Gin & Juice Podcast | Who TF Did I Marry?

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[@KeishaCharmaine]

One of the worst parts was him lying about the step daughter’s death. For no reason. Insane.

[@Kontroversial84]

I think he was using that as an excuse to give some woman money.

[@natalyasalkey7750]

I was so sad when she said she didn't even have the heart to tell the mom that Legion lied and claimed his stepdaughter had passed

[@natural0ne]

Low 🗝 key: Love Hour returns! Melissa is phenomenal with the emotional breakdown! Excellent job ladies!

[@christopherjackson7011]

Dear Gin & Juice, I am a 40 yr old grown man with a wife 2 kids, full time job, a truck and stuff to do in real life. I want yall to know that I wanted to quit watching this girl tell this Bold and the Beautiful story like 20-leven times but I told myself, self, finish this so yo won't be lost when Melissa and Mel go over it. Also, those hiccups are a concern

[@arod191]

😂

[@wandisilesomdyala6834]

😂😅

[@nahtayrome6007]

😂😂😂 yaasssss

[@lkeyz09]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@necee22]

Mannnn those hiccups 😅😂😂😂

[@morgane1707]

Yes, Ressa was telling us locations of things like we were homegirls. Had me feeling like we were on FaceTime.

[@n4musica]

I’ve already commented but I have to say, you guys are the ONLY podcast/commentary I’ve seen so far that gets it! It’s not that she ignored the red flags, it’s that she actively forced herself to ignore them so that she could have that white picket fence dream.

[@kimberleyjones3757]

Because she reallllly tried to make sure that she could confirm things with her own eyes. She TRIED to do her research. She wasn’t perfect, but she wasn’t just blindly in this relationship. I think she just ignored her instincts in favour of the “facts.”

[@ewertz4196]

One of her videos she said... they both married each other out of fear. He proposed to her because he was scared that she would leave him after a year and he knew marriage was away to get her. And she said yes to the proposal because she feared being alone.... That loneliness feeling is what made her. Move him in after knowing him for 2 weeks.

[@rosalinddixon6776]

She was her own critic - she took accountability. She said she ignored the red flags.

[@lilacgirl-z8w]

I love that this podcast is not about constant trash talking of individuals famous or not.

[@RavenIdril2966]

I think I heard this story on tv last year.

[@mrs.robbiek2772]

I want the girls to take heed to the fact that two MARRIED WOMEN WHO HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR A DECADE PLUS, are telling women NOT to operate in desperation. I hope the girls are listening, cause that'll preach.

[@condesabeatriz9303]

Yes!!!

[@lilacgirl-z8w]

😊😊😊😊😊

[@RavenIdril2966]

I'm glad I don't care about reality TV shows.

[@yes_anotherone3260]

The difference between "love bombing" and "protector" is TIME. Discernment is helped by taking the time to get to know someone. This advice is for me.

[@celinamartinez247]

People who are con artists on this level are a threat to your life. I've been through this AND heard many stories like this. I finally met my One. These kinds of ppl are dangerous.

[@d_bebored6224]

Right. Gonne benefit of the doubt your way into danger

[@allendaniel7405]

Facts, they have nothing to lose.

[@peacefulexistence]

Regarding your question about hiccups, some people experience them when anxious or when highly excitable. I imagine there was a good bit of anxiety connected with going live about such personal details.

[@SowNowWhat]

I was going to say this. Anxiety can stimulate Acid reflux , hiccups and such.

[@chidrine]

Liss is ALWAYS In. Her. Bag. when talking about relationships and giving relationship advice. Petition to bring the Love Hour back, I beg!

[@GeeSmith333]

I fell asleep on part 37 and woke up on the altar call in part 50? 😂 Y'all are the first people to really acknowledge how someone coming in to carry the load for a single woman could be a really nice feeling without calling her a user.

[@RavenIdril2966]

😮😮😮😮

[@thechoosychosen]

Liss’ emotional intelligence is sickening. Great episode doll faces.❤❤

[@nay7692]

The tic for tak marriage convo was sooo on point. Cuz the petty in me be winning! But that is definitely not the marriage you want! 😂😅

[@lilacgirl-z8w]

I love Melissa's support of the sanctity of marriage.

[@SinoSib]

I watches all of it in normal speed. Took my whole Tuesday

[@OhStMidofnite]

I’ll say it’s not about the specific man, it’s not about Legion. He’s an archetype. It’s the traits to focus on.

