GIRL TALK!!! how to handle weight gain, being happy & single, and more

[@absolutelynot1711]

“You shouldn’t expect to look like your highschool self” this!!! I feel like no one warned me that I wasn’t going to have the body of a 15 year old forever lol

[@ashleyannabelle1900]

I heard this somewhere once~ “becoming an adult is learning to care for yourself like a parent would care for a child.” Were all learning but let’s all be gentle with ourselves and take good care of us because we deserve it.

[@germaniums2611]

That is such a good quote!

[@a.mandamary]

i started watching your videos a month or go (.. watched every single one haha) i am also single and the same age. i recently ended a ten year relationship and really appreciate your girl talk video. i find it hard to relate to a lot of yt-ers and just people my age going through similar experiences so thank you for being honest, genuine and sharing your life.

[@JennicaandAnnica]

omg ❤️ this made my night

[@lavenderoh]

I'm 35, had an active social and dating life until my mid 20s. That's when I realized it was pretty much pointless to date when I didn't see myself being a wife or mother, ever. I enjoyed 6 years of being single. I was always open to true love if that was on the table, but it's very hard to come by of course! 3 years ago I started talking to a guy I met randomly online, it was just a friendship to start. After a year of chatting we knew we loved each other, and we met. Fast forward to now, we got married last month in Vegas! In my opinion this is how it should be, you shouldn't be seeking a relationship.. you should be building one. You as in the general "you" of course, this only applies to those who haven't set a firm position to never be in a relationship.

[@JennicaandAnnica]

omg seeking vs building - THIS

[@DemiDrake20]

Can we all talk about how incredibly laid and perfect this gorgeous woman’s eyebrows are!! Am I the only one in awe of how perfect they look! Also loved the video! ♥️♥️ you are such a light. Good bless y’all!

[@xomksxo]

Jennica, thank you so much for these videos❤️ I am 27, I recently lost my mom suddenly and tragically, I’m an only child an I don’t have a dad. Your channel has become somewhat of an oasis for me personally. You and Annica’s relationship Reminds me so much of mine and my daughter’s relationship and I am just so grateful than y’all are on this platform❤️ thank you for being the big sister I never had but always wanted❤️ love y’all!

[@HeatherStrickler]

Thank you for showing young girls that being in a relationship is not everything. I feel like there is so much pressure to get in a relationship and hurry through life and you’ve shown us that being single is actually normal and not wanting to be in a relationship is ok. I get so many questions and comments from my family like who are you dating, you better get in a relationship or you’ll be in your 30’s having kids, or why aren’t you dating. And when I answer them honestly and say I just don’t want that right now they literally look at me like something is wrong with me. You have shown me that I am completely normal and actually I think I am just wanting to take care of me and live my life before I deal with the craziness of dating and relationships.

[@hayleyl1166]

Jennica I just adore you and all of your vlogs. Watching them is literally apart of my self care…. I grab a coffee and something to eat put my headset on and block out everything else. Thankyou so much. 💕🌸

[@JennicaandAnnica]

ily ❤️ this is literally me with youtube i cannot believe i get to be in someone’s schedule 🥹🌸

[@SassafrasRecords]

I’ve had two Mirena IUDs (currently on the second one) and I will sing it’s praises forever and tell everyone I know to get one. I haven’t had a period in 10 years, I never think about it, the hormonal impact was way better than when I was on the pill, and my experiences of getting them weren’t the horror stories you read online. I really feel like people are way more likely to talk about their bad experiences with things like that online vs just being like “it’s great 10/10 recommend”. Everyone is different of course but my experience is 100% positive

[@venusdarling4515]

The wedding birthday idea!! It would be adorable to have Annica at the end of the isle!!!

[@audrey228]

jennica, you are a GIRL BOSS i literally inspire to be you, if i’m having a bad day the first thing i do is watch one of your videos because they make me smile and laugh! i am so thankful for yours and annicas channel!!

