Girl Talk : HOW TO POUR INTO YOURSELF 👏‼️| ((LIFE CHANGING ADVICE))

[@TellitTay]

“It’s better to lose people, than to lose yourself” felt that 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@badazzspiitz]

Hellllooo🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@Diijorr]

Amen❤🎉

[@ThatGirl.Amandy]

Losing yourself is the worst.

[@vanessamathurin4914]

❤❤❤

[@yaquboladotun3884]

❤️❤️❤️

[@KailynArielle]

"2003 we not playin no games" 😭 Paige was so passionate about she was saying she took us back 20yrs. POP OFF GIRL! I will def be pouring into myself next year💕 Thank you so much. It is nice to be able to relate with someone that is so giving, I thought I was crazy for caring for people when they did the bare minimum!

[@mishab.5198]

I know that got me laughing!😂

[@ladykaymami2064]

love her lmao

[@Brown_Sugar11]

Lol she went off got to love her

[@cocabrat]

😂😂😂

[@Natalia20x]

I wish it is 2003 😍😍😍

[@ailurii]

1. Stop pouring everything into others, and start pouring into yourself. 2. Go places by yourself. 3. Start practicing high-maintenance energy.

[@sablesupremacy888]

BELLAGANG OR NO GANG!!!

[@bihnde7661]

Periodttt❤

[@sablesupremacy888]

@@bihnde7661 you already know!!💖

[@ShalaliaDenae]

All day!!✔️💯🔥

[@sablesupremacy888]

@@ShalaliaDenae forever and a day!💖

[@stormlove5312]

@@sablesupremacy888❤

[@mariamimi8497]

Self love is more important cause you can’t control how people treat you or their love for you but you can control how you treat yourself and the love for yourself ❤

[@user-hn9nx3un4j]

It's better to loose people than to loose thy self....AMEN!

[@maris_memoir]

❤️ Paige please stop apologizing for longer videos. We need them. You do an excellent job at explaining your points. I'd rather the video be too long than too short.

[@GalaxyGyrl8888]

❤YESS!!! I’m starting to love🥰 these vids too!!☺️🎯💯👍

[@HisSunshine1983]

This is golden. I love it❤. I’m treating myself to a birthday cruise. I just booked and paid to have the room decorated with a birthday cake waiting on me with a dozen roses. ❤. I deserve the same treatment I give others. I will dress up and take myself to a real nice steak dinner as well. Thank you. I feel even better. I can give myself roses instead of waiting on ppl to see my worth.

[@jordanr7290]

Yessssssss thank you for this. Imma be outside!

[@faithrodriguez4257]

“don’t expect what you give” .. ever since I heard that, it has changed my perspective on so many things.

[@TinyGlamz]

Currently listening to you while at the gym :) 2023 is about me & self love💗💗

[@luanaslense]

Queen

[@alfie93456]

That used to be me. I spend $$$$ on friends birthday and I mean thousands but when it’s my turn, I get nothing. When I stepped back, friendship changed. This message hits home and I feel so sad for myself. Thanks for the uplifting message 💛

[@SheBrewRoyal]

I've been watching you since I was 17, I'm 23 now. A lot more life experiences happened to me , and now your videos are really hitting hard. You're like the big sis I never had.

[@G.u.r.b.y]

i started watching her channel just by chance and trust me its like therapy and a whole new begining after i watch them

[@KyaEniya]

"It's better to lose people than to lose yourself" Wow... Paige, you're AMAZING!

[@rebeccarebeccachao]

❤ All you said was 100% true. No more pouring into people who don't pour into ME. I come first, now and forever, forever and always.

[@jekadakuzayet597]

I am 34. Will be 35 this year. I was a people pleaser. I just wanted to be good and nice to everyone not out of low self esteem but because I was raised to be kind. I didn’t know that people will wanna take advantage of me. I always thought people couldn’t harm me except I did them dirty but now I know better. Some people are just damn Nasty. I was use to Putting others first before myself, having no or poor boundaries. I learnt late and the hard way but I trust that that’s how God wanted it to be. I find you very relatable . Am a fan sis.

