Getting This Off My Chest! Why Are Black Women So Disrespectful, Rude, & Bitter?Ya'll Are Delusional

[@MonaB]

Let me make something else very clear!! The only reason why I have given hair growth advice is because a lot of people would ask me how I grew out my shaved sides and how I grew my hair after cutting it. This video is long but all of this needed to be said!! Don't let the message go over your head. Here's the link to my vlog channel: www.youtube.com/@MonaBUncut

[@Dedego768]

The crazy part about it is black women love screaming “protect black women” but will attack another black woman for no reason

[@MonaB]

Listen this is the one!!!!

[@Love-dc5tq]

I really feel like a lot of black women do not like black women

[@MonaB]

I agree and it’s truly sick!

[@keshiaRose195]

Right they are evil and disrespectful I have been called ugly one time I was in the store I walked past a black female she was rolling her eyes at me and giving me all types of dirty looks I did not even know the girl And I did not even know her name

[@Goddess_Infinity]

I had to search this up because I’m tired of the rudeness from other BW . I’m 31 years old and I don’t seem to get along with majority if not all BW in the workspace and outside . I literally have 1 black female friends. It’s like the minute they see me , they hate me . I’m on the verge of wanting to quit my job, whether or not I’m nice and kind to them I’m always greeted with attitudes.

[@slimaine9392]

I agree with everything. I've been treated so badly by black women I don't even share my good news with them anymore. Especially within my family

[@Ms_Introvert_4_Life]

the rudeness amongst black women is horrible!!!! I don't understand their need to come under people's comments and say the rudest vile things to others. It's sickening.

[@MonaB]

It’s insane!!

[@kari818]

It's total jealousy. I watched an interview many years ago, where a black man own a pizza place in a neighboring town and was getting ready to buy another place. He said he couldn't tell the black people in his neighborhood because they would target him and destroy what he's made. He said the attitude was if they don't have it, he shouldn't. Yet he was busting his ass to make something of himself, and he said his neighbors were not working hard to have the same things. That's a super sad way to live. To have to hide his success because of the jealousy of his neighbors.

[@IndigoCosmic]

As a black woman whose lived and traveled to different countries and different communities I believe a lot of black women that grow up in Urban areas, go to public schools and who aren't raised with both parents that are loving and supportive, tend to gravitate towards lower frequency/ toxic behavior patterns and communication styles.

[@lakeishag76]

I’m so glad you spoke on this. Our community loves to promote “Black sisterhood” but it is fraught with hostility and resentment. It’s a lot of fake love out here, especially when it comes to hair and beauty. Thank you for speaking your mind. ❤

[@JammyLatte]

Literallly, a few days ago I was in a client meeting and there was only me and one other black women there, so I was really excited to meet her since the field I work in is predominantly white men. I got up and introduced myself to her and put my hand out for a handshake and you should've seen her face she just looked at me with disgust and didn't even fully grasp my hands, just by the finger tips. I was so upset I had to call my mum on the phone afterwards.

[@ajstudios9210]

This is so true. A lot of the BS I have had to deal with has come from my own people, ironically. They will complain about racism but not even think about learning to be kind to their own people. We need to stick together yet some of them are acting like clowns and being so rude for no good reason.😒🙄 Also, some of you don't respect boundaries and understand personal space.

[@keyonasmith7802]

I am facing negative energy from older and black women the same age as me in the work place it’s so crazy to me why can’t we uplift each other smh 😢

[@Goddess_Infinity]

Same !!! Every day at work it’s frustrating. It’s been on going for 2 years and all the other BW and ones my age . I’m not exaggerating all!

[@bluejay9968]

They are the most miserable people. You're beautiful, and they hate it.

[@CT97559]

This is why I fly solo. Women are so mean!

[@Sassysonia1234]

Girl I was cleaning my room and had a flashback to college when a stranger called me ugly for no reason when I was walking down the hallway. I went to an hbcu and had a lot of weird experiences like this. Honestly black men are just as bad. I was wearing shorts in the summer once and some guy called me a “whore” infront of his girlfriend. I did not know any of these people I was a freshman.

