[@にあじまはm]

Yo I'm giving you guys a list. Please invite those people :p Jessica jung or Krystal jung Amber Ailee Jae park JACKSON like you're gona get lots of tea with this one HENRYYYYYYY

[@にあじまはm]

@@kristas3250 bang chan felix and I.M are too young to be on this group. Thise people have actually an experience of 10+ years in the industry.

[@kioku_uzumaki]

Let's get Krystal Jung, Amber Liu Jackson Wang and Henry Lau here too plzzzz!!!!!

[@KIWIGIRL0610]

A few weeks back someone commented that this podcast is like Ashley having a sleepover with Big Matilda and Penelope. Today everyone welcome Erica 👏👏👏

[@yokaiyohi1476]

BIGF MATILDAERATR

[@JeffersonSheng]

Erika* ;)

[@KIWIGIRL0610]

@@JeffersonSheng each to their own but my boss spells it as Erica. She's not as cute or funny as Eric though 😂

[@Petronole]

I love you for the comment. You made me laugh while am having a shitty week.

[@KIWIGIRL0610]

@@Petronole to be fair I just added a little bit onto someone else's comment from a few weeks back but I'm glad you got a laugh out of it when you're week has been crap. I don't know why your week is shit but I hope it improves and next week makes up for this week. Here in New Zealand when we want to support someone we say kia kaha which is Māori for be strong. So kia kaha!

[@xialenlouisse]

peniel is so chill i wish i was friends with him lol

[@rosyskysky345]

Honestly SAMEEE

[@Raina2410]

Me tooooo!!

[@kennettemariegagtan8798]

this episode it is peniel strike me again...the CUBE bigboss choose/like him because of his different kind of mindset

[@gaurik2121]

Ifkr he's that kinda friend who backs you up

[@ichigogogracie3371]

Sameeee

[@sunrising-yv2hc]

Peniel teach us your ways. He’s so chill and laidback and calm. I aspire to have that kind of mindset.

[@ijlaalahmedh6106]

I think everyone would be chill after going through being a kpop idol

[@igotshualways4396]

Trueeee i envy his personality 😩 he's just sooo chill

[@emmasrandom4988]

If everyone was like peniel people wouldn't be so worried😂 we need that

[@johnmayerbaby2268]

I think because he feels secured with his family who seems to be supportive. It's kinda like a safety net that makes him more laid back. And well, he's really got a chill personality.

[@emmasrandom4988]

@@johnmayerbaby2268 That's true but I think most of us want to feel as chill as him

[@aneisap7517]

I like Peniel's mentality. I don't know his CEO but I already like him.

[@saratogol6744]

Lol you should not cube ent is shit

[@vladaber1842]

@@saratogol6744 former ceo was actually a decent guy

[@funny5506]

@@saratogol6744 and now Cube with new management getting better. Mostly Cube stan would be notice

[@Lohhhhhh]

@@funny5506 agree, getting better but slowly....i guess

[@usandyouyouandwebtobandmelody]

@@saratogol6744 tell me how can i hate blue box when Eunkwang is appointed as director for artist protection committee in their company now. Plus the fact that they never give up on BTOB for the last couple of years they struggled.

[@fatimakhapoli358]

Ashley looks very sad talking about stress and listening to Bm talk about his panic attack. Take care of yourselves guys. Be happy everyone

[@kenabimaper4821]

I also noticed that :( I want to give her and BM a hug :(

[@kamola3293]

BM's outfit and hair just screams boyfriend material

[@angelmontefalco6282]

Kamola Yes, he looks very handsome here huhu, I hope he will upload on his IG with this style huhuhu.

[@siscojose5660]

Calm yourself 🤣🤣🤣

[@khairunisa8959]

He looks so fine

[@farahidrena659]

can u imagine 😩

[@dazzlerflower]

dude, BM literally stands for Boyfriend Material so like 👀 🙈

[@nadiazahra6838]

y'all should get Jae, Amber, Wendy, Felix, Chan, Rosé, Mark (x2), Jackson, Johnny, Ten and so many more on here it would be iconic

[@AGULL]

Sammy toooo

[@sophie_futo]

I'm waiting for the Rosé interview with Eric when her solo is out! (i wish)

[@nadiazahra6838]

@Holly Aston that would be firee

[@jaetaegang71]

Maybe Johnny 👀 NCT127 aren't promoting rn 🤔🤔🤔💚

[@kawakibkaouther298]

Changkyun as welll

[@myyunni]

so peniel got into btob because of his mindset 🤣 but fr tho i really admire his mindset.

