GETTING OLDER, MARRIAGE, CHILDREN, QUITTING YOUTUBE, DOES RELIGION MATTER??! | DIMMA UMEH

[@raeesafromsouthafrica]

Your answer on Toxic family, is 100% correct. I'm from a toxic family, I finally left them behind! I'm extremely emotionally scared, the Grace and Love of Yahweh is healing me on the daily. And to anyone who comes across this comment and you are perhaps struggling in this predicament of a toxic family, please do not be afraid to leave. There are many biblical saints who left their family house and they did not die. Don't allow fear to keep you there, take that step into the unknown, The Lord orders them.

[@Latifahgarba]

I left few years ago. It’s not been easy but it’s one of the best decision I’ve made in my life!

[@TheAmazonDeb]

🙌🙌🙌

[@pumzamlondi8538]

I agree. And to be fair, some of our parents (especially moms) are unknowingly toxic and emotionally abusive, still please leave. It is very empowering as a young person to be able to stand on my own.

[@ngareann]

I agree

[@yasminemalik8232]

Thanks

[@lizzy_sobande]

Dimma you don’t know what you’ve done for me! I got an 80% scholarship to study Msc Public health online in Uni of Suffolk courtesy UNICEF. I dunno what to say. God bless you real good

[@MologadiMakhafola]

Elizabeth Sobande well done honey! You deserve it! Congratulations 🎉🎈

[@goldruby4898]

Please how did you get that?

[@abigailharris5687]

Way to go girl...you did it❤

[@enemmercy]

Congratulations

[@philiswamchunu3824]

Congratulations. What was the waiting period?

[@SisiYemmieTV]

Dim-Dim you look so beautiful...as always. 😁 Thinking about it, I'm overdue for a Q&A as well lol

[@giftsamsontv1523]

My mentor, I love everything about you. Have been watching you for years now, you inspired me to start my own youtube channel. God bless you ma'am

[@opeyemiadeosun8552]

I see you sis

[@catchingupwithidee7074]

The moment I looked away to pour milk into my custard, you said “can you focus”. Wow 🤩

[@TheAmazonDeb]

🤣🤣🤣

[@vian7064]

😂😂

[@chinomsoukaegbu2100]

😂 😂 😂 😂

[@giftsamsontv1523]

Lol

[@catchingupwithidee7074]

Wow 78 people liked this comment so far. Dim Dim please epp me beg them to support my channel small na. You’re my role model. I will be grateful to have small boost on Subscribers. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@nadyn3934]

Girl I agree with you on living alone. I'm Cameroonian and left my parents in 2013 to study in Germany. Since then I have been living alone. I feel much more responsible, I learn new things about myself everyday you know. I even had instances while in a relationship where my ex will want me to move in with him but still I will turn him down.That belief that our african parents/culture think that we have to move directly from home into a man's house is quite unhealthy!

[@blessedtobless.]

Sometimes you can't leave on your own and you transition directly in your husdbans house.. This is not a curse. Every family dynamic is different. However, I agree with your point of view

[@Idee_love0]

This is exactly my story right now. I got so many discouragement from people saying, as a girl, it's not advisable to stay on your own, that you should wait for your brother's to leave the house before I do, and I shouldn't do that

[@frankytalks7941]

@@Idee_love0 do you boo, it's the most liberating thing ever, life is about stages your parents house & rules then your own living, your way, your rules then you know who you are, what you stand for and settle for someone likewise, it's such a bliss you come full circle before shagging up and having a family

[@nadyn3934]

@@blessedtobless. I don't think anyone said it's a curse! That's why she clearly mentioned that try it if you have the opportunity to do so!

[@nadyn3934]

@@Idee_love0 Girl do what works for you. When I left Cameroon for studies I didn't what to live with anyone although living alone comes with a fee(rents, feeding, bills etc )😅

[@IBKinx]

I definitely agree with you about living alone. It really helps you figure yourself out. I lived alone for a year plus and I can testify that it very important every woman try it too, if they can.

