Luke is not often polite, especially in early seasons, but he is always kind. I see so many people irl get focused on polite words rather than kind actions - we could all use a little more kindness.
@srldwg6 ай бұрын
Agree
@VioletPersuasion6 ай бұрын
Your comment made me think of an article in Natural Parent Magazine, called Nice Girls vs Kind Women. Changed my perception and decisions of allowing abusive men and people into my life.
@VioletPersuasion6 ай бұрын
Your comment made me think of an online article I'd read several years ago, called Nice Girls Vs Kind Women, in Natural Parent Magazine. ☺️
@MaluCLBS6 ай бұрын
Funnily though, I think Emily was very well spoken but what she said was in very few cases kind.
@sergioruiz7336 ай бұрын
Lol that is me to a T lol. Im a very blunt, harsh person and have no time for subtlety or passive aggressiveness, but I will be by your side in the hour of need. And will help the best I can.
@tiyabear6 ай бұрын
Luke. He accepts Lorelai, eccentricities and all and no matter what's going on between him and Lorelai he loves Rory.
@sean_mccadden6 ай бұрын
I wouldn't say he accepts them. I would say he loves them. He may get grumpy and sarcastic with her sometimes, but you can see it in his eyes when Lorelai is telling that snow story that she brightens his whole world and that he would do anything to brighten hers. Scott Patterson truly portrayed him so well!
@Narra00026 ай бұрын
@@sean_mccadden yeah, but by season 4 they ruined him. Screw the Gilmore Girls writers
@EverythingOnIce226 ай бұрын
I think Luke was my first introduction into the grumpy guy with a heart of gold character type. Rewatching these clips has made me realize exactly where all my standards are coming from now 😂😅
@Ghost-lt4sf6 ай бұрын
saaame 😂
@marlyd6 ай бұрын
I've made many mistakes in that area because usually grumpy dudes are NOT good partners.
@EmphaticNod4 ай бұрын
Same. I ended up marrying a sweet, heart of gold guy who is super grumpy and curmudgeonly under the surface. Been together 13 years now 😂
@paulettewirtz7856 ай бұрын
Can't wait to see your reaction to Jess, especially his relationship with Luke
@voyance4elle6 ай бұрын
yaaaassss :D hahaha (and that book!!)
@paulettewirtz7856 ай бұрын
@@voyance4elle hahah yes
@larafranke18026 ай бұрын
The bridge scene 😂😂😂
@ange76prkr5 ай бұрын
yes! Jess was my crush for sure! Why am I attracted to boys like Jess even as an adult -- Milo and Jared the actors are both hot but Jess is a better character. Team Jess because he developed well like fine whisky and we needed his spin-off haha
@lifelikelisa6 ай бұрын
I get why people argue about who Rory should end up with but there’s only one right answer to who Lorelei should end up with. Luke!
@avi.chan236 ай бұрын
I was and Always will be Team Luke. Thought He is very grumpy, he is kind, honest, direct and has a great sense of humor. He is probably the only man, able to keep Lorelai Happy, because Luke is not pushy or needy. He gives Lorelai her space, so she can stay the quirky sunshine she is. Also, Luke was the best dad to Rory, period.
@madeleinereads6 ай бұрын
“Have any of you ever considered the fact that you're glorifying a war we fought so we could keep land that we stole?” Well said, Luke!
@jabyerackonstanza5 ай бұрын
based
@KarishmaChanglani4 ай бұрын
Luke was an Aly all along
@suefields42546 ай бұрын
I love that Luke always stood up to bossy Taylor. Also, Luke had money, but lived humbly, and he was content with that.