[@iteezwhatiteez5775]

“air pressure water pressure” -Peniel Shin, 2020

[@kenabimaper4821]

I laugh so hard with that 🤣🤣

[@kat_g56]

This is the ultimate group of people. I literally love all of these guys!

[@katycrawford8101]

bm: [does anything] table: [aggressively shakes]

[@keygiovanni]

BM in every episode: daaaaaaaaaang, OOoooOOooOoOooohHhHHh, Hell nOOOo, whaaAAaAaT???

[@adonisdennisejean8648]

Also bm: True that, true that

[@krisdiaz7443]

Why am I hearing him? 😂

[@soyoungkim9536]

@@krisdiaz7443 Same. I am hearing him too..........

[@brownbean3057]

or yeaaaaaaaap or yoooooooooooooooooooo

[@pororo9537]

I want a “Get Real” episode with the whole Hwaiting casts 🤧

[@almariaghern1876]

A chaos 😂😂😂

[@saturnwoo]

Me too 😂

[@saanvi6662]

Aka a mess

[@amylow1638]

me: Jae needs to be a guest on Get Real. Jae: InTEreStINg!

[@faridauzumaki4366]

"Success is the best form of revenge" -Peniel Shin, 2020

[@ItsBrittanyLajoyce]

Peniel seems like he never has problems lol

[@ilianauribe1511]

Yes, but you know ☹️

[@Majormockery151]

Seems like it sure. But he lost his hair from stress being an idol.

[@dowonlee9518]

Yes but he had a lot of pressure after this debut . He even have a hair problem and he keep it to himself since he was a btob rookie WATCH “HELLO COUNSELOR (PENIEL)”

[@sangk4550]

He has but i think he looks at the brighter side or the other way round.. n i also feel he is not afraid of failure

[@dowonlee9518]

sang k true hahaha most stressing him out is DATING hahaha and To date a celebrity like him haha! Cause people don’t like their idol date with each other

[@avatarthelastairbenderlove4092]

I really appreciate u guys talking about panic attacks, I think it's important to not shrug these things off and it's nice that BM and Eric were comfortable enough to talk about their experience

[@aebeeceeonetwothree1377]

Peniel's confidence and attitude is so admirable, he's confident yet not cocky about life in general...

[@pipnedcheese7073]

I need to cultivate Peniel's mindset on mine. Precious Peniel and his infinite mind.

[@liveinsoco2504]

Peniel's story from casted to be trainee in jyp until debut into btob, always interesting 🤣🤣

[@carlitav97]

BM broke my heart. I can´t even imagine how not only he but many idols have to go through a lot of pressure, and stress and just collapse. He is truly amazing, he gave us a masterpiece for this comeback, I just hope that some day he will produce all the music he likes based on his own taste. Love BM and I love this podcast a lot

[@pikisflais]

1:37 Ashley was actually curious as to why. BM: The government is watching....

[@atianahernandez7796]

@Darc Widow Yes, the birds work for the bourgeoisie! There is no denying it!

[@M3lloWcH1k]

I started crying when Ashley mentioned her parents. Mine weren't the pressuring type either, but I pressure myself 😭

[@cathykaeshow7779]

Awww don't put too much pressure on yourself. My philosophy is "what is meant to be will be no matter what".

[@MrSam754]

BM's hair color makes me question so many things about myself

[@29An288]

He looks so pretty! ♥️

[@armella.h]

I so relate to Peniel when he said that he doesn't know that he's stressed and that his body reacts first. I underestimate what I'm going through and I end up being sick because of stress! While my friends see me as that chill girl that doesn't stress or care about anything. I'm so used to keep everything to myself

[@melodybtob6291]

This is so me! Everyone thinks I'm so chill and don't care much about anything when in fact, I'm the one who cares and stresses about it the most. I just keep it to myself too.

