Ghosting After the First Date; We’re Locking Up These Items During a Drunken Night

[@piyushwagh8363]

I was ghosted 3 times and it really scarred me. I wasted like a year questioning myself and if there was anything wrong with me. I really appreciate honesty no matter how hard it is to accept.

[@Zumcho]

Nobody wants to be ghosted, but nobody wants this much honesty either. 🤷‍♀️

[@miranda13c]

He was honest 🤷‍♀️

[@alexisunderwood3097]

He saved you from a headache backache and a toothache.

[@indigobeauty1]

😅😅😭 so0 true

[@Tan87ful]

Yep lol

[@yosrabenchikhi]

I love this type of makeup on Adrienne. Its so neutral, nude colours and highlights in her hair. Looks amazing 😍😍😍😍

[@blackbavvy]

I’m with Loni on this one, that’s why ppl should date with caution. No one wants to be the back up plan☝🏿

[@cindyben3089]

It was one date. They don’t owe each other anything.

[@blackbavvy]

@@cindyben3089 Yup. I know. That’s why I agreed with Loni.

[@Tan87ful]

@@cindyben3089 exactly

[@user-om8lu4nq4v]

As women, we should know how to handle rejection too. It is what it is. The world does not end if someone doesn't want to be with you. "Thanks for letting me know James. All the best xx" then delete or block his contact. You'll get over it boo.

[@MyRose_1991]

„I like this James person“ 🤣

[@indigobeauty1]

I love the honesty! Now she can decide what she wants to do next.

[@AngelFriend911]

He didn’t like her and she was his plan b

[@joelandtia]

Ghosting? I mean he texted after 5 days Is that ghosting? He was honest, I appreciate James! She shouldn’t let that rock her self worth

[@danielap4037]

I would reply with an honest response. That's never happened to me, so I too would be puzzled if that happened to me, BUT there's nothing wrong with a heart felt courteous reply.

[@Anas-rx1he]

Completely random but guys!! Does anyone watch Tyler Henry the Hollywood Medium? I watched an episode with Loni on it recently (it’s from a couple of years ago) and when she asked about love, he predicted the guy would be named James. At the time she hadn’t even met James so she was just confused and let it go. I triple checked dates of the episode + when Loni started posting James, even then there’s atleast a few years difference. Sorry just wanted to share this, it had me tripping lol.

[@unorthodeux]

Woah, that is trippy! :0

[@BryanaTV]

Woah 😮

[@neptune0144]

that's insane!

[@builtdiff-111]

I mean she does have a bf whose name is James Welsh so yeh

[@riobrasilsambashowssambist1453]

This is NOT ghosting. No word after a 4 year relationship is.ghosting. dating the love of your life for months when u finally have amazing sex, and complete silence is ghosting. This flimsy example does not show men's brutality when they won't break up w u, they just start ignoring u

[@ashleighrose8115]

As someone with 10years of serving experience I can tell you that EVERYTHING that happens from the moment you walk into a restaurant from the moment you cash out, gets factored into our tip. If people wait forever for a table or their food comes out wrong, it all gets taken out on our money. So if there is something not right that you're not happy with, we'd rather remake it and have you he happy than leave unsatisfied. And honestly we take dozens of orders in a shift, and the kitchen makes tons of food all day, remaking an order that's wrong or changing it to somthing else really isn't that big of a deal to us as people assume, our job is to make sure you have a good experience so as long as you have a good server, than remaking your order is no big deal to us.

[@jrodd05]

He’s honest BUT I would move on. I would reply with class and understanding and wish him the best of luck

[@davidkay7644]

As far as being ghosted goes, I would rather focus on doing the things I like to do in my life.

