Getting a girlfriend makes you rich (crazy life hack)

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[@Tachyon836]

Idk man Ill say this, having a girlfriend has pushed me to work harder. If I sit and fixate on her, " how am I gonna get us a house? How am I gonna get us that life? How am I gonna raise our kids right?" And it is literally a guaranteed mechanism to motivate tf outta me. I told her once to a small degree, even if i dont talk to you that day, know that i thought of you multiple times that day

[@isfetshen]

but it's only lack of conversation, you don't think?

[@victorrosales7565]

exactly ive always said this when men have a reason to get money and education and a fit body they are willing to do anything to make that girl happy men are such simple creatures who just need a bit of motivation

[@Tachyon836]

@papaabdulessultan6976 Maybe, but we been dating for 3 years now. If I'm serious about it, these are the thoughts to have. It ain't like simping at all

[@Tachyon836]

@papaabdulessultan6976 I already have her.

[@maddogdidi8460]

​@papaabdulessultan6976working hard to GET women is Simping Working Hard for YOUR women is being responsible IF you have a Dad that took care of you thats what i think he did for your mom...

[@jimmoefoe1471]

I just broke up yesterday because of how mentally draining she was. I'm hungry for money again. Stay with the wrong one and all you can focus is on her and not the money.

[@Getloose360]

BINGO. Chase greatness and the women will come along as a byproduct

[@Nexusdied]

Was in a similar situation and tbh I feel like a fool

[@Denmosocial]

we all gonna make it

[@Good_Luck_8619]

Mental drain also they bring !

[@scaartandi4884]

To be honest, im pretty happy with my life right now even without a girl. Even tho I sometimes think, it would be nice to have one but it's not a must have.

[@kebman]

Just make sure you're not fooling yourself. Missing out means you'll regret it later.

[@-whackd]

​@@kebmanNo it doesn't. regret is a feeling that comes from consciously choosing to think about the past in a certain way.

[@-whackd]

​@@protoknightsmusicarchives3232 What about regretting something in his past that he can't change, would get him anywhere? There is no point in doing that.

[@souvikmitra6161]

That's a good mindset, and it'll actually lead you to find the right one more naturally. I won't say you have to try, just go out and meet people, guy or girl. You'll be able to get someone without being a tryhard.

[@scaartandi4884]

@@souvikmitra6161 yeah 100% Bro, I already had a really unfulfilling relationship and since we broke up I’m full focused on myself and selfimprovement and learned to be happy by myself.

[@dna8269]

I've had a few LTR's, and one was 6 years...I always feel 'hungrier' when I am single. Its too easy to get comfortable with a girl that is always there and just hangout and watch movies, eat shit food etc. When I have to "hunt" is when I am most productive in life in general

[@javier.alvarez764]

sounds like what andrew tate says. although i will add it is probably because u are too available. always being available kills attraction, women want men that not always there, but when is there sets the setting and mood.

[@ImNuhxy]

Exactly. It's a time waster, at least for now in my early 20s when all I care about is making money and setting milestones for my passions and hobbies.

[@Little.R]

Man, I had no sex drive in my teens. Got diagnosed with a pituitary tumor that was stopping me from making test/hgh. Got treatment for that. Started dating (but was way behind the curve), missed all these opportunities with absolutely gorgeous women that were interested in me but I had NO ability to mingle with them. Spent the remainder of my 20's trying to figure that out, getting dumped/cheated on/lied to by women that I did actually sleep with (more than once). Got into a relationship with a chick that I was convinced was THE ONE (not like in the goofy incel way, I just knew she was different). Went through a rollercoaster of nonsense with her and we broke up after 2.5 years... It's not that I have a problem getting women, it's that now I'm at the age where they're all getting out of their first marriages they have kids or some other nonsense baggage. I'm just standing here at 36 wondering where my chance to succeed went? Haven't been on a dating app in years. Women are too much work bro. I'm never gonna have a wife/family at this point and all my peers have either left or look down on me.

