Domestic violence professional here. You can see the power and control the first guy has over his wife. All of the things she’s done (i.e. the lying about a job, cheating etc) is a direct response to his emotional and physically abusive and controlling behavior. He even said…she lies to me b/c she’s scared of how I will react. She even said anything I do I disappoint him. It’s ok for him to cheat though.. I hope and pray she realizes her worth and gets out of this relationship. I’ve seen situations like this and end in serious hurt and/or death. 😢
@kameleonalynn71456 ай бұрын
I’m not a professional but atp i fee I am cause I thought just the same thing.
@bekahdoug55724 ай бұрын
Domestic violence survivor here. The NUMBER ONE cause of death for pregnant women AND women ages 18-32 is homicide at the hands of their significant other. I was SHOCKED when I learned that statistic in my DV classes I had to take. These situations ABSOLUTELY end in death. Regularly. Thank you for what you do to help victims.
@auzy2u8452 ай бұрын
He wants help
@SoSweetKhryssie7 ай бұрын
The first guy said he took his wife’s phone before she left the house and got suspicious when he didn’t hear from her the entire time she was out. Bruh make it make sense.
@CamilleNYC403 ай бұрын
💯
@thale69453 ай бұрын
Right! 😂
@justismariah5474 Жыл бұрын
When the husband came out with his hair like that. I knew immediately 😂 girl
@Mill-3311 ай бұрын
Lol, me too! 😂
@Resian810 ай бұрын
Had the same thought😂
@tashaterrell72499 ай бұрын
I'm reading before I see it 😅😅😅😅😅😅 can't wait
@Doctor-stone.9 ай бұрын
@@tashaterrell7249and so do i 😂😂😂
@SoSweetKhryssie7 ай бұрын
I read your comment before seeing the second couple and now that I’ve seen them 😂😂😂😂 I just had to come back to your comment to laugh with you.
@janetgonzalez3931 Жыл бұрын
Who is addicted to watching karamo show I know I am
@slqueen7404 Жыл бұрын
MEEEE!!!
@wellcertainly4403 Жыл бұрын
MEEEEEEEEEEE
@alinacooper6157 Жыл бұрын
Me always lol
@ExauceeGuyNkoy8 ай бұрын
Honey sammeee
@ElonNicole8 ай бұрын
Literally
@rykiabernard3157 Жыл бұрын
With the second couple, the mother is SO VIBRANT AND SO FULL OF LIFE! Love, please just leave the "little boy" alone. You deserve so much more...
@nadiaalrakami82748 ай бұрын
Kids would prefer two parents who live separately and are happy that two parents who are together and one of them is violent in the household
@theartofcrashingout6 ай бұрын
My least favorite times in life was when my mom would take my dad back and his anger would change the whole atmosphere of the house. Hated it
@lauryndyer6773 Жыл бұрын
Karamo is the best. He wants to helo the man but he knows that it might not always work so he offered her support just in case. You can just tell how serious he is
@lauryndyer6773 Жыл бұрын
Help
@lesterwilliamsjr649 Жыл бұрын
'Karamo is the best'. I don't believe that Jerry, Maury, and Steve had given better advice and feel more like real people. Karamo tries to hard to be everyone's, which can help people open up to him but it also makes it seem like he's not being genuine since he'll try to make almost anyone sympathetic by bringing up there past. Karamo sometimes feels like a one trick pony whose only method to help people is to tell them they have issues because of their past. I don't think it's right for a host to bring someone's past unless they bring up first because you never know if someone is ok with it.