[@tuyanabatobolotova1840]

The most experienced pressure for me is blood pressure I got headache when there is no update of Get Real episodes 😂😂😂

[@alydee0526]

10 minutes to the video: "Ashley's crush went to Jail" on my recommendations Me: BRO WTF HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHA

[@dollyanneliwanag3372]

I love Peniel's mentalityyyy.

[@annyeongchingu6572]

I really really like Ashely's hair.

[@ridarizvi9366]

"success is the best sort of revenge" wise words penelope, wise words.

[@inerkathe]

I really appreciate how detailed and vulnerable BM is (32 minutes in) about his anxiety/panic attack. Thank you for sharing that especially someone who deals with the same thing. We need more people like BM to open like this, this is normal it happens yall~ THANK YOU BM!

[@krishaagrawal1922]

I honestly think that speaking about health issues and anxiety an stuff on this platform is a really good thing...i mean not everyone can talk about their low days...it actually helps people to know that famous people or celebs have a really really tough life too (and not perfecr as they think) it also helps people to know that its pretty natural to have anxiety and how you can get over it and motivate yourself...so I thank you guys for sharing your stories and also making this podcast so fun

[@MickeyDubb]

I live for this podcast every week - wish they made them longer! Keep fighting 🥰

[@gisellel480]

I love listening to this podcast specifically because of them all being around my age and we all grew up in the states so a lot of the things they say are super relatable. One of my fav podcasts to date😊

[@MrsAlmightyKey]

IKR, when they started to list clothes that were booming from middle and high school girllllllll~~~~~ 😂😂😂😂😂

[@maowineun9801]

Hope they will guest red velvet wendy and henry here. Wendy never been in a podcast (?) and reveluv will definitely love to see her comfortable talking in english. And henry u guys probably know how henry is so hype. So yeah

[@2034niko]

I also want them to invite Wendy!! This would be the perfect schedule for her since she's still taking it slow. I just hope that, if she does get invited, she can talk about whatever she wants and SM doesn't restrict her.

[@nisaarumhidayati565]

yeah true true (in BM tone)

[@and-xl2ey]

Her company may not allow her

[@Tikam125]

There's something about Eric's voice that really calming. I love this podcast so much

[@n_z_a]

I REALLY WANT TO BE PENIEL'S FRIEND

[@Eri94]

My friends are having quarantine babies; I can't wait to hear them be called, "Coronials." hahaha But for real though, I can't imagine to have a baby right now. It's so crazy even tho I'm at an age that I should be having a family, it's like do I want kids or do I want a nice lifestyle that I have now? My parents are pushing about grandchildren and what not.

[@oBELYo]

BRUH!! In professional life i'm Peniel LOOOOL!! I just remembered that time i told the interviewer "i have a hella shitty attitude but i have the will to learn" and yes i got the job haha my boss told me it was bc i was not even trying to lie xp

[@asdfghjklz1228]

Dive Studios I just want to thank you for gettin these people talk about things on their own perspective, aside from its good for their Mental Health as idols but also good for the listeners mental health. This is fun and inspiring amidst this pandemic. God bless these people for sharing their inner thoughts about life 💙 Love you guys, keep safe! 💙

[@popcornandanime]

I honestly enjoy watching these podcast. When I work throughout the day and I get in certain mood, I’ll watch a podcast. It’s so insightful and the topics are real. They’re topics that I truly enjoy and everyone is so honest and fun. When I see people being themselves, laughing and vibing, my mood gets 100 times better. You can tell when people do things because they enjoy verses just doing it because you have to. Anyways~ back to the topic. I think people feel pressure by their environment. People have developed a single view of what success is. To some people, success it: having a car, spouse, and house by 25. Not just that, parental expectations is a HUGE piece in pressure. They want you to do what they couldn’t but sometimes that expectation gets to you and you never learn that it’s okay to fail. It’s okay. One thing about life is that you can fail and try again. Lastly, pressure to appease the world. When you do something to please others, you lose your way. You lose your confidence and positivity and the pressure gets heavier and heavier. Everything you do, do it for YOU. Wanna lose weight? Do it for you! Want to become a photographer? Do it for you! If you want to rap or sing? Do it for yourself.