[@Archivedmemos]

He shouldn’t have took her on a date and waste her time.... just because he was honest doesn’t mean he’s wrong

[@patriciabarnes7034]

Tamera is absolutely hilarious 😂

[@Giogiogio4]

Worst ghost I had was after a really great date. She was literally talking our next date/hangout multiple times that night. I even gave her a chance to leave when I asked her If I had to have her home by a certain hour. We ended up spending the night out on the town for a good 11 hours. She made me text her when I got home and carried on the convo til 5am. ( picked her up at 6pm ). She said she was gonna set an alarm to wake me up the next day ( I had work ). And we said our goodnights. I said multiple times during the date I enjoyed being with her and look forward to the next date. Next day? Nothing. Sent her a text or two. 2 days, I tried calling. Voicemail. 7 days later still nothing. She didn't unmatch me. Didn't block my number. None of it made sense. Now I gotta worry if she's dead or something.

[@MalindiN223]

LOL LOL LMAO I am laughing because i honestly experienced this a few weeks ago and honestly i just accepted that nah he was just not that into me for us to have a relationship. Yes we vibed that day/night but still after i left he had already made his choice.

[@k.w.1363]

He already knew he didn’t want her. Don’t know why he took her out on a date to begin with

[@tonitaquetaparks3304]

That's why I dont use online dating.

[@ssissigui8846]

I think he was honest! His message is fine

[@ryan8271]

Women do the exact same thing all the time, but ghost you completely with zero explanation. You just have to expect it to happen, and when it does, just move on and find someone that is crazy about you. Dont be anyone's second option.

[@kimberly6497]

11:45 Then they shouldn't work there if they are not going to listen to what the customer wants, Adrienne.

[@cocoubiz]

First date is the most important because is when you can ask them if their mom still washing their clothes or cook for them? Or they are independent. And what do they think it about team work in the family? where both have equal responsibility for their children and house shores. It's important to ask to make sure your date is not a narsicist. They could lie and say yes so they can sleep with you.. watch you tube videos on how to catch a narsicist psicopath or machista, womanizer.. it must be hard to catch on first dates. It's important for future so you and your children can be raise by a normal empathic man.

[@charlesjraverys240]

Calling me a lie its a back and forth for you Ms. Bye!.😜😰😭

[@youngrios]

I'm going to watch this later if I remember. But I have been ghosted after a 2nd date or meet. I really thought things were going well ..we even kissed both times. Maybe she just wanted emotional support or attention..

[@monicamedina3059]

Miss Tamera on the Real shes soo cute lol

[@-H4mburger-]

He was honest. She knows, move on. No confusion here. If a man wants you no waiting.

[@Mel__21]

I’m a very picky eater always have been, that is why I usually just order the same thing. Although when I do try out something new I end up loving it. Like read the menu people see what it comes with.

[@charlesjraverys240]

Right on time not insread but a come by will and wont its a siss ripping me off useing Address change I think.😜😰😭

[@je39981]

You want to save your time ? Don't go on a real date with a guy till you get to know him over the phone. Is he calling and texting consistently and what are your standards so that you can discuss some important topics and pick his brain. If he asks why no date now ? Tell him that you want to get to know him over the phone before the two of you step out because you do not step out with just "any man" and don't give anyone your time. Start being assertive and upfront. 2021 is not the time for games and if you don't want your time wasted you have to mean it and walk away when something is no longer serving you for the future.

[@sophiasmith5949]

Well I know 4 me even in picking my brain I will not reveal certain things unless we are together.

[@natalie-s9w1y]

At least he responded many of them are whimps and too scared to tell a women they’re not interested and stuff. Even a guy much much older are still losers! Men stink rather be single lol

[@valjaramillo2723]

If you. Order it at beginning. Have them write it down in the order. That way if the cook makes it right. Tell them you'll be back. And compliment the cheif

[@leighakeaveny5530]

Yeah jeanies ego looks hurt. This was definitely her experience

[@Kayyleeeeee]

I thought the same

[@snoopz2]

As man myself I know a shade when I see one, and that ladies and gentlemen is SHADE😂😂😂😂😂😂he was just wrong, she will be dumb if she responds.