@lauryndyer6773 Жыл бұрын
@@lesterwilliamsjr649 he brings up people's past because USUALLY, people refuse to see it. In this one, the man was just unhinged and making excuses. But sometimes you have to delve back to go forward. It all depends but most people need to be confronted by their past to really wake up. I think it's just his understanding of generational trauma that makes him 'the best' in my eyes. I still watch Steve and Maury religiously everyday but I don't know, karamo is just different to me
@tashiaredd3421 Жыл бұрын
@@lesterwilliamsjr649I don’t think that’s true. I feel like he only brings up their past when necessary. When the ppl are showing such toxic behavior that it has to be something deeper. And 9/10 p will say something to spark him to bring up their past. Jerry, Maury and Steve?? 😂 Karamo is a therapist and not to say the others don’t give good advice, but I’m gonna take advice from Karamo before any of the others.
@brendachirata2283 Жыл бұрын
Did you all see that the first man doesn't want his wife to speak? Every time she tries to speak he will cut her off and talk about the story himself and the wife is afraid , she doesn't have a voice
@Fortyrucker Жыл бұрын
I noticed this too.
@brendachirata2283 Жыл бұрын
@@Fortyrucker that's not a relationship, I'm glad someone else noticed. It should be very hard for that woman, I feel for her
@auzy2u845 Жыл бұрын
Cap
@Zahriaaaaa Жыл бұрын
@@auzy2u845how is it cap when it’s on the screen for everyone to see…
@ldd2112 Жыл бұрын
I noticed that as well.
@07stringbean Жыл бұрын
That brother is institutionalized.....I pray he get the help he deserves for his sake.....so he can be better for himself and his family
@MichelleMccoy-u4s9 күн бұрын
AGREED❤❤❤❤
@MichelleMccoy-u4s9 күн бұрын
I think he’s a good guy , he just needs help. He didn’t deny anything and admits he doesn’t know how. He JESUS and counseling.❤
@antoinette1985lynn7 ай бұрын
"I snapped I pushed her and shoved her" "They came and arrested me 30 days later she had a mark on her" He is abusive and institutionalized. She doesnt talk to him about stuff because she is afraid of him. I knew he had cheated on her before just by the way he was talking and I knew that it was more than just "pushing and shoving" her.
@moniqueboyer76419 ай бұрын
My ex has this man’s characteristics he’s tryna play the good guy but it’s more so if i can’t have u no one will (The first story) . Smh she seem scared of him scared to leave scared to talk just SCARED. 😢💔
@TedCampbell-u8c Жыл бұрын
The part when Karamo speaks to the first couple directly brings me to tears. He gave them hope, and he showed her a way should she need it. I pray this brings them closer. They both deserve to be happy. Karomo❣️you got me, Bruh. Can I get a hug!?
@goodgirl1708 ай бұрын
She needs to leave that crazy ass man. He is abusive. That marriage will never work with her being in fear of her life.
@TrinaWitDaRedLips Жыл бұрын
In this episode, I love how Karmo recognizes when he can no longer get through to the 2nd person & lets it go. He doesn’t waste his, nor their time. Not only that, recognizing unhealthy behavior and little boundaries are everything when you RECOGNIZE THEM ❤
@nataliewestby76967 ай бұрын
That 2nd guy doesn't want to be a father. She needs to accept that and move on. It's better that way.
@detroitlegacy10 ай бұрын
The second mom tries to sound strong and assertive, but her actual language reveals how desperate she is for him to come back. He’s said and shown her repeatedly he doesn’t want to be a family or come back to her.
@EntrinideeMcclendon-lz6iw6 ай бұрын
The first clip she got me so worry for her and her kids
@danielleharding3605 Жыл бұрын
If that dad isn’t going to step up and be a dad, then he just needs to sign his rights off. If he isn’t going to do anything he should go and do it. Either step up or sign his rights off.