[@maddogdidi8460]

Do you have to date women in their 30's with kids ? I mean you are in a sweet spot with experience and some economic stability i guess, some girls in their late 20's are looking for this type of guys, so you can hang around universities or places that this kind of girls are usually, even go with friends of yours, as you said you don't have problems getting girls it won't be that hard Unless you make it harder than it should be...

[@josephang9927]

Too much work for used good. Imagine getting fit and successful to just raise another guy's son. I'd rather DIE

[@algorithmgeneratedanimegir1286]

Don't date women your age. Women your age are failures if they have kids or a divorce.

[@Infarlock]

Hey man, what a story, it's so annoying when girls waste your time, I am sitting here single at 30 :( Any update? I hope you get luckier with a normal woman

[@Edson.Holm20]

Been watching you, and other people like you, and I actually got a girlfriend. you helped me with overthinking, how to stop and why to stop watching porn, and over all made me a better person. Thank you, Denmo. keep it up!

[@initiatorhater0688]

i assume you are still in your 20s, and why do you feel you became a better person?

[@clickbaitpolice1750]

How do you get a gf

[@Edson.Holm20]

@@clickbaitpolice1750 Get better

[@kebman]

@@clickbaitpolice1750 You go over to a girl, and make her your friend. Now she's your girl friend.

[@maratonlegendelenemirei3352]

How do you ignore the lizard voice in your head demanding you to drain your balls over p0rn?

[@Zweiund20]

Denmo the type of guy to photoshop himself next to a girl even tho he got better game than half of the human race

[@JackDenmo]

Lmaoo

[@jayc342009]

in my own experience i am more depressed when i have a girlfriend, mainly because i stop focusing on myself as much. I enjoy being single too much.

[@Andrux0821]

6:25 bruh, that is not a good way to say it. As someone with very little sex drive, I will say that I’m even more ambitious than ever. No thoughts to distract me, saving time and money that can be spent on working towards something great. Sure I’m only 19, but in every waking second, not only am I holding down CS in college, but I am also running my own side hustle, and trying to be the best I can be at my own niche (numismatics!). I should be thanking God for giving me little sex drive, because it has made me way better. No there is nothing wrong with me, I just don’t desire relationships and sex and I’m better off without it. If you do have a sex drive, it’s ok, just work at doing what will make you happy and make sure to WORK at it. STOP VILIFYING being happy and single! You’re making the social stigma against us even worse. Why am I here on this video in the first place? Idk, blame the KZbin algorithm and my curiosity on how the hell a girlfriend can actually make you money. Thank you for listening to my rant.

[@andygomez6543]

Quality video brotha some girls are mad clingy and want to see you everyday but the ideal scenario would be like you said to systemize it for certain days of the week to focus on your purpose

[@kthx1138]

Amen brother!

[@OFWG0FTW]

Denmo, you are honestly a real one. I’ve been watching you for some time have been taking the leap of faith and life and could not be happier, thank you.

[@LEN3Xmusic]

Based

[@YuraF96]

there’re 2 things I don’t post on social media: money and girls. It’s not because I’m mature, it’s because I don’t have them😅

[@mr.killluminati1220]

You always talk truth, I’m 29 and I actually gain WISDOM from you. And I not even gonna lie bro you look better with the hair cut. 👍

[@ricardoeduardofigueroa4628]

Thanks for the video, Denmo, But what if I'm confident and actually go and talk to girls but I'm struggling economically? i mean I'm trying to pinpoint really good opportunities for bettering myself... Well... Even then I appreciate the video man keep doing this helps a lot! Saludos desde Venezuela BTW 🇻🇪💪🏼

[@MaxBt14]

Dude this chicken farm story killed me. Thanks for the laugh and the advices Denmo

[@Denmosocial]

lmao love the farm

[@mannycalavera1848]

I think you missed one point there. I spent 2 years of my life going out to parties getting drunk and approaching a lot of girls. Never managed to meet any. After that, I realized that I shouldn't spend money on that anymore or drink heavily for the sake of nothing. It's obvious that I would prefer to be in a relationship to going out every weekened. I know it's cheaper. The thing is, how many times will you have to go out and spend all this money you mentioned to actually meet a potential partner?