[@robertallen9885]

She's feminine that's why she's sensitive . She's operating in her natural state being a woman ! Her Femininity is mad fly !!

[@jbb8261]

Girl. I had a black woman come for my edges after I lost some of them due to postpartum shedding. 😢

[@quotivation47]

She is SOOOO RIGHT! I do not understand this self hatred within our culture.

[@santanapage5044]

I really want to know?? This is why I tend to stay to myself, my own mother is rude and miserable

[@oneflowerlover]

That energy is not weird, it's evil! Use the block button Sis!

[@MonaB]

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[@chantamassenburg9735]

Has been my experience with Black women sense day 1. It's like something out of a horror movie.

[@newtea2458]

Mona I’m an older black woman who has always loved and respected you and have learned so much from you. Don’t listen to these negative people - envy from people who don’t like themselves is dangerous!

[@Faith_mmack]

It’s sad because we already go through a lot with the sexism in the black community. Its so disgusting and disturbing.

[@sc-jl1lj]

Yes yes and YES! This read is VERY much needed and true! So much ignorance amongst our community especially black women! There is no real sisterhood because of the constant and steady , and honestly pointless competition, trying to one up and shame the next woman for whatever reason! I hate it, and so glad you addressed this stupidity and stood 10 toes on your stance

[@BriBri256]

as a BW i agree sister girl. all my yrs. of living i’ve been targeted by my own ppl. smh. i don’t pay it no mind anymore but you are gorg. 🥰🥰

[@persephonebailey7292]

As an "Older Black Woman" I feel the need to comment. I HATE that Blacks, particularly women, don't support one another. We are the only race that DOES NOT SUPPORT each other! It is sad! I am so glad that I found you when I decided to big chop. I didn't know what I was doing because I was brainwashed my entire life thinking that black women were not beautiful unless they had long, straight hair. You taught me a lot! Like some of your other supporters I didn't know that I could style my hair in different styles. I still watch your old videos because after my 3rd big chop I am just bored wearing my twa without being in a cute style...and yes I know rocking my twa naturally is a style in itself. You have inspired me so much! I am glad that you addressed this because it needs to be said. Some people are just so miserable that they want to project it on everyone who isn't like them. We have the power to rebuke all of that negativity. Let them live their miserable lives. I have said it before and will continue to say it but I just cant understand why we cant support one another. I am helping to raise to beautiful black granddaughters and I want them to always know that they are beautiful no matter what, especially when dealing with their natural hair. I applaud you so please keep inspiring others! Don't let these old bitter bitties get you out of character...Just delete and block. In the kind words of Michelle Obama..."When they go low, We go HIGH!" Love ya Sis♥

[@MonaB]

Amen to all of this!!! I can’t understand it either we would be so much more powerful if we came together!! I really want better for us! This definitely will be my last time addressing it, it just needed to be said one last time. Thank you for watching and supporting my content!! Love you too!!❤️

[@qianamarie5195]

Don’t let these social media bullies make you run away from your destiny. I have been watching you for years and I love you. I love everything about your fashion, your style, your personality, and you are beautiful and amazing and I love how you talk and everything. Don’t let the cyber bullies talk you out of your blessing because GOD has a greater destiny and calling on your life.

[@MonaB]

Aw thank you, I appreciate your kind words!!❤️

[@nicole_writes]

These ppl are miserable. The way they say they are treating Megan let's me know this whole Protect Black Women isn't real. You just keep doing what you doing and start blocking these raggedy heifas.

[@MonaB]

Exactly!! Very good example they’re doing her so wrong smh and we know why.

[@olaakinfolarin2515]

Your channel gave me hope as a 4c girl. All the styles I’ve been rocking has been from your channel. I appreciate you!!!!

