Get To Know My Fiancé | How We Met, Age Difference, His Job

[@silentstellarechos]

“You’re quite mature” he says. My mind flashes to images of Taylor shoving false eyelashes up her nose and making herself into a flower arrangement. 😂❤️ I love these guys.

[@user-qo7vq6yx8q]

DEAD 😂😂😂😂😂

[@nyxion2771]

BHAHAHAHAH😂😂

[@NeverAloneNeverAfraid]

Hahaha that was her????? That used to crack me up

[@cakeordeath7810]

It pisses me off that people call him your sugar daddy. Immature mentalities aren't able to see past what they would do.

[@yglove8138]

CakeOrDeath yeah I was like what that’s disrespectful if the person who asked that question is her fan they should know better than anyone that she is very independent and I never doubted her marrying elbow san for his money because I can clearly see that she loves him as much as he loves her♥️

[@blee3264]

if you think that's bad... well... it's worse for us guys... my girlfriend was 10 years older than me. during the beginning of relationship, when we go out to restaurants, especially fancy ones, the waiters frequently just put the checks on HER side of the table...kind of embarrassing and awkward for me. what made it worse was that she made almost 20 times what I was making, so she always was buying things for me. I didn't want to hurt her feelings, so I just accepted them without saying anything. that made my friends/family think that I was a male gold digger or something.

[@moony1222]

that pissed me off too, like hello we all saw Tay's growth and we see how independent she is, and if you look at their relationship you can totally tell that they still so in love with eachother, so disrespectful to say something like that. I guess jealousy does really make you ugly.

[@zhaoruosen3337]

when a 20 something year old is dating a 40+ year old, I don't blame these people for thinking that he is her suger daddy. After all, there are many girls who would marry someone they don't love just for money. But I am glad this is not the case with Taylor.

[@blee3264]

as long as two people are in love, it's really nobody else's business... I wish them a lifetime of joy, wealth, sex, happiness and of course, love. :)

[@alishac5096]

Now that you have a baby together and things have changed so much I would love to see another relationship q&a with you and Tom!

[@chantybo1]

Y'all are literally aging like fine wine. Taylor you're gorgeous and your future husband looks your age!

[@LetsStopThisSong]

Chantelle Cudlip she’s so beautiful, my mom thought she was my age (22), and elbow san also looks very young (he isn’t even old tho)

[@pixiegem]

What time stamp do you see him ?

[@BreannaBaozi]

Gemma June His face has been on her Instagram a few times in the last year or so. You can see him there! But he doesn’t get in the videos because he’s pretty private. That’s why only his arm is in the video here LOL

[@mmxxmxm]

How old is she?

[@monbb_1806]

@@mmxxmxm 30 or 31

[@mkwaterz]

It’s so sweet and mature of you to be respectful of his boundaries

[@kaileydavis]

Karla M I stumbled upon their channel because I just posted a fiance tag and wanted to see what others were like, adorbs!!!

[@amberallen1230]

My husband and I have an 11 year age difference. I feel the same as you. Age is just a number. We get each other, we have the same dreams and we love each other and that is all that matters. You guys are so cute and I wish you happiness :)

[@flowerpower2082]

Me and my boyfriend have an 11 year age gap as well 😂💖 love is love!

[@usagikuma8]

i have 13...!!! never has gotten in the way. it's real!

[@oqeufh]

My parents have a 12 and a half year difference, they never really felt the age gap until recently cause they're both getting older and my dad (he's older) is becoming a bit of a grumpy grandpa and my mom now is like I'm gonna have to stand his grumpiness lol. Anyway they had me and been married for 25 years so yeah it doesn't matter.

[@bbghoul_x]

Me and my fiance have a 9 yr gap and we been together for 5 years and 11 months :)

[@TheWaterMinx]

My husband and I are 15 years apart. If I'm a golddigger, I did it wrong, though, haha! My husband works hard and is financially stable, but we're far from rich! We just love each other and get along great! I'm an old soul and he's young at heart; there are many times I feel like the older one. We're a cross-cultural couple too. There were things to work out, but as Tay said, communication is key. We're best friends and love spending time together. We've been married five years and are expecting our first child. We couldn't be happier!

[@sharlainjapan]

You guys are such a good match☺️♥️ I love how you support and bring the best out in each other👫

[@kaileydavis]

Sharmander I agree they are so cute! I stumbled upon their channel because I just posted a fiance tag and wanted to see what others were like, adorbs!!!

