GIRL CHAT| I DONT WANT TO BE PREGNANT....MEETING THE BABYMAMA? MY HAIRSTYLISTS' MAN WANTS ME..

[@BreakfastAtTiffanysYall]

Are we just going to ignore the spectacular lighting? Looking gorgeous girl!

[@Scandalex]

Lol, glad you peeped. thank you so much 🥰🥰

[@TonievansTV]

I concur!

[@Breezyanaaa_]

Yes what is the light set up!!

[@taliahclay7799]

Honestly… Girl chats are YOUR THING!!!!

[@ntombikazigubuza675]

They truly are omgggg !!!

[@ShenitaMoore]

Abortions are not Birth Control! Amen! 🙌🏾🙏🏾😕

[@TheBrieEffect]

Sis… you are not being harsh … 💁🏾‍♀️ you are showing love and preaching the truth. Some times when we are in things we don’t see clearly…It’s good to have an outside source or sources tell us what’s good 😂

[@Scandalex]

Ok good, I didn’t wanna come off mean but there’s some things I just gotta be stern about 😭❤️❤️

[@jasreneeterry]

But baby can we talk about the PRODUCTION?!!! Looking like a damn caramel delite cookie!! 🥰😍

[@Scandalex]

Lol thank you so much 🥰🥰

[@keptsecretsbyjas7374]

Im 29 and I am now at a point where, I'm not rekindling anything. I have in the past and it just shows me why some people do not belong in my future. To the young lady who wants to rekindle the friendship, leave it be. You're young and you'll have so many friendships that you will come encounter with that we will be everlasting!

[@effeowusu]

Those last several minutes of this video, girl you were PREACHINGGGG. Not enough ppl wanna face and deal with growing pains, and sometimes it can be so lonely and hurt so bad, but it’s all necessary to go through. Growth happens in uncomfortable situations. I loved that part, I actually sent it to a friend who needed to hear it. Love your girl talks!! 🫶🏾

[@sandracrump]

This chit chat was so good! The topics are so good but your so mature and respectful when giving advice!!

[@teesmile9610]

When it comes to cooking and improving on your skills, my mom always says don’t hesitate to make a dish over and over til you perfect it to your liking. 👩🏽‍🍳 practice gonna always make perfect!

[@Scandalex]

Yess! Good advice from momma ✨

[@sheisart5857]

I agree 100% I always cook meals over and over to perfect it

[@dd_7787]

Girl, I’m 44 years young and I approve this message! 🙌

[@melissalbbward]

Re kindling relationships with friends and family are tough.. sometimes u have to stay where people put u and move on. U can wish people well without rekindling

[@Scandalex]

“You can miss people without rekindling” 🎯🎯 you ain’t never lied

[@iamkandacemarie]

Alexus thank you so much for the encouraging words at the end of the video regarding growing pains. I lost my job yesterday and I have no idea what is next, but I'm having faith that God has greater for me in store! I've been trying to further my career now for years and I feel so tired and overworked at times, but I believe God was speaking through you to give me hope about my situation! Love you!!!!

[@Scandalex]

Move in faith baby give all your worries to God you got this 💪🏾

[@jessicafianko]

Hiii Alexus Happy Thursday 😊😊 I just love when you do Girl chit chat 🙌🏾🙌🏾 The skin is glowing and looking good 🥰✨ 🫶🏾🤎

[@Scandalex]

🤞🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽 thank you!!!

[@reneea44]

the edible zoom had me in tears! love the real raw lex! you & Alliyah dropping the girl chats back to back 💅🏽💕

[@DearGodSheIs]

More girl chat videos! This felt like a “real” girl chat!

[@dennesaaa]

Yes ma’am for the girl chat🥰💕 For the girl dealing with the 27 year old coach, ABSOLUTELY NOT🤢 girl you can go and get you another man, don’t even join that circus chile. You weren’t being harsh at all Lex lmao

[@Scandalex]

Ok I’m glad someone agrees, I just don’t trust it at all. My girl can find someone else for sure ✨

[@effeowusu]

Also, I love the editing in this one, how you added the paragraphs that ppl sent in on the screen 👌🏾

[@AshMoore_111]

Girl you look fantastic!!! The energy is on point and the advice is on point. Definitely not too harsh. People are out here moving crazy and someone has to tell them!!