[@MonaB]

So dope, I’m glad my videos have helped you!!❤️

[@jamilliahbarney]

Girl f**k these folks, I’ve enjoyed your journey along the way. You’re beautiful sis, keep going 🤎

[@Kandybarbrown]

Self hate is real & sad at the same time. Anytime I scroll through anyone's comments especially the news....gurl there's almost no hope for humanity....😪😪😪

[@angelica69]

Thank you for making this video! I realized this a long time ago and most people brush it off like it’s not a thing. Especially when it comes to hair black women want to tear others down. If someone has healthy or long hair people immediately start trying to tear that person down. They get jealous when they see curl patterns, length, and healthy hair that they want for themselves. The natural hair community has become extremely toxic. I can’t watch one video without disgusting comments. Thanks for addressing this because it really happens. Even the comments in this video specifically have people trying to defend others bad comments. You’re gorgeous and I wish you the best ❤

[@fayesmith4751]

Thanks beautiful black queen for speaking your peace, thanks for your content there are some people who are here that appreciate your work and what you do instead of criticizing or just being nasty because of their own insecurities you said what needed to be said and I ain’t mad at you!! Glad you spoke on this I wish we all could come together and support and lift each other up.

[@MonaB]

Thank you! I agree I wish we could come together as one and win!! It’s so sad smh

[@triciaworld]

I keep my hair short a twa and I’m 50% gray I get the most negative vibes from my own my cut is cute to me I love it but my own ppl don’t love the hair that grows out of there heads it’s very sad and I stay clear of negative people

[@rebeccaadelson6390]

You’re a beautiful black woman. That’s why they hating. Don’t let them bother you❤.

[@gradymorrrowjr37]

It's a insecurity thing Sista I wouldn't let them steal your Shine I just Stumbled across your channel and I subscribed to your channel all I can say is Salute to you Queen keep doing you 💯

[@twink6235]

I have to comment on this video, because I don’t think you understand how you’ve paved the way for black woman to have self love for there natural hair. For me personally I started with doing a big chop into a twa. I came across your page and I never knew it was even possible to have the hair styles that you’ve posted. I was able to find self love and loving my natural hair because you’ve helped me to achieve this. Now I’m loc’d but if I hadn’t had that self love and enjoy my twa hair I don’t think I would have been able to enjoy the different stages of the loc stage. From one black woman to another don’t stop posting because you never know who you will touch. You give inspiration keep thriving queen!!!

[@MonaB]

Awww that’s amazing!! Thank you I appreciate that!!🥹❤️ Congratulations on your loc journey I know they’re beautiful!!

[@1960genius]

Sending you positivity, gratitude and LOVE! ♥

[@msmuniz23]

You seem like a very nice person and you are very pretty. Some people are probably miserable and not happy with themselves so they will pick apart other people. They’re probably envious of you.

[@michellebarnes7725]

yes Queen Iam g!ad you standing your ground black women need to stop all this hate why do we hate on each other instead of lifting each other up we as black people need todo better why hate its not cute I have always liked your content even when I was natural you gave me inspiration when I was natural why can't we get along lets come together be welcoming and show more love for one another we will never make it as as a black race with all this hate please stop people

[@summerrose2853]

New subscriber I can tell you are just as beautiful in the inside as on the outside. You are speaking facts It's so sad but true I have been through this too many times I wish you peace and love

[@MeetTheCuriousFriends]

Speak sister! You are telling nothing but the truth!

[@MsTorri]

I never comment because I’m always watching you from my AppleTv app on my television. But I had to come over here today for this. Thank you Mona. You have inspired me for years. You’ve always been very positive, very beautiful, and made content for my 4c hair that I had no idea how to manage after having a relaxer since I was 6 or 7! Everything you said needed to be expressed. You represent us brown girls beautifully babe! Keep shining!