@LittleCheebs6 ай бұрын
Finally some Luke Danes appreciation! Everyone should try to be more like Luke Danes
@rhyanshelby65726 ай бұрын
Luke is my inner grumpy. Him and Nick Miller from New Girl. It's hard to watch others live out your dream. If i acted that way, I'd be called a bitch
@missnaomi6136 ай бұрын
I'm 52 years old and my filter has started failing, so I've started getting grumpy. The best part, I have fewer f***s to give about it. I may be a b*tch, but I don't care anymore. 🙃
@mishthemaverick86076 ай бұрын
Oh my God, Nick Miller 😍 but yeah, we are not getting away with it!
@samu68746 ай бұрын
Thats excactly why everyone loved Jennifer Lawrence! She said what we all wanted to say, but couldnt.❤
@RitsumoNagasa6 ай бұрын
What always blows my mind in this episode is how when after he brings them coffee they ask for something else instead he's not offended or angry that he did something out of kindness and they asked for more, doesn't take it as a rejection and as if they're saying what he did wasn't good enough, but immediately and simply understand that what he really wants to do (give them relief from the cold) won't work for everyone in the same way. So he adapts to their needs. Honestly, it's so simple but it can be so difficult to do and find people who will do the same for you
@srayj6 ай бұрын
I think what people often overlook is that even though Luke is cranky and can be contrarian, he also owns and runs a diner, which means he chooses to be in a service industry where he has to be kind enough to get repeat business and he has to respect his customers enough to want to serve them, showing who he really is inside.
@doesitmatterwhoiam88386 ай бұрын
Luke has no tolerance for ridiculousness yet he never leaves Stars Hallow
@thisismaria276 ай бұрын
come oooon, Lorelai and Luke are meant for each other. each grumpy guy with a heart of gold needs a sunshine personified partner. Team Luke forever and ever ❤️
@floragoodfairy1686 ай бұрын
Team Luke all the way. Luke is a freakin' rockstar. We need more Lukes in the world. He may not be polite but he's honest and kind. As for the others? Max tries to go from 1 to 100 mph practically overnight, Christopher is a mess the whole way through and the other two were basically charming distractions. Luke shows up, every time, even when it's hard, and that on it's own says a lot. The show's theme song is basically the Ballad of Luke Danes.
@Oscars_fur_racing5 ай бұрын
🥲👍🏻
@songindarkness6 ай бұрын
It’s Luke all the way for me. Scott is an amazing actor… the look he (as Luke) gives Lorelai after she’s told the snow story is almost the sexier version of this emoji. 😍
@corunax32126 ай бұрын
In primary school I got bullied by this one girl. A few years (maybe at the age of 15 or 16) later me met at a party in someones house in our village. I made a comment about her bullying me because she was lonely in school and she got mad and said she never was lonely and how dare I lie. She then his my shoes and I had to walk home without shoes in freezing temperatures, it was winter and there was snow. A few days later I was roller skating and I just kept thinking about it. So I stopped by her house, asked to see her and told her that we both probably said and did things we are not proud of and asked her whether we can please leave all that in the past and just be civil with each other from now on, because we may run into each other again or even have to work with each other at one point in the future and if that happens, I would like it to be peaceful and I would like to be able to cooperate. She was very surprised and said that this was about the last thing she expected to happen, but she agreed. This was about ten years ago, and I haven't really run into her since. I was only at her doorstep for about two minutes, but we made peace with each other and I am happy to know it wouldn't be a problem if I ran into her now. My mom really didn't approve of me doing this, because she doesn't think the girl deserved it, because she remembers how the girl used to bully me, but it is not about that. I believe that people can change and grow and we can encourage positive change by being kind.
@voyance4elle6 ай бұрын
Wow that's amazing! It sounds like a fairytale :D
@undefinedromance896 ай бұрын
To answer your question at the end, I'll just say this... not Christopher.
@Tyrisalthan6 ай бұрын
Well, if you just have seen season 1, Christopher doesn't seem that bad. And he and Lorelai have plenty of chemistry together.
@anainesgonzalez88686 ай бұрын
@@Tyrisalthan😳
@kelliehorn10826 ай бұрын
I have always been and will forever be #TeamLuke
@megjax16 ай бұрын
I think sometimes with Luke we forget that sometimes he is a dude that misses is dad.