[@teagandawn8413]

I’ve been watching your videos since the viral 13 and pregnant one and ngl at first I thought that this would be another channel I gave up on. But I kept clicking on videos that got recommended to me by you and I just found myself really loving you & Annica’s personalities. I watch every video now

[@rebeccajohnson2432]

I love everything you say about body image, relationship with the gym, etc. I have had to work on this too, but I want my daughter to grow up knowing how beautiful she is regardless of her size. Thank you so much for all you share! It helps so many of us.

[@Lindsey_Altman]

I freaking love you Jennica!!! Girl talk is the absolute best, we need more of them! 💜💜💜

[@evelynh1271]

You two beautiful women have inspired not only me but hundreds of thousands of young women around the world to feel confident in their own skin and you should truly be proud of what you accomplished. 💗💗

[@whole_lotta_rosie_lbs4741]

love this! my mums been single for years now and honestly its the happiest shes ever been and always raves about being single, its so important for people to know its OK to be single and still love your life xx

[@allthingshealthy2314]

Love your Q&A’s. You always answer the “taboo” questions and are so honest in your answers. Thanks for sharing your heart with us!

[@laurenmack2422]

I rapidly gained like 30+ lbs right after high school (change in movement levels, stress, poor diet, and I’m short, so a little weight goes a long way) and it’s so true that disregarding the number on the tag is sooooo important. In some styles/ brands, I can wear an xs, in others I need an xl. The most important thing you can do when it comes to dressing after weight gain is focus on styles and fabrics that make you feel good. Don’t get hung up on the number, it’s arbitrary, and you are not.

[@sawyernicole7730]

wow jennica! i absolutely love your videos and you. my face glows up when i see you post. you’re so inspirational and the way you lift people up is amazing! YOU ARE AN AMAZING ADVICE GIVER!!! love you 😘

[@staceyz7016]

Thank you for normalizing us single by choice girlies living our best lives!!!!! You truly are amazing!! 💜

[@yuckybunny4736]

you actually really helped me a lot with my weight gain. i went on birth control and gained so much weight in such a short amount of time, and it really stresses me out because ive never been this size. but i did realize im only 16 and im still growing, you just really helped me realized my attractiveness and self worth isnt based off my weight.

[@emilyirwin1468]

I know I’m late to this video but I’m 26 with two little boys. I’ve been married for four years and although I am so happily married, being as young as I was has me finding happiness in myself while juggling momming. You reminded me to take a step back and find joy in myself so I don’t become dependent on others to make me happy.

[@jhazimih]

I literally feel my stress melt away when I watch one of you and Annica's videos (solo or together!) 💛💛💛

[@shellbell444]

IUD was the best decision I ever made in my life and my anxiety. I am so thankful for it and that my body did well with it.

[@morgan_willenbrink]

Jennica you are so brave!! And AJ has grown so much! And happy that AJ it on the cheer team

[@morgan_willenbrink]

And your makeup has been absolutely flawless lately!!!

[@kittyreincat]

I’m on my second IUD- had them over 10 years now. Best birth control ever…no periods and no daily pill to take.

[@shineonyoucrazyalmond]

hey! I'm on the non-hormonal IUD, and while it's very convenient and long-lasting, it makes my periods baaaaad. what's your experience with having a hormonal one, if you don't mind me asking? thanks!

[@Ashley-vx6gr]

I loved this video. It is so nice to have someone that is also a single mom to relate to!!

[@DeborahMcDermitt-Castro]

I've been single for 8 years, I'm 31 with 2 kids a 13yo daughter and 8yo son. I HATED being single for several years. Now I'm digging it. I do however need to spend more time and effort into my self care. Ily you guys so much and look forward to your videos!

[@mya6142]

jennica you definitely feel like the older sister i never had!! thank you so much for everything you do💕

[@marammaaroufi6093]

Gosh I missed these talks❤❤everything you said, it spoke to me

[@siennakay3922]

id love a jennica and annica podcast

[@oliviahalcomb6665]

This is 100% my self care channel. I get me a lil snack and comfy clothes on and everything before I start the video. I feel like I’m catching up on my friends😅🥹❤️.