[@Haise-miya]

excuse me, but, who told you that getting party girls is a good decision?

[@mannycalavera1848]

@@Haise-miya I don't know, but that's what he said on the video. I know there are other forms, but this is the most common.

[@bobsosa5042]

Getting a party girl is no different than getting hamm'd. You might get your D wet but she's going getting other guys D wet. The key point is the party girl isn't going to get something from the grocery store or cook for you while you trying to work on yourself/business. He doesn't say it directly but the sex yeah it's good but the gf has to do more and thus you have many if they can only give you sex.

[@bugsbunny7168]

You ain’t gonna find a wife in a night club bro , if you want to find a real partner or wifey material you gonna need to approach them elsewhere

[@mannycalavera1848]

@@bugsbunny7168 Not entirely true. it's less likely but not impossible,

[@venomz3665]

I love how men are united here. Like you all are my bros having same goals:)

[@Yeshua_is-Cool]

Nah man it makes you lose money it's cheaper being single plus you can save better

[@bobsosa5042]

It's the risk element. Being single is great but the gf ( if you get the right one) can help you Collab that's if you are in a volume, customer driven business.

[@TheDragonNixon]

You actually explained a normal dude pretty well. Working at a job he hates, which probably gives him the false life purpose and he doesnt have time for the important things and bettering himself. Even if he knows he has to make a change, he forgets it because his job is so "important." In the meantime, some guy gives himself time to think, makes big changes in his life and in a few years drives a ferrari with a hot chick next to him

[@paulcolin-fj9ns]

Exactly

[@initiatorhater0688]

i get annoyed and irritated, enraged, whenever people and society say men get to choose while women get chosen, they make it sound like, men dictate and control everything, as in like, men can get results with women anytime they want.

[@dynamichunter843]

Yup it’s actually the opposite. Women are the selectors in dating. They have the options and they pick from those options. Men have to imitate, yes, but they get turned down far more than they’re accepted.

[@zworld5154]

who says that I have never heard that before

[@dominiknarewski1820]

Hey bruh, thanks for your content, It helps me figure out my past losses and start picking up girls. Now, I have a date on Sunday, because I just walked up to the girl in a mall just like you in your videos, and started talking random shit, just entertaining myself. And I think this is the way... Anyway, much love, and wish me luck

[@goshawk4340]

You will can get women making money but will always lose money chasing women.

[@PauloHenrique-ou1tm]

I sold my car the day i kissed my girlfriend for the first time, we are together for 1 year now and i made 4x my salary and have 5x the money of my car that i have invested, now i just want to work and get more money to do great things for me and my future family

[@gabriels6444]

what did you invest in?

[@BobbyDunlap87]

Denmo back with another banger!

[@nathan_something]

You know, I realized this back in 2017 - 2018, but the points in time where the girl I was interested in really gave me the care and attention I hoped for was when I was going to other girls. I hated it because when I had eyes for someone, it was important to me, that's when it was so much to me that I got something back. But after a while, talking to one girl and hanging out with her for a few months, she didn't really show the same interest so I backed off and I started talking with others - that was basically the only time they acted considerate. It's really confusing and it bothered me a lot because all I ever wanted was for **one** person to give the same care and love that I gave them. It seems like girls just don't really care. It's painful to open up and be vulnerable with someone to only be treated like you're some sort of red flag or that they're not interested in you. Why can't it be equal give and take... or rather, give, receive. Why do they always have to play these ridiculous games. It isn't fun.