@hannaharbuckle30426 ай бұрын
Luke is such a good guy. My now husband is very similar to Luke, and Nick from New Girl.
@voyance4elle6 ай бұрын
Beautiful! He is like this with Lorelai constantly. Most of the time he thinks she's crazy and he doesn't agree with what she does (what she eats, drinks, her quirky behaviors, her weird orders...), but still is very kind to her. Oh I am looking sooooo forward to you watching that episode when Luke reads that book.. xDD hahaha I swear, you'll react to it!!!!!!
@trinaq6 ай бұрын
I'm glad that Jonathan is Team Luke, he and Lorelai had the best chemistry. I hated that the writers created April to drive a wedge between the two.
@LuisanaRamirez6 ай бұрын
Kindness always wins. So Team Luke
@angelenapulis90835 ай бұрын
This is such an amazing arc for Luke in this episode. His kindness is why we love him. And his grumpiness too. :D
@betsywilliams36665 ай бұрын
One of my favorite scenes is when he gives Rory apple pie after she throws her pencil in his diner.
@StephFish10046 ай бұрын
It's Luke and the reason is their foundation. He knows her, he knows what she likes, what she doesn't, how she thinks, and all the little idiosyncrasies that make her her. And he accepts them. (There are some that he finds ridiculous much like the men standing in the snow, but he respects them). And it's exactly the same for her about him. Chris knew Lorelei, but he doesn't know her now and more importantly he is not at the same place emotionally as she is. Max too, he knows Lorelei now, but he wants things in life that she doesn't. Neither one are particularly bad options for partners, they're just not the right one. And that's okay.
@1omarella6 ай бұрын
If the show didn’t go the way it went, and Lorelai didn’t end up with who she did (which is how it was supposed to be), then Max. Will always have a soft spot for Max. Max is just good in every way.
@WhatsaModderU6 ай бұрын
3:23 Jono is the last person who I think would project in any way, shape or form. I actually appreciate the guy and how fictional works can be analyzed in a therapeutic, safe way. Just witnessing his well-researched insight really helps. Fellow ADHD bearer here sees imposter syndrome start to happen and I just gotta be like “no. Jono you are rocking at these Gilmore Girls episodes. Good job Jono!”
@angeliprimlani93896 ай бұрын
Christopher is trash. Every other guy Lorelei dates is preferable to Christopher. He’s the opposite of Luke. Luke is gruff but has character and Christopher is charming and has no character. Not the question you asked but I’m already seeing people saying Team Christopher and I would get them coffee in the snow but they are wrong so wrong!
@ceceliam90146 ай бұрын
I have always shipped Lorelai and Luke. I think, as much as he's grumpy and "curmudgeony" as you say, he's caring and actually very emotionally healthy, secure, and there's mutual understanding and love there. Communicating his feelings isn't a strength, but I think he's capable of working through that. I always felt like for Lorelai the best choice was clear. For Rory on the other hand, I never really warmed to any of her options, personally. But I'll only say that much, which hopefully isn't spoilery 😁
@DaciaFauth6 ай бұрын
My spouse is a "Luke" to my "Lorelai". He definitely rubs some people the wrong way, but he cares deeply and accepts people as they are. He always has my back, even though he thinks I'm crazy. I wouldn't know how wonderful he could be, if I hadn't chosen him. It's not always smooth sailing, but we're in this together 16 years and going strong!
@Okkkkkkk-ol5kz6 ай бұрын
It’s always been Luke. That’s the beauty of the slow burn ❤🔥
@deepikawilson27096 ай бұрын
Please keep doing these! I’m so excited for therapized season 4-5 Rory
@voyance4elle6 ай бұрын
Yaaaasss
@eddied.34266 ай бұрын
From the very first scene of the pilot it's clear lorelai and luke belong together. They not only respect the other's behaviours like being grumpy or verbally hyper but relish them. They know each other really well and like them for who they are.