@GangstaGranny62 Жыл бұрын
I live by this: Don’t give any man a second chance to disrespect you,,,, when he shows you who he is, believe him,,,, saying sorry means nothing My husband has never even asked me how much I make, he pays all the bills, and I don’t take advice of that, I peep in the fridge on the way to work, and stop and get what’s needed on the way home,,,, I don’t wash dingy socks, I keep him on white ones, he never will be out of his hygiene products and I clothes shop for us both,,,, partnership
@CamilleNYC403 ай бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@hichsonmcthebe4844 Жыл бұрын
This is a sick situation. One is going to jail and other to the mortuary. This no way to live. 😢😢😢
@KahleiaELoria7 ай бұрын
You can he Blanks out and goes crazy. He did 10+ years in prison she needa run!!!!¡
@theartofcrashingout6 ай бұрын
@@KahleiaELoriafr because what he do to end up in a one man cell 😭
@rickiericktv33202 ай бұрын
He’s too institutionalized! She’s scared of this monster! Chile RUN!
@Goobebeh Жыл бұрын
See I be trying to watch Karamo in the gym and I cant bc Im finna cry in here I love how in the first couple you counseled the woman privately. You are truly trained and equipped to help people while understanding the nuance of discretion when handling a situation like this I pray that in the end she gets to live happily, freely and safely
@RandyBaker-id8pr11 ай бұрын
🤗😌
@quincycuthbert54085 ай бұрын
"It doesnt feel sustainable and I am so tired". All her breath was gone after saying that.
@bekahdoug55724 ай бұрын
Karamo: I am OBSESSED with your show!! The kind, loving, non-judgmental approach you take is a breath of fresh air!! I binge your show AT LEAST twice a week💯💙💙
@xbutterbeans Жыл бұрын
That last guy, doesn’t want to be a father. Point blank.
@AlwaysALady316 ай бұрын
I wouldn't even want him to be around my kids
@Jennifer-bv7of5 ай бұрын
Okayyyyy @@AlwaysALady31
@KatlyLisah5 ай бұрын
he said "I'm a child" 😭
@coleyboot18 ай бұрын
Karamo is such a good person. I love him
@Maiden_to_mother Жыл бұрын
I was in a relationship just like the first couple. I promise you, he has beaten her down so bad that she genuinely feels like a failure. She lies because she feels like she has to in order to avoid upsetting him. She can’t come to him and tell the truth, even though lying makes it worse, it’s her defense mechanism against him. She wouldn’t be this way in a loving relationship. I’m telling you, he is the epitome of an abuser. Physically, mentally and emotionally. I desperately hope she has found the better life that Karamo promised her, because Karamo was right. There is a better life. My life began on the day I left my abuser.
@FierceIntellect8 ай бұрын
Thank you for saying this! I’m glad you were able to leave and live a full life 🙏🏾
@kjstarr2893 Жыл бұрын
A blind man can see that the last guy is struggling with his IDENTITY! Ya feel me?
@lindajones5172 Жыл бұрын
I'm glad someone else can 👀
@Ladybug4730 Жыл бұрын
I see it
@lavoniaholloway124510 ай бұрын
🙄🙄🙄
@camillev0971 Жыл бұрын
God bless Karamo the way he talks to these women and gives them the realistic truth. They’re both beautiful women and I love how he reminds them there are more options out there never feel like your stuck.
@BaldHeadBeauty424 Жыл бұрын
Karamo is the best ! I love that he is right it right and wrong is wrong and does it respectfully and with care !
@NubianP6 Жыл бұрын
The language this young woman uses when speaking of her relationship with her husband is more so that of a daughter and father, than a wife and husband. Yes, cheating does have a tendency to “disappoint” The person that you e cheated on, so that should go without saying. I would be interested in knowing what her relationship with her father was like.
@blulicious211 ай бұрын
That's why I can't deal with them jail dudes. If you been locked up for a long time, you don't know how to function outside. It's not fair to take his frustrations out on the family who are only trying to love him. He need intensive counseling
@mariejiminez1733 Жыл бұрын
Shheezzzee he's sooo emotionally damage + he has control issues he won't evn let her speak
@misslornamae Жыл бұрын
Why was it glossed over that he has cheated on her??
