CHIT CHAT GRWM| NEW FRIENDS, SOLO TRAVELING, LIVING IS CRAZY EXPENSIVE, READY FOR MARRIAGE??

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Just Bloom by Storie Veneziane by Valmont-sbird.co/3Qv5Ck2
Silhouette In Bloom by Christian Siriano-sbird.co/3Qs1XDv
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Hey yallll, a little Chit Chat get ready with me for the babessss. For you guys that continually send me topics on IG to chat about...I have a special place in my heart for you! If you'd like to be apart of the discussion follow me on IG. xoxox
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[@Scandalex]

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[@ChannyNicole]

Burberry blush and Marc Jacobs perfect intense has been my go to lately 🥰

[@mscharliebrown4eva]

Because everybody moving down south that’s why prices going up I assume

[@AllThingsImanix]

I've found all my ATL friends on bumble so far so i can atttest to it. One of them just took a vacation with me to Belize and we passed the travel test lol ❤

[@cierachanae]

Thank you so much for sharing snippets of your old vids. Sometimes we need that reminder to just post ourselves in our current element. It's our life, we gotta own it!

[@iamnursechelsea]

You truly spoke on a serious topic that I believe some of our generation may have lost sight of which is the foundation and potential structure of marriage. But I agree that there’s a lot of trauma people have with commitment. But it does take a village of support to have a lifetime of a marriage. My parents are going on 31 years married and it’s truly an inspiration to me. ☺️ Thank you for speaking on that topic, definitely needs to be talked about more! 💕

[@muffymariah2889]

Chillle I went to the Chris Brown concert solo and had a good time. Sometimes you can’t go out with everyone and nor should you have to.

[@loved8283]

I love your energy and I’ll definitely pick you as a friend because you have great advice and definitely know how to enjoy life.

[@Scandalex]

🥰 well I appreciate this. Thank you.

[@gregc09]

I think marriage is overwhelming for a-lot of men (myself included). While I don’t believe you have to be married to have a child, I can also respect a woman’s decision to be married, she needs that commitment because it gives her a sense of security and honestly no woman wants to be a baby mama. Also weddings are overwhelming, take me to the courthouse and let’s honeymoon in Spain somewhere afterwards.

[@simpleyolan3014]

I have a hard time trusting people. My Boyfriend is my best friend. Sometimes family can be the worst.

[@divinedreams7577]

Fr though. I feel you on the family part.

[@nomD38]

I agree!!

[@sarahgivens7182]

It's gets harder to make friends as you get older. I'm 50. Move to new city for job. But My husband and I got close again. We just have each other

[@Scandalex]

That’s how I was for me when I first moved to a new city 🫶🏽🥹 glad you have your husband ❤️❤️

[@ranita9156]

Love this chit chat video. You have. Great advice. I remember watching your videos when you were living at home getting ready to move to Atlanta. You’ve grown so much I love it ❤️

[@iamshaya]

This is why you're my FAV youtuber!! Just be keeping it real & authentic. 💞

[@Lifeofkrys]

Girl you’re more than welcome to come to Texas but if Dallas is a thought keep thinking 😂 because it’s high as hell here too. Loved the video as always💕

[@jenksu]

I've watched you since the beginning, you truly have come far since the days in Pittsburgh

[@Scandalex]

Around since Pittsburgh ✨ I’ve come far for sure thanks to you guys who continue to tune in & watch! I appreciate yall

[@jenksu]

@@Scandalexyou welcome, Also i have some video editing tools advice, yeah i know you got the software, but i would like to pass something else to you as you continue as a YT influencer..... a piece of hardware that will help you so much, and i know you will appreciate the advice i have for you..... trust me!!!!! And NO this is not a tactic to hit on you!!!!!! So please don't block me like you did on IG, LOL...... I'll post the next time you make a vlog... or if you would like me to post it here, since many don't read reply messages because of it being hidden.......

[@brithe1_]

I literally have no friends at the moment. And I ask god why and honestly I feel safer. I be in my head and thinking I have social anxiety but I really don’t because I hold great convos when I’m out. And I’m so scared to travel alone that’s a goal I’m definitely going achieve.

[@EssenceofPolish]

Girl you are preaching to me about kids and marriage thank you so much!! I heed your words strongly!!!

[@MrsBrittanyGold]

Thank you for speaking on the marriage topic. It’s ok to want a family before having a baby.