[@jei-has-thoughts]

That sugar daddy concept, girl I felt that on so many levels! My partner and I have a 15yr age gap but for us it didn't matter. We realized that our standards, moral values, ideas, etc. aligned so well that there was a potential to grow as a couple. It's been 10 yrs and I do not regret the decision of having him as my significant other. People just love gossiping; at this point I just let them (I'm too old and too tired to fire back). If I was with someone for their money, I would have rinsed them and moved on to the next 😂 people, it's 2018, love comes in all forms and sizes ❤️❤️❤️

[@a.o9656]

My husband is 10yrs older and yes thay sugar daddy concept. Well i wish it was real because that would mean we'd actually be rich instead of on struggle street hahahahahhaha

[@ioanaprovo6513]

My mom and dad are 10 years appart. They balance eachother. Some people don't understand that even though you have a certain age, your emotional and mental age can be totally different. Honestly, I find that people who feel the need to point fingers at others and nitpick, usually are unhappy with their own choices and have a very limited vision of life.

[@a.o9656]

Well i hope both my kids feel the same when theyre older too. Lol. We never spoke about our story and age gap with them.

[@jillsanders7072]

I fear my partner dying much sooner than I:( how do I get over this fear

[@fionalu37]

Jei Ibarra Hi Jei, is it ok for me to ask what kind of topics you guys usually talk about? What if you’re both not in the same continent and only call each other for a few hours a day? Is it weird to ask? If it is and you’re not comfortable to answer, please ignore me. Have a nice day ❤️

[@reinak1063]

9:10 Rosie is basically how excited I am about this video

[@kemsaigon1980]

12 years different, but you share the same astrological sign (Chinese, that is.)

[@Taylor_R]

🐉🐉

[@imelkozlov8585]

11!! 💃💃

[@lapucellet]

12 years is nothing my parents are 18 years apart

[@icha931]

My parents are 15 and they love each other till now, most important they have 2 child 😄

[@pandapoof8798]

I am shocked that he's 41. Elbow San looks amazing! I'm 30 and it's true that when you hit your mid 20s something shifts and you really find yourself. When you find someone who's compatible it means the world. I really enjoyed getting to know you guys more. Thank you so much for sharing.

[@chiefbogo3282]

“Whatever you do I’ll support you” where can I find myself an Elbow-San

[@luarosie]

For! Realz!!

[@Rain-fg3xh]

❤️ Elbow-San!

[@ab-xr9wf]

is HE Japanese?

[@Rain-fg3xh]

那由星野 - I believe he’s Chinese

[@lunasbitch6753]

Is his name actually elbow??

[@alana7088]

@@lunasbitch6753 no

[@lunasbitch6753]

@@alana7088 I'm so confused

[@AmmieeXO]

HES 41!? I wouldn’t have even said he was 30 😱

[@lipa7329]

Yeah he looks so young! But glad he is so awesome and makes Tay happy :)

[@ioanaprovo6513]

Ikr?! I literally choked on air. Dayum

[@dooi722]

how old she is?

[@BreannaBaozi]

استغفر الله almost 30

[@vickst0892]

Same!

[@liz5892]

I have never watched any of her videos. This is the first one and I'm going to subscribe. I really love how she is quick to compliment him right after he mentions what is great about her. She doesn't hesitate and is so sure about why she loves him. Another thing I noticed is that she recognizes that she has flaws and isn't afraid to grow from them. She is a beautiful person. That's all.

[@ZoraVRS]

This is how a woman in her 30s should look like. I'm 34 and get so angry when people tell me I don't look my age. 34 is very young, how am I supposed to look, are you kidding me? You make a great couple, and congrats on your engagement Taylor

[@embyd5527]

everyone is different. genes + sunscreen make the dif

[@jasminflowerz1710]

Oh my goodness, so true!!

[@barbarradevlin9111]

@@embyd5527 diet, stress management, and exercise also impact how one looks in their 30’s. I’m glad you pointed this out too!

[@barbarradevlin9111]

I agree. I work in a tobacco store, and many of my customers that are in their 30’s will act like they’re sooo old. I always make sure to let them know that they’re not. While their brain has now fully developed, they’re in their first decade of fully developed maturity. It’s nothing to be ashamed of, in fact it should be CELEBRATED! Your 30’s-50’s are some of your best years of life if you let it be! Your 20’s are for finding out who you are and where you fit in society. You’re learning and exploring. Every decade provides its own opportunities. 🙂

[@Abby-ug4xc]

@@barbarradevlin9111 I fully agree with your sentiment, but I have to wonder how much the tobacco is aging their minds and bodies.... :(

[@moony1222]

I can’t believe elbow-San is 41, asian people really do look younger, but anyway it doesn’t feel like you have an age difference at all, such great couple❤️

[@Misspennylemon]

Vica Laytman how do you know? We only see his arm

[@moony1222]

Misspennylemon in older videos she showed their pics and the engagement video has a lot of him

[@Misspennylemon]

Oh okay. Thanks

[@LetsStopThisSong]

Misspennylemon check her insta she’s showed some pictures of him!

