Get Your Ex Back By Letting Go

[@ClayAndrews]

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[@shawdeejay5408]

Feel it. Feel pain , cry in your car. Eat Ice cream and watch a feel good movie. My ex rebounded right away and I had to see it on social media . I was hopeful but now I see his character and had to really feel the pain . I was suppressing the pain right after the break up . Now I feel so alive , thoughts of them don’t come as much. Healing the right away. Meeting awesome other people, but not looking for a romantic relationship at the moment .

[@jurajurij7072]

the same situation is very painful for me

[@therealbizzle]

I'm proud of you!

[@Manifestingdreamer7]

Thank you for your time and energy. Excellent advice regarding our inner child nurturing. This is so key and I haven’t paid enough attention to this in my current situation. I quickly felt insecure and derailed after months of self help work. I had a deep heart to heart this week with my ex and was able to keep the inner child safe and feel protected, which allowed me to speak my truth rather than sit there feeling rejected and insecure . It was very cathartic.

[@HistoryDave1]

Thank you, Clay. I'm trying to let go after a break up. This is great for my soul.

[@a.d.b535]

Great commentary. You're so mature for your age.

[@viajandoconJ]

Feeling my ex been in the hot-cold confusion stage, praying 🙏🏻 for progress to continue.

[@footinstirrup4948]

I think this may be the best video I have seen yet for me. Thanks Clay....

[@ClayAndrews]

Glad you enjoyed it. Thank you for the kind words. :-)

[@victoriadolan9889]

Another excellent, helpful video. Thank you Clay.

[@therealbizzle]

My ex already had a rebound and let me reach out to her. I'm letting go so I can be who I wanna be in this moment, should I let go of her having a rebound did to me like the feelings of how much it hurt? She apologized and said she tried to put a bandaid on her emotions and it backfired on her. We're taking it slow at the moment and have been to the movies together and lunch already. Thank you, Clay! You helped me get to this point.

[@jeffreybrow2634]

It’s great how you explain it out

[@quinn269]

Hey Clay, I was just wondering about how to tell if it's a positive pullback or if they are reacting strangely because you actually did say something that bothered them somehow

[@melindakube1705]

Clay i live and appreciate your videos. You gave been so much help to me. My boyfriend of 1.5 yrs ended our relationship abruptly 6 months ago, shutting me out by blocking me every where except Facebook. Assuming he looks at my Facebook to see what In up to...blocked on Facebook messenger. He is 65 im 64. Our breakup was mainly because of my grief, stress and depression. We had a good relationship, my situation was just too much for him to deal with. I love him so and I've worked diligently on myself!! Positive changes. How can I get him back with no communication? Please help me. Its been 6 months. Its getting so hard

[@charlottejohnson2695]

Could u put on the link to subliminal recording ? . By the way very authentic and helpful video 👍

[@ClayAndrews]

Thank you so much. :-) Here's the link for the subliminal video. >> kzbin.info/www/bejne/gJ-Vfaxnrtiafrs I hope this helps.

[@Maddie-mf1qm]

My ex broke up with me Cuse of family problems and after a couple months he has been acting hot and cold but some moments when we together it like if we’re at the beginning of liking each other “what do u think dose he still like me and dose he feel the same way😞

[@pandorapink1227]

Hope your Mom is doing well.

[@RawleFranklin-n7g]

Is letting go like saying to youself i still have and will live if you are with your ex or not

[@gusmendoza5775]

Clay, my boyfriend broke up with me because I changed, I realized my confidence was low and there wasn't much communication in our relationship. I currently live with him and we hang out all the time and more than hang out sometimes but he's been dating someone else immediately after we broke up. I feel like he still has emotions towards me and he said he loves and misses me but only when I say it first. How do I let go when I see he doesn't come home some nights? He also messages me during the day with non essential conversations.

[@shandy41709]

What can I do it he's filing for divorce. But reached out saying he misses me and confused about everything, but still going ahead with it

[@vanessa8002]

Hi Clay , is it okay that I totally burst my feelings to my ex when he got into a new relationship? I got angry , jealous, and say sorry, asking him to come back, etc. it's complicated because we're married and have so many ties withe each other so I'm not sure of his intentions with me. i.e. financial support, child custody

[@stephthecreative6312]

Lookup “standers” or “standing for your marriage.” There’s a whole community of wives who can offer advice if you want GOD to save your marriage.

[@VictoriaHechanova]

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[@lindaalfonso9065]

How do you let your ex know that you are not emotionally attached, that you're not having mom/dad issues, that you are in a good place and are not going to be all emotional on them. I'm not going to fall apart. There is so much he doesn't lnow. I know how I feel about him but if he doesn't feel the same with me then he just has to tell me that. If that is the case then I at least hope he would talk to me. Not so that I can beg him to stay. I would not do that if he doesn't want me. I at least would want to talk.

[@ClayAndrews]

The best way is to embody that emotional detachment by doing the hard work. If you have done that, but you're not in contact right now, then contact them from a place of embodying that detachment and see how he responds.

[@lindaalfonso9065]

Not sure what you mean by last part?

[@lindaalfonso9065]

Maybe I'm misunderstanding emotional attachment? I want to connect with him emotionally. I think he is afraid that I'll go all emotional on him like I did last time and so that is what I meant by being emotionally detached. That I would not put pressure on him. Just trying to explain myself.

[@salvomig2368]

@@lindaalfonso9065 You want to be with him emotionally, but you must detach from the idea of getting him back. Detach from the idea that because you’re better and worked on yourself, he’ll come back. You must approach with the mindset that if he doesn’t come back, oh well, his loss, someone better than him is in my future. He had his chance and blew it. But you can’t fake it, it truly has to feel this way inside you. Only you know when you’re ready.

[@gregplayz6493]

I cheated on my “ex” ( I say ex but I never got the chance to make things official) when I was drunk I felt very bad and she found out about it we broke up about 3 weeks ago. I went no contact and she reached out to me after a few days we talked but she was still hot and cold this continued on and off for a about a week until the other day when I went to her house and I tried one last time to get her back she declined I asked her after if she is okay with living life without me and she got sad and left do you think we will ever have a chance

[@ClayAndrews]

Have you explored why you cheated on her and resolved that reason? If so, have you talked about that with her? That would be a good place to start.

[@gregplayz6493]

@@ClayAndrews it was more like a drunken mistake I was out on a trip with single friends we went through all of those conversations about why and I’ve watched a lot of your videos and I tried to explain to her that I am willing to do whatever it takes to make her comfortable with our situation

[@kennethlove2884]

My ex girlfriend broke up with me about 45 days ago. I gave her the break up & haven’t chased her or harassed her. I would love to work through our issues, but I haven’t heard a peep from her. I did run into her in the grocery store 4 weeks after the break up. We had a good interaction, and I thought that maybe that would kick start something in her, but I still haven’t heard anything from her. It’s really hard facing the possibility that I may never hear from her again. Not really sure if I should give up?

[@kennethlove2884]

My ex girlfriend broke up with me about 45 days ago. I gave her the break up & haven’t chased her or harassed her. I would love to work through our issues, but I haven’t heard a peep from her. I did run into her in the grocery store 4 weeks after the break up. We had a good interaction, and I thought that maybe that would kick start something in her, but I still haven’t heard anything from her. It’s really hard facing the possibility that I may never hear from her again. Not really sure if I should give up?

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