[@philmiciakcmyles133]

MONA... I dont care what the HAGS are sayn... please dont YOU STOP 🛑 making videos- your ☝🏽 of the genuine positive black girl power 💪🏽channels! I ❤your vibe! Subbie from the beginning!!🥰

[@MonaB]

Thank you!!❤️

[@lilij5321]

I've been watching you for a long time and I usually don't comment, but I want you to know how much of a blessing your channel has been to me over the years. I don't even watch that much for the hair content anymore, but mostly because I enjoy watching you 🙃💖 Keep doing what makes you happy and ignore those ignorant and self-hating people. God blees you! 🥰🙏🏾

[@MonaB]

So glad I could help!! Thank you!!❤️

[@joangossett]

I am a great grandmother, I can't imagine anyone being toxic at you being you. I admire your spirit, and courage and the fortitude you exhibit. A true woman of my heart. To those who are so disrespectful tells me they have so much lacking in their lives. They are broken 💔 and they seriously need help.

[@lululemonbar9110]

Keep speaking the truth, you are also beautiful inside and out! 👏

[@coffeerevival7812]

Mona, you are truly one of a kind. Truly intelligent, excellent speaker, very entertaining and smart!!! Thank you for being you!

[@singinginsominac2647]

A lot really are...its very sad.

[@mrsshainasmith]

Mona, I just want to let you know that I genuinely love your channel. I have been watching you for so long. You already know you were "my home girl" when I was on maternity leave with both of my children. I watch your videos because I like your content, your style, your authenticity. Honestly, the hair content is just the icing on the cake. Wishing you nothing but the best on this channel and in your personal life. I’ll see you over on Mona B uncut for the vlogs💛💛

[@MonaB]

Hey girl! How are you? I hope all is well and you know I remember. You’ve been rocking with me for a long time and I appreciate the support!! Thank you!!❤️

[@mrsshainasmith]

@@MonaB I’m doing well! Getting ready for the holiday season. It’s so beautiful and snowy here right now. Giving us all the Christmas feels 🥰❄️☃️

[@GLW102]

Keep doing you! You are inspiring and creative and truthful. You are loved and respected. Thank you for being you 100% ❤ Neon is your color sis. 😊

[@jayleutner9997]

Mona, you hit the nail on the head,very much respect to you for telling things how they are🙏everyone has a nature,but you are right,the things that play into it are, ones own behavior,personality,their mindset. We can't control how other people perceive us but we can control how we respond and react. Again respects to you,other people's perceptions are on them, and reveal their insecurities and has nothing to do with us. Their projections and issues are squarely on them🙌🙏

[@selfishkindoflove]

I’ve been watching your tutorials for years! I think you are amazing & helped me many times to tame my hair because natural hair is sometimes tricky to keep with. You must be doing something right if you have haters. Keep up the amazing work & we love you & I love your work sis. Keep doing what you do ❤️❤️❤️

[@TonySomething.]

Thank you for your channel and I’m thankful for your channel some of your videos really help me as a black man. Some black wo/men treat everything as some weird competition and that their own issues, I personally thought I was doomed to not be able to grow my hair and have it look good and you proved I could. I’ve been told my whole life by other black people I just didn’t have good hair even though we had the same type of hair and I don’t know why but in general it’s hard for some other black people to see other black people do good Or feel good.

[@fatimasg1]

I ain’t even gone lie you DEFINITELY inspired me. There was NO ONE that looked like me or had my hair texture on KZbin when I decided to go natural, Just a bunch of curly haired, light skin women who been natural their whole life in the first place. This natural hair movement wasn’t made for y’all, SORRY, but it was for us, the brown skin girls who were called nappy headed and felt like we had to hide under relaxers and wigs to feel pretty. I have been following you for years, and I have locs now and I STILL watch your videos, because I have grown to just like you as a person. Don’t let the haters get to you and I know that’s easier said than done, but GOD clearly has your back, because you are on this platform STILL reppin for us and all the trolls will continue to be bitter in the comments. I heard a saying, you ain’t doing it right if you don’t have any haters… so girl you doing good lol‼️ Keep it up those that love you, still love you. ❤

[@MonaB]