[@LillyEve1]

I know right, and it looks like he has zero grey hairs (unless he dyes them). My husband will turn 41 in about 2 weeks and he has a TON of grey hair already. :-(

[@moonriver3996]

Elbow-san seems such a sweet and kind soul!! I like him a lot and im so happy you two are together, such a wonderful couple! 💜

[@Taylor_R]

He really is! Thanks for your kind comment ❤️

[@lipa7329]

Elbow-san looks so young for being 41!:O he indeed is so awesome, happy for Tay:)

[@1997natascha]

Omg!! You're 29..... I'm shocked, you look sooooo young, your skin looks 15 😯❤

[@saralind5766]

people like you makes me so angry. you are very Young at 29, your skin looks old at maybe 40. thats just rude to write that you are shocked wtf!!!

[@yukiqueen4805]

She’s cute.

[@yukiqueen4805]

sara lind you’re jealous. Hey most of girls have normal almost clear skin. Taylor puts on makeup. Lol you’re getting upset of some other woman talking about another girl’s skin. 😂

[@lasauce7580]

29 is still young tho

[@lasauce7580]

Yuki Queen your comment just doesn’t make sense

[@cedar8702]

"he is a scorpio I'll say that" i frigign spit my water out and screamed

[@laurah2113]

Your age difference is nothing because you are almost 30 you are not a child at all, why wouldn't you be mature, you are 29!

[@Cloclow30]

Some people are really immature no matter how old they are, age means almost nothing in terms of maturity :) I guess that's what she meant

[@alquizar92]

They have been dating for a very long time 7 years or more. She was very young when she met him

[@laurah2113]

Bellie Boo i think its less than that, still she wasn't like 18 or something, their age difference is big but they started when she was already a woman so it's practically nothing

[@ellenaivanovych4916]

@@laurah2113 so?

[@laurah2113]

hey hello I'm not hating I'm just stating a fact because when ppl think age differences is problem is when one of the ppl in the relationship is underage not like them!! so it's not creepy and it's not wrong

[@quinnharley6784]

10 seconds in and i have to say - you are so so beautiful! you're just stunning. lately you've seemed so bright and lovely. you seem so happy - it shines through :) I can't wait to watch the video!

[@Taylor_R]

Aww thank you!! ❤️❤️

[@yuzumikan7187]

I’ve always admired you and after watching this video, I feel close to you guys more!! I just got married last summer with the guy who’s Canadian (I’m Japanese) and 14 years older than me. I love him but I was nervous about culture difference and age gap before. I’m more comfortable and have confidence now tho. When elbow San said that he couldn’t speak English much at first, I was like meee tooooooo!!!!lol I’m still learning everyday. Also when you guys said that age, gender, culture don’t matter, let them speak coz it’s not the case, I was almost gonna cry. Yes that’s right!! We know it’s true love. Our families know that we love each other. Our friends know that we have really good relationship and that’s all matter!! I’m not gonna let anyone to put me down anymore. I’m proud of my relationship!!! Thank you for sharing your story Taylor and elbow San!!! Love you two soooo much♡

[@jillsanders7072]

0124 ringohat I fear my partner dying way before me though:(

[@bellkayl928]

@@jillsanders7072same thought🙊

[@h0neychai]

Holy shit taylor this whole time I thought u were like only 21 and I’ve been watching ur vids for 3 yrs LOL

[@ibaby6346]

29?!I was thinking you are 23...

[@chantybo1]

They're both aging amazingly

[@cristinab537]

I'm glad I'm not the only one who thought this!

[@electricpurple4112]

Yeah 29 often looks a ton like 23. It’s true. It’s kind of low key rude when people go “gasp but you don’t look (any age past 21)”

[@NicolePikapi]

E R you get used to it. I’m 29 as well and I’ve been told my whole life, “you’ll love it when you’re 30” lol

[@ficklexfreckle]

Yeah everyone always says omg you dont look 29! I'm like...dang is 29 really that old? Kinda depressing!