[@mu11zessam59]

Jack be wildin with them thumbnails these days 🤷‍♂️😂

[@hugoventura8558]

Really liking the longer form content. Keep it up bro

[@exploringcrypto6609]

Really good video, I like your personality

[@davidstorme8748]

Don’t pull a gun you ain’t gonna use…

[@gary_beniford]

Can u do a video on time management? In this girlfriend calculation where do u factor in time for your own family? And if you live in a culture where family live together before marriage how should you manage the romantic relationship with your family relationship?

[@TheTurbonisse]

Great video Denmo! I get motivated when i watch youu

[@kristofsalamon8416]

keep grinding Jack u the goat fr

[@leonard9636]

As a guy coming from a family of serious chicken owners ...lol, i know how much cleaning those huge barns sucks

[@-whackd]

Chicken torturers.

[@Floatacious]

Great vid man, glad I finally got around to watching it

[@YuraF96]

yo, subtitles? nice man! love it ❤️

[@cristaldoemiliano3270]

This video is so good Denmo.

[@davidstorme8748]

If you ain’t in it for you, then you ain’t in it.

[@boy123838]

I like how this guy is real

[@please9053]

Bro, tf are you doin with those thumbnails man!

[@clickbaitpolice1750]

Tryna make you lose your streak

[@Statefacts4000]

A whole 40 min video about dating is crazy

[@kebman]

Thank you for the inspiration! I'm now talking to women left and right, and bro, like seriously, talking so much made my mouth dry, so now I have to get some water!

[@Axman2024]

YES....letting women come to you is best. Who the hell wants to spend time getting rejected and ignored? Having chicks come you and being able to make the choice is a amazing feeling. Oh, and having a girlfriend DOES NOT save you money...on the contrary. When you're single, you actually save money...FACT

[@vlazarus124]

Thumbnail 🔥

[@Edson.Holm20]

...

[@Mr.Telekinetic]

Love the realness of this video, great advice ❤️

[@Elnuir]

Hey girl, can't go out with you today, hanging out with my bro Denmo, byye

[@Denmosocial]

you made the right choice

[@davidstorme8748]

Telemarketing is good practice for asking out women

[@M1LIF3]

Honestly man i am discusted with how relationships are. You fall in love, fuck em and next thing you know she is cheating and using and then leaving. But that's okay. The only exeption is a woman who supports you along your journey. I see no porpuse in life, no porpuse in relationships, kids. But im used to this. Im fed up with life. Im fed up with the fact that i have no porpuse and am just living to die. Im looking forward to death rather than women and life. I earn just to live, have my own shit and be alone. Infact i like being alone. Society makes too much fucking noise "Disagree and your incorrect" The effort is worthless People talk too much I just want peace. Fuck off. I probably don't even exist.

[@aarrynz9721]

Holy shiet I feel this. Women cheat a lot

[@LeoLau-jw7ji]

thing is the more you have more scared you are to loose it if you have nothign theres nothing to loose then of course you have less then... yaaaa

[@steelmarkplayz9885]

Bro spits fax every vid

[@StepwaveMusic]

Okay how much time do you guys spend on approaching girls? Because I've never been in a relationship where I felt like I suddenly had loads of time... and she is coming along to hobbies, working together, have a standard meet day. I work on projects I admire not for girl's approval lol, even when single I wouldn't go out if I can pursue some project. Not caring about girls is not the way, but it's not as important as it looks in this video either.

[@neptune1525]

What is that Thumbnail tho brah 💀💀

[@demven04]

Dude, your advice is priceless

[@victorpavlov3377]

Dang man! This video is so right! It pointed me in my strong positions. Thanks man!

[@Denmosocial]

glad it helped you brother

[@natnaeltadesse863]

Wow denmo u are a total expert about this shit bro i love your content it's amazing how well you know about all this stuff you are really helping me i thank you for that God Bless You

[@davidstorme8748]

I could be listening to you in the background while writing 4000 pages of non-sensical comedy while watching my toenails grow delaying gratification so I can refuse really hot women and revel in the privilege of exercising the option… or frapping, or teaching my main-squeeze proper obedience while teasing another one’s nipples with a nine-volt… The possibilities are endless…

[@supasmits]

Family courts love when yall think like this , play now pay later when " they're no longer happy"

[@alehix]

18:55 anyone else get that Rickyism? God I love TPB.