@marlyd6 ай бұрын
I think I missed a few episodes when Gilmore Girls started airing in my country back in the day because I remember being surprised somewhere mid or late firdt season or early second when Luke and Lorelai were written as 'will they won't they' because I missed it completely. And then I watched reruns and it's specifically mentioned in the early episodes and I had no idea how I missed that queue and it made me feel like I missed a huge part of the show and it took me a while to get in the Luke and Lorelai train.
@Shannwo6 ай бұрын
Jono!!!! Keep watching Gilmore girls and please therapize Rory and Jess
@mkitten136 ай бұрын
Luke all the way. Max is a nice guy, but he and Lorelai just don't complement each other well, they like each other, but their differences just makes them less able to understand each other. Lorelai outgrew Christopher long before the show started, he clings to their teen relationship, and kind of pulls her back into old behaviours whenever around (until she eventually wisens up and turns him down) and then when she does turn him down, he kind of loses interest in taking an active role as Rory's father. Luke and Lorelai have more of a positive effect on each other. She brightens up his life, and brings out his caring nature, and he's this solid rock who's always willing to be there for her in whatever capacity she needs him to be. There's trust and friendship there, a solid foundation to build on. As for what I've done to build bridges. There was this librarian at my high school who outright seemed to hate the students. I knew I was gonna spend a lot of time in the computer section of the library and didn't want to be in the way, so I made sure to no matter what always listen, be polite to her, and when I left for the day, I always stuck my head in the door to her office (which was right next to the computer section) and said bye on my way out. Over time I noticed her behaviour towards me changing, like suddenly she knew my name (I had never told her), when I said bye at the end of the day, she started smiling whenever I said bye at the end of the day, we eventually just started chatting lightly. And I just saw a completely different woman than what I had seen at the beginning. And at the same time I learned some insight into her attitude towards students (not directly from her, but from other students), like the kind of things students did to misbehave in the library and I honestly felt it was no wonder she was so grumpy towards students.
@louisemalloy75406 ай бұрын
For your last question, its Luke ...always Luke. They just show up for each other most of the time and have such a good foundation from being friends for so long.
@kayisfish6 ай бұрын
Always and forever Luke
@aliciasipocz84066 ай бұрын
Ok I love Luke, I've always loved Luke.. but I feel like Max was actually one of the best options for Lorelai. He balanced her in a different way than Luke could. Max and Luke are 100% her best options.
@songindarkness6 ай бұрын
I really think Lorelei was still a bit on her “best behaviour” with Max - and he was a little bit putting her on a manic pixie dream girl pedestal. Luke 100% knows and accepts Lorelai’s faults and bad sides. It’s always been Luke IMHO.
@marlyd6 ай бұрын
Honestly thought Jason would have gone well had Lorelai kit made him keep their relationship a secret.
@aliciasipocz84066 ай бұрын
@@marlyd I forgot all about him, but I think thats because he's a later season.
@gfaithowens17906 ай бұрын
I ship Luke/Lorelai. The end.
@missnaomi6136 ай бұрын
Luke reminds me of one of my friends. A real Mr. Crankypants, but a kind, generous human being. Team Luke, of course!
@theopkingdom34336 ай бұрын
100% Luke. They love the same thing- the simple life of Stars Hollow- it's the life they both chose. ❤
@Ghost-lt4sf6 ай бұрын
I always tear up in this scene 🥹
@marlyd6 ай бұрын
I want a Kirk story arc breakdown!