[@lindalately]

Honestly, I really respect that you don’t give too much info of your relationship but just enough. Social media can be such an invasion of privacy sometimes.

[@christinamakin583]

I think it’s great and very cute how you found a middle ground to do this video in a way that you were both comfortable with. You guys are relationship goals - supporting each-other, while not loosing yourself in the process.

[@RobertHeslop]

That's why I liked how a teacher once taught my class "age is just a number, if you see eye-to-eye with someone and love with the heart, then isn't that what you look for in a relationship with someone?"

[@user-nj2rs2in4j]

Elbow-San -> Upgrade to Arm-San😂❤️

[@veryberrybeth]

You two are so supportive of each other and the love you have for one another really shows💕 I can’t wait to meet my own elbowsan haha

[@preciousstyles6029]

She is very mature in her thoughts. Age doesnt matter where is love, respect, and understanding in a relationship. They are a perfect couple.

[@nicolecorreia923]

What. He is 41?? He looks like 30ish omg

[@SteveEricJordan]

Nicole Correia where do you see him?

[@PassionPno]

@@SteveEricJordan Taylor showed his face quite a few times in her videos and on Instagram.

[@Jull95]

I think he looks pretty much his age. On the other hand, she looks at most 20 to me. Well, I think 12 year age difference would be unnoticeable if she was the older one... If I were her, I'd rather go for younger dudes, especially because she claims to be very independent. But that's everybody's choice and honestly, good luck with that!

[@defiantaichi]

@@Jull95 you totally missed the part where she talks about falling in love with him as a person I guess.

[@Sherrycake]

I think its super sweet that he doesn’t care what people say or think he is a sugar daddy because he knows better! Its also super sweet how supportive he is. In that way you can notice he is a bit older and more mature. I don’t know i think i haven’t been lucky with guys, just acting too young and wild 😂

[@jillianjacques4190]

I love this so much! Social media is all about human connection and I think you've finally breached that barrier in a way that compliments your lifestyle based channel. I know it was tricky because explaining everything entailed releasing super private details that clearly were out of your comfort zone, but I'm so glad you did this in your own time despite the pressure you received. There will always be haters but this kind of content is REALLY going to pull in a lot of new people who relate and understand you. This is my favorite video you've made so far.

[@Taylor_R]

Thank you so much! I really appreciate your comment and was terrified to post this (held onto it for 2 weeks).. having this connection with you makes it worth it ❤️

[@jillianjacques4190]

@@Taylor_R It's really no problem! I've always found it easy to relate to you, so it always hurt me to see so many people attacking you without entertaining the plethora of things that could be going through your head around so many hot topic issues. It never seemed fair. I'm so happy that you're finally able to own your truth without worrying about people twisting your reality

[@MartinaTakano]

Very respectful introduction of your fiancé. I feel it is difficult to balance between being respectful and showing someone off like a zoo animal. Your asset is your creativity. People always say you have a sugar daddy when you are beautiful.

[@twincherry4958]

I think it's when the guy is wealthy.

[@Ok-vr8fu]

twin cherry people just assumed cuz they lived in a nice place and stuff. No one really knows about their situation but themselves ofc. But I’m glad they’re happy and married now :)

[@gamesplayground5857]

Honestly she’s stable enough to pick other guy this is just purelove

[@sporkalin12]

My brain musta knew you were gonna upload this cause I just woke up from a dream where I was third wheeling with you and elbow-san on a family holiday!

[@lemonycakez]

Ratfish 😂👌🏻

[@michaelakofidou6072]

Your hair looks so good! Such a good choice to chop it off

[@littlewhitedove12]

My parents are 12 years apart too. I actually really loved it as a kid because it gave me a wider perspective on things that happened in the past because they remembered it differently. It's never bothered me that people have an age difference. I definitely think that once you're older, it doesn't feel as much like an age gap as much as needing to be similar in values.

[@witchyel]

I have no idea what to say.. I'm just so proud of you. Your whole view on love beyond age, gender, and race is so wise and beautiful. You and Elbow-San are wonderful together and I really hope that you'll live life happily together. 💜 Edit: I loved the nature scene near the end and the birds in the back with Taylor's voice. So aesthetic💗

[@user-zm2fq5xf1u]

I remember when elbowsan was just an elbow

[@Noeohno]

How are you almost at a million it feels like it was yesterday when you had like 70k and I subscribed it’s so great to see how much you grew ahhhh I‘m emotional

[@pandalessa]

yeah!!! i had the same thought!