@shannoncarr7933 Жыл бұрын
Cause he would beat her by talking about it
@lavoniaholloway124510 ай бұрын
Pretty sure that domestic violence is bigger than some lousy cheating on his part
@AngelaBurse Жыл бұрын
(second story) if he was mad at u for being pregnant the first time why would you turn around and have a second child with him.
@TootieGayle Жыл бұрын
This man child sat up there and cried about having to work while he was with his children but then still doesn’t have a job without his children… so really he just doesn’t want to work at all
@treyahrae417511 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@krystolyncarpio6010 Жыл бұрын
Both of them are trifflin
@jeanellnelson15588 ай бұрын
I truly hope the 1st gets help for his anger. This made me cry.
@julinalilly7439 Жыл бұрын
Another great episode of Karamo
@monicathomas777 Жыл бұрын
I pray the first guy’s up gets the help he deserves
@soukainael9411 ай бұрын
Can’t feel sorry for the second woman.. children cannot chose their father, that’s why it’s the mother’s duty to make the right choice for them.
@bettyconaway Жыл бұрын
The second couple , wake up lady he’s no good ! Those kids deserve better ! You holding on to someone that won’t help You .
@ashleyj7011 Жыл бұрын
He definitely don't need to be around her kids 🤨
@sandrarice4197 Жыл бұрын
Yeah Karamo!!! We love you!!!❤❤❤ Thank you for all you do!!! God bless.
@jenjames80054 ай бұрын
Karamo is SO GREAT! ❤ What a beautiful, caring soul.
@venetiagraves3624 Жыл бұрын
Karamo I’ve just fallen in love with you, I love that your light shines brightly 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@juliatrapp57332 ай бұрын
First guy could be a good husband prison got him fucked up and it’s sad
@melyndaduh3501 Жыл бұрын
Definitely as applaud 1st man for seeking help with his anger. They need couples counseling too. Probably plan weekly/monthly/annual things as a family so everyone will have something to look forward to. Find a church to attend as a family.
@chrys22608 ай бұрын
church is such a useless suggestion 😂
@marysmith37638 ай бұрын
You have to love yourself before you can truly love anyone else. A cheater will always be a cheater anything they feel like it. She needs help to stop her cheating ways.
@tiffany42056 ай бұрын
The 2nd guy is a waste of space i wouldn't even want him around
@FreeSpirit0011 ай бұрын
Karamo is so amazing. He’s so giving. And I keep wondering, can he keep affording the giving he’s giving?! Ugh. I love this man. Seriously.
@RoyaltysTalent11 ай бұрын
Child I’m sick of these relationships where they be 10 plus years apart 😒 at 23 and 33 y’all shouldn’t have anything in common….
@TootieGayle Жыл бұрын
(Second couple) his hair bro! Hahahaha WHAT IS THAT?? I would’ve been like nah man you need to cut that shit of before you go out on stage
@stellasari520611 ай бұрын
😂😂🤣
@rickiericktv33202 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@nyladj451011 ай бұрын
Karamo wins again!!! Can I get that housekeeper referral too, Karamo!!! Lol love you❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@Bessie-ff7rs6 ай бұрын
Sam is immature and a child as he says he’s not ready for a family nor children his wife is so so mature.