[@ricabassinger9599]

I was the exact same way and I agree with your post 100 percent. I turned 36 today and the things I put up with and let slide when I was 35 isn't going to fly at 36. Enough is enough

[@decayedspawn8101]

Omg! I also am finally starting to prioritize myself as well. I didn't buy anyone anything this year either for Christmas and it felt great to give my family a taste of their own medicine. Don't cross the ocean for someone who wouldn't even jump over a puddle for you.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@spiritualqueen3423]

I realized that I have so much to work on about myself, my negative thoughts, people pleasing behavior, stress, and anxiety it all made me forget to pour in myself more than other people that was unappreciated. I promise to live my authentic and best version of myself, I deserve to be happy. ❤️🥺

[@streetbrawls7292]

❤❤❤ Right

[@TheMeghajoshi]

Toxic people make us people pleaser

[@loganhagins4049]

Paige this video and the truth you speak to all of us has really opened my eyes. I've always been the one who was overly giving and nice to the point I became a people pleaser while they in return showed me nothing in return & I would always cry about it wondering why I wasn't good enough but truth be told it was my fault for constantly putting more of myself into those people that didn't deserve it when I could of just put that love and energy into myself and wait to see the right ones come along that actually deserve to be in my life. This video has really helped me see that so for that I can't Thank you enough love you girl! ❤️

[@Ally-kattttt]

I needed to hear this. Tell me why I was just asking myself crying to myself the last few days why I haven’t felt valued by others who I give my all too especially the men I’ve been involved with. I needed to hear this, it gives me chills and 2023 is a new year!! Thank you girl 🖤

[@auraboros]

just started realizing it this week too, so glad i found her video and im not the only one !

[@crystalprintz3644]

I am so greatful to have found your channel and I love your vibes

[@odalis1893]

You made me realize how much I still need to let go. I still give too much of myself to others. For peoples birthdays, I bake for them and take them out to eat I make sure it’s all about them. For my birthday my family did anything but that. Made me cry and feel like shit and turned it on me. I realized then I’d rather celebrate alone than be in their company.

[@whatupdoemia]

Girl we need to be friends because I do the same😂❤

[@kendra9120]

Crying is a part of pouring into people you may have the gift of compassion it's beautiful and connects us all. Thank you for your love it is a blessing.

[@PreciousB1983]

You are so pure and kind hearted! Thank you for this video I can relate because I have no friends girl I’m my own best friend and I’ve been so happy and drama free for yearrrrrrrrs because I’m independent and rely on no one. Happy holidays love.

[@vonnav5108]

Same here girl. Peace is better 🫶🏽

[@buttercup5920]

Who felt like she was on the phone with you spitting facts ? 🙋🏽‍♀️ 😂

[@elenita7980]

I love your story! It definitely resonates with me… I’ve always poured onto others & it wasn’t reciprocated at all. I felt that my kindness was taken for granted. Now I immediately disconnect & keep working on myself and what’s/who is meant to be in my life will come and those people can stay in the past. I’m moving forward and not looking back. 💕

[@PC-hq8rw]

Honestly, I wish I knew a girl like you! I have the same love language, but it has been a hard journey finding TRUE GIRLFRIENDS. Some days it's super lonely, but we have to keep pushing and pour into ourselves constantly.