[@goaticorn8702]

I'm not QUITE that OG but I def came in when she was a loooot lower like maybe 250 subs or something and even since then I've been really stunned at how fast she's grown.

[@jakiazhhabzgstaruiszjjzg3165]

I was her 30 000 subscriber 😢 why kids gRoW up so fast lmao

[@chantaleperron]

Great discussion, thank to both of you, I think we really got to know your boyfriend (sorry, I dont remember his name...) , and also know more about your beautiful relationship. Taylor I must say I started to follow you because I was watching Sharla, and at the begenning, it was more curiosity, but your personnality was a little weird to me :) !!!....but in the last year or two, you worked so much on yourself, you blossom, got more mature but keeping that funny creative side of you that I love so much. You are really beautiful insideout. And, finally , one important thing I must say is Thank you for your generosity to share with thousand of people your personnal life and couple life, and to show a great example of what real love and real life is: made of ups and downs, but persever in your love life, not quit your boyfriend and go with lots of guys at the first difficulty, or just because there is one thing that bugs you, etc. We dont have so many exemples on tv or movie of all you have to do to keep a long couple life...I thing both of you named the essentiel things you need: respect, communication, taking care of each other familly, interest in each other passion and having a part of your life where you're different and independant. Sorry for the long comment, but I wanted to tell you all that Taylor, I'm so happy for you, even if I dont know you personnally. You're gonna have a beautiful life and I wish to you both luck and hapiness....

[@reneelemay6417]

Who cares about age. My husband is 10 years younger than I am....and we have been together for 11 years married for 10 of them. Age means nothing

[@HannahRulzzzzzz]

I'm going to say it matters if the person is under 18 because that's illegal and wrong

[@freezyberries]

Mystical Amber bro chill

[@reneelemay6417]

Yeah no shit. I would not think that is okay either.....someone under 18 never crossed my mind.

[@kaileydavis]

Renee Lemay AGREED!!!!!!! So silly, I stumbled upon their channel because I just posted a fiance tag and wanted to see what others were like, adorbs!!!

[@michalovesanime]

@@reneelemay6417 but even 19,20,21... Saying age doesn't matter is ignoring braindevelopment and power dynamics.. It matters less after 25

[@Noeohno]

41 AS IF I REALLY THOUGHT HE‘S 35 AT MAX Asian really doesn’t raisin damn

[@DieAlteistwiederda]

My mother's friend just turned 50 and I swear she still looks like she is in her 30ies at most. Her husband also looks super young. Both of them are Vietnamese but lived in Germany for the past about 30+years now.

[@Noeohno]

@I Quote Randomly From Books True my great grandma looked so young until she was like 70 and suddenly she was all shrunken and cute

[@Noeohno]

@@DieAlteistwiederdawell hey there fellow german

[@LetsStopThisSong]

they really don’t! i thought he was in his 30s too!

[@ellieblair46]

I laughed so hard at that

[@ooXChrissieXoo]

haha what Chinese mom would pamper you when you're sick... mine was like blame me for getting sick, still send me to school because there's nothing you can do when you're sick.

[@isabelrivas1745]

ooXChrissieXoo Yep my mom would get mad at me for getting sick and then tell me it’s because I didn’t drink enough water 😂😂😂

[@Taranymph]

Same here, my mom scolds me whenever I got sick. She gets so mad and made me feel super guilty for feeling sick.

[@thatonenamja4835]

ooXChrissieXoo you can rest

[@maychao5071]

Asian moms be mad when kids got sick and blame their kids for not drinking enough water & playing phones for too long.

[@LilPoopsie]

My mom is white and she told me I better get on that bus or I'm gonna be walking my ass there lol

[@ericleeSupSayK]

Some of the comments are delusional. What personality, the guy is monotone and there is a language barrier, I don’t see them clicking in the beginning so him being well off and successful definitely help him get this girl. Yea they are great, people can learn to like and love each other so him being where he was at financially definitely propelled this relationship. Can’t lie about the fact that the girl definitely saw his success and money a priority because she saw him as financial secured.

[@mariahgeex]

I ALWAYS THOUGHT ELBOW SAN WAS HIS ACTUAL NAME HAHAHA

[@serapia1976]

He's Tom, I think.

[@nimrahussain2569]

Mariah Thorpe I SWEAR!

[@GuillermoRodriguez-gu3oq]

His middle name is hand

[@azusatakahashi1669]

I think elbow san words himself really well in English! My Dad is Asian and my mum is Western so I have a soft spot for this couple :)

[@amandalui5964]

My husband is Asian so it's lovely to watch a couple who have had similar experiences to us ☺

[@SarahLynn__]

Is not he from Hong Kong? They speak English.