@loisthompson2877 Жыл бұрын
That relationship needs to end he keeps leaving because he knows she’s going to keep taking him back when the relationship’s he gets involved in doesn’t work out she has to be the one to put a stop to him from walking in and out her life the first time he left and she took him back was fine if she wanted to give him a second chance but once he walked out the second time she should not have taken him back so now it’s her fault because u shouldn’t keep letting anyone walk in and out ur life
@ukbluebell0910 ай бұрын
Unlocking a woman's phone when her man has been violent towards her seems dangerous to me
@MellyMel6034 ай бұрын
She ain’t that scared if she cheated 😂
@rickiericktv33202 ай бұрын
😂 I’m not going with you 😂
@acezspaded66573 ай бұрын
Second story no one held her accountable for going back to him time and time again
@jameeb56866 ай бұрын
Ms. Lily..i hope u find that strength u need. You're beautiful strong and worth waaaay more Love❤🤗
@tarajones38425 ай бұрын
His hairstyle shows his maturity level
@laelajr8911 ай бұрын
The second couple she’s needs to let him be raise those kids without him he seems unstable
@broxxyzos262211 ай бұрын
She cheated 7 times thats insane
@stephaniecardenas652 Жыл бұрын
The second guy has to be living a double life
@ChiChiGlamShop11 ай бұрын
Then to talk to her like that, oh hell naw… he can go to hell
@aivel3973 Жыл бұрын
Husband is sent off stage as Karano says on National Tv, I wanted to gove you this abuse hotline number secretly bc I know you have to fly back home with your abuser. 30 days later husband is watching his episode of karamo before he leaves for work in the morning and the abused is making his placing his breakfast and coffee on the table. She has forgotten about the hotline number… What do we think happened in that household at the end of their segment??😮 Probably should have given the wife the hotline number off camera or at least cut that part off of the episode so only the audience would know she had the hotline number.
@SonjaElizabethTeal Жыл бұрын
I agree.
@Jasminelovesyouxo Жыл бұрын
I was thinking this!!
@jaejacks6377 Жыл бұрын
Ladies & gentlemen.... This is what happens when you get pregnant by someone you've only been dating for two weeks. Then she doubled back 🤦🏾♀️
@AutumnzGaming Жыл бұрын
Yeah we watched the video
@BeverlyCumberbatch-lt1ys3 ай бұрын
Ladies I am not going to blame the men all the time..Ladies you choose the men...There was Red flags in the beginning 😢 Come on Ladies choose wisely 😮
@harleysarutobiАй бұрын
Karamo trying not to cry I’m the first one broke my heart 😭💔🫂
@wordplay66656 ай бұрын
Girl you laid down and had a baby with a man after 2 weeks…. He was a bum and you decided to have another one 🙄
@lesterwilliamsjr649 Жыл бұрын
A discussion about toxic masculinity for the first story. As much as I think this topic is overused in the media, I have somthing to say about this. Men need to stop using women to valid there masculinity. I'm so tired of seeing men believing that to preserve there manhood they need to constantly prove they attract woman and have a faithful woman in there life. There is more to being a man then getting woman to approve of you. This is why we got so many men fixated on cheating while cheat themselves because they view being a man as a paradox where it's about getting as many women as possible to like them as well as keeping a woma committed to them. One of the first steps someone needs to take in understanding what makes a man, is learning a real man doesn't require the approval of a woman or women to know there worth.
@auzy2u845 Жыл бұрын
True at least he wanted to change.
@lesterwilliamsjr649 Жыл бұрын
@@auzy2u845That doesn't mean much to me. So many guest on talk shows say they want to change. Anybody can say I want to change in the moment but only some people will commit to it.
@RoyaltysTalent11 ай бұрын
The second story is tom foolery 😭😭 him and this part and bang is the only thing that’s funny and he looks homeless im so glad she is doing pretty decent without him
@DogGran Жыл бұрын
Lily, move on and accept being a single Mom. Take him for support and let him go. He’s a loser. You got pregnant after 2 weeks- you didn’t know him. I did this 25 years ago, I raised them myself and it was LESS GRIEF than wasting time with *this* because he never grew up. Just move on. His self loathing is self obsession.
@sunbibi Жыл бұрын
Great advice from a strong mom.
@jellis3905 Жыл бұрын
If someone don't care much wen u strong and healthy , pls get sick ad no one cares to take care of a sick spose they don't like much nevertheless love, ppl Stand by u through thick and thin because of the Power of Love, Love truly moves mountain .
@narriussАй бұрын
2:50 you took her phone and surprised you havent heard from her ?😂
@reginaharrigan7454 Жыл бұрын
First case why she have stop social media I would never let that go and she leave him
@kourtneyrenee086 ай бұрын
Lily take care of these children and leave this damn drunk alone because if you think your kid are in therapy now... run. You cannot force this man to do a thing. Karamo said girl get a damn grip and love on those damn babies because you're talking crazy.