[@hillaryhillz8216]

Your advices are really good💓 I think its interesting how there’s many makes who will talk about having kids and not marriage first. Like its supposed to be a commitment on both sides. Like once kids arrive its a responsibility for both parties involved. I agree that having lids is a greater commitment and responsibility. It seems that in some scenarios men wanna trap females but they don’t want to be committed themselves……. I think that maybe they feel the amount of freedom that they have without being married will lower getting married. Or want to continue to behave like they are single and available….. It ain’t right. Some people ask for a commitment that they themselves aren’t willing to give.

[@alexadior4052]

Not Drumline and getting it crackin lmao 😂😂😂 omg so traumatic

[@blessingscomewithpatience]

😂 I bet the movie Drumline makes her think back to that traumatic moment 🤣🤣🤣😭

[@DominiqueDooley]

“She made that shit up” 😭😂

[@SharellChaquan]

Babyyyy I just got into "Anxiety Of Thrones" myself ( yes, thats what I call it 😂). Its literally that toxic relationship that you know is completely bad for your health but you just keep going back! Really good show...you're not the only one late on this!

[@jokin245]

How are men expecting a baby before marriage, but on every dating podcast they want to call women with children “low value” make it make sense lol

[@Kuwkay]

Because they want to make you less attractive to other men even though they don’t want to keep u

[@joycub]

Preachhhh

[@kangoocutee1198]

Thanks for the motivation Lex, I got up and did a Tumeric face scrub, and vitamin C serum. Face felt amazing 🥰 P.S. Try the dry rubbing brush on Vontae, tell him to thank me later. My bf loves it!!!!

[@royal504traveler3]

We are both Cancers so I get it. My “newest” friend is 9 years in lol… Ion want no new friends lol. OAN: I did my FIRST solo trip to Greece and Paris and it was awesome! And that’s coming from a Cancer ♋️ lol. I’ll help you when you’re ready 🥴

[@NatoriLoisAngela]

Sweet life is so good. I started watching it end of last year and just started the new season last week.

[@brianicole9804]

I think that was me that asked the house hunting question, but thank you for saying this because sometimes it comes across like influencers just have money to blow. We know y’all ain’t hurting for money at all but 4k and up for an apartment is definitely INSANE!! Glad we all agree 😂

[@drenice6109]

I love this makeup routine but can we get the shades of what you’re using with the concealers and foundation and what brand?

[@loveofpassion7908]

The renting market is the same in Texas she smh. I saw an apartment in Frisco going for $8k a month 😂😂 not kidding

[@ohwellguessimtravelingsolo1531]

I took a solo trip to Jamaica 🇯🇲, I had a blast! I posted it on my channel ! I feel like allot of countries get a bad rap! When you actually get there it's nothing like all the bad things you've heard !

[@starlyfe6777]

Media spreading false news

[@destiny.shantelle]

Everything in Atlanta is crazy expensive but the quality doesn’t match the price. 🙃

[@udesirekyejc]

Yeaaaa that napkin thing got me trippin. Didn’t know about the money thing tho..thanks for sharing that info ❤

[@divinedreams7577]

Girl I aint know about the money either. Lol. I literally just picked up some money off the floor yesterday lmao

[@cococloudlee18]

Alexus!!! I love your personality!! & you get it because some shows you do have to have the subtitles on for 😂 like you hear them but whet? & you looked bomb for date night!!

[@ChannyNicole]

I can count on one hand how many friends I actually have. I'm a self proclaimed gregarious introvert and I honestly love being alone but sometimes I need company on those super lonely days. However, people are so drawn to me it's scary lol I mean they be telling me their deepest darkest secrets on our first time meeting and I be like 🫣 "we're not even friendssss" I'm definitely a low maintenance friend as well and my two bff's mirror that same energy so it works for us. I too find it very hard trusting new people and handing out that friend title 🥹

[@MorewithMonica]

I love how you remembered what was on the tv 🤣 they were watching drumline😭

[@santanagaines1056]

I wanna travel by myself cuz im tired of waiting on other ppl. But that look was so beautiful 😍

[@vezembavizzykimhijarunguru5126]

Alexis u my friend in my head period! Much love from Africa.

[@cmeq9572]

Ayyyy my country mate

[@vavoo5181]

Watching Drumline and getting it cracking 🤣

[@dj.1094]

Girl , Texas USED to be cheaper in 2019 when i moved here but now… sis, dont waste your time we high as hell too lol!

[@kiarastiggers7005]

Girl I started Game Of Thrones this year & I have been hooked , I be so ready to lay down and turn tht on .❤️‍🔥

[@destinymaniya]

The outfit was giving sis😍 do you use a body serum for the glow?