[@joycenapiza]

This podcast totally lives for it's name get real. All of them are so genuine as if you're listening to your closest friends. Peniel,BM and Ashely's tandem is my favourite. I can see why Ashely's close to these amazing guys. She's honest, warm(as woosing said),genuine and respectful ❤

[@elizabethfeng7643]

Can you guys talk about how you deal with medical things when you are on stage? For example, if you get your period or get a cold.

[@hanimadu98]

I was so curious about the period especially when I see female idols wearing white shorts dancing like I cannot relate, when I have period cramps I barely can walk straight

[@alliahrose2878]

I will wait when Jae will be here! These group of people is really awesome! I love them!

[@dalkomlatte5822]

Most trainees: working super hard or else they die/no future Peniel: idk man im not going to die if I don't debut LOL

[@sheymag9142]

I related to this episode a lot. Paniel's mindset was very comforting during such trying times. The whole comparing to your siblings thing has happened to me too. At first it was everyone else who was compared to me but when I realized that I didn't win what I most desired out of that I kinda stopped being so "perfect". And then I ended up being compared to my big sister a lot, even during the "perfect" faze. I tried so hard to be better and to be my own individual but no matter how hard I tried I felt like I would never get there so I just tried to do it the way I wanted to but it seems like my parents still had a problem with that. However it's all good now. For me at least. This whole episode was needed and it was great. Very great so thank you guys!😊 Catch me relisten to this from time to time.

[@Angelina-ou6nu]

Already heard the podcast on Spotify but I’ll watch it again here

[@aneisap7517]

Eric just hit Peniel with that 20 cents ice cream.. Haha

[@fallfanaticstudent]

Yeah maybe in the 60s but then that would of been expensive for them.

[@kt-bl4zl]

I'm a person who usually never thought much.. but as I was growing up I started caring about what others think. Listening to peniel on his radio and podcast or just anywhere he speaks in English.. man I'm inspired and motivated to not give a flying funk.. thank you peniel 💙💙 btw I love btob

[@peacelife]

Great group haha Eric joined the gang. I feel like idols especially in Korea go through tremendous amount of stress bec the expectation. Nothing is right and netizen expects perfection but they forgot they are just like us following their dreams but a public figure that all. Thx for sharing Hwaitting!!! ✊✊✊. I been through what's Ashley been through. It crazy and though. Glad she is happier now and you all better now but we r here for u guys!!

[@whyisthisdifferentnow]

“Ain’t you like six foot five?!” - Eric Nam I don’t know why, but I die laughing at that everytime.

[@yasmin_xo0270]

I honestly don’t want BM to feel so pressured about Kards comeback song :( Let me tell you: IT‘S FIREE🔥🎉 it’s so good!! You’ve killed it with this one!!! Be proud of it!!❤️

[@2034niko]

I love this podcast because they are so real, you can feel they're actually friends and care about each other a lot. I makes me feel like I'm there having a conversation with my friends too! Damn virus, I miss my friends :(

[@KIWIGIRL0610]

Pressure is a result of expectations and ego, whether that is from yourself or from other people. The higher the expectation, the bigger the ego to achieve it. I dunno, just my opinion 🤷🏽

[@mapuia_ralte]

More like the bigger the ego, the higher the expectation

[@KIWIGIRL0610]

@@mapuia_ralte exactly! And the bigger the pressure.

[@euls02]

I love how they are so open talking about stress, anxiety and mental health because it's not only celebrities who experience these but also normal people.

[@ДаянаТхамокова]

When Ashley start talk about her stress experience and accident I almost cried My English is not that good, sorry

[@yapernyingainsley8609]

I love how in some episodes the guys just casually help Ashley to adjust her mic it’s very gentleman of them !