[@condesabeatriz9303]

I listened to it on KZbin. I appreciated having it in a podcast format.

[@adri1alicia]

The Love Hour coming back would be amazing 😩

[@RavenIdril2966]

I didn't know it was canceled.

[@jaybutterfly7945]

Melissa came out preaching today!!!! Yass Lawdd!!!

[@RavenIdril2966]

🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@kimt.6322]

"She couldn't think enough to think!!!"

[@nicolewilliams1746]

There used to be a series called Who the (Bleep) did I marry? It used to be on investigation discovery channel. It discussed similar stories.

[@momo540]

Yes!!!! I actually listen to the podcast version of that show on Spotify! Crazy ish!!😂

[@katherinesmith9683]

I need this to be a show. KevOnStage make this show 👏🏾😸

[@bryansl0587]

I actually ignored this story at first because I thought TikTokers had just now discovered that show 😅

[@RavenIdril2966]

Is this the show their actually talking about?

[@liteeyes1882]

Reesa is a prime example of what happens when you ignore red flags because of desperation!!! I don't agree with the person who exposed him for clout. That wasn't her business to do & she didn't think about the consequences to the other people who would be impacted!!! Just because it's entertainment to her, it's others' real lives!!!

[@travelchic6508]

That person was terrible. She unleashed a real demon.

[@dreamAngelXO]

29:22 lmaooo that ad transition had me cackling!!! if you can't think enough to think but yet you want to help your hair...let me tell you about VEGAMOUR

[@AdayaAmore]

Side note: Anytime I watch Tony Gaskins I speed it up. Love him but please come with it Tony!!!!😂

[@kejuanlynette8531]

Yes! Luv Tony but he gets 1.25X 😂

[@dmw24]

Don't forget he had a warrant because he IMPERSONATED POLICE 😂😂😂 crazyyyyy rollercoaster story!!

[@NishaNew]

This woman def deserves grace and not harsh judgement because it’s so easy to say what “we won’t do as a commentator”. Although this woman may have ignored some red flags as we all have at some point in our dating history she did make an attempt initially to vet the guy she thought she did her due diligence coupled with her religious beliefs I can see how one can be taken advantage of in this way.. what sucks is how her trust in people will change but more importantly something I don’t think that’s discussed enough is the loss of trust she will have in herself because of falling for this dude.

[@tigerlilly9038]

See..she shouldn't lose trust in herself. "Herself" i.e. her gut aka her intuition *TOLD HER FROM JUMP* but she chose 🗣 *SHE CHOSE TO IGNORE HER GUT* . I am not judging her just stating a *TRUTH*

[@NishaNew]

@@tigerlilly9038 the trust in self becomes lost because she initially did investigate and found nothing then ignored flags that were there.. it creates a contradiction of feelings hence a loss of trust in self/judgement not in intuition because she followed her intuition initially and found noting… when she followed her intuition the 2nd time when she got the right social it led to the truth 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@condesabeatriz9303]

💯

[@InspiringYoungLady]

Thank you. I cringe ar people's self righteousness about her choices. We don't know her entire story, upbringing etc. Most humans have ignored some red flags. And there have been stories of people meeting their person, thing moving ultra fast ans 40 years later they are still together and happy. I don't recommend moving that fast, but it doesn't take a stupid person to be tempted to believe in a fairy tale (especially in Covid time, unprecedented circumstances, no ability to move freely etc) She is truly a child of God because that man could have use his charm to scam her out if her money. She was super strategic and smart I the way she tried to get to the bottom of it. She got enough pride to actively look for better job to not being dependent on him. Her story is a testament to the fact that despite the enemy cunning ways, God protects, redirects and bless his children. Now she is about to make her childhood dream come true and she has blessed tother women with her testimony. You go girl !

[@aviaaiken-brown9774]

I WAS WAITINNNNNNNG ON YALL REVIEWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@TiTaughtYou]

This part about agreeing in the households is a WORD! 🙌🏾

[@eoa363]

He didn't actually send her the screenshots of the bank information, he pretended to log in and showed them to her on his phone.

[@condesabeatriz9303]

Right!

[@polivepea]

Yep

[@shavanareoliver]

36:22 That single woman thing is so real! People wonder why women can be extra cautious but it's stories like these.

[@bbond876]

I did the same thing. I listened to it like a podcast and got stuff done.

[@condesabeatriz9303]

Ditto

[@RavenIdril2966]

I do it too.

[@latoyajohnson8695]

If “keeping the lie alive” was a person this dude fits that to the ABSOLUTE T!!!