[@inner-cityascension9698]

Hey sis love this this is almost like a talk show like Girl Chat radio or podcast you give good perspectives on these things though and sending love to the girlies out there I hope things get better ❤❤❤❤❤

[@Scandalex]

Yes always sending love to my girls going through it 🤞🏽🤞🏽

[@jsc2991]

First off...glowing✔gorgeous✔black woman✔...Now on to the other stuff. I appreciate your advice because it comes from a place of understanding and experience. I'm 31 and I can tell you the bullshit does not stop with age. It's important to set boundaries, to have self respect and to love yourself. It's not easy to make the right choices all the time but trust your intuition, pray, meditate...cry it out. Just know it's important to make the right decisions for yourself and to be okay with it no matter how hard it is💜

[@KeepingUpWithKelseyJ]

Hands down my favorite girl talk! You weren’t being harsh, you’re keeping it 1000. That coach that had sex with the 18 year old is a manipulator and sis needs to run ASAP

[@Scandalex]

Agreed!

[@dw29376]

yep, and I guarantee she wasn't the only teen he's been sleeping with. Just run girl

[@PoeticB]

Can we talk about the quality of this video??? 10/10 🤩

[@Scandalex]

Lol thank you! ☺️☺️

[@TheMaya712]

Such good advice Lex. Love how wholesome and humble you are. Really sis 🤍

[@keptsecretsbyjas7374]

These chit chats are amazing. The advice and the situations can help all women across the board no matter the age! Love you Lex!

[@AvannaTheCEO]

Ooooh girl you keepin it real in this chit chat lmao. I love it 😂

[@denisemoore4044]

Hi. You are glowing. I just love your chit chats. I would love to see you do another advice video and include your boyfriend to get the man's perspective.

[@Scandalex]

I feel like that would be realllll good. Especially because we have completely different perspectives on certain things.

[@denisemoore4044]

@@Scandalex if he is willing to do it. 🥰

[@beingmandatv3275]

Sis,your tan looks good!

[@KyraMichelle-c9x]

had to pause the video to tell u how much I loveeee the theme u have goin on here, its so cozy and inviting it just screams girl talk!

[@gabbycakes519]

Lex, you are not being too harsh. I talk the same talk to those who come to me looking for advice. I keep it straight to the point, and that's what I love about you! Keep doing you girl. We all need tough love!

[@jessicajade6181]

I feel like this should be a tiktok live 😊 Love this segment. You gave great advice ❤

[@SamanthaJaiqueen]

Hey girl I love watching your Girl Chat, you always keep it real and the face mean-mugging be having me dying laughing 🤣🤣🤣 You know i have to ask, where's the hookah🤷??

[@missdemiya]

Definitely not harsh! & people be knowing exactly what to do, they just need someone else to confirm😂

[@missdemiya]

the hairdresser situation…she should’ve immediately blocked the fiancé & snitched tf

[@chantellp1138]

Babyyyyy these girl chats be soooo good & interesting to watch 🥰👏🏽👏🏽anywho I personally went through trying to rekindle a old friendship & baby it didn’t work 😭🤣 we literally had multiple conversations about working on the friendship & by her being away & coming to visit I’m like let me know when you come into town so we can plan something she never came through, I went to her gender reveal & after that I just hung it up/let it be 💯 my problem as an Aries or just in general is when I mess with someone or love them I’m super supportive, I’m there for whatever, I keep my word & take friendships & any other relationship serious… I hate when people can’t keep they word like you didn’t wanna rekindle the friendship just say that so we can be on the same accord don’t lie just to keep the conversation going 😴but word of advice to her: let it be & continue to live your best life if she was for you you wouldn’t have to force a thing the friendship would just flow naturally 💯 it’s no excuse to why she moving funny like that but that’s her true feelings so just leave her where she at 💯, the other stories were crazy & I totally agree with the last one life is about elevating & everybody can’t make it to the top with you & that’s perfectly fine because God heard conversations/seen people actions that we didn’t so be thankful they not with you today 🙏🏽