@Lyserg_3 ай бұрын
I miss this Luke, before they made him dumber. He was grouchy but aware and possessed critical thinking
@zachharris30406 ай бұрын
It’s funny, in rewatching, a lot of the show doesn’t hold up. In fact, the idea of Stars Hallow is really the only thing that holds up. But a lot of the main characters who I liked, such as Luke, kind of annoy me. He plays a great contrast to the townspeople, but him ragging on town events gets on my nerves. Maybe because I realize how important community is. But Rory and Lorelei are far worse on rewatch. Lol
@SUZE.6 ай бұрын
Luke and Lorelai were always meant to be together. They were fun together, and then the writers ruined it by adding unnecessary drama and out of character decisions. They should just have had marriable troubles that they would have worked out, cause it's Luke and Lorelai. It would have been funny, sad and hella dramatic too! As you can read.... I still have strong feelings about that :P Keep up the fun video's.
@summerrobbins51836 ай бұрын
Max! Always Max. He is kind, loves Rory like his own, can keep up with her on the wordsmith trend, intelligent, handsome, and doesn’t ever get mean when things are difficult like the other men do.
@owl426010 күн бұрын
I would almost say Max is a bit too good/nice for Lorelai in the sense that she needs someone to tell her when she's wrong, holding her accountable for her mistakes, etc. Luke does this far more often, and I think it's good for her not to be put on a pedestal most of the time.
@tracyschmidt79296 ай бұрын
Luke for sure. He’s almost perfect. The only issue is that he doesn’t say what he needs, what he’s thinking or his true feelings. You’ll understand if haven’t watched the entire series yet. That is an issue. He needs to SAY things.
@jillholmes55736 ай бұрын
It should aways have been Luke for Lorelei. Without a doubt
@lmw7166 ай бұрын
I always wanted it to be Luke. He’s the compliments her well.
@elizabethgates70246 ай бұрын
I know this whole video is about being open to others even if you think their ideas are ridiculous, but anyone who ships someone over Lorelai/Luke is nuts, haha
@sheliamoore33886 ай бұрын
I hope he eventually gets to the dinner scene in the Episode Friday Night Fights.
@dianetaheri14626 ай бұрын
I have seen this show so many times I’ve lost count. I do remember in the early days of watching it for the first time that it should be Luke. Max was a good guy but she just didn’t love him. And Christopher… we all have had that first love and still think what if but that’s as far as it would go. Chris and Lor got to find out what if but saw that it just wasn’t meant to be.
@melissaruitersclarke12995 ай бұрын
When my daughter was 4 and in reception (JK) there was a boy in her class who was bullying everyone, including the teacher. One day it was getting really bad, hitting and punching. So my daughter went over to the bully, gave him a hug, and said it was okay, he could always have a hug. Apparently they stood there hugging for a while (several minutes). He wasn’t as bad, and every time he started getting mean my daughter would go over and hug him. Such a simple thing. Obviously randomly hugging people as adults really can’t be a thing. Consent is important. And there were conversations about consent with my daughter back then, too. But the point is that the boy had a rough background. He really just needed a hug. He needed unconditional love and he wasn’t getting it from any of the adults in his life. So my 4 year old, with zero prompting, gave him what he was screaming for. Maybe we all need to tap into our inner 4 year olds more. For the record, my kid is absolutely not perfect. That same week she smacked her best friend upside the head with her shoe. There were some big feels that week…..
@florentinalestaru727322 күн бұрын
that was sooo moving ❤❤❤ and funny 😂. Thank you for sharing! 🌻
@petabulmer33176 ай бұрын
I always love how kind he is, even when he grumbles about it!
@debrosman5 ай бұрын
I have been a viewer of Mended Light for a while and enjoyed all of it, I’m also a fan of Gilmore Girls but I want to go on record this specific video is my favorite and I agree we need more civility ❤ than you John 😊
@MendedLight5 ай бұрын
My pleasure!
@kesamboette6 ай бұрын
I was always rooting for Luke ❤
@NicholeRhav6 ай бұрын
Who Lorelei should end up with in season one? Luke.