[@monis.4382]

Lex, you are literally one of my absolute favs! Loved this chit chat! You shared some great sound advice. Keep being the fabulous beauty you are🥰🙌🏽

[@Miss.Bri_]

My man is definitely my best friend so when we be on the outs child I be hurt hurt 😩 like would you make me not talk to you! Know damn well we all we GOT!!

[@novajaydebeauty788]

Same! Lol

[@Scandalex]

Girllllllllll same! I HATE arguing w/ my man. 😭😭 like let’s hurry up & squash this I need my bestie back.

[@marionmills2068]

You KILLEDDDD this look

[@khaliah.anderson]

Another video from my favorite! Love these & youuu 💖💖

[@SugaSugaB]

Oh thank goodness….. shesssss hereeee!!! Love you videos. I really Benj watch all of you videos

[@reshh1536]

I loved this!

[@Alexis_Rose_]

Rent in NY/NJ is in the 4k-5k range too. It’s insane

[@chelseataft7445]

The way I’m cackling at you catching your parents in the act has sent me 😂😭

[@tanashathomas7601]

Girllllll, Dallas is extensive too!

[@calettarichards4230]

how much?

[@tanashathomas7601]

@@calettarichards4230 $1,500-1,800+/bdrm, I know that’s not the worse but it’s still pretty high

[@nathalieadana]

I think people in general need to think VERY hard about having kids before they have them. She was not tripping at all. I feel like men have less to lose and consider which is why they are so quick to have kids without a second thought. It could also be tied to their creepy drive to procreate lmao but that’s another discussion. I’m so happy you’re on the GoT wave!!! I am definitely the annoying friend who tells everyone to watch what I watch bc the shit is objectively fire! 🔥

[@2010deandrea]

I just watched Game of Thrones this year also.

[@theworldoft.n.t.9250]

I met my best friend on bumble! It’s been 5 years 👯‍♀️. And a few other great friends….

[@CrazyNaturalPrincess]

Enjoyed the video!❤️

[@tanashathomas7601]

Ohhhh, please tell the Jamaica story b/c I was thinking about taking a solo trip to Jamaica

[@Cancaaaa69]

The friend topic, it’s a ♋️ thing. We have to feel you out first 👍🏽😌.

[@taniyasenise]

Yes girl!! I love when you upload lol

[@Scandalex]

❤️❤️

[@iamkeria9027]

hey girl hey!! and yesss! going out alone as a female is just scary now. It’s women out here trying to harm other women like girllll

[@ablessedbeauty21]

ARUBA!!!! Girl I need you to look up Natalee Holloway

[@sharonmyles399]

Love you back than and love you more now🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@X.Shayonce]

This was so good . I felt like you were sitting right on my couch with me ❤️

[@TellyJTV]

Wow, felt like y’all just moved in there! Time really flies. I haven’t watch Game of Thrones yet. Only a brief part of one random episode at my cousins place. Everyone does say it’s good though. I’ve been watching Sisters on Amazon (by Tyler Perry). It’s good

[@VicksStyles]

You look gorgeous 🤩🤩🤩 love the chit chat💃💕

[@Scandalex]

Thank you so much 🥰❤️❤️

[@WandaResende]

My boyfriend is also my best friend

[@karenmealy7253]

Love your chit chats. You oozed great fit was great.

[@Littlebit268]

Great chit chat & love the outfit!

[@lulumyakayaka]

Not you bumping into your parents doing the deed 🤣🤣🤣

[@Jusdomo1126]

LMFAAAAAAAAAAOOOOOOOOOOOO😭 omg the recap of your parents

[@jessicafianko]

Hiii Alexus, Happy Monday and Happy Labor Day. Yippee for today's chit chat GRWM video 🙌🏾👏🏾 I always love when you do these videos for us. You looked absolutely radiant and gorgeous in the thumbnail 😍 Sending love 🫶🏾🤍

[@tequilla773]

I've been saying the same thing lol. When this housing market crash I will buy a house.

[@aminah761]

ur makeup came out beautiful

[@jpinx22]

Not they were watching Drumline! 💀💀💀💀

[@chantellp1138]

Okkkkkk outfit😍😍💚💚

[@livingsimplewithneo6353]

Notification gang gang! Hey Lex,looking pretty like always!❤😍

[@Scandalex]

Gang gannngg ❤️❤️ thank you so much 🥹🥹

[@ieishasreality3577]

20:09 😂😆🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@chrissic8106]

Definitely no kids before marriage 🙅🏾‍♀️

[@SimoneBraithwaite]

love the chat, makeup turn out nice....we should all get lumber from home depot and build a house shit too expensive.