[@asdfghjklz1228]

I love you y'all esp uri Peniel! He makes me think life isn't that hard if we set right mindset for every situation

[@Iceydovefrost]

This conversation, when it lead to anxiety attacks, I genuinely teared up thinking of my own. As well as my negative mental health... *exhales* Exhausting.

[@Minaaamii]

I like how these podcasts are like just a group of friends hanging out cause it feels like you get a genuine and authentic conversation going that’s not forced while everyone’s sharing their insights and having fun

[@jasminegarza7246]

I honestly love how they talk about anxiety and pressure so openly. They’re humans just like the rest of us and they faced so many hardships that we don’t even know about. But I’m so glad to have stumbled upon this podcast especially while trying to finish college (already in my 6 year) the pressure to conform to society standard is astounding yet we should know that we should enjoy life

[@loveanddeath01]

It’s so relieving that even my idols get anxiety attacks, because I also went through one recently. You guys are not alone! We can get through it together.

[@ida8346]

i really felt that when ashley talked about agoraphobia! i have it and its really not fun. You want to go out sometimes but you're too afraid and afraid of having panic/anxiety attacks, or simply doesn't have the energy to be around people. Its hard, there's pressure, and you lose friendships. You can't really do the easy things like you can't go out and shop, you can't go to school, you can't be with your friends, can't hang out with your family beside when you're home. And people looks weird at you when you say you have agoraphobia, and that the things that is easy for everyone else is so hard for you to do. Its really hard to enjoy things and live your life. Im glad that she is better now, at least i hope so!

[@armella.h]

I feel for Matthew when he talked about his anxiety attack! Omg and Ashley seemed really sad when Eric shared his story too! Idols life is so hard!good luck to them

[@morninglight92]

I've got to know about Eric's songs a few months ago, and I remember thinking, "Oh, this guy's songs are great". But, somewhere along the way, I've lost sigh of him and only rediscover him through BM/Dive Studio thanks to me getting interested into KARD's activities. But I just want to say, I am so proud of Eric Nam making it to where he is right now, and the courage it takes to give up the easy life he could have led to a more fulfiling life doing what he truly loves 💕

[@TeeTop_]

The discussion about anxiety/panic attacks....man! I had one at work a couple years ago in front of my supervisor. 😖 I started breathing heavy and then suddenly burst into tears.

[@kristinazayfert]

I'm 26 and still trying to figure out how to deal with pressure. Sometimes I wish I don't have any pressure in my life, but at the same time I understand that a pressure can be a trigger that lead you to a better you.

[@yoongy1]

Came back here today ..... I always appreciate watching Get Real episodes in my free time.

[@aiseu_bingseu]

You would never know eric is a guest in any of dive podcast unless stated or introduced. I mean he's so good he could blends in with the hosts

[@-7vnxi-123]

Yo Peniel is such a laidback n chill guy. No cap I have so much respect for him.

[@zs-j6221]

The way Eric's coffee and phone were on the edge of the table had me on edge throughout this video...like there was so much space on that table 😂

[@sangk4550]

Why peniel is so chill is because of his mindset... His mindset is really something applaudable.. life is easier that way...

[@arenjamir3983]

Eric Nam on get real is a double treat💖 Thank you DS for inviting Eric to this show❤

[@koalacruz787]

peneil and his "freeky, freeky".... seriously...

[@juna111]

That was a really good talk. Thanks to you guys. I’m in my 30s now, struggling with life and my decisions. Feeling a lot of pressure. Its interesting to see, that even though we don’t live in the same country (I’m from Germany), have different cultures and complete different jobs, we are facing similar challenges, dealing with similar issues and have a lot in common. I think dealing with pressure and stress is one of the biggest problems nowadays.

[@01s10]

I can't even say how much I love this program. It's like I've got a new surprise every week. All the topics are so good.

[@lakwatserang.bicolana]

Success is the best form of revenge - Peniel 2020

[@erinxxiv8837]

been binge-watching get real for days now and it's really entertaining.

[@javelinrivera5280]

0:38 Bossman being a bossman and fixing Ashley's mic lol.