I agree it definitely was for us and we still need more and better representation for our hair in the media. Congratulations on your loc journey that’s dope!👏🏾 I agree with that saying it’s true, I just had to clear the air one time before the new year starts. Thank you for all your kind words!!❤️

[@peoplesdigest7594]

You are so inspirational, you speak with class and so educated. Your speech is direct and succinct. First time, I came across your channel today and I love it, and enjoy watching your hair videos, your personally is so likeable. I had to subscribe, cause I want to see more of you, I am strongly inspired by you. Love and support all the way, and you are so strong and beautiful. Keep doing you, and your positive nature, cause it really helping people like me. . About to watch more of your amazing videos, back to back. Thanks for sharing, and God bless you.💕💕.

[@MonaB]

Thank you for subscribing I appreciate the support!!❤️

[@pooh363]

It's so disrespectful I have watched your videos in the past and you are a beautiful person and these people need to stop their ignorance I love your versatility with your hair I as well like versatility I just recently had my natural hair cut very short and I love it! Keep doing your hair your way Sis

[@janaebeckford]

Mona B....sis I immediately came across your video and saw the title and had to watch and subscribe. Thank you for your honesty and for being real. 💖🙏. I truly believe this topic needs to be talked more about... Because so many black woman need to heal and do better for real. I feel the only way we can truly support one another is if we love on ourselves before spreading love to others. Nothing but peace and blessings to you hun 🙏😊

[@BriaBarrows]

First of all, you look beautiful:) and it’s true! But I’m a writer and I’ve been writing an article about this recently and I’ll do a video about it later in the year maybe. But our community struggles with deep trauma and insecurities. Many black women struggle with their self-esteem at times and end up lashing out at each other. 🙏🏾 We need to heal

[@africanstar651]

Baby Girl! I feel you and really wish things weren't the way they are. Unfortunately, slavery and colonialism has done a number on black people that I don't think can be corrected. I've been doing big chops since 1991. I've been gawked at, assumed to be a lesbian, praised for my bravery, and everything in between. All I was doing was doing my hair the way I felt like at whatever time. The internet has been a blessing and a curse. We are able to share knowledge, but some people are so miserable and have to much self-hatred that they feel the need to try to drag people into their misery. I'm proud of you for making this video. We know that some won't "get it", but hopefully the ones that needed this message will get it. Keep doing what you do. Might I add that this is not just an issue in our community. The same things happen amongst other races. Humans are just terrible.

[@deecee4310]

Just found your channel on 2nd January 2023 and I’ve fallen in love with your truth + honesty. I really resonate with what you said. Thank you. A new subscriber 🎉🎉🎉

[@virgomoonchild79]

I've been following you for about 4 years and I love your videos!! You told nothing but truth Sis!!! Love me some Mona B🥰🥰🧡🧡😘😘

[@littlemissunimpressed]

I’m so sorry Mona B. 😢I can’t believe people have been saying this stuff. smh

[@firstgrtldy]

Hey Mona!!! Can you give the details on the sweater and earrings??? I love the look!!! Keep pushing!!

[@MonaB]

Hey!! My mom gifted me the earrings and the sweater is from years ago from Meijer a grocery store up north. Thank you!!❤️

[@stephaniesharp6690]

Hey Mona, I miss my girl. Pray all is well 🙏🏾 Girl let them haters be hating. Keep doing you boo. Glad you putting them in there place.

[@MonaB]

Hey!! Thank you, it needed to be said!!❤️

[@lx.lx730]

You are the cutest person ive ever seen! So sad ppl cant get passed their anger to the point they have to be mean to others. Love your videos

[@AlexisMaria]

Jealousyyyyy. Dassit. Period

[@tinalouiseking]

You are GORGEOUS!!!

[@quotivation47]

New subscriber and I am a guy! You dropping nothing but truth bombs.