@unicornclutter3 ай бұрын
this scene with luke actually strongly reminds me of something my mother taught me to do and that i still do when people come to the door for whatever religion theyre pushing, because while I tacitly disagree with these people and what theyre doing and think theyre in a cult, theyre also People and if theyre at my door it tells me theyre deep in something, so im always kind and offer them a drink and will read their pamphlets if they need to sit down and rest a while, because at the end of the day them knowing of at least one person who is safe to turn to should they ever have need matters more than what I think about their organisation
@florentinalestaru727322 күн бұрын
that was very moving ❤ i am definitely taking this thought with me 🌻🌻🌻🤗 thank you for sharing!
@TeaAddict6 ай бұрын
I was always team Luke!! Max was lovely but not her Mr Right, Christopher was always bad history trying to repeat
@doesitmatterwhoiam88386 ай бұрын
One of my guy friends is Luke. He's grumpy and not much for joining but he cares about people when they need them.
@jlcollins146 ай бұрын
As I get older, I view myself less like Rory who is awesome, in my personal opinion, and more like Luke. He was the social critic we all needed but didn't know it when we were young. But he's also the most wonderful person who recognizes that community and friends and family are important. He is a fine balance of love and social consciousness. You asked a lot of questions but I'm just going to jump on one. I think Lor should be with Luke. I like Max. I think he is fine, but I don't love him. I love Christopher - Acted by David Sutcliff who is Canadian. Us Canadians stick together. But Luke, has always just had that 'it factor' for me. From the minute Lor walks up the the Diner and says Coffee, Coffee, Coffee and he says how many have you had today. I could literally write essays in response to your questions, but I have to head to work. This is my favorite show, I'm currently finishing a rewatch of season 4.
@Tyrisalthan6 ай бұрын
It is strange to think that Luke was originally supposed to be a woman. How different the show would have been then. I think they made a right choice there, and found a perfect actor to play the part.
@zhabtema6 ай бұрын
First off, THANK YOU for making a distinction about hate groups. This may not be evident to others, especially if they are not on social media often, but there are still SO MANY spaces where people will weaponize either therapy speak or "it's just my opinion" to defend perpetuating racism, homophobia and misogyny, and particularly when it's brought directly to others. It can make the Internet stressful for a lot of us...
@ticijevish12 күн бұрын
Seriously? You watched Firefly, but slept on the Gilmore Girls?
@themadwomanskitchen97326 ай бұрын
There are two people in my life that I see extending kindness on a regular basis, my pastors, Pastor Theo and Pastor Gayleen Myer of Corralitos Community Church of Corralitos, CA. Not only do they serve their congregation with love and grace, they make a point of reaching out to their community. Among other things, the two of them volunteer at a food bank. I admire them so much!
@ticijevish12 күн бұрын
Now that I know you're a novice to Gilmore Girls, I'm kind of worried of how you're gonna react when you watch Wedding Bell Blues and Say Something. (those are season 5 episodes of the show) You'll get clued in by the episodes running up to those, but those two... At the very least, I'm confident you'll get a LOT of content out of those two. A LOOOOOT of Mended Light content.
@MaluCLBS6 ай бұрын
I’m so happy you’re watching Gilmore Girls! My favorite character is Luke, so I’m obviously team Luke.
@louisenielsen663518 күн бұрын
LUKE is the only right one for Lorelai!!❤❤ He made mistakes, sure- like anyone else. But he is good to her, wants whats best for her, he is always there for her no matter what their situation is! He is always there for Rory, again no matter the situation between them or anything else! NO ONE accepts Lorelai 100% like he does!! NO ONE loves Lorelai like Luke ❤❤ !!!!
@chrysanthemumspark55476 ай бұрын
My season one thoughts: Christopher is a child that needs to grow up and take accountability for his actions. Max is awesome. And Max also ... not Luke. Luke...Luke is end game.
@magistrafarrismagf140216 күн бұрын
Luke. Always Luke. I was lucky enough to get a Luke-type for a stepfather.