[@SimplyShakeila]

Your mom & those edibles 😂😂😂

[@Scandalex]

She be killing me lmao

[@InTheEyesOfJess]

Alexus, bye! You’re one of the best cooks on KZbin. Every time you make something, I wanna try it lol ❤❤❤😂😂

[@Scandalex]

Lmao! I literally still look as myself as a rookie. But this mean a lot omg.

[@Datb2]

so glad you put up the submission to read

[@Scandalex]

Yes! I felt like it would make it easier for you all to follow along ❤️

[@StephRich]

Thanks Lex for getting me through my car ride! It was much needed. You are a wise woman.❤

[@Scandalex]

Oh perfect timing! Your welcome 😘😘

[@Charlene626]

31:14 😂 that's wild. Yes same, she needs to tell her hair dresser and dip from out of there, lol!

[@rarebrie]

31:05 The facial expression on this part was HILARIOUS!!!! 😂 But being ENGAGED for TWENTY YEARS is pure INSANITY!!!

[@Cherryotaku95]

I prefer the casual sit down vibe over the GRWM. It’s more fluid imo

[@staceystunning]

I loveeeeeee this video and ALL your advice, you go Lex, love you❤

[@Cancaaaa69]

I absolutely love your advice Lex! Lol; you are not too harsh at all. It’s some “REAL” advice!

[@rozegolden9052]

Sorry sis I try to watch some commercials so you can get your coins but the tea was so hot my reflexes were just hitting that skip button 🤣😭

[@Scandalex]

Lmao no worries, I appreciate you for tuning in 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@sheisart5857]

Girl I can watch you all day. You’re so beautiful inside and out. You’re speaking truth always. I love your girl chat.

[@kirabutler7985]

Lastly, I’m the only one on earth failing at salads 🤭. I don’t know why it just happens

[@kanaexo]

Loved this girl chat! Definitely do more boo!

[@KelseyOnSocial]

He said I have to meet his baby momma and I’m like and say what 😂😂😂😂

[@LadiesNightOutPodcast]

lex girl I wanted to here what moms was saying it sounded good

[@elizeespring]

I kinda like this set up for the advice videos. So maybe the part 2 can be done this way 🧡

[@diamondleonard]

Love the advice, I recently seen vonte in the club I’m looking around hoping to see you girl I had got too happy like you going to pop out 😂🤣 can’t wait to meet you though ❤

[@Vicksstyless]

OH I love when you do these type of videos and girl you gave some real ass advice 💖❤💕

[@avalonlondon8510]

I enjoy when you do these types of videos

[@Crystal_h1]

Lex, this is why we watch your chitchats…..REAL AF!! Ur advice=top tier. I really feel like we’re friends……XoXo

[@joyceballi6799]

AMEENNNNNN to the final message!! I really needed to hear that, I'm bout ready to quit my job and start this new chapter in life. Thanks Lexxxx ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Scandalex]

& guess what, YOU GOT THIS 💪🏾💪🏾🤞🏽

[@iamnursechelsea]

Yesss!! My favorite Gworl! 💕🥰♋️

[@Scandalex]

Awe thank you. Hey boo 🥰🥰🥰

[@bridgetpatrick6793]

Your so right about the girl friend comment rekindling can be tricky snakes only change their skin

[@era.nelson5050]

The glow on you is 🔥🔥 great advice

[@carmelbrnskin1195]

Yes. The girl with the hairdresser whose “fiancé” is trying to shoot his shot absolutely must find a new hairdresser and tell her what her man is doing. If not she’s going to end up bald with no hair!