[@333tee]

Video ideas: Money saving tips How to manifest your dream life How to set and reach your goals How to be unbothered How to overcome social anxiety

[@X.O.143]

You should start a channel 😊

[@dhreams0366]

HEAVY on the "how to overcome social anxiety"

[@quandab]

How to over come social anxiety is definitely the one I’ve been looking for videos like this the ones I did come across just wasn’t IT😂😂😂

[@SR0430]

Yeah keep giving. Cos you’re blessing is here to show. never look to the people you give to to give back God has been blessing you back❤

[@lailaharris3009]

❤️❤️ I’m 19 years old and I’ve been watching all the way up and till now and your talks have helped me get through some tough times with my personal life. I really love you and I hope you continue with these videos because god knows that we all could use some of these lessons in our life to become better people. We love you Paige 🫶🏽🫶🏽⭐️

[@queensabs6333]

So shocked how you knew I needed this….God bless you sis! ❤❤❤ God always sends me what I need… may God bless your business now and always 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@PoeticTherapy95]

Really the big sister I always needed. You don't need to make the messages shorter. Because when I tell you I NEEDED EVERY MINUTE OF THIS ONE. I prayed and it's like when I can't hear God he always sends me a vessel so I can get the message. And I'm just so thankful for you today... I've been watching your content for a while, but the more I watch the more your messages become damn near just for me sis. No bs. God bless you and everything you touch. 🙏🏾 So many times I wished somebody would be the light for me like I was for everyone else, but on my dark days I'm alone amd people are just mad that I'm not all sunshine. You have been my light this month. And Ik you probably won't see this, but it had to be said. Thank you.

[@jackiea7965]

The gift giving is really good, I did this for my birthday a few weeks back. I wrote in my own birthday card and said lots of positive things to myself and brought myself earrings and high quality facemasks.❤ I would love to see the solo date vlogs it will encourage me to go out too. Yes I am here for the high maintenance energy. 2023 is the year to pour into me, because I am worth it.❤💜💙💯

[@jenesydiaz8334]

You gave me motivation and you are the reason why I started praying and creating my relationship with god ❤️thanks so so much Paige ❤️💯🔥

[@nickandchrismom]

That's beautiful!! Keep God 1st. Go on that continued love journey

[@gumballfamily9383]

Trust me when u put God first the emptiness inside of u just leaves and everything feels better and you have motivation cause God got u 💯💯 first fall in love with Jesus Christ and everything will fall into place 👏🏼☺️

[@nikkibeee8191]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ I just stumbled across your videos early this morning. I am 51 yrs old and when I tell you after watching one video I had to keep going to the next one. EVERY SINGLE THING THING THAT YOU SAID IS MEEEEEEE!!! Omg!!!!! I'm a cancer too so its almost like we are the same person! All accept drinking and dressing a certain way. Every thing else is everything I'm trying to heal from now especially what you are talking about in this video. You are sooooo wise beyond your years! I'm on a journey to self healing and all of your vids are what I needed!!! Thank you!! Thank you!! Thank you!!!!!!

[@MELOSINCE87]

I always use to put aside $20 a month (jan-dec) So I at least had $240 before Christmas for my girl's gift. Then if I had extra money , I would add to it. Valentines day is the usual trip to Miami or New York . (Southwest $180x2)I feel like its an equal balance of price and level of thought of the gift.❤‍🔥

[@lovejoy6710]

❤️❤️

[@MissTracyyy223]

That’s so sweet of you ❤

[@ssonkogarvey]

Your girlfriend must be so lucky to have you. Good on you sir 👍🏽💜

[@eleanor1422]

I’ve been unlearning over-giving this year. I’m doing really good but still not there yet. I’m usually the one going all out for Christmas presents. This year my list was way smaller & those ppl were mostly the ones who get me meaningful things ✨ Thank God I at-least have that reciprocation 🎉

[@Chanellebrooks-s4d]

i appreciate you smm💕💕💕 as a young girl that’s still trying to lean herself and constantly struggling with problems like this, this helps me sm as i enter adulthood dealing with fake friends and ain’t 💩 men

[@Nikkisthe1]

Girl felt you the ❤ hardest when you said”it’s better to lose people than to lose yourself” period sis all 2023🎉

[@nahnikki]

I’m a ♋️ and I gift from my heart even when I don’t have a lot of money that card would have been heartfelt and filled with my own words! You were not ungrateful you were offended! I had to learn the hard way to stop going above and beyond for people who do not give the same energy back. I’ve been spoiling myself and it feels so good 🥰❤️

[@kaykay2679]

i love your videos because youre so sweet, so transparent, so vulnerable, and soooo real!!! thank you for being you!! we love you beautiful!!