[@erinfloyd5957]

Gold Bond makes a friction stick...its the size of a deodorant, its yellow with a red lid. Best thing ever! I rub it anywhere I dont want chafing (thighs) or blisters (all over my feet especially for new shoes)! BandAid brand also makes a tiny one but the Gold Bond one is 4 times the size...lasts forever, I've had the same one for over 5 years It leaves no residue or streaks like deodorant might.

[@JennicaandAnnica]

omg i must try!!

[@anikawiggins4388]

i LOVE that shit. it’s a need when i go to theme parks!!

[@ryanneliza]

I’m the oldest daughter and really need your sisterly advice sometimes. Thanks for being you, Jennica ❤️

[@Melanie-lg1rt]

Firstly, I've loved watching you and Annica's journey thus far and I'm always excited to see your new videos. Feels like watching family ♡ I can relate to you on so many levels and genuinely feel a connection. I too am a single momma and a divorcee , single for over 5 years now. At times, it does get very lonely but, I have actually learned to really embrace my solitude, especially when my son is away. Thank you for being" there" . I don't feel so alone! You gals brighten up my day! Lots of love from your Canadian friend ❤️ 🤍

[@JennicaandAnnica]

always here ❤️🫶🏼

[@laurynpawl6839]

Just found your channel from Unlocked savannah podcast. Ive been looking for a new channel for a while. Yours and Annica vlogs are wonderful. I've been enjoying going back and watching the older videos. Thank you.

[@JennicaandAnnica]

yay! thank you for watching 🫶🏻✨

[@amandaellis9656]

I’m not even halfway through and oh my gosh girl the advice you’re giving is just amazing! You are so insightful! Thank you for sharing your wisdom! 🥰

[@mollieadele]

This is one of the few videos about self love and confidence that I have actually took to heart. At the moment I’ve really been struggling being 14 as lots of things that I loved doing I don’t feel like anymore. I also have a lot darker hair than my mum and younger sister so she doesn’t really understand how much more self conscious I am about my eyebrows that grow really quickly, ‘moustache’, leg/arm hair that can be easily seen.

[@itsmia7896]

I love you guys so much!!! Whenever I watch your videos it just brightens my day!❤️

[@DB-jf4hy]

Just wanted to say bravo!!! Your advice and videos are truly on point. The way you organize your thoughts and deliver them are very professional and so well done!! Thank you!! love popping on to watch. never fails! so thank you for that! I have young adult daughters and have used your advice soooooo many times!! ❤❤❤

[@Rose-16]

tysm for this video! i learned so much! jennica, hearing you talk about the self image has really helped me! i struggle with loving myself and hearing you talk about it really showed me that it doesn’t matter what anyone thinks, only what i think of myself! so thank you for letting me see that!

[@april7964]

12:53-13:25 needed to hear this😭❤️

[@pippa2351]

This is so relatable and a relief to hear someone else talk about it. Turning 30 in 2 months and have been single over 4 years. There was a lot of pressure in the beginning to find someone, causing me to find all the wrong people and then eventually I just built the perfect life for me. I look after myself, treat myself, nurture myself and do whatever I feel. I have NO desire to find someone anymore, I'm just super happy and comfortable on my own. That said, people think somethings wrong with me 🤔 I've had a similar problem with steroids lately. My hearts been having problems so I've been on steroids and like... Wow. I'm having an identity crisis because my appearance changed so quickly I don't recognise myself.

[@Shannybanany95]

the moment i see you or AJ upload, i watch in my free time with snacks. all the love to you guys :)

[@brittanydutton-leyda1410]

The same thing happened to me. I gained 80 pounds after getting diagnosed with Rheumatoid Arthritis and going on steroids. 11 years later, I’m happy where I am but just want to be healthy. I love clothes and feel the same way as you! Just wear what you want and know you are worth more than a number on a scale or on a tag! Love you and this! Thank you for sharing. My teenage girls always tell me I should dress like you and we love your style. 💖

[@mckennativy9813]

I am going to need this every month. I love this.