[@andrevoirol6286]

Man this is great advice.

[@ugydugy368]

i am grateful your editor didn;t add any extra editing. :)

[@7heMech]

The thumbnail 💀

[@aidanmbonu9587]

Just clicked on, am i gonna have to make my gf a prozzy or a of girl 🤣🤣🤣

[@TacoMeat0919]

Bro wtf are your thumbnails?

[@yevgeniyzaslavskiy5623]

Thank you, if only I could hear this earlier :)

[@MoneyTimeAG]

Does the course work on african american women as well? Not making a joke or anything. I never tried to talk to any women other than black so I don’t know if its different talking to other races etc.

[@chrisey7210]

Man was proud if that thumbnail Lmao

[@victorrosales7565]

Experiencing this in your 20s makes you go 🎉

[@jonathandevine504]

Yeah I’m still watching bro

[@davidstorme8748]

Don’t shake me… I break easily

[@andrevoirol6286]

You are selling the dream man, I love this

[@SAZIZMUSIC]

Bruh the thumbnail 🤣🤣🤣😂😂

[@rudalph5923]

feminist underwater basket-weaving

[@ma30k45]

Ppl need to hear this

[@nKarje]

Why do some KZbinrs complain about porn, girls on Instagram etc, then put soft-core porn pictures in their thumbnails?

[@brettkeller]

6 advertisements for the course in the first 8 minutes

[@davidstorme8748]

Good talk

[@austinkowalczyk8616]

if your trying to teach men to be strong then why are you making thumbnails like this?

[@alfredspic481]

You missed me on this one bro

[@robertukomski7425]

PROPS Denmo!

[@punitkk7696]

You’re the real one ☝️

[@blackraven6275]

Idk why but right now i don't care about women at all. I'm more interested in getting rich and i also workout and try to improve my lifestyle. I clearly remember when i didn't know what to do with myself or my life or anything i was just jerking off all day long pretty often but then suddenly i started to totally not give a flying fuck about them. Maybe that's not normal but i just don't care even if i look at some models. I can be like okay she's pretty or whatever but then i'm like so what?

[@Vaffanculoilluminati]

How it is going so far?

[@blackraven6275]

I don't know, i think that maybe it has something to do with my libido or testosterone levels or it's all about my mentality

[@Vaffanculoilluminati]

@blackraven6275 if you best the meat often or eat unhealthy it could lead to low testosterone, if not, i suggest you to hang out with someone who approach girls and have very high social skills, hang out with him and observe. Learn as much as you can , and force yourself into socialising with everyone not just girls

[@Malik_Hoff]

If I had a girl.. I want her to be an artist like me

[@m.v.r752]

Join an art group/program possibly?

[@UnitedThrive]

Picasso babies

[@JackDenmo]

Has to be the right girl tho

[@davidstorme8748]

That’s the best… refusal

[@DaneWashingtonddtke]

Great video

[@DylanBegazo]