[@yvettegmf1638]

Melissa, be preaching!!

[@makeupunlimited]

she really said a WORD!!!

[@tileanerms]

I miss the ❤hour but I am here for the Gin N Juice podcast too!!

[@gandahartman4943]

That mom has to keep that note, so she can show her son when he gets older!! That is hilarious!!

[@douglassfitch1746]

Stranger danger is still alive

[@kevonnicouture]

The way my AT&T service is out, I may need to call mint mobile today 😅

[@MiilyGarcia0119]

😂😂😂

[@tayemchsband2]

54:13 I had to scream because I was hoping Liss said what I was thinking! Sir seek help your wife isn’t your child.

[@nancyyoung1209]

Preach Liss on the truth on relationships. Somethings things need to be said out loud!!!!!!✊🏽

[@nicolesimon2807]

Liss, we need the Love Hour back! This was so good. I’ve been married 6 years & it just clicked the dissention isn’t the issue it’s a level of reassurance that I trust your thought process we just have a different viewpoint on this matter. No attack just my feelings & sometimes fear of the unknown. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@mrs.robbiek2772]

The provider manipulation is REAL!! PREACH, LISS!!

[@ireloaded3352]

I love the way Tessa speak her detail kept me recited. I know nothing about the south so the details made me understand even more. Also the spread thing why? It’s like 10 mins each Z I didn’t watch but driving it community g in the train WRFDIM? was the best to listen to.

[@msnikmic]

Yesss! I soooo enjoyed the seemlessness of the Playlist. Top Tier💯🎯

[@teeinallcaps2963]

Yooooo that is some real marriage advice. Yea that was good. Cause I was with the spouse all day. lol I got work to do …thank you

[@nadia_manjate]

Hard work and manipulation are so different. I was 27 when I left. When someone does this to you it’s like you are in a movie and everyone is having a complete different experience to you because your gut keeps saying THIS IS NOT NORMAL. I’m actually glad she left so early. 😢

[@cicihenderson9044]

PLEASE do the love hour again

[@kimt.6322]

How much you wanna bet the sermon tomorrow gon' be on either discernment and/or Legion! Pastor gon' be in somebody's house!!!

[@WestCoastStefi]

It’s me yelling June 17th on his birthday 😂🤣💀⚰️

[@VirgosGroove1]

There was also a first ex wife that the second ex wife didn't know about and an ex girlfriend that he lived with.

[@kimt.6322]

The first ex-wife is speaking out because her adult son came on his platform substantiation @ressatessa story and adding that he went to jail for beating him up because Legion was hitting his mother for the last time!

[@dmccl811]

SHE ALWAYS HAS THE HICCUPS BECAUSE SHE ADDING TO THE STORY LOL😂

[@TheeSocialButterflii]

I loved all of the details lol

[@ny2768]

Proof of Funds 😂😂😂

[@selinadeloach6680]

I watched all of it in 5-6 hours I listened while I was working 😂😂

[@canihelpyou9067]

Man I am so glad my family and others around me never ever put pressure on me to be with a man and get married. I can definitely see how easy it is to be manipulated like this woman did considering all the factors involved.

[@melisamichele7622]

Melissa gives such good advice! 💕🦋💕🦋 When I listen to y’all I feel like I’m not so crazy after all. We all know she shouldn’t have bought that car but he hitting below the belt…and when they go low we can always go lower.

[@tbriscoe37]

He’s not even cute ain’t no way however comma 😂 I’ve been with a pathological liar and narcissist. It’s so easy to get caught up after your feelings are involved. I wasn’t manipulated to the point that she was but he was “churchy” he would use the Bible against me! I’m saying all of this to say I’m so happy she only spent a year & half. My narcissist had a 13 year run!!!! UGH!!!! But God! My career was soaring and my home life was failing. He was jealous of my son I could go on & on but I’m traumatized that I did this to myself. I allowed it looking for love (daddy & mama issues) I have to be transparent as I comment and I’m still healing almost 5 years later. I’m praying for her 😊

[@condesabeatriz9303]

Glad you got away!

[@Justkam.22]

We loved the love hour Liss!

[@maloriepolk-miller6459]

Chile I wasn’t expecting to feel convicted on my marriage and receiving a word when I just came here for laughs during my workout. LISTEN, even if you don’t bring The Love Hour back full time, can you bring it back on holidays? We’ll take whatever we can get 🥴.