[@moniquequintero2699]

I honestly love watching you and annica. I can relate to you so much and you have me cracking up all the time! Definitely good vibes from the both of you. Wish y’all the best! Enjoy the life you’ve created for yourself girl! And show annica what a happy strong independent woman looks like! I hope you realize the extraordinary example you are for your daughter and women!

[@malloryredmon]

I got an IUD a couple years ago and have loved it so much!! 100/10 would recommend

[@liamartinezliamartinez]

Ugh I love that you have so much experience and can guide us. You're sweet

[@brittneymccartney6365]

absolutely needed this. i love your channel. drastic weight gain has been challenging for me to feel confident and it’s caused me to be really depressed. i appreciate your encouraging words 💗

[@saramichalowicz8637]

I have an IUD (Mirena) and I absolutely LOVE it! The first two days you get pretty bad cramping, as it has to settle in. But my periods were immediately lighter and after 5 months I stopped getting them all together. This one lasts 5 years but can be taken out before then, if desired. I haven’t had a period in almost 2 years and I’m absolutely thriving 🥲 I loved this video! ❤️

[@sashafumero5107]

Get the IUD!! I’ve had mine for 3 years and love love love it. You won’t regret it ✨

[@kaitlynmchugo4131]

oml your eyebrows and lipgloss are GIVING EVERYTHING IT NEEDS TO GIVE

[@normarissoto6391]

i have an IUD the copper one. and I LOVE IT! everyone’s experience is different. talk to your doctor and see what they will recommend for you. there are different kinds of iud as well. hormonal and non hormonal ones.

[@JennicaandAnnica]

i’m feeling very hopeful about the copper one! this is so good to hear 💕

[@cijide]

I'm technically your big sister lol 5 years older, but still love the talk! I have been single going on 12 years now and I'm happier now than I ever was with a man 😁. I am also not closing any doors completely, but I'm ok with me. I have a daughter and my mom lives with me and we all get along and that's what matters! 💕

[@JennicaandAnnica]

and i guarantee you’ll always cherish these years as the best years of your life 🥹❤️

[@cijide]

@@JennicaandAnnica absolutely!!!

[@lucyrodriguez95]

Hi IUD girly here, I’ve been on it for 5 years now and it’s the BEST! If you’re contemplating it- DO IT! ✨ I get that it’s not for everyone and I will not sugarcoat it, the insertion process is painful but it’s only a few seconds of pain. I love having no periods, no babies, and not having to take pill everyday. My only gripe is the lack of bedside manner with the IUD process, as women were expected to just deal with the pain and it’s frustrating because it’s a medical procedure and they just tell you to pop an Advil. Like no ma’am you’re shoving a piece of plastic in my cervix.

[@JennicaandAnnica]

my doctor was very optimistic about it for me! i’m hoping this will be how it works for me but if not i really do think trying would be worth it

[@roseycheeks34]

Also I have been single for 8 months and I love it ! So twins !

[@haleyruminski3229]

Thankyou Jennica for everything you say / do 🧡 We all appreciate your kind words & advice so so much. Iv been following since your & annicas video about being a teen mom bc my mom was. I felt like a lot of what yall went through , we did also. We had to “grow up together” almost like sisters. At the same time I can relate to you as a young adult. We both watch your videos & I send my mom certain videos of yours that I know she needs to watch which this one was , she even text me saying “I knew you were gonna send this one to me , you have grandma hooked now too” 😅☺️ We all love you. 💘

[@kblake69]

Hey Jennica! First I wanted to tell you that you are an incredible person. Obviously, I only know you from the internet but your kindness, uniqueness, friendliness and fabulousness shines. I'm so happy that I found your channel about a month ago because it brings so much brightness to my day. I've binged all your videos! They bring me so much laughter and brightness.. so thank you for sharing your life with us :-)

[@JennicaandAnnica]

🥹❤️ ily

[@captainhannie]

I love the big sister talks so much, thanks Jennica 🤍

[@Taylor-ki6ii]

Best KZbinrs on this platform! Y’all always find a way to bring a smile to my face!