@sincerelytrie10 ай бұрын
This is really great co-parenting.
@FinDom1 Жыл бұрын
A man couldn’t only talk to me like that once. He needs therapy.
@deedee2698 Жыл бұрын
She is wasting her time and breath.. Let him go...... Stop trying to make a man be a present father...
@LLace8 ай бұрын
12:05 *THIS COUPLE NEEDS TO SEPARATE IMMEDIATELY BEFORE HIS ANGER GETS THE BEST OF HIM AND HE *ILLS HER. THIS WOMAN NEEDS TO FIND HER INNER SELF ESTEEM & STOP TRYING TO PLEASE THIS MAN ! UNTIL THEN SHES NOT ABLE TO LOVE ANYONE ELSE , LESS HER DANG SELF . IT DOESNT HWLP THAT THIS MAN IS 12 YEARS OLDER THAN HER AND SHE GOT WITH HIM AT 22. SEEMS TO ME LIKE SHE HAS FATHER ISSUES AND IS TRYING TO LOOK FOR A FATHER FIGURE IN THIS MAN AND DOESNT WANNA DISAPPOINT HIM. PLEASE MAAM FIND THE STRENGTH TO LEAVE THIS MAN, IT WILL NEVER BE THE RELATIONSHIP U WANT IT TO BE*
@dreyday21 Жыл бұрын
The wife is a beautiful woman I hope she’s amazing
@runettemurdock5452 Жыл бұрын
It's not good for the kids to see this life you're living 😢😢😢
@dondiefranklin6454Ай бұрын
The second man came out and I was like 💅
@antoinette1985lynn7 ай бұрын
He look just like the joke he is BUT she needs to take accountability for laying up getting pregnant again. She didnt know who what and how he was until after that first pregnancy but turned around and did it again she knew better.
@DarlaSmith-o5g Жыл бұрын
She should mot hafe yo feel that way and he needs to go to anger amazement o would not be with him men get my nerves😮
@Beauty-d2d20 күн бұрын
He out of tis world, gone, bye h crazy leave him alone , lots people been in shelters. U good u worki g, heost girl Let him go.
@DarlaSmith-o5g Жыл бұрын
Bring up their child hood excuse to cheat or be angry
@jellis3905 Жыл бұрын
Another TKO is just Nonsens , NEVER allowed the same person to break ur heart ❤️ twice , if we kno u will take us back I really have nothing to loose as u will always be on stand by , trust me u or who ever allows thst eill never be #1, will just be Jack in Box , there is always someone who really cares waiting for us.
@typicaltip03272 ай бұрын
Ladies... PLZ STOP SAYING IM STAYiNG FOR MY KIDS... THATS INSANE!!! UR DOiNG MORE DAMAGE ALLOWING THEM TO WATCH THE ABUSE!!!!!
@skelly_wag4 ай бұрын
If you love your childeren you leave him. Period.
@Vegasbaby115 Жыл бұрын
Sam is such a man child, but seriously . Why would you not only have one baby but two. Come on, something is not right
@marysmith37638 ай бұрын
I wish better for you karamoo.❤
@castoirefamily440611 ай бұрын
2nd dad gives drug addict
@awoa2011 Жыл бұрын
I wish more women put themselves first before wanting a man in the house it’s not that deep at all. Be independent please.
@lashawnawalker3365 Жыл бұрын
Disappointing him wow
@CharlieFreeman-xw6fl Жыл бұрын
Today on Karamo
@ElizSun783 ай бұрын
Did she just say she wants to leave her children with an alcoholic father
@rickiericktv33202 ай бұрын
Dam is drunk NEOW 😂
@HUSHPUPSJ8 ай бұрын
Yeah I seen this on true crimes way too often !! Just go parent greeshh