@janiefallout85 ай бұрын
There was an argument in my job that threatened to turn into a fist fight (the colleagues were mostly women) on the topic of communism - was it good or bad for our country and for the colleagues' families in particular. That often happens in my country, even in parliament (the deputies insult each other, put each other's hairs, and break each other's glasses). It got worse with every passing minute and the work day was far from its end. I have and opinion on the topic myself but didn't share it. Instead I reasoned that we should end this discussion and talk about something else, otherwise we would fall out irredeemably. They agreed and changed the topic. I'm not usually very diplomatic but I'm glad I could do this.
@halfblood1006 ай бұрын
At this point, when I first watched it, I thought Luke. Christopher, they make good friends. But in the long haul, they have tried, and it didn't work. Max is a sticky situation, and doesn't feel great. Also, I love Luke as a person, and how Luke is with Lorelai.
@curtin19776 ай бұрын
I was waiting, I was screen recording, you said "when people don't understand why you like the things you do, the issue with that is"....:: but you never finished a sentence I was going to send it to my sister because she is a Luke and thinks what I'm interested in is ridiculous... we have had many fights about it bc she can't see my side and can be very insulting to me
@majopareja6 ай бұрын
Lorelei and Luke were always the show's OTP, although Max was a really wonderful guy too. Christopher was the worst. With Rory it was more tricky, none of her relationships was healthy or mature enough to convince me, except with Dean at the beginning...
@Senfree6 ай бұрын
In this season, I shipped her with Luke. And honestly, I never stopped shipping her with Luke. Their the OTP for me in this show.
@mjfm23135 ай бұрын
Between Christopher, Max and Luke, Max was never even a contender, it's always been either Luke or Christopher. And I've always struggled a little to choose a team because I think both of them have amazing chemistry with Lorelai. But what it really comes down to is how they act when things aren't right, and (without spoiling anything) let's just say that even though Luke is kinda proud, he was always there for Lorelai when she most needed help, and Christopher was not. So it's definitely Luke for me
@RhonyLynn5 ай бұрын
I do love Luke, but I always thought Max wasn't given a fair shot.... I think they could have been great together.
@kyattogalleryАй бұрын
I love Max and would have chosen him personally, but the person who I think fits Lorelai the best is Luke. The both have a lot to work on personally, but they meet eachother where there at and compliment eachother in such a distinct way which is why I always rooted for them. And also although Luke is flawed, he definitely is a good man and I love the side of him that Lorelai specifically brings out. I also love how he's grounded in a way that compliments Lorelai's chaotic nature without ever restraining the freedom that is so crucial to her as a person.
@vallentinac9513Ай бұрын
I wanted Lorelai to be with Luke since the very first scene of the show. (Java Junkie forever) He's the best man in the world.
@sergioruiz7336 ай бұрын
I relate alot to this. I got a lot of cynicism and bad past experiences that kinda molded me into this cynical grump and I complain and judge people heavily, but even the people I judge heavily I always end up saying in my head that they must have a lot missing in their life or hardship I am not seeing and I then grumpily, I want to make that clear, will often do something as an act of kindness. I have embraced that part of me for years. I always carry the saying to people who dare to try credit me or peel back my grumpy exterior that "No one compliments me and gets away with it." Its not a menacing threat, in reality it means I will get back at them twice in kindness for what they said with an action. Its always been my motto, multiply double your acts of kindness with your words of kindness.
@Alittlelexus6 ай бұрын
I thought Loreli would have been great with Max Madena for a long time.. and it would help with Rory's education Max was a bit stifling and if Loreli did marry Max she would be following in her mother's footsteps.. i think she realised and that's why she ran away..