[@Scandalex]

Omg I didn’t even think about that, cause if the hairdresser finds out before the client tells her…ain’t no telling what will happen to that hair. 🥲

[@carmelbrnskin1195]

😅

[@SymanthahKychelle]

I feel you on the first topic. My sons dad got married and I've never met his spouse in person. He told me that its not in her best interest to meet me and that we don't need to speak about nothing. So I've never met her in person but we did have a really bad interaction due to them giving him stuff he allergic to. They are both aware of what hes allergic to I've printed and laminated all the things he allergic to that his allergist gave me and she thought it was okay to tell me she can give him whatever she wants to give him. While our son was in the hospital fighting for his life. Me personally I still want to meet her cause shes around our son but how things went that day I doubt she will meet up with me.

[@Thelifeofchynadoll]

Omg is ur son okay? After that, I probably would be ready to slap her bc excuse me!? Fr fr I definitely agree you should put down some stern boundaries for her bc she nor he respects you or ur child! Sending love your way!

[@SymanthahKychelle]

@@Thelifeofchynadoll he’s okay! I told her it’s on sight EVERYTIME I see her and honey she make sure we don’t meet. Cause they know Ion play about my children. Thank you for sending love my way ❤️

[@xoxoRavenn]

Fiancée for 20 years is crazy🫠

[@Scandalex]

Like, WHETTTT? Ain’t no way lol

[@ArynImani67]

Lex you gave SUCH great advice! We were here with it! Definitely should stop having relations with that man you dont want to raise kids with because what are we doing?! 😅

[@Fhyared]

Definitely enjoyed this girl chat .. this is your thing!! Please do more Thanks sis lol

[@dw29376]

If you have two ask if he's stringing you along then sis you already know he is. A man knows when he wants to be serious with you very early on.

[@PreciousKeishawna_]

Happy Thursday , enjoyed the chit chat ❤️🫶🏾

[@ipelengkgama7162]

So many languages and you chose to speak facts ❤‍🔥💯

[@LadiesNightOutPodcast]

Lexxx u going to have that girl out here bald talking about “you can relax your own hair” 😭😭

[@candyhouseAMOUR]

What’s going on here lolll I just pictured you arguing with your man .. I wouldn’t be able to take you serious .. super cute. Good advice the whole video lol

[@naynayhi93]

For 10:33 If it's worth fighting for, go to counseling. There may be something deeper going on with him. There are indeed a lot of layers to that situation. Could be spiritual, could be him having an episode of being young and feeling tied down (men go through this a lot, especially if they're not married)

[@Lovekitchenco]

Alexus, now you know I can teach you how to make ALL YOUR PROTEINS.

[@dw29376]

The one with the baby daddy whose child is 3! LMAO he is still sleeping with the baby mama guaranteed. So many women speak about how they still sleep with their baby daddy's until the kids like 5 years old lol Do not believe anything he tells you, you have to meet the baby mom yourself because you are at risk of ending up just like her tbh. Also girls with NO kids please just stop dating men with kids and wondering how you ended up like his other baby mother(s). Good grief y'all get some sense. This is said with love

[@denisedonshay9309]

Mom calling to ask a question at 1 AM during the girl chat is so on POINT ✨💕

[@Scandalex]

Lol she’s random just like me

[@AsiasShow_]

Okay wait but the skinn hunnyy!

[@destinymaniya]

Lmaooo I’m snitching too!!! I don’t even play with these disgusting ass men😂

[@vavoo5181]

You felt every part of that college friends fallout, you had a flashback didn’t you? 😭😂

[@briannafuller1219]

Girl have a meet and greet 😩

[@Gisellej80]

Co-parenting is work. Yes bring back the spice in the relationship even if he is not

[@Sweetheart0189]

1) First story lying! 3 years old? He still smashing the baby mama & with her! That “cheating” is the story HE said, not her lol 2) I’d move on sis. There’s nothing you can do when things aren’t the same & a person isn’t reciprocating. I’ve been there. Plus, she most like out & about more & you feel left out. Don’t hyper fixate on her, focus on your own vibe & you’ll attract your tribe ❤ 5) He’s going to keep doing it. The older he gets, the more he’s going to continue to sleep with younger women. I’d let him go be with who he really wants & get you a different man ❤

[@ArynImani67]

30:29 what in the tubi movie?! 😭😭 I would feel like its the hairdresser texting from his phone 😂 no but me personally I would definitely tell her whats up. Whatever she does with that information is her business but I need a clear conscious okay! 😂 New hairdresser me ASAP.