[@dannyb47]

Yeeeah I wouldn’t be co-signing for a thing. Finances are the number 1 reason for divorce and she opened the abyss by going forward with a bad financial decision, knowing exactly how her brother is might I add because we know our siblings and who we can/can’t trust with certain things, and now expecting her husband to be captain save a h0e. I’m sorry. You’re just gonna have to deal with the repercussions of your actions. Be thankful you were approved for a car at all, or wait until you dig yourself out of this hole and then try again for another car, and take this on the chin as a learning lesson.

[@stephaniecooper8488]

I think everyone is missing that Legion had been married twice before Ressa. The first ex-wife (Latoya) with the son, she found about her after finding his mom’s obituary. The wife she actually talked to on the phone, had a son and a daughter (the daughter he said died)

[@purposefullyplannedlifemin4358]

I love this episode I'm fixing to watch all the Tick tock series . Love you Sis but Liss all I'm saying is momma is never wrong lol 🤣 I'm here for the call lol too funny 😂 ready for the Love Hour 2.0 🎉

[@nicole4779]

I also grew up with stranger danger and the constant fear of being kidnapped by a white van 🚐 😂😫

[@ladytaylor4299]

A guy tried to do this to me. Tried to gaslight tf out of me and make me think I was crazy for not wanting to marry him so quickly but I refused to ignore the red flags or my gut. So I understand how she ended up there.

[@fdoctor79]

Yea, she may never be the same but hopefully she will come out better. This story sounds like a Lifetime movie. 😮😢😅😂 I am single never been married and had to FREE myself from the opinions of others. There is only one who has the final say regarding the details of my life. Tfs

[@aparris8562]

Season 1 is hilarious

[@tbriscoe37]

@juice Melissa you have given me so many nuggets over the last 5 years! I’m single now but baby when God finally sends me my forever love I know how to move without trauma filled glasses. My last post I am still healing but I’m in a really good place! Keep teaching us Melissa we love you!

[@rebekahhawkins9954]

Melissa on her tangent was gooood

[@dkgnew]

My Wife and I discussing this - WE HAVE no Doubt he was faking this illness!!!!!

[@deidreej]

Not me downloading Tik Tok for the drama 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ Lawd….. Melissa spoke a whole word 🖤🖤

[@tigerlilly9038]

Lol, so many on KZbin have it in a continuous 4 hour post, save you some headache, if you like

[@deidreej]

@@tigerlilly9038 Wish I would’ve known that! Heck I’m on part 13 now 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️😂😂😂 thanks 🖤🖤

[@mintoshia5743]

THIS IS WHY YOU NEED TO DO THE LOVE HOUR AGAIN 🗣

[@CemonneEugene]

The way y'all insert these sponsors and ADs Is hilarious 😂

[@tswanigan69]

For some reason men really be thinking asking questions mean you disagree with them!!

[@katherinesmith9683]

Liss I can't think enough to think 😂😂

[@tigerlilly9038]

*"BRADLEY"* sounds like a made up darn name!!! 😂😂😂. Dude is siiiiiick. 39:13. My opinion is controversial about the woman who found Legion. I think she is not a villian, once RT put it out there: you cannot control who uses it for good or evil. Also once she posted Legion's photo, she should have said *nothing in response to critiques or anyone,* the same way, THE SHADE ROOM, DAILY MAIL, TMZ or any other gossip rag would of handled it. *I also think she wanted fame & clout of first find,* so this, negative backlash, goes along with it, so take it and HUSH.

[@angelatoles5532]

99% sure there is no Bradley

[@adriannepoindexter3970]

She only knew him for two to three weeks before letting him move in. I feel bad for her but it makes no sense.

[@JustRhonda3919]

I too had the hiccup question 🙋🏽‍♀️

[@polivepea]

I honestly didn't even notice 😢

[@travelchic6508]

I am having stomach issues now they say it’s bacteria. I have a lot of stress.

[@n4musica]

I think what hooked me in real quick was that I’m from metro Atlanta, so I was able to make a whole mental map of where these events happened!

[@iamshakuri]

The huffing and puffing part is her remembering what is going on. She is probably remembering the person she was, the absolute terrifying situation she was in. She was feeling so hurt. Let her be.

[@KeishaCharmaine]

I do think it’s irresponsible to expose who Legion is for Reesa’s sake but it could save so many future victims. Reesa couldn’t be that naive to think nobody would expose his identity because she asked, but considering the whole story, maybe she is that naive.