@abigailstaulcup6 ай бұрын
I’ve always thought she should end up with Luke, but needed to officially end her ‘what if’s’ about a relationship with Christopher first. There’s so much baggage there that went unaddressed because she was busy being a single mom and didn’t end that relationship fully. Until she officially lets go of Christopher as an option she can’t fully commit to a relationship with anyone else. Max was never a contender in my book because the relationship was unethical to begin with. Its allure was brought on by forbidden or at least discouraged love (or in this case attraction because I don’t think it’s real love. You can argue that point, but that’s my perspective). Friends to lovers has always been a favorite trope of mine and one of the healthiest in my opinion. That’s why I prefer Luke.
@yadiracamacho4995 ай бұрын
Always been Team Luke. When I watched it as a teenager I always prefered the pretty, slick guys in shows, but Luke is just so good. He's solid.
@AngryLemming19876 ай бұрын
Kirk. He’s always kind and respectful to her and her family. They have the same work ethic and hobbies. He would never cheat on her and no way he has a love child or pregnant girlfriend. Sorry Lulu.
@asylumreject946 ай бұрын
LUKE! It has always been Luke. From the first scene of the show, it was obvious that Luke and Lorelei belonged together.
@biffstrong10796 ай бұрын
Luke has crust but he's decent and kind. "They should have been wearing from dresses." I love him getting them coffee. I liked this show because they generally didn't cannibalize the men to make the women look better. Yes we don't agree with everyone , but lets feed them, keep them from freezing. Nice coffee. She has to end up with Luke. They pooched it the last two seasons. It was a shame. First five seasons are very good.
@toilopez696 ай бұрын
You gotta do a spotlight for all the men in this show because they are all overly sensitive and sooooo jealous. Especially the men Rory dates. With Lorelei, Luke and Christopher are the worst when it comes to getting jealous. For goodness sake Luke beats up a car over his jealousy. What are your thoughts about the whole jealousy issues these people go through. Luke has always been a very dependable grumpy sourpuss... But I stopped being team Luke around season 6
@the_keeperofchaos6 ай бұрын
I've been team Luke since the pilot. Christopher was never it. Max was close, and I do love max, but Luke is just special
@TheMaristocracy6 ай бұрын
I have watched this show front to back a dozen times, and I controversially think Jason Stiles was an ideal partner for Lorelai. I would love for that opinion to get therapized.
@aprilkirkham62342 ай бұрын
Luke absolutely, he is rough around the edges. She accepts this and works with it. She can be herself around him as well.
@addisonhunt20666 ай бұрын
So out of the 3 guys mentioned. Max is a sweetheart who is nice and sweet and handsome not to mention he really loves Lorelei. There seems to be no good reason they shouldn't be together but I just don't feel the spark. Christopher is like a weird rash that you can't quite get rid of. Luke is kind and sarcastic, he cares about Rory and Lorelei. He doesn't get all of the girls' pop culture references and he is ok with that. All that said he is not the best at communication and he has his own crap to work through before he is able to be emotionally available.
@thisisrenren36573 ай бұрын
Luke should be the standard. Dating a guy, is he as good as Luke? would Luke even like him? That's the standard
@zabmcauley56476 ай бұрын
"building bridges with kindness" sounds great in theory. Unfortunately it is the opposed groups expected to be kind, and if they aren't kind enough, their basic rights as a human won't be respected.
@thetoxicerror5 ай бұрын
She was always destined to end up with Luke. Luke is her perfect counterpart. He needs her and she needs him. From the get go I always rooted for Luke.
@lucygarrett97856 ай бұрын
here’s how I think about it Max and Lorelai’s worlds just don’t fit together, they work great together but outside of them as two people the rest of everything else doesn’t work. Christopher is the father of her child and I think at this point in their lives they would never even talk if it weren’t for Rory so they just don’t need to be with each other. They were highschool sweethearts and they will always mean something to each other, they might even love each other, but they will never be in love. Luke, from episode one imo, is the one to go with. There’s not much else I can say there, they just work.
@Beth_runs_Disney3 ай бұрын
I loved Max, because a hot nerdy guy is my favorite. But it should be Luke for Lorelai.