[@vonnav5108]

💗💗💗. I lived my life like this in 2022. Kinda realized I really only had like three friends and even family got wierd with me . I realized all this was fine because god was making room for better things . Everything you said in this video is absolutely true.

[@rapidpay4092]

I'm getting so emotional watching this.Knowing that I want more in life,when I'm facing battles in silence. Thank you for sharing your love with us 💕 This means so much. 4:55 AM

[@ieshabatts4454]

I always come back and rewatch all these videos when I’m feeling down ! Love you big sis ❤

[@veeenusaurrr]

❤️❤️❤️ 2023 is the year of beginning to really enforce boundaries & pouring into my damn self! It’s better to lose people than lose myself!

[@nikitarichardson2952]

❤️😊 Keep this type of content going sis.

[@melissacoureau4892]

Your messages are so great and meaningful that the “ long videos “ don’t actually feel long ❤

[@katk5874]

💜🥲 this touched my soul. Right now I’m at my lowest! I needed to see this .

[@bandchiqk26]

This is the big sister advice that I needed. I’m always worried about others and making sure that they’re happy and their needs are met. 2023 is all about me and my needs, what I want I’m going after. Thanks for the advice. Needed it ❤

[@melodyjacobs815]

Cancer to cancer I understand the emotions and I have been in a lot of positions of being too giving and I had a hard lesson to get through it!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ never expect less than what you deserve!!!

[@sheistamika]

I filed for divorced yesterday and I decided to gift myself a few items. Per you video I didn’t wrap my gift but Valentine’s Day I’m pouring into me with a heart felt card to myself. I’m ready to level up now before 2023 ❤ thank you you’ve truly inspired me.

[@lunaamada529]

Before I clicked on your video I was thinking I should go by myself a ring or a key 🔑 as a reminder that I hold the key to my happiness or a reminder that I’m committed to myself.....I thought it was silly and I clicked on your video and you confirmed my intuition....thank you so much for this I appreciate you and appreciate that god is working through you for us 💕🙏🏼🎄

[@pattyamafina]

Yess girl best gift ever ❤️

[@dineodau2838]

💖💞💝💕💗these tools right here are seriously life-changing. When you said "it's been too long living this way" i felt that! I just love you💞💓💘💖

[@Samantha-kv7ed]

This video is for me Paige..I needed to listen to all you gotta say. Thank you sissss

[@Synquette]

Update! So this video really resonated with me, and I really took into consideration point number one- “gifting myself” I couldn’t think of anything that I really wanted but started scrolling on TikTok and came across affordable luxury content & Bella Gang! I have some Chanel soap and some Dior makeup coming (mini lipstick set) & even though these items aren’t one of the high ticketed items (both 50 & under) they’ll still be arriving in the gift wrapping packaging and you can also write a message to yourself also. Just wanted to share this little bit here just in case you wanted to treat yourself to something luxury that isn’t too expensive ❤

[@kionaholmes6808]

2023, is about to be my year with a positivity and more at the start of it. :)

[@imanispecial]

Your a good person and you speak facts too. Love your content 💕

[@420lilmamaz420]

❤️ thank you for these points. No one will treat us better than ourselves 💕 Pour into yourself && Set boundaries Much needed & mandatory. I love the gift giving to yourself and wrapping it idea. I’m definitely going to do this.

[@shante4116]

What you said is 💯 and everytime I hear the napkin story it really gets me upset but you are so right to pour into your self instead of these selfish people and I no longer go out my way for people who Won't do the same for me I'm not even buying christmas gifts for a bunch of people. Hope u have merry Christmas happy holidays love ❤️🤎

[@adelidavos2257]

💙 This is what the ladies need to hear as we're preparing for a new year, new season and the best version of ourselves!