[@Jennval96]

I agree, I love sitting in my car after getting home😅. Also I needed to hear the weight gain confidence talk. ❤️

[@Pem_321]

Jennica. In regards to your answer to the last question… THANK YOU. Thank you for saying this. When I was 19, I started my first long term, serious relationship. He was my first love and we planned on getting married… then, he broke my heart and I COULDN’T FUNCTION ON MY OWN. I lost ALL my independence in that relationship and it was really unhealthy. I had to learn how to be on my own again and it was so so hard. Even if you are in a healthy relationship, it’s so so soooo important to spend time with yourself because if you happen to be without that person for whatever reason, you NEED to know how to be happy on your own. I wish all young people could hear your message. I wish I had heard it before I started dating my first boyfriend.

[@JennicaandAnnica]

omg yes!!! being happy and independent on your own benefits SO many relationships, future, parent, friends❤️

[@sydneyhanna5289]

jennica, you look so pretty in this video. the eyebrows?!! slay. the hair?!! slay.

[@kayeneye]

I have your and Ajs videos on all day looooooong when I’m working. Like air pods in just listening to y’all talk. Call me crazy but it just helps me focus and not be anxious okay!? 😂 love y’all ❤️❤️❤️

[@kariccio]

Love your advice on the last question💕

[@sammyg2808]

I also have ulcerative colitis (and so many other health complications) and know the steroid life all too well. Thank you for speaking on this!

[@gabriellejjj]

Fr feels like the older sister I never had. You’re killin this!!!

[@cherielyn7535]

You always make me so much more confident when I watch your videos. I have four boys(who all had to be c-section babies), so no I'm not going to look like I did before them, but they are so worth it. I also feel you on the whole relationship issue, I do not need a man to make me happy! Thank you for being such an inspiration to women and teens. I'm so happy I found your videos over a year ago. I've watched every single one, even Annica at the book fair 😂

[@Vickyhumphries]

Thank you I am 50 and feel free and great!

[@inyc.9771]

I love these types of videos so very much! LOVE YOU SO MUCH JENNICA AND ANNICA

[@gracelindsey1131]

IUDs are the best! i’ve had mine for a year cramping and spotting is bad for the first week and my period lasts like 2 days each month and is super light. BEST THING TO EVER HAPPEN TO ME!!!!

[@Desertamber]

I recently got an IUD and it's great so far. Don't let the horror stories scare you too much!

[@campbellkurlander8645]

You are the youtuber I watch that inspires me to take better care of myself :)

[@mheuphoria]

“If mamma ain’t happy the house ain’t happy!!!! “…. Yes girl!!! I live by that!!! It’s great advice!!

[@laelyclark9672]

I just got off of the pill and now I have a non hormonal IUD and it lasts for up to 12 years and I love it! It doesn’t stop your period so if that’s a priority the hormonal ones last either 3 or 5 years depending on the one you get.

[@brennakelly-adams6778]

Thank you for this very honest and transparent discussion on birth control and reproductive rights ❤

[@MakenzieMGomez]

Good lord I needed this today so much Jennica! I’m laying here having a major flare up from new chronic illnesses, feeling bad about myself, self loathing all the weight I’ve gained from being in chronic pain and being on so many meds… and then your video popped up. I truly wish you were my bff!

[@JennicaandAnnica]

omg I feel you. adding chronic illness on top of weight gain is truly. fkn. exhausting. ❤️ ily we got this!

[@amylynn8010]

My husband and I we met at work completely unexpected! I was single for 7 years before him and I truly believe we were meant for each other. Your person always comes unexpectedly.