[@n4musica]

In her live, she was saying it’s not that she never thought his identity would get out. She just hoped that who every wanted to expose him would have checked in with her first so she could prepare.

[@gilbrettaedwards5846]

The number 8 is for a new beginning. Amen!😂

[@lateishaclement]

Re: the husband's letter: Why is he treating her like a child that needs to be "taught a lesson?" I don't like this at all.

[@tigerlilly9038]

Same and it ain't THE FIRST TIME EITHER.

[@fulllifeliberation]

This is my new favorite Podcast

[@iamjro]

4:50 omg I said the same thing about the hiccups. Like girl, get that indigestion under control 33:37 Totally agreed Melissa! I said the same thing listening to it. She mentioned a lot that things felt off but because she was ignorant in a lot of areas, she talked herself down. Always follow your gut. 55:46 I agree with the husband. I would see if she couldn’t get a car at all but we’re talking a 21’ vs 24’… I wouldn’t throw it in her face but take the 21’ and make better choices in the future. I don’t think it’s worth a big argument.

[@tswanigan69]

Oh we remember y'all conversation about laundry! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@nadia_manjate]

The hiccups lol but I thought maybe she was speaking after a meal because my brain couldn’t process the constant hiccups 😅

[@justdebs365]

Oh the NON-FIRST LADY First Ladied tuh-day 😂😂😂

[@dkgnew]

NO one who has NOT watched it should comment because ALLL the details and the sequence is critical!

[@GeeSmith333]

Do the detergent sheets really work? I've been considering them.

[@d_bebored6224]

We've all been a fool and fooled. This is catastrophic though. I do agree that a lot of this is due to the pressure and centering of marriage over self-esteem and self-actualization to trust yourSELF and save yourself rather than stay and save face

[@filmadcamp1512]

Why do y'all keep saying we've ALL been a fool?

[@n4musica]

People really have this holier than thou “That could never be me!” complex. Like what ever job this man had, he was using it to FUND HIS LIES…. There was effort and strategy put into his manipulation. This could happen to literally anyone.

[@cheryljackson5364]

She didn’t give her present location.😊

[@Channyb89]

Preach Sis Fredericks 👏

[@CARATMom]

One of my key takeaways was that pride and shame kept Ressa from seeking out counsel from friends and family that she trust. Pride keeps many of us in bad situations.

[@dsp7631]

Girl, there is a new one named " The Lies He Told".

[@darettairchirl8205]

Melissa Is PREACHING!!!!!

[@katrinaj.8731]

I need all my friends to study how Mel reacts to storytelling. This is the energy we need, else I'll assume you hate me and my story. 😂🤣

[@lynngevity3724]

Wooo chile…I am not sure what/who yall are talking about this episode…sounds like alot!!! Trying to stay tuned in…

[@kejuanlynette8531]

Ref the car: That’s not fair to the husband. He told her not to co-sign, and she didn’t listen. NOW that her credit has been impacted, she wants HIS help to buy a new model Camry? She’ll be fine in the 2021 Camry. It’s not like she’s walking. Hopefully she’ll listen to her husband next time. . . That’s why he’s the leader/head (don’t fight me. I didn’t make the rules) 😂

[@nyishahinkle1706]

You're right, though..🤷

[@cifafs3]

she will be fine with the 2021 😂

[@francares4utherapist504]

Totally agree! It's not like she has a '95 out here. A 2021 is a very new car for most people. Why should she be rewarded with a brand new car? (They depreciate in value too quickly anyway.)

[@thisname6738]

I could see if he was operating out of a place of concern for her ability to make financial choices on a regular basis, but it sounds like he is operating more out of spite which is only a good way to build resentment in a relationship and won't "teach" the partner anything which they will also value.

[@kejuanlynette8531]

@@thisname6738We don’t see this the same, and that’s ok 👌🏾

[@kbadifferentworld]

i sooooo miss the love hour!!!

[@lifestyleofadecornatural9265]

Listen…she said on one of her videos she doesn’t have a gallbladder so I’m sure that’s why she gets the hiccups! Once that gallbladder is gone, digestion is never the same 😂😂

[@iamjro]

Yes! Very true

[@marathongirl27]

She gave a lot of detailed information, but it did not bore me at all.

[@wittykitti]

i watched 10 episodes chunked together as individual videos here on KZbin, while at work on Friday cuz Tiktok distracting af and i was able to work and listen.

[@queenroyaltyrules55]

But if she wasn't detailed then y'all would complain about that. I appreciate the details.