[@anitalockett1482]

You said it sis💯💯💯

[@MonaB]

❤️

[@cinnamongirl7519]

I love your content Mona and your hair journey has been soooo inspiring to me!!! ❤️

[@philliptompkins4064]

You look gorgeous Stay 💪🏼 ❤️

[@MonaB]

Thank you, I will ☺️

[@Brian_1800]

She is gorgeous 😍

[@bigstep9276]

Haters go hate

[@stephaniereneestyles7303]

You are beautiful! You are loved! Get your coin. xoxoxo

[@MonaB]

Thank you!!❤️

[@destined2begreat605]

I love your personality Mona and I love all your hair videos keep doing your thang girl much love and RESPECT to yo queen 👑👑💯💯💕💕💕💕😊😊

[@MonaB]

Thank you!!❤️

[@HappyMomma412]

Tell ‘em, Mona!! 🤦🏾‍♀️🙏🏾✌🏾🦋🌍💜🌈😘 Also, your dimple! Ohmygosh! 😍😍🥰🥰🥰😍😍

[@MonaB]

Thank you❤️

[@saramatthews7159]

You're such a gorgeous young lady!

[@cocoace7587]

New sub , I adore you , your look & style . Your bubbly attitude is infectious. # keep up the positivity ✨️

[@Reichelle]

Girrrrrl, go the F off! 👏🏾

[@mlo9797]

Mona don’t listen to nobody that coming ask you why your hair is so short some of them love I mean love when people are lying to them some youtubers born with long hair they just drop a video cutting their hair use some products tell us it’s but a lot of us know them well they are lying to us not everyone born with long hair people my is and my sister hair is so long just leave my Mona alone ok

[@MonaB]

Exactly!! People don’t like honesty they’ll listen to a lie before the truth smh. Thank you!!❤️

[@joebruce2180]

They mad cause they know its the truth.

[@truthfactors9958]

You are beautiful! You also spoke 💯 facts.

[@trevorgamble4101]

You look beautiful and you right

[@darleneholman7105]

I’m new to your channel and instantly felt encouraged to do my own hair and that’s so major for me. Then I came across this video, I’m sorry you have to experience this because my experience with your content has been nothing but inspiring. Keep up the great work. 💕💕💕

[@bernadettehof5878]

New here, luv this, greetings from the Netherlands 😊👍

[@atthismoment3006]

you so cute to me- I can't believe anyone would say something bad about you- its weird they hate you because YOU are them! and that is sad!

[@GlamCam84]

I like this video.

[@Mampleasewhat]

Feeel u on deep level its ok ur not alone.

[@syn698]

You look beautiful

[@sheshedshenanigans]

Hey Mona

[@MonaB]

Hey!!👋🏾

[@mwilliams5863]

👏 🙌🏽 🎯‼️

[@RadiantHeart773]

Your Beautiful 🤩❤️

[@MonaB]

Thank you, so are you!!❤️

[@ShaniquaWhipple-k5x]

This is an good video

[@candystayinaturalalexander5869]

💗💓💓

[@JoeyTeam31]

I like you

[@vescoellis5980]

Sista you are very beautiful and sexy🌹🤎love from your black man.

[@KC-kk7nc]

I've been a subscriber to your channel for a couple of years and I watched your videos here and there. I think you gave into the negativity when there is so much more positivity. It's kind of un professional. What about all the black women that like your videos and compliment you, instead you made a huge generalization and in short you became just like the people that leave negative comments on your video. You're onto bigger things why pay attention to a bunch of strangers. I think you are triggered, asking you about the length of your hair is not rude or disrespectful. This video takes away from your channel, I wouldn't leave it on here for long.

[@MonaB]

I think this whole video went over your head. There is no such thing as being un professional on a channel that is meant to show someone’s craft and personality. I’m not here for professionalism. This is the internet! If me being myself is unprofessional so be it. I’m here to speak truth, something that we don’t do much in our community. It’s easy for a person on the outside looking in not to understand. Even if I am triggered by the comments, I’m a human not a robot and should be treated like such. I’m not going to let people bully me online. We have to do better as black people. I was also showcasing how darker complexed people get treated in society and on the internet.