[@BrownEyedGirl-15]

Would never have guessed he was 41, maybe 28-30ish. Elbow-san what is your secret for staying so youthful!

[@DieAlteistwiederda]

Having amazing Asian genes I guess because I know a few people from different Asian countries who look so much younger than they are. I mean my European/German mother also doesn't look 67 but not everyone is that lucky.

[@carmindi5061]

No way he looks late 20s. More like middle 30s.

[@lunarblueberry1669]

She shows him on camera? On what minute? I didn't get to see him lol i am curious

[@breakfastattiffanys741]

Asian DNA haha.

[@SarahLynn__]

I thought he was 35 top.

[@achanwahn]

My parents are 12 years apart. Never made a difference.

[@hazeylulu]

I had my first boyfriend at the age of 21. Who was 7 years older than me and that only lasted 6 months. He wasn't for me and i wasn't ready to settle down since i was still enjoying my life. Then just last year after being single for 8 years im with someone who is 4 years younger than me🤣 I'm deeply in love with my boyfriend now and he's way more mature than me! Such a jolly humble soul 💕

[@iheartlouiscarrot]

Omg Taylor! We’ve all been waiting for this for soooo long! Lots of love to your beautiful family ❤️❤️❤️

[@Taylor_R]

❤️❤️❤️

[@laurawaschbar9940]

Haha, I don't think that Taylor has the personality to be a sugargirl. She works her a. Off for her career. I am so happy for you both to be this happy and be together ♡

[@LetsStopThisSong]

Laura Waschbär right. she does her own thing and has worked A LOT

[@smooth_Koala]

Yea lmao even if she wanted to she's just not a sugarbaby like personality is just too strong :)

[@laurawaschbar9940]

@@smooth_Koala me too :D

[@m_890]

worked "youtubing" and "modeling"? lmao

[@alihawkins8264]

And now they are having a baby ☺️

[@klarastern5597]

what I found very helpful: when there is a problem, you don't fight each other... you both fight the problem...

[@lauraelainedesilets1189]

I have never seen anything unkind or odd about Elbow san. He is a very loving caring and kind man. Money, Age..Race all that is secondary to character. I wish you the best. He is right about the person you are. Challenges come and you are best friends. Scott is Japanese..Nov 4, 23 years together now. ❤❤❤❤❤🐇

[@gabbievillarreal8905]

I'm thankful for all the advice you gave because I think it's something my boyfriend and I needed to make our relationship better! I hope yall keep growing in your relationship and that yall make each other happy 💕 love u

[@Hoshikouture]

Totally relate to the language barriers-- my husband was born and grew up in Japan and he couldn't speak English very well when we first met. We actually talked a lot online and got to know each other well there since it was the golden age of AOL and msn instant messaging haha I love how much respect you two have for each other

[@lua604]

On a side note, you are both self made when it comes to your careers, you should really explore that more. Maybe do one video for your journey/advice and another one for elbow san’s. I am sure you would be able to help and inspire a lot of people to follow their dreams (me included) ☺️

[@karenkiryu9337]

Tys mom sounds like my mom 😂 unless I'm dying she'll take me to the doctor. But thanks to that I have a strong immune system!

[@bokuroo3895]

karen kiryu same cbnvk

[@daianosis]

Same I've never been to the doctor for a simple cold but my immune system still isn't strong lol

[@fatimaurquizorobalino9984]

Hahahaha me too. Now I never get sick lol

[@arcanedame3015]

After Marzia left KZbin I started to get really worried about everyone else I follow. I underestimated how closely I feel to all of them and enjoy their presence 💖 you’re one of those people and sincerely hope you have a longer future here and will continue enjoying yourself and the community you’ve made, you keep growing both your channel and you as a person! I guess all I really mean to say is- THANK YOU FOR BEING YOU 😭💖💌

[@JKD6991]

Taylor, you have a strong sense of what you want in life and a good sense of morals. Age is only a number, as long as you two love each other is what really matters. Good luck in everything you both do and continue giving us more videos!

[@sadiealexis1879]

Literally how my ex and I’s relationship was. He was originally from Austria/Germany and his English wasn’t as good when we first started and by time we split up his English was amazing. I like to give myself credit for that😂😂

[@KristenPimley]

A previous boyfriend and I had an age difference of 16 years - I was 22, he was 38 (but everyone swore he looked 27!). We met at university. I didn't realize his age at first, but quickly we realized that our values were the same and we moved past it. I liked that we could both introduce the other person to new things, and he told me that my energy kept him young. Our thought processes complimented each other well, and we lasted 2 years! We only split because our careers were headed in different directions and we didn't want to do long distance. As long as you are consenting adults, age really is just a number!