[@Em4everblessed]

2023 NOT PLAY NO MFKIN GAMES BABYYYYY I NEEDED THIS THANK YOU😘🤞🏾

[@myialove5465]

❤ I love you and your girl talks give me life. I feel like you are talking to me through God. 💯

[@HaleyMary]

I love that! "It's better to lose people than to lose yourself". In the past, I remember having some friends around who wanted me to change like wanted me to stay out late at karaoke nights and when I refused to stay up until 2am and now I always like to be back home by midnight, some friends fell away like it was a problem for them, that I refused to be a night owl like them. I notice that with a lot of people, both family and friends. It's like it's okay to be who you are as long as the friends and family wanted me to be that way. As soon as I voiced my own opinions it was like all hell broke loose. Have an amazing Christmas, Bella!

[@MsDivinely_]

I never skip your videos, I watch them multiple times over & over again!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@natashamwamba503]

You have always been my inspiration ever since i started watching you big sis and its been five years i love you so so much

[@imanigolden-garcia344]

Thank you for being you Paige! You’re the big sister I never had. You’ve been here thru all my ups & downs over the last 3 years 💖

[@venphillip2657]

Tbh this touched me so hard... I do share exactly what you're saying,I show my love my buying stuff for people and never never gotten anything in return,dont do it for something in return,That's my love language, always there for everyone else and never have anyone when I need them family friends nun... My birthday past 2 months ago, I made plans to with friends to have drinks and chill and they canceled on me,for the 3rd Birthday straight,mainly the person I do consider my best friend. Well this was the last my last I've learned burn and everything else..moving fwd on my own as always...thank you so much for this video❤❤❤

[@raem.wilson1517]

❤️ My mom is a cancer and she is so giving and sweet just like you Paige. Thanks for giving us Bella Gang great content to watch this year! You’ve been pouring your heart out to us so much and seeing your growth as a young woman is very inspiring & motivational to all of us that watch and subscribe. Looking forward to experiencing 2023 with you sis!! Oh and by the way Wadda plays in my house nonstop lol and that’s on PERIODT!🤞🏾❤️👯‍♀️

[@alexismichael5307]

My moms a cancer too and I was just thinking that !

[@SapphireW123]

This is crazy you drop this, bc this is what I’ve been telling myself just before Christmas. Literally love you and all other stuff will fall into place. Yess and yess keep praying.

[@JennyGaston]

Yes. 👏🏾 We teach people how to treat us based on what we allow. I gifted myself on a solo trip to Key West & Haiti and it changed my mindset on so many things❤️

[@dainesharichards3432]

Amen sis! God definitely anointed this and spoke through you. Much love and prosperity to you this year, and every year after.

[@BabyLungzOfficial]

I literally looked for your page for advice I need NOW. I literally skipped thousands of videos to find your KZbin. You know why ? You reminded and guided me throughout my first pregnancy and the first years of living as a single mom. To me you’re an Angel too ❤ love you I’m glad I’m subscribed again. I think my son used my phone and unsubscribed lol

[@sadebeal8520]

I told myself this is the last year that I’m going to lose myself ever again…I definitely needed this video…Thank you Paige🥺❤️I’ve been your supporter for the longest and I watch literally every video but this one is by far my fav…I love you and wish you a prosperous new year❤️🙏🏽

[@feliciamarroquin1395]

I’m on this journey where I’m learning to love myself and pouring into myself. I’m a proud single mother of 4 boys. I’m usto always quick to help everyone else and pouring into everyone else. Leaving myself empty with no one pouring back into me. I’m learning to cut them loose and be there for myself.