[@AnerevRel]

these are such important convos to have and normalize, thank you Dive Studios for facilitating them and of course Ashley, Matthew, Peniel and Eric for sharing their experiences

[@Javea97]

This episode was almost too real. I could relate to a lot of things they have talked about before but the talk about anxiety, panic attacks and depression took me back to a time when I wasn't doing well. It's like listening to close friends having a talk because you feel like they have been there to and they understand you. I really love this podcast. It makes me smile, laugh, cry and it feels real

[@circlinq]

Peniel: I noticed I was stressed because of my hair also Peniel: I don't think I get stressed sdjkfhdsjfhkdjhgdkf BOY 😂😂😂💕💕

[@heidiv.1894]

this literally helped me find the meaning behind pressure and what it means to myself and other people bc lately I’ve been feeling stressed without knowing it myself and i felt like i could relate to each one of you especially Eric bc I do get sick when I’m stressed in some way so this kind of helped understand what pressure really is, thank you guys this was amazing!!!

[@alelopez6796]

I was waiting for this 🙌🏻🙌🏻 FINALLY

[@calmthefdown789]

Eric gave up his consulting role at Deloitte to become a singer. Deloitte’s one of my dream companies I hope I can make it there x

[@lindycoulee]

for some reason I just KNEW eric was going to introduce himself while whispering i-

[@tamannakumari4493]

I miss having these type of conversations with my friends.......dayummm this pandemic 😑😑

[@charred6683]

Get discord or something, we don't need a physical existence anymore we can live through the internet!

[@jennifergeorge2472]

Y'all have friends to talk about this?

[@tamannakumari4493]

@@jennifergeorge2472 😂😂 yass....

[@trap7581]

@@jennifergeorge2472 OMG hahaha

[@crimeshortsfile]

Eric Nam: And u start to question everything.. BM: Yeah!bro, Life,what is life? Peniel : I don't think I've done that ..😅 (so chill...that positivity) 🤧💙

[@heather21tran]

Damn BM I really just appreciate you sharing your story about your anxiety attack so much. I’m sorry that it happened but I’m super glad it was cathartic for you!! Eric really responded well to that and I was so sad to hear about his stress struggles too :( peniel is literally the best person hahah I’ve really loved him through this series!!!

[@m.arya.m]

My fav episode with all my favourite people talking about topics that I can relate a lot, pressure and anxiety attacks. This has to be the best episode so far!

[@ThoughXperiment]

Consider having Eric as regular member! He's so cute, nice and smart, love him 😍

[@bonniesoliz6769]

Thank you guys so much for sharing! I’m currently in college and plan on going to medical school. I’m like Eric and put a ton of pressure on myself. I’ve also struggled with both stress induced gastritis and colitis. I’ve also struggled with panic attacks. It’s nice to know that I’m not alone and that everyone stresses. I love this podcast, y’all, and all of the encouragement y’all give!

[@day6myday15]

the pressure of getting good grades and being on the top really sucks and tiring, but at some point u really can't stop from exhausting yourself once u started pressuring yourself.

[@angiecoco4329]

I love how open they are about their mental health

[@koalacruz787]

acknowledging the importance of the managers is GREAT. hope that other people see their essence beyond protecting their herd from intrusive and exxag fans.

[@saturnwoo]

Peniel is so chill and cool about everything 😂

[@Zeal57007]

CEO,VP, Director: "if you don't debut, yo gon' die!” Peniel: "..........., But I'm not" Help me, i cant with peniel 😂

[@chiuhuahua]

Just wanted to say thank you for being so honest about your own experiences (esp about mental health and stuff) and putting out great podcasts! Just recently found these podcasts and I really like them, esp this episode cuz am having a hard time mentally dealing with COVID, political issues back home and just life in general but this episode made me feel a lot better because hearing that idols and ppl around my age also struggle with these things and that other people are also struggling mentally with this COVID thing just shows that we are all human and it's ok to not be ok sometimes. Thank you again for the podcast and please keep them coming!! Stay healthy everyone

[@user-tt5tw3ut1x]

I’m just going through watching all of their podcasts to help me get through school work I swear they’re so entertaining and make time go by so much faster!!!