[@blessedtobless.]

If they can you said it well. I traveled a lot for internships and it helped me a lot

[@sisidammie]

This is very true

[@ezinneconfidence5463]

I lived alone for seven years before getting married. And I will tell you that those were the best years of my life.

[@LovingALLTextures]

OMG, you look like a younger Cynthia Bailey from Housewives of Atlanta in this video! Beautiful!

[@Flourish_today]

I see that now.

[@tamidivine9590]

And she looks like Lauren Speed from Love is Blind 😊

[@msmiami212]

People say this often

[@TinaKai25]

Omg she really does!

[@chroniclesandbeyond.1285]

Lauren speed!! Dimma looks like Lauren😂😂😂

[@christianealfred4500]

Me: *casually working on my laptop while listening to this video * Dimma: *says my Instagram username and answers my question * Me: 👀😳 omg! She said my name! *rewinds and watches it again * 😂 thank u dimma! Made my day! ❤️ Btw I love the new intro!!!

[@AbumereDotCom]

Dim-Dim sounds like a name that should be reserved for close friends & family. 😋

[@thevictoriaabia]

That is why some people call her that. They have become "FOND" of her and feel like they know her, like she is their friend.

[@PENIELEDWIN]

I consider myself in that category 🤗

[@Flourish_today]

You mean close family like us subscribers?

[@btyto]

Tito namesake ☺️

[@tonyeigbani]

We are her close friends and family

[@RosemaryEkele]

I will remind you of this video the day you hit 1 Million.

[@tochianozie]

Ever since I started my KZbin channel, the respect I have for content creators literally sky rocketed! It’s really not easy. Very nice video Dimma ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@ThatHappyGirl]

I just started , I'm literally struggling. And yet people like Dimma make it seem so easy with awesomely edited uploads back to back.

[@MSORS]

Me too

[@annita.0h]

Guyssss! Dinma responded to my comment....I’m so emosh right now😭😭😁😁💃🏼💃🏼

[@annita.0h]

I was also looking forward for a big birthday this year, but we move sha..being alive and staying alive is more importanter! Anambra to the world...yaaay!😁

[@stellachisom]

She’s the KZbinr I have so much respect for

[@mesomaokeke1]

I love the point you made about feminism! Many women will give the excuse of “feminists are too extreme” to shy away from identifying in the cause. Your explanation was spot on as always! 👏🏾👏🏾

[@bibaolaitan5189]

Underated comment...

[@MissTracyyy223]

You're so beautiful 😊

[@ViolaEkene]

'WE WILL MOVE TO ANOTHER HOUSE' Dimmmma!! That statement is what I'm talking about!! On point! 👌🏽 I love the answer!

[@chideraanaje]

I fainted at her reply🤣

[@Dop3ritrean]

You naming all of the African countries with such ease made my heart sing. ❤️

[@doreen.rruvuza566]

Kaaii!! The way she said my country's name!!! Uganda...just so nice.

[@pamelakiria]

You mean you are also here!!! 😂😋 👋🏽

[@fisayomi9456]

...and that cookware set will sell out in shoprite stores because Dimma mentioned it 😊 Like this comment if you think so too Beautiful Dimma 😍, love to you💕

[@pumzamlondi8538]

I mean, Im in SA and I want it. Try don't have such good quality pots in our shoprite.

[@raeesafromsouthafrica]

@@pumzamlondi8538 In the Shoprites in Nigeria they also include the products from Checkers Hyper because they are affiliated. And Checkers Hyper's products are good. I have and use their pots, I even have their Russell Hobbs pressure cooker. ❤️🇿🇦

[@Anu-dg4kl]

The 'I don't understand' part got me laughing out really loud..

[@mimilove4980]

Dimma you really look like Cynthia Bailey. Who else here thinks so. She cld be your twin girl...so striking.