[@shellondaupshaw7103]

❤❤❤love your videos I'm an older woman who's always had my own. Never thought I'd be starting over again I've been so depressed your videos along with God's help is & has helped to reset myself thank u

[@Hyuga008]

Please keep doing long Girl Talks! I am pretty sure everyone loves them❤️

[@mrstinkerbell1139]

Wow. You made me tear up. You are an exceptional young woman. Such a great example for young girls. I love how you’re not afraid to mention God, even though people make it seem like it’s not it nowadays

[@elenita7980]

Also since pouring onto myself now, I see others doing it. So it is true what you are saying 😊 thank you for sharing your journey with us 💕💕💕

[@Divafacee]

❤❤❤❤ wish I had a friend like you in real life !

[@annalise7718]

i needed this sm 2023 is gonna be my year❤

[@teishyacollier9806]

I’m 55 and I needed to hear this. 🙏🏾❤️‼️👍🏾

[@mar-rg1tz]

i just wanted to tell you, you were the only one who was able to give me motivation, strenght and helped me go through hardships. the way you say it hits like no one else. you are the only one out of all the people i tried watching who hits the right spots for me

[@tamekadavis6641]

Always love yourself first.❤️

[@Idi-linda]

❤ I literally take notes when I watch your videos . I been going to you exclusively since like 2017 fr fr. I’m so happy for your journey and being here for it like 🥹 every video you do your thing 🗣️ and you continue to open my heart and eyes . I love your energy . thank you for your consistency . it’s def helped me 🤞🏾💜 I’m ready for this year of positivity prayers healing and growth . May Gods guidance and blessings lead us all to abundance and opportunities . we all deserve to enjoy the fruits 🍉 of our labor 👑

[@dambrosia]

❤️ Please don’t make shorter girl talks. I listen to them at work and be pumped for the rest of the day 😭

[@xeeyahs]

❤️! It’s Funny Because I Literally Did #1 Today! I Need To Work On #3, I Do Not Dress Up Often & I Want To Start Because When I Dress Up It Definitely Boost My Confidence! So In ‘23 I Will Be Doing This! Thanks Sis, You Was Heard!

[@bethanybutler580]

4/14/24❤❤❤❤❤ I been watching for 1 1/2 months and you have been helping me keep pushing to pour into myself and get a stronger relationship with GOD . I’ve been pulling out of depression and new son. You’re Chats have helped a lot Thanks Sis

[@desharadelvalle9928]

Paige make a book.your so inspiring.Also the hair!!!! My favorite on you ❤❤❤

[@katelynnbrown298]

Popped up right when I needed it 👏🏾

[@vgreen2441]

Exactly girl me too😭

[@GinaMBoyd-wl5tg]

Receiving gifts is my love language too

[@Theworldalongadi]

“Don’t let nobody play with you because they will!!” Thank you Bella Gang!!❤️🫶🏽

[@kayla-ht9be]

Everyday every morning when i’m taking a shower or getting ready for school i watch your videos or when i’m going through something you always have a video for my situation i just wanna say thank you paige i love sm you help me through ALOT happy holidays ❤

[@beaqueen2425]

People will always be mad that they can’t use you anymore. Stand by how you feel, God will place the right people in your life who want to love you as much as you love them💕. Like your sis

[@KadijaT.]

2003 😂 That how we know you don’t play games PAIGE UR AMAZING ♥️♥️😘✨😂

[@paullarcc]

I promise to pour into my self Bella ❤

[@rebeccaly]

❤❤❤ love you Paige. Thank you so much for these videos!

[@leslielester1183]

I love the long video wish it was longer you help me so much thank you!!!!

[@girly.mimi00]

Thanks for this Bella. ❤

[@Nativeblasianx]

3 months later watching again for a refresher 💗🌹 love you Paige

[@sugarsam726]

❤️ girl I needed this I'm in the gang now !

[@YoursTrulyWDW]

❤❤❤ hope you have a great 2023. High Maintenance energy is a must 👌🏾.

[@AngelHaiLey01]

The cup had my crying with her 😂😂