[@courtneywaltz6153]

Girl! The Monistat chafing cream is life-changing! You can find at the grocery store or on Amazon

[@oliviae2176]

thank youuu sm for making videos like these, you feel like an older sister i never had

[@gretchenvanvrancken3334]

Ooh yessss…..esp if a good song is on!!!

[@Loreadtm]

Omg this was so helpful. I also got on a medication during the pandemic and gained hella weight!!! Thank you for sharing.

[@soolmen1]

obsessed with this type of videos💕

[@karlagarcia5357]

I’m so glad u touched base on spending time alone, because I’ve been struggling with that . I find myself very agitated and moody when I’m home alone. I noticed recently because I recently moved out my parenst and moved in my bf

[@alexisk8888]

I love push notifications! Always know when the fun starts (: can’t wait to watch.

[@beccaponce114]

I genuinely look forward to your videos, they always make my day

[@emmacrum2672]

i love y’all so much i always love seeing new videos💗

[@april7964]

Jennica ur such an inspiration okay 😭🥺🥰

[@thatissocrazyomg]

i am sure that your happiness is a journey and i know it is not perfect all the time but i truly hope i can be as happy and fulfilled with my life as much as you are in my future

[@anekiis]

I go away and come back and ya'll are at 295k subs? I feel so proud rn

[@buckeyethor]

Body Glide is amazing for thigh rub. Runners use it so it definitely works for girlies around town.

[@k.s.5081]

I love your videos and the independent female energy 💕 I always feel so inspired to self care or to do the little things that make a big difference to me to make me happy. You said that you watch self care vlogs and feel inspired. That is your channel for me! It makes a difference when we take note of the little or big things we do every day that make us feel like we are thriving. ♥️ Also, Megababe has an anti-chafing stick that works well too. At least for me ☺️

[@snowball3009]

THIS WAS THE EXACT VIDEO I NEEDED

[@gabrielle7920]

Jennica and Annica you guys are truly some of my favorite people and I hope to see you one day in the future keep doing what you do girl 😘

[@Depressoespresso92]

First off I ❤ your channel. You and AJ remind me of me and my daughter! I’m 29 she’s 15. My IUD experience has been amazing!! I have had 2 so far and am about to get my 3rd in a few weeks! I got a merina first like 12 or so years ago and it was great! I took it out after 5 years and went on the shot for a few years and that was great too but I hated going to get it every 3 months so I got another one called paraguard and GIRL it was amazing and it’s NON HORMONAL and lasts 10 YEARS! I did decide to get pregnant last year and I took it out, and was able to get pregnant about 2 months later after I got my first “regular” cycle. The hormonal birth control is the only one what stopped my cycle but paragaurd is still my favorite because it eliminated all my symptoms except the actual bleeding part which was still majorly reduced just not completely. Taking hormonal birth control has alway made me a little more extra when pms-ing! They were mildly uncomfortable to get placed and removed but nothing near me saying not worth it. No worse than my normal cramps would be. 10/10 would recommend! On the flip side my daughter got a hormonal iud recently and unfortunately rejected it. -2/10 would not recommend from her. She had pretty major discomfort having it placed but keep in mind that’s with a virgin uterus. So polar opposite from me but I say don’t knock it till you try it.

[@user-by2tt7cw4s]

“TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF LIKE YOU’RE DATING YOURSELF!” yesssssssss !

[@lexiesmith4235]

Amazing mom advice Jennica 🥰 you are so beautiful inside and out

[@Chavela_chave]

Jennica I just have to say thank you for being you your videos always help me have a better day and make me smile thankyou so much I feel like your my young aunt just talking to me

[@autumnStarr82453]

i feel you ive always been skinny my own life but then i got birth control and i gain alot of weight like alot i was like 120lbs now 200lb and its soo hard to get the weight off being from birth control and now im off that one an doing better but the weight really affects me but thank you for sharing this