[@jillsanders7072]

Kristen Marie Pimley I fear my partner dying much sooner than me:(

[@serapia1976]

@@jillsanders7072 Omg :/// exercise tgt!!!

[@s.kaiyisah3710]

She matured that’s why they could click even with that big age gap , which tbh i never know they have ??? And elbow sans didn’t really look like he was 41 ? Wtf i taught he was like 30 something or late 20 .

[@jholo9922]

I haven't finished watching the video. What he's 41? Ok. I actually thought he's about 30 or over 30 years old and I thought she's 22 or younger than 25 but I didn't know both of them are that old. No offence, I was just shocked. Especially when I found she's 29. 😳

[@SamuRai-dn5xl]

Ewws them getting freaky tho lmaao

[@bri6627]

Aw, Elbow-San sounds so sincere and grounded! I can definitely see the love between the two of you!

[@siliinnorway]

Always going to bed with a kiss and a "I love you" is something me and my husband always live by. Also about age difference, it's true it doesn't really matter in the end. My husband is as much as 8 years younger than I am and he is a thousand times more mature than my ex who was 5 years older than me.

[@victorianones2369]

Literally clicked on this instantly 😂 love y'all!

[@kirstyindark4972]

Holy shit no way is he 41? He looks flipping amazing.. he legit looks 25 🤣❤

[@rachellebarone1915]

When do you see his face 😐

[@safira5636]

Kirstyindark, at what time do you see his face?

[@hinatahyuga1429]

Rachelle Barone seriously that’s what I want to know

[@safira5636]

Nico Robin, She posted a picture with him on her Instagram.

[@Lyn4817]

We have never gone to bed angry, we always resolve any issues and we have been married 51 years in July.

[@AsianIsMe]

Thank you Elbow-san for supporting and encouraging Taylor to pursue her dreams! You were an essential part of this KZbin channel! Thank you for continuing to share yourself with us! Also I must add you both are aging gracefully! And it was nice to hear that you both had to work on communication at the beginning, cause I had assumed Elbow-san knew English prior to meeting you. I'm currently in I guess you could say "international" relationship, we're both Asian so not exactly interracial lol I'm Vietnamese-American and he's Japanese so google translate is our friend sometimes, and so the advice you guys gave will be really helpful to me!

[@jo_sco]

Never clicked on anything so fast

[@TiaChii]

I keep looking at your fingers and hands, they are so beautiful! And i like your story, maybe im a bit the same. My boyfriend is 10 years older and he is korean while im european. We however only know each other for a year and a half now hahahha

[@robingoeritz4521]

What? Elbow - san looks so young! I thought he would be in his 30s. I feel like you guy are so good together, you are really respectful to each other and my heart hurts every time I see how much you guys love each other !

[@NALUSAMI]

Just arrived and liked!!! 💕💕💕

[@whamlovesyouu]

You guys are soooo cute together :) congrats Taylor!

[@M7890V]

"We're both really into coffee..." I had a flashback of when you guys had that expensive poo coffee... haha...

[@plful]

I love how you guys are so understanding and accepting of each other and of any differences you might have. I think we're all inherently raised to think that our culture and ways of doing things is the best and sometimes it's hard for a person to accept that there are other ways of thinking and doing things in different cultures. Some people think "My culture is the best. The way these people do things is weird. Why are they doing/saying that? That's so stupid". But I think the love you and Elbow-san have for one another could have only been made possible with your open minds and willingness to understand and learn about one another and each other's cultures

[@rybird2010]

My husband and I have been married for 15 yrs and have been together for 18 yrs. I'm still learning things about him even after all these yrs. We've seen each other at our best and at our worst. Love the fact that you are willing to share this with us.

[@bakakeiisbaka]

When Taylor said elbow-san was a Scorpio I SCREAMED 😂 Yay fellow scorpio!!! 💕

[@yaizag.montez5669]

Ohhhh..cant wait for your vlogmas...