[@baselebele3667]

I often battle to defend my feminist views at work because I work with alot of misogynistic males who are dwelled up in their patriarchal world, so listening to you express yourself on the matter always gives me courage to fight for what I believe in

[@bibaolaitan5189]

Ohhh.. i have this problem too...

[@heyifeoma]

Now I realise why people talk about being the first to watch a video.

[@khajiraspace]

Girl preach! I strongly believe in living alone before marriage. Learning how to maintain a home, pay bills and just be independent. I tell my friends all the time its the best decision I made. Im 24 now, have been living alone since 21. Now in talks with my man how soon we want to move in and probably within the next year

[@abubakariliyasumusa3807]

Awwwn Dimdim, thank you for answering my question, cos I was hesitant, I can't wait for things to get back to normal and kick it off.

[@anajadorcas5113]

"we will move to another house" This energy is one I've been on, since forever!!

[@sinegugudube4956]

Im South African and I absolutely loooove your channel. I hope you keeping well during the pandemic!

[@TheAmazonDeb]

Living alone is definitely a good thing one should get into as it help you discover yourself better which invariable makes you a better person when you meet a partner

[@chinazaonuoha7456]

Can you please do another video talking about toxicity especially in Nigerian homes? I have been struggling with this especially, trying to figure when to move or even trying to justify why I am moving to everyone else. Thank you!

[@osasays2462]

She has a video on that hunny.

[@munayema]

You don't need validation Sis, just leave. You won't regret it, it may be difficult but it would be worth it. Trust me

[@GistwithSherry]

Believe it or not more people are going through the exact same thing than it may seem. The reason why you don’t hear it a lot is because our culture has taught us to internalize feelings and thoughts that are not culturally accepted; leading to a generational pattern of brokenness, depression,anxiety and so many other things.You can try moving to another state with the excuse that you want to explore more job opportunities or to further your education. Another thing you want to keep in mind during your healing process is that people’s toxic behavior towards you, has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them and most importantly you’re not the things you didn’t do, you’re not the things you didn’t know , you’re the identity you create for yourself today.God bless you🙏🏽

[@bibaolaitan5189]

Is there not toxicity in every nigeria home..

[@chinazaonuoha7456]

Sherry Lamour Thank you so much!!

[@michaelosinowo6512]

Watching and listening to you is quite a delight. You should consider transcribing your videos. It would definitely expand your viewership, especially outside the shores of Nigeria.

[@TukeMorgan]

I actually miss events too! There were so many weddings and Brand events I was looking forward to this year but oh well! Awwww, hope you're able to celebrate Big next year!

[@frankytalks7941]

Every female should get an opportunity to live, travel and explore themselves it opens you up to so much of yourself. States are still in lockdown in Nigeria, only Lagos has relaxed rules, banks are still restricted and markets, trading, airspace and travel still restricted. Lockdown in SA is on another crazy prison level

[@jayharper2959]

SA lockdow is on a whole other level. I swear not even the WHO understands SA lockdown.

[@ifyudeozo1827]

That's it right there! been wondering what is wrong with me this past few years and you just said it "every female need to live travel explore...

[@aimanose3433]

Lockdown is eased in Owerri, and in other states too. It's not just Lagos

[@ClassNeverOutdated]

Did your country give you a stimulus?

[@frankytalks7941]

@@ClassNeverOutdated nope we are supposed to file in for unemployment insurance fund, which we are yet to receive as the government is taking it's precious time to process, but even with that it's 30%-60% of your income, so we are basically screwed either way

[@AmmaMama]

You would make such a great tv host of your own tv show. You are so cultured, intelligent, engaging and well spoken.

[@shalomchild7414]

I came to your KZbin as I find your voice so calming, “ May God’s will be done if He has any other speaking-related jobs “. I love your answer about haters/trolls/negative comments and even how you go the extra mile and pray for them. You look great for your age and you are very wise. You are very transparent speaking of your finances, it’s not common, it’s refreshing and thank you for sharing.