[@melonnelon855]

I miss this

[@mibikolapo7483]

I miss T so much 💕

[@stanleycoleman]

all those clips in jeannie's hair makes me uncomfortable.

[@Arizona_lilly]

Let her know... if ot don't work out LOL wtd he didn't have tell her all that

[@Arizona_lilly]

Wtf ?? All that lol they just met

[@charlesjraverys240]

Ok so and so?😜😰😊

[@millenniumphetedi9454]

Chocolate!!! 😍😍💖

[@valjaramillo2723]

How come he didnt say at first.

[@shantellhearts4164]

Iam the only person I know that isint a picky eater ..i literally get the dish however it comes never subtract anything only thing is if it comes spicy or with sauce i ask for extra por que me gusta el chile lol ..

[@berl.1599]

Hi Nouchi! I know you’re watching this sooner or later! This is your brother Ber! 😂😂😂

[@miranda13c]

I take it she’s a fan of The Real? 😂

[@berl.1599]

@@miranda13c Yes! I am too lol. She says I’m gay for liking it but I’m just into people talking I guess. 😅

[@kimberly6497]

13:25 Yeah because you allow people to walk all over you. So, that's not you trying to be nice and not bother the waiter/waitress, that's you not having the guts to stand up for yourself.

[@CR38ion]

Why do I feel like this is loni’s James... like loni did say in another episode that James ghosted her for a week before they started dating 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

[@TheKangarooqueen]

FACTSS!!!

[@OneLoveRSR]

Considering how cavalier Loni was about this, I HIGHLY doubt it. She gets loud and overbearing when people don't agree with her about random topics. She'd never be this tame if it was actually about her.

[@nessac.4897]

Bring Tamera back!!!!

[@kellycraddock269]

Hey I'm a big fan

[@shirolehero]

I miss the studio and Tamara

[@gabrielleivie4585]

A date is a date it’s not official yet anyway which means he doesn’t have to settle down with her and he has the right to move on from her that’s his right and a female has the right to change her mind too I don’t see the crime yes it’s a little sad but that’s life

[@jeromebaxter2987]

9:56 10:03 10:11

[@paulettehammond-duerson8989]

Idc, what the hell is wrong with you. I don't want him. You all must be arguing, leave me out of it. I don't want him. I honestly don't want him. I have already moved on.

[@naimadelafeunte9165]

Wud Response thnx for being Honest but please never try to contact me when it doesnt work because u know i life is short to talk to wrong Person again..Period!

[@anaslamid9564]

I like 👍

[@dinabhandari8512]

While addrine talk she hit table so many time why😅

[@eliagf2623]

when they gonna talk about relevant and usefull topics !!!!!!

[@dreamyclown7185]

Girl this chat is soooo old

[@annamarie2024]

Right. I'm surprised thy haven't canceled this show.

[@miranda13c]

This girl chat is YEARS old.

[@sophiasmith5949]

Never

[@Arizona_lilly]

Heneidnt have saw he met any1

[@walidben1512]

Bring Tamera back

[@josephlenehan4461]

Joseph and 🇮🇪😃

[@madhat6998]

do they have a live audience with no mask/distance! The pandemic is still happening!!

[@janetg1597]

Nope.... That's an old episode. :)

[@marymount1133]

It's an old episode luv !!

[@mobnometry1573]

What a joke lmao, the other guy could've been upfront about it but he isn't enough of a man so he had to ghost for five days 🤣. This is why dating sucks a bunch of insecure clowns walking around making the people they date just as insecure. Why tf was this recommended to me anyway

[@J-Lynnn]

This was really Loni situation with James.. I remember when Loni said one time that her and James were not speaking for a week or somethingg? Or he ghosted her for a week.. You could see in her first reaction, that she was trying so hard to come across as if she didnt get it or tries to understand it. LOOOOOOOL the fact that he said: Im not into this whole multiple dating thing.. I bet James just wanted to be the only one..and was tryna see what she would do.. bOOP!