2:00 I wholeheartedly disagree that "woman are the choosers" because I firmly believe us Men can be choosers too. I fervently disagree. Men are NOT required to "pursue" as you say. Pursuing, no, not always. Also, that plays into why I disagree with 2:31 when you say "Why wait"? My response is: You say "why wait"? I say, who said we wait? Instead of waiting, we can focus on ourselves and our own improvement by going outside of our house and hitting the gym and getting a better job to leave previous old job and improving our resumes. That is the alternative to "waiting" as you say. You say, "waiting" like we're waiting at home? No. We men have option to STILL leave home, except instead of leaving home for pursuing woman, we leave home for our own improvement. That's the concept behind the Men's Rights Movement and M G T O W. This is why many romantically successful old money old fashioned masculine men don't pursue woman at all. THey just focus on themselves and their own betterment thus the woman come to them. Those men don't need to pursue. Those men are NOT the pursuers, they are the CHOOSERS. That's a tried and true feasible and wholly attainable self respecting game plan: Be the man that focuses on himself so well that he becomes the Masculine type of man that is a CHOOSER, NOT the other type of masculine man that is the pursuer. The type of masculine man I aspire to be is the chooser type. Not the pursuer type. I'm the same way with friendships. I don't pursue friendships, I work on myself and my own improvement so when I'm around people, my work ethic and other factors speak for themselves leading people to have affinity towards me, from there I choose who to let into my inner circle. Being a pursuer is easier than being a chooser. Both are hard. But one is slightly harder and that's not a bad thing if you think critically about it instead of listening to react. I chose being a chooser because it's harder but it's benefits are also more rewarding. Both benefits are rewarding, but one is slightly more rewarding depending on how you see things aka your perspective.

[@Mysterious.phanto]

And it’s just so easy finding a girlfriend when you’re an extreme introvert I’ve never even approached a girl I keep doubting that any women would ever like me. And I’m 5/11 and stay in Michigan but like literally most women here average like 6/1

[@aaronstreets6914]

do you watch porn and masturbate? If so, stop. Do you work out regularly? If not, start. These two things alone with increase your life experience over time. You're not a victim.

[@Mysterious.phanto]

@@RustyShakleford1 LOL I don't know why but this comment made me laugh but as of now I'm trying to focus on myself and find my purpose and life I'm just tired of looking at all these fine girls in knowing that I don't have much of a chance with them so I'll take my frustration out by starting boxing

[@Godslonelyman7]

How about we live righteously and not worry about women. If you work on yourself they will choose you.

[@zadubs1037]

Why “girls” but “men”?

[@Freshadventures_]

Or broke if you are trying to impress her like a lot of dudes I know lol. Me I dont give two f*cks. Living the single life and glad I dont have to deal with that headache lol.

[@reigndrops1693]

guess i won’t be rich since i can’t get one 😔

[@TommyM4]

leaving you that comment you requested.

[@davidstorme8748]

Maybe I’ll forget Britney screwin’ over me?

[@twiistnutter]

still watchin bro *dap*

[@maximumman4647]

agree/ disagree a girlfriend will make you rich it depends on what person your developing connection with cause there are people who will use and abuse and there are people will stick for you just for you and end day slef improving is what will actually make you rich in the first place by learning to make money instead worrying about women also could learn new fitness goals make you look good as well or maybe find somethingfun tod or get a job that fun like personal training, being a coach fudge or being bar tender there are so many jobs out there that can be fun todo just gotta be openly minded what you want todo in life end of the day or learn how to be bussiness man and how to start one there are so many ways to become rich without a need of a girl end of the day always improve and girl will love a man that is willing to self improve in a lot aspect end of the day women want a man on purpose not lurking for women once you have it, what are gonna do it with it, mess around with her that it ? that is why end of the day always focus on goals and dreams not just people the people and females are always going to be there end of the day and if you get a girl that is good just remember to focus on what you can improve not just the girl making you improve.

[@josephang9927]

It feel like too much work for MAYBE getting a fat single mother someday... At least for most men. At least you have to admit why SOME men give ve up for good on this shit. Have empathy.

[@14xx07]

He is actually rather full of himself… she’s not supportive means she needs to hit the road? How about evaluating what you are doing and perhaps she might see a blindside you don’t see much like you can see her blindsights she can’t see. Females is not there to serve you without you thinking about what you can do for her. O.O this is insane…

[@Youngsparky95]

Nah dude it doesn’t lmao

[@davidstorme8748]

I want to but, damn dude… pride

[@myith88]

This guy got some ideas from wheat waffles

[@benzinschnueffler187]

Left you a comment (for the algorithm)

[@UnitedThrive]

Thank you