[@siyabulela3520]

I couldn’t stop staring at this wig 😍😍😍

[@Ogoo_Osuala]

Can we just take a sec to acknowledge the fact that dimma is such a good orator, I am seriously wowed❤

[@sussanlawrence6635]

I agree with you 100% ...

[@tiyyas3022]

New subbie here, girl! You said it! There’s something about living on your own that helps you grow up so much more and we fear it for no reason! Live within the same city as your parents if it helps you adjust

[@thesheltered-O]

"We will move to another house"! 🙌🙌

[@officialr_jay]

As a new youtuber, I can sincerely say that it’s not easy to be a youtuber and I duff my hats for KZbinrs like Dimma who put out great and quality contents consistently ❤️❤️❤️

[@giftsamsontv1523]

I'm a new youtuber let support and connect with each?

[@thesaintlyfoodie5255]

I am a new KZbinr too. Started a month ago. It's hard but thankful for the support and encouragement I have received so far. It has made me become more respectful to top notch KZbinrs like Dimma. She makes it look so easy ❤❤❤

[@NnalueIfeoma]

Youtubing like Dim-Dim said affects one's social life. I sometimes feels like going totally off but nope I do what I do because I know I want to do it.

[@KinkDiva]

Hello fellow newbies you all are smelling so fresh.... ❤️❤️

[@myrecipe_journal]

The Saintly Foodie just subscribed to your channel 🧡

[@NafiahOsikoya]

Act of service and gift giving! That's it, I've found my new big (twin) sister!

[@AbumereDotCom]

"I know if I don't eat I'll eventually die." - Dimma Umeh (2020) 😂😂😂 Extra!!! #FoodIsLife #FoodIsBae

[@lyndan3946]

Tito Abumere you’re all over this place

[@AbumereDotCom]

@@lyndan3946 Lol. I had time. 😋

[@lovedbyjesus7217]

😂😂please let a fan be

[@ATvee]

@@lyndan3946 he is o 🤣😂

[@melanymarangabassa8273]

Hey Dimma ! It's been a minute since I've commented on your videos or given you some love but please know I've been there from the start and have been following your growth! Once a Dimma fan, always a Dimma fan. Love you and the vibe you transmit

[@lauradoroh3542]

I literally clapped when you gave your opinion on leaving alone 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾, I couldn’t agree more

[@YaraMel]

''From one man's house to another man's house.'' Thanks for preaching!

[@ucheiwuajoku1037]

Wow.... you are more emotionally mature than your age. Well done #dimmaumeh

[@StellaSylvesterr]

You are so pretty Dinma, you inspired me to start my channel...more interesting contents

[@SoniaNnagbogu]

I just checked your channel our and it's cool, do you mind supporting ❣️❣️

[@DiutoAjoku]

before I start watching, lemme just say I love you Dimdim😂❤️

[@MissTracyyy223]

You're gorgeous 😊

[@joykhrystalz]

I have the strong resolve to live alone or with my friend.. cos I really want to experience and explore a lot before getting married... I really believe people in their 20s learn to live alone.

[@emetetim]

You’re glowing... as always 😍. I’m not a fan of dogs either, no matter how tiny 😭

[@NnalueIfeoma]

I remembered you saying so in one of your videos

[@joycee4425]

Me too

[@kwameopoku3576]

Ill buy u a pitbull

[@JESUSFORALL]

A new brethren here. Effective responses to viewers questions.

[@uchechieze5240]

You are very beautiful and intelligent too. Keep up the good work.