[@Biklar]

Yes! Same here. Looking forward to it! :)

[@laurahellwig7272]

Random sidenote: Taylor has really nice hands/fingers :)

[@zbe6426]

Seriously though, I 100% agree with the supportive husband/fiancé thing. My husband was the first boyfriend who encouraged me to surpass myself and achieve my dreams. Those guys are the best! So happy for you! You guys look so happy together ❤️

[@paulafranciscaa]

S or M? idk like small or medium? oh my god that's the cutest more innocent thing Taylor has ever said 😂❤️ ❤️

[@freezyberries]

watch out babe I also don’t know what it means 😂😂

[@majesticlace8650]

Sadist or Masochist/ Slave or Master

[@kimberlythunert3068]

My son and his wife are the same ages as you two...except my son is the younger one! :)

[@natasha-jp2gj]

Kimberly Thunert I’m glad you’re being so positive about it. Cheers to you!

[@kimberlythunert3068]

@@natasha-jp2gj Thanks! Love is love!

[@MarieEverett]

I loved what you said when you mentioned 'marrying for money'. My older sister married someone 10 years older and she always says it's the motivation and drive of a successful person that makes them attractive, not how much they earn.

[@armtinyannie9771]

there's 10 years difference between me and my boyfriend and honestly i couldnt relate so much! its all about your values and how compatible you are to each other 💜

[@KikiIfill]

And this relationship is over I bet

[@armtinyannie9771]

@@KikiIfill 8 years and counting 😁😂

[@stephanieguajardo6491]

I used to date someone who was 10 years older than me. Age doesn’t matter. As long as y’all love each other, it doesn’t matter. Oh and also that situation where you get sick and still have to suck it up, I know how you feel. One time I threw up before going to school and my moms exact response was “You’re still going. You’ve already missed to many days for this year”. I missed only like 3 out of the 10 days I can miss. She told me take medicine to still go to school.

[@luaiseairis2398]

I was gonna studyyy😭 but yeah dropped that😂😂

[@hanae6375]

Saaammee 😂😪

[@LyddPlant]

Elbow-san gives off such a calming vibe and you compliment each other very well! I would have guessed him to be much younger! You're both pretty with warm smiles and when you interact you just fit together perfectly in personality! Lots of love to you two and your families

[@sarapas]

My parents have an 11-year age difference and they got married when my mom was 30 and my dad 42. Her life reminds me so much of yours. She travelled a lot and met my dad in the Netherlands, they also had a culture struggle and they didn't have a common language to speak. But 23 years later they are still going strong and they are my example when it comes to a marriage. I hope you and elbow-san will also be together for as long as you live! 💖💖💖💖💖💖

[@sarapas]

41* whoops he had me at 42 ahaha

[@elfadogg406]

Her canadian accent when she says "sorry" haha 5:32

[@SrtaNitah]

So happy that he got more comfortable as time went by and that we have the chance to know more about him :D

[@meera6428]

for some reason she reminds me so much of misa misa from death note

[@alana7088]

Misa Misa!

[@enviivne]

After watching the video, you can tell why you guys fit so well together.

[@deebee9120]

Lol my boy and I have 14 years between us. One of my favourite games is "when you were this old I was this young..."

[@ringokissu]

HAHAHA i'm in an age gap relationship too and this is also our favourite game!

[@martinabarata]

Oh my God, same 😂😂😂😂 My boyfriend is always cringing whenever I start the game 😂

[@kristiferrari1353]

Omg same! My fiancee and I have a 15year age difference and I love making those jokes

[@lifeexpression5036]

OMG me too !! Hahaha my boyfriend doesn't like picturing it but I am somehow obsessed with it. Though I get it can sometimes create anxieties.

[@deebee9120]

@@lifeexpression5036 sometimes I like to compare pictures of us from the same year like “ You were 15 and in Highschool here and I just turned 1”

[@AlmenaraFairy]

Tay tay! 29? you seem sooooo younger!!!! I love you, be happy with Elbow san! sincerely

[@imelkozlov8585]

Arwins 30 in to months!! I wish i can look like her!! 🤧🤧

[@DayWatch]

How old do you people think 29 year olds are supposed to look lmao

[@joanofarc33]

Taylor have you ever thought of being a tv personality? Like having a show where you explore fashion, shopping and good food? Maybe for expats in Hong Kong? I always thought you could transfer your gift for being personable in front of the camera, likable personality and ease with people into something like your own tv show. I guess it would be like KZbin except a larger audience or maybe not such a specific audience. Anyway I’ve always thought you were talented enough for that. Imagine ‘Fashion Week with Taylor’ ( have you ever been?) or something like that. Best wishes to the both of you!

[@tooth656]

I love that you mentioned his sign. I'm like "Scorpio? Say no more sis."