[@y.spence]

Lex!! Your advice is 👌🏾 Speak 👏🏾to 👏🏾them 👏🏾

[@Scandalex]

🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@KeontraTyese]

What’s going on hereeeee 🤣😂😂! I’m snitching asap too Lex! Cause find you somebody to play with!

[@CcoachBiz]

Listen after a month of being friends with my man, he made me his woman. And at this age (over 30) i dont have time to let a man string me along sorry 😂

[@mamphoM15]

You should go live sis so we deal with this in real time cause I be needing the extra details too🫠😭

[@Scandalex]

Ohhhh duh, that’s definitely a bomb idea. A live girl chattttt!!! It would be so fun

[@liaw4566]

I agree, Friday night we all helping our sisters

[@mamphoM15]

@@liaw4566 lol that would be so cute we all tune in with our drinks and hookahs🫦girl chat fr fr

[@SamanthaJaiqueen]

🤣🤣🤣ooh girl my bad, i spoke to soon

[@Trishloveee]

Here for the chit chat

[@Scandalex]

🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@pdaxon]

What I learned in boating school isssss‼️ “get on birth control if you’re not gonna leave him 🫥”

[@ntombikazigubuza675]

One thing about you ??? You gonn’ keep it real & we love it sis ! 🤩

[@cooler2266]

You are so beautiful and gorgeous 💛💛🧡🧡🩷💟💝💝🖤💘💘💖♥️♥️❤️💓🩵💙💚💚💜and I love your hair and your video ⭐️⭐️🌟🤣✨️✨️✨️🪻🪻🍁🪻⚘️💐

[@noellemerritt3534]

You give advice that the girls need to hear!

[@charmainecarbon65]

Hey gorgeous I really enjoyed chit chat , love your video 💞

[@Scandalex]

Glad you enjoyed thank you for tuning in, always 🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@kelseixw]

i love a good sit down video 🎉

[@Scandalex]

Me tooooo 😭🫶🏽

[@stinarenee9715]

*The baby mama thing!! I wouldn’t force the boyfriend to meet! He could end up in jail you don’t know how hard he was hurt!! *The rekindled friendship LET IT GO! Too much time has passed .she’s showing you she don’t wanna hang! Some new friends will find you! *27 you’re young Take a break OR LEAVE! Protect your child’s peace!! * he was horny and y’all were on a break!!!! THIS WILL BE HIS EXCUSE 10-20 years from now! Leave girl! Before it gets too hard.

[@msmamas5137]

The relation ship that’s ending I think they should try therapy or have a close friend from both side try to understand and help their situation. Maybe try and take breaks from each other but set boundaries and if it’s broken then that is enough information for either person to move on!

[@DeeTheMusee]

Yes content queen!!

[@thandekangwenya8371]

I love the harsh Lex sometimes we need tough love

[@kirabutler7985]

TikTok live would help the direct interaction

[@Perid0ctoro]

*Shower routine bodycare pls*

[@CcoachBiz]

Chile leave that coach alone 😂😂 let em go on with his past

[@paigerogers9148]

I wouldn’t snitch. I’ll find me a new hair dresser. Lol

[@risadelarosa3973]

With reference to the person trying to re-friend.......LET IT GO! She obviously never was your friend and does not care to be your friend. Who God removes from your life is well removed!!!!

[@SadittyShonnie]

The girl who had multiple miscarriages and wondering if she should have her baby 🤨. Someone is trying to save you from making a mistake and you’re adamant about making it. Think logically. Take accountability. I’d say, Term it. Talk to God about it. Block that man forever and ever. Then move on.