[@benedictekatende1157]

You are right about pyramid schemes In most countries, it's also illegal

[@BethFayemi]

I agree on moving out from your father's house but it has been an argument between my mum and I because she says "she would not let me go" 😂😂

[@egbeetchu]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@simplydheenmar3664]

Was in the same position as yours. But when i got a job so far awayy from home, coupled with lagos traffic and getting home by 10pm only to leave for work the next morning by 5am, she was the one that suggested it the next time

[@iamenoughblessed4356]

Wow so beautiful! Love the natural hair queen so beautiful. Love from Jamaica 🇯🇲. Wow, I am 5'10 as well

[@kamsinnamani]

Omg I legit use the same example when it comes to defending feminism. Loved this video

[@jenniferaguh8121]

I really love your page and your personality. I enjoy watching your videos and it is really giving me confidence to pursue my purpose. I really get moved when I see that you're a Christian and I love how you're open about it. God bless you and uplift you. Oh, and I love your voice, like I love listening to you.

[@lilianebube8828]

Dim Dim 😍😂 Ibu sö mma Dimma

[@Ibrahimbashirah]

I just started a youtube channel. And i can say, IT DIFFICULT Dinma is gold. You inspired my channel

[@gloriaewuruje1573]

Hi Dinma.. My name is Gloria and I'm currently in my second year.. You are a big motivation to me, honestly.. I love what you are doing.. You are encouraging many more independent and confident women and I am one of them. Please keep up the good job

[@jennychukuibi]

Dim dim!!!! 😂😂❤️ Hair on fleek!! Makeup on fleekest!! Everything dey! ❤️❤️🤗

[@dominicadione614]

I love you so much Dimma, thanks for your inspirational talk. One thing i took from this video is to akata take time and reflect on why you love what you do, and if you ever doubt yourself, there are family and friends that will always be of great support and reminder. 😊😇🙏, God bless you

[@ms.comfortdictioncorner7668]

Dim Dim kinda fits you

[@tomisinolagunju5139]

Lmao “what is your name?” The reaction got me 😭😭

[@iamfahhnea]

I tried applying for an online course. I got a call from one of their representatives in London, I was not accepted because I don’t have a sponsor.

[@hairllure_luxury]

Lol. I slid down my status bar to increase brightness and she said, 'can you focus please?' It scared me😂 I wasn't expecting that.

[@sussanlawrence6635]

I so much love Q&A from Dimma... I am 23, just finished school; waiting for my NYSC program. I knew from day one that I am a good orator. I love it a lot and I see myself rehearsing on my own about some issue on ground...but don't just know how to explore this...should I say I am too scared to start something probably because of the criticism I am going to get from family and friends. Watching you Dimma inspires me alot...

[@VictoriaAjadi]

Did anyone else noticed the number of underscores in some people’s Instagram name? 🤣 That ‘what is your real name’ part! Jamb question 😀

[@DIKANEDIKOKO]

I CAN TOTALLY RELATE TO THIS HATE COMMENT THING, IT HAS TO BE SOMETHING WITH THE PERSON AND NOT ME BECAUSE WHATS MY OFFENCE LOL! SOMEONE SAID SOMETHING REALLY HORRIBLE TO ME YESTERDAY THAT I ENDED UP IN TEARS AND EVEN FILMED A WHOLE ASS VIDEO (THAT I MIGHT NOT POST) I HOPE PEOPLE LEARN TO BE MORE KIND TO PEOPLE THEY DON'T KNOW!

[@KinkDiva]

very true honey post it or not they don't deserve your tear scr** them 🙂 don't let it hurt you ok..

[@BinaKerekebuna]

I missed Dimma ooo 😍😍😍

[@SPrincessbeneficialknowledge]

Makeup really nice. Esp eye shadow....

[@JodyMay05]

You have the best sponsors, first grammarly now this, great info!

[@adachigbata9032]

Good to know you haven't forgotten Enugu Abacha... You can now have #EnuguAbacha in Lagos. #CorporateAbacha will do the Magic for you

[@Borahborah9139]

Dimma the hair sis! Can we have the details? You look so good 😊

[@ChiomaSylvia]

I am consciously learning to sit back and appreciate what I have achieved before going on to plan the next thing. Gratitude goes a long way.