[@britt7033]

Girl these prices are stupid! Can’t wait to settle down in a city and I will buy a house. I’m tired of throwing away my money! It’s ridiculous, they are scamming us. Anddddd yes to the marriage before I start popping out children. Weird that it seems he got defensive? This is coming from someone who doesn’t watch the show though… but I agree with you! Love your channel!

[@Benjamina.Button]

Hey Alexis! Who does your sew ins? My girl moved back to Mississippi.

[@nice9292]

Girl I live in Texas, it’s more expensive than atl unless you go to Houston. Stay in atl

[@nicolettesimmons7413]

Why Atlanta charging New York rent? Yes my friend trying to move to Atlanta.

[@Iamthedom]

Girl I was just in Atlanta a few weeks ago for invest fast and everything in me when it to go and visit you because I felt like we were friends and then it hit me like oh she don’t even know me lol but I feel like we are the best of friends lol

[@andil.1130]

So here’s the tea on Bumble: dem bi#%*es be crazy! 🤣 No but seriously, there’s a reason those women are looking for friends in an unconventional way. I was on there because I work from home and never go out, so making friends for me is damn near impossible. But the ladies I met through Bumble were needy, low-key psycho, conspiracists, and very thirsty. Maybe I’m a one-off regarding the experience I had but after a few months on the app, I had to delete it!!

[@RoseSimeus]

These the same girls I need to stay away from! I’m cool being lonely! Don’t have time for none of that.

[@andrea1030]

I wanna know what happened in Jamaica! I’ve heard a few stories and know of one personally.

[@charmainecarbon65]

Hey gorgeous always a joy seeing you your outfit is nice, girl from since young never had much friends just two everybody else is my relatives 🤦 when I decide to do a solo trip all I remember is the movie hostile 😄 if I do group trips we all stay with each other and ready to leave places together , love your video 💞

[@shaniquedasilva1856]

Love the outfit! Can you link details below? Thanks!

[@stephaniemaraschino]

So down to earth 💜😘

[@BriuanaGreen]

I love Scentbird 🥰

[@Lafashionista862]

Where is your mirror from ? 😩

[@cenisebryant]

Aww you're such a sweet girl. You cried when you seen your parents. 😢 Well.. I am a mother of two boys. And my husband and I were making love.. door locked.. however.. my 10 year old son was able to open the door. Lawd.. so both my boys seen us. We were under the covers but they still seen me on top of him and just.. yeah. So they closed the door and ran away LAUGHING!!!😬 (Like.. why are you laughing right now?) 😂😂 I felt so bad. But I had to realize that I can't be in control of everything. We did talk to the boys about the birds and the bees. Two people who love each other make love. And then my 8 year old goes.. so that's what I'm going to do to my girlfriend when I become an adult?? 😂😂🤦🏾 Yes, son. Let's not rush that. You have such a long time before you have to worry about that. 😂😂😂 Need less to say.. we changed our door knobs to the type of locks where my extra smart 10 year old child can't break his way through. 😂😂 Improvise😂😂 love you so much Alexus. Always enjoy a good GRWM. 💜💜💜

[@mommanme9237]

U look beautiful lexus❤❤❤❤

[@paulwhite4161]

You have come a long way beautiful no disrespect to your boyfriend!

[@joeyj5495]

Early AF, let’s go LEX!!

[@mamacitaboo344]

Alexus, we can be friends girl!!! I love your energy

[@jerriahselineprude]

My man pressed me to watch Game of Thrones too and I'm obsessed! I say its disgusting (iykyk) but definitely too good to stop watching lmao

[@lulumyakayaka]

You are not the only that uses subtitles

[@najeebah1406]

Check out Taylor Wynn for solo travel info. She is very well versed in that.

[@MoodEFamily]

Wowwww, you are beautiful! New to your channel! This is Mood E Mom btw.

[@gottalovekennedy]

Yesss to sweet life! So we don’t need to work on our relationship before a kid? that’s just crazy🤣

[@cooler2266]

Wow you look beautiful Alexus 🧡🧡💛💜💖💘❤️❤️💓💙💓💗and I love your hair 🥰🥰😍😍😍🥰and your video is amazing 😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎

[@msme9790]

Baby if you survived ATL you will survive most solo trips lol!

[@liciaandrea9789]

Omg Ty & Bri were both pissing me off so bad, like so bad, all the crying, not taking accountability, 🙄 but it’s such a good show & I am not a huge reality tv person. People keep trying to convince me to watch GOT, but like you I’m not all into knights/queens type stuff, but I may indulge. I was completely against watching Stranger Things, but yearsssss later lol, I decided to binge it a couple weeks ago & I was hooked, so if I can do that, I can give GOT a chance lol. 💕💕💕