[@lantanabuba8481]

You look gorgeous Dim Dim❤❤

[@miraculous7350]

The intro!😩😅😅

[@Ahudaddie]

Honestly I can’t wait to live on my own. I feel every lady should before going to a man’s house. By the way I love you.

[@GloryOkings]

The way Corona was like Psychhhh to all our 2020 plans, is just very hurtful

[@dera_giselle]

I can relate to Kambili too😍

[@janetamuno70]

Awesome 👍 more power to your elbow 😘😘😘

[@drbate5744]

Gosh you're so eloquent...even with the speed

[@gbemioje9112]

Thank you for the multi level marketing answer..🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@Fay_Onoja]

KZbin is actually a lot of work. As a new KZbinr I can attest to that 🥰.

[@officialr_jay]

It’s a lot of work😩😩😩😩

[@giftsamsontv1523]

I'm a new youtuber too please let support each other

[@QueenOfTheCoast]

you are actually a very smart person, post more videos talking and advising please.

[@elizabethjulianah]

Hey Dim Dim! the best KZbinr out of Africa

[@BusolaCooks]

Omg so true, your comment about just starting. Pushed me to start my own channel 🥳🥳

[@babyreenablu]

Damnnn!!! I can relate so much with you! I'm so mad thst I'm just taking my time to view your channel. You speak so much truth!

[@pretty_ema_official]

Ugh I really need to wisen up with my expenses. I’m too impulsive 😿

[@omahills1851]

The people that don’t like this video,are you mad?🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

[@1991clarinet]

I am in the US and the government isn’t’t doing much for people who aren’t rich. It seems like we are going to open soon without any precautions in place.

[@a.d.w8385]

I am in Detroit, Michigan. My husband and I were talking and we both will continue to be safe. Our government is incompetent. Reopening seems like its bound to happen but you are right. No precautions. And our President. Girl. Be safe.

[@AdamaJatta]

Dim Dim!! ❤️😂 Lets get into it!!

[@OmaG]

How about Chidinma 🤣

[@AdamaJatta]

Beautiful Oma I say that too sometimes lol

[@onyinyesspace9085]

As I tried reading through comments, I heard "can you focus please.." Lol😂

[@ItunuAyinla]

I love Dim-Dim too,😁😁😁sounds cool

[@officiallyjustpretty]

This video was very helpful. I look up to you and I hope to meet you someday .

[@BigCera]

Many of us small KZbinrs are in the had I known phase right now. But no problem, we will survive.. I love you DimDim ❤❤

[@MSORS]

Youre so right. I wish i had started long ago

[@somtoezepue]

Awwwww you’re from Anambra!!! My sister!!!!

[@Fine_mama]

How do you just have the answers to every question w/o even thinking about it😘😍😍

[@somtoezepue]

Yayyy!! You answered my question on Chimamanda characters!

[@justiceerimjunior3949]

Dimma some state in Nigeria is still on lockdown Lagos is just state in Nigeria,you are beautiful ❤

[@giftamaechi5125]

Thank you Dimma. Someone once told me its not a good thing for a lady to live alone. This is quite ridiculous. They feel that the movement is 180degrees (from your father's house to your husband house). It's crazy.

[@winnieboateng5334]

I can imagine its so crazy😂😂 We Women can take care of ourselves Lol.

[@phaitedng]

Gift, I see you here! Wawu!!

[@giftamaechi5125]

@@phaitedng lol. Ng, yes oo. I'm here. Always.

[@IamfolaO]

Dim Dim love eet😍😍😍. As a new KZbinr, one thing I've learnt is that creating contents ain't easy at all. It has to be something you really love, not that you are doing it cos people are doing it. If not in the long run, you will just get tired. Kudos to Dimma for giving us interesting and valuable contents. Thanks for